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Donald Wesley Obituary
Mr. Wesley, of Charlotte, NC, was born December 8, 1969 in San Antonio, TX and left this life to begin a new life with Christ on May 5, 2007.
He graduated from Longview High School and continued his education on an art scholarship at Kilgore Junior College, Kilgore, TX. He received an Associates Degree in Art. Donald spent most of his adult life in the restaurant business and most recently embarked on a new occupation of house renovation and landscaping. He didn't know a stranger because he had a warm and sensitive heart.
He leaves to always love, remember and celebrate his life his wife, Rachel Bratton Wesley and daughter, Alena Jade Wesley of Charlotte, mother, Ramona Simpson Wesley of Williamston, SC; father, Donald Wesley, Sr.(Sherrion) of Longview, TX; two brothers, David B. Wesley, Sr.(Shannon) of Avon, Ohio, Desmond B. Wesley (Cheryl) of Lawrenceville, GA; sister, Denise M. Wesley, of Topeka, KS; grandmother, Catherine W. Cox (Bennie) of Hopkins, SC; 2 aunts, 2 uncles, 7 nieces, 3 nephews and a host of other relatives and friends.
Services for Mr. Wesley will be private.
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Amy
June 22, 2025
This breaks my heart. I thought of you because I saw someone from the old Cotton Patch days. I think about your wit, kindness, and friendship. The world truly lost a special one with you.
Kyle Wyatt
May 5, 2021
What good times we had bro...
Kyle Wyatt
May 5, 2021
Kyle Wyatt
May 5, 2021
Remembering the times with you buddy... Wish I could find our New York pics.
Kyle WYatt
May 5, 2021
Miss you much man. Well, the recognition came 29yrs later - I did the original cry for Mortal Kombat and the fan base is huge. Never knew it would get this big. Thanks for being a special part of my life, especially when we lived in NY.
Donald Wesley Sr
December 8, 2019
Hey man today 50 years ago you came into this world I remember it like it was yesterday. I am missing you more and more each year I hope we will see each other again soon. Love you much DAD.
Donald Wesley
November 13, 2019
Man just sitting here on Nov 12 thinking and missing you. Love you man
Kyle Wyatt
May 5, 2018
Still in our thoughts and heart, my friend. miss ya
Deklan Wyatt
Kyle Wyatt
October 29, 2017
Sophee Wyatt
Kyle Wyatt
October 29, 2017
Olivia Wyatt
Kyle Wyatt
October 29, 2017
Kyle Wyatt
October 29, 2017
Just like we talked about 20 years ago.... my kiddos are in the biz. Miss ya bud!
Kyle Wyatt
May 4, 2017
Still in our memories buddy...
Hallie and Alena at Panther stadium April 2016.
Rachel
May 6, 2016
Alena's photo shoot summer 2015. Wish you could have been there.
Rachel
May 6, 2016
Christmas 2015
Rachel
May 6, 2016
This just happened! All of these kids are growing up too fast. Loved seeing all of them in April.
Rachel
May 6, 2016
Love this pic. David, Josh, Donald and Desmond
May 6, 2016
Kyle, Courtney, Sophee, Olivia and Deklan Wyatt
May 5, 2016
Miss you buddy! I know you are watching.
Rachel
August 28, 2015
Good memories in these pics. Picture from the Bahamas, climbing Alena's favorite tree and your cat Spider sitting in your memorial garden.
Rachel
August 28, 2015
Alena and Aunt Dee at Rehoboth this summer. She drove all of the way from Philly just to see your girl, even though she is legally blind. She's as crazy as ever. Love that lady!!
Rachel
August 28, 2015
Here's Alena with your Dad and Sherrion. They stopped through Charlotte a few weeks ago.
Rachel
August 27, 2015
Alena flying on Sunday. 4 seater plane. She loved it.
Kyle Wyatt
May 5, 2015
Not only had my brother disappeared, but--and bear with me here--a part of my very being had gone with him. Stories about us could, from them on, be told from only one perspective. Memories could be told but not shared. I talk about you all the time with my babies. Miss you buddy!
Don wesley sr
December 9, 2014
Hey man you have been on my mind miss you much love you
Stacey Fulton
August 19, 2014
Dancing Queen came on the radio in the car yesterday and Tommy asked why I got so excited over a song. I told him it was because that was Uncle Donald's "Happy Song" . Miss you my friend
Kyle Wyatt
June 4, 2014
One Day, my brother.....
