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NATHAN G. PATNODE UNDERHILL - Nathan G. Patnode, 21, of Underhill, was released from his struggles in the arms of his mother and stepfather, his sisters holding his hands, with many family and friends by his bedside in Nyack, N.Y. on Friday, Feb. 25, 2011. He was born in Burlington on Aug. 18, 1989, the son of Randall and Kathleen (Spear) Patnode. Nathan was a graduate of Mt. Mansfield Union High School, class of 2008 and enjoyed playing football and lacrosse. His true passion was welding and he was currently attending the Welding Academy in Williston. Nate loved to snowboard and snowmobile. His passion for hunting and fishing was obvious but what we knew best about Nate was that he worked with his hands and was called the master tinkerer. Nate received a lot of love and support from his sponsors and friends while he was participating in the Alcoholics Anonymous program and at Centerpoint Adolescent Treatment Services. Nathan is survived by his mother, Kathleen Patnode and his stepfather, Edward P. Danaher; two sisters, Ashley Patnode, and his baby sister, Heather Patnode; three stepbrothers, Patrick Danaher and his wife, Shannon, Ryan Danaher, and Ross Danaher; two nieces and one nephew; paternal grandparents, Robert and Annette Patnode; Grandma Jean Danaher; and many loving aunts, uncles and cousins of the Patnode, Spear and Danaher families. He was predeceased by his father, Randall "Moochie" Patnode in 1996; his godfather and uncle, Greg; cousin, Bobby Patnode; and maternal grandparents, Louise and John "Kenneth" Spear. A mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday, March 4, 2011 at 11:30 a.m. in St. Thomas Catholic Church, Underhill Center. Burial will be in the spring. For those who wish, donations in his memory may be made to Centerpoint Adolescent Treatment services, 1025 Airport Parkway, South Burlington, VT 05403. Visiting hours will be held on Thursday from 4 to 8 p.m. in the Ready Funeral and Cremation Service, Mountain View Chapel, 68 Pinecrest Drive, Essex Jct. To send online condolences, please visit www.readyfuneral.com

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Published by The Burlington Free Press on Mar. 1, 2011.

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Jessica Menard

September 20, 2011

Thinking of you everyday & missing that beautiful smile. Thanks for looking over me these last few months<3

March 28, 2011

Dear Betsy & Family:
We just learned of Nate's passing. We are so very very sorry to hear this sad news. Please accept our sincerest condolences and know that you have many friends and family who will support you in this difficult time. Nate was a wonderful person, and we enjoyed working with him, and we will miss his always smiling face.

Love, Darrell and Bev Toner

March 15, 2011

I know the angels are with him.

Misty G Apex NC

NICOLE LaPierre

March 15, 2011

believe and his memory will live on...ONE DAY AT A TIME........YOUR NOT ALONE!!!!

Hannah Elizabeth Danaher Hamlin

March 13, 2011

Please give God a hug for us. Miss you Uncle Nate
Love,
Hannah, Bailey and Kaiden

Megan Riley

March 9, 2011

My condolences to the Patnode family. He was way too young. Little Nate, always a smiling face when I saw him. No words could ease your pain. He will be missed greatly. May he watch over us all.

March 7, 2011

Dear Ed and Family,
As the days go by, I continue to think of your sweet Nate and pray that God's love will give you strength and peace.
Melanie Savio

Cathie Randall

March 6, 2011

Everytime I think of the enormous loss you've suffered, my heart hurts. As a mother, my prayers go out to all family and friends, but I am praying most fervently for Nate's mom. Let your memories of your precious child help you, one day at a time.....

Ray & Brenda Astillero

March 5, 2011

Dear Betsy & Patnode Family,

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. There is no bond as great as that between a parent and child. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help at this time. May your memories bring you comfort.

Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Ray, Brenda, Martina & Ramon Astillero

Erin McNulty

March 4, 2011

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

erin mcnulty

March 4, 2011

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998

Hope Love

March 4, 2011

Nate was an amazing man who would always make me laugh or smile whenever I saw him. I pray that the family will find peace and serenity during this hard time and know that Nate touched so many peoples lives.

March 4, 2011

R.I.P Nate, you were such a good kid. Its sad to see you go. I am sorry for your lose Patnode family.

AP

Amelia

March 4, 2011

Nate,
Every time I see Mt. Mansfield I'll think of you. May you find the peace you have been searching for. I'll see you on the other side.

Richard Roberts

March 3, 2011

Oh, Nate. A good guy, and a great kid to coach in Little League. He was a key member of our team, not just because he was a star. He was a leader, one who demonstrated unwavering commitment to excel for the other kids. I won't forget our time with this fine young man. Rest in peace.

My deepest sympathy and thoughts go to Nate's family and loved ones.

Mike & JoLynn Trudo

March 3, 2011

Ed & family,
May you find strength in the love of family and in the warm embrace of friends.
Our deepest sympathy

March 3, 2011

To the Patnode Family:

My deepest sympathy goes out to you with the loss of Nathan. I hadn't seen him in a while, but I remember what a neat kid he was growing up, and he will be missed by all.

