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Nicolette Georgiades
December 12, 2020
Hi Pa,
The last time I wrote to you was in 2007 when I was just 13 years old. Well, I’m all grown up now. I’m 27 and although so much time has passed us by since we lost you, not a day goes by that I don’t think about you. I’m sure you’ve heard me talking about you. I have such an interest in science and have been a science teacher for 5 years now. I teach high school Earth science and I am really fascinated with all of Earth’s processes. Tonight my friend was over and I was talking about you so much. In fact, I decided to Google you (that means I searched the internet for information about you). That’s how I came across this page again after all of these years. I found out that you were not only a chemical engineer, but also an environmental pollution expert! You were so ahead of your time. Here we are in 2020 and people are still denying human impact on climate. I wish I could speak to you! I have so many questions now that I’m older. Pa, I’m so grateful for all of the memories I have with you. I was only 10 when you passed away, but in those 10 years that I had you, you really connected with me and you will always have a special place in my heart. I hope you know how much I miss you.
I went for reiki recently. I know you were there because your energy was very strong and you were very upset with what is going on right now. I just want you to know I’m okay. I’m going to be getting married and I am really building a beautiful life for myself. I try to stay close to my brother and his family as well as to my sisters. It’s difficult to keep up with everyone because we all get so caught up in our lives but I do see everyone’s updates on social media and I’m always sending love, light and positive energy. I know I need to make more of an effort though because life sure does go by quickly.
I miss you, I miss Grandma. I miss Grandma Rose. I miss Uncle Frank. I’m sad that the list of people I miss has grown. I feel you around though. I feel you around more than anyone else. I think grandma is busy checking in on grandpa and auntie.
Reading the posts that grandma left you really hurt. I knew she was suffering but she did such a good job hiding it and staying positive that I didn’t even realize she had accepted her defeat during the last year and a half that she was here on earth. I don’t think I’ll ever truly recover from losing her. Grandma was a lot like you. She was a bright light who had the warmest and most comforting energy. When she was here I just knew that no matter what happened, everything would be okay. I miss her words of wisdom. I miss the comfort she gave to me. I miss her love. I miss laying across her lap while watching tv. I miss so much about her that to even let those memories in floods me with overwhelming grief. Sometimes I feel like I lost her today. Like the wound is fresh. I wish you were all here. I wish we could visit somehow. I love you. I will try to write again soon, but you know how it goes. In the meanwhile, keep visiting me. Keep dropping down pennies and giving me signs that you’re here all along. Pass on my loving energy to our family. Make sure Grandma really feels that love and tell her that I could use some extra love and light right now too.
Stay close,
Nikkie
Christina georgiades
July 8, 2017
Dearest Pa,
I know it's been a very long time. Sorry about that. Life sometimes has a way of different twists and turns, hills, and valleys. I was always the one who just wanted a straight path. Never did get that. Shocker. The family has grown, Anthony is married with a family of his own. Each time I look at his twins I feel a slight pain knowing how crazy you would be for them. They're absolutely adorable. My mom would have really loved them as well and would probably overstay her welcome at my son's house! Sure wish both of you were here to see that. Nicolette is doing well. She's an Earth Science teacher and survived her first year in middle school. She went on an interview a few weeks ago and landed the job of her dreams. So proud of them.
The family has grown apart. No one calls on the phone anymore and it's just too difficult to appease people. Miss you so much. Miss my mom so much and really wish you'd visit.
Colby is all grown up and got himself a job in Florida and Daniella just graduated college. They are wonderful kids and I see a part of you in each of them. I don't get to see anyone else.
Babette and Rick are great!! Still together and the last survivors (as I like to call them) I keep in touch with them and hope to see them in a few months.
Love you,
See you real soon,
Tee
Christina Gallo
January 12, 2014
Dear Pa,
It's been over ten years since you've left us and not a day goes by without a reminder of you or mom. I miss you so very much.
I just wanted to let you know that I'm writing! I can still remember your face when you told me a million years ago that I'm good and should pursue it! Thank you for having faith in me, you were always the one that lifted my spirits up and managed to make me smile.
I love you so much and miss you even more. xoxoxo to infinity.
Babette Hankey
March 30, 2011
Hi Pa,
Things have changed so much around here since Auntie's been gone. I know that you'll must be enjoying each other, but it doesn't lessen the amount of hurt we have and how much we still miss both of you. Our family has carried on the tradition of cruising. Unfortunately, others haven't joined in, but that's okay. We've been able to make our family memories just as you, Auntie and mom showed us how fun cruising could be. Colby is doing well at college. He just returned from an international competition and placed 5th in the world. He still talks about the day you helped him with his chemistry project and understanding PH. Daniella is a sophomore and getting ready for Senior Prom (yes, she was asked to Senior Prom) and her sweet 16. Instead of a party, she decided she wanted to cruise with a few of her friends so we are planning that now. Space must be getting crowded up there. Have you seen Jerry or Robbie? My dear boss died unexpectedly a few months ago. If you see either of them, please watch out for them. Jerry loves chocolate so Auntie and Jerry can enjoy some chocolate together.
As always, I'm thinking of you and miss you lots!
Love always,
Babette
August 10, 2010
Hi Pa,
I just wanted to write you and wish you a very Happy 100th Birthday. I suspect you, Auntie, Grandma, Aunt Ruby and all your new friends are celebrating your birthday with you.
I guess you have been busy lately showing auntie around. None of us thought that she would be joining you so soon, but she could no longer hold on.
Please take good care of her and I hope you are having a very happy celebration for you birthday.
Thinking of you and miss you.
You are NVR4GTN.
I love you,
Babette
Joanne
May 13, 2010
Hi Pa,
I bet you thought I forgot about you...since i never write...but i talk to you often and you let me know you are with me because i am always finding pennies and i know that it you..... and I could never ever ever forget you. I went to a psychic and she told me that you have two woman around you....i know that is grandma and aunt ruby...and I am sure pierre and the other doggies are there too....do you want to know all that is going on...well i got married again..imagine that....lol...but this time i did it right. You would love him. he is the nicest man and has many of your qualities.... that is why i love him soooo....nicki is a big girl now with two babies of her own..Corinne and Emily...so hard to believe. Keithie is kinda a artsy fartsy kinda kid and patrick is going to try for the same thing as anthony. thank goodness for anthony - he put in a good word for patrick....my time sure does fly..they are all adults...auntie is not well but she is going to get better.....she brings the light and laughter to everyone and always has......and she will continue to do so forever.....my mom had a bad surgery but she is much better....and guess wheat i am going to have my gall bladder out just like you...now it is a lot easier and the doc told me that it is hereditary so i got it from you...thats ok......how is ma and aunt ruby.....do they have bazaars up there......and does ma have an antique shop....smoochie is still around and she is still hopping along....we are planning a family vacation for everyone at Myrtle Beach in June and I know that you and ma and aunt ruby will be there....and i know we will find a lot of pennies...i found one yesterday when i was gardening outside and knew you were watching me mulch.... my dad is not well but he is doing better than in the past and that is good and i think getting somewhat better...babette rick colby and daniella are doing good.colby and daniella are big too...colby is getting ready to go to college. and AA rick, taylor and hunter are doing ok......they have their ups and downs.....i have a great job but work a lot.....but i have a great boss who appreciates everything i do and you dont find many like that....love you and keep droppin those pennies from the sky......oh yes i forgot to tell you i ride on a motorcycle now....and i am 54....still young at heart...lvoe you
Barbara Colantuono
May 8, 2010
Dear Dad,
I know it's been some time since I last wrote but I'm sure you already know everything that is going on. Joe's mom, Rose, died Aug. 29, 2010. It was very quiet and peaceful which we were grateful for. Dee and Tom are divorced. The kids live with Tom but spend a lot of time with Dee. They finally seem OK with everything. Tina's been out of work for a while but getting unemployment. Nikkie is living with Peter and seems very happy with the school and situation. Anthonly is almost finish with the cadet program and waiting to hear if he made the academy which starts June 15. Frank is doing a little better. Walking a little with the wALKER BUT STILL NEEDS SOMEONE TO WATCH HIM ALMOST all the time. Joy had a major operation in October. She had most of her insides removed. Thank God, everything went well with no after complications. Joe is very tired and worried about me and is taking care of everything. They think the cancer has spread to the lungs but not sure. I can't do the test because of the breathing. I'm on oxygen all the time and have trouble doing most everything. I'm on a new chemo which is knocking the heck out of me, unless it's the cancer. We'll find out if this new chemo is working next week for the first time. I certainly hope so. Joy and Frank were up for 2 weeks a week ago. I know she's really worried about me. She's coming back next Wednesday. I feel bad about that because it causes problems with Paula and it's also expensive for her. Right now all I am is a burden to everyone. I can't do anything, my quality of life is nill and I make it the same for Joe. I truly hope I start to get better, but if this chemo doesn't work, I don't think I'll be around for much longer. I had so many plans and things yet to do, but guess that's not going to happen. Please put in a good work with the main Man upstairs. Miss you lots. Kids say I do so many things and expressions like you. Give Mom a kiss for me and tell her I said, "HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY, I LOVE YOU1'
Love & kisses & hugs,
Barbara
babette hankey
October 19, 2009
Hi Pa,
Please watch over mom and auntie and spread those angel wings. They both need lots of love and prayers right now for their strenght and health. Please touch upon Uncle Joe and give him the support that he needs right now. We miss you!
Love you and miss you,
You are NVR4GTN
Babette
Barbara Colantuono
April 16, 2009
Dear Dad,
Last Sunday was Easter. Of course I thought of you as always and hoped you were enjoying your jelly beans. We had a quiet but nice Easter. Weather was cold and windy but at least sunny. We left on Monday for AC and came back on Wed. There were so many kids at the hotel because some of the schools were out for Easter break. It rained Mon. and Tues. in AC but we had a nice time. It was just Joe and myself. Anthony was here for the weekend. It was really good seeing him. He looks really good and sounds happy. Sounds like he has his life pretty much together and all going in the right direction. He just bought a new 2009 Jeep Wrangler. It's really nice. A real guy's car. He's very excited about it. Nikkie's going full force on plans for her sweet 16 party. We went to the hotel today for her to finalize the food and color scheme. It's really going to be such a nice party. I'm sure she'll love it. Tina is really going all out on this one. Tyler and Brandon are very busy with baseball now and doing well. Dee and Tina are fine and very busy with their own things. I had 2 chemos today but I'm feeling fine so far. The last scan showed everything improved so that was good news. The weather was 60 today, very nice, and the next couple of days are supposed to be nice also. Spring has to be here soon. I think Joy and Frank will be up in May for Nikkie's party and then stay for a week or so and we'll go away and do some things. I hope they come but won't be sure till the last minute. You know how Joy is. Nicole is having another baby in July. Another girl. Emily will be 2 years old in Oct. She just sent me Easter photos and boy is Emily getting so big. She looks just like Jason. Nicole looks great. Guess that's all the news for now. Will keep you up dated on things. Much love, kisses, and hugs, to you and Mom. Be verrrry happy and peaceful always. Know you are always with us and included in everything.
Love,
Barbara
Barbara Colantuono
March 26, 2009
Dear Dad,
Well, I guess it's time to bring you up-to-date. Weather is better but not really warm yet. I think in another week or two, Spring should really start to set in - I hope. Frank is doing a little better, stronger from the waist up and walking a little. I'm trying to get Joy and him to flfly up for a couple of weeks in May. I ththink the change of pace might be good for both of them and I'd like to spend time with them. Joy is getting very tired and worm out what with taking care of the house, flea market, and looking after Frank. I got very good news from the doctor last week. New tests showed that the cancer is gone from my spine and that ththe cells in my chest are reducing. Joe, on the other hand, is walking with a cane. All of a sudden, a couple of months ago, he got a bad pain in his leg. After MRI's and x-rays, they say he has osterporos of the bone and something in his lower back that is pressing on a nerve. He now goes for therapy 3x a week, but it doesn't seem to help much. He has a couple more tests next week, and then the doctor will decide what course of action he'll take to improve his condition. Dee and the kids seem to be doing a little better which is really good. Tina was worried about her job, which they did do away with but they offered her another position with the company. I think it's great because there's so many pluses being there and all you hear today are people with no jobs and can't seem to find any. Nikkie is doing well in school and looking forward to her sweet sixteen party and working on the plans for it. Anthony is doing very well with the cadet program and likeing it. I'm so happy and proud of him, he seems to have his future settled and in a good direction. Tyler and Brandon are finishing up basketball and now starting baseball. Brandon's team finished being the county and regional champs and he plays this Saturday in Staten Island for the State champs. He's very excited and of course, we all hope they win. I lost all my hair again and am feeling a little down in the dumps but I try to dwell on the good things and not worry too much about other things but it's not that easy. I guess that's about everything for now. You know I constantly think about all the fun things we did and shared and really miss it but you warm my heart everytime I think of you and what a great Dad and friend you were. As always all my love, hugs, and kisses, to you and Mom. Please look out for all the kids for me and steer them in the right direction.
