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PN
January 25, 2024
Thinking of you today, old friend. I will always cherish the memories we shared growing up together. Miss you.
Kassie Bilodeau
December 3, 2023
In our prayers and thoughts always Karin
Kassie and Dawn Bilodeau
Ellen Ambuhl
December 3, 2022
Fred and I are thinking of you both today and sending prayers and thoughts to you. Praying that you have peace in your heart
TJN
December 3, 2022
Thinking about you today. Miss yah brother.
Kassie Bilodeau
December 3, 2021
Karen always keep you in prayer and heart
Paula Mack
December 3, 2020
Holding you folks in my heart
December 3, 2020
Karin,
We hold you close in heart, and thoughts always.
Your family will always be a special part of Rene's and our lives
Kassie and Dawn Bilodeau Love you
Chris and Deb Clark
December 3, 2019
Karin and Gary,Thinking of you both. Finding comfort knowing that many people remember and miss your son. Such a beautiful tribute to our Matt. Miss you Matt. Love, Uncle Chris and Aunt Deb
December 3, 2019
Karen time has passed, since we have seen you, but you are always present in our thoughts and prayers.
May precious memories hold you close,
Love of family and friends and God's peace.
Love you Karen Kassie and Dawn bilodeau
Gary Trono
December 3, 2019
Dear Matthew:
It was five years ago when you tragically passed away. We will never forget the shock and the unbearable sadness of knowing you were gone. As parents, there's no greater loss than the loss of your child. You were the shining star of our lives, our cherished gift from God. You were so unique, thoughtful and friendly; a compassionate young man with a heart of gold. Your loyalty to friends and your concern for others was respected by everyone who knew you. Your brought so much love and joy into your family, and to all of your friends. The world lost an amazing soul on the day you died. We're now left with memories and the heartbreak of losing a son. Still, your mom and dad have faith that we'll be together again someday. Until that time comes, we continue to love you and think of you, always.
Love You & Miss You,
Mom & Dad
audrey soto
November 30, 2019
I am so sorry for your loss. May God comfort you during your time of grief. Please take comfort in knowing that you will see Matthew again.
kassie bilodeau
December 4, 2018
Always in our thoughts and prayers.
You and your family has always been a special part of our family and memories!
Kassie, Dawn, Keely and Kelly Bilodeau
Deb Clark
December 3, 2018
Thinking of you today. Miss you. Love, Uncle Chris and Aunt Deb
September 25, 2017
Saw you in a dream last night. Would have loved to hangout longer. See you next time.
July 20, 2016
Dear Matthew, our only child and precious angel....We miss you so much but there are no final goodbyes. Your Mom and I have absolute faith that we will be together again someday. Until that time arrives, please keep our love, devotion, and prayers close to your heart. I hope you realize how blessed we are to have you as our son. Your life was the single greatest joy within our own lives. Rest in peace and keep smiling your warm, heavenly smile. You made your mark on this world and the light of your being radiates in so many people's hearts. Remember my words, Matt, you are and always will be our blessed gift from God.
Love You Always,
Mom & Dad
January 2, 2016
December 29, 2015
December 3, 2015
Dear Matthew,
It's been a year ago today since you passed away. Its been a rough, lonely journey without you. You Mom and I miss you so much. You were the light and the joy of our lives. We will see you again someday, son. Until that time comes, may you rest in peace.
Love you always,
Mom and Dad
Chris and Deb Clark
December 2, 2015
Thinking of you and Matthew. This is a difficult week. We are keeping our happy memories close at heart. All our love.
July 4, 2015
Lydia Ladd
June 8, 2015
Dear Gary and family;
My deapest sympathy to you, your wife and the family, and God bless. My prayers are with you both...
Lydia Ladd (Jericho, VT)
Tamara Clarke
June 8, 2015
Karin, dear, no words can ease your pain.In this hard time for you and your family, we your co-workers are with you.My deepest sympathy and God be with you all.
June 7, 2015
My condolences to the family. May God give you the strength and comfort to endure this difficult time.
Bob and Anita Duclos
June 5, 2015
As old friends of June and Tony Trono we want to extend our sincere sympathy to them and their family. We, also, have known the death of a grandson and it leaves an ache in our hearts that will always be there.