Ramona Wesley
June 3, 2014
Hi my love. I miss you and it is times like this my emptiness that I feel for you is magnified. Uncle Eddie has joined you. Take care of him. I know he'll be looking out for you. I love yo
Rachel
June 2, 2014
Alena had her first formal dance Friday night. Wish you could have been there.
Don Wesley
June 1, 2014
Hey man thinking about you on this Sunday afternoon miss you much love you more
donald wesley sr
June 1, 2014
Hey man was thinking about you love forever
Rachel
August 2, 2013
Still have days when I miss your laugh.
donald wesley sr
February 10, 2013
Love you miss you forever
RAMONA
December 8, 2010
HAPPY BIRTHDAY SON. I'VE BRRN THINKING ABOUT A LOT LATELY. I GURSS BECAUSE I'VE BEEN SICK.
Ramona Wesley
May 5, 2008
It was on this date, that Donald left us.
It was the first Saturday in May that He went away.
I still grieve but I must believe,
He left me a gift, His daughter to love.
He still lives on in my heart and soul and when I'm with her, I have His love to hold.
I love you Son,
Mom
Rev MaryFrances Everett
December 19, 2007
To Ramona, David, Desmond, Rachel and Elena and the Wesley Family.
This is dedicated to the precious memory of Donald B. Wesley, Jr.
God's Precious Creation!
While through this changing world below, I would not choose my path to go, "Tis the Father's hand that leadeth me, then O how safe His child must be.
Sometimes we walk in sunshine bright, Sometimes we walk in darkness of the night, Sometimes the way we cannot see, but the Father's hand still will lead me.
Sometimes there seems no way to take, But Father's hand a way does make. Sometimes We hear Him gently say, "Come my child and follow Me, this is the way".
So why should we mind the way we go? His way is best for us all, I know. He is my strength, my truth, my way, He is my comfort, rod, and stay.
So on we travel hand in hand, Bound for the heavenly promise land. Always through all Eternity, we should praise His name for leading us.
So Wesley family, in memory of this precious child, son, brother, father, nephew, and friend, please "Trust in the Lord Jesus Christ with all your might, lean not to your own understanding, but in all your ways acknowlege Him, and He will direct your path. Proverbs 3:5,6"
God's Grace is more than sufficient to see each of you through. May God bless you today and forever, for you are in our prayers.
Kyle Wyatt
December 14, 2007
Donald: I still hear you in the wind. We miss you! My daughter will be born in March. I look forward to your smiles meeting in the sunshine of day.
Stacey Fulton
December 10, 2007
This weekend was a hard one. Happy Birthday best friend.
Ramona Wesley
December 9, 2007
"The Greatest Soul of All"
Tribute to Donald Jr.
by Desmond Wesley
A son, brother, father and son of God
We often deemed him, as a little odd
What is odd when we all fall short
He is with the Judge now, in the final court
As grateful as anyone could ever be
If you hear the story now you just couldn't see
He cared too much,if there is such a thing
Through the hollows of time his echo rings
Questions, no answers, answers with no Questions
All we have left if speculation and suggestions
Spend a minute with him, he may become your best friend
A relationship that you are sure would never end
I love my brother and I always will
His place in my heart will never be filled
THAT IS THE GREATEST SOUL OF ALL
*Desmond wrote this on December 8, 2007. It was Donald's 38th birthday. I was so touched by it that I wanted it as a permanent part of Donald's Guest Book. I love you Desmond, Thank you, Mom
Jessie Reese
May 23, 2007
I don't know what, if anything, that could be said to stop the pain you're feeling during these times but we want you all to know you have an extended family that is here whenever you need us.
The Reese Family
Tyrone Horne
May 22, 2007
To the Wesley Family, MY Heart and Prayers were with You the day I heard of your loss. I'll always remember Donald as a great guy and class mate, this year made 20... 87'
Tanisha (Wright) Fortner
May 21, 2007
To Desmond & the Wesley family
Sorry to hear of your loss. May God's love surround you during this time. May He give you a supernatural peace in knowing if we live our lives to His glory that death is just the beginning of life, when we recieve Jesus as our Lord. May the good memories that you hold bring joy in the midst of the pain. Our prayers are with you.