Love,
Barbara
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Barbara Colantuono
February 3, 2009
Dear Dad,
Yesterday it was 50 but today it's 32 and snowing. Not too much is expected but enough to be annoying, about 2-4 inches. Joy, of course, is having very nice weather so we know where your hanging out. I've had 15 sessions of radiation, only 5 more to go. The doctor says everything is going well and that the radiation should take care of the cancer in the spine. Dee had her operation on Friday. Everything looks good but it still has to go to the pathology lab for a final analysis. She's very sore but doing OK. Andrea, Greg's fiancee, her father died this morning of pancreatic cancer. He was very sick recently. I think he was only in his late 50's or early 60's. Anthony is doing well and busy with his cadet program. Nikkie is doing well in school and getting ready to plan for her sweet 16 birthday. Brandon and Tyler are coming around but still need a lot of time to adjust. Joy and Frank are doing about the same as when I last wrote. Frank's getting stronger on his upper body and can't really walk or even stand for a time. Joy is overwhelmed with everything and very tired. Joe has something wrong with his hip and leg and is seeing a doctor and will start with a therapist tomorrow. Hopefully that will get better soon. Boy, getting old really has it's problems but I keep saying that you were going strong until you reached 92. I don't know what happened to us because we ceretainly are not in the condition and doing what you did when you were our age. That's it for now. Always in my thoughts and heart. Lots of love, kisses, and hugs, to you and Mom. Keep a watch out for all of us and put in a good word whenever you can.
Love,
Barbara
Barbara Colantuono
January 14, 2009
Dear Dad,
I wrote you in Dec. about all that had taken place up to that date but see it's not listed so I guess it didn't go through for some reason. I know your aware of all the happenings lately and most of them are not too good. But I also know that your doing all you can and will guide and help as much as possible. It's very cold this week so I'm sure your hanging out with Joy and she could use the company and the help. Frank is getting a little better she says, and hopefully within time he'll be able to walk a little and then maybe he'll also be able to go to more places and it will ease up for Joy also. I'm holding my own and things don't seem as bad as I originally thought. The doctors all sound very encouraging and have put me more at ease. I started the radiation today. Didn't feel a thing and I'm told that it should take care of the problem within 18 to 20 treatments. The cumadin should take care of the blood clot and I think the phenomona infection is almost gone. I'll see that doctor tomorrow for a check-up and results. I guess I just want to be as much like you as possible, so I'm on the cumadin too. Deanna could be better and I'm hoping that will happen soon. A could use some of your help also. You really have to spread yourself thin to take care of all of us but I know you sure are trying. Tried to put flowers at the cemetary on the 18th but there were no cup holders available(what else is new). As always, I think of you and smile and miss you all the time. Hope you and Mom are enjoying everything and are very happy and full of peace. I'll close now with lots and lots of love, kisses, and hugs.
Barbara
Babette Hankey
January 11, 2009
Dear Pa,
It seems as so much time has gone by but in reality it's just that so much has been changing. Last year, and again this year so far, have been somewhat challenging. Each of our families have been touched with their own hard ache and challenges as you are well away. I know it must be breaking your heart to see everything going on and to see those who you love so dearly suffer.
There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of you and/or pray that you are watching over us and guiding us in the right direction. By us, I mean each and everyone of us in our family who needs your angel advice, love and direction.
It's rather nice in Florida right now, so after you finish looking after Auntie and making sure is all ok, why don't you come down? Mom could use a friend right now.
I hope you had a wonderful Christmas and can help us all figure out this new year.
Love and miss you.
You are NVR4GTN
Babette
Babette Hankey
August 10, 2008
Hi PA,
I wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of you on your Birthday.
Happy Birthday Little Boy -- 98 years!
I hope you had your favorite cake and ice cream with Grandma (Carvel of course).
I really miss you and love you lots.
you are NVR 4 GTN
Love you,
Babette
Barbara Colantuono
August 10, 2008
Dear Dad,
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
Gosh, I can't believe another year has gone by. You would have been 98!!!. I know how you always said you were going to make 100 and you will, just not with us in person only in spirit. I'll be going to the cemetary in a few minutes but you're not really there but I'll leave flowers anyway and hope you and Moim get to see them. Enjoy your cake and festivities with your family and new friends and know that we all send all our love to you. I'm leaving for Florida tomorrow. Just me, I'm flying. Thought I might be able to give Joy a hand while Frank is in the rehab hospital. She sounds kind of depressed and overwhelmed with I speak with her. Fank is coming along but very slowly and I guess there's a lot a arrangements to be made before he comes home. Weather has been very beautiful. I wonder what we would have planned for your birthday if you were here. A cruise I hope. I started the new chemo on Thursday. Just got a little quizzy the last couple of days but nothing really bad so I'm grateful for that. Nikkie is still in Greece. She'll be coming home in about a week or so. She was gone over a month and am sure she's having a great time. Dee will be starting her job again next week and Tine is going for a second interview on a job that sounds pretty good. The boys seem to be doing well and Anthony is working and waiting to hear from the police academy about starting that program. Hope you're watching over all of us and guiding and putting in a good word wherever it's needed. I'm always thinking of you and the stuff we used to do and all the fun and laughs. Boy, I really do miss that. Sit along side of me on the plane tomorrow and keep me safe and no squeezing the ear plugs. Miss and love you lots. Lots of hugs, kisses, and love, to you and Mom.
Barbara
Barbara Colantuono
July 27, 2008
Dear Dad,
Well it's time to get you caught up on what's been happening. We went to Ocean City for a week in June. Joe, myself, Nikkie, her girlfriend, and Brandon. We had beautiful weather and had a very good time. Boy, was the ocean ever tretchious but fun. I couldn't really stay in it because it was too rough for me, but I wanted to. I did get to go Jet skiing and parasailing. That was really fun. Tina met us down there and we all had a very nice time. Last week Joe and I were in the Poconos. We had 2 really nice units and it was a shame that no one used the 2nd one. I was hoping that Joy and Frank would come but Joy had just done the Mexican rivera cruise with Babette and then a stay for 5 days in Los Angelas so she only came to NY for a few days and then her and Frank flew home. Frank didn't go on the trip. A stayed with him for a while and then brought him to her house and hen met Joe and I in AC and then he came home with us. It was a nice visit. Then when Frank and Joy were home a couple of days, he fell in the kitchen and fractured his hip. But the surgery went very well and he just was moved into a rehab hospital and they think that Frank should heal well and be walking again in a couple of months. We're all very happy that the prognosis is good and hoping for the very best soon. I go back to the doctor's tomorrow for a blood check-up and another scan. I'm hoping all goes well with the scan but am pretty sure they will have to change the chemo again. I think I'm getting immume to the one I'm on. It's been just about 1 year. We have a few other things going on right now which I know your aware of so please keep us all in your thoughts and prayers and talk to the big guy for us. Oh yes, Nikkie is in Greece for a month with her Aunt Markella. Keep an eye on her for us. Anthony is really getting his act together. He graduated in May and is working security at Target department store. He's also applied to a police cadet training program. He's done all his interviews except for the family and neighbors. That's this Thursday. Everything is looking good for him and I'm very happy and proud about that. You've got a big job ahead for the next few months watching over all of us and giving us strength and direction. Give Mom a big kiss for me and as always I'm sending lots of hugs, kisses, and love, to both of you. Always in my heart and thoughts.
Love,
Barbara
Babette Hankey
July 22, 2008
Pa,
I know you've been watching over us so you know Dad's situation. Thanks for the penny today....it was right when I was missing you most. Right now, mom and dad need you more than ever to think of them and keep them in your thoughts and prayers. Dad's really nervous about the surgery. While mom appears to be strong, I can tell that she too is a little scared too. Nobody knows that outcome of how dad will do after the surgery so we are making plans for home health care and/or a rehab center.
Dad has been really strong throughout this. I know the pain must be killing him but he is just taking it and keeping his humor. At night, he gets a little silly and weak from the meds. Mom has been pretty much staying with him round the clock.
Jo is coming down tomorrow with Larry to see him and help out. Tonight I came home to get some rest and will return to the hospital tomorrow for Dad's surgery. I'm praying that he will have the will, strength and stamina to walk, in time, after this surgery.
Pa, I wish you were here right now. I could really use that reassuring smile that you always gave us to let us know that you love us and that everything is going to be okay. It's really hard to see dad in so much pain with his broken hip.
Keep mom and dad on the radar screen along with my sisters and their families, auntie and uncle and their families. Everyone could use your love and big hug right now!
Love you lots and miss you.
you are NVR4GTN
Babette
Barbara Colantuono
April 6, 2008
Dear Dad,
Well a few months have gone by since I last wrote to you. Today is April 8th and it's cloudy and cool. Not very nice at all. Yesterday was very sunny and warm, around 60. I haven't done anything very exciting, just usually stuff. I did do the cruise late Jan. with Joy, Frank, and her friends from the flea market. We had a very nice time and were wishing you were with us. Tyler and Brandon are doing well and very busy with their baseball now. Nikkie is doing well in school and really getting so grown up. Anthony will graduate in May and then start working as an apprentice with the plumbing and heating. Andrea just got back from Joy's. She and her whole family were there for a week. They all had a very nice time and everything went well. I took a ride by the house this week. Still nothing has changed. Just a reality sign and I'm not sure whether it was for rent or sale. The road is completed by your house and it really is nice. Also we went to the mall. They redid the entire thing. Changed all the color scheme and placed very comfortable couches and chairs all over the place. In the center, where the fountain was, they put a Starbuck's and a lot of seating area. I said to Joe how you would have liked walking around and then getting a cup of coffee and sitting and reading your newspaper. I think about all the time and know what you would be doing if you were with me. I hope you hear when I tell you what's going on. I always see you smiling that "Little Boy" smile of yours. Very soon it will be sunny and warm and that will be nice. I can sit ouitside a little then. Joy will be turning 70 in June. Can you believe that? I think her kids are planning on going down and surprising her. I'm not sure yet whether or not I'll be going too. Two weeks from today Nicole is baptizing her baby. Joy and Frank will be up for that and afterwards we plan to go to AC for a few days. Frank is doing pretty well. He's getting around without a walker or wheelchair, but needs watching over most of the time. Guess that's it for now. Lots of hugs, kisses, and love, to you and Mom.
Love,
Barbara
Barbara Colantuono
January 3, 2008
Dear Dad,
Well it's been some time since I last wrote. It's Jan. 3, 2008. Another year that you were'nt with us - only in spirit. It's hard to believe that you've been gone 4 years. I look at the tree and think how you used to be here to celebrate except for the last couple of years when you went to Florida. I still use the manger that you and Dee made when she was in the 7th grade and it's still beautiful. Anthony was up here for the holidays and that was nice. Nikkie left for her Dad's the day after Christmas. Tyler and Brandon loved all their gifts from Santa as well as from everyone else. All in all it was a pretty good Christmas but you were deeply missed as always for everything. New Year's was quiet and sad - thinking of how fast time is going by and how many things have changed and aren't here any longer. I hope you and Mom liked your flowers and wreaths. I'll go back on the 8th of Jan. and bring more flowers. I know your not around - too cold. Today is very cold but at the end of the week it's suppose to warm up. My numbers are still doing well. I'm still planning on leaving for Florida on the 25 of Jan for Joy's and then we go on the 4 day cruise. That should really be nice. Hope nothing happens to change my plans. I'm having my after holiday dinner on Sat night. Rose, Lucky, Marilyn, Jerry, Nappy, Angela, Marie, Skeets, Edith (Lucky's sister), Rose, Joe and I. You remember when you were here and I'd have the party. MaryAnn and Pete and Joan and Lou use to come too. We'd have a nice time together and you liked talking to everyone and them to you. Guess that's about all for now. As always, lots aof kisses, hugs, and love, to you and Mom. Always in my thoughts and heart.
Love,
Barbara
Barbara Colantuono
October 28, 2007
Dear Dad,
Not much new since I last wrote to you but was just sitting here thinking of you so I thought I drop a quick line or two. Today is Sunday, it's nice and sunny, not too cold, about 54. Last night I had people from Throgs Neck over to visit. I hadn't seen them in a very long time. You knew them all. They have their illnesses and problems but aren't doing too bad. It was nice to see them again and get caught up. Of course, they all have grand kids now and that's their big thing. Nicole had her little girl. Emily Paige weighed 7 lbs. 14 oz. and was born on Oct. 20. They say she looks just like Nicole when she was a baby. JoAnn is estatic! I'll probably go down and see the baby next month some time. Halloween is Wed. and I'm looking to go to another haunted house tonight. I heard about one in West Haven, CT that sounds pretty good. The kids are all doing fine and keeping busy. My markers are way down. I go on Wed. for chemo and probably for another blood count. I just read about a grand opening at the Danbury Mall because of the renovations. They're having entertainment and now have a center court for activities and attractions. I thought right away how you would have liked to go and see it all. That's about it for now. Lots and lots of love, hugs, and kisses, to you and Mom. Miss and love you all the time.