Mom & Dad
May 28, 2015
Dear Matthew,
On May 28, 1992 at 12:19 PM, twenty-three years ago today, your were born into this world as our beloved, only child. For your Mom and I, it was the happiest day of our lives. I was always proud of you, Matt, and your life was the single greatest joy within my own life. The years and the memories that we shared, they will be cherished forever. Words cannot express how much your Mom and I miss you. Your good friends, Luke and Vincent stopped by to visit with us today. Just like all of your friends, they miss you very much. It was a difficult day, not being able to celebrate with you. Just remember our love and prayers.
Mark and Anne Keable
May 28, 2015
I have been praying for Matthew every night.
With all our love.
May 26, 2015
Karen,
We hold you all close in prayer and thoughts. love you Kassie Dawn Keely and Kelly Bilodeau and families.
Patty Giroux
May 25, 2015
My heart goes out to all of you. I worked on the Constellation Team when he was at EMS. He was in a small group that I worked with there. I always liked Matt. He a good kid. I am sorry he had to go like this, but I know he is in The Best Hands now and watching over all of you. Take comfort in knowing he is at peace.
February 23, 2015
Tim Noordewier
February 17, 2015
You won't be forgotten!
Mom & Dad
January 22, 2015
Dear Matt,
The celebration of your life on January 18th at Talent was amazing! Your mom and dad, Kathy, Hannah, Daniel, all of your friends, and some of their parents were all there. As we all sat around a single, lit candle in a darkened room, a grief counselor gave an important, heartfelt speech. After that, we all shared stories, memories, and feelings our endless love for you. Luke put together a slide show of pictures and a wonderful video of one of your biking adventures at Catamount. We ended the event with a group picture and by releasing balloons into the evening sky; an acknowledgment of your heavenly spirit. You would have been so honored and pleased by all kind words and expressions of love. It certainly felt like you were watching down upon us and I'm very thankful for that! Love you always!
Alana LaViale
January 13, 2015
Alana LaViale
January 13, 2015
Mom & Dad
December 31, 2014
Dear Matthew,
It's New Year's Eve and we're right at home, thinking of you and wishing you were here. You brought so much love into this world, a meaningful and personal love that impacted more lives than you could ever know. Seeing your friends and hearing their stories of your memories together brings us great comfort and joy. Our years together were far too few but your Mom and I are very blessed to have you as our son.
Love you always!
Chris and Deb Clark
December 31, 2014
Karin and Gary, Right from the start of his life Matt had those beautiful smiling eyes. He grew up to be kind, polite and a gentle good person. We will always remember him this way. Karin you said it best. When we wonder what we should have done or think we did not do enough for Matt, we will forgive ourselves. And then we need to forgive Matt. He has found peace. I wish the same to you through your photos and happy memories. You gave him a good life. Love, Chris and Deb
December 30, 2014
Vincent Chiu
December 28, 2014
You were truly different, down-to-earth, caring, and not an ounce of hatred or malice within you. The bike rides, the numerous hangouts with the gang, heck just prom and high school graduation still plays in my mind, and I will miss it all. I am thankful for having known you, and can honestly say that I doubt I will find another friend like you within this lifetime. I pray your soul found the peace it has been searching for, and my blessings go out to Gary and Karin for their loss.
Mom & Dad
December 25, 2014
Dear Matthew,
It's Christmas day, son, and the light of your love shines so brightly within our hearts! As we go about our day, our thoughts and prayers for you will constantly remain. The years that we spent together as a family have always been our most precious gift. Thanks for smiling down upon your family and friends!
God bless....
With endless love,
Michael Larkin
December 24, 2014
Gary and Karin, I am so sorry. My warmest sympathies.
God bless.
Michael Larkin
December 24, 2014
Gary and Karin, my warmest sympathies.
God bless.
TJ, Matthew, and Vincent on Graduation Day, 2011.
December 24, 2014
Kyla Ward
December 23, 2014
It breaks my heart that one of our own was taken from us too soon. I will always remember the fun we all had in high school, and I know we will never let memories of Matt fade. We were all just kids but we all had each other's backs, always. He was a person who could never be disliked by anyone. Rest in peace, Matt. We'll all meet up some day and cause some trouble. Until then, keep an eye on us down here.
