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ROBERT BATES Obituary

BATES, Robert L. Jr. Age 81 of Bedford, NH and formerly of Merrimack, died Wednesday, Aug. 31, 2022 at the Elliot Hospital in Manchester, NH after a brief illness. He was born in Boston, MA on Aug. 25, 1941, a son of the late Robert Bates, Sr. and Rose (Ferry) Bates. He worked for a number of companies, including Hudson Limo Service and Narragansett Brewing, before being employed at Anheuser-Busch in Merrimack in 1979. He retired in 2003. After retirement, he worked for a number of companies as a courier, including H&R Block in the Manchester and northern Massachusetts area. He was married in 1963 to Patricia McCabe and together they had four children. Pat succumbed to brain cancer in 1980. In 1984 he married Diane R. West, of Nashua. Members of his family include his wife, Diane of Bedford; three sons, Robert Bates, III and his wife Yu Jin of Elizabethtown, KY, Tim Bates and his wife Jen of Merrimack, and Brian Bates of Manchester; one daughter Rosemary Farrell and her significant other Lowell Smith of Dover; and three grandchildren, Christopher and Jessica Bates, and Gina Bates and her fiancé Steven Decker. He also had two brothers-in-law Steven West and wife Colleen of Hull, MA and David West of Nashua; and a sister-in-law, Meredith West and husband Drew King of Bloomington IN. He will also be sorely missed by his loving cat, Lucy. There are no Calling Hours. A private Memorial Service for family and close friends will be held in the Rivet Funeral Home in Merrimack at 1pm on October 2nd. A Celebration of Life will be held at the Biergarten, located at the Anheuser Busch Brewery in Merrimack, on October 2nd from 2-5pm. All who knew him are welcome. Memorial contributions in Robert's honor may be made to Animal Rescue League of New Hampshire, 545 State Rte. 101, Bedford, NH 03110 or at rescueleague.org To leave an online condolence, please visit www.rivetfuneralhome.com Rivet Funeral Home www.rivetfuneralhome.com

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Published by Boston Globe from Sep. 10 to Sep. 11, 2022.

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Ellie & Al Sweet

September 27, 2022

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

David Martineau

September 15, 2022

Bob, Tim, Brian & Rose: My folks told me of your fathers passing and I wanted to extend my deepest sympathies. I remember both of your parents as extremely kind people, qualities which I am sure have trickled down to their children and grandchildren. Peace. Dave

Mary M McCabe -Mullen

September 13, 2022

I would like to send my condolences to my
niece Rosemary and my nephews Bobby,Timmy and Brian.
I remember Bob when he was a teenager
And when he became engaged to my
Sister Pat McCabe. I have happy memories
of the four of us. Pat & Bob my late husband Joe and My selp.
An going up to N.H. to visit when all the
children were young.
May God Bless all of you,and keep you
Safe.
Love Aunt May ❤ ♥ ❤

Anne Forbes Macomber

September 12, 2022

Diane, I'm so sorry for your loss. It's been a few years since I've seen you two. I remember so many great times you & Bob and Barbara & Lloyd. You were such an awesome couple. He will be missed. I'm married now and am living in Missouri. Would love to hear from you. Love Anne Forbes Macomber. Email address is the same.

Ann Guden

September 11, 2022

I was so sorry to hear of Bobby’s passing. Although we had not kept in touch for several years, I still thought of him often with all good memories. We were cousins and enjoyed meeting with family when we were young and living in Watertown. Bobby was one of the really good guys who always made me smile. My caring thoughts and prayers go out to you, Diane, and family.

Ann (Sardellitti) Guden

The Staff of George R. Rivet Funeral Home

September 10, 2022

Offering our deepest condolences during this time.

Paul Beland

September 9, 2022

Worked with Bob for several years at AB always a great guy and fun to be around. Will be missed by many. Condolences to his family

Donna Staples

September 7, 2022

Diane and family...he was the best guy I met so many times. His humor will be enjoyed by all who greet him. Will we still hear him during the evening news? I sure hope so. Much love, Diane.

Kathy Reardon

September 6, 2022

Tim, May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. My thoughts are with you and your family at this time.

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Rivet Funeral Home & Crematorium Inc. - Merrimack

425 Daniel Webster Highway P.O. Box 86, Merrimack, NH 03054

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Celebration of Life

2:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m.

Biergarten located at the Anheuser Busch Brewery

Merrimack, NH

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425 Daniel Webster Highway P.O. Box 86, Merrimack, NH 03054

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