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Alexander Fulciniti Obituary

Fulciniti, Alexander N.

- April 12, 2024

Of Hamburg, NY, passed away on April 12, 2024 in a tragic accident. He was 28 years old. His infuriating disregard for his own health and safety has left everyone who loves him irrevocably gutted. We expect he would be appalled not only with this outcome but also with everyone in his life almost singularly focused on him for any period of time - the thought would give him an ulcer. Unfortunately for Alex's socially anxious sensibilities, he was extremely lovable and drew good people to him, like a dog person in a room full of emotionally needy cats. Alex loved cars, animals, video games, motorcycles, and ignoring text messages. You could tell he knew you loved him when he started looking physically uncomfortable, presumably thanks to the aforementioned stomach ulcer. With his endless length of limbs, fingers, and feet, the visual effect of his discomfort had a certain alien charm. Not quite as charming (and alarming) as his head poking over a roll cage of his prized Mazda Miata convertible, however. It was hard for him to care about and for himself, even with the constant prodding of those around him. He'd been making strides that we were all proud of, especially knowing how hard he worked for each small step forward. Everyone who knew Alex has been robbed and our grief is wrapped up in rage given what feels like a crime against nature. Alex leaves behind so many people who should never have had to attend his funeral. He was the beloved son of Domenico and Laura Fulciniti; reluctant brother of Francesca Fulciniti (Brandon Silverman) and Joe Fulciniti (Marissa Warren); aloof but tender uncle of Matteo Joseph and Massimo Alexander, whose middle name he once forgot; loving grandson of Nancy Henry, Mariannina Fulciniti and the late Giuseppe Fulciniti; dear nephew of Nicola (Jennifer) Fulciniti and Graziella (Ronald) Young; loving cousin of Ryan Young and Anna Sophia Fulciniti; also survived by numerous loving relatives and many dear friends. The family will be present to receive guests on Friday, April 19th from 4-8pm at the (Hamburg Chapel) JOHN J. KACZOR FUNERAL HOME, INC. 5453 Southwestern Blvd. (Corner of Rogers Rd.) A Funeral Service will be celebrated on Saturday, April 20th at 10:00 AM at Saint Joseph Cathedral, 50 Franklin St. Buffalo, NY. (Please assemble at church).Please share condolences atwww.kaczorfunerals .com. In lieu of flowers, please send donations in Alex's memory (make note so we can thank you) to Hope for Cats, Inc (hopeforcatsinc.org) or Mental Health Advocates (mhawny.org). 7 of 10 seized counterfeit pills contain a lethal dose of fentanyl. Ask your loved ones to protect themselves. Www.dea.gov/onepill.

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Published by Buffalo News on Apr. 17, 2024.

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Maria DiPasquale

April 20, 2024

I worked with Dominc many years ago for a short time. He and Laura left a lasting impact on me as a loving couple. I cannot say in words how sorry I am for your
tragedy . My deepest sympathy. You and your family as
well as Alexander will be be remembered in my prayers today and for a long time.

Michael Smith

April 19, 2024

I did not know Alexander, but I appreciate this obituary.

Nancy Saglibene

April 18, 2024

Although I did not know Alexander, I did know his parents Domenico and Laura from Bryant and Stratton. I am devastated for you and your family. I know what wonderful parents you must have been because you were a wonderful loving couple. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

A praying soul

April 18, 2024

Thank you for the unselfish and brave message you convey in Alexander´s obituary. I don´t know Alexander or the family, however your message is very powerful. God Bless and I am so sorry for your loss.

Patty

April 18, 2024

Though we don't know each other I was so very sorry to read about Alex. All of you will be in my prayers today.

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A perfect stranger

April 18, 2024

What an emotionally raw, honest, beautiful obituary. It's obvious you loved him fiercely. Peace to all of you.

Nancy

April 18, 2024

I don't know you, but I want to share that Alex's obituary was written so well. It is the best obit I have ever read, and seems to have captured so much about him and those who loved him. I am so sorry for your pain. It sounds like he was a special and unique person.

Anonymous

April 18, 2024

Praying that the Lord will bring you comfort to your hearts and peace to your souls in your loss..........

Patty W

April 17, 2024

My son passed just over 2 yrs ago from an overdose of fentynal. He was trying to stop when he passed. He fought hard to live. My heart has been broken ever since. My heart breaks for your family. I feel your pain. I hope your memories help you on this awful journey.

David and Lucy

April 17, 2024

We are heartbroken by what happened. We remember Alex as such an energetic, fun-loving, and kind little boy who lived next door. We are so sorry for his passing and for all you are going through. We love you and will keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.

Just a Mother of a daughter

April 17, 2024

This is beautifully written by a heart broken family. Stranger to stranger, I am keeping you all in my thoughts. Rest well Alex

Mf

April 17, 2024

Alex´s obituary brought me to tears.
I do not know him, but I feel like I do. I truly am sorry.

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