Luisa Noordewier
December 23, 2014
I remember meeting Matt when I was just a little girl. He used to ride his bike up and down the street until one of us kids in the neighborhood would notice him and join in on the fun…and man, did we have fun. I wouldn't know where to begin when describing the countless adventures that Matt and I shared. From building forts in every corner of my house, bike riding, flash light tag, basketball, and "don't touch the lava", to watching our favorite movie (Signs) repeatedly, and going for long walks where all we wanted was to talk. Matt always knew how to show the sunshine on a rainy day. And as I grew up alongside him, I'm so lucky to have had the pleasure of knowing and loving him. He was a brother to me and I could never express in words the impact that he's had on my life. He was there for me at times when I thought nobody cared and he never failed to offer a warm hug and good cup of laughter. My heart is heavy as I reminisce over the wonderful memories I have of Matt, but am comforted as I remind myself that he is in a better place now. Karen and Gary, I pray that God may give you peace in knowing that your son will be missed, but never forgotten.
May you rest in peace my beloved friend.
Marlena Tremback
December 23, 2014
I grew up just a few streets away and have so many great memories of hanging out with the neighborhood crew. I will always remember his laugh and the way he smiled when someone told a goofy joke. I remember him wrestling with Rud and being such a good sport. I've never met someone who was as kind as Matt, he never said a negative word! Karin and Gary, I am so sorry for this incredible loss. Please know that he was loved by everyone he met. I will never forget him.
Tim Noordewier
December 22, 2014
I'll never forget the day I met Matt. I was seven years old, and was biking over in the "new condos" (at the time) when I saw him playing with Matchbox cars in the street. It was not long after that day before Matt was an integral part our neighborhood crew. I won't forget all the times mountain biking, going to Talent Skatepark, playing cops and robbers, flashlight tag, and playing video games. If I hadn't known Matt, I would have never gotten to see some cool shows at Higher Ground with him and his dad. Matt's taste in music let me discover some of my own passions. Matt had an extremely and overwhelmingly positive impact on everyone he knew! He changed my life! Gary and Karin, please find comfort in knowing that Matt made a difference in my life, and we will all miss him!
Mom & Dad
December 22, 2014
This is dedicated, with love, to all the family and friends of Matthew:
Desiderata
Go placidly amid the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence.
As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even the
dull and ignorant; they too have
their story.
Avoid loud and aggressive persons, they are vexations to the spirit.
If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain and bitter;
for always there will be greater
and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.
Keep interested in your career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes
of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs; for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals;
and everywhere life is full of heroism.
Be yourself.
Especially, do not feign affection.
Neither be critical about love;
for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment, it is as perennial as the grass.
Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things
of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.
You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.
Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be,
and whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion
of life keep peace with your soul.
With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful.
Strive to be happy.
Written by Max Ehrmann in the 1927
Love you always, Matt!
Mom & Dad
December 20, 2014
The Serenity Prayer:
God, grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change,
Courage to change the things that I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.
Living one day at a time;
Enjoying one moment at a time;
Accepting hardship as the pathway to peace.
Taking, as he did, this sinful world as it is, not as I would have it.
Trusting that he he will make all things right if I surrender to his will;
That I may be reasonably happy in this life, and supremely happy with him
Forever, in the next.
Amen.
~ Written by Reinhold Niehbur in the year of 1926~
Love you till the end of time!
Frannie Magoon
December 19, 2014
I have so many wonderful memories of you that I will keep with me forever. You were such an amazing person and may your soul rest easy. My thoughts and prayers are with your family in this tough time.
Our handsome man in his tux.
Mom & Dad
December 18, 2014
Matthew, on graduation day, 2011.
Love, Mom & Dad
December 18, 2014
Alex White
December 17, 2014
Matt was always an amazing friend to me. I remember countless days after school where we would go biking, sledding, or just hang out in the neighborhood. Even as we got older, that never changed. Spending time with Matt was the best part of my childhood. I've never met anyone else who could bring such happiness to everyone around, and I am sure that I never will meet anyone else like him again. Gary and Karin, I am terribly sorry for your loss. His life will always be remembered and missed.
hayley d
December 17, 2014
Matt was always so kindhearted to everyone. I went to middle school and high school with Matt. He always had that big goofy smile on his face. Matt is truly someone who will never be forgotten. My thoughts and prayers are with your entire family during this difficult time. May he rest in peace.
