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David Scholten Obituary

David Michael Scholten, age 46, was born to Bastian and Judy (Holz) Scholten in Lynden, Wa in the midst of a bitter northeaster. David was raised on a dairy farm with six brothers, where his love and respect for the land was fostered. He always intended to return to farm the land. David was a loving and devoted father to his son Jeremiah, the light of his life. David was loved because of his strength, his dedication to family and friends, his sense of humor and his quiet, optimistic faith.  He was a quiet, loving well of wisdom for anyone who sought his help.  He was a rock and a sage, which explains why in his twenty years in the U.S. Army and Washington State National Guard, he was selected for Sergeants School, to lead others. He proudly served with the 84th Engineers in Germany and in the 101st Airborne in Gulf War deployments.   David had a wonderful ability to engage people from all walks of life, particularly troubled souls. In his more than 14 years as a Registered Nurse at St. Joseph Hospital in Bellingham, Wa, he positively touched the lives of many caregivers, patients and families. David was described by those who worked with him as a gentle soul who was extraordinarily gracious, kind and compassionate.  He was an excellent listener, and had a way to calm people with his presence. He was a thoughtful and dedicated American citizen. He believed in the truth, and in facts, but they never trumped kindness to others.  He listened more than he talked, expressing subtle humor in difficult situations. He volunteered his time and sweat to many causes including Riders for Health in Africa, bicycling with a medical team on the 2013 and 2014 Seattle to Portland ride, and serving on the Board of Directors for NAMI Whatcom. David was taken from us suddenly, without warning.  His passing reminds us that we cannot know the number of days left with our loved ones.  Please take time today to tell those people in your life that you love them, and to give them a hug.  If you are not in the habit of hugging, it is all the more reason to do so. They say grief makes you bitter, or better. David made the world a better place. David is remembered and mourned by his fiancee, Jennifer, son, Jeremiah, father, Bastian, and brothers Bruce (wife Martha), John (wife Lynn), Loren (wife Patty and children Stephanie and Jeffrey) Roland (wife Patti and children Lynea and Matthew), Glen (wife Shirley and children Jordan and Tanner), and Doug (wife Shannon and children Miranda and Mick) Scholten, and many other family members and friends. He will be deeply missed. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to NAMI Whatcom. A time of visitation is scheduled from 5:00 to 7:00pm. Friday, August 7, 2015 at Gillies Funeral Home. The Graveside committal will be 10:15am, Saturday, August 8th at Monumenta Cemetery followed by an 11:00am, Memorial service at First Christian Reformed Church at 1010 Front St, Lynden.

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Published by Bellingham Herald on Aug. 4, 2015.

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Jennifer

July 28, 2024

Nine years.
This is the year I fell in love; with myself, with another, with this beautiful life. This is the year Beaton's found its breath and came alive in the world. We're still healing the world, Dave. And I know you are by my side.
I love you.

Jennifer

July 28, 2023

8 years today, David. How I love and miss you every day. But this year I learned that joy can share space in my heart with the missing. This year I began to fall in love with this human experience. Today I package my joy and love up, and send it to the sky, through earth's atmosphere, a quick sojourn amongst the stars, planets, and galaxies, and up further where it will find you, embrace you, and cause you to radiate even brighter. Brighter than the stars. I love you, my angel.

Jennifer

January 14, 2023

David, this life that I lead is my love letter to you. That you would see the wounded well, through my eyes. That you would see the edges of darkness seep away, into the corners of the earth, as the light of day grows radiant before you. And you would know, and give thanks, that you have one more day to serve the broken, and be blessed, oh so blessed. I love you and I carry your torch in the world. Happy birthday.

Bruce Scholten

July 30, 2022

July 28, 2022. Tonight, after a Congressional vote failed on medical care for veterans affected by 'hot pits', I reminded Martha how often David M. Scholten worried about homeless veterans, wondering if Tiny Houses could help. Minutes later came an email from Jennifer noting that it's 7 years since Dave passed away. Here are a couple pix from a Riders.org Africa fundraiser we attended on Seattle's Elliot Bay, March 18, 2009. Seattle grain elevators & maybe Darigold cooperative HQ are on the horizon.
Best wishes - Bruce & Martha

Jennifer

July 28, 2022

Love of my life. Seven years gone and yet you remain my everyday muse. I continue to work toward accomplishing our dreams, to honor you and your legacy of love and compassion in the world. My guiding light, my angel. Today I love you as every day since and every day to come.

Jennifer Dunaway

July 28, 2021

6 years. Of knowing what it feels like to live in a world without you. I feel you watching over me at night from the stars, laughing at my ridiculous jokes, holding my pain when it feels too big. I really am the luckiest girl. Miss you, Dave.

Bruce A. Scholten

January 15, 2021

David - (15 Jan 2021) Last night I told Martha, how you should be here to discuss the Covid-19 outbreak around Lynden, Washington & Capitol insurrection in the other Washington. Thanks for your cool head & humour, in medical garb or camou. Miss you, but Jeremiah & the rest o' us keep you in spirit. Peace-Health, brother!

Jennifer Dunaway

January 14, 2021

Today I celebrate your birthday with a little more joy in my heart, and much more peace. I'm filled with gratitude. To have known and loved you: greatest honor and blessing of my life.

