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Michael Gross Obituary

NAPOLEON -- Michael Stephen Gross, 17, died April 29, 2005, at a Wishek hospital. Services will be held at 10:30 a.m. Wednesday, May 4, at St. Philip Neri Catholic Church, Napoleon. Burial will be at the church cemetery.

Visitation will be held from 1 to 5 p.m. today at the Dahlstrom Funeral Home, Napoleon, where a Christian Mothers rosary service will be held at 2 p.m. Visitation will continue at 5 p.m. today at the church, where a prayer service will be held at 7 p.m.

Michael Stephen Gross was born Feb. 24, 1988, in Bismarck, son of Stephen and Lori (Jacob) Gross. He lived with his family on a farm south of Napoleon. He attended Napoleon Public School and was currently a junior. Michael loved to hunt and fish. He also enjoyed farming and raising cattle with his dad and his brother, Evan. Spring's work was often initiated by Michael's enthusiasm.

Michael being very compassionate and caring, appreciated having his friends around him or talking on the phone with them. He will be remembered by his infectious giggle and his love of music. You could count on Michael finding just the right music from his many CD's. Michael liked to play pinochle making sure to outbid his aunts and uncles. He was a leader in organizing the ballgames and hiding the eggs for the annual Easter Egg Hunt for his cousins. Michael's competitive nature was at its peak when racing his dad across the yard or wrestling on the lawn. He enjoyed playing football and took pride in wrestling on the Napoleon Wrestling Team reaching his goal of making the State Finals. He placed second in February of this year, with the team placing first for the fourth time in a row. Michael served as an altar boy and a member of the Squires. In school, he was involved in speech, FFA and student council.

Michael is survived by his parents, Lori and Stephen Gross; two brothers, Evan and Matthew; and one sister, Kayla, all living at home; his grandparents, Wilma and Alfred Gross, Napoleon; and many aunts, uncles and cousins.

He was preceded in death by his grandparents, Michael and Patricia Jacob.

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Published by The Bismarck Tribune on May 3, 2005.

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Emily Kautz

June 1, 2005

Michael is someone I will never forget. I think about him every single day. It's so hard knowing I'll never be able to see his smiling face again. My deepest sympathy goes out to his family, I can't even imagine how hard this has been for them. The only thing that helps me deal with this, is knowing that Michael is happy now, because he's with God. I know I'll see him again someday. I love you Michael, always have and always will.

Whitney Rath-Wald

May 28, 2005

Theres not a day that goes by that I don't think of you, and every piece of you. You meant the world too me, and it's soo hard here without you. Your pictures remind me of your sweet smile, giggle and your way to always charm the girls. May God hold your hand and guide you through the gates of heaven. I love you Michael.

Sadie Wardner

May 18, 2005

I knew Mike through FFA. When we met, we became instant friends. There was just that something about him. We could always sit down and have an easy conversation about anything. He was so caring, and when I was down he was always there to make me feel better. He always had a smile on his face, and tried to help in any way he could. Mike was such a good person, and I'll never forget him.

Jacque, Arlene, Dom, Whitney, Alexis and Jared Reis

May 12, 2005

I'm so sorry about the loss of Michael. He was an awesome person, we all loved watching him wrestling, he was a very nice, polite man, he will be deeply missed by the whole community of Napoleon. We all love mike with all our heart. Steve, Lori, Evan, Kayla, and Matt, you guys are all in our prayers, along with Mike, he was a great kid.

Jackie Schneider

May 7, 2005

Lori, Steve, and Family

Michael was one of my first babysitting jobs and there will always be a special place in my heart for him along with all of you. Thank you for giving Jodi and I that opportunity. My thoughts and prayers are with you now and always.

Mary Kennedy

May 6, 2005

It was fun getting to know Michael at the March Search. He was so funny. I'm very sorry for your loss. I will hold all of you in my prayers. God Bless!

Antoinette (Gross) Heier

May 6, 2005

Steve, Lori, Evan, Kayla, Matthew, Uncle Alfred and Aunt Wilma, all the Gross relatives...we can't express enough our sadness and empty feeling, please know that he was a special young man and will always hold a close place in our hearts. We Gross relatives stick together and we'll get through this minute by minute with his brightness shining down on us. Keep the faith and please don't hesitate to call! Love you all very much!



