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Ailish Hayes Obituary

HAYES, Ailish MD Passed away peacefully at her home "Seascape", Marblehead, Massachusetts after a long valiant battle with Kidney Cancer on Wednesday, November 4, 2009. She was 58 years old. She is deeply missed by her beloved Robert W. Dine, her mother Chris, brother Garrett, sister-in-law Siobhan, sisters Maeliosa and Christine and brother-in-law Damien Rutledge and nieces, nephews and cousins. Also deeply regretted by her beloved friends, colleagues and patients. Born in Ireland, Ailish followed her family tradition of medicine and attended medical school in Ireland. She did post graduate pediatric training in Toronto and Montreal before moving to Harvard Medical School in Boston where she pursued a rewarding academic career, specializing in Neonatology and Genetics. For the past fifteen years she was dedicated to her primary care pediatric practice at Revere-Winthrop Pediatrics. Ailish lived and loved life to the fullest and drew much joy from friends and family around the world who touched her life. She was predeceased by her father, Richard Hayes. A Memorial Funeral Mass will be held at Our Lady Star of the Sea Parish, 85 Atlantic Avenue, Marblehead, MA at 11:00am on Monday, November 9, 2009. In lieu of flowers, remembrances may be made to Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center, Attn: Kris Laping, 330 Brookline Avenue, Boston, MA 02215. Please make checks payable to "Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center" and include "in memory of Ailish Hayes". Arrangements entrusted to the Eustis-Cornell Funeral Home 142 Elm St. Marblehead, MA 01945. For online memorial, please visit www.mem.com

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Published by Boston Globe from Nov. 6 to Nov. 8, 2009.

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Angie Clark

August 2, 2023

Dr.Hayes was my son´s pediatrician from the time he was born premature until we moved out of the area. She was SUCH a compassionate and skilled Doctor. I just adored her and I´m so thankful she was part of our lives during that exciting, yet anxious time as new parents.

Marsha (Elliott) Borges

August 1, 2021

I am just now learning of Dr. Hayes passing. She was my 2 son´s pediatrician and at a time when I was going through a really difficult time and doubted my parenting she gave me the reassurance I needed to feel like I was doing what was best for my children. Rest In Peace Dr. Hayes. The children and families in the community lost a great compassionate caring doctor. Please watch out for my little one Morgan Francis. With much love, the Elliott Family

John Tierney

November 5, 2019

Sorry for your loss and the world's! So young too.

November 4, 2010

dr hayes u r so very missed,i know u are in heaven with my husband neil, take care of him! love you stephanie

Sovattra Naw

March 29, 2010

Dr. Hayes, Thank you for keeping me and my family healthy. It's a blessing to have you as our doctor. We all love you and will always remember you.

Holly Pagliarulo

March 6, 2010

My son was sick today..I saw your portrait hanging in the hallway..I had to ask, not knowing what has happened to the lovely "Irish Spirit"..I was taken aback, dumb-founded and grief-stricken all at once! I had no idea you had gone to your eternal rest. You are truly missed already,so much by SO many. May God grant you eternal peace and an eternal life that you could have only dreamt of in this World. God be with you always and keep you in the palm of His hand, Amen. Our Deepest Sympathies to the Family. Sincerely, The Pagliarulo Family

Maeve Thurston

December 7, 2009

Ailish,
It is difficult to believe you are gone. It was a real privilege to know you. We always had fun reminiscing about Ireland and the people we knew.
You had such an amazing effect on all who met and knew you. Slan Leat Ailish, we will miss your beautiful smile, your warmth and your sincerity.
All my sympathy to Bob and to all your family.

November 24, 2009

I miss you so much Ailish. I am so truly sorry that I did not say goodbye the last time I saw you. You are such an inspiration to all of us. I love you and will miss you so much. I thank God I met you and was able to work for you for the past year.

Nancy Whipple

Edlira Toci

November 17, 2009

its is a very saddnes day for my and my family to learn about Dr. Ailish's death. We leave abroad, in Tirana, Albania, but our two kids were born in MA, and we were so lucky to have Dr. Ailish as their Pediatrition. . It is indeed, a moment of profound sadness for us and there is impossible for me to find the necessary words.

