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Alane Rollings Obituary

ALANE ROLLINGS
Alane Rollings, of Atlantic Beach, Florida, passed away peacefully on November 10, 2024, with family members at her side after a brief illness.
Alane was born in Savannah, Georgia, on May 31, 1950, the second child of Harry and Irma Lee Rollings, who predeceased her. She is survived by her siblings Cynthia Rollings (m. Arthur Karlin), Pamela Rollings (m. Neal Brendel), Janet Rollings (m. Haskell Rhett), Ellen Glasser, Robert Rollings (m. Erica), and Jeremy Hackett. She is also survived by her twelve nephews and nieces Daniel Karlin, Sam Karlin, Joe Karlin (m. Christina Gouliamberis), Emma Karlin, Carley Glasser, Daisy Hargrave (m. Shaun), Nelle Okrasinski (m. Shane), Harry Glasser, Ross Brendel (m. Capel), Kurt Brendel, Henry Rollings (m. Jenny Yang), and Jackson Rollings; and her beloved parakeets Vinny and Binny.
Alane graduated from Savannah Country Day School in 1967 and remained close to many of her classmates. She began writing poetry at the age of 5, and she started a literary magazine called Amanuensis with middle school friends while at SCDS. She attended Bryn Mawr College and received her undergraduate degree with honors in humanities studies from the University of Chicago in 1972 followed by a masters in Far Eastern languages and civilizations in 1975.
Alane met her husband, writer and scholar Richard G. Stern, while taking a summer course in poetry at Harvard. Dick was the love of her life. He published more than 20 books of fiction and nonfiction, while serving on the faculty of UChicago as Professor in English Language and Literature. They spent four decades together in Chicago, with Alane writing poetry and teaching creative writing at Loyola University and UChicago. They had a wonderful life in their Hyde Park neighborhood, enjoying friendships with novelists Saul Bellow and Philip Roth, Shakespearean scholar David Bevington, and many other luminaries of the university and the city.
After Dick's retirement from UChicago in 2001, Alane and Dick settled in Tybee Island, Georgia, until Dick's death in 2013. Alane suffered the loss of her Tybee home in Hurricane Matthew in 2016. She moved to the Jacksonville area to be closer to family and where she made new friends through her love of books.
Alane published six books of poetry including Transparent Landscapes (1984), In Your Own Sweet Time (1989), The Struggle to Adore (1994), The Logic of Opposites (1998), To Be In This Number (2005), and Reversible World (2022). Her books have been reviewed in the Chicago Tribune, the New York Times and other publications. Her work has also appeared in many literary journals and anthologies over the years. She had several unpublished manuscripts and was working on a new book set in South Africa at the time of her death.
For Alane, writing poetry was not just a hobby or profession-it was her identity and how she kept in touch with the universe. Her published work has been very well received, with praise from other poets, including Howard Nemerov, Albert Goldbarth, James Dickey, Stephen Dunn, Donald Revell, Edward Hirsch, Donald Justice, Hayden Carruth, Tony Hoagland, and Maureen McLane. Her writing has been described as inventive, extravagant, and intense. Her poems are very personal, inspired by feelings of love for all people, all fauna, and all flora, as well as the unending mysteries of life. She often uses a conversational and humorous poetic voice, with long romantic monologues and expansive imagery.
She loved teaching and said she fell in love with every student. She did all she could to inspire creativity in her students and her family members. She had a unique style, always elegant and well-dressed, favoring secondhand clothes over the latest fashions. She embodied the essence of a woman who walks in beauty. We who knew her will always remember her kind encouraging words and her generous spirit. The family will hold a memorial service in Savannah, Georgia, at a later date.
Contributions in Alane's memory can be made to the University of Chicago for the Richard Stern and Alane Rollings Creative Writing Fund.
Published by The Beaches Leader from Nov. 13 to Nov. 14, 2024.

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Eike Gebhardt

February 8, 2025

Alane was the miracle of my year in exile at a UofC think tank, sometime in the seventies. At a street corner she must have spotted the forlorn creature, and seemed immediately to sense some affinity. With her characteristic shy self-assurance she addressed the stranger who felt and thought he was experiencing an apparition: an almost unearthly beauty, "eyes wide shut" as if she were coming from some infinitely far and alien continent - and yet she seemed to invite me, with an innocent ease, into an almost intimate space she created on the spot, on that chilly, windy Chicago street, effusively warm while maintaining a delicate distance. As if she wanted to open a door, offering to accompany the stranger into a world populated by a species so much more enticing and congenial than the one she said she was often hiding from - with the exception of the very few she intuitively and immediately recognized as "wahlverwandt" (she knew the German term): The very approach and tone I found so perfectly expressed, nay embodied in almost all of her poems. To this day I treasure her present, 100+ typed manuscript pages entitled Gravity Is a Weak Force. After half a century and thousands of miles away from the place of that (for me) fated encounter - and I may boldly claim: friendship - she is still omnipresent.
Farewell, Alane - I long just to be in your presence again ...

Alexandra Bellow

November 19, 2024

Alane Rollings was not only an exquisite poet, but a great personal friend, who infused with grace and poetry everything and everyone she touched. She was not put off by my mathematics but intrigued and amused by it. She was a guiding star in my life.

Robert McDowell

November 18, 2024

Discovering Alane's poems and meeting her in the 80s became a life highlight. She was one-of-a-kind, experimental, bold yet vulnerable, empathetic, and extraordinarily generous. I was fortunate to be able to publish her book, The Struggle To Adore, at Story Line Press. I loved and adored her. Om mani padme hum.

Kathleen B Lewis

November 15, 2024

Alane was my "big sister" when I was a new student at Country Day and she kindly spent lots of time with me, even taking me for rides in her father's Corvette. I wish we had re-connected in later years, as I write poetry too. I'm so sorry she's gone. --Kathleen Brewin Lewis

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