Love,
Barbara
Barbara Colantuono
October 20, 2007
Dear Dad,
I just got finished writing you a nice long letter filling you in on all the new news and then my computer froze so here I go again. First, the weather is very nice, low 70's. Should last for a few more days. Last Sunday, Dee, Tom, Tyler, myself, Nikkie, and 2 of her friends went to the Forest of Fear. Halloween is almost here and you know how I like those kind of things. It was pretty good but I'd still like to go to one of the large amusement parks for their fright nights. Maybe next year. A couple of days ago, Joe and I took a ride to Ridgefield and the mall. Rt. 7 is more than half done and is very nice. The Red Lion is completely gone and they're building a 3 story structure. Not sure what it's going to be. We stopped at the house. Nothing has changed since the day it was sold. There was a property for lease sign on it. I wonder if Ray, the man who bought your house, is still planning to do something with it or if he's sorry he did buy it. I know we're lucky we sold it when we did because prices have come way down and they're so many more properties for sale now. We then went to the mall. They redoing the whole thing with new tile floors and changing the ceilings and walls. Making it newer and more up-to-date. It's coming along very nice. I know you would have enjoyed watching the change take place. We ate at Ruby Tuesday's. They've changed that too. It has a warmer and a little more up scaled look. Joe, Dee, and I went to a fund raiser for breast cancer at Tina's bar last night. She did a really good job. They had door prizes and raffles. It was a very nice crowdl. We left about 11:30 and it was starting to get crowded then so I hope she did well. She really worked hard on it. Tomorrow morning she, Dee, Nikkie, and maybe myself, are doing a cancer walk at Orchard Beach. The weather is supposed to be very nice, that's good. Spoke to Joy a little bit ago. Nicole is in the hospital waiting for Emily Paige to make her appearance in this world. It's hard to believe that I'm going to be a great, great Aunt, Joanne a grandmother, Nicole a mother, and Joy a great grandmother. Time really does fly by way too fast. Frank and Joy are at the flea market. They'll try it again since the weather is getting a little cooler. He's doing OK, not better but not worse. Everyone else is fine and doing well. Well that should do it for now. Hope this time it goes through. I hope you and Mom are having a good time and enjoying lots of peace. As always, lots and lots of hugs, kisses, and love, to you both. Miss you and think about you all the time.
Love,
Barbara
Barbara Colantuono
September 21, 2007
Dear Dad,
It's been quite a while since I've written. Got a lot of tales to relate. First, I hope you had a GREAT birthday. I was at Joy's getting ready to leave for the cruise. We were thinking of you all day and hoping you were having a terrific time visiting with everyone and having lots of cake and ice cream. Joy, Frank, Joe, and myself, left on the 11th for Miami. The girls, Tom, and the kids flew in and we all met at the hotel in Miami. We left the next day for the cruise. No chance missing the ship this time, that's why we went a day early. The ship was the largest one cruising at this time and boy was it something. It was just beautiful with so many things to do and see. It had a rock climbing wall, ice skating rink, surf board pool, kiddie pool, family pool, and adult pool, miniature golf, lots of lounges, and a beautiful dining room. The buffet room offered eveything in food with lots of seating available. We kept saying how much you would have liked it. The main promanade had stores and resturants and was very nice. Everyone got along great and I had a wonderful time. The kids took advantage of all the activities. On the last night, Dee and Tina arranged for Joe and I to have a marriage renewal vow ceremony in the chapel. It was a terrific surprise and very touching and will be a wonderful memory forever. It was perfect except for the fact that you weren't there. I know you were with us in spirit but in person would have been nicer. When we left the ship the kids flew home but Joy, the guys, and myself spent another night in Miami and visited South Beach. It was interesting and fun. After spending a day at Joy's, Joe and I left for home. Two days later we met at A's for a baby shower for Nikkie. The baby is due Mid October. Then Joy and Frank came home with us for a week. After that, we went to Ocean Beach for a week. The weather was perfect, the place was nice and quiet and it was beautiful. Another thing you really would have enjoyed. Then Joe and I came home and Joy and Frank left for Andrea's for a few days. She's still there, probably leaving for FL today or tomorrow. Today is Sept. 21st. So Joy and Frank have been on a very long vacation. He seems to be doing pretty good and is always better when out and around people. I wenet to the doctor's yesterday for chemo and got really good news. The scan showed considerable improvement and the tumor markers are way down. The weather has been beautiful and is suppose to be so for the next week also. Really miss you and am always thinking of you and all that we did and could still be doing. Your always in my heart and thoughts. Joy and I went to the cemetary for Mom's birthday. We couldn't leave flowers because the cups and holders were missing. But of course, we left our love. Lots and lots of kisses, hugs, and love, to you and Mom. Be happy and at peace.
Love,
Barbara
PS. Nikkie started a new school. A public one in Yonkers. She's in all honor classes and so far says it's great. She also made the varsity cheerleading team and is very excited about that. Anthony is in his last HS year. Gets out at 11:15 AM. Only has 3 classes, says he'll make honor roll this year, HA Ha!. He seems to be doing very well and has a part time job and seems happy. Tyler and Brandon are doing well in school and busy with baseball and I guess basketball soon. So all-in-all, everyone is doing well. All send their love.
Deanna Bottoni
August 10, 2007
Pa,
Happy 97th Birthday. I love you and miss you. So wish you were here. Always in my heart.
Your Granddaughter
DEE
Babette Hankey
August 10, 2007
HI PA
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!
I hope you are having lots of cake, ice cream and hot fudge.
I also hope you are getting ready to cruise with the family. Please watch over Auntie and Dad and help them to have a safe and wonderful vacation!!!
Love you and miss you
Babette
You r NVR4GTN
Barbara Colantuono
July 14, 2007
Dear Dad,
I went to Ocean City with Joe, Brandon, and Nikkie. Anthony met us there. We spent 5 days. We had such a nice time. Went to the beach, Rehobeth, and the boardwalk. Weather was really good. Wish you could have been with us. I know you always enjoyed it there. This was the first time for Brandon and he really enjoyed himself. Don't worry, I reminded Nikkie how TREACHEOUS the water is. Then I met Joy, Frank, Babette, Rick, and Daniella for 3 days in Maryland. We went for Joanne's wedding to Larry. We all had a great time and missed you very much. I know you would like Larry and he makes Joanne so happy. They're like two kids, always laughing, kissing, and hugging. It's really good to see her like that. I'm back on the chemo and losing my hair already (only 1 treatment so far). Boy, I keep thinking how upset you'd be if your hair fell out. We know that was you pride and joy but you still would have said "if that's what has to be than so be it" and that's my same attitude. Yesterday I went for surgery to have a port implanted in my chest to administer the chemo. Seems I have poor veins that collapse easily. Sound like anyone you know. I'm really just picking up where you left off only at a younger age. My hearing is not that great either. So I do a lot of yeah, yes, and um um, like someone else I know. I plan on leaving aroung the 7th or 8th of Aug. for Florida. Joy, Frank, Joe, and myself, are leaving from Miami on the 12th for the cruise. Dee, Tom, the kids, Tina, Anthony, and Nikkie will fly and meet us at the hotel in Miami for the cruise. Hope everyone gets along really good and that we have a great time. This ship is suppose to be awesome. Right now, Anthony and Nikkie are in Greece with Peter and his family and Grandma Mina. I'm sure they're all having a good time. What a great experience for them. Weather here has been very nice. Joy says it's very hot by her but then she gets the great winters. Hope you and Mom are enjoying everything and just as happy and content as can be. We miss you very much and you are always with us no matter where we are. Lots of hugs, kisses, and love to both of you.
Love,
Barbara
PS I just sent an invention to a patent company. It's a type of scarf for women with thinning hair or baldness who don't want to wear wigs. I hope I did it right this time. I'll let you know what response I receive.
Daniella Hankey
June 21, 2007
Hi PA,
It's Thursday, June 21st. Tommorow I have a drama party where i will see all of my friends.On monday we will be going to St.Augestine and staying till Wednesday. We are going for my b-day. On Monday I went to Trisha's house and helped her with her little baby boy , Ethan. I did not get one ounce of sleep so the next day I slept in till a quarter to 10:00 i was very tired that night.. I hope that every one is doing well ...
I love you and miss you every day,I love you so much
Daniella
Barbara Colantuono
June 11, 2007
Dear Dad,
Time to get you caught up on things. Weather has been very nice to start with. Nikkie is graduating on Friday night. We have a backyard barbaque party for her yesterday. The weather was predicted to be perfect all wekk for Sunday but on Saturday it changed to cloudy, possible rain showers, and cool. Well it started out very cloudy and iffy. But Joe and I set everything up in the yard and hoped for the best. By the time the people arrived it remained cloudy but OK and not too cool. Everything really looked so nice and festive. She had about 13 friends and then family and family friends. 36 people in all. We had so much food it was ridiculous. It turned out really great and I think she and her friends had a very good time. She has her graduation dance on Wednesday night. She's very excited about all the happenings this week. Colby is getting ready to leave for Peru on Sunday. He and Rick will be going with Colby's school group. That's really exciting for them. Tyler's been real busy with his baseball travel games and loving it. Anthony finishes school on Friday and then will be up for a couple of days and then back to Md and work and getting ready to go to Greece. Frank has a rash on his back and underarms. We're not sure what it is but he says it's getting better and doesn't hurt or itch. Maybe he needs to see a doctor about it. Joy did something to her back last week and was in bed for a couple of days. She said she was really hurting. It's a little bit better every day but still giving her some trouble. Boy we don't know how you did the things you did up until 90 or so. I know I feel lots of aches and pains and difficulty in doing a lot of things that never used to bother me. I'm planning on going to OC in late June for 6 days. I want to take Nikkie and Brandon with me and hopefully Anthony will meet us for a few days. Joy said I could use her condo. I haven't been at the beach in some time, so I'm sure I would really enjoy it. This Sunday is Father's Day. Another one without you. They seem to come faster every year. As always I'll be thinking of you and all the great and terrific memories that go along with my thoughts. Have a terrific Father's Day and know that we'll all be thinking of you and sending you tons of kisses, hugs, and love. Miss you all the time.
Love,
Barbara
Barbara Colantuono
May 24, 2007
Dear Dad,
Well weather here has been just great. It's such a pretty time of year. I met Joy and Frank in AC last week. We spent 5 days there and had a really nice time. Frank has really progressed a lot in the last year. He now needs assistance with almost everything but he keeps trying so we all hope for the best. After AC we went to Maryland for a barbaque for Joanne and Larry. It was very nice and her friends from the legion hall were very friendly and had so many nice things to say about Jo. She seems very happy and that's really great. I hope Larry is as good as he seems. He's so attentive to her and seems so very much in love with her. They really make a great couple. The wedding (in July) should really be a lot of fun. Am looking forward to it and will also see Joy and Frank again at that time. I've been doing a lot of work outside painting and planting. It looks really good. I went to the doctor's today for a check-up. Will get the results next week. I'm feeling pretty good so I hope the count goes down again and that I'm able to stay on the pills. Nikkie is getting ready for graduation and then her trip to Greece and then the cruise. So, she had a lot to look forward to and is very excited about it all. Babette had to cancel on the cruise because Daniella now goes back to school a week early and she would miss the first week of school. I'm sorry they're not going, we always have such a good time with them but of course we understand. Tyle is on his regular baseball team as well as a travel baseball team. He loves it and it really keeps them all busy. Brandon is just on his regular baseball team. Anthony is just looking forward for school to end. (He didn't do too bad at all). Then, of course, his trip to Greece and them coming here for a while and then the cruise. He looks great and is doing very well. Well, I guess I got you caught up on everything. Will write again soon as more news happens. As always, I'm always thinking of you and remembering so many great things. I know exactly what you would say or do in so many instances and smile to myself often. Love, hugs, and kisses to you and Mom.
Love,
Barbara
Barbara Colantuono
April 30, 2007
Dear Dad,
Sorry I haven't written in a while but am always thinking of you. Weather is finally getting better. Were now working on the outside of the house getting it in shape. Having the gutters fixed, outside wall repaired and doing the gardening. Should be done with everything in the next couple of weeks and I think everything is going to look very nice. I was sick for a while. Had phenemonea and was in the hospital for 4 days. But everything is good now. Have a doctor's appointment on Wednesday for final results and then the doctor will decide whether or not to change my medication. I hope I can stay on the same pills since I feel pretty good with them. Put in a good word for me. The kids are all doing well and looking forward to the end of the school year. Nikkie is very excited about her graduation and hoping to get into the school program she wants for Sept. We'll find out the end of May. Frank is doing a little better but not great. He still needs a lot of help and looking after. Joy gets very tired and frustrated. Wish she was closer so I could help her. She and Frank are supposed to meet us in AC on Mother's Day. We plan to spend 5 days there and then leave for Maryland for a couple of days. They're giving Joanne and Larry a surprise bridal shower. I looking forward to spending time with Joy and Frank so I hope he stays well enough to travel and enjoy himself. I went to the cemetary yestarday. Hadn't been there in a while too. Hope you and Mom liked the flowers and that they'll be there for a little while. Guess that's all the news for now. As always, I send lots of kisses, hugs, and love, to you and Mom. You're always in my prayers and thoughts and in my heart. Again, thank you for being the best Dad, my friend, and for all the wonderful memories, and fun we had. Your still doing for me and making memories. Thank You.
Love,
Barbara
deanna Bottoni
April 9, 2007
Happy easter Pa,
You were really missed as always. Please please give us good news in the next few weeks I know u are looking out for all of us I love u Always in my heart Your Granddaughter Dee
BABETTE HANKEY
April 8, 2007
HI PA,
HAPPY EASTER!!!
MISS YOU AND LOVE YOU
YOU ARE NVR4GTN
BABETTE
Joy and Daniella Fisher and Hankey
April 8, 2007
Dear Dad and pa,
Happy Easter daddy and pa its a little chilly in Fla.Babette is cooking dinner and Frank is sleeping on the couch.I talked to Barbara this mourning and she's feeling a little better.She is going to Deanna's for dinner. She, Rose ,And Joe are going.Barbara did not come to see you today because it's very cold in N.Y. Andrea and the children were here,visiting us this week and we had a lots of fun and a very bussy,bussy week. She just left for home, a few minutes ago. We really miss not having you here with us. We were at the Sanford Flea Market yesterday and ate at your favorite resturant... Patio Grill. It was very good. We had cheese fries,cheese fries,and cheese sticks and then our food.We know you would have loved to have be there. The Easter Bunny has been good to every one.