Jennifer Dunaway

July 28, 2020

5 years. I'm finally beginning to understand why you had to go. Today I sit with profound gratitude for the ways that your love and loss has changed me. Thank you, David, for being my teacher, my love, my friend.

Jennifer Dunaway

January 15, 2020

Happy birthday, David. I carry you with me.

Jennifer Dunaway

July 28, 2019

4 years ago today you
transcended space and time
To a place of love and light
No earthly joy or
heartache
Could hold you in this place
When your angels
Called you home.

Miss you every day and am so blessed to have known your light and your radiant love. Namaste, David.

Bastian, David & Jeremiah Scholten (BAS photo Xmas 2014)

Bruce Scholten

January 16, 2019

Here's a Dec. 2014 photo of Dad, brother David Michael & his son Jeremiah Scholten. Dave - the heart of our family - would've been 50 in Jan. 15, 2019. Jeremiah still has Dave's Suzuki SV650, but focuses on school and sports. Good memories...

Jennifer Dunaway

January 14, 2019

Today would have been your 50th birthday. What a difference you would have made in the world with another 50 years! Thinking about you and loving you always.

Bruce Scholten

July 30, 2018

Yesterday (29.07.18)brother John sent photos of a picnic with Jennifer, Crystal & Laura at David's grave. Just days before said to mewyf Martha how good it would've been for them to have more years together. But the memories are good, like this 2013 meal at Bob's Burger & Brew in Lynden with Gerald Roosma, Martha, David, Loren Maas, Martin Gering, me Bruce & Bas Scholten(20Apr13). All you need is love...

Jennifer Dunaway

July 28, 2018

Three years and my love for you is the lens through which I see the world. You are the light behind the moon, the harmonies in the wind, the love that beats back darkness. Thank you for opening my eyes.

Jennifer Dunaway

July 29, 2017

Two years later, always on my mind. Sending you
light and love. ❤❤❤

D & J

Jennifer Dunaway

September 1, 2016

Jennifer Dunaway

July 28, 2016

One year later, love you more than ever, Dave.

David, Jeremiah & family at MotoGP & SuperBike race, Laguna Seca 2005.

Bruce & Martha Scholten

August 13, 2015

David enjoyed Thanksgivings with us in Germany & Britain between army stints. He shared thoughtful books on farming by Wendell Berry & others. What he said after hiking from Glasgow to Inverness in the 1990s was typical: 'It wasn't all Rain. There was some Sun.' His spirit lives on in son Jeremiah, family & friends.

Craig Richards

August 9, 2015

David was a unique, beautiful soul. We would often talk over the years working together in hospital. He never had a negative word, always preferring the High Ground and forever hopeful. Quiet smile that could light a room. As brothers in service to mentally and emotionally I'll, he made it ever a good day no matter what went down. I love you David and will never forget you. Peace to his beloved Jennifer, his son and his dad. His brothers and entire family have suffered a severe loss. The community of humankind has lost a wonderful person. May your soul soar, David! God bless and keep you, forever and ever...

Cheri Martin

August 8, 2015

So sorry for your loss. David was a gentle soul and while I have not seen him for awhile, know he and Jeremiah were enjoying many father-son activitiess, having lost my own father when I was just a few years older than Jeremiah when he died I know the pain of losing a father.

Jaime King

August 7, 2015

My heart breaks for his family. He was soon to be part of ours, I love you aunt jenn I am so sorry for your loss.

Victoria Manroe

August 6, 2015

David you were a wonderful man. Thank you for your service to our country and always having a smile for me. I will miss you, cuz.

Mark Stoner

August 5, 2015

David was a good friend, a fellow RN and Veteran. He helped many through his work at St. Joseph's. I will miss him as many others will.

Christy Holz

August 5, 2015

I will miss you my sweet cousin & friend.

L. L.

August 5, 2015

May the God of all comfort strengthen the entire family during this time of sorrow. Those who die God keeps in his memory because they are precious in his eyes. (Psalms 116:15) My sincerest sympathy.

SFC James Shanahan (Ret)

August 5, 2015

David,
you were truly one of a kind and you will be missed

Christine Morrow

August 4, 2015

My heart is broken for David's family and loved ones. David possessed a caring and sweet soul that has touched many lives. I am honored to have serve on the board of directors with him at NAMI of Whatcom County. He possessed genuine compassion and love for families and individuals struggling with mental health. He modeled this is his work at the hospital and by giving his personal time to causes that supported his beliefs. This tragic loss is painful, but David provided memories that warm the heart.

ann fleary

August 4, 2015

August 04th 2015
He was a wonderful person, always ready to help. I enjoyed working with David at St Joseph hospital. He will be miss.

Shirley Fuller Nielsen

August 4, 2015

Jeremiah, I am so sorry about your Father. Sounds as if you two had fun together. Hold tight to the memories of good times with him. Hugs and prayers for you and your family. Shirley Fuller Nielsen (friend of your Grammy Claudette and I see you at church when you visit her)

Colleen Wolfisberg

August 4, 2015

So sorry to hear David is no longer with us. I never met him personally, but I enjoyed Judy for years until her own passing and have appreciated chats with his dad Bas and brother Bruce. May the Peace that passes all understanding be with David's family & friends.

Adele Lloyd

August 4, 2015

Such a sweet, loving quiet spirit. I enjoyed working with David very much during my time at St Joseph Hospital. I will miss you.

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