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Sara Frances Ferrell Shay

1918 - 2019

Sara Frances Ferrell Shay obituary, 1918-2019

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Sara Shay Obituary

Sara Frances Ferrell Shay Sara Frances Ferrell Shay, 100 of Linthicum passed away peacefully on June 12, 2019 surrounded by her family after a long and exceptional life. She was born into what has become known as the, "World's Greatest Generation" in 1918 in Bluefield, West Virginia. She was the only child born into the loving home of the late William M. and Ruth (Whitehurst) Ferrell. She attended Mary Baldwin College, now University in Staunton, VA and the University of Maryland where she graduated with her B.S. in Biology. She married the love of her life Donald Emerson Shay who she met while at College Park. In the beginning of their marriage they moved around following Mr. Shay's academic career and finally they settled in Linthicum where they raised their family. After making Linthicum their home, Sara became an integral part of the community. She was a member of Linthicum Heights United Methodist Church and numerous other organizations that were important to her. She was a teacher at Glen Burnie High School, however her greatest job was being a wife, mother and community advocate. With a natural gift of hospitality she opened not only her heart to those around her, but her home and no visit was complete until she fed you. In 1970 her son Maj. Donald Emerson Shay, Jr. became M.I.A while serving in South East Asia, this led her on a journey of over 40 years working and volunteering with the National League of POW/MIA Families. Sara will be remembered for being loving, generous, devoutly independent and deeply devoted to not only her family but neighbors and the community as a whole. Her contributions to the countless lives she crossed will become a part of an amazing legacy of service she leaves behind. She was preceded in death by her parents; beloved husband, Dr. Donald E. Shay, Sr.; and son, Maj. Donald E. Shay, Jr. She leaves to cherish precious memories her loving daughter, Mary Louisa Rutledge (Henry M.) of Salisbury; grandsons, Don Rutledge (Amber) also of Salisbury; and Macon K. Rutledge of Charleston, SC. The family will receive visitors at Linthicum Heights United Methodist Church 200 School Ln, Linthicum Heights, MD 21090 on Sat., June 22nd, at 11:00 AM where services will be held. Followed by a reception at the church concluding with her interment at Meadowridge Memorial Park. Memorial Contributions may be made to the National League of POW/MIA Families 5673 Columbia Pike Falls Church, VA 22041-or-Linthicum Heights United Methodist Church. For condolences, please visit www.singletonfuneralhome.com.

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Published by The Capital Gazette from Jun. 14 to Jun. 19, 2019.

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Ronnie Russell Ridings

December 31, 2020

Mrs. Shay and I sent Christmas greetings for many years. When I was a toddler/little girl Dr. and Mrs. Shay were tenants of my grandparents Charles and Marie Russell on Stuart Avenue. Mrs. Shay was always so kind and welcoming to me. I would climb the stairs to their second floor apartment and visit and eat cookies. The Russell family was very fond of the Shays.

Francine Nesson

June 22, 2019

I am so very sorry to hear about Sara Frances. I have always looked forward to seeing her at the annual POW/MIA League of Families conference and had missed her in these last few years. She was always an inspiration and highly informative person about the issue as well as life in general. A great mind to pick from. May she rest in peace.

Describes Mrs. Shays zest for life...she lived it abundantly <;

Deborah Hatala

June 16, 2019

She is finally at rest <=

Deborah Hatala

June 16, 2019

Deborah Hatala

June 16, 2019

Dear Shay Family, Mrs. Shay was such a treasure as you know and she made such an impact on my familys life in the short time we knew her. I was briefly the Air Force analyst for her sons loss and during our brief interactions, her passion for following dreams, love of family, and voracious reading habits made an impression on me. She invited my family out to dinner at the local Italian eatery and paid for ita gesture that meant a lot to our family. :) She was a wonderful lady. We will be praying for your family as you walk the road of remembrance and grieving.
Sending love and prayers from her Air Force family, Rob, Debbie, Mike, and Sam Hatala

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June 15, 2019

To the family of Sara Frances Ferrell Shay I would like to express my condolence to you may the God of comfort bring comfort to you with his right arm extended to you Isa.41:10

June 14, 2019

When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure. May the wonderful treasures fill your hearts with love and bring you peace. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. Hosea 13:14 *

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