Larry and Joanne are celebrating Easter at their house . Rick and Lou are going to Joanne's house. Larry's mom and sister are going to the house.Dad you would like Larry, he is very nice and good to Joanne.They seem to be very much in love.I am so happy for her.Patrick flew home to Maryland from Florida for Easter and spring break.
A,Babette, Rick,and Daniella,Colby, Hunter and Taylor all went to the Sanford fair on Friday night.All of the kids won Goldfish, and went on lots of rides .They stayed there till almost 12:00.We ate at the food court in the mall it was very nice. We also went to go and visit the Easter Bunny.That was an experience. We will close for now with all our love and miss you so much!
Daniella and Joy
Barbara Colantuono
March 8, 2007
Dear Dad,
Know what tomorrow is? Yep, my BIRTHDAY! Not really any big deal but thought I'd bring it up anyway. Not doing anything special, but going to AC on Monday and Tuesday. This way we'll celebrate both Joe and my birthday.
Well, we went to Florida the day before Frank's birthday. He was really surprised. That was really nice. He didn't look well at all and could hardly do anything. But Joy got a wheelchair and a walker and we started to get him around. We did leave for the 3 day cruise on the 15th. It was so cool, Joy had everyone meet at her house and then a 20 seat limo arrived to take us to the terminal and picked us up again on Sunday. Mike, Ada, and Kirk from the flea market went also. They are so very nice and a lot of fun. Frank really seem to be enjoying himself and did pretty well. Joanne and her boyfriend also came. He seems very nice and can't leave Joanne alone and praising her. It's nice to see her so happy and feeling so special. Babette's in-laws also came, their first cruise. They liked it. All-in-all, we had a very nice time. You really would have enjoyed the company. We were on the same ship that we did the family cruise. When we returned, we spent an extra day at Joy's and then left for home. Frank was doing much better but still needed a lot of attention. A therapist comes to the house now to help him get stronger and made suggestions to Joy for his safety and to be more stable and comfortable. I hope he keeps on improving.
The weather here is very cold the last week or so. You definitely are hanging out at Joy's. Next week it supposed to warm up, that'll be nice. Not much else going on. Nikkie is getting ready for her cheerleading competition on Saturday, Tina is still working the 2 jobs and is very tired, Dee is working with Tom at his shop and the boys are getting ready for their baseball season, Anthony is making it through school and working a few days to keep his car running. Everyone is doing pretty good. I guess that's about it for now so I'll close as always with lots of kisses, hugs, and love to you and Mom. Miss you always and always in my heart and thoughts.
Love,
Barbara
Nicolette
February 14, 2007
Happy Valentines Day Pa!! I love and miss you so much!!! Always thinking of you!! love,
Nikkie
Babette Hankey
February 9, 2007
Pa,
Please say a special prayer and speak to the big guy to help Dad. He's not doing too well and it's really rough on mom. He's looking forward to his birthday cruise and I pray that he will be strong enough to enjoy it. Mom is really doing a great job as it's really hard to see dad struggle each day. The doctor said today that the Parkinson's really seems to be out of wack and hopefully it will settle down. I pray it does. Dad really looks like he's in pain and confused but his mind is still really good.
I know you'll keep an eye on everything and help give us the strength to get through this.
I really love and miss you and wish you were here right now to give mom a big hug and that reassuring smile and just to talk to us.
I love you!
NVR4GTN
Babette
Barbara Colantuono
February 6, 2007
Dear Dad,
Went to CT to see Bob Cuneo today about the taxes. He's doing real well and very excited that his house is sold. The closing should be late Feb. and they plan to leave for FL late March. He's really looking forward to it. The weather was very cold the last couple of days and should be so for the next week. But, no snow to talk about so far so that's really good. Planning on leaving on Monday to go to Fl to see Joy and Frank. His birthday is the 14th and we're suppose to go on a 3 day cruise to the Bahamas. His friends from the flea market are going, as well as Babette, Rick, the kids, Joanne and her friend, Larry, Nicole and Jason, and Joe and myself. It should really be fun and great for Joe and myself because of the better weather. Frank hasn't been doing very well lately. I hope he's better and able to go. When we left Cuneo's, se went by the house. Nothing has been touched since the sale. there was a sign for lease for the whole property, so I guess the new owner won't be using it for the time being. The road in front was finished and looked really good. They're still working on it up above. We then went to the mall. Plans are under way to renovate, making a larger and improved food court as well as the surroundings. The proposal looks very nice. Then I went to have my hearing checked at Miracle Ear. Joe keeps saying I need a hearing aid if not two. The man said one of my ears was filled with wax so I'm only hearing out of one ear. He said to have it cleaned and then come back to check my hearing. I keep saying that I took over where you left off. All these doctors and now my hearing too. Well, guess all of this comes with old age, but yours didn't happen until you were at an older age. I guess I just won't let go and have to imitate you in as many ways as possible. We would really get a good laugh about this. I'm getting ready to go out to dinner now, so I'll close as always with lots of love, kisses, and hugs, to you and Mom. Always thinking of you.
Love,
Barbara
Christina Georgiades
February 1, 2007
Hi Pa,
Wow, how great it must have felt to live with all this love. Look at all these family members that write to you on a constant basis. I love you so much and thank you for all the wonderful memories. I love you and think about you all the time. Please come visit me real soon.
Love,
Tee
Barbara Colantuono
January 30, 2007
Dear Dad,
Well, I know it's been a while since I've written but you know I'm always thinking of you and talking to you. Things were a little crazy with the holidays and then I wasn't feeling too great so I had a lot of doctors appointments. So far everything has been negative, thank God, with one more doctor's visit. That'll be this Wednesday. I know Nikkie told you about her great results from her school entrance tests. We're very proud of her. She's really doing great. Anthony is Anthony. Doing OK in school but could do better if he really apllied himself and cared about it. But he's a good kid so we have to accept that school is not really his thing. Dee's kids are doing really good. Love their sports and are always running to some practice or game. They're both doing very well in school also. Dee, Tina, and another girl went to Florida for 4 days to celebrate Tina's 40th birthday. They had a really good time and came home wiped out. I booked the "Freedom of the Seas" ship for August. Really looking forward to going. This trip Dee and Tina and their families are both going. Also, Joy, Frank, Babette, Rick, and the kids. It should be really nice. Wish you would be there too. The weather has been really cold lately. Not your kind for sure. I'm going to see Bob Cuneo next week. I'll drive by the house and see if anything has been done. I've heard that everything is still the same, not being used for anything so far. We're always talking about you and things we did. So many wonderful memories, thank you. Wish we were still making memories. I hope you, Mom, and the rest of your loved ones are sharing lots of peace and laugher. Miss you shy smile and little boy way so much. Be happy and feel my love always. Lots of hugs, kisses, and love, to you and Mom.
Love,
Barbara
Nicolette Georgiades
January 22, 2007
Hi Pa,
I figured I should let you know all the good news that 2007 has already been bringing me!! Well where should I start>?? Well in October I took my TACHS exam which is a state test for Catholic highschools. I ranked higher than 90% of the people who took it! I applied to three school and was accepted to all of them!! I received a scholarship to two of the three schools: $500 which is nothing towards Sacred Heart HS, but I also received honors there which means I made it into their Honors Program which is a big deal!! Also, I was awarded a scholarship of $4,765 which is 75% of the tuition to Our Lady of Victory! I also made honors there!! There is even more good news to this year! I am going to Greece this summer with Dad and I am going on the new Royal Carribean ship with grandma and grandpa!! I miss you insanely and I love you soo much!!! Always in my prayers and never forgotten!!
LOVE YOU,
Nikkie
babette hankey
December 31, 2006
Hi PA (and grandma)
Just wanted to wish both of you a very Happy New Year. Still missing you and wishing you were here.
Love you both,
Pa, you are NVR4GTN, always in my heart.
Babette
Babette Hankey
December 26, 2006
Hi Pa
I hope that you and grandma had a wonderful Christmas together. All of the holidays seem so empty without you here. You have touched each of our lives in such a great way, that I hope we are making you proud by carrying on the traditions and love that you so openly and freely shared with us.
Mom and Dad came over yesterday. She finally finished the tree last night so we are going over there today. Dad wasn't doing so well yesterday, but seemed better this morning. He took your place on the couch last night after dinner and had a little snooze. Weather has been yucky here, but we're expecting good weather for New Year's. Hope you will join us.
On December 17, one of my acquaintances lost his grandfather. My heart truly goes out to him as I know how he feels as we long for the times that we can kiss you and hug you again. Please say a special prayer for him.
WE love you and miss you! You will are NVR4GTN!
Babette
Christina Georgiades
December 20, 2006
My dearest Pa,
Just sitting here looking at my xmas tree and thinking how much you would love it. I remember going to your house and decorating the tree with you, mom, Dee and me. We would laugh about the ornaments you had, and how grandma got some of them, just fantastic memories. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart. One more week and it is my birthday. Yuck, I could just hear you saying, your catching up to me. So sad Pa, really so sad, I want you here with all of us. Thinking of you now and always,
Love you,
Tee
Tina Georgiades
December 18, 2006
My dearest Grandfather, Pa,
I miss you today as much as I missed you three years ago.Days turn into night, weeks turn into months and the months turn into years and it still feels like I had you in my life yesterday. I miss you more then words can say and wish I could see you. I am hoping that you are one of God's angels and come visit me soon.
Love you so much and miss you,
Tina xoxoxoxoxo
PS- Nikkie said she loves you and prays to you everynight but you don't answer her.
Deanna bottoni
December 18, 2006
Hi Pa,
Cant believe 3 years have gone by. So many times your presents have truly been missed. You are always with us. I miss your huges and kisses, talking to you face to face. You have been a wonderful influence on me. Thanks for all the great thing u tought me. I love you so and miss u. ALWAY IN MY HEART
Your granddaughter DEE
Nicolette G
November 15, 2006
Hi Pa
As you know I just got my report card and i have a 92 average! I went to Yonkers high school yesterday to see if I wanted to go there but i hated the school. It seemed really bland ... thats not for me! =) Im going to look at Saunders High School and im praying that I like it. Saunders has a wonderful honors program and has lots of sports and activities which i would join! Everything here has been good and I am anticipating Thanksgiving because I will be with Daddy, Kathleen, and all of her family. Time seems like it is really going fast!! Thanksgiving is in a week and before we know it it will be Christmas. I love you and miss you always! I will write soon!!
love, hugs, and kisses,
Nikkie
(great-grand dauhter)
Babette Hankey
November 2, 2006
Hi Pa
I can't believe it's November already. We were really lucky this year with no major hurricanes, thanks for putting a word with the big guy. Things have been really busy, the kids run my schedule. Colby has to be to school 4 days a week by 7:00 a.m. for Jazz band and then has forensics in the afternoon. He was suppose to be in a big tournament November 11, but he may postpone to December because it's the same day as Daniella's competition. He had his concert two weeks ago, it was fabulous, I know you would have loved it as you always did. Daniella is playing on the school's basketball team this year (middle school team), in competitive drama and taking piano lessons one morning a week before school. They are both really keeping busy and continuing to keep their grades up. They work really hard. It's really tough being a kid these days, I don't know how they do it.
Mom's business is really picking up. She still has a lot to put out but her sales have been pretty good thus far. Pleasantly surprising! The weather is suppose to get cool tomorrow, high of only 60. It's been in the 80s so that will be a big jump.
We're going to Universal for 'Thanksgiving, to the Portofino rest. that we went to a few years ago. Everyone loved it. Trying to start some Christmas shopping since we will be on the cruise the week before Christmas. I'm really excited and can't wait.
Work has been really demanding lately. I've been on call constantly and this past weekend was really busy. It seems that we are really getting some severe cases lately. It's so sad.
Oh well, love you and miss you. Hug and kiss everyone for me. Continue to send your good prayers and fortune.
Love you lots!!!
You are NVR 4 GTN
Love
Babette
Barbara Colantuono
October 29, 2006
Dear Dad,
Last week the weather was very cool, cold in fact, but sunny so that helped. We went to AC for 4 nights. Frank and Joy were supposed to meet us there but that didn't happen. I was disappointed but not really surprised. You know how she never really tells you definite until the last minute. And with her trying to get everything set up in her new location, she wasn't ready to leave. We had a nice time. Joe was in a free slot tournament. He made the top 20 and received $500 and played in the final tournament for $10,000. He didn't win but it was very exciting and he did get the $500, which was very nice. We saw Pete Scalise there. He tried going to AC alone but said he wouldn't do that again. He was too lonely and sad. So we visited with him for the afternoon and the next day he stayed in the hotel with us. We had a good time, went to dinner, a show, and played a little. He'll come again when we have extra rooms, so he won't be alone. The workers finished all the work outside on my house. It really looks good. They did a good job. Next week is supposed to be sunny and warmer, so I'll clean up out there and fix the rest up. It should be really pretty in the spring and summer. I'm getting ready to drive Nikkie to her friend's house. She always going or doing something. She's getting so big so fast, a real young lady. Anthony will be 17 in a few weeks. That's really hard to believe. I haven't seen him in a while, so if he can't come for Thanksgiving, I'll probably drive down the Sat. after and visit for the day. I'm planning on going to Radio City Xmas show with Nikkie and Brandon, Tyler doesn't want to go. I know if you were here, you'd really love to come. But, you know I'll definitely bring you with me. We still do all our things together. Not much else new, so I'll close for now. Lots of love, kisses, and hugs, to you and Mom. Always in my heart and thoughts.
Love,
Barbara
PS Tina is going on an interview on Thursday for Con Ed. Go with her and give her all the help you can. I really hope she gets the job. It would be a place she can stay with a future and good benefits.