*When your loved one becomes a memory that memory becomes a treasure*

Joan Chace

Bob+ Carol Bohan

March 3, 2011

Betsy,Ed and family, so sorry to here of your loss.Our hearts goes out to you at this time.

Kristine Liberty

March 3, 2011

Ed, Betsy and family so sorry about your loss. I can never understand why the good die so young. My heart, thoughts and prayers to all of you.

Dean Mannings

March 3, 2011

Deepest sympathy's to Nates family. Nate and I were friends for a while and I will never ever forget the impact Nate had on me and my life. He was one of the best kids I have ever met, truly.

A B

March 3, 2011

love you nate will miss that beautiful smile more than you can imagine

Laurie Reilly

March 3, 2011

Betsy and family - You are definitely in our thoughts and prayers. So sorry to hear of the passing of Nate. You are such a loving family and don't deserve this. God has a place for Nate. He is now with his Dad and watching over you. Big hugs to you. God bless you. Love Pat & Laurie Reilly.

Elliot Spear

March 3, 2011

Nate my heart goes out for you.
We will always love. you made smile. love uncel Elliot & Mckenzie

Jerry

March 2, 2011

Ed and family, so sorry to hear of your loss. We were just talking of Nathan last week. May the fond memories resonate in your mind and may GODs peace be with you and your family.

Diane Dufresne

March 2, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this very difficult time. Our sons, Jason & Matthew, played baseball with "Big Nate." Our boys gave us all some fun memories to cherish.

Ed & Marty Lessard

March 2, 2011

Our sincere sympathy to the Patnode Family. May you each find some comfort by remembering all the happy times with Nate. Our prayers are with you.

March 2, 2011

Our deepest condolences go out to the entire family, our prayer are with you. Bruce and Susanne Rocque(Orlando, Fl)

March 2, 2011

Patrick,Shannon and the rest of Nate's family;our deepest sympathy to you in the loss of Nate.
Julie&Alex Shasteen
Jamie Pecor

JACK & JANET HARVEY

March 2, 2011

OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND KNOW THAT YOU WILL BE COMFORTED BY YOUR MEMORIES

Jack & Janet Harvey

March 2, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

amanda colllins

March 2, 2011

To the whole Patnode family, words could and will not ever begin to feel the the loss you all have in your hearts during this very difficult time. Be asssured Nate touched many lives in his short time on earth and now he is with dad, smiling on all of us. Reat in peace, Ray and Amanda-Swanton,Vt

March 2, 2011

Our prayers and hearts are with you, Joe was so very close to Little Nate...we can't express how much it must hurt to lose a son. Love, Sue and Guy Senesac

Randi&Chad Duval

March 2, 2011

Sending thoughts and prayers to the Patnode family, Nate was such a great kid. We only had the pleasure of knowing him for a short time, but he made an impact on our lives.Rest in peace Nate Patnode!

Kitty Tilton

March 2, 2011

My condolences for the loss of your son. I can't even imagine the feeling. My son Jared is a good friend of Nates. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Love Kitty Tilton

chris greenwood

March 2, 2011

im sorry for your loss i only knew nate for about 5 months through awi what can i say he was a great person and he helped me alot in the shop and whenever i hade a problem with my car i went to him for the answer he will be missed and will always be apart of the 2010 september awi crew again sorry for your loss

Derek Moffett

March 1, 2011

Nate we will never forget that laugh and smile that could light up a room. The lessons we have learned from you will never be forgoten. Love ya man GOD BLESS

Holly Sandvil

March 1, 2011

My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead. Love you all!

March 1, 2011

My condolences to your family.

Karen Riedesel

March 1, 2011

Betsy and family, We are so sorry for the loss of Nate. You are in our thoughts and prayers. I'm sure Nate and Bobby will be best buds..
Rob and Judy Hemingway and family

Ray & Amanda Lamore

March 1, 2011

Dear Nate,
Ray and I only had the opportnity to meet you once, but with true Patnode spirit, you lit up the special day of your Uncle Rod and Lisa. May you find the peace god needed you for, rest in peace, always Ray Lamore and Amanda Collins

Amber Minton

March 1, 2011

I am deeply sorry for your loss, Nate will always hold a special place in my heart. I pray that there may be moments of light during this time of darkness.

Kim Beauchemin

March 1, 2011

Rest in Peace Nate. I'll always remember my short time knowing you. Watching the History Channel will never be the same.
My sympathies go out to all who love you.

Kim Beauchemin

March 1, 2011

Rest in Peace Nate. I'll always remember my short time knowing you. Watching the History Channel will never be the same.
My sympathies go out to all who loved you.

Brittany Duquette

March 1, 2011

I'm crying so hard all I can manage to say is I love and miss you. There's not a single day we hung out that I will forget about. You were one of the best friends I could ask for, and at one time an amazing boyfriend. You will be remembered by many. Rest in peace, and make up for the lost time with your dad. Thank you for all you've done for me. <3

Satu Lord

March 1, 2011

My deepest sympathy goes out to Nate's family. He was a wonderful person who had such a big heart. I am grateful that I had the opportunity to know him and create fond memories.

