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Dr. Christopher S. Alexander

1957 - 2021

Dr.  Christopher S. Alexander obituary, 1957-2021, Wyoming, PA

BORN

1957

DIED

2021

FUNERAL HOME

M.J. McLaughlin Company

142 South Washington Street

Wilkes-Barre, Pennsylvania

Christopher Alexander Obituary

Christopher S. Alexander, Ph.D., 64, of Wyoming, beloved husband of Melissa, and father of Maria and Scott, died at his home surrounded by his loving family Sunday, Sept. 12, 2021.

Born Aug. 14, 1957, in Wilkes-Barre, he was a son of the late Dr. Robert J. Alexander and Grace Munley Alexander. Chris grew up in Wilkes-Barre, attended St. John the Evangelist Elementary School and was a graduate of Bishop Hoban High School, Class of 1975, where he was the class president.

He graduated from King's College with a Bachelor of Arts degree in government and politics and a minor in business administration. He received his Master of Business Administration degree from American University, Washington, D.C., and earned his Ph.D. in strategic management from the State University of New York at Albany.

Like his father, Chris chose a profession in academia. He began his career at College Misericordia in 1983, where he taught finance before being hired at Keuka College, Keuka Park, N.Y., where he taught from 1984 to 1989. At Keuka, he became a tenured associate professor and was the chair of the college's division of business and public affairs. He accepted a faculty position at King's College and the opportunity to return to Wilkes-Barre. He was a member of the McGowan School of Business faculty and rose to the academic rank of professor.

In 2011, he received the Academy of Educational Leadership's Outstanding Educator Award. He held the PNC Distinguished Service Professorship from 2007 to 2012, and was the 2005 recipient of the Max and Tillie Rosenn Outstanding Faculty Teaching Award.

Chris loved teaching, and his classes on business, management and marketing also brought powerful lessons of faith and life. His students recognized his passion for teaching. In course reviews, they frequently commented that his classes were challenging, but he was always fair, respectful and very, very funny. He taught at King's College for 32 years, shaping generations of graduates who will never forget him and how committed he was to them and their academic and personal growth, even if that meant teaching from a hospital room, which he did last semester. And even in that class, he made them laugh.

Chris selflessly lived a life of service to others and served his community in numerous roles. Included among them was his sequential service as board member, secretary, board vice president and board president of the Wyoming Valley Children's Association. He also served as interim director of the Wyoming Valley Children's Association for almost a year. He was also a proud and longtime member and past president of the Friendly Sons of St. Patrick. He was a member of St. Therese's Parish, Shavertown.

Chris was predeceased by his daughter, Maria Therese Alexander, on May 30, 2003. Since that day, not an hour went by that Chris and Melissa didn't think of their Maria and cherish her memory.

In addition to Melissa and Scott, a senior at King's, Chris is survived by his brother, Robert, and sister-in-law, Donna, Newtown, and their children, Robert III, Caileen, Ryan and Matthew. He is also survived by additional brothers and sisters-in-law, nephews and nieces and numerous cousins.

He and Melissa were married in 1995 and would have celebrated their 26th anniversary on Oct. 6. Together, they very much enjoyed visiting New Orleans, La., where Chris had taught at Our Lady of Holy Cross College while on a sabbatical from King's. Naturally, Chris had many friends in New Orleans. But, that was typical of him. He had a huge personality and lit up any room he entered. He also had the uncanny ability to make anyone he was talking with, even those he had just met, feel like they were the closest and oldest of friends. He was a man with many best friends.

He was also a lifelong devoted and die-hard fan of the Green Bay Packers.

Last spring, Chris was asked to give advice to King's graduating Class of 2021. He told them that he hoped they would always strive to be the best they could be, and that they would always give their all and never settle for second best. He then closed by saying, "Lastly, I hope you know that there is a God that loves you and expects you to use all the gifts and talents you have been given to make this world better for all of us. I not only hope, but know that you can and will." For him it wasn't just advice, but a statement of the life he led.