Brad, Antoinette, Makena and Kaden Heier



PS...the Steele community expresses their most deepest condolences!

Abby Silbernagel

May 5, 2005

Steve, Lori, & Family--

I can't even start to explain the sympathy I have for all of you. I didn't know Mike too well but I know what it feels like to lose someone extremely close to you and it takes awhile to heal. Always remember though, that Mike is "dancing with the Angels" up in Heaven with God and watches you all throughout the day. He is the sun that shines through the clouds on a rainy day....never give up hope. God Bless you guys and Love you tons!

Ashley Denne

May 5, 2005

When I first met Michael at March Search, he seemed like a really nice and honest guy. He will be deeply missed and in the thoughts and prayers of mine and many others. God Bless

Emily Gross

May 5, 2005

Mike, i miss you so much, i will always remeber your giggle it was so unique and so you, you were always so much fun at christmas or other family holidays i no you ok now the pain is gone R.I.P, i love you Lori, Steve, Evan, Kayla, and Matt

Tina (Klein) Zietz

May 5, 2005

Our family is praying for your family. God Bless you all and take care. The angels are watching over Mike now

Tina, Tom, Brock & Chelsey Zietz

Amy Sperling

May 5, 2005

Mike I will miss you so much! I will keep all the memorise of when i lived in Napoleon and rember the bright smile you had. And how all the teachers talked about your hand writting and how it was better than everyone elses. i will miss you!! And family you will be in my prayers. god bless!!

Scott & Angie Leintz

May 5, 2005

We are friends of Paul & Sherri's in Hazen and we want to you to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. May God comfort you at this time. Michael's memories will live on with you always.

Sister Suzanne Stahl

May 4, 2005

I am so sorry for the your terrible loss, Lori, Steve and family. I was privileged to meet Mike on the March SEARCH in Harvey. My prayers and support reach out to you.

Jodi (Schneider) Pearson

May 4, 2005

Steve, Lori & Family ~



With my sister Jackie, I had the privilege to be one of Michael and Evan's first baby-sitters. Michael touched so many lives during his time with us and will be deeply missed. May the memories help you get through this difficult time. God bless you.

Tony and Barb Braun

May 4, 2005

Steve and Lori; We will keep you and your family in our prayers. Barb and I will always keep the happy memories of mike in our heart. God Bless Tony and Barb Braun Family

Jessica Ruch

May 4, 2005

My prayers go out to you and I'm deeply sorry. May you find peace in God.

Jessica Glynn

May 4, 2005

Dear Gross family,

I am praying for you in your time of loss. God is with you.

Charlie and Marion Eldredge

May 4, 2005

Lori -- Words fail us at times like this, but God's love will not fail us. May His mother, who truly knows your grief, bring you and your family peace and consolation. Be assured of our prayers.

Alicia Johnston

May 4, 2005

Michael was in my small group during March Search. He was such a nice guy. I was really excited to get to know him better when he said that he would be back next year. I will continue to pray for him and his family.

Tara Ploium

May 4, 2005

God Bless you all. I met Mike at Search and he seemed like a great guy and I am sorry for your loss.

Tyler Fettig

May 4, 2005

Steve, Lori,and family,



I am very sorry about the tragic loss of your brother and son. he will always have a special place in my heart. I will never forget Michael. He was a good friend and a very good wrestler and I hope that all the wrestling teams in North Dakota will never forget him.

Ashlind Werre

May 4, 2005

God Bless The Gross Family and Peace Be With you.

Pam Horner

May 4, 2005

Lori, Steve and Family

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your son Michael. I cannot immagine the pain your family has endured. Please know that your family is in our thoughts and prayers. Robert Horner, Pam Horner, Troy & Jordan Bitz

Erin Magrum

May 4, 2005

Dear Gross Family,

I am sorry about your loss. Michael was a good friend of mine too and I will miss him deeply. He was a great kid and we had some good times together. May God give your family strength and comfort in your time of need. I will remember you and Michael in my prayers.

Nancy Brannan

May 4, 2005

Dearest Lori, Stephen, and family,

Our heart goes out to you in this most difficult time. The picture of your son, in the paper, is beautiful. He looks so full of promise. I believe God cries with you as you mourn Michael's death. I believe God is holding Michael and comforting his spirit. I believe God will not abandon you as you grieve. I believe, in time, God will bring healing.