Whitney Wall

November 16, 2009

I met Dr. Hayes before my son was born when I needed to find a pediatrician. I instantly loved her. She was such a kind, compassionate doctor who put me at ease when I had concerns. She answered all of my questions no matter how silly I thought they were. My son only got to see her a few times but I am so grateful for each of those visits. I was hoping we would see her again on our last visit and was so upset when I found out about her passing.

I wish all doctors were like Dr. Hayes. She was absolutely wonderful.

Ann Benenati

November 15, 2009

Dr.Hayes, my heart is so saddened to just hear of your passing. You were truly the best! Since the first day I walked into your office with Nicolas you were there for support and guidance. You always took the time to to talk to me and explain things to me. What are we going to do without you, myself and my kids loved you so much. Thank you for all your help through the years, you always seen the best in Nicolas you knew him better then anyone. Rest in PEACE and my prayers are with your family. Love the Benenati Family

Ann Benenati

November 15, 2009

Dr.Hayes, my heart is so saddened to just hear of your passing. You were truly the best! Since the first day I walked into your office with Nicolas you were there for support and guidance. You always took the time to to talk to me and explain things to me. What are we going to do without you, myself and my kids loved you so much. Thank you for all your help through the years, you always seen the best in Nicolas you knew him better then anyone. Rest in PEACE and my prayers are with your family. Love the Benenati Family

Danielle

November 15, 2009

Dr Hayes,
Thank you for being there for me and taking the time to listen to what i had to say and treat me like an indivual. I'll never forget you, thank you for being so great to me.My deepest condolences go out to her family just remember dr hayes is smiling on you from heaven.
Love,
Danielle

November 14, 2009

To Our Wonderful Doctor Hayes:

I will always remember you as a kind, caring, special person to me and my family. You reassured me that everything would be okay with Marisella. You helped me out so much, more than words could express. You always spent more than enough time at our visits and made our visits so pleasant. You truly were the best, and will be missed. You fought till the end. You were such a strong women. Know your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

With Deepest Sympathy,

Tanya Pizzi- Damelio

Marcia Delatizky

November 14, 2009

Dr. Hayes,

I remember when my daughter was young and she saw you for the first time. She loved the little stuffed animal on your stethoscope. She wanted you as her doctor. With all her health issues, you were patient, understanding and never gave up. I remember spending 2 years of trying to solve a stomach issue, we tried everything. Once we found out what it was, we called the office and you weren"t there. The next morning I answered the phone to hear your voice and all your excitement. You made us feel special.

You were not only a great doctor but a remarkable woman. We are so glad to have known you.

Marcia and Dori-Ann

November 13, 2009

Dr. Hayes,

She was my doctor and I loved her so much! She was very special to me and and i will never forget her. She always took time to talk to me, we spoke about our cats sometimes because we both loved them. I have a picture with Dr. Hayes when I was born 9 years ago that my mom took on my first visit. I will miss her so much but she will always be close to my heart.

Love,
Sianna Proia Aleo

Ashley Schulze

November 13, 2009

Dr. Hayes, you will be missed so very much. You were the absolute best, you were a definite savior through my beginnings of parenthood for me. You knew myself and my children without ever having to consult our charts, you knew us as the individuals we were. We will never find a doctor quite like you. You were an amazing woman.

Philippa Thomas

November 13, 2009

Ailish,
I remember you, so vividly, in my class, at school, when I was four, five ,six years of age, and upwards: until we both left, around the age of twelve, and went on our respective ways to our different boarding schools. As a little girl, I remember well, you came to school each day, always with a sunshine smile on your face. You sometimes wore a white, beautifully ironed, satin ribbon on your hair, and definitely, always a white starched collar, on both your Winter navy, surge school uniform, and then a similiar crispy, white one, on your pale blue Summer uniform dress. I remember, so well, Ailish, you were obviously, so bright and enthusiastic, that you used to nod your knees together under your table, in order to remain part of us, at our slightly slower pace!
We met whenever we could over the years, but more than anything, I know you always made the time to visit my mum, when you were in Limerick while staying with your own dear mother. Your visits always meant so much to us all. Every time I met you, you looked sun-kissed, glamorous, radiant and happy, and some beautiful shade of icy blue was part of your outfit. Finally, Ailish, you wrote to me just recently, one of the most moving letters, which I received, regarding my sudden, unexpected, tragic loss of my own darling, Welsh husband Nigel, for which I thank you, whole-heartedly.

