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Matthew Gottung Obituary
He was born September 10, 1983 in Albany NY, the son of John A. Gottung and Deborah Personius Gottung. He was educated in Pittsfield public schools, and graduated from Pittsfield High School in the class of 2001. He received an Associate's Degree in Nursing from Berkshire Community College in 2009, having earlier attended Maria College, in Albany NY. Matthew worked as a registered nurse at Berkshire Medical Center, and had previously worked at several area nursing homes and at the Northern Berkshire Visiting Nurses Association.
Matthew was an avid sportsman, who loved fishing and hunting, especially upland shooting. He loved the outdoors in all its forms and enjoyed gardening, canoeing, hiking and SCUBA diving. He also loved cars, cooking, reading, music and the arts, and had a life-long interest in computers and technology. He was a member of the Massachusetts Nurses Association, a former member of the Lenox and Lee Sportsmen's Clubs, and a communicant of St Joseph's Church. Matthew will best be remembered for his warmth and compassion, and for the spirit of charity and selfless generosity with which he touched the lives of many people who knew him, personally and professionally.
He leaves his parents, Deborah Personius Gottung, of Pittsfield, (close companion George Waldheim) and John and Michele Gottung, of Pittsfield; his brother, Jonathan R. Gottung, of Seattle WA, (Dahlia M. Wisner); his life partner, Joanna E. Brady and her daughter Emma Boynton, also Matthew's goddaughter; and his beloved dog, Avi. He also leaves his grandmother, Phyllis M. Gottung, of Ballston Spa NY; grandfather, Harold G. Personius, of Marcellus NY; step-sister Tara Franklin (James Barry) of Williamstown MA; step-brothers David Franklin (Hannah) of Easthampton MA and Jordan Franklin of Dalton; many aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by grandparents Marshall Gottung and Laura Personius.
Matt's family would like to thank his many friends and co-workers at BMC for all their friendship and kindness shown to Matt, especially the nursing team on 2E Medical.
FUNERAL NOTICE: A Liturgy of Christian Burial for Matthew J. Gottung, 33, of Pittsfield who passed away on May 17, 2017 will be held Friday at 9:30 AM at St. Joseph Church in Pittsfield celebrated by the Rev. Monsignor Michael Shershanovich, pastor. Burial will be private. Calling hours for Matt will be held Thursday from 4 to 7PM at the DERY FUNERAL HOME in Pittsfield.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations in memory of Matt may be made to the Clinical Stabilization Unit at BMC or to Berkshire Mountain Search & Rescue Squad both in care of the funeral home, 54 Bradford Street, Pittsfield, MA 01201.
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Mary May
October 24, 2017
Deb, I am so very sorry for your loss of Matthew. Words aren't enough. I'm praying for God to wrap His arms around you and your family and give you peace. Love, your cousin, Mary Beth May (Rennert)
Mark , Karolyn Shepard
June 5, 2017
To the entire family of Matthew, I am heart broken and saddened of Matthews passing. I always was happy to see him. I have memories of mischief he and Jonathan got into. May he rest in piece. Lots of love. Take care.
Frank&Deb Zima
June 5, 2017
We are so sad to learn of Matthews passing. Our love and prayers go out to Debbie,John,and Jonathan.
Sarah Hofstadter
May 29, 2017
Heartfelt condolences to all of Matthew's family from Dahlia's father and stepmother. We did not have the good fortune to know Matthew, but we are tremendously fond of Jonathan, and our hearts grieve for all of you. - Dov Wisner and Sarah Hofstadter
Thom Lis-Parker
May 29, 2017
Joanna, Emma, and family ... so sad to have heard of Matt's passing. I worked with him at a local nursing home years back. Nicest guy with an awesome personality. Always smiling and always upbeat with a positive attitude. You'll never meet a more genuine person. You will be missed by many.
Karen Rollins
May 28, 2017
Matt cared for my mother the 11 days she was at BMC. He truly was one of the finest, most compassionate people I have ever met (and I have been around a long time). He was so grateful for goodies I would bring him and would offer to do anything for you. I suffered the loss of my step-daughter several years ago and can tell you that God had a purpose for this and time WILL heal. My sister and I have shed many tears over this and we will always remember him.
Wish I could give you all a hug!
Sue Russell
May 26, 2017
The Heavens have another Angel . I'm So Sorry for the loss of Matt ! He was a great soul .. He has his Wings , may he soar carefree .. R.I.P. Matt
May 26, 2017
Good Morning Debbie and John and Families
It is with sadness that I learned of the passing of Matt.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all
In Sympathy :
Daniel Lucey
Greenfield, Mass
Mia Milondo
May 26, 2017
Will be missed dear matt! Can't stop looking at my laptop the one you fixed.....such a nice person RiP
Jon & Lesley Lifvergren
May 25, 2017
Fond memories of the Gottung's next door so many years ago. Debbie, John, Jonathan and of course Matt who played with our Emma until he realized he was too old to play with girls. He was very good to her ... and to all of us, as was the entire Gottung family. Sorry to have lost touch these last many years, but pleased to have known Matt at such a fun and impressionable time. Thoughts and prayers to you all.
Mike & Diane (Fenn) Snyder Homich
May 25, 2017
Sincerest condolences to John, Michelle, and all of Matt's family and friends. We are so very sorry for your loss. May your memories of his beautiful love bring you a sense of peace.
Diane Fenn Snyder and Mike Homich
Donna and Bob Contenta
May 25, 2017
John, Deb, and family,
We are so very sorry for your loss. Matt was a truly wonderful person. There are no words to make the pain any less. Please know we are here if you ever need anything. God bless.
armida ballesteros
May 25, 2017
I'm very sorry
May 24, 2017
Joanna,emma,and all of matt's family
I was saddend to hear of matt,s passing my thoughts and prayers are with you. matt was a great guy. Joanna if you need anything please call me
pat gero
Dalton,ma.
