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JOHN F. MCCARTHY SFC US ARMY

JOHN F. MCCARTHY SFC US ARMY obituary, Norwood, MA

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JOHN MCCARTHY Obituary

McCARTHY, John F. SFC US Army Of Dover, formerly of Stoughton, age 54, May 5, 2019. Husband of Lori J. (Smith) McCarthy of Dover, formerly of Needham. Father of Johnathan McCarthy of IL and Elizabeth McCarthy-Beyer of Middleboro. Stepfather of Meghan Hall and Rachel Hall both of Dover. Son of John F. McCarthy of CA and the late Mary H. (Wickenhiser) McKenzie. Stepson of Helen McCarthy of CA. Brother of Lisa Black and Timothy McCarthy both of Stoughton, Mary Ojala of Middleboro, Anne Carberry of Milton, Thomas McCarthy of East Bridgewater, and Caroline Mitchell of Rowley. Stepbrother of Julie King of CA. Also survived by many loving nieces and nephews. Funeral Service will be offered from the Farley Funeral Home, 358 Park St. (Rte. 27), STOUGHTON, on Tuesday, May 14, at 11 AM, followed by interment at Sharon Memorial Park. Visiting Hours Monday, from 4-7 PM. Shiva will take place at Ilisa Clark's home, 60 Linden St., Wellesley, on Wednesday, from 5-8 PM. In lieu of flowers, donations in John's memory may be made to the Wounded Warrior Project, PO Box 758517, Topeka, KS 66675-8517. Obituary and directions at www.farleyfh.com Farley Funeral Home (781)344-2676

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Published by Boston Globe from May 8 to May 10, 2019.

Memories and Condolences
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Mary Tavarez

April 29, 2022

John is DEARLY MISSED
HIS SMILE
.HIS GENEROSITY. AND HIS LOVE OF FAMILY
FLY HIGH MY FRIEND.

Dee Nonnemacher

July 20, 2019

Condolences to the family... Fond memories shared... Rest at ease soldier...

David Larson

May 20, 2019

So sorry for the loss of John, I was stationed with John in Germany. What a great man and person. My prayers are with John's family and friends.

Matthew Lombardi

May 16, 2019

My condolences to the family of John. I'm a former Marine who worked with John. He was a great man who talked often of his family. I wear a heavy heart today.

Laura Lida

May 15, 2019

"Never throughout history has a man who lived a life of ease left a name worth remembering" , Rest In Peace SFC John A. McCarthy

Michelle Hamilton

May 14, 2019

We at Rolling Thunder Ma Ch 2 are so sorry for your lost. Rest in peace brother.

Taylor Medeiros

May 13, 2019

My deepest condolences to his family for such a heartbreaking loss. I was fortunate enough to meet John when he first began working as a case manager, and consider myself lucky to have trained him, met him and worked with him. His helicopter collection and stories, his dedication to our clients and our country and his willingness to help out are things I will never forget. I admired him, especially when running the tough ruck! You will be missed. Thoughts and prayers to your family. Rest in peace

Eric Buss

May 13, 2019

Though I was only privileged to know John while serving with him in Afghanistan, every memory of him is a good one. He would greet us on the flight line with a smile and a hug. I'm proud to say I knew John and served with him.
May his memories be a blessing to everyone, and his life celebrated that we knew him. My thoughts and prayers are with all his family and friends in this difficult time.

Todd Sharek

May 13, 2019

John, you really were a shining star as someone just posted of you. You were kind, giving and you helped a boatload of people, including me. You literally and figuratively leave us big shoes to fill. Love ya, man. Todd S

Aileen Greifelt

May 13, 2019

Deepest sympathy for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with all of his family.

Stella Bazidane

May 13, 2019

Heartbroken to hear of John's passing. I worked with John in the Malden office and sat across from him. He was so kind and always had wonderful things to say about his family and his time spent fighting for our country. Prayers to your loving family. Fly high and God bless.

Nichelle Tarver

May 13, 2019

I am heartbroken to know that you are no longer with us. You were a wonderful person with a great
spirit and always smiling. Working with you at Newmarket was a pleasure. Sending up prayers for
your family may you continue to smile down on them and look after them and may God ease their pain

Mark Davis

May 13, 2019

Until we meet again brother in that sand box in the sky.

Cynthia DeSilva

May 13, 2019

My deep condolences to your lost, I pray for your family. Your joy will surely return, and John will continue to watch over you, for he is a watchman. God Blessings.

Noel Melendez

May 13, 2019

At this time, I cannot express enough, the meaning of loss that your DTA family is experiencing. You are gone way too soon, and your kind, compassionate, and positive demeanor that all of those who knew you will have a void that cannot be filled. The friendship that you shared with us will be sorely missed. RIP brother! May God bless your family during this most difficult time. Noel Melendez, co-worker and friend Webster, MA

Kate Callahan

May 11, 2019

It is with great sorrow that I write this; I am so sorry for your loss
He was truly a great man, Son, Brother, Dad, and Friend. My deepest sympathy to your family

Christine Bradney

May 10, 2019

Condolences to the McCarthy family and friends. I will miss the small chats I had with him. Always gave him a hug when he came back to DTA office. He has a wonderful cheerful personality that the DTA will miss. R.I.P
JOHN

Tammy Burns

May 10, 2019

My deepest sympathy to John's family. I worked in Dudley Square when John was with ISA and he was a wonderful man. Very dedicated to his country and his job. He will be missed.