Love again,
Barbara
Babette Hankey
October 17, 2006
Hi Pa,
It's been a little dark and gloomy the past two days. Not sure if you are visitng us here or sending a message that you're sad about the house? I understand that it went to a really nice family who will really enjoy it for a few years. You can probably visit whenever you'd like.
Mom and dad have been working really hard at the shop. They are selling a few things, but it's very time consuming to get everything priced. I tried to help out this weekend by pricing some jewelry and driving dad to the flea market, but my time is limited too.
The kids are doing well. Colby just went to Halloween Horror Nights one of the highlights of his October and Daniella is preparing for Halloween. Colby's concert is October 26, we'll save you a seat as I know you always enjoyed it. this year he is playing in the jazz band and in the high school band. It's really a great accomplishment for him.
Daniella is doing well too, Basketball starts next week and he drama performance is November 11. She is in two competitive roles, we'll see how it goes. She's having fun and that's all that matters.
We took a ride to St. Aug last week. It was really nice. Such a happy, sereen place. Dad didn't want to come and Rick was with Colby as Univesal so just mom, Daniella and I went.
The weather is getting cooler, in the 80's in the day, high 60's at night. This is the time that Aunti and Uncle should visit as it's really beautiful. We got a great deal on a cruise the week before Christmas so we'll be off and returning on the 23rd. I'm really excited as it is my bday/kick off Christmas all rolled up into one. It should be fun.. mom and dad said they can't go because it's there busiest time of the year.......such a shame.
Oh well, I'm going to close for now. I love you and miss you with all of my heart. I hope you hear all of my special messages for you and morning prayers.
I will love you forever,
NVR4GTN
Babette
Barbara Colantuono
October 17, 2006
Dear Dad,
Well, yesterday was the closing on the house. Everything went smooth and quick. After we left the lawyer's office we drove by the house on the way to the mall. I felt so sad knowing how much you and Mom loved Ridgefield and the house. It's like the last thing left and now that was gone too. I know it had to be done but it made you're leaving so final. We went to Ruby's Tuesday for lunch, just like you and I would have done. I guess that's another chapter closed now. Weather here today was drizzily and damp and the days before were starting to get real chilly, so I know you're in Florida now enjoying the sun and warmth. I'm suppose to meet Joy and Frank in AC next week for a few days. I hope they come, it would be nice to be with them for a while. I didn't get a definite answer from Joy but more yes than no. They've been working on the outside of my house. They're putting in a new walk all around, new steps, a patio, and a fence. It's looking real nice. They should be done by the end of this week. Joy is setting up at the new location and says it's looking very nice. She should be all set up by the end of this week or nearly so. I hope it works out good for her and she won't have to move again. Everything else is pretty much the same. Anthony got a job at a movie complex. After school, 3 or 4 days a week. He should really like that since he gets to see any movie playing. Right now, he has the flu so he'll be home a few days. Hope he gets better fast so he doesn't miss a lot of school. He's doing very well so far. Everyone else is fine. I think about all the great times often and am so thankful for them and everything else you always did for me and still are. We always had such a good time and I always felt so loved and happy with you. Hope you're still having a great time and you and Mom enjoying every minute and feeling great peace. Will talk to you again soon. As always, all my love, kisses, and hugs, to you and Mom.
Love,
Barbara
Babette Hankey
September 26, 2006
Hi Pa
Well, mom and dad are packing there things to move. Daniella and I painted her new booth last Sunday. We used a peach colored paint that mom bought and it really came out nice. Many people said how bright it was. The people are really nice in the new shop so hopefully it works out. Mom and Dad seem to be better with it now and have moved on.
Daniella is on her camping trip. Please make sure she is safe and having a wonderful time. Colby is getting over his bronchitis, he just has alot -- alot -- of work to catch up on. In the end, it will all work out but right now he is a little stressed.
We're thinking about cruising before Christmas, do you want to come??
Work has been the usually busy, kids are generally driving my schedule with their activities, but all in all things are going well.
I'll close for now, love to you and all.
Hugs and kisses
NVR4GTN
love you and miss you!
Babette
Barbara Colantuono`
September 21, 2006
Dear Dad,
Just a quick note to catch you up to date. I did go to the house last week and everything was OK. I don't think CT got much of a storm when we did because there weren't any fallen trees or debris around. Weather has cooled but still nice. You'd be making your plans to leave for Florida in another week or two. Joy won't be coming up for another few weeks or so. She's vacating Libby's shop (since they're closing the end of this month) and she'll try another place about a half hour away from her. She says the place has many dealers (about 400) and afraid her things will be lost in the midst but she'll try it for about 6 months. Good time of the year for that. So she now needs time to move her merchandise and settle in the new place. Hope things go well for her. Then if someone else takes over Libby's place for the same purpose she can always return. I know she really liked it there. Frank seems to be doing good, let's hope he keeps it up. Went to a small Italian celebration last Sunday. It was very nice. You would have enjoyed the music and especially the cannoli I had for you and me. Wasn't it delicious? There's a few more coming up the next couple of weekends. If the weather is nice, I'll probably go. The closing is still on for next Friday. Well, that's about it for now. As always, lots of hugs, kisses, and love, to you and Mom. Always in my thoughts and heart.
Love,
Barbara
Babette Hankey
September 16, 2006
Hi Pa
I have written you several times but for some reason, none are getting published. I hope you got the birthday message even though it didn't appear. I hope you got my last update and that you are watching over everyone as I know you are -- things have been happening that tell me you have heard our prayers and requests. I continue to miss you each day. I wish you were here to talk to mom right now and help make her decision easier for her. She's a little confused but I know that you will touch upon her some thoughts.
The kids are back in school. Colby made the jazz band and he got second chair in the regular band, beating out seniors and juniors for the seat. He's really do well with his trumpet. He also is on the school forensics team and community service committees. He's doing well so far his freshman year. Continue to guide him.
Daniella has some really positive teachers this year and she's really loving school too. This year is her transition year as next year she will go to middle school. She goes camping with school the end of this month, join her if you'd like but I know you aren't much for the cabins and bugs.
We've been really fortunate with the weather this year. Pat is here going to school and doing well. I'm really proud of him. He seems to have found his nitch and he is really applying himself. Rick and I speak with him a few times a week to make sure everything is ok and invite him to dinner.
We're looking at doing some travel between now Christmas -- hope you will join us if we go.
Love to grandma: miss you lots and love you.
NVR4GTN
love and kisses
Babette
Christina Georgiades
September 16, 2006
Hi Pa,I was talking to you the other day and all of a sudden, a penny.I seem to be finding them almost on a daily basis, I think that is awesome.When I was in Florida with Babette, there were two shinny pennies in the take out place and if I remember correctly, there were two in her car.Thank you, we really needed that, especially at that particular time.But, since you are so kind to send pennies down, do you think maybe a $100 bill? just a thought! :)That would really be awesome if you could do that. Thanks for all the pennies, words cannot express how much that means to me.
It seems to me that heaven is getting awfully crowded these days, do you think you can talk to God and ask him to take a break for another 30 years or so?After all, he has so many wonderful people from my immediate family and he also has some wonderful people that were not real family but sure felt that way.As you know, we lost Maryanne, it was heartbreaking, I can't even express the feelings that I am feeling, she was like a second mother to me, she even taught me how to cook.I will truly miss her.
Please look after mom, I really think that upset her more then she is letting on.Afterall, that was one of her dearest friends and mom watched her suffer for the last 16 years.When you talk to Maryanne, please tell her that we know that she is an angel just like you.
As usual pa, I miss you and talk to you all the time.Please send me a sign to let me know you are okay and an extra special sign to let me know that Maryanne is with you.
I also have to let you know that I am truly deep down inside so sad that your little house is being sold.I think about it and I truly start to cry Pa.I have so so so many memories of that house and those woods and the german shepards, I am so afraid to lose that house.I am going to take a ride there this week and go in the woods and just sit there until it gets dark, I will truly miss that. I have had so many dreams through out my life about those woods, and I always feel like something is reaching out to me.Maybe that is why I started writing my story, or shall I say, stopped writing.It all has to do with you, your house and those woods.I can't explain it, but it sure as heck is something. Thanks for that too, because when I finally have time to sitdown and write, that book is going to be off the charts. Pa, you always told me to write, well, I can't wait to be able to sit down and just finally get this done. I know deep down inside that this will be a top seller and it will be a movie. You know me Pa, I am never ever confident about anything, but I will make it with this book. That is why I am going to miss that house probably more then anyone else. But my story will keep your house and my memories alive and who knows, someday I may have my house in the woods.But pa, I want a horse with my house!!Remember that?
I love you with every beat of my heart and can not wait to see you,
Your beautiful granddaughter
Tee
Barbara Colantuono
September 14, 2006
Dear Dad,
Weather has been cool but nice except for today. A little rain on and off. Same for tomorrow but supposed to be a beautiful weekend. MaryAnn died last week. She was very weak and in a lot of pain so I guess it's a blessing that she left us. I went to the wake and funeral. It was very sad. I can't believe all the time I knew her and good times we had have slip by so quickly. I'm sure she's with her Mom and Dad and probably making black coffee for you. Give her a hug for me please. I'm planning on going to Ct. today to check on things. We had a bad storm a couple of weeks ago. A lot of trees and branches fell down here. I hope nothing happened at the house. I didn't hear anything from Steve or Renita so I'm assuming that everything is OK. I'll go today just to be sure. The closing is supposed to be two weeks from this Friday. Hope everything goes OK. Everything seems to be good with Joy and Frank. He's doing pretty good and things seem to be going OK for Joy. She plans to come up for the closing but I don't know if she'll stay a while or not. I hope so but you never know until the last minute with her. The kids have all started back to school and they seem to have settled in well and guess looking forward to all the activities the school year holds. Maybe not Anthony, but know he's looking forward to the end and then he'll only have one more year to go. Well, that's about all the news for now. Of course, I did go to the cemetary for Mom's birthday. Hope she liked her cards and flowers from Joy and I and hope she had a real nice birthday. Lots of hugs, kisses, and love, to you and Mom. Miss you all the time. You know your always with me and doing whatever I'm doing.
Love,
Barbara
Barbara Colantuono
September 1, 2006
Dear Dad,
Not really much news to tell you but thought I write anyway. This week the weather has really been yucky. Rain on and off with lots of clouds and cool temperatures. I was hoping I'd be able to spend most of the week at the pool since Mon. is labor Day and they'll all close until next year. But, with the cool weather I didn't get to go at all. Tonight and tomorrow, we're suppose to get a lot of rain and wind. Hope we don't have any trouble with water downstairs. joy had warnings of first of hurricane and then it changed to a tropical storm but nothing really came of it so everything was Ok for them. She, Frank, Babette, Rick, and the kids are planning to spend the weekend at St. Augustine. They should have a very nice time. Joe and I will go to AC on Mon. and Tuesday. Looking forward to it. Sunday is Mom's birthday. I have flowers for the cemetary and hope the weather is OK for me to bring them. Tell Mom to have a really good birthday with lots of cake and ice cream. Dee and her family had a very nice time on their cruise. They went parasailing, snokeling, sting ray excursion, rode wave runners and lots of other things. Sounds awesome. Patrick is attending college in Florida near Joy. He's very excited about it. Anthony started school last Momday. He's not excited about it but we're hoping he does better this year. He's now driving and has his own car so he's real happy about that. Nikkie is still at her Dad's. Will probably be home on Monday some time and starts school on Wednesday. Guess that's about everything for now. As always, lots and lots of love, hugs, and kisses, to you and Mom.
Love,
Barbara
Barbara Colantuono
August 25, 2006
Dear Dad,
The weather had been just great until today. Rain on and off but we really need it. Our week at the Poconos was really fun. Dee, Tyler, Brandon, Anthony, Nikkie, and myself went white water rafting. We had such a good time. Then the next day, they all went paintballing. I didn't go - too much running and crawling. They loved that too. Then Dee left with her kids to get ready for her Disney cruise. They're on it now and am sure they're having a great time. Nikkie and Anthony stayed in the Poconos for the balance of the week. We went kayaking and horseback riding. They played softball and other games. It was really nice. When we left we met Peter on the road and the kids went with him. Anthony starts school next Monday but Nikkie has until Sept. 6 so she's spending this week with her Dad. The closing date for the house has been moved to the end of Sept. Something about the morgage rate that the buyer received from his bank. It was much more than originally quoted so he's applying to another bank that quoted a lesser rate. I hope everything goes well for him and for us. Stopped at the house on Tuesday, everything looked good. Joy won't be coming up until the end of Sept. if at all. She wants to make the closing but Miss Libby is closing the shop and the dealers have to vacate by Sept. 30 unless someone else takes over. Joy would like to and is looking into it with Babette. She should know by the end of this week if it's feasible or not. Not looking forward to the end of the summer but have no choice so I'll make the best of it. I take you along wherever I go and whatever I do. Hope you're having a good time. Miss you and think of you always. Lots and lots of love, hugs, and kisses to you and Mom.