Wouldn't it be so lovely to meet again?

With our deepest sympathy to all of your family, clients and friends,
Philippa Thomas (O' Toole), Dalkey, Co. Dublin, Southern Ireland, and the O' Toole family in Limerick.

Diana Moscone

November 12, 2009

I was extremely saddened when I learned of the passing of Dr. Hayes!
Dr. Hayes was my daughter's Pediatrician. Her care, kindness and conversations will be missed so very much!
Dr. Hayes- Thank You for always being so good to Charley-- she is going to miss you!
Rest in Peace Dr. Hayes!!!!!

Carole Sears

November 12, 2009

Dr. Hayes,

Thank you for your kindnesses too numerous to count, your infinite patience, and the love and care you gave to Olivia. You were so much more than her pediatrician; you were and will always be our dear friend. We love and miss you.

To Dr. Hayes' loved ones,

We all wish for one more laugh, one more hug, and one more moment with her, however brief. May you find solace in knowing that Ailish touched the hearts of all who had the privilege of knowing her, and their lives were the better for it. Our prayers are with you.

Angela Lin

November 12, 2009

I remember talking to Ailish several years ago while she was getting chemo at a nearby hospital. We chatted about our homes, conferences and work. If it weren’t for the interleukin bag hanging from the pole and the triple-bore catheter under her cashmere camisole, you’d think we were hangin' out at Starbucks. Ailish dealt with her cancer with amazing courage and grace. She made us feel better.

November 11, 2009

Dr. Hayes I can't believe you have passed, it sadden me to hear, you will be missed so very much. I send deepest sympathy to Bob and to Ailish's family. Jaymie Sullivan-Ellard (Peabody, MA)

Jaymie Sullivan-Ellard

November 11, 2009

Dr. Hayes was an incredible women, doctor and mentor. You will never be forgotten, rest in peace.

I send deepest sympathy to Bob and to Ailish's family.

Louise Gunn and Family

November 11, 2009

Deepest sympathy, may she rest in peace. Thinking always of her kindness to my sister Deirdre Lemass Gallagher.

Our BroJonz Jarhett Carson & Presley x0 x0 x0

Jones Family

November 10, 2009

Just wanna say....I am always gonna be so gratefully for having wonderful memories of you with my precious sons from the time they were newborns! Your magical way of getting a task completed so effortlessly! All the holding & praise & attention they each loved you from the start as much as DAD & I did!
Then still being able to smell your delightful fragrance ever so lightly lingering upon their little heads long after we had gotten home to the point of you actually geting me some of your fragrance as a gift just for me!
Well I still do have it all these years later & will continue to use it as my own special way of being able to feel your Love around me!
Never gonna stop bragging about the greatest Dr a kid could have ever had!
Your clinic was the best place for little ones to get the best care with the best kid friendly hours as well! A parents dream!
I remembered your dream of having a place with a much larger parking lot.... and yah know parking lot full or not theres no place on earth we would have rather taken our newborns/ babies/boys!
Jarhett & his younger brothers never dreaded or feared coming to see you!
Clearly we love you always & forever! God Blessed all of us that got the chance to have your love! Love Most Affectionately
The Jones Family

Mona Perrotti

November 10, 2009

We send deepest sympathy to Bob and to Ailish's family. Ailish was one of the loveliest, warmest, and most caring people we've ever known. We will be forever thankful for the gift of her friendship, and will hold her memory close always.

You are in our prayers and in our hearts, Ailish.

