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Eike Gebhardt
February 8, 2025
Alane was the miracle of my year in exile at a UofC think tank, sometime in the seventies. At a street corner she must have spotted the forlorn creature, and seemed immediately to sense some affinity. With her characteristic shy self-assurance she addressed the stranger who felt and thought he was experiencing an apparition: an almost unearthly beauty, "eyes wide shut" as if she were coming from some infinitely far and alien continent - and yet she seemed to invite me, with an innocent ease, into an almost intimate space she created on the spot, on that chilly, windy Chicago street, effusively warm while maintaining a delicate distance. As if she wanted to open a door, offering to accompany the stranger into a world populated by a species so much more enticing and congenial than the one she said she was often hiding from - with the exception of the very few she intuitively and immediately recognized as "wahlverwandt" (she knew the German term): The very approach and tone I found so perfectly expressed, nay embodied in almost all of her poems. To this day I treasure her present, 100+ typed manuscript pages entitled Gravity Is a Weak Force. After half a century and thousands of miles away from the place of that (for me) fated encounter - and I may boldly claim: friendship - she is still omnipresent.
Farewell, Alane - I long just to be in your presence again ...
Alexandra Bellow
November 19, 2024
Alane Rollings was not only an exquisite poet, but a great personal friend, who infused with grace and poetry everything and everyone she touched. She was not put off by my mathematics but intrigued and amused by it. She was a guiding star in my life.
Robert McDowell
November 18, 2024
Discovering Alane's poems and meeting her in the 80s became a life highlight. She was one-of-a-kind, experimental, bold yet vulnerable, empathetic, and extraordinarily generous. I was fortunate to be able to publish her book, The Struggle To Adore, at Story Line Press. I loved and adored her. Om mani padme hum.
Kathleen B Lewis
November 15, 2024
Alane was my "big sister" when I was a new student at Country Day and she kindly spent lots of time with me, even taking me for rides in her father's Corvette. I wish we had re-connected in later years, as I write poetry too. I'm so sorry she's gone. --Kathleen Brewin Lewis
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