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Steve Waterman
January 30, 2011
It sounds like Dan had an incredible life..Many friends. I knew him since kindergarten...through High School.. Then lost track over the years as people do. My belated condolences to the family and friends
David Eisenklam
March 17, 2005
My last words to Dan were "Thanks for being my brother". He responded with great difficulty, "You Too" then he was finally able to rest. I am sorry Dan had to live his life with such difficulties. Despite everything Dan went through he always saw the good in life: Family, Friendship, Music, Humanity and Kindness. I thought, after some time, I could explain what 38 years with Dan has meant to me. A friend of mine explained how sometimes the best communication is not spoken. I feel this best describes my relationship with Dan. I hope I was there for him as he was always there for me. My children will know what a fine man Dan was and I'll try to instill in them his courage and integrity. Rest easy Dano. You meant everything to me!
I would like to thank those who helped out when the going got tough:
Bruce M., Joe Mag., Jim Zeg., John Zeg., John C., Joellen S., Bob & Cassie
What a great group!
Laura Wangsness Willemsen
March 1, 2005
I just recently found and re-read a beautiful letter Dan wrote me from Addis Ababa on the way home from his journey in East Africa. So many things struck me in his recounting of all he had experienced--his empathy and love for others, his kindness, his ability to honor and be awed by small things others miss, his unflappable humor in the face of adversity. There is a brightness to Dan that so many others have been touched by, have learned from. I remember receiving that letter now nearly four years ago and being amazed at how connected I felt to my cousin whom, at that point, I hadn't been able to spend much time with. I am so grateful for that abundant, beautiful brightness he shared and for having had the privilege of calling Dan my cousin. Asante sana, Dan.
Lisa Salz
February 14, 2005
Dear Eric and family,
We are greatly saddened by the loss of Dan. So young and so brave. We only met Dan once, but his out going personality got us right away.
As a very old family friend it grieves me that you are all suffering this pain
With much caring, love Lisa and Bert
Sean Meagher
February 8, 2005
To all the Eisenklams and all of Dans friends I send my deepest sympathy . The news of Dans passing was a shock to me up here in VT...I have distanced myself more than geographically from Westford for some time now. There has always been occassion to pause and reflect on those youthful days back in the center. getting into trouble in the orchards or chasing the dead as we grew older. Dan never failed to bring something magic to the table that made good times better and had an uncanny ability to see the good in any situation. Dans glass was always half full; never half empty. I'm listening to a show that we went to together and I am reminded that Dan was the self proclaimed Estimated Prophet...a moniker he lived up to everyday that I was ever with him. My memories are dear and held deeply in my soul. Dan was the kind of person that you meet that helps you to be a better person simply by the example of the life they live.
Just after I got the news of his passing, I was driving down the road(feeling bad) and then the music took a sudden turn...Suite: Judy Blue Eyes>Casey Jones>One Way out. I closed my eyes and thought I was in Ann's vette cruisin with my bro...peace and love to all
Marilyn Doolin
February 7, 2005
To the Eisenklam clan and their extended clan which will go on forever, we will all miss you so very much but will never forget:
Love is patient, Love is kind
It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails.
1Corinthians 12:13
This is the true picture of Dan as we all know him.
February 7, 2005
Joe Magdalenski
February 7, 2005
Dan's perseverance for self-improvement, his sense of adventure and willingness to take risks, his interest in new ideas and hobbies, his respect for social decorum, his pride in his work and his accomplishments, his kindness and inclusive towards others, his intellectual curiosity, his courage and compassionate nature, his love and loyalty of friends and family are a few of the fine qualities Dan possesed which continue to be a source of inspiration for me. I will cherish my many fond memories of Dan and our friendship. One can never forget Dan's gold medal smile and that incredibly infectious grin. I will miss him dearly and all the shared laughter with friends, and at friends, and at ourselves. I loved Dan's sense of humor and will always remember those 'Ned Flanders' impersonations.
- another life and heart Dan has deeply touched and whose spirit will live on in. Thank You Dan!
Peace and comfort to all Dan's family and friends.
Cassie Wangsness
February 7, 2005
I am privileged and blessed to have such wonderful memories of Dan- my cousin who I was lucky to reconnect with after years of uncrossed paths. I loved and admired Dan's gift of connecting with people and his ability to leave others with something meaningful to think and smile about. His thoughtfulness touched my life, and he is truly going to be missed. My love and thoughts are with his family.
