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RICHARD J. DENNIS Sr.

1925 - 2021

RICHARD J. DENNIS Sr. obituary, 1925-2021, Boston, MA

BORN

1925

DIED

2021

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West Roxbury, Massachusetts

RICHARD DENNIS Obituary

DENNIS, Richard J. Sr. A Life Well Lived Dennis, Richard J., Sr. of Boston, Newton and Scituate. With his two eldest daughters at his bedside, holding his hands, Richard James Dennis, Sr. peacefully passed away on January 12, 2021 from advanced age after having lived a very full life. Predeceased (in 2018) by his beloved wife Clare (nee Hailer), he is the loving father of Baby Boy Dennis ('50), Leslie A. Dennis of Quincy, Janet H. Dennis of Hingham, Richard J. Dennis, Jr. and his wife Linda of Canaan, VT, Mark H. Dennis and his husband Lawrence D. Keane of Arlington and Clare H. Dennis-Gregory and her partner Michael Williams of South Carolina. His grandson, Richard James Dennis, III brought him an immense sense of pride and 21 years of pure joy. Dick was born on June 21, 1925 in Mattapan of Gertrude M. Casey and George E. Dennis of South Boston. His father's death at 33 years of age resulted in Dick and his late brother George having their maternal uncle, Richard L. Casey as a surrogate father who, as Dick insisted must be said, was a most wonderful, devoted, loving and steadfast "father." His childhood was spent in close company with his aunt and uncle Webster and Eleanor Howard whose progeny were as sisters (6!) and brother to him, and who were a lifelong source of love. In 1937 Dick's mother, a widow, married James Michael Curley, a widower, four times Mayor of Boston, Governor of Massachusetts and two term congressman, thereby becoming JMC's stepson. Dick was gratified to be able, when asked, to represent his intimate experience of "The Governor" and of his fine character which was a balance to the hyperbole surrounding James Michael's charismatic and history-making political life. Dick's move to the Curley house on the Jamaicaway in Jamaica Plain, with summers in North Scituate, "between the lights" saw the establishment of friendships that lasted and thrived for the rest of his life and continue today, as his children's own circle of friends is heavily populated by the children, grand and great-grandchildren of those enduring friendships. Dick was a proud veteran of World War II, he served three years in the Army Signal Corps with some time spent overseas in the South Pacific/Guam. His lifetime career, from 1946 on, was centered in the family Real Estate firm of CASEY & DENNIS in Boston established by his grandfather in 1895. He pursued a specialized practice in appraising for more than 50 years, collaborating with colleagues he considered to be of the highest caliber. He was active in and held leadership positions in the Appraisal Institute and the Massachusetts Board of Real Estate Appraisers. Dick was a teacher, lecturer and industry representative and sat on the City of Boston's Zoning Board of Appeal for 30 years, 16 as Chairman. He proudly served during the terms of three Mayors - Kevin White, Raymond Flynn and Thomas Menino. An avid Bostonian, Dick's various business offices overlooked the Old Granary burying ground on Beacon Hill from 1946. He cut a fine figure in that neighborhood and could be seen on summer days in a seersucker suit and boater hat. A tree was planted in his name by his children, on the Boston Common, on the occasion of his 65th birthday in 1990. Dick would not want to miss listing his various associations with The Family Tree Garden Center in West Roxbury, and his Footlight, Clover, Windsor, Brae Burn, Hatherly and (sometimes) Union club memberships. Born without one shy bone in his body and endowed with his mother's gifts for all things musical, Dick spent a good portion of his life celebrating it in fellowship and song around a piano. Dick marvelled at his good fortune, congratulating himself for his own determination in wooing and winning his beautiful bride Clare, always appreciative for her loving devotion and spirited push-back. Dick never faltered in his commitment to be the spiritual head of his family, all the while showing unconditional love for his children whose divergent paths and strong personalities would have tested the strongest of patriarchs. His children pledge to continue to share his loving legacy. While current conditions necessitate that the Services be private, rest assured that there will be a celebration worthy of his memory when the masks can be off! www.lawlerfuneralhome.com Lawler & Crosby Funeral Home 617-323-5600

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Published by Boston Globe from Jan. 15 to Jan. 17, 2021.