Terry and Sue Badger
December 16, 2014
Karin and Gary,
Matt was your shining star. Remember all the good memories that we all have of him. He will guide and comfort you with those memories. He is safe and at peace now. Love you all. Sue and Terry
Tim Nakos
December 15, 2014
Matt was the closest thing I had to a brother. I can't remember a time of unhappiness with him. I remember all the great times with him and cherish them. He is a great friend and I will always love him for that. Whether snowing, raining or sunny Matt and I always knew how to make it the best of it. Gary and Karin, I have you very close to my heart in a time like this. Thanks for letting us eat all your chips and salsa. Matt, remember "heaven is a half pipe" I love you man can't wait to see you again.
Maria LaForce
December 15, 2014
Matt was such a caring friend to everyone who came into his life. He will always be remembered. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family.
David Trono
December 15, 2014
Gary and Karin, I am so sorry for the loss of your wonderful and loving son, Matthew. He will be so deeply missed by all of his relatives and friends. Matt will now rest in peace, and you will forever have fond and comforting memories of all of your good times with him. Love always, David.
Mark and Anne keable
December 15, 2014
Gary and Karin, There are no words to ease your sadness except to be there for you if you need a friend. Mark remembers how proud you were when Matt was born and all the funny stories you told about him. Just know that your friends are here for you.
pete shapiro
December 15, 2014
Condolences&MostSincereHeartfeltSympathies......MayMatthewRIP WithAllTheGoodAngelsInHeaven &MayG#DKeepYourFamilyStrong
Tim and Carol Trono
December 14, 2014
Dear Karin and Gary. Our thoughts, love, and support are with you. It's impossible to know what to say. Honor Matt by staying well and keeping the positive memories of Matt and his life alive. We love you. Matt and his quiet soul will be deeply missed.
Steve Rousseau
December 12, 2014
Gary & Karin, I am so sorry for your loss. I pray that you can find some peace at this difficult time.
Corey Ryder
December 12, 2014
Gary, I have been thinking of you and your wife during this time. I am so sorry for the loss of your son. I never met your son but I know his heart was as big and thoughtful as yours. You've been a great friend to me and your entire family is in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless, Corey.
Kathy Deal
December 12, 2014
My precious nephew, our hearts ache to know we will no longer see your smiling face, until we can be with you again. Anthony was devastated to hear that you are gone. He so enjoyed when he could hang out with you and play games. You were such a wonderful person and will be missed by many. You were the light of your parent's life and it breaks my heart to see their pain. I love you Matthew. Rest in peace.
December 12, 2014
To all the Bugbee family, we send our thoughts and prayers.May gods love sustain you through this very difficult time.
David and Janice Bartlett
Milton, Vermont
Brian Marcelino
December 12, 2014
Karin and family,I am so sorry for your loss.My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Taylor Reynolds
December 11, 2014
He was loved by many and will be missed by countless. He was a goofy, spontaneous, and caring individual. My heart is heavy with this news. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. He will never be forgotten. May he rest in peace.
Wayne Jaycox
December 11, 2014
Karin and Family, So sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
The LaViale Family
December 11, 2014
Dear Gary and Karin, We are so sorry for your loss and are all grieving with you. This is a very sad time for us all. Your expression of love and appreciation in the obituary was outstanding. Thank you for that! We send our caring and support.
Andrea Lammly
December 11, 2014
Karin & Gary:
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you at this difficult time.
Andrea (Trayah)& Christopher Lammly
Ron and Tammy Sweet
December 11, 2014
Gary and Karin,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you as you mourn the loss of your son. May your memories of Matthew give you strength and peace in the days ahead.
Dean Corkum
December 11, 2014
My prayers to your entire family.
Dean Corkum
Essex High School
Sue Dubuque
December 10, 2014
Gary and Karin,
I am so very sorry and saddened to hear of the loss of your beloved son. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Josey and Dick Bove
December 10, 2014
Gary,Karin, June,Tony, Kathy,Tim, David--May God give you courage and strength during this difficult time.
Dick and Josey Bove
Sandy LaMothe
December 10, 2014
Gary and Karin, I am so sorry to here about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you both. I hope all your beautiful memories will give you the strength you need to move forward. God Bless You.
Ann Moore
December 10, 2014
My very deepest sympathys in the loss of
your son. My heart goes out to both of you. Ann Moore
Tianna A
December 10, 2014
Matt was such an awesome guy, glad he got to be apart of my life. So sorry for your loss. Sending my thoughts and prayers to his family at this time. He will be missed.
