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Robert P. "Bob" Bahre, 93, well-known businessman, developer and auto-racing entrepreneur, died early Friday, July 24, at his home on Paris Hill. His wife Sandra and son Gary were with him at his passing.

Beginning in 1963 when he first came to Maine as a midget race car owner for a July Fourth race, Bahre recognized the potential, acquired and grew Oxford Plains Speedway into one of the leading and best-attended short tracks in the nation. It hosted regional and local racing and was the first in New England to host NASCAR Grand National race dates.

In the 1980s, he sold Oxford Plains and created New Hampshire International Speedway, the only superspeedway in New England, hosting an annual series of NASCAR and Indy car races and serving as a test track for the industry. The track was an immediate success with a long string of sellouts and TV contacts and became a huge stop on the national racing calendar. The Bahre family sold the New Hampshire tack in 2008.

Almost as an off-season job, Bahre started developing shopping center locations in a number of Maine towns as well as a single-family residential housing and family and elderly apartments for HUD and USDA. The apartment portfolio numbers more than 500 units at his death. He built hundreds more for other owners. He also launched Oxford Bank and Trust Company, now part of TD Bank and was a principle in a modular home factory operation in Oxford.

He was well-known for his force of personality, self-deprecatory wit and sometimes fiery temper. The temper served him well in keeping line-ups of race drivers listening to instructions and in keeping his mass of business undertakings going in the right directions.

Known as "Bob" to his dozens of associates and friends, he was born in Canton, Ct. on February 19, 1927, the first of three sons of Peter and Irene (Finnegan) Bahre. He started working on the family dairy farm at an early age and before he was a teenager was running his own trap line and selling furs. He attended local schools and high school and started a small excavation business with one piece of second hand equipment his senior year. "I spent four of the best years of my life in the 7th grade", he'd like to say.

Not everything he touched turned to gold. He told hilarious stories of business misadventures as a youth, buying loads of produce or livestock out-of-state and running into regulations that cost him his investment.

In the late 1970s, Gov. James Longley appointed him to the Maine Guarantee Authority which became FAME, the Financial Authority of Maine. He was also a prominent backer of the Oxford Casino in its development and start-up. His commitment grew out of a concern for increasing the job market in the area.

His capacity for work was nearly inexhaustible and he might call business associates early or late seven days a week. His right hand man, especially in the racing business, was his brother Richard, who died in 2008. Even after strokes took their toll on his health, he would take trips to his office, work his telephone and dine out in the community.

His generosity was legendary and extensive. Besides his St. Catherine of Siena church in Norway, he contributed annually to a number of churches in Maine and New Hampshire. He was a major contributor to Stephen's Memorial Hospital in Norway and made extensive contributions to Oxford Hills High School scholarship fund and other scholarship funds around the Maine and New Hampshire. Employees and former employees were also recipients. He never divulged the extent of his giving. Word of it leaked from recipients and officials at various institutions.

He never drank alcohol, never smokes, was a devote churchgoer, but readily admitted to a weakness for antique cars. His collection was considered world class and was shown once a year to benefit the Paris Hill Memorial library.

For many years, the Bahre family hosted a Christmas party at their Paris Hill home for neighbors, friends and business associates. The party was often attended by Governors and Senators who also appreciated the Bahre largesse.

He was recognized with a number of community awards and was inducted in the Maine Sports Hall of Fame in 2017.

He is survived by his wife Sandra, a son Gary, a daughter, Terri Carleton (Kevin), a brother, Everett of Palo Alto, CA., grandsons Christopher Carleton of Portland and Weston Carleton of Bethel.

He was predeceased by his parents, his brother Richard, son Douglas and an infant son.

Funeral Services will be held Wednesday July 29th at 1 p.m. at Oxford Plains Speedway, Main Street Oxford, Maine with private family burial to follow. As we strive to keep everyone safe and healthy, it is requested that attendees wear a mask and social distancing measures will be followed.

In lieu of flowers you can donate in Bob's honor to the fund for Stephens Memorial Hospital Imaging Equipment Upgrades, 181 Main Street Norway, Maine 04268. Services are under the direction of Chandler Funeral Homes & Cremation Service 45 Main Street South Paris, Maine. Online condolences can be shared with the family at www.chandlerfunerals.com.

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Published by Concord Montior on Jul. 28, 2020.

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Dave Fairman

June 16, 2025

Rest in Pease Bob, thank you for being a mentor!

Dave Fairman

March 24, 2025

Absolutely great neighbor. Thanks for your help in finding an architect. I remember driving the tractor while you and Everett loaded hay bales.