Celebration of Chris's Life begins Friday with visitation from 4 to 7 p.m. at McLaughlin's, 142 S. Washington St., Wilkes-Barre. A funeral Mass will be celebrated at 9:30 a.m. Saturday in St. Therese Church, Pioneer Avenue, Davis Street, Shavertown. Burial will be in St. Mary's Cemetery.

Donations to the Wyoming Valley Children's Association, 1133 Wyoming Ave., Forty Fort, PA 18704, or the Dr. Christopher S. Alexander Scholarship Fund, c/o King's College, 133 N. River St., Wilkes-Barre, will honor Chris's memory.

Share memories and condolences with Chris's family at www.mjmclaughlin.com.

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Published by Citizens Voice from Sep. 14 to Sep. 15, 2021.

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Peter Gagliardi

February 14, 2023

Dr. Chris Alexander and his late father Dr. Robert Alexander, have always been an inspiration to me. They were very dedicated, they worked very hard, and they never gave up. They had a higher purpose in life, as they were determined to make the world a better place to live. After all these decades, I am still doing what they taught me. I am still working very hard to make the world a better place to live. We lost both men much too early, as they were both young at heart and young in spirit when they passed away. Their legacy lives on in the lives of so many of their students.

Jack Farrell

September 22, 2021

Melissa,Scott,Bobby and Donna:
I am so sorry about Chris' passing. Chris and Frank Conway were my good friends at Bishop Hoban and Kings' College. I lost track over the years but I have a lot of great memories from those times. God bless you Chris.

Barbara Martin

September 22, 2021

Dear Melissa and Scott,
I just learned of Chris's passing from Jayne Klenner. I am so very sorry you have had to experience yet another loss. Chris was one in a million...just the kindest heart. I cannot even imagine your heartache. Please know you and Scott are in my thoughts and prayers. Jayne is putting together a Memorial Fund for a bench to be placed in Maria's Garden in Chris's memory. I have sent a donation directly to her to add to the others she has collected.

May GOD comfort you and bring you some peace as you face the difficult days ahead.

With deepest sympathy,
Barbara Martin

PA District 12 Sons of the American Legion

September 20, 2021

We will honor his memory this coming OCT 3th meeting with the District Everlasting Ritual. His name will be read during the ritual and bell rung in his honor. www.districtpa.com

Courtney Conway

September 20, 2021

Dr. Alexander will be greatly missed by his family, friends, students, and colleagues.

He was a life long friend of my father´s and their adventures made for great stories. I´m grateful that he played a part in creating wonderful memories for my dad.

Peter Gagliardi

September 17, 2021

His father, the late Dr. Robert Alexander was the finest professor I ever had. Dr. Robert Alexander said that the job of the professor is to simplify the complex. He did that very well and because of that, I could understand the world we live in, and become a respected political analyst and enjoy a career in government. He was so dedicated to his students that his goal was to become the best lecturer at King's College. He was not there to make a name for himself, he was there to help his students become successful and make a name for themselves. I never had the honor and pleasure of taking a class with Dr. Christopher Alexander, and it is obvious that he had the same values as his father. This family was totally dedicated to their students and the community. Chris was a great man, a Great American, family man and educator. A heartfelt thank you to the Alexander Family for all they have done for us.

Bonnie Adams

September 16, 2021

Melissa I worked with you at Manor Care when your daughter was so sick. I am truly sorry for your loss. You and your son are in my thoughts & prayers. God Bless

Susan Stravinsky Santayana

September 16, 2021

I'm so sorry to hear of the passing of Dr. Alexander. My son attended WVCA and I still have a beautiful picture displayed on our piano of him presenting our son with his diploma. He was always a kind and generous man who we have all learned something from. God bless!

Ed Chernesky, Portland, Oregon

September 16, 2021

Melissa, I am truly sorry for you. Remember me from grade school, Your father-in-law taught me at King's.
You were always a loving, caring person. you will survive with many special memories, I am sure.
Remember the good times. You are in my thoughts.

Jack Geracci

September 15, 2021

Melissa and family. I am saddened to hear of Chris´ passing. It has been many years but I hold you both in my heart.

Dennis Fisher

September 15, 2021

Friends like Chris seldom come into one's life. He and I shared many happy and dark times together. I will forever miss his wit, charm, and one of a kind personality. My sincere condolences to Melissa and Scott who lost a wonderful husband and father.