May 24, 2017
Our deepest sympathies to Matt's family and friends. With sincere condolences Tami & Fred Mink. Megan's parents.
Sharon Switalski (McNeil)
May 24, 2017
John and Debbie, I am so sorry for your loss. I remember how much you all loved your boys and I remember what a cute little kid Matt was. We should not survive our children. My thoughts and prayers are with you both.
Gloria Schilling
May 24, 2017
Deb and family,
I am so very sorry to hear of your son's passing. You are in my heart and my prayers.
Susan (Graham) McLaughlin
May 24, 2017
Dear John and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of Matt's passing. Please accept my condolences and know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Susan (Graham) McLaughlin
Mansfield, MA
Sherry P
May 24, 2017
Sorry to hear of your early passing. Grateful for having known you. Thank you for kazoozles! Prayers for your family and friends.
April Rollins-Czop
May 24, 2017
Please know you are all in my heart and my prayers. Sending many hugs.
Mary Taylor
May 24, 2017
Dear Deborah & Family: I was so sorry to hear of your son Matthew's passing. You will be in my prayers and thoughts.
Mary Taylor
Vero Beach FL
David Blanchette
May 24, 2017
You were the best Mat.....
LeeAnne Boudreau
May 24, 2017
My heart is with you. My deepest condolences.
May 23, 2017
Michele and John, I am so sorry for your loss. I didnt know Matt for long and only met him a few times. He truly seemed like a very nice and caring man.I pray that God gives you His peace that passes all understanding. Keeping you and your family in our prayers God Bless,Mike and Rosa Gross
Debbie Cowdrey
May 23, 2017
I never had the privilege of meeting Matt but he worked with my son Justin who said Matt was the nicest person you could ever meet. Please except my deepest sympathy.
Annie Kalish
May 23, 2017
Dear Johnathan and Dahlia,
John I'm so very sorry to hear of your brothers passing. It's tragic to lose a loved one so very young. He will live on in your heart forever. Blessings to you both.
Much love,
Annie
Christine Hover
May 23, 2017
All our love,
Jim & Christine Hover
stephen winchell
May 23, 2017
Deb, John, Jonathan, I'm so sorry to hear of the passing of Matthew he was a great son and brother to all of you! he will be greatly missed my condolences to all of you !
KAREN GILLIS
May 23, 2017
I'M REALLY SORRY FOR LOSS I DIDN'T KNOW MATT THAT WELL BUT MET HIM THROUGH A GOOD FRIEND OF MINE HE TOOK CARE OF HER IN FEB
May 23, 2017
We remember Matt from DaIton Youth Archery when he was 10 years old and friends with our son, Joel. They shared the joy of winning trophies. We are so very sad for your loss.
-- Ruth and Bob Bradley
Cheryl Witherell
May 23, 2017
I am terribly sorry for the loss of Matt. In worked with him at VNA &Hospice of Northern Berkshire until it's closing March 2014. I thought he was a wonderful guy and a great nurse. RIP
Jen Costa
May 23, 2017
I had the pleasure of working with Matt on the Telemetry unit. He was kind, caring, and compassionate. A truly special person and joy to be around. My thoughts are with his family and friends.
Mark Lis
May 23, 2017
Matt cared for me in January of this year when I was hospitalized for 8 days. You won't find a more compassionate and thoughtful individual. This is not only a great loss to his family and friends, but it's a great loss to society as a whole to loose someone like this. God speed buddy, and thank you for showing me kindness in my hour of need. I won't soon forget what you did for me.
clemetine fruet
May 23, 2017
Our family will always be grateful to Matt for the wonderful care he gave my mother when she was his patient at BMC. He was caring, compassionate and very attentive not only to her needs but of those of her family. Rest in peace dear Matt, you were truly an angel of mercy.
Sue Pierce
May 23, 2017
There are no words to adequately express how much you will be missed. Soar high Matt!
Shaun Connor
May 23, 2017
Heartbroken to learn of Matt's passing. Have great memories of time spent together skateboarding around town when we were kids. Matt was one of the nicest, kindest people I have ever met. Condolences to his family.
Heather (Tierney) Cugno
May 23, 2017
John(and family),
I am so sorry for your loss. Matt was a wonderful person. I'll always remember how easily he befriended me when I was knew to the area as a teenager and how caring he was. I have a lot of wonderful memories of him. He will always be in everyone's hearts and we will all miss him dearly.
John Provenzano
May 23, 2017
John and Michelle- so sorry to hear of Matt's passing. You're all in our prayers.
John and Sandy Provenzano
Brittany Kincaid
May 23, 2017
Rest In Peace matt. My prayers and thoughts are with your family.
Judy Herrick
May 23, 2017
John and all of Matthew's family,
Please accept my condolences on your loss of Matthew. You are in my thoughts and prayers at this very difficult time.
Anne Pictrowski
May 23, 2017
I was so saddened to hear of Matt's passing. I remember him as a student at Reid Middle School. What stands out is his kind heart and work ethic. Years later I met Matt at BMC as he cared for my mom before her passing. He offered our family comfort in knowing she was well cared for under his watch. He is truly an angel. My prayers and thoughts are with you. May all your wonderful memories live in your hearts forever.
Debbie Plantier
May 23, 2017
John-- our deepest sympathy in your loss of your son. Prayers to you. From Deb Plantier and Dorene Plantier.
Alicia Pravia
May 23, 2017
You will forever be missed. ❤
Denise McLaughlin
May 23, 2017
Matt was such a genuinely kind person and loved by so many. I have lots of happy memories of him that I will hold in my heart forever. My deepest condolences
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