Dave Fairman

November 30, 2024

Rest in Peace Bob a great neighbor on North St

John Barbato

August 19, 2021

Robert, I miss our bi-monthly phone calls, your business in site along with your wit , always brightened my day. RIP your friend John b

Dave Fairman

January 3, 2021

A great neighbor on North St in Suffield growing up. His mother ran our 4-H group and we played basketball in the barn once the cows ate enough hay.

Laura Mitchell

August 1, 2020

Rest in peace Mr. Bahre. We have never met but I wanted to thank you for generosity. I was a recipient of your college scholarship from 1999-2002 from the NHIS in Loudon NH. I graduated with honors in 2003 and now teach where it all started for me as a child in Loudon NH. I wish you and your family peace and my deepest sympathy for the loss of such a generous man.
❤Laura Mitchell

Dorothy Jacobs

July 31, 2020

I met Bob a number of years ago while on a trip with my husband -his racing business associate- Joe Jacobs, Race Tires America, Indiana, Pa. He was a most gracious host. He and my husband had racing in their blood. May his ride be gentle.

Anne

July 29, 2020

i didn’t personally know Mr. Bahre, but from what I’ve read and have heard about him, I grieve his passing with the community. My condolences to his family, his municipal partners, and his Track Fans. I’m sorry I never met him, but I’m so impressed with his accomplishments in life and to his community.
May he Rest In Peace, and we all know that his contribution to the community is something to seriously remember and memorialize.
Anne

Sharlene Myers

July 28, 2020

We were saddened to hear of Bobs passing. Unfortunately we won’t be able to attend Bobs memorial service. To Sandy, Gary, Terri and family - I will cherish the memories of Bob and all he did not only for racing but for the community. He was one of a kind and will be missed. RIP Bob ❤

Sharlene Myers

July 28, 2020

We were saddened to hear of Bobs passing. Unfortunately we won’t be able to attend Bobs memorial service. To Sandy, Gary, Terri and family - I will cherish the memories of Bob and all he did not only for racing but for the community. He was one of a kind and will be missed. RIP Bob ❤

Sharlene and Donnie Myers

July 28, 2020

We were saddened to hear of Bobs passing. Unfortunately we won’t be able to attend Bobs memorial service. To Sandy, Gary, Terri and family - I will cherish the memories of Bob and all he did not only for racing but for the community. He was one of a kind and will be missed. RIP Bob ❤

John Barbato

July 28, 2020

Robert Bahre, a great guy and businessman, best of all a good friend to many. John barbato ocean state job lot

Karen Baillargeon

July 27, 2020

So sorry for your loss. He will be greatly missed. He went to our church and always teased my husband, Nelson, for hugging all the women. We are both huggers so I asked if I could give him one. He kind of grumbled but I always gave him a hug anyways. Thoughts and prayers coming your way!! Karen and Nelson Baillargeon

Walter Newell

July 26, 2020

He Was A Great Man Who Did A Lot For Racing & Others

Exquisite Tribute Standing Spray

Richard Liberty

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Pete Gabrielli

July 26, 2020

God Bless Bob Bahre.
Condolences to his family.
From one race fan to another, may you Rest In Peace Mr. Bahre.

Richard and Blanche Hardy

July 26, 2020

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always. We enjoyed NHIS for many years before moving away. You were always there and told me your name was Bob when I call you Mr. Bare.

July 26, 2020

I am so sorry to hear about the families loss.may the families hearts ♥ be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times the family shared together with the dear loved one lost in death.As the family cherished a wonderful life that was well lived and loved by families and friends.my heartfelt sympathy and condolences to the families during this difficult time of grief and pain .
-GHP/LM

Ed Murphy, Jr.

July 26, 2020

I will remember Bob as the who entrusted a 16 y/o Boy with the job of pit steward at his race track. He was both a mentor and life long friend. Rest in peace Bob, REST IN PIECE.

John files

July 26, 2020

He was a great and kind man, he had a heart of gold, he will be greatly missed by all.

Meg Crandall

July 25, 2020

When my son was in the hospital in 2004, I met Bobs family because they were there after Bobs accident. When you spend a lot of time waiting for information, you get to know about other families also waiting. I will always remember how very special Bobs family was. They had their own problems but were so kind to me as I waited for news. Many prayers for your family at this time.

Richard Tucker

July 25, 2020

I remember Mr bahre very fondly as he owned a 1948 Tucker that he opened his meseum just for me to see it as i myself am a 1948 Tucker. RIP

Teresa Smart

July 25, 2020

Rest In Peace , Thankyou Mr Bahre for all you have done for the people of Oxford , Maine

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