Bob Wangsness
February 6, 2005
My daughter, Cassie, and I were fortunate enough to visit Dan last month. As many of you know, Dan had begun working towards a teaching degree. He would have made an excellent teacher. His deep compassion, gentleness, and wisdom inspired all who knew him, and he taught me a lot, particularly the lessons of dignity and courage these last months of his life. His sense of humor was evident up to the last day of his life and would have been an essential asset in the classroom. Most importantly, he loved children and could really relate to them. Thank you, Dan, for all you have given us.
Kelley Gallo
February 6, 2005
I was deeply saddened to hear of Dan's passing. I attended middle school and high school with the Eisenklam clan and have fond memories of Dan as a sweet and gentle young man. My heart and prayers go out to Dan's family. Stay strong....
Love,
Kelley, Coel and Shea Gallo/Kolegue
Joellen
February 5, 2005
The beauty of a well-lived life never dies..it continues to embrace and inspire us. May you find comfort in your loving memories.
To the Eisenklam Family and all of Dan's great friends, though his life may have been too short, it was far better than some, for he had love from all of you.
Rest in peace Dan
Kathy (Bain) Farrell
February 5, 2005
Dear Dave(Klam) & Family-
So sorry to hear of the passing of your brother. May it comfort you to know that many people are thinking of you and your family.
Kathy (BAINA) Farrell
An Old Summer Newport Friend
Chris Bentley
February 5, 2005
To everyone who attended the "Celebration of Dan's Life" and/or signed this guest book, Thank You. Your love for Dan and the stories you have shared with us have helped us immensely.
Lala salama Dan.
Bonnie Stanton
February 5, 2005
Dave, Sarah, Ellie, Abby, & Jon:
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Unfortunately, we did not know Dan well, as we had only met a couple of times. However, after reading all of these wonderful messages from those who did know him, I truly wished that we had. I know he will be missed by all of you. May fond memories of Dan help you to get through this difficult time.
Bonnie, Dave, Jay & Jennifer
Kristin Fortin (French)
February 5, 2005
I send my deepest sympathies to all who knew Dan for we all know what a loss this is.. I know Dan has found peace...
Daniel Eisenklam
Steve Bentley
February 4, 2005
Dan and Dave, you are the brothers I never had, and I could not have been luckier to become part of your family. I have lost a friend and an inspiration.
Keith and Janice Perry
February 4, 2005
What a sad day it was to learn such a great guy had passed. I'll always remember our trip to Arizona with Dan and Rick, Jorge and Dave Sierra. He HAD to see everything. I hadn't seen Dan in a few years and was sad to learn of his passing. God bless you Dan
Byron & Ellen Roseman
February 4, 2005
His life was short, but like art, Dan will live
on in the hearts and minds of so many he
touched
Douglas Webster
February 4, 2005
You always kept me smiling at work. You were a great boss, but an ever better friend. Your strength was/is inspirational and I can only hope to achieve that level of personal strength. I will miss you dearly Dan. I know your not paying me to sit around.
Jeff Johnston
February 4, 2005
I have been fortunate to know Dan and the Eisenklam clan since I was four years old. Mrs. 'E' and 'Chief' created a virtual Disney land for the kids who showed up to their home. The early days included a kennel full of dogs, the latest stray animal that was being nursed back to health, the famous homemade puppets, Chinese food from the Tiki and Scott Joplin music playing throughout the house. The later years included night basketball games, house parties with three classes from WA, the Bob Seger concert in the back of the brown van and still more chinese food from Tiki.
Dan's passing has brought back many fond memories of the generosity and kindness that he and the entire Eisneklam family has shown me and so many others. I will miss Dan and his signature grin. My warmest sympathies go out to the entire Eisenklam family, Mr P and Bonnie.
Dave and Sarah your are inspirational, I am proud to call you my friends.
Brenda Duggan(Brundrette
February 4, 2005
I myself hadn't seen Dan in over 25 years,what a nice little boy he was when I knew him. After his celebration of life which I thought was the nicest Final GOODBYE ceremony I have ever attended, I know what a fine man he turned out to be.I wanted to be there to give a great big hug and say I am sorry for the loss of a great man.
Chip,Kirk, Bruce, Joe Mags, John Zeg, Marea, Kelly and all Dans closest friends he was very lucky to have you and You were very fortunate to be loved by him.
Hopefully in time. Instead of feeling sadness when you think of Dan Eisenklam,You'll feel privileged and blessed that you knew him.THEY say at the end of ONES life if you can count on one hand the amount of good friends you have left your lucky. From what I saw in that room last night Dan would have needed 100 pair of hands.
Mr Eisnklam, Mrs. Eisenklam, Chris, Andrea, David, Stepmom, Stepdad and everyone else who played apart in raising that fine young man. You did a wonderful job. God bless you all. Dan will live on forever in your hearts and every other heart that he touched.