Love,
Barbara
deanna bottoni
August 10, 2006
Hi Pa,
Happy 96th Birthday I really thought you would have made it. We miss you so much. There are so many times when I think Wow Pa would have loved this. Sometimes there is just a feeling of something missing. Everyone is good. It seems like you are taking great care of us. You are truley the best. I love you so much Thanks for all the wonderful times and the special relationship we shared that is always with me and makes me the person i am. Always in my Heart Love Your granddaughter Dee
Barbara Colantuono
August 7, 2006
Dear Dad,
I wrote you a letter when we came back from the cruise while I was at Joy's house but I see that it didn't go through. Well the cruise started out just great and it was wonderful having almost everyone together. The ship was beautiful and the stops were very interesting. We did the stingrays again and it was so much fun. You remember, right? It was the first time for Nikkie, Anthony, Tina, Hunter, and Taylor. We all had a great time except Taylor. She was petrified so Rick stayed on the tender boat with her most of the time. Then in Belise, Joy, myself, Tina, Nikkie, Rick, Babette, Colby, and Daniella, took a tour through the rainforest and then down a river in a tube through huge caves. It was really awesome. Except for the walk to where the tube riding started. We had to walk about 45 minutes through the rainforest over mud, rocks, hills, and bugs. But we did it and it was worth it. Costa Maya was a really nice port. Right after a short walk from the ship was the new tourist attraction. There was lots of shopping in a circle surrounding a large pool and music and dancers. Then there was a beach with shade and huts and a smaller pool. You really would have liked that port. We saw some good shows and of course listened to the music at the pool, watched the games, and ate the hamburgers and fries, and always talked about the things you liked on the ship and what you would be doing if you were with us in person. But, you know we took you along wherever we went and whatever we were doing. Sure, did miss you anyway. The end of the cruise was not as nice as the beginning and I won't even get into it because I know you were watching everything. Sorry it was that way because I really wanted it to be as good, if not better, a memory than the last time we did a family cruise. Babette and Rick did such a thoughtful and lovely thing. They made special bags for Joy and I with you picture saying Pa's Crew - keeping the memory alive 2006. Then they gave us matching tank tops with your picture. They gave tank tops to all the girls, both big and little and polo shirts for all the guys. AA, Tina, and Babette also go beach bags that said Pa's Crew. Of course, it was a tribute to you and all your wonderful ways and memories. It was really so sweet and loving of Babette and Rick. They put a lot of thought and time into it. I know you really appreciated it. The weather has been hot but the last couple of days it has cooled down some and more bearable. When I go swimming, I'm alone and always think how you would be with me and how we enjoyed the pool. The closing on the house is set for Aug. 28th at 3:00PM. I plan on going and Joy is going to try and make it too. Frank seemed to have a good time on the cruise and did very well health wise. I'm going to the Poconos next Sunday for a week with Joe, Anthony, and Nikkie. Dee and the boys will come for a few days but then they'll leave for home to get ready for their Disney cruise. Your birthday is Thursday. The 3rd year you won't be here in person to celebrate with us. Of course, we'll all be wishing you a Happy Birthday with lots of cake, laughs, and happiness. I'll stop by the cemetary with cards from Joy and I. We really miss you and talk about all the great times and happiness we always shared with you. Hope your enjoying lots of peace and happiness. As always, with all my love, hugs, and kisses, to you and Mom.
Love,
Barbara
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babette hankey
July 16, 2006
Hi Pa,
Just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of you. Everyone (well pretty much) is here today and it was really nice to have all of the kids together. The boys are doing well together and the girls went to mom's house tonight. Auntie and Uncle will be here soon and then we'll be off. Mom and Dad bought a new van so we should be able to do it in 2 cars. T and Rick will come in on the weekend. We're going to go to Disney's Blizzard Beach for Colby's birthday on Tuesday. It's a huge water park that has something for all ages. I was a little worried that Nicki was skeptical but we took care of her problem today and now she's ready to rock and roll.
I know that you'll be joining us as you haven't missed a family cruise yet. We'll need your smile and great outlook to ensure that we all have the best time ever. I wish Dee and Jo were coming, but they'll be with us in thought.
Be good tonight, kiss grandma and say hi to everyone.
I love you and miss you.
NVR 4GTN
Babette
Barbara Colantuono
July 14, 2006
Dear Dad,
It's Friday and it's pretty hot. I really would have liked to go to the pool today but thought I better start to do some packing for our trip. I met with Mr. Crehan on Tuesday and signed the necessary papers. He's sending them Federal Express to Joy for her signature. Mr. Leary installed the base and new oil tank. Mitchell is coming on Monday for fill the tank and then they'll test it. Daniel was there on Tuesday doing the cleanup outside. It was looking pretty good. One problem left besides the results of the Phase I. Mark took the speakers out of the store when he left leaving a lot of large holes in the walls and ceiling. When Ray walks through the shop if he has a problem with them we'll get them filled in. Otherwise, I'll just leave them. Renita says she knows someone who can do the job and she'll arrange it if necessary. Nothing else left to do on the house and shop and it should be a short time before we know whether it is a sale or not. Looks like everything should go OK. It was such a sad and empty feeling when I left the house this time. I figure it was the last time I'd be there and knew how much you and Mom loved it. i hope I did everything just the way you wanted it, I think I did. We'll be leaving for FL on Monday. We're taking Coco with us and will board him at the place Joy uses. It's much better than where we would be him here. Even though the kennel here is nice (the one you used) it's still a cage. At Joy's the dogs get to run around and the lady takes them home with her at night. I have a wedding tomorrow. A girl I went to grammer school with. You know her but probably won't remember. She's getting married for the 3rd time and her husband to be will be the 5th time. But they seem happy and really want this. It should be fun, we're going with Marilyn and Rose and their husbands. Well, I'm going to go now and try to pack some of Joe's clothes. Always thinking of you and missing you. Lots of love, hugs, and kisses, to you and Mom.
Love,
Barbara
Barbara Colantuono
July 10, 2006
Dear Dad,
I went up to the house on Sat. and met with Mark. He had everything out of the shop so we went to the Ridgefield Bank to sign the release paper and to get it notarized. They were very nice and accommodating. It wasn't cleaned the way I thought it should be so Joe and I swept and vacumned and cleaned the bathroom. Then we took another load of things to Dee's to store. On Sunday morning early, Tom and Joe went back up to the house to get the remaining things and brought them to Tom's. The house and shop are now completely empty and cleaned. I have Daniel coming this week to clean on the outside. Also, Mr. Leary will be there to put the new base and oil tank for the shop. The last thing we are waiting on are the results of the Phase I that Ray (the buyer) is having done. Once that comes in, papers should be signed and everything should be completed. I have an appointment with Mr. Crehan tomorrow morning to sign the papers for the sale and then he'll forwarded them to Joy for her signature. This way if they want to do the closing while we're on vacation they can go ahead with it. Weather have been hot but nice. I went to the pool yesterday for a few hours. It was very refreshing and relaxing. Tina is starting a new job. She's on training for the next couple of months. It's with a stock and bonds firm. She's really excited about it. I hope things work out for her. I plan on leaving for Joy's next Monday if everything stays OK. Then on Sunday, we'll all leave for the cruise. Anthony and Nikkie have been in Florida for a week now with Peter. They're having a really good time and will spend another week there. Then he'll drop them off at Joy's on his way home since we'll be there a day or two after. Well, that's about all the news for now. Miss you always and your always in my heart and thoughts. Lots of kisses, hugs, and love, to you and Mom.
Love,
Barbara
Daniella Hankey
July 9, 2006
Hi Pa,
I had a really good birthday!!!There was a rainbow on my birthday.It made me think of you.I can't wait till the family cruise.I wish that you could be with us.I can't wait to go back to school and see all of my friends (even though my best friend is leaving).Hope you had a great Father's Day. I really missed you.
I miss you very much
love you,
Daniella
Barbara Colantuono
July 5, 2006
Dear Dad,
Well it's been a couple of weeks since I last wrote and a lot has been going on. As I told you, the oil tanks are out and no comtamination. The asbestos is out and the air samples were sent out. That should come back negative also. I was at the house last Saturday and today. The trash people came and started the job on Saturday and finished up today. Boy, you saved every receipt from all the years back. So organized and neat. The cellar and garage are all cleaned. Mark is finishing up cleaning out the shop. I'm to go back tomorrow to meet with him and if everything is out and the shop is cleaned, then we'll sign the release form on the shop and that'll be empty. The building inspector and the fire marshall came out today to check on the open permit on the wall that Mark constructed in the shop. Everything passed OK. Tomorrow I'm to go to town hall to get the COO and bring that to Mr. Creehan. The last thing is the Phase I that the buyer is having done. I called Daniel today to do a cleanup outside. Also, I make arrangement next week for a truck and hopefully Tom will help Joe and I load the furniture for Joy and I and Dee said I can store it in her garage for the time being. So, all-in-all, almost everything is pretty well done. I felt so depressed cleaning out the papers and stuff. Someone spends a lifetime accumulating their possessions and organizing their things and then it's all gone in a couple of days. It seems so cold and lonely but I know this is what happens to everyone. I look around my house and things I've saved and know that it'll all be sold at a garage sale or dumped. It'll mean nothing to anyone and that's just the way it'll be. On a brighter note, Dee had a big pool/barbaque yesterday for the 4th of July. She had about 40 people. So much food and variety. The kids and guys were swimming most of the day and everything was really enjoying themselves. You would have had a really good time and chatted away. At night, one of her neighbors, puts on a very professional fireworks display. All the neighbors brought their chairs and watched. It was about 45 minutes and just like the pro displays held at the parks. Remember when we went to the display in Ridgefield. It was really nice. Gosh, I remember so many little things all the time and always smile and then feel so sad because we can't do them anymore together. I'm really looking forward to the cruise with all of us and know you would have such a good time. Of course, you'll be with us the whole time. Dee is having a birthday party on Friday for both the boys. It's a pool party with games and the weather is suppose to be perfect. I'm renting the cotton candy machine again and we'll do that for the kids. Weather has been hot. Well, I guess I got you all caught up for now. Always thinking of you and missing you all the time. Lots of love, kisses, and hugs, to you and Mom. Keep smiling and enjoying peace and happiness.
Love,
Barbara
Nicolette Georgiades
June 18, 2006
Hi Pa,
I wanted to wish you a HAPPY FATHER'S DAY!!!!! I know that you are in heaven watching down on me and the family protecting us. I love you very much and hope that you and Grandma Eve are having a very nice day!
with very much love,
Nikkie
(great-granddaughter)
Babette Hankey
June 18, 2006
My dearest PA,
I just wanted to wish you a "Happy Father's Day" and let you know that I'm thinking of you and missing you.
All these years, as we called you PA, it finally dawned on me why that name is so fitting. It reminds me every day that You are our "Perfect Angel" now looking down on us and helping us each day.
PA- I hope you have a wonderful day. Eat lots of junk, smile a lot, laugh a lot and know that I'm missing you.
Lots of love and kisses to you!
I love you,
NVR4GTN
Babette
Barbara Colantuono
June 16, 2006
Dear Dad,
The weather has just been great. Well, they took the oil and tanks out of the ground. There was not a buried tank at the store. The above ground tank had no leakage but we have to buy a new tank and a base will be built and placed at the back of the shop. The buried tank at the house was a monster, 1000 gal tank. But, fortunately, there was no leakage there either. The soil samples were sent out but the man assured us that it will come back negative. Thanks really good news. Mark, from the shop, wants to cancel his lease now. It expires Oct. 1. We're going to let him leave now since he says he broke so we're not going to get any rent for the balance of his lease. Mr. Creehan wrote up a lease release form and as soon as Mark empties the shop and I check to see that there is no damage and that it's clean, we'll both sign the form and that will be that. He was a good tenant all along and he did make nice improvements in the shop. He should be gone by the end of next week. Then the following Monday, I have the asbestos man coming to remove the asbestos on the pipes in the cellar. That should be done in one day. After that, I'll get someone to take the trash from the garage and I'll store the things Joy and I want for a while and then everything is done. Ray, the prespective buyer, is planning on having a Phase I done on the property as soon as the soil sample results are in. That's just to check that the store or house was never used for anything that could contaminate the soil. I'm sure it never was. Sunday is Father's Day. This will be the 3rd one without you here. Of course, I'll visit the cemetary with flowers and cards. We miss you just as much as ever and are always thinking of you. We'll be at Dee's on Sunday for a cookout and maybe some swimming. Spend the day with us and Joy and have a really good time. Well, I'll keep you informed as things go along. As always, all my love, kisses, and hugs, to you and Mom.
Love,
Barbara
Barbara Colantuono
June 3, 2006
Dear Dad,
Well, it started out last week very sunny and HOT. It was Memorial Day weekend, so the weather was great for all the holiday baraques and festivaties. I had some company, Rose, Marilyn, and their husbands. We called out for food and played some cards. Had a nice time. On Sunday we went to CT and started to organize the garage. Stuff we wanted to keep and stuff to throw out. Then on Tuesday we went to AC for a couple of days. Walked the boardwalk, ate out, did some shopping, and of course played some. We didn't win, as usual, but had a very nice time. Then the weather turned very muggy and rainy. Joy flew up with Daniella for Patrick's graduation. She said it was very nice but very hot. She stayed at Joanne's and is flying home today. The men started the work on the oil tank. They pumped the oil out of the old tank near the house. He said the oil looked very thick with no water, which is a good sign that there was no leakage into the ground. They'll dig out the tanks on Tuesday and Wednesday and then we will know for sure if there is any contamination. They're not going to go on Steve's property. They'll dig by hand instead. Hope all goes well and we don't any further problems. But, we'll deal with whatever. I don't know why, but I have the feeling that the tank at the store was dug out when the new one was placed there. I hope I'm right. School is almost out and summer is here. Looking forward to the cruise. It should be fun since 16 of us are going. I know you would have enjoyed it and we'll keep you close at hand at all times. Frank is actually planning on going. That should be really nice. Not much else to tell, so I'll close with all my love, hugs, and kisses, to you and Mom. Stay happy and at great peace and know that you are ALWAYS with us.