With love and gratitude,
Mona, Bill, Jessica and Sarah Perrotti

Grace Galdo

November 10, 2009

Dr. Hayes was an incredible doctor to our children for many years. The kids always felt safe and at ease with her and she really took the time to make them feel special and make them feel like the accomplishments the kids had in their lives were very important to her. She always showed the kids how excited and proud she was of them and made them each feel so special. It is rare to find a Doctor that can be so intimate and personal and make that special connection with their patients and their families, but Dr. Hayes did exactly this with each and every visit.

May she rest in peace, and know how much we all loved her.

Rita greene

November 10, 2009

November 11, 2009
Dear Dr. Hayes,
Found out too late about your passing. Missing you already. You are so dear to me and helped when I was down and sick. Consider you my friend and hope to see you again. Great honor to have known you and loved you for 25 years.
God blesss you.
Rita Greene

Susan Pauker

November 10, 2009

Ailish was a wonderful sparkling colleague -- full of light and laughter -- even though we worked with some very difficult and sad genetic patients together, she was always wonderful for the families and would find a way to see the bright side. I didn't know she was ill and feel terrible to learn of her loss. My deepest sympathy to the family, friends, and other colleagues -- we have suffered a huge loss from the genetics community.

Jerry Winokur

November 10, 2009

Bobby, Remember all the good memories; the fun traveling and boating; the love and care Ailish gave to so many; and that your partner in life is now your guardian angel for ever.

November 9, 2009

Dr. Hayes~

It was a great honor and pleasure working for you. I will never forget all the laughs and kitty stories you shared. Always with a smile on your face and love in your heart, you truly were an Angel on Earth. You have made a tremendous impact on so many people, and touched so many lives in ways you could never imagine. I am truly blessed to have known you and know you are watching over us. May you rest in peace beautiful angel.

Love,
Amanda

Amanda Lussier

November 9, 2009

Dr. Hayes~

It was a great honor and pleasure working for you. I will never forget all the laughs and kitty stories you shared. Always with a smile on your face and love in your heart, you truly were an Angel on Earth. You have made a tremendous impact on so many people, and touched so many lives in ways you could never imagine. I am truly blessed to have known you and know you are watching over us. May you rest in peace beautiful angel.

Love,
Amanda

Linda Gallowa

November 9, 2009

Dear Bob and Family of Dr. Hayes,

My deepest condolences. Dr. Hayes was truly a wonderful person. She was filled with joy and happiness in spite of her illness. Each day she came to work, she walked down those stairs with a smile and never let on how much she may have been suffering. We can take solice in the fact that she is at peace now...resting. I truly believe that her presence here has made such a difference in the lives of all she touched. God Bless You Dr. Hayes. I will never forget you and all that you have done for me.

With Love,
Linda Galloway

November 9, 2009

Dr. Hayes, Thank for you for your compassion, dedication and warmth. Your caring smile always put us at ease. You will be sadly missed and always remembered. God Bless
The Chipman Family

Frederick Bieber

November 9, 2009

Alish was a good friend and colleague while working in the Longwood Medical Area. She was a devoted physician and will be remembered by all as a kind and gentle spirit. I am deeply saddened by her passing.
Fred Bieber/Harvard Medical School

Linda,Jay,&David Follansbee

November 9, 2009

God created an angel when he made Dr Hayes. Her support and caring of our child made it easy for us to just love her. She was a wonderful friend and will be missed by so many. May Dr. Hayes family have guidance and support though these hard times. God Bless

November 9, 2009

So many books, so little time....Ailish, we will truly miss you at Bookclub and every book we read from now on, will be for you. We love you and miss you - Elizabeth

Jones Family

November 9, 2009

Jarhett, Carson & Presley Jones had the very best Doctor in the whole world! You will always be remembered so fondly.... Always looked forward to seeing you... I STILL REMEBER us laughing BECAUSE THAT MEANT ONE of us had to be sick Just so we could be together.....You helped me to be the very best new mom that I could be....Never could have done it so right without your Love & Guidance I promise to keep my word... I WILL write the book we talked about.... Most affectionalety MomJones

well now you have all 11yrs of Our Fav Jarhett! x0

November 9, 2009

Heres 2009 of BroJonz 2 complete your collection of them!