Dave Langlois
December 10, 2014
Gary and Karin, I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Danno
December 10, 2014
Gary, and Karin, There are really no words that can express the sadness that I feel for the both of you. I do pray that the beautiful memories that you have of Matt, will be the strength that helps you to move forward.
My deepest sympathy,
Danno
Teri (Richer) & Jens Fulkerson
December 10, 2014
Karin and Gary,
Words can never express how much my heart aches for your loss. Matt was a blessing to our family. So many countless hours of the time he spent at the house with TJ and Ashley. His presence will always be felt in our hearts and the good times remembered. Sending love and hugs your way.
Ashley George
December 10, 2014
My prayers go to Matt's family. Matt was the most amazing, positive and supportive friend that anyone could ever ask for. I will forever treasure the moments we spent together. He will never, ever be forgotten. I miss him so much.
June and Frank Lee
December 10, 2014
Kathy we are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
jan whitten
December 10, 2014
Gary and Karin, My heart goes out to both of you through this difficult time. Hang on to all those beautiful memories the laughter and joy of having such a wonderful son. My prayers go out to both of you.
Maryanne Grant
December 10, 2014
Dear Karin & Gary,
I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your son, Matthew.
May all your beautiful memories bring comfort to you at this very difficult time.
Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Brenda Peters
December 9, 2014
My thoughts and prayers are being sent to all of you at this sad time.God Bless you.
Brenda Turner (Steady)
December 9, 2014
I wish there were words that I could write in the message to ease your pain. My heart goes out to the Trono family during this difficult time. It sounds like Matthew was a special son and will forever live in your memories.
December 9, 2014
Karin: You are in my thoughts and prayers! I always valued our friendship, your loyalty to my Dad, your Mom was such an important part of Rene's and our family, as was Barb her sister. I did not have the privilege of knowing your precious Matthew, I too have a Matthew. We love you so. Kassie Bilodeau-Lamphere
December 9, 2014
Gary & Karin,
My heart goes out to you in this difficult time. My thoughts and prayer's are with you both.
Jason & Marcy Smith
Tracy and Carl Schneider
December 9, 2014
Dear Gary and Karin,
You are in our thoughts and prayers. We remember Matt riding his bike and playing outside for hours on end when he was little. He had boundless energy.
May the many memories carry you forward. Know that we are thinking of you during this difficult time and into the future. God bless,
Mom and Dad
December 9, 2014
Son, just writing to you through all the tears makes me feel closer. Mom and I wish so much that we could see you and hug you one more time. There's something that I want to tell you. In life, you taught us the meaning of true love. In your passing, you continue to teach lessons. So many people are re-connecting with family and friends, and re-evaluating their priorities in life. What a wonderful gift from such a precious angel.
Sarah Hayes
December 9, 2014
you were an amazing soul! you made school fun and always made people laugh. we miss you so much.i'll see you again when its my time. all my love and heart and soul goes out to you and your family
Elizabeth Randall
December 9, 2014
My sincere sympathy for your loss. I remember Matthew well from the years I worked with him at the Essex Elementary School. May you both find solace in the memories of your caring and devoted son.
December 9, 2014
Gary and Karin, Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We watched Matt grow up from a sweet little boy to a young man. Always friendly, always a little shy. I'll keep the picture of his smiling face in my mind.
Toni Trono
December 9, 2014
Gary and Karin, I am so sorry for your loss. May he now be at peace. Hold all the loving memories in your hearts.
Dan and Bonita Petherbridge
December 9, 2014
Dear Karin and Gary,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the rest of your family. Matt was a special person and he will be dearly missed.
Paul Russin
December 9, 2014
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort....
David Greenwood
December 9, 2014
Gary & Karin...My thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time in both of your life's....
Paula Mack
December 9, 2014
I am so sorry for your loss, this is heartbreaking.
love to you all
Suzanne Shasteen
December 9, 2014
Gary and Karin, My thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time. I will always remember Matt's beautiful smile. There is not a time that I can remember that Matt did not smile and say hello when passing me in the neighborhood. Please let me know if there is anything at all that you need.
Deborah & David Provost
December 9, 2014
Dear Gary & Karin, Aunt June & Uncle Tony & the whole family-
Our hearts are breaking for you. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Matt was always the sweetest little boy. May your treasured memories help you endure your loss.
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