Donald with a mustache
Ramona Wesley
May 13, 2007
This is the last picture I took of Donald on April 26, 2007. I will miss him dearly and he is forever in my heart. Always your Mother
Micholas Davis
May 12, 2007
Well, where do i start the boat the we almost sank or the ultimate driving range on forest hill dr. It, is hard to say good bye. I miss you already and tears role down my face as I keep typing. I can promise ou this I will alwayse be there for you r wife rachel and Daughter Alana. I cherish every moment with you. oh, and i cheated on the last Golf game you really won. You, where more than a cousin a brother a friend. Just know this... I know this is cheese forl everyone cheese for everyone else to read but Donald, I had chosen ou to be my best man. Thanks, for your love and kindness oh yeah my spagetti never came out right, i know there is a secret. TO, my family let's stay close together we have each other.
Stacey Fulton
May 10, 2007
Donald was my best friend, and he will always stay that way. He really was the big brother that I never had, and I will have a place in my heart for him always.
Micah Wesley
May 10, 2007
Racheal and alena
I pray that you will continue to receive many blessings. I pray that my little cuz and you will continue to love christ and know that uncle donald is in a better place. God said in his word that if you believe in him you shall have eternal life.
luv your niece
Micah C Wesley
Kevin & Trina Fullard
May 10, 2007
Rachel, Alena, & the Wesley family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you through this difficult and painful time. There are not enough words to convey our condolences. Rachel, if there is anything we can do please don't hesitate to call and let us know.
"Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding." Proverbs 3:5.
Colette Robinson-Davis
May 10, 2007
Dear Family,
The loss of a loved one is never easy but with the passing of time, we learn to hold on to good memories. We are fortunate and blessed to have known and loved Donald. His spirit will be with us forever though he has now gone forth to be with God and watch over us all. We can find solace as we reflect upon his smile and warm heart. He will always be cherished. Please know that you, the family, are always in our thoughts and prayers ... especially now.
Colette and family
Ellen Peattie
May 9, 2007
Rachel:
I was so sorry to hear this sad news tonight.
Please know you and Alena are in my prayers each night. May you both find comfort in the love you share and the many wonderful memories you have of Don.
Shawna Belobraydic (Williams)
May 9, 2007
To the family of Donald Wesley,
I have an ache in my heart of the news I received yesterday of the passing of my friend Donald. I am praying for comfort and healing in this time of grief. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. His smile could light up a room and his laugh infectious. He will be missed
To the Wife and Daughter,
I am truly sorry for your loss. You both are in my prayers. Never let his memory be lost for what is in your heart can not be too far away.
Debbie Johnson
May 9, 2007
Dear Rachel & Alena,
My heart goes out to both of you. May god continue to wrap his loving arms around you. Trust in the lord and he will see you through this difficult time.
Kyle Wyatt
May 9, 2007
My heart goes out to the entire Wesley family. You all have blessed my life and truly enriched my journey. I will always remember the great times Donald and I had and will dwell on the moments that took our breath away. He was not only a friend but a brother. All of the adventures we set out upon can only be dreamed by others. Donald had a spark in his eyes and heart that was felt by everyone he interacted with. The value he instilled into my life will be remembered always! I will miss you, my brother.
One day we will ride again...
Always Your comrade,
Kyle Wyatt
Amy Henderson
May 9, 2007
Rachel, Ramona, David & Desmond -
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time. Donald had a smile on his face every time I saw him and I will always remember his very contagious smile.
Deepest sympathy,
Kathy Gray
May 9, 2007
Rachel and Alena, I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you find comfort in your memories and know that you have so many people that care about you. You are both in my thoughts and prayers.
Rena Spencer
May 9, 2007
Rachel, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family today and in the weeks to come. I pray you feel God's comfort and love during this time.
May 9, 2007
Dear Wesley Family,
Our hearts and prayers are with you as you deal with the transition of your cherished family member.
With prayering and caring thoughts,
The Willis Family
Joey Parsons
May 9, 2007
Dear Rachel,
So sorry to hear about Don. Remember the good times. You are in my prayers.
Love,
Joey Parsons
eileen lineberger
May 9, 2007
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2007
Tyler Parole Office
May 9, 2007
To: Donald Wesley Sr. Our thoughts and prayers go out to your family. May God's loving grace surround you and your family at this diffcult time.
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