November 9, 2009

Paula Costa Jones

November 9, 2009

We will Always Remember & Always Love OUR Dear Amazing Gentle Fun Caring Beautiful Friend: Dr Alish Hayes.... I WILL INDEED write that book we always spoke about.... youve meant so very much to our family in so many ways ALWAYS IN OUR HEARTS! We have been blessed to have had you in such an important part of our lives! R I P

Christine Hayes

November 9, 2009

I am deeply saddened to hear of her passing. She was my children's doctor , whom we deeply admired. Her personna was by far the most pleasant, kind, and thoughtful. My children, young adults now, and I will truley miss her... Christine (Hayes) Bartholomew, Everett, Ma.

Venus Williams

November 9, 2009

I am very saddened to hear the news about Dr. Hayes. My deepest condolences to her family, friends, & co-workers. She was a wonderful, caring person and will be missed.

lisa hayes

November 9, 2009

Dear Dr. Hayes,

As you enter Heaven, look for my daughter Kimberley L. Hayes, she entrusted her own daughter to you from the day she took her first breath 14 years years ago and you did a SUPER JOB making sure that she got the best of care by your constant overseeing of her health at all her check-ups. May God take you in his Arms for doing so much good while on Earth!

November 9, 2009

We had heard so much great things about Ailish from Annmarie that when we finally met her in Marblehead we really understood what a wonderful person she was. The craic will be mighty in heaven. Our sincere condolences to Bob and her family. Denise and David Linnane, Co. Kildare, Ireland

Joanne Buckmire

November 9, 2009

I was shocked,hurt,deeply sadden to hear the passing of Dr. Ailish Hayes, and first thing come to mind in GONE TO SOON, but we cannot question when GOD calls. I will never forget Dr. Hayes smile, her warm, her attitiude on life and her beautiful style. Our thought and prayers to Robert and The Entire Family.
From Joanne Buckmire, Dr. Suriya Jeyapalan, BTC/Boston and Rhode Island Hospital.

Joyce Glynn

November 9, 2009

Dr. Hayes - I worked with you for only a short period of time, typing your dictations. You made such a lasting impression on me. You were a kind, sweet, friendly, caring person. You were a fighter and the news of your death has saddened me tremendously. You will be terribly missed by everyone you came in contact with. May you rest in peace.

Linda Richardson

November 9, 2009

It was a pleasure to have met and known such a spirited and courageous woman. She will be forever missed.

Warmest, Linda Richardson

Amanda Alpert

November 9, 2009

Although I have not been to R-WP in many years, I still smile when my mom mentions your name. Any child (and parent) who had the chance to meet you was very lucky. You were a doctor like no other. You will be missed by all who knew you. Thank you for everything.
My thoughts and prayers are with your loved ones... Rest in peace Dr Hayes

The Cimminos

November 8, 2009

We will be forever grateful for the care Dr. Hayes gave our children. She treated them mentally as well as physically and always with great kindness. Dr. Hayes will be missed. She truly was a healer.

Janelle Wilson

November 8, 2009

My family and I were deeply saddened to hear about the loss of Dr. Hayes. She has been my children's pediatrician
for the last fifteen years, starting with my first child down to the fifth. She was a great doctor. She was so kind and caring. She always took the time to talk and listen. I just wanted to say thank you for the times you spent caring for our family. You will always be in our hearts. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family and friends. We will miss you.