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Tricia Berlo

January 16, 2021

So very sad to learn of Mr. Dennis' passing! The charm, the grace, the kindness, the respect and the love that emanated from both he and his beloved Clare was felt by all who met him (them)! Like so many, I was fortunate to witness valuable life lessons simply by being in his company. I am beyond grateful to have known him and by extension all of you! He was so proud of his family and was always overjoyed to be surrounded by you and show you off! My deepest sympathies to the entire Dennis family. I pray you find comfort knowing he is reunited with his beautiful bride, and I know you will find great comfort in each other and in the wonderful memories you share! May he rest in peace in the arms of the Lord! God bless you all. In loving kindness, Tricia

John McDonough

January 16, 2021

I remember being a young pup state rep in the 1980s and having to appear before the Zoning Board of Appeals on behalf of interested neighborhood residents and many cases. And I got to watch him in action relating to so many points of view on so many cases. He was always kind and generous, thoughtful and articulate. He and my mother knew each other well from the house on the Arborway over many years. He usually had a wink and a smile for me, even when we did not agree. A great and special man, and a real loss. Condolences to his fine family.

Kenneth Freed

January 16, 2021

I send my deepest sympathy to Dick's widespread family. I took several appraisal courses from him. He was a superb teacher and delightful man. Although I didn't persue a career as an appraiser I had many interactions with him in the course of my career in the real estate business. I always looked forward to seeing him.

Gerry McDonough

January 16, 2021

My mother, Helen McDonough, loved Dick like a brother, and I had the privilege of working with Dick later on when he worked as a real estate appraiser expert witness. A wonderful man with an amazing life. His memory will be a blessing.

Jennifer Schmidt

January 16, 2021

In the key of C!
My amazing, smart, absolutely hilarious cousin—I am so lucky to have known you. Your huge bear hugs and love for all things family were infectious. My grandmother Barbara loved you as much as you loved her, and knowing she was there to greet you, her cherished cousin, makes me smile. Oh the reunion!
To my wonderful Dennis cousins, I wish COVID was not keeping us apart. My deepest sympathies cannot be shown in person but please know how much I love each of you.
Jennifer (daughter of Jay, granddaughter of Barbara)

mark joseph macmillan

January 16, 2021

Richard was a teacher at one of my appraisal courses. He was alwalys available for questions. He was a friend of my Mother, Margaret MacMillan in real estate. Rest in peace Richard
Mark J MacMillan

John Comerford

January 16, 2021

Dear Leslie,

I am so sorry to read of your Father's passing. He was a wonderful guy whom I had the pleasure of working closely with while I was in Boston over 45 years ago. He had a reputation as the best and most professional appraiser in the Boston area. I had occasion to call on him for some valuation advice years later and he was incredibly helpful. My thoughts and prayers go out to your Dad and the Dennis family.

Kevin McNeil

January 15, 2021

I would like to give my condolences to the Dennis family. I knew Dick for many years from working at the Family Tree. He helped me out whenever needed, he was a good friend. May he rest in peace

Kevin McNeil

January 15, 2021

I would like to give my condolences to the Dennis family. I knew Dick for many years from working at the Family Tree. He helped me out when needed, he was a good friend. May he Rest In Peace.
Kevin McNeil

Jean Ricciuti

January 15, 2021

It is with a heavy heart and many tears I read this beautiful tribute to Mr. Dennis. I have been honored to know Mr. Dennis for nearly 40 years. I have had the privilege to be in his company for so many occasions, some happy, some sad, and some for no reason at all. Always with a smile and a kind word to say and a story to tell. Always an outpouring of generosity and love. Mr. Dennis had a way of making everyone who was near to him feel special. This world will not be the same without him and his beloved wife, Clare. Their love and devotion will live on forever in our hearts and we will try our best to emulate all we learned from both Mr. & Mrs. Dennis. From the words of Emily Dickinson, words my father, Philip Ricciuti lived by and passed on to us, what our faith teaches us in her words: "This world is not conclusion; A sequel stands beyond, Invisible, as music, But positive, as sound..." Until we meet again Mr. Dennis, Thank you for your love, laughter and teachings. With love always and forever.

Jean Ricciuti

January 15, 2021

It is with a heavy heart and many tears I read this beautiful tribute to Mr. Dennis. I have been honored to know Mr. Dennis for nearly 40 years. I have had the privilege to be in his company for so many occasions, some happy, some sad, and some for no reason at all. Always with a smile and a kind word to say, or story to tell. Always an outpouring of generosity and love. Mr. Dennis had a way of making everyone who was near to him feel special. This world will not be the same without him and his dear beloved wife, Clare. Their love and devotion will live on forever in our hearts and we will try our best to emulate all we learned from both Mr. & Mrs. Dennis. From the words of Emily Dickinson, words my father, Philip Ricciuti lived by and passed on to us, makes saying good-bye a little easier, as our faith teaches us in her words: "This world is not conclusion; A sequel stands beyond, Invisible, as music, But positive, as sound..." Until we meet again Mr. Dennis, Thank you for your love, laughter & teachings. With love always and forever.

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