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Edward Greene
March 11, 2025
I am sorry to hear of his passing. I knew Mr. Smoyer while I was at Swarthmore College in the 80's, and he was the Athletic Director.
Ivars bemberis D65
August 31, 2024
I rejoice in the common memories of Dartmouth and watching David in the goal.
Robert Segal
July 1, 2024
He was one of a kind
David Beecher
June 22, 2024
Mary and the entire Smoyer family,
I met David in 1998 when I became Headmaster of Hillside school. For the next 17 years David was a friend, supporter, and mentor. No member of our board of trustees was more involved or more valuable to our growth and success than David. Both of us had worked in the athletic department at one time and we shared that and other commonalities. But what I appreciated most of David was his incredible sense of humor and deep devotion to those in need. When my own wife, Carrie, developed dementia in her 40s David was incredibly supportive of me. I wish I could´ve been more supportive of him during his time of need. I will be forever grateful for his friendship.
David Beecher, Madison CT
Jonnie Rose Clark
June 21, 2024
Please accept my, condolences in the loss of such an unforgettable man, David.
I´ve known David almost all of my life. When I was a child, I didn´t quite get him. David would always come to the beach with all the kids. David being the avid swimmer, and I a not so good swimmer, was afraid to swim to the dock at Pine Point. David, determined and I horrified, encouraged me to swim all the way to the dock . It was so hard for me and I was upset but at the end of the day I was proud to say I did it! I did it because David believed I could. As I grew older I came to understand what a deeply caring man he was. When David would say to me "now Jonnie Rose tell me about this or that" I knew Mary kept him up to speed and he knew about my life and genuinely cared. He was always so happy to see me. I will miss you David Smoyer! See you on the other side!
Love Jonnie Rose
Charles Smoyer
June 10, 2024
So sorry to hear of Dave's passing. He had a great sense of humor and I always enjoyed talking with him either by phone or in person. I'm very glad I got to see him and Mary in Portland several times while they were visiting their daughter Laura and her family. He will be missed.
Cousin Charles Smoyer
Stephen Kane
June 10, 2024
My condolences to the Smoyer Family.
Dave was my soccer coach at Roxbury Latin for 3 years. I made the team his first year at RL when I was in the third class (sophomore to the rest of the world). He was a great coach (although the teams were below .500); but more importantly a mentor both on the field & in the RL halls.
He continued to have advice for me whenever I ran into him (often at some game & the most recently at Mass Historical Society for a talk on the 100th anniversary of Babe Ruth's sale to the Yankees.)
I will miss him and miss looking for him at Sox games and Columbia games. I will think of him every time I pass Jamaica Pond.
He was a great & kind man.
Mike Giarla and Ellen Michelson
June 9, 2024
Dear Mary and the entire Smoyer family,
Ellen and I were so very sorry to hear of the loss of Dave. He was a great friend to us and to me, especially. I knew Dave for about 50 years - dating back to my years as a student at Roxbury Latin when he first arrived at the school. Dave was a great role model - smart, athletic, competitive and idealistic, he cared about us and pushed us to be our best.
He was about the most direct person I have ever known - you always knew where you stood with Dave. As an adolescent it took me a while to understand this - but as our friendship grew into my adulthood, I realized just how wonderful a friend Dave was. He was the type of person you absolutely need as a friend - someone who tells you what you need to hear, not what you want to hear. Whenever he wanted to emphasize a point or make sure I was firmly grounded in reality, Dave would address me by my last name with an unmistakably loud voice "... Giarla ... ! he would begin." Dave always had my back and he had my best interest at heart. His encouragement and his challenges to me all came from a loving and caring place.
I really enjoyed working closely with Dave when I chaired the Roxbury Latin Annual Fund in the early 90s and we enjoyed a nice partnership. During that time, Dave and Mary shared their house with Ellen and me on a number of occasions. Upon staying with them, we discovered early one cold autumn morning that, no matter the temperature, Dave didn´t turn the heat on until some unspecified (later) date in October!
Dave and I shared a love for baseball and the RedSox. I attended 49 games in 1971 when I was 13 years old, mostly by myself, and spent an average of about $2 a ticket. Always the competitor, not to be outdone, it seems that Dave´s per game price in 2004 was far less than what I paid in 1974 after adjusting for just about any factor ... the CPI, the increase in face value of tickets or (and especially) the resale/market value of RedSox tickets.
He and I also enjoyed biking in and around Boston (although we never did this together) and I believe we were the only two people brave (or crazy) enough to bike on the Jamaicaway. If I am wrong and he chose not to, that provides definitive proof that Dave was, indeed, smarter than me!
Dave, when you go for a bike ride with Bill Walton, please give the big redhead my regards.
Rest in peace, dear friend.
m bear
June 8, 2024
I have many fond memories of Mr. Smoyer. He was my coach and advisor at Roxbury Latin. My thoughts and prayers are with the Smoyer family.
Kamar Hewitt
June 6, 2024
My deepest and sincere condolences to the Smoyer family, beloved student of the Smoyer family
Jim and Nina talbot
June 5, 2024
Dave was a tenacious athlete and intense competitor.He was also a wonderful friend and we will miss his spirit and enthusiasm for life.
Jim and Nina Talbot
Ellen Grady-Sessa
June 4, 2024
David knew how to have a great conversation and he knew how to enjoy life. I remember talking to him about the trips he had taken, especially those with his grandchildren, and about the minutiae of my life. He asked lots of questions and really engaged. Such fond memories. David also had a wonderful, welcoming smile. I´m so glad to have known him. Peace and love to the whole Smoyer family
Jon Burr
June 4, 2024
Good Bye to my planting Island swimming partner.
Rest in Peace David.
Jon Burr
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