Elizabeth Smith

March 1, 2011

All my love and sympathy goes to Nate's family. He was such a wonderful kid and I will never forget his hugs! Love you all,

Stacey Demko

March 1, 2011

Ashley, Heather, Kathy & Ed, My thoughts and prayers are with you now. Nate can now share his laughter and love with those up above.

Cathie Randall

March 1, 2011

Although I only met Nate once, my son Seth lived at "big Nate's house and knew and loved "lil Nate. My heart goes out to the entire family and all his friends who loved him so very much.

Terry Trapani

March 1, 2011

Daer Nate and his Family-
It seems like yesterday you were playing Lax& Ftball. with all the guys,particularly Nick and Brendan.You always had a smile on your face.I adored you boys as my own.I treasure the time I watched you play sports , with Brendan ,while I gabbed with your Mom,Judi and others along the side lines.My heart aches today for your and your families loss. You will be surly missed. It was an honor to know you as a young man. We love you.The Trapani Family

Matthew

March 1, 2011

As an addict in recovery, my heart goes out to anyone that knew Nathan. I never knew Nathan but reading about him I felt a oneness both in the despair that accompanies active addiction and the sorrow in watching a young man's life end.

Rebecka Tanner

March 1, 2011

I went to High school with Nate. Even though we weren't good friends he was still a great person. I can't belive the last time I saw him was a year ago at another High school friends services a year ago. The last time we ever talked. My thoughts are with Nate's family he was a great kid.

Melanie Stephenson

March 1, 2011

May Angels lead you in, Little Nate. Forever loved, and never forgotten.
Melanie Stephenson & Joe Masi

keynesha santor

March 1, 2011

my prayers and thoughts are with the family of nate. only knew him for a short time but he was a great person

March 1, 2011

Sending love and support to Kathy, Ed and the girls: We will miss you dearly, little cuz - holding on to the memories of happy times camping, snowmobiling and snowboarding with you. Rest in peace with your dad. Love you- Danielle ( and Michael too)

Brenda Garvatt

March 1, 2011

I would like to offer my sympathy to Nate's family. I did not know him personally but he was a good friend of my son Daniel's. Brenda Garvatt

DEREK LAMOTTE

March 1, 2011

ME AND NATE HUNG OUT FOR ONE SUMMER EVERYDAY AFTER THAT WE KINDA WENT OUR SEPERATE WAYS ONE THING IS FOR CERTAIN IS THAT HE BROUGHT JOY AND LAUGHTER AND HAPPINESS TO EVERYONE THAT HE WAS AROUND AND WAS ONE OF THE MOST HONEST FRIENDS SOMEONE COULD HAVE ASKED FOR AND EVERYONE KNOWS TIL THIS DAY THAT HE WILL STILL AND ALWAYS BE BRINGING JOY AND HAPPINESS AROUND US R.I.P NATE YOUR YOUR HAPINESS AND LAUGHTER IS ALL STILL WITH US WE MISS YOU MAN

March 1, 2011

My deepest sympathy to all who loved Nathan. He must have been a wonderful young man. You are all in my prayers. Margaret Drohan

Daniel Garvatt

March 1, 2011

Nate "lil Nate" Patnode was like a little brother.We shared so many good times together and I have a thousand great memories of the times we shared.Lil Nate my life will never be the same with out you brother.We lived together ate together hung out together rode together Thank you for being a part of my life. I love you and will never forget you

March 1, 2011

Words can not express the sadness we feel for your loss. It's hard to understand why some of us are made to endure such hardships during our lives. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you. Love, Brian and Kathy Shover

Shannon Danaher

March 1, 2011

You will be missed by so many, but forgotten by none. Hannah will always remember her uncle Nate and his captivating smile. You left an impression on anyone you met and nothing can take that away. Love you bud. This was beautifully written.

Kevin and Jody Heffernan

March 1, 2011

Betsy we're so sorry to hear about your lost. You and your family are in our prayers.

Gram& Gramps Patnode

March 1, 2011

Rest my Love,and go hand and hand with your Dad. Laugh, love,and hunt with him, until we are all with each other again.

Joel & Robin Danaher

March 1, 2011

For such a time as this, it was time for you to be brought home to your dad, and your Heavenly Father. I was an honor and a privilege to walk you through these last days of your journey here on earth. There are some awesome memories that will forever be cherished by those whose lives you touched and came in contact with. Just today, when I mentioned your name, a woman said.....what a great kid, such a gentle spirited young man. That's way to pass from one life to eternity, Nate. Blessings and prayers to Kathy, Ed, Ashley & Heather....may God peace that passes all understanding be with each of you. And may your relationships with each other grow stronger, and you find the value in each other in walking through the pain of your loss. May Nate's spirit always be close to your hearts! Love you guys<3

Dean Mannings

March 1, 2011

Nate was a very dear friend of mine and I will never forget the great times we shared together. I love you buddy, rest in peace.

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