William DiAntonio King's Class of 1992

September 15, 2021

I was on the Dean's Trophy team in 1991 and 1992 primarily because I enjoyed Dr. Alexander's Marketing class and personality. In the second year of King's being in this competition (1992), we won the overall intercollegiate contest. That team was guided primarily by Dr. Alexander. It was one of the greatest memories of my college career.

Dr. Alexander meant a lot to me, like many of King's faculty. He played a part in my success in business and life. I am disappointed in myself for not reaching out to him sooner.

I want his family to know he made a difference in my life and after almost 30 years I still remembered him fondly. His family did not know me, but their Dad, Husband, Uncle, In-Law, etc was a terrific human being and made a huge difference in scores of people's lives like mine.
His family should be extremely proud of him for his life's work which was making a positive impact on people every day.
He will be greatly missed!

Karen Habersky

September 15, 2021

Dear Melissa and Scott,
Please accept my condolences on the passing of Chris. His beautiful obituary is a wonderful tribute to the kind and caring man he was. I will keep all of you i my prayers. Sincerely, Karen Habersky

Mike Kostelansky

September 15, 2021

Melissa: Sorry to hear about the passing of your husband. May God Bless you and your Family.

Maureen Metz

September 15, 2021

I loved spending time with Chris at WVCA board meetings, events and even enjoying a few pints at the St Patrick Day parade! I will miss him. Sending my thoughts and prayers to your family. What a generous and thoughtful man. RIP, Chris.

Nick Fazio

September 15, 2021

My sympathies to the family. Chris was a wonderful soul and everyone at King's will miss him dearly. It was an honor to have worked alongside him these past two years.

Martin Milita,Esq.

September 15, 2021

I recall Chris fondly. He was a wonderful educator and an even better person. My sincere condolences to his family and the King´s College Community.

Donna Dietsch

September 15, 2021

Melissa and Scott; my prayers, hugs and sympathy. I am so very sad to hear of your loss. But I also rejoice in your faith as you know that one day you will all be together in heaven. Melissa you and I have shared in a lot of loss but know that I am praying for you. The Lord is and will continue to be your strength. Praying for you both. Love in Christ, Donna

Mike Brown

September 15, 2021

My deepest condolences to Chris family Chris was a great guy always smiling I knew Chris from Kings. He will be truly missed by all R.I.P. Chris

Mary Ann Bottaro

September 15, 2021

Our condolences to the entire family, especially to Melissa and Scotty.
You are in our prayers.
The Bottaro Family at Sal´s Pizza-Subs and More, Forty-Fort, PA

barbara surma

September 15, 2021

My deepest sympathy to Melissa and Scott. So sad to hear about his death. Have faith and the Lord will guide
you thru your sorrow. Peace be with YOU both.

Jim Waters

September 14, 2021

Dr. Alexander was a professor of mine at King´s College in the mid 1990s. He had a profound affect on my college experience, and ultimately the direction I took my career. I absolutely loved his classes, and how he approached life. His energy, charm and humor were infectious. I feel fortunate to have crossed paths with Dr. Alexander. Love to his family.

Jim Waters

September 14, 2021

Dr. Alexander was a professor of mine at King´s College in the mid 1990s. He had a profound affect on my college experience, and ultimately the direction I took my career. I absolutely loved his classes, and how he approached life. His energy, charm and humor were infectious. I feel fortunate to have crossed paths with Dr. Alexander. Love to his family.

Rich Ormanowski

September 14, 2021

I knew Dr. Alexander from King's though I never had him for class. We knew each other to say hello and had brief conversations from all the homecomings and other events over the years. He will certainly be missed. Sympathy to his family and friends.

Marty & Kathy Kane

September 14, 2021

Dear Melissa & Family: we are so sorry to hear about Dr. Chris passing a beautiful person and fun to be in his company. Our thoughts&prayers are with your entire family at this time.

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142 South Washington Street, Wilkes-, PA 18701

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9:30 a.m.

Church of Saint Therese (Shavertown)

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