The Wilson family,
Janelle, Eddie, Nicholas, Adriana, Giana, Angelina, and Gabriella

Cassidy Collignon

November 8, 2009

Dr. Hayes, my Auntie Ailish, was the nicest person I could ever know. She was always there for me and she has always been my doctor since I was born. I will miss her so much. I'll be praying and thinking about you. You will be greatly missed by me.
with love,

Sandra & Michael Valeri

November 8, 2009

My family and I were shocked to hear of Dr. Hayes' passing. She fought a long and courageous battle with such dignity. Both my son and daughter were lucky enough to see her for a physical in July and my son said that he never met a doctor as nice and caring as Dr. Hayes. She loved her work was truly loved by all. What an amazing loss for the Revere-Winthrop Pediatric team and patients. My daughter said to me "God must have needed a good doctor in heaven." She now can work her magic in heaven without any pain. We will miss you Dr. Hayes. Vincent & Katrina Valeri

Susan Gibbons

November 7, 2009

We are deeply saddened about the loss of Dr. Hayes. She was a wonderful and compassionate person. Dr. Hayes truly cared about taking care of my children. We will always remember the gentle way she helped us during the time Christopher spent in the NICU and most especially when he was discharged home. Dr. Hayes was a brave fighter during her long battle. Our thoughts and prayers are with her family, We will miss her. The Gibbons Family, Tom, Susan, Alexandra & Christopher

Alison Roth

November 7, 2009

We will miss Dr. Hayes. She was a great doctor. We are deeply saddened to hear about her death. Our condolences to her family. May she rest in peace.

kelli silva

November 7, 2009

Dr. Hayes we are heartbroken to lose you. Your extraordinary spirit and amazing love of life filled our family with peace. You were so much more than our doctor. You will always have a peace of our hearts. I thank you for all you have given my children.
Our love and prayers to your loved ones and family. You will always be our "favorite"! The Silva Family Ed, Kelli, Michael and Meg

November 7, 2009

Dr Hayes My daughters and I will MISS YOU GREATLY I always trusted your opinions. YOU ARE A GREAT LOSS ... Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family...."REST IN PEACE."
Toni, Alyssa, and Taylor Belschner.

Danielle McCusker

November 7, 2009

We are deeply saddened about the recent death of Dr. Hayes. I smile just thinking about how caring and compassionate she was. She truly was a remarkable woman. She took excellent care of both of my sons for the past nine years. Our thoughts and prayers are with her family and all her friends. She will be missed dearly by the McCusker Family: Danielle, Bob, Bobby and Kyle. XOXO

Jeanne Buckley

November 7, 2009

We loved Ailish. She fought a courageous battle with dignity and grace. With love, Jeanne Buckley and Eirinn Campaniello

Kristen Meriano

November 7, 2009

What a loss for our community to have lost such a wonderful doctor. Our thoughts and prayers are with you & your family. You will truly be missed.

Theresa Riordan

November 7, 2009

My thoughts are with your mother Chris and family. You are now in heaven with the angels.

Liz & Tyla Pesce

November 7, 2009

Dr. Hayes you were greatly appreciated by so many. You made such an impact on everyone you touched. You will truly be missed. May you rest in peace.

Georgia Caggiano

November 7, 2009

Losing Dr. Hayes is a great loss. She was very caring, informative and understanding. I feel a great void without her. The only consolation is that she is now in Heaven caring for all of God's little children. She will truly be missed.

Belinda Whitmore

November 7, 2009

We dreaded the coming of this day, and we mourn the loss of a truly great and kind woman, and a dear friend. Our thoughts are with Bob and all of the friends and family who will miss her dearly.

Love,

Michael Hogan & Belinda Whitmore

"Love Never Fails " AILISH WAS AND REMAINS COMPASSION IN ACTION "

catherine Bolduc

November 7, 2009

LOVE NEVER FAILS

BEAUTIFUL AILISH
I KNOW YOU BELIEVED IIN LOVE
THIS WAY
ALL YOUR DEEDS POINT THE WAY
AND OPEN THE 'EYE' OF OUR HEARTS
TOWARDS BECOMING BETTER HUMAN BEINGS

