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Robert Ogden Obituary

Dr. Robert
Harvey Ogden, MD
GASTONIA -- Dr. Ogden, well known and loved Obstetrician and Gynecologist, died at his home, December 7, 2009 after an extended illness. He was a son of the late Monroe G. and Madie Blount Ogden.
A native of Macon, Georgia, he graduated Summa Cum Laude from Mercer University where he was President of Kappa Alpha Fraternity, played trumpet and French horn in the band and was active in ROTC in high school and college. He graduated first in his class at the Medical College of Georgia, receiving a Doctor of Medicine degree. He was a member of Alpha Omega Alpha Medical Honor Society. He served in the US Army, including one year in Vietnam. There he volunteered to give medical aid to local Vietnamese orphans and organized relief efforts from his home state of Georgia. After his Army tenure, he finished his residency in Obstetrics and Gynecology at Macon General Hospital. He was Board Certified in Obstetrics and Gynecology. In 1969 he came to Gastonia and joined the practice of Dr. Robert Groves and Dr. Joel Conner, Gaston Gynecology and Obstetrics. He delivered thousands of babies with great skill and compassion. He was a highly respected surgeon and he loved both the science and the humanity of medicine. He cared deeply about his patients and was always ready to listen. He loved music and donated instruments to the Ashbrook High School Band to help continue a love of music for students for many years to come. Robert Ogden deeply loved his family. He spoke often of his pride and love for his wife, children, grandchildren and family. His circle of friends included many who remained loyal to him until the end. This man loved life and enjoyed it to the fullest. He was an avid bird hunter and enjoyed competitive trap shooting, as well as snow skiing and was an avid golfer. He enjoyed fishing and dancing. He was industrious; he could build or fix anything he set his mind to. He was a very competent and careful pilot for many years. He was a member of First Presbyterian Church in Gastonia. He was a member of the Gaston County Medical Society, North Carolina Medical Society, Southern Medical Association, American Medical Association, Fellow of American College of Obstetrics and Gynecology, Amateur Trapshooting Association, Ducks Unlimited and the Gaston Shaggers.
In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by first wife, Paula Ogden and aunt, Frances Augusta Ogden.
He is survived by his loving and devoted wife of 22 years, Deborah Lewis Ogden; daughters, Sarah Ogden of the home, Laurie Weddington and husband Keith of Charlotte, NC; sons, Robert S. Ogden, DDS and wife Allison of Salisbury, NC, Ken Ogden and wife Natalie of Monroe, NC; grandchildren, Kate, Ellen and Anna Weddington, Pierce and Michael Ogden and Sam and Caroline Ogden, sisters, Sue Ballard and husband Michael, Dot Brown and husband Phil of Macon, GA, Katherine Sellers and husband Bill of Seattle, WA and Mary Ogden Lasley of Ashland, OR; brothers, Dr. William Ogden and wife Lou of Montreat, NC, Ron Ogden and wife Pat of Plano, TX, John Ogden and wife Louise of Macon, GA; many loving nieces and nephews, special friends; and caregivers, Rita Jones and husband Johnny.
A special thank you to Pauline Zimmerman and Lisa Bradshaw of Gaston Hospice for their loving care, and a very special thank you to Rita and Johnny Jones for their tireless devotion and selfless love.
The family will receive friends from 6:00 to 8:00 p.m., Wednesday, December 9, 2009 at McLean Funeral Directors of Gastonia. A Celebration of Life Service will be held 2:00 p.m., Thursday, December 10, 2009 at the Founders Chapel of McLean Funeral Directors with Rev. Carl Synan officiating. Military Honors will be rendered by the WWII Last Man Club of Gaston County. Burial will be private. Dr. Richard Belton, Dr. Joel Conner, Johnny Jones, Ted Kennedy, Ralph Ledford, Richard 'Skip' McPhail, Dr. Henry Thomason and Dr. William Abernathy will serve as honorary pallbearers.
In lieu of flowers memorials may be made to Ashbrook High School Band Boosters, 2222 S. New Hope Road, Gastonia, NC 28054 or Gaston Hospice, PO Box 3984, Gastonia, NC 28054.
Condolences may be sent online at www.mcleanfuneral.com.
McLean Funeral Directors of Gastonia is serving the family of Dr. Ogden.

