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Alvin M. "Mickey" Buffum

1953 - 2025

Alvin M. "Mickey" Buffum obituary, 1953-2025

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1953

DIED

2025

Alvin Buffum Obituary

Buffum, Alvin M. "Mickey"

Oct 27, 1953 - Oct 3, 2025

Of Marilla, NY. Passed away peacefully after a long and heroic battle against cancer. Survived by his son Brock, daughter-in-law Shannon, sister Carol, niece Teri, nephew Steven, and other loving relatives. He was a graduate of Iroquois High School and an employee of Moog, Inc. for roughly thirty years. No visitation or services will be held per his request. In lieu of flowers, please consider a Memorial Contribution to the Cornell Lab of Ornithology in honor of his lifelong love of birds.

Published by Buffalo News on Oct. 8, 2025.

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Craig

October 30, 2025

I´ve been trying to find Mickey for many years. I did not realize his name was Alvin. So, I kept hitting a dead end. I´m assuming I finally found him... but too late. If it´s the Mickey I knew... he lived on four rod road in Marilla. We were neighbors. In 1970, I was 9 years old. He was maybe 18. He visited us often and was like a member of our family. I have no brothers... but Mickey was like one, to me. I´m very sorry for your loss. If he remained the guy I once knew... you were all very lucky to have him in your lives. We moved away from Marilla in 1974 and settled in Wyoming County. Mickey made the trek to see us, a few times, until life took us all in different directions. It feels like yesterday, that he and I were throwing a football in the yard. I have one picture of him, on Christmas Day with my family. I´ve looked at it many times over the years. Take care. Thanks for reading this.

Russ Haentges

October 8, 2025

So sorry for your loss, Brock. Your dad was a great person. He always had a joke or story tomake me laugh. may God bless his soul.

DM

October 8, 2025

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

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