YOU ARE AND REMAIN
LOVE IN ACTION
COMPASSION IN ACTION

I LOVE YOU AND KNOW THAT YOU ARE SAFE
IN THE SNOWY ARMS OF GOD

I LOVE YOU
I LOVE YOU
I LOVE YOU

Catherine

stephanie hamilton

November 7, 2009

when i think of you dr hayes i always smile you always took care of your girls at the office! i was so honored that you came to my husbands wake a few weeks ago, that meant so much to matthew and i. there arent enough words to tell you how much i love you and will never forget that beautiful face! your are a one of a kind, may you rest in peace with my beloved neil, bob and family i am so sorry for your tremendous loss, i know what it feels like to loose someone you loved so much. god bless you all! love stephanie and matthew hamilton

November 7, 2009

We are so saddened about the death of Dr. Hayes. My sons have been seeing her for 9 years now and she was the brightest doctor and nicest person. We were very lucky to get to know a truly wonderful person. Our prayers are with her and all her loved ones. She will be missed. The Lockhead family; Kevin,Lori, Kevin,Michael,Kenny and John

Christine Bernstein

November 6, 2009

Dear Bob and family we are so very sorry to learn of the tremendous loss of your beloved Ailish. She was truly a gem. She was one of the most kind and compassionate individuals I've ever met. Ailish suffered so much.
"There is a place where family and friends gather to simply sit in silence, to hold each other and grieve.
Because really. What is there to say?"
She is at peace. She is at rest. She is truly and angel.
Christine Bernstein

November 6, 2009

Our family was just heartbroken to hear such sad news, she was such a wonderful person and will truly be missed. All our our thoughts and prayers go out to her friends and family.
With much love The Cammarata Family John, Karen Ella & Eva

Fiona & Derek Barry

November 6, 2009

Derek and Fiona are deeply saddened at the death of Ailish. We will retain fond memories of the great times spent with Annmarie and Ailish, in Marblehead, many years ago.

Fiona & Derek Barry

Melanie Caggiano

November 6, 2009

Dr.Hayes you were my favorite doctor. You always helped me when I was sick. You always took your time and was there when we needed you. We will really miss you.. Love you..

Lois Firicano

November 6, 2009

Sorry for the loss of Dr. Hayes. Years ago she was both of my daughters pediatrician...she was always kind. God Bless.

tom burr

November 6, 2009

Ailish, my condolences go out to your family and friends. You were an inspiring, beautiful woman. You will be missed.

Amy Comire

November 6, 2009

My family and I are deeply saddened by the tragic loss of Dr. Hayes. She has treated both of my children, and myself as well.
No matter how ill she was, she was constantly smiling, reassuring and saying "I am going to beat this , don't, don't worry about me!"
She has showed so much compassion - even making phone calls from home at night to check on the kids - that's an amazing doctor that are a rarity these days. She will be deeply missed and loved by our entire family.

Angelena Pepe

November 6, 2009

Dr. Hayes, thank you for all your years of terrific care. You will surely be missed. I will never find another doctor like you. Thank you for being my pediatrician and taking good care of me; I hope that God now takes care of you. Rest in peace. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Susan Candilieri

November 6, 2009

I am so sorry for the loss of Dr. Hayes. She was my Daughter and son's doctor. She will be missed very much. She was a very caring person. She had a heart of gold.

Catherine Bolduc

November 6, 2009

for AILISH HAYES
A TRUE SAINT
SHE GAVE OF HER HEART FREELY
HER ACTIONS WERE THOSE OF PURE ALTRUISM
SAVING SAVING SAVING
THE TINIEST SOULS
so they Could Live
AND BRING LOVE INTO OUR WORLD

I WILL NOT FORGET HER CALM VOICE
THE BRILLIANT AZUL OF HER EYES
AND THE TENACIOUS SPIRIT AS SHE WORKED FOR GOD HIMSELF

THANK GOD FOR HER RELEASE
BACK TO HER HOME
BACK TO GOD
WITHOUT PAIN
NOR SUFFERING

SHE SMILES UPON US
WITH HER GOLDEN GLOW
NOW SHE KNOWS
HOW MUCH WE ALL LOVE HER
BECAUSE NOW SHE CAN READ OUR HEARTS
SHE SEES US WITH THE ALL SEEING
EYE OF GOD
SO BLUE
LIKE HERS

