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Douglas Spoehr Obituary
Born in Evanston, Illinois, Doug often described his life as blessed, measured not in material wealth but in family, friendships, and meaningful work. He cherished childhood summers at camp, adventures with his siblings,
time spent traveling with his family, and moments with his maternal grandmother, as well as high school experiences that taught him resilience.
A graduate of New Trier High School in Winnetka, Illinois, and the University of Kansas, Doug traveled the country for two years before earning his Master of Social Work from Tulane University. He moved to the Berkshires in 1978 after marrying Nanette Corrao Spoehr and built a distinguished career in mental health, including leadership roles at
Berkshire Health Works and Berkshire Health Systems.
Family was his greatest pride. He is survived by his wife, Nanette; daughters Elisabeth Lamoureaux (Eric) and Gillian Procopio (Paul); and grandchildren Camden, Alaina, Gavin, and Nico. He is also survived by his brother, Steve Spoehr, and his wife, Leigh; his sister, Virginia Miller; nieces Sarah, Erica, and Lauren; nephews David and Alec; their families;
Nanette's extended family; and several close friends.
Doug showed love through cooking, listening, and thoughtful support. Known for his sage advice and steady presence, he found joy in simple pleasures: coffee, sunsets, shared meals with family, and time on Lake Onota in his
pontoon boat. He loved skiing, swimming, hiking, fishing, gardening, and the family's annual vacations to Sanibel Island for more than 40 years.
Diagnosed in 2023 with interstitial lung disease and later esophageal cancer, Doug faced both with bravery and determination, meeting his final chapter with resilience and quiet strength.
His legacy lives on in the hearts and lives he touched.
Funeral Notice:
A celebration of life will be held in the spring. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Doug's memory to the Kennedy Park Fund or the Phelps Cancer Center Patient Assistance Fund.
For the full obituary, including additional memories and reflections, please visit www.dwyerfuneral.com
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Rich Belair
February 28, 2026
I had the privilege of working with Doug for many years. He was a wonderful man and I always enjoyed our conversations and time together. A significant loss for so many!
Priscilla Morrill
February 28, 2026
Sending condolences to you Nanette and family from Priscilla! I was saddened by this news!
Gary Lagarce
February 26, 2026
Nanette and family, very sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Meri-Ellen
February 23, 2026
Nanette and family - I am so sorry to hear about Doug. My thoughts are with you and the girls.
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Peter Andersen
February 22, 2026
I am so sorry to hear this sad news. I met Doug through Nanette and had the privilege to work with him for one season at Bousquet. My sincere condolences to Nanette and family.
Susan Corliss
February 21, 2026
Wish we had spent more time together but the times we had were good and well remembered
Roberta Kaufer
February 21, 2026
I met Doug in the 90´s. He was a kind man who made an impact on my career and my life in general. My condolences to his family.
Deb Rathbun
February 21, 2026
I met Doug thru BHS where I worked. My son had a traumatic incident with thunder storms. Doug did an amazing job with him. Doug was kind, thoughtful, and as genuine as anyone could be. My sincere condolences for your loss. Please know he was very well LOVED by many at BHS.
Glenn Lagerwall
February 21, 2026
On behalf of everyone here at Bousquet Mountain and the Bousquet Mountain Ski and Ride School we offer our deepest condolences to his family. Doug was an amazing instructor and friend to all of us here. He will be sorely missed.
Chris Thomson
February 21, 2026
So very sorry to learn of Doug´s passing. He was one of the good ones. May he rest peacefully.
Stephen E. O´Brien
February 21, 2026
Mrs. Spoehr and family,
Please accept my condolences.
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