Carlos D. Resto

May 10, 2019

I had the pleasure of working alongside John at the New Market Square Office. It was an honor to work alongside a true hero. John had a special talent of being able to make anyone around him feel at ease. He will be truly missed by his co-workers and the many individuals and families he assisted throughout the years. My deepest condolences to his family and dearest friends.

PattiAnn King

May 10, 2019

My deepest sympathy to John's family and friends during this time. My prayers and thoughts and with you all.

Sean Flynn

May 10, 2019

I'm heartbroken hearing this news. I worked with John in Boston at the Newmarket Sq. office. He was an uncommonly kind and considerate friend. He knew how to laugh and he knew when to listen. John was the kind of person you would search out on a Monday morning so you could tell him about your weekend. I'm sorry to have not been better about keeping in touch over the years. He will be missed.

AJ Clark

May 10, 2019

My Condolences to John's family. He was a kind gentleman and will be missed.

Jennifer Barthelemy

May 10, 2019

Truly at a loss for words in hearing of John's passing. I worked with him in the Malden office and recall many wonderful conversations with him, especially about his family and his time bravely serving our country. He always had a smile on his face. You will truly be missed John.

Mary Tavarez

May 10, 2019

My deepest sympathy to John's family. He was and always be a bright shiny star. Mary Tavarez. Part of his DTA family

Lina Yoffe

May 9, 2019

We were coworkers of John. Words cannot express our sorrow. The office will not be the same without Him.
John will be missed.

Channel Baez

May 9, 2019

Words cannot describe the inexpressible sadness which I know I and many others feel. John was a truly phenomenal man who exemplified nothing short of honor, respect, integrity and kindness. I am truly appreciative to not have only had the opportunity to call him my co-worker but also a friend. Some people come into our lives if only for a short season but have such a profound impact on our hearts and souls. John was that person for me. My heart and condolences go out to his family and friends and all who mourn the loss of his beloved spirit. He will be forever missed until we meet again in paradise. Rest in peaceful bliss my beautiful friend.

Brenda Walsh

May 9, 2019

So sorry to hear of John's passing. I will always remember our little chats when John would visit my office. He always had a smile and always wanted to do whatever he could to help out any Soldier. God Bless, RIP. My prayers are with everyone during this difficult time.

David Joyce

May 9, 2019

Sorry for your loss, I have a lot of great childhood memories of us together.It meant a lot to me that he made an effort to visit whenever I was in town.

Vanessa

May 9, 2019

The office is always a happier place when John is there, always with a huge smile, the best hugs and friendliest of hellos. I always looked forward to the next welcome back upon his many returns from selflessly serving our country. It is with a heavy, heavy heart finding out today that this time, our shining light is not coming back to us. John, to say you will be missed is a gross understatement, but I don't have the right words to express otherwise. To John's family, I offer my deepest and sincerest sympathies. May you always feel his hugs give you strength during this most difficult time and always. ❤

John Quattrucci

May 9, 2019

So sorry for your loss. Far too young. He was an amazing guy who served his country proudly. Rest In Peace.

Glennis Barrera

May 9, 2019

My most sincere and heartfelt condolences to the McCarthy family and friends. John was an amazing person and a joy to work with. He will be greatly missed. Forever thankful for John's giving, kind, joyful and unselfish spirit. RIP my friend.

Shawn Croke

May 9, 2019

We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Jo-Ann

May 9, 2019

John was such an amazing, kind, caring, and funny guy. He is going to be missed. Used to love having our little chats at work. He always made everyone's day a little brighter.. God speed my friend.

Karen Moore

May 9, 2019

John, I was Blessed to have you as a Co-Worker at the Framingham DTA office - Your presence will be deeply missed and heartfelt...your Friend & Co-Worker, K. Moore

Jim Lofflere

May 9, 2019

Very sorry to hear about this. I served with John in the National Guard.

Kathleen Shea Ambrefe AMBREFE

May 9, 2019

John was such an amazing guy! He always had a smile and greeted people with such warmth. RIP John - you will be truly missed!

Heather McCarthy

May 8, 2019

I am so sorry to all of the McCarthy family for your loss of your wonderful, vibrant brother. The world has lost a bright and shining light. It is truly a sad day for us all. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Dee Nonnemacher

May 8, 2019

Rest in peace... My condolences to the family..

Buddy & Bobbi Gibson

May 8, 2019

Our hearts are broken for your loss. We have known John for 50 years and so proud of the man he became. He overcame some obstacles which made him even stronger and more compassionate. John was a kind, strong man with a wonderful sense of humor. We will miss him terribly along with his family and friends. God Bless and Rest In Peace.

Sue Bradbury

May 8, 2019

John was a good man, and a true patriot. My deepest condolences to all who loved him.

May 8, 2019

Lori, Meghan, Rachel and the McCarthy family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers and heartfelt condolences go out to all.
- Kim, Mark & Tommy Saulnier

Jimmy McCarthy

May 8, 2019

Forever in our hearts and minds. Love Jimmy & Sandy McCarthy

Ann Marie McCarthy

May 8, 2019

I am blessed & lucky to have been your cousin. Thank you for your love & generous spirit.

Evelyn Clairmont

May 8, 2019

My heart is broken to hear of John's passing. He was such a funny, crazy, high spirited guy. I'm so very happy he found the love of his life, followed his dreams in the military and enjoyed his full but short life. He will be sadly missed by all of us who was fortunate to know him and was family or friend. To all of the family, my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love,
Aunt Evey

Donna Hopkins

May 8, 2019

I am so sorry for your loss. My heart is heavy. The little boy I knew grew into an amazing man. He will live in you always. May he rest in the sweetest peace

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358 Park Street, Stoughton, MA 02072

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