In behalf of our family, I extend our heartfelt prayers, Nancy Brannan

New Salem/Center Wrestling Team

May 4, 2005

To the Family and Teammates of Michael - Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of loss. May the memories of Michael be the treasures that you hold in your heart. God's strength and grace be with you all. With deepest condolences.

Hillsboro Wrestlers and Parents

May 4, 2005

It was a pleasure to have known such a fine young man and fellow wrestler who truly exemplified what it meant to be a true "champion."

The entire North Dakota wrestling community is feeling the loss of such a great guy. We will miss Michael, and miss seeing his arm being lifted next year in the State championship match. Our hearts are heavy for your loss. May God bring his peace to your family and community.

Scott Markovic

May 4, 2005

To the family and friends of Michael, Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad time.

Justin Mootz

May 4, 2005

Mike I just had met you at March Search but you were a great friend just like that. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

God bless you all

Christina Schneider

May 3, 2005

No words can express how a loss like this can take a toll on our community. Mike was a great friend of mine! He will always be remembered by his sweet smile, innocent wink, and cute giggle. Mike was one of the most compassionate people you would ever meet he cared no matter who you were or what your problem was! My sympathy goes out to his wonderful family, you guys meant the world to him!! I will always remember you Mike..You will hold a special place in my heart!! I love you Michael..May God open his heart and arms to you as you take your place in the Heavens!!

Pius Gross

May 3, 2005

May the Lord give you the Family, the strength to endure. I am remembering you at Mass.

DLB Wrestling Team

May 3, 2005

We were very sorry to hear about Michael's death. He was a great wrestler and will be missed by many. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family, friends, and teammates.

Duane Hartze Family

May 3, 2005

Lori & Steve Gross family. I cannot begin to express my sorrow for you in this very difficult time. May the lord take you by the hand and guide you through this trying time. Our thoughts, prayers, and deepest sympathy are with you.

Carrie Lynnes

May 3, 2005

As a mother my heart goes out to you and your family. My son has had wrestling matches with your son and the news of his death has deeply saddened me. May god keep you in his arm.

Kelsey Kaiser

May 3, 2005

Dear anyone who knew Mike...I just want you all to know that your in my prayers and that Mike will always be missed, But he will never truely be gone...he will always live on in all the hearts of everyone who knew him! RIP Mike!

Bridget Leier

May 3, 2005

Lori, Steven and family,

I have watched mike wrestle for many years. He was often a opponet for my brother preston and many other linton wrestlers. He was and awesome wrestler and a wonderfully nice kid.. You are in my thoughts and prayers daily. God Bless you. And remember to never forget the memories!!!

Kevin Deb Bridget Preston Emmalee Andrew Leier

May 3, 2005

Steve,Lori and family,God Bless you all, your in our thoughts and prayers. We enjoyed watching Michael wrestle over the past few years. He was a great guy and will always be remembered. Kevin and Family

Briana Magrum

May 3, 2005

Lori,Steve,Evan,Kayla,&Matthew

I am very sorry for your loss and I pray that God will be w/ u all.You are in our thoughts and prayers everyday. I love you guys and I will miss Micheal very much. God Bless you and give you strength.

Briana Magrum

May 3, 2005

Lori,Steve,Evan,Kayla,&Matthew

I am very sorry for your loss and I pray that God will be w/ u all. U are in my thoughts and prayers everyday. I love you guys and I will miss Micheal very much. God Bless you and give u strenght

Dennis, Lani, Elijah & Danny Rude

May 3, 2005

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. May God Bless your Family.

Patrick Bitz

May 3, 2005

Steve, Lori & family, there are just no words to express how sorry Michele and I are. Please know you have been and will be in our thoughts and prayers. Michael is now an angel in Heaven.



Patrick, Michele Bitz & family

Randy & Cloe (Bohlin), Tori & Kara Frey

May 3, 2005

Lori, Steve and family: Please know that all our prayers are with you and all of your family now and always. There are no words to say how very sorry we are to hear of your loss. God bless you all and give you strength.

Andrea Flaten

May 3, 2005

West Fargo wrestling team has Napoleon and the family of Michael in our thoughts and prayers. We are very sorry to hear about this loss.

Natalie Reiser

May 3, 2005

I met Mike through FFA, and I have always considered him as a good friend there after. He was a gentleman like no other and had the sweetest smile. I will miss him greatly, and I pray that God will be with his many friends and family. I will always remember Mike...

