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Candace Coco Obituary

Candace Chick Coco 1929-2010 LEE Candace Chick Coco, 81, of 196 Main Street in Lee died peacefully at her home on Sunday morning, surrounded by her family. She was born on May 10, 1929 in Pittsfield, the daughter of Roy and Candace Hinman Heath. She attended Tyringham and Lee Schools graduating from Lee High School in 1947. She graduated from St. Luke's Hospital School of X-Ray in 1949. Mrs. Coco worked at the Middlesex Hospital in Middletown, Conn., until 1953 at which time she married Paul G. Abderhalden who predeceased her in 1960. In 1965 she married Joseph J. Coco. She retired from Suburban Medical Center in Lee in 1987, where she worked for many years. She retired with her husband to Haines City, Fla., returning to Lee in 1998. She enjoyed music and was a member of the Saint Mary's Choir & Saint George's Bell Choir. In her earlier years, Mrs. Coco played violin and piano and was an avid square dancer. She had a beautiful spirit and was loved by many. Besides her husband, Joseph J. Coco, she is survived by a daughter Karin S. Abderhalden and her husband, Joseph M. Scelsi of Ashfield, and a son William R. Abderhalden, II and his wife, Barbara J. of Lee. A sister Donna L. Drake & her husband, Gerald E. Sr. of Franklin, N.C., and a stepson Joseph J. VanInwagen of Hazen, N.D. She leaves behind four grandchildren, Jeanne M., William R. III & Scott M. Abderhalden and Anthony D. Scelsi, a great-grandson, Landon P. Zerbato and numerous nieces and nephews. She will be sadly missed by all. FUNERAL NOTICE: A Liturgy of Christian Burial will be held on Thursday at 11 a.m. at St. Mary's Church in Lee. Burial will follow in Tyringham Cemetery. Visiting hours will be on Wednesday evening from 4 to 7 p.m. at the Kelly Funeral Home. Friends wishing may make donations in her memory to Hospice Care in the Berkshires in C/O the Kelly Funeral Home, 3 Main Street, Lee, MA, 01238.

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Published by The Berkshire Eagle on Oct. 19, 2010.

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Cathy Towne

October 22, 2010

Bill, Barb and Family,

Our deepest sympathies to all of you during this very difficult time.
May your Mom now rest in peace.
With Love & Prayers,
Ben & Cathy Towne and family

Joan & Tom Mougin

October 20, 2010

Dear Joe, Bill, Barbara and Family

May all the special memories of Chick live on in your hearts forever. She was a very special lady.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Peter, Vicki and Zach Sorrentino

October 20, 2010

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Henry Brogna

October 20, 2010

Joe, Billy & family,

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss, Chick was a great lady. I will always have fond memories of her smile and great humor

Barbara Gore

October 20, 2010

Dick and I were very sorry to hear of Chick's passing. We will always have the nice memories of times together at the Bell Choir and visiting with her and Joe. Our prayers are with Joe and her family.

Cindy & Dave Decker

October 20, 2010

Billy, Karen and Donna,

We are sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you and your families.

Ellie Goderre

October 19, 2010

Karin and Family,

A Mother's love is as strong and deep as the sea. May her strength carry you and your heavy hearts through the difficult days ahead. Rest peacefully Mrs. Coco...

With Sympathy & Love, Ellie Betters Goderre

Pam Barry

October 19, 2010

Uncle Joe and Family,
I will always cherish Aunt Chick's kindness to me at our last family reunion. She had such a warm and caring personality - and the two of you together were magical. She will be dearly missed.

Wesley VanAlstyne Sr

October 19, 2010

Joe, and all the family,
I shall always remember - and cherish - the wonderful times we had with you and Chick, including our first ocean cruise on the "Carla C", our golf vacations in Myrtle Beach & Florida, and the many hours we shared together, in both Berkshire County & Sun City West.
I'll always remember Chick's most cheerful, uncomplaining and unselfish persona, and will miss her terribly.
I sorely wish that I could be there with you during these hurtful days, but I'll be there in my thoughts, and will pray for you & Chick.
Love, always,
Wes

Bill DeFreest

October 19, 2010

Bill, Barb and Family,

My deepest sympathies to all of you during the very difficult time.
Bill, I know your Mom is in a much better place right now, probably talking about the old days with my Dad.
My sincerest wishes for peace for your Mom's soul, and for all of you as well.

Kristin & Gloria

October 19, 2010

Our deepest sympathies for you and your family.

Wes VanAlstyne

October 19, 2010

We will miss you dearly. Our thought and prayers are with you, Joe and the family.

Deb Cahill

October 19, 2010

Lighting a candle for a special person. Peace, Aunt Chick. Thoughts, prayers and love to Uncle Joe and family.

Dianne Fennelly

October 19, 2010

My Prayers and thoughts to all of "Chicks" family and friends. May your special memories sustain you. Her spirit will live on in each of you that knew her. May God be your comfort at this sad time. God Bless

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