Love,
Barbara
Barbara Colantuono
May 19, 2006
Dear Dad,
Well it's been raining on and off for the last few days but the temperature has not been cold. The contracts on the house are signed but now we need to do the oil tank removal and check for soil contamination. I'm waiting for one more quote on Monday and then I'll make appointments for that as well as the asbestos removal. Yesterday I had tickets to the Tony Danza TV show. It was a beautiful and perfect weather day. They gave out more tickets than the studio could hold and to make a long story short, after waiting for an hour and 3/4, when it was out turn to go in we were told there were no more seats. Needless to say, we were very disappointed and mad. They gave the audience so many gifts (which we got none of). But they called today and offered me VIP tickets for next Tuesday with a quarantee of seating. Next week is his last show and then he's going off the air. I hope to go. Went to the doctor this morning. He suggests that I go off the pills. I've been taking them for two years and that's usually the recommended time for them. He says I'm in remission and should be monitored until the count goes up before taking any other medicine. The choice is mine, and I'll probably will stop the pills and see what happens. He said the cancer will come back eventually but in the meantime the chemo destroys other cells as well as the cancer ones. So we'll just wait and see what happens. That's it for now. Hope Mom had a really nice Mother's Day. Lots and lots of love, kisses, and hugs, to you and her. Be happy and at great peace.
Love,
Barbara
Barbara Colantuono
May 14, 2006
Dear Dad,
Today is Mother's Day. It's cloudy and cool and looks like it going to rain. It's suppose to rain most of next week but guess we can't really complain because we're having a great spring. Went to Nikkie's play last week. It was 3 hours long. The kids had so many lines to learn. They were all good but Nikkie was really awesome. Just like a real actress. The doing the play again this Friday. When we were at the play, Deanna looked at the seat next to her and carved in the seat was the name Ben. I know you were napping in between the scenes and that's alright cause I'm sure you woke up when Nikkie was on. Today is her birthday. She's in NJ right now, went last night to see Grandma Mina and Aunt Markella. They went out for dinner and celebrated her birthday as well as Mother's Day. She had a really nice time. She, Tina, Dee, and the boys will be over this afternoon. We signed the contract on the house on Friday. I guess next week I'll call and have someone start the work on the oil tanks. Hopefully the ground will not be contaminated and then things won't get complicated. Went to the party for Bob & Rommy Cuneo last Saturday. They were really surprised and very pleased. They're really looking forward to going to FL. Waiting for their house to be sold. It was a very nice party held in St. Mary's school. They did some renovations and it really looks very lovely. Frank had his cateracts done last week. Everything went well and he says he can see good without his glasses, only needs them for reading. Just the opposite of what he needed before the operation. Guess that's all the news for now. I'm going to get dressed now and go to the cemetary. I have some cards for Mom from Joy and myself. As always, much love, kisses, and hugs to you and Mom. I hope she has a wonderful Mother's Day with you and her family. Laugh a lot and be very happy and at peace.
Love,
Barbara
barbara colantuono
May 4, 2006
Dear Dad,
Well, a lot has been going on the last week or two. First of all, I went to Md. for a week. Joy and Frank were there too. He looked a lot different from the last time I saw him. Much thinner and slower but he did pretty good, better as the week went on. We had a really good time with everybody. Went to the zoo, basket bingo (that's another story), visiting each other, and then Joanne's surprise 50th birthday party. She was really surprise and we all had such a good time. The first time the girls were all together in a long time. Joy and I said how proud you'd be and they're still such a pretty bunch. I remember us all being away when they were little like it was yesterday. Then Joy, Frank, Joe, and I left for AC for a couple of days. Had another very nice time and then we left to go home and Joy returned to Md for a day and then left for Fl. Nikkie had her confirmation this Sunday. It was a beautiful day and ceremony but her Grandfather, Peter's father, died on Saturday early morning. So after the Confirmation ceremony they only had a 1/2 hour to eat something quickly and then they left for NJ for an evening wake and the funeral was on Monday. Joe and I attended the funeral. It was difficult but all-in-all, everything went OK. Then I met with Renita and the perspective buyer during the week. The under ground oil tanks for the house and store must be removed and the oil removed and the soil tested for contamination. Also the asbestos on the ceiler pipes must be removed by a licensed personl. Then we were told that the under roof on the shop is rotten and must be replaced. We made a deal that we'd remove the tanks and the asbestos and then compensated him for the replacement of the rood and other minor repairs. Now we just have to hope that the soil is not contaminated. So we had to actually reduce the price by $25,000. But if all goes well, it should work out OK. Today is beautiful, almost 80 degrees. The cruise for 7/23 is now consisting of 15 people. AA and her family, Babette and her family, Joy, Frank, Joe, myself, and Tina and the kids. That should really be fun. We're all looking forward to it. Wish Joanne and Dee were coming also but maybe next year. I know you'd really enjoy this one and,of course, we're all taking you with us. Yesterday I went to the cemetary to put new flowers and a card from Joy and I. Hope you and Mom liked it. I think it would have made 65 years of marriage for you two. Hope you had a great celebration in heaven. Think I caught you up on almost everything. Of yes, when we were in MD, we went to a cheerleading competition for Taylor. She was very good and once again got a couple of trophies. Nikkie's play is Friday night. I know she'll be good and we're all so proud of her. Well, that should really be it so I'll close and get ready to go outside and do some work in the yard. As always, all my love, kisses, and hugs, to you and Mom. Always thinking of you and missing you.
Love,
Barbara
Barbara Colantuono
April 13, 2006
Dear Dad,
Well the weather has been really lovely this week. I hope you and Mom like the palm crosses and Grandma and Grandpa plaques that I put up on the Grave stone. Nikkie picked both of them out for you. Don't forget to read the card from Joy and I. I went up to the house yesterday to meet with Renita and a potential buyer. He's 41 with a wife and 3 kids. They live in Ridgefield since 1991 and has a car electrical service business in Greenwich for the last 21 years. He was really interested in the garage for his work and would like to establish a business in Ridgefield close to his home and near the new dealerships in Danbury by the airport. He would install electrical items in cars that did not have the work done when the car was bought. He seemed very nice. He said Mark could stay on in the store for a while if he wanted to, but Mark doesn't know if he wants to renew his lease when it's up in Sept. He would'nt do anything with the house right now, maybe rent it. His plans for any change would be in the future some time. We're at the point of settleing on a price. I hope we can arrive at a mutual agreement. I think you would like this guy and things would be settled in Ridgefield. I don't like going to the house and seeing it empty without you knowing you'll never be there again plus I don't want to find any major problems going on. I'll let you know how things progress but I'm sure your right there with me, guiding me and giving me all the right answers. The pipes in the basement are covered with abestos and that needs to be taken care of. Now, the question is whether the insulation done on the addition of the house is abestos also. Hope not. Frank had his cateract operation done on one eye last week. Everything seemed to have gone OK. He needs to have the other one done next month. Joy and he are suppose to be leaving for MD either today or tomorrow. Hope everything goes well for their trip. I'll be leaving on Monday and spend the week at Joanne's visiting the rest of them. I hope the weather holds out otherwise Joy and Frank will be very uncomfortable. Easter is Sunday. We're going to Dee's for dinner. We're picking up Anthony today so he'll be with us for the holiday and then we'll bring him home on Monday when we go down to MD. Nikkie had the lazer surgery on her face last week. It hard to really tell the results since it's still very red and a little swollen. But you can definitely tell there are no more bumps on the mark. She goes back for a checkup in a week or so. She may have to have a little more lazer done, won't know until it's all healed. Guess that's all the news for now. Always thinking of you and all the great things we did together. So much fun and laughter. Really miss it and you. Lots and lots of hugs, kisses, and love to you and Mom. Enjoy Easter with all of us. I just stopped to take a phone call. It was Renita. The buyer agreed to the last offer so hopefully everything will move along for the sale. I'll keep you informed as things progress. Love you lots.
Barbara
Barbara Colantuono
April 2, 2006
Dear Dad,
Well it was really a beautiful weekend. The weather was between 65 and 70, just perfect. I didn't do anything special, some yard work and a few sales. We went to AC last week for a couple of days. Very nice weather and time. We went to a flea market type shop, actually 2 of them together. I never saw so much stuff, piled everywhere, even to the ceiling. I have to show it to Joy the next time she comes, but I think I better drop her off there and return in about 3 or so hours to get her. Frank has been feeling better on and off. I'm really counting on him coming on the cruise in July, hope we can get him to go. We did make a reservation for him. I know if he goes, he'll really have a good time. Mom would have really enjoyed it but never could talk her into it. Too bad. Nikkie is going to get her birth mark removed on Friday. She's real happy about that. On Sunday, Palm Sunday, we're going to a 70th birthday party for Tom Bottoni, Sr. He's really looking forward to his party and I'm sure will love being the center of attention. Then the next week is EAster and we'll leave for Maryland probably on Tuesday after Easter. It'll be nice to see everyone and spend some time with Joy, Frank, AA. Rick, the kids, and Joanne and her kids. Also, I'll get to spend some time with Anthony after school and Nikkie can spend the week at her Dad's and with us too. All-in-all, it should be very nice. That's about it for now. Sending all my love, kisses, and hugs, to you and Mom. Enjoy the great weather and be very happy and at great peace. Missing you and thinking of you always.
Love,
Barbara
Barbara Colantuono
March 23, 2006
Dear Dad,
Weather today and the last few days is pretty nice. Air is crisp and a little cold but very sunny. We went to foxwoods last week for my birthday and this week for Joe's birthday. We played bingo. No luck but had a very nice time. Last week we stayed in the original hotel at foxwoods. It was very nice. This week we stayed in the new hotel added on to Foxwoods. It was really something. Very luxious and the pool was something else. I didn't go swimming because we only stayed one night but went to look at it. You really would have liked spending something at the pool. We went to Dee's for dinner and birthday cake for me last week. It was very nice. This Sunday we're going back for Joe's birthday. Pretty good, huh! Anthony is suppose to come on Friday and stay until Tuesday. He's off from school Monday and Tuesday. I'm really looking forward to seeing him. I talk to him all the time on the phone but miss being with him. He sounds real good and everything seems to be doing OK with him. Last Saturday Nikkie had her final cheerleading competition. Andrea came up with Taylor and went with us. Nikkie and her team did very well but there were 15 teams in all and the one from Staten Island were really awesome. They took the trophies for first to fifth place. The rest of the teams got participation trophies. A looked really good and of course Taylor was adorable. She's really into cheerleading and is very, very, good. I'll see her in her competition when I go down in April to visit. Spring is here and soon is will be nice and warm. Looking forward to that. Also Joy and Frank are coming to Maryland for a week or so in April and I'll go down for a few days to visit with everyone. That should be very nice, looking forward to that. Nothing else to tell you so I'll close for now with all my love, kisses, and hugs, to you and Mom. Stay happy and very peaceful and know we're always thinking of you. Miss you.
Love,
Barbara
barbara colantuono
March 11, 2006
Dear Dad,
Weather today is beautiful, high 50's and very sunny. It's supposed to be warm all week but drizzle and rain on and off. Well, we went to Foxwoods and stayed over. I didn't win at Bingo but did win on the machines. We had a very nice time. The next day, we went to Mohegan Sun and I gave my winnings to them. We had brunch and stayed a few hours and then left for home. All-in-all, we had a good time. I'm supposed to go to AC on Monday and Tuesday but I'm going to cancel that because it's too soon from just coming back from Foxwoods. We walked again today. Renita called, she had an open house for commercial agents on 3/9. She said only about 8 came, 2 were from Stamford which she was pleased about. No interests yet, but with Spring coming maybe something will happen. Planning on going to Dee's tomorrow for dinner and birthday cake. Nothing else happening, so I'll close with lots and lots of love, kisses, and hugs, to you and Mom.
Love,
Barbara
barbara colantuono
March 7, 2006
Dear Dad,
Pretty nice day today, very sunny and around 40. Friday and Saturday is suppose to be high 50's or low 60's. I guess we're finally getting to the nice weather, hope so. Nothing really new since I last wrote to you. Planning on going to Foxwoods on Thursday and staying over and coming home on Friday. Would like to win at Bingo, it would be a pleasant birthday gift. If not, I'm sure I'll still have a nice time. Joy is planning on coming up for Easter and staying a week or so in Maryland. I'll probably go down the Monday after Easter and visit with everyone, that should be nice. Starting walking again today. Hope to keep it up. Brandon had his surgery yesterday. It went very well and he was home in the afternoon doing good. He was like a grown man handling the whole thing. Hope it truly improves his breathing, it should. Nothing else to tell you so I'll close as always with lots of love, kisses, and hugs, to you and Mom. Miss you and think of you always,
Love,
Barbara
barbara colantuono
March 5, 2006
Dear Dad,
Weather this week not too bad. Its been cold but sunny so that helped a lot. Went to the house on Friday. Things were pretty good. Talked to Renita. She's planning an open house on my birthday, this Thursday, for both commercial and residential agents. Went to the mall afterward, and one of the jewelers were going out of business. They had fabulous buys and Joe bought me a very nice diamond ring for my birthday. Also, last night we went to dinner at San Martino's and he had Rose, Marilyn, Marie, and their husbands join us for my birthday. We had a very nice dinner and then they brought out this delicious chocolate cake. I gave up chocolate for lent but I had to have a piece. It was really good. In the daytime yesterday, Nikkie had a cheerleading competition. They worked very hard and were very good. They won 1st place and of course she and her team very sooooooooo happy and excited. She has one more competition on the 18th at Fordam University. On Monday, Brandon goes in the hospital to get his atanoids removed. So far, his doing pretty good. I hope everything goes well and that it helps a lot with his asthma. He'll be in and out the same day. Then on Thursday, my birthday, we're going to Foxwoods to play bingo and stay overnight at Foxwoods. The vacation planner that Babette deals with is suppose to call me today to make final arrangements for a cruise in July. Babette and her family, joy and FRANK, and Joe and I, are planning to go. I hope Frank really comes. I know he would really like it and it would be so convenient and comfortable for him. The ship is making four stops that sound really nice. This will be the first cruise I'm going on without you, of course you'll be with us in mind all the time. I know I'll really miss you not being there and doing all the things with us. Everyday there's something that I want to share with you but can only do it in thought. I hope your happy and at great peace and enjoying every minute with Mom and the rest of your family. You know your with all of us here all the time and always missed and loved a great deal. Well, I guess I have nothing else to tell you so I'll close for now with all my love, kisses, and hugs, to you and Mom.