Lori Lura

May 3, 2005

We were so sorry to hear about Michael's death. Our hearts go out to all of you. The Carrington wrestlers know the feeling to lose a teammate and friend and share your pain. Our son, Seth, admired his dedication and commitment to the Napoleon "Imperials". God Bless Michael.



Randy, Lori, Seth, Randi Jo and Jace Lura

Emery Lindgren

May 3, 2005

As a coach and former teacher I am saddened by this loss.But as a coach and teacher I know how much life Michael added to his 17 short years by being so active in so many things. May you be comforted by knowing that as he lived his life, he affected many, and isn't that one of the things that life's about. God has a special love for children.

Cyndi Keller

May 3, 2005

My thoughts and prayers are with you always. I met Michael at SEARCH and am very sorry for your loss. You are all in my prayers.

Caitlin Mayo

May 3, 2005

I'm so so sorry. He was in my "Small Group" at search and he was such an awesome person. I'll miss you Mikey! I'll never forget you. RIP my friend.

Lisa Schafer

May 3, 2005

Please accept our condolences on the loss of your son and brother, Michael. Our hearts ache for all of you. My 11-year old son, Zachary, is a wrestler with the Carrington Pit Crew. He talked about Michael often and what a good wrestler he was. He (Michael) probably never imagined that he had a young fan from Carrington. The entire Cardinal wrestling club is thinking of and praying for the Gross family.

Lisa, Jessa and Zachary Schafer

Chelsie Tryhus

May 3, 2005

My deepest thoughts and sympathy's are with you and your family! Michael was a sweet guy who made me laugh. I enjoyed watching him wrestle. All of you will be in my thoughts and prayers, and i will light a candle in rememberance of you. I love and miss you Michael.

matt sperling

May 3, 2005

god bless you

Pam (Becker) Schaubert

May 3, 2005

Lori,Steve,& Family...There are no words to express my sympathy to all of you. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. May God give you the strength and comfort to get through.

Jon, LeAnn, Trey, and Keaton Peterson

May 3, 2005

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time and always. We are very sorry for your loss. God Bless you all.

archie and marveen gilliss

May 3, 2005

We are so sorry to hear about your loss...

My prayers are with you and your family..

Jamie Klemisch

May 3, 2005

To Mike's Family:

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You will remain in my prayers now and in the road ahead. May God and those who have loved Mike offer you comfort and peace during this time. He will truly be missed.

Jenell Paul

May 3, 2005

May God's loving arms comfort you. Even though I am unable to be there in person, please know that you all in my thoughts and prayers. "Perhaps they are not stars, but rather openings in heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us" ~Eskimo proverb.

Natalie Kraft {Piatz} & Family

May 3, 2005

Our deepest sympathy to you and your whole family on your sudden loss of dear 'Michael'.

May God give up much strength, love and prayer to get through such a sad time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you today and always.. God Bless You; Steve, Lori, Evan, Kayla and Matthew

Sendings lots of {hugs} your way!

steve rau

May 3, 2005

you were a good cousin and I will miss you.

Chris Christmann

May 3, 2005

We will miss you Mike...But we will never forget you and all the good times...

Betty Maly

May 3, 2005

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Francis, Betty and Jesse Maly (Oakes Tornado Wrestler)

Missy & Ron Schmitt

May 3, 2005

Lori, Steve, and family, My heart aches when I think of all of you and your loss. Lori, you and Sherri have been and always will be like sisters to me and I truly treasure our relationship. I pray you find God's strength to help you through this difficult time. You are in our daily thoughts and prayers. We love you, Ron, Missy, Shantel and Taylor Schmitt

Hedy Nagel

May 3, 2005

What a tragedy this is to your family and the entire community of Napoleon. We only knew Michael through wrestling, but he made an impact on my son. He was well-liked by wrestlers from other schools. What a touching obituary...tears are rolling down my face reading it. Our sincere sympathy.

Kenneth, Alison, Tyler, Brielle, Brock & Mariyah Krumm

May 3, 2005

Michael and your family are in our prayes.



In the day when I cried thou answeredst me, and strengthenedst me with strength in my soul.

Psalm 138:3

Mark & Darcy Klever

May 3, 2005

Our thoughts and prayers are with Michael’s family, teammates and friends. May you find comfort in your memories of him during this difficult time.