God Bless you Dan..........
Matt Welper
February 4, 2005
Dan was a very special man. He was the most accepting man I have ever meet.
He Was also a very strong man so strong that it Made me a a stronger person I wanna thank him for being such a good impact on my Life.
I will never forget you Dan!
Lisa Ladd (Isabelle)
February 4, 2005
My deepest sympathy goes out to everyone who knew Dan at this very sad time. Those who bloom in the hearts of others never fade away. May you all find comfort and strength in your memories of Dan.
Courtney Brennen
February 3, 2005
Hearing of Dan's passing has brought back so many memories. He gave me a Miles Davis CD on my 22nd birthday and inspired my love for Jazz music. He would always pick up the telephone at 1:00AM on my way home from the bars and invite me in for that one last cocktail. We played cribbage and he would pretend not to notice when I cheated. He would meet me at the Tikki and laugh while I sang Kareoke. He read to me one rain stormy night when we lost power. He showed me all the pictures of his adventures in Africa. He taught me about the history of baseball. I helped him paint his kitchen yellow. He seemed to always know when I could use a few extra bucks in those days and would ask if I could clean his apartment. I brought him over thirty balloons for one of his birthdays and they filled his apartment. He encouraged me to pursue my educational goals in social work. He inspired me to be a better person. I've always held a special place in my heart for Dan. He will never be forgotten.
Bill Anderson
February 3, 2005
Good bye, Dan my friend.
I will miss your friendship and rapier wit.
Patty and Jorge Sierra
February 3, 2005
When I think of Dan, I think of many great times we shared together as a group. Halloween parties, New Years Eve parties, Volleyball games, and just hanging out having fun. We love you and you will be missed. You will stay in our hearts forever...
Matt Bennett
February 3, 2005
Dan was a joy to be around, he always made laugh and smile. Though he will be greatly missed I know he is in heaven watching over all who knew him.
Kathryn Kelleher
February 3, 2005
Dear Carol and family, My thoughts and prayers are with you in this sad time. I can only imagine what a loss Dan will be for your family and hope that God gives you the strength to live each day with happy memories of the life you all shared.
Stacey Hanson
February 3, 2005
I am truly blessed to have had Dan as my friend. I have nothing but fond and happy memories of him because he was someone who always made people happy.
I will miss you my dear friend and when I think of you I will remember how you touched my life and I will smile.
Caroline Kavanagh
February 3, 2005
My heart goes out to all of Dan's family and friends. I have fond memories of growing up in Westford and the Eisenklam family being a large part of those wonderful times. Dan, the house on the hill on Main Street, and all of the love and laughter will not be forgotten.
Suzanne Kavanagh
February 3, 2005
Growing up, my family mingled with the Eisenklams quite a bit (Chris E. being my sister's best friend and all). It didn't take much mingling for me to know that Dan was someone of real strength - I loved his warmth and gentleness.
"There is nothing so strong as gentleness, and nothing so gentle as real strength."
Herein, lies my cherished memory of Dan. I extend my loving thoughts and prayers to Dan's family and friends.
Mary Poulter
February 3, 2005
As Dan's piano teacher, I remember his little fingers learning to find their place. When he was in college, we would often cross paths in the library and share philosophy. When he helped me move from my home of over 30 years, he was so helpful and kind. The last few sentences of Somerset Maugham's "Salvatore" describe Dan best." All I know is that it shone in him with a radiance that, if it had not been so unconscious and so humble, would have been to the common run of men hardly bearable. . . . the quality was, I will tell you. Goodness, just goodness." My prayers are with you as you separate for a while from such a fine man.
Lori Isabelle/Nigl
February 3, 2005
I would like to extend my heartfelt sympathy to your family. My prayers and thoughts are with you. Your loss is truely a loss to all who have known him.
John Collins
February 3, 2005
I was over recently to visit Dan, and he got up quickly and started to walk before his legs could catch up with him. He started to fall, and I caught him. When I saw him later, he told me that the fall was like our friendship. We were there for each other when we were down; we were there to catch each other when we fell. Dan had caught many people over the years.
He was always there for me when I needed him. It was a privilege to call Dan my friend. Now that he is gone, I have lost a major source of inspiration. But with help from friends and family, I will get by.
I wanted to thank Dan’s family for being there for him and me. I have always considered them my extended family and love them all.
I am going to miss Dan. But I know when I fall for the last time, he will be there to catch me once again. Till we meet again my long time friend.
Maile Moore
February 2, 2005
I was saddened to hear of Danny's passing. I will always remember Danny as a fun loving soul. He always made people around him laugh. My deepest sympathy & condolences go out to his family, godbless you all.