Love,
Barbara
Barbara Colantuono
February 26, 2006
Dear Dad,
Well, the snow left almost as quickly as it came. I thought it would be around for a long time, but the week that followed was so warm that it melted almost all the remaining snow, which was very good. Today is bright and sunny but very cold so I don't plan to go anywhere. Joanne did go to see Joy and Frank for a few days. They had a very nice time. She's still getting grief from Keith. I hope they get things settled soon so she can relax and start a new life for herself. Spoke to Babette yesterday, Rick's parents are down for a weeks visit with them. That should be nice for all of them. I know Dee told you about Brandon. He really had a bad asthma attack this time but came through it OK. He's supppose to get his atanoids out next Monday, and that should help him a lot. I hope it does the job for him. He's a real tough little guy and did everything they told him in the hospital without any trouble. Not much else to report so I'll close with lots and lots of kisses, hugs, and love to you and Mom. Stay warm, happy, and very peaceful. Miss you all the time.
Love,
Barbara
daniella hankey
February 20, 2006
Dear Pa,
I keep praying for pop-pop to get better .I beat that you have been trying to tell God to make sure that he gets better soon.The week before last weekend i was sick with a sore thoart and a fever.This weekend i sarted to have a sore throat .Last week Aunt Joanne got to come down and spen time with us.But Princess started to chew up her cell phone so she had to get another one .I just got my progress report and I had really good grades .
i love you and miss you
love,
daniella
Deanna Bottoni
February 19, 2006
Hi Pa,
Well, I had a fun filled week. We got a big scare. I know you were with us. Brandons doing OK I just need to get him through the next fews weeks. Hopefully the surgury well help his nose, and maybe avoid some of these problems. Please be with us. I am going to be a reck that day. You take care of him PLEASE. You know, everything that happened this week I thought a few times God i have to call Pa so I can tell him everytime. But you already knew. Mom and Dad were a great help. We got though it just like always Thank God. Well, you be with us always I love and miss you so much We'll take soon Forever in my heart. Your Granddaughter DEE
Barbara Colantuono
February 14, 2006
Dear Dad,
Boy, did we ever get snow. On Sunday, NYC broke the all time record - 26.9 inches of snow. Yonkers got 17 inches which was more than enough. It really did look so pretty though. The guys used the snow blower for their walks but when it came to us the blower broke so Joe and I shoveled the driveway ourselves. It was so deep and hard to find a place to pile it up but we managed. On Monday it was very sunny which melted the remaining snow left after plowing or shoveling so the streets were all clean. It'll probably be a month or so before the piles of snow are gone. This week will be sunny and warmer so that should help a lot. I really wanted to go sledding but when Nikkie went the hill was so deep that I thought I wouldn't be able to walk up after going down so I didn't. Today is Valentine's Day. It's very sunny and around 40. I'm getting ready to go to the cemetary and put up new flowers for you and Mom and a card from Joy and I. After all, you were always our special Valentine. It's also Frank's birthday so I'll call him later. Joanne was suppose to fly down today for a few days. That'll be really nice for both her and Joy. I bet Daniel had to plow 2 or 3, if not more, times in order to keep up for the heavy snow fall. We'll find out as soon as the bill comes. The open house that Renita had was for only other real estate agents. She said about 9 came, 3 from Ryer Commercial real estate. They added another 800 or so sq. ft. since commercial count the garage as storage capacity. Not much else new and am ready to leave for the cemetary so I'll close with lots of love, kisses, and hugs, to you and Mom. Have a wonderful Valentine's Day and don't you or Mom eat too much chocolate. Miss you always.
Love,
Barbara
Barbara Colantuono
February 10, 2006
Dear Dad,
Well, I guess our lucky winter is coming to an end because we're suppose to get a significant snow storm tomorrow night into Sunday. It can be 3-6 inches or 6-12 inches, depending on the track of the storm in its way in. Nothing we can do about it, and since we made it so far without particular bad weather, it's not really so bad. Nikkie was sick this whole week and yesterday she came to stay here. Today she is much better. She had a virus of some kind, seems to be going around since lots of her school friends are sick too. Renita called last night, said she was having an open house today. It's very cold, so don't think too many people will be coming. I hope to get to the cemetary in the next couple of days unless the snow or cold is too bad. Nothing else really new, just wanted to drop a quick line. As always, lots and lots of love, kisses, and hugs, to you and Mom. Miss you much and think of you always.
Love,
Barbara
Nicolette Georgiades
February 8, 2006
Hey pa,
Today was home sick. I have either the flu or another small virus. Mommy is writing her story and truthfully it is really good!!!Very interesting!! As you know my thirteenth birthday is aproaching and im tryinn to think about what I can do!!! This summer im going to Floida with Daddy for two weeks. I cant wait. We are going to have soo much fun. I received my report card and i made First Honors!! I'm soo happy i really wanted that!! ok well it is almost 7:00 and i not feeling well so im going to go to bed now. I love you very much!! Always in my heart
Nikkie
(great-granddaughter)
Barbara Colantuono
February 7, 2006
Dear Dad,
Well, we went to the ice capades and it was really lovely. You would have loved the costumes and scenes. They did quite a few of the disney classics. So many of the little girls in the audience were dressed in their Cindrella dresses and crowns. It was really cute. We checked on the house yesterday, everything seemed OK. The "For Sale" sign is up and there were some brochures on the kitchen counter for an open house, whenever that is, to be given out by Renita. We'll see what happens. The weather this week will be cold but still no snow or ice. We're really being lucky so far this winter. Hope it keeps up for the rest of February then it'll be time for Spring. I made reservations for the summer for the Poconos and wanted to book a cruise. But Peter now decided to take the kids to Fl for 2 weeks so I have to rearrange everything and see what I can come up with. I find it so amazing and yet so natural that everything I do or plan brings of memory of you and I either doing it or talking or joking about the same happening. Your in every one of my thoughts and actions. I guess that's way I miss you so much and think of you constantly. Often I smile or laugh out loud thinking of something you did or said. I'm glad we all have so many wonderful memories of you but it also makes it hard not having you here. I'll visit the cemetary by the weekend. It will be Valentine's Day next Monday and I have a card and flowers for you and Mom from Joy and myself. I just read the story Tina is writing. It's really very good and of course your a main character in it. Brandon is still doing a lot of coughing, especially at night, so Dee says he'll have his atonoids taken out in March. Hopefully this will help him with his breathing. Nikkie is home sick today with either a virus or the flu. Hope she feels better soon and can go back to school. That's about it for now. As always, lots of love, kisses, and hugs, to you and Mom. Be at peace and happy and know we thing of you always.
Love,
Barbara
Barbara Gallo
January 24, 2006
Dear Dad,
Today is Tuesday, cold but sunny and no wind so it's durable. We did go back to the Poconos last Wednesday. We had a very nice time. The place was empty as compared to the weekend. We saw a movie, played some games with the few other guests, listened to music, and played in a Texas Hold-em tournament. There were 28 people in the tournament, 3 tables of 8. I did pretty well. Lasted until the last table, was the fifth of the last to go broke. It was fun, didn't cost anything, and a free weekend as the prize. All-in-all, we had a very nice couple of days. We took a ride around the area and visited some of the other places. It's too bad that no one came with us since we had the other unit empty. I got the results back from the doctor. The count went down 3 points so I can stay on the same pills for a while longer. That was good news. Frank went back to the specialist. He was given some new pills and they seem to be working better. Hope they continue to help him. Everything else is pretty much the same. I got the insurance for the house and store for the next year. We're leaving on Thursday to get Anthony. We'll stay overnight and pick him up after school on Friday and then drive here. I have tickets for the Disney Ice Capades for Saturday night. Dee, Tom, Tina, Joe, myself, and the 4 kids are suppose to go. You always liked that so we plan on bringing you along too. Guess that's all the news for now. Loving, missing, and thinking of you always. Lots of hugs, kisses, and love, to you and Mom.
Love,
Barbara
Barbara Gallo
January 18, 2006
Dear Dad,
Went to the Poconos Friday night with Dee, Tom, Tyler, Brandon, and Nikkie. Joe went to meet Peter in Delaware, pick up Anthony, and drove to meet us at the Poconos. He didn't stay because it was suppose to rain heavy late Friday night into Saturday. So he left right away to go home to help his Mom in case of any water leakage. Thankfully, there wasn't any, so he came up on Sunday morning. Friday night the fog was so bad you could hardly see the road at all. On Saturday, it was around 50 but drizzling all day so we couldn't go snow tubing. The kids did things inside the lodge and had a good time anyway. On Sunday Dee and the kids left around 12:30 because Tyler had a basketball tournament on Sunday night. Joe and I took Anthony and Nikkie skiing. It was very, very cold. I wanted to go skiing but didn't have the proper clothes for the severe cold, so we stayed in the lodge while they skied. They had a great time and did really really well on the skis. We stayed about 4 hours. The unit we were staying in was very nice. It was actually 2 complete apts, very spacious and new, with an adjoining door. Peter and his family met us on Monday and stayed for a couple of hours and then left with Anthony. Joe, Nikkie and I left to come home. I had a doctor's appt. on Tuesday and then we planned to go back to the Poconos until Friday morning. We don't have to check out until then. But, rain and heavy winds were predicted for Tuesday night into Wednesday afternoon so we stayed home. It's now Wednesday, around 1:00 PM, and the rain has almost stopped and the wind has settled down, so we'll probably leave in an hour or so. We didn't get any water in the house, but a lot of branches and things blew down outside and the electric went out for a while. The new shed was finally put up last week. Didn't get to put the Xmas things or anything else in it yet. Well. a branch fell on it, and a piece of the roof trim broke and fell off. I'll have to fix it before using it so the things inside stay dry. Would love to sell this house but several circumstances stop me from doing so at this time. Nikkie tried out for her school play. She got the female lead. The play is Harvey, about an invisible 6' rabbit. She has a lot of lines to learn but will do real well because she really says them with a lot of feeling. Anthony was asked to model for a bridal magazine. He'll look really good in a Tux. Hope it comes about. Hope everything is OK in Ct. Probably lost power there. Will check on things real soon. Missing you and thinking of you always. Lots of love, kisses, and hugs, to you and Mom.
Love,
Barbara
Barbara Colantuono
January 18, 2006
Dear Dad,
Went to the Poconos on Friday night. I went with Dee, Tom, Tyler, Brandon, and Nikkie. Joe went to meet Peter in Delaware and then went to the Poconos. Joe didn't stay but left for home right after dropping Anthony there. There was suppose to be heavy rains Friday night late into Saturday. He didn't want to leave his Mom alone in case of water coming in. So he spent Friday night and Saturday in Yonkers. Thankfully, the rain did not come in. He came up to the Poconos on Sunday morning. The fog on Friday night was very bad, we could hardly see the road. On Sat., the temperature was around 50 but it was drizzlying so we couldn't go snow tubing. We did things inside the resort, the kids had a good time anyway. On Sunday, it turned very cold. Dee left with Tom and her kids around 12:30. Tyler had a basketball tournament on Sunday night to go to. Joe and I took Nikkie and Anthony skiing. I wanted to ski too but didn't have the proper clothing for the very cold so we stayed in the lodge while they skied. They had a great time and did real well. We stayed about 4 hours and then went back to the unit. The unit was soooooo nice. It was actually two complete apts., very spacious and new, with an adjoining door. On Monday, Peter and his family met us at the lodge, spent a couple of hours, and then left with Anthony. We left with Nikkie. On tuesday, we planned to go to my doctor's visit and then head back to the Poconos since we didn't have to check out until Friday morning. Well, heavy rain and winds were predicted for tuesday night into Wednesday afternoon. So, naturally we couldn't leave as planned. It's now Wednesday afternoon, around 1:00pm. The rain and wind have almost stopped so we probably leave in another hour or two. We didn't get any water in the house, but the electric went out for a while and branches and things blew down outside. The new shed, which was just finally put together, I haven't even put the Xmas things away in it yet, was hit by a branch and a piece on the side got broken and came off. It's part of the roof trim so I guess I'll have to get it fixed before I can use it so that things stay dry. I sure would like to sell this house but several circumstances keep me from doing so at this time. Oh yes, Nikkie tried out for the Spring play at her school. She got the female lead. The play is Harvey, about the invisible 6' rabbit. She has a lot of lines to learn, but she really does it good with lots of feeling. I had my blood taken yesterday, will probably get the results on Thursday