Jeff, Donna, Erin & Briana Magrum

May 3, 2005

Steve & Lori Gross Family, May God Comfort & Bless you all now and forever. Know that we are praying for you and are always here for you. The little child is the GREATEST in the Kingdom of Heaven. Matthew 18

Jeff, Tanya & Tucker Schneider

May 3, 2005

Steve, Lori and family

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family and will be forever. Angels come in many forms and now you have another special angel praying everyday for you from heaven. We love you and know that we are here for you anytime.

Danita becker

May 3, 2005

Sorry for your loss, take care and god bless

Alexis Reis

May 3, 2005

God Bless, you will be in my prayers

Blair Kelley

May 3, 2005

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Your family will remain in my prayers. May god be with you.

Brooks Becker

May 3, 2005

I know you are in heaven. Miss you!

Jenna Wolf

May 3, 2005

We will all miss you God Bless you and your family

Jonathan Schmidt

May 3, 2005

Im going to miss you alot cuz you were one of my favorite cousins and you were one of my idols im realy going to miss you hope god is with you now love you michael

Wyatt Rath-Wald

May 3, 2005

We will miss and your giggle.

God bless you and your family.

Spencer Wirt

May 3, 2005

God bless you and your family

kamern glatt

May 3, 2005

god bless you all.

Logan Wald

May 3, 2005

god bless you.

Ali Werre

May 3, 2005

God Be With You

Jenna Gross

May 3, 2005

God Bless You All!

-Jenna Lynn Gross

chasity fettig

May 3, 2005

we will miss you,God Bless you

Melissa Schaffer

May 3, 2005

god bless family

- Melissa

The 7th Grade Class

May 3, 2005

We will miss you.

-The 7th grade class

Leann Brunner

May 3, 2005

Mike we will miss you and we will never forget you we will hold your memories close to our hearts RIP

ricki sathren

May 3, 2005

our thoughts and prayers go to your family. ricki, todd, josh and tj sathren

Mariann Roehrich

May 3, 2005

Lori, Steve and the rest of the Jacob family ~ our hearts go out to you. I am Barb Braun's sister and feel like I have known your family for so many years. God bless you and give you strength during this difficult time. My sister Diane is staying with me and we will light a candle for you tomorrow and in the days ahead. Please know that you are in our daily prayers. God Bless you!

Amanda Hilzendeger

May 3, 2005

RIP Mike, you will be remembered in many ways. We love you

Carly Fettig

May 3, 2005

Bye mike we will miss you, but your always in our hearts.

Tori Piatz

May 3, 2005

We love and miss you Mike.

Ann Moch

May 3, 2005

We were so sorry to hear about mike. Our prays are with you all.

The Edgeley/Ellendale Thunder sends their regards and prayers.



Ann & Brian Moch

Clarissa Fettig

May 3, 2005

We'll miss you mike

Howard Fish

May 3, 2005

Our deepest and heartfelt sympathy’s go out to the family and friends of Michael. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Lynn Fischer

May 3, 2005

My sincerest sympathies go out to & your family. Know that we are praying for you & you are in our constant thoughts. You are wonderful people! We have to trust God will bring you through this. We will continue to pray for peace, strength, & comfort for all of you!!

Love, Lynn & family

Tony & Alvera Leier

May 3, 2005

Our heartfelt sympathy to you and your children in this time of sorrow. May you find comfort in your memories of Michael in time to come. Sincerely, The Leiers

Monte, Judane, Heather, Brandon & Tiffany Ohlhauser

May 3, 2005

Lori, Steve, and Family:

Words can't begin to describe our sincere sympathy. Michael was a very special young man that will always hold a very special place in our hearts. We will all truly miss him. We know he is in good hands now and the Good Lord will take care of him. Our Love & Prayers to all of you!!

Mary Robson

May 3, 2005

We are friends of Paul & Sherry's in Hazen and we just want you to know that you are in our thoughts & prayers at this sad time. With our most sincere sympathy - Gordon & Mary Robson @ family

Joe Bitz

May 3, 2005

Steve, Lori, and family, no words can express my sympathy for your loss. My thoughts and prayers have been with you. May God find a way to help you through this very difficult time.

Gerald Gross

May 3, 2005

Mass will be said in his Honor. As Past State Chief Squire 1974-75, I want your family to know he'll be in my prayers.



Gerry Gross

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