Patrick Sullivan
February 2, 2005
Dear Eisenklam family, you have my deepest sympathy. Clearly, Dan's brief time here was of very high quality as he made a lasting positive effect on so many people. Dan "The Man", his memory and spirit, will never be forgotten by those who had the pleasure to meet his touch. Dave, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers-- Moo Goo
Paula, Chris, Lily and Ruby Kondos
February 2, 2005
Dan, We know you will be sadly missed but thoughts of you will always bring a big smile. You were always so good to the girls when you saw them. Our warmest thoughts are sent to you and your family. With all our love.
The Kondos Family
Bob Prestidge
February 2, 2005
Many great memories of Dan and of alot of Red Sox talk. My fondest memory is probably one Christmas way back when at the Forge Village apartment when, after feeding our faces, Dan and I found ourselves trapped on the couch by mounds of wrapping paper, empty boxes, gifts, etc. We couldn't move so...we laughed like heck and had someone bring us a beer!
Seems like most experiences with Dan involved alot of laughter, I'm proud to say. We'll miss you and I'm glad your faith was rewarded.
Allison smith
February 2, 2005
When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure. We will all treasure the many years of his friendship. Dan, we all love you and will miss you dearly.
Sandy Koller
February 2, 2005
So sorry about your loss, our thoughts are with you at this time.
Sandy, Brian & Hilda
kelley shields
February 2, 2005
Dan was the best, and i will miss him forever..
Marea Crocker Joncas
February 2, 2005
I feel so blessed and honored to call Dan one of my dearest friends, he made the world a better place and always made you feel at peace.My deepest sympathy & condolences go out to his wonderful family, godbless you all.
I'll miss you and your charms and most of all-that great big smile!
here's to you Dan!
love, Marea, Jimmy and Jackie.
Eric Lautenschlager
February 2, 2005
I'll miss you my brother.
Selemani Kiure
February 2, 2005
Please accept our deepest sympathy. Dan will be terribly missed. We were all looking forward to see him in Tanzania again one day but it is clear that the Almight God had his plans for him. We will meet again one day.
May God bless you and your family. [All your friends in Tanzania]
Jennifer Bouley
February 2, 2005
"Tenderness and Kindness are not signs of weakness, but manifestations of stregth and resolution"-- Kahil Gibran
Dan was so strong and true and brave. Even though we hadn't seen much of each other over these last few years, his death has taken some of the magic and light out of this world for me. I will miss him dearly, and remember him always with love.
Peter Berroth
February 1, 2005
Dan, always the humanitarian and will be fondly missed by all.
Eileen Chaffee-Barrett
February 1, 2005
I was saddened to hear of Danny's passing. I will forever have fond memories of our family gatherings up at your house on Main Street - lots of fun, puppies, music and especially dancing to Danny's favorite song, "Rain Drops Keep Falling on My Head!"
Joanne Masson
February 1, 2005
Dr. Eisenklam, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your son. My girls were patients of yours when they were young and I cant imagine how I would feel if I lost one of them. My heart is with you. God Bless
Joanne Masson
Joseph Boutin
February 1, 2005
We are saddened by the loss of a great man. We send our condolences and sympathy to his family.
Carole and Ray Blair
February 1, 2005
We send our deepest, heartfelt sympathy to Dan's family and friends. He was a kind, brave, sweet, and caring soul. Loving memories of him will live on in the hearts of all whom he touched. Rest in peace, Dan, your earthly work is now done.
Mary Poplin
February 1, 2005
Dan was a much loved son, brother and friend. I am a friend of his mother and knew of his courage and strength through the final days of his illness and the love and caring of his family who was by his side to love and enjoy their time together. A beautiful family and a great loss. My thoughts are with all of you. I believe with all my heart that Dan is now having a wonderful trip and a happy landing
God Bless,
Mary Poplin
Jaffrey, NH
Frank Moore
February 1, 2005
I salute you and thank you for your life.
Robin Callery
February 1, 2005
We were so sad to hear of Dan's passing. We've enjoyed the times we were able to get together with your family. Dan was a funny, lovely man who'll be deeply missed. Please know our prays are with you during this difficult time and always.
Love
Dan, Robin, Colby and Riley Callery
John Prestidge
February 1, 2005
My thoughts on Dan;
Fine young man, courageous, hard working, kind, fun to be around, loving, good cribbage player (I taught him), very decent, always concerned about others, especially those oppressed or victims of anything undesirable,
I even like his dog Atticus!
Loved him like a son!
See ya later Dan,
Mr. P
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