WE WILL ALL MEET AGAIN SOON
FOR NOW
WE CARRY HER IN OUR HEARTS
AND HOLD THE SPACE WITHIN US
FOR THAT KIND OF COMPASSIONATE SOUL
TO BLOSSOM WITHIN US

A TRUE BODHISATTVA
ONE WHOM RISKS EVERYTHING -FOR ALL SENTIENT BEINGS
SHE IS AND WILL REMAIN......
AILISH
AILISH
AILISH


I LOVE YOU AILISH
SEE YOU SOON IN HEAVEN
I HOLD YOU DEAR
WITH ALL MY HEART


YOUR DAUGHTER IN HEART AND SPIRIT

CATHERINE BOLDUC

Nicole Welsh-Burke

November 6, 2009

Dr Hayes, we had the priviledge of knowing you as our daughter Mia's pediatrician for the first 18 months of her life as we then relocated. We always felt Mia was in the best possible hands with the care in which you provided. I know Mia was always afraid of going to the "doctors" but your warm smile and gentle ways made me feel less stressed and I am sure Mia did too. You will be missed by all whom you cared for, and for those who cared for you. Our thoughts and prayers go out to your loved ones. God Bless you Dr. Hayes.

Donna Lockard

November 6, 2009

To All of Dr Hayes family & Friends,

God definitely has another angel! I was so saddened to hear the news. Dr Hayes was such an amazing role model for my daughter who has had many issues with illness. She gave her confidence and made her feel so special always even when she felt her worst! I am so grateful to have met her and feel blessed to have been such a small part of her life. My daughter will continue to remain a better person for having her as her pediatrician for all these years. May she rest in peace and may God watch over all of her family.

Nancy Ferragamo

November 6, 2009

Dr Hayes
You will be dearly missed by our family most of all my son Brandon who you have cared for all of his life 13 years
You are very kind and great at what you do.
God Bless you and God Bless your Family

Lewis Holcroft

November 6, 2009

I meet Dr Ailish Hayes through my work with pediatricians. She was a great role model to her patients and peers. I shall miss her smile. My thoughts are with her immediate family and the practice staff whom she treated as family.

Jennifer

November 6, 2009

Thank you Dr Hayes for being a wonderful Dr. to me. You were there for me when I really needed care and I will never forget the help you have given me. May you Rest in Peace, my thoughts are with you and your family.

Michelle Jacoby

November 6, 2009

My dear Ailish,

It was such an honor and pleasure to have worked with you over these past eight years. You became more of a friend to me than a client...... I know how much you loved your beloved "Seascape". I feel blessed to have known you and I will miss you dearly.

Much love xxoo
Michelle Jacoby

Kelli McKenna

November 6, 2009

Dr Hayes you are an angel. My family will miss you more than anyone will ever know. For the past 13 yrs you have been a big part of our life. You were the Dr that no matter what, you were always there for my kids. Christopher told me he will never forget the best Dr he has ever had. From Christophers first visit with you the bond you two had was amazing. Thank you for everything. Rest in peace.
Love always
Tom, Kelli, Chris, Erich, and Rylie XOXO

November 6, 2009

Dr. Hayes my deepest condolences go out to your family. You were a very wonderful,strong woman. You were an excellent boss and it was a pleasure to work for you...you will be missed by all and we all LOVE YOU xoxo.. Amy R and all the girls at Revere-Winthrop Pediatrics

Maria Valles

November 6, 2009

There will never be one like you Ailish. You took such care of my little Iliana, and treated us like we were your family. You were such an inspiration to what a true warrior is. May you rest in God's arms, as we remember you in love.

SHIRLEY JOHNSON

November 6, 2009

DR.HAYES,YOU WILL BE SADLY MISSED,MY FAMILY THOUGHTS AND PRAYS ARE WITH BOB AND YOUR FAMILY,GOD BLESS AND REST IN PIECE.

Lisa Falzone-Bennett

November 6, 2009

My heart goes out to the family. Dr. Hayes was more than just my child's dr. My prayers are with you.

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