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Published by Charlotte Observer on Dec. 9, 2009.

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Betty Blakley

February 9, 2021

I respected Dr. Ogden very much! I was a devoted patient of his for years! I was thinking of him today for some reason and found where he had passed in 2009! He was genuinely a great and caring doctor and saw me through a lot of issues. Dr. Ogden surely took his place in heaven and rightfully so!

Deb, I am so sorry for your loss. Do not know if you remember me or not but had to acknowledge Dr. Ogden’s passing!

Robin Garmon

January 1, 2010

DR.OGDEN delivered both of my children into the world.I remember when I had my first born 28 years ago I was only 16 yrs old.As I cried while in labor he cried with me & held my hand and assured me everything was going to be okay.Somehow his presence made it easier.When I had my 2nd child he tried to send me home at 11:00p.m. and I refused, thank GOD,because I delivered at 12:52a.m.He smiled and said,'' I'm glad you decided to stick around''.It would be 5yrs later that he found a nodule on my thyroid during a physical and sent me for a ultrasound which in turn ended up with surgery to remove it.The cancer had just started in the center of the nodule so they told me i was lucky it was caught so early.I feel I was lucky to have such a wonderful,caring & COMPASSIONATE doctor that I could trust and depend on.I loved this man because he not only felt like a doctor but a friend.Your family was lucky to have him as a husband, and father and my prayers go out to each of you.Be very proud of him and the memories he left behind.

Millie Huss

December 15, 2009

Debbie,
This is a very bad time of year for us to lose a dear loved one,for I have experienced it at this time.I want you to be strong but also let yourself grieve. The joy is that Bob is not suffering and is a glowing spirit to fill your heart now. Let God and prayers of others give you comfort.John 3:16, Love, MB Huss

lou mitchell

December 11, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

December 11, 2009

Dear Debbie and children, I am so sorry to hear of your husband and fathers passing. I am certain you know how many people loved him also. I will always remember how good he was to me at the time of my losses. Lovingly Wilma Hohn and children

Julie & Jim Bragg

December 10, 2009

We send our sympathy to all the Ogden family. We especially send our love to Dot and her famiy. Julie and Jim Bragg

Judy Freenab

December 10, 2009

I'm so sorry to hear of Dr. Ogden's passing. He was my doctor for many years. He was the most caring and compassion doctor I ever had. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Jeanne & Greg & Marshall Ball

December 10, 2009

To Robert, Allison, Pierce and Michael....may your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived. We are so sorry for your loss.

Barbara Moore

December 10, 2009

The first time I saw this man in the emergency room,I forgot why I was there ,he was so handsome.For 27 years after he was my Dr.He discovered I had cancer in time, that I have lived 37yrs. since then.He was a wonderful Dr.,blunt,straight to the point and to be admired for his life here.God will reward him.I'm so sorry for your loss,Deborah and Family.

Matt Ballard

December 9, 2009

Debbie, Sarah, Laurie, Robert, and Ken,
I'm so sorry for your loss. We grieve with you and desire deeply to be with you. you are continually in our prayers..much love for you all.
Matt, Chrissy Ballard and family

Pam Reel Anthony

December 9, 2009

Doctor Ogden was my doctor with both of my boys, and delivered both of them. I remember with the first one, I told him, as the labor got worse he got better looking every time he came thru the door. He just laughed and said " I Know". That was 37 years ago. With the second one he came into the room and jumped onto the edge of the bed, and wanted to know ,if that hurt. DUH. My son was sleeping and not taking his bottle, so he flicked him on the foot and made him cry. He told me then to feed him now , he!s awake. That was thirty-five years ago. He was a great doctor that his family should be proud of. He was loved by a lot of people, in his profession, especially his patients. He will be missed.

Vicki Worley

December 9, 2009

I am so sorry to hear of Dr. Ogden passing. I went to Dr. Robert Lester, and Dr. Ogden was in with them, and i had to have a C-Section due to having almost a 13 lb.baby. I knew months before he was delivered that i would be having a c-section, I had 2 ultra sounds one by Dr. Lester and then the next month Dr. Ogden saw me and he confirmed along with Dr. Lester that my son was Hydrocyphalic, he was so careing we all were crying because they knew that my son would not be normal, they sent me to Chapel Hill, and they could do nothing, because they saw no brain tissue. I t was an awful time but they were there for me. The one thing that sticks out to me that Dr. Ogden said was. The morning after i had surgery the nurses were trying to get me up, and i was hurting so bad, Dr. Ogden came in and i was crying, he asked me what was wrong, and i told him that i did not feel like getting up, and he told me to tell them to kiss my Butt!! He was awesome, and will be missed greatly. If you never got a chance to see Dr. Ogden you missed out on alot. He was awesome. God Bless the family.

Anna Graham Teague

December 9, 2009

Dr Ogden was a wonderful Doctor. We sure could use more like him. I am
sorry to hear of his passing. He was
my Doctor while with Dr Conner.I remember while in labor with my son
I told him how handsome he was.
He just smiled.

Sharon Jordan

December 9, 2009

On November 29, 1973 Dr. Ogden delivered my daughter, Dorinda. He took very good care of us during my pregnancy. It was sometimes a difficult one. My prayers are with his family! I am so sorry to hear of his passing!

Anearl Auten

December 9, 2009

I am so sorry to hear of Dr. Ogden passing. i lived in Gastonia for 27 years and I was his patient for several of those years. I am from Macon Ga. and have moved back to care for my mother. I did not realize he was from Macon. He was a outstanding man and doctor. Your family will be in my prayers.

De Yarda Darby

December 9, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of lost.

Dedra Glenn

December 9, 2009

Dear Debbie & Sarah: Brittany and I are saddened to hear of your loss. Our prayers are with you and your family during this time of bereavement. May God continue to comfort you and give you Peace during this time.
Love, Dedra Glenn & Brittany Walker

Lindy Rhinehart

December 9, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I was just talking about Dr. Ogden on Monday it has been many years 31 with my first child and my youngest being 24 he was my doctor and
how I loved him he was so kind and sweet always listened. I can remember with my last daugheter it was so funny Kimberly my daughter was just about to be born Dr. Ogden said what do you want a girl or boy I told him a girl just about that time Kimberly was born he said well it a girl and she is a big one 9 and half pounds and he tell all my family to come on in this is better than the price is right. M y last visit with him I will remember well it was for my yearly check-up I was still a little overweight and he was always letting you know you needed to lose a few pounds but that time he laughed and said you know we all have gained a little I laughed back and smile. After my check-up I went into his office and to my surprise he had cookies and said have some coke and cookies as we talked about your yearly he would ask about my family and I would always have pictures
of course he had pictures too of his family. That was my last visit with him but oh how I will always be so grateful for him being my Doctor and bringing my chlidren into my life. Thank you Dr. Ogden for not only being my Doctor for so many years but being my friend.

God Bless,

Lindy Rhinehart

Kay Rudisill

December 9, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Jean Gray

December 9, 2009

Dr. Ogden was so much more than a doctor to his patients. After moving 4 hours away from Gastonia, I continued to see him as my main OB/GYN. I even came back there for surgery, even though it was inconvenient, just to remain under his care. He was that special, and yes always had a listening ear and heart. I stayed with him until he closed his practice, and that was a sad day for many. I commend his family and caregivers for their love and care. He would be a doctor I would like to see emulated by our younger generation.

Susan Smith

December 9, 2009

Deb and Sarah, My thoughts and prayers will definitely be with you during this time and the time ahead. Bob was an awesome man and will be missed by alot of people. Just know that you want have to go through all this alone, God will be with you to carry you through. Love you, Susan Smith

Robin

December 9, 2009

I was really saddened this morning to read this. He was my doctor for many years. Since he retired, I have not found a doctor that I feel comfortable with like I did him. He was a very special doctor and they aren't too many doctors like him around these days. He took the time to talk to you even when his waiting room was full. He was a one-of-a-kind doctor. I sure have missed him since he retired, and thought of him often and wondered how he was because I really have missed him since his retirement. He will be missed, and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. He was a beloved doctor, and there will never be another Dr. Ogden.

DUANE YATES

December 9, 2009

Dear John & Family: Grace & I are so saddened to learn of your Brother's passing. May God comfort you now & in the days to come. Love,Duane & Grace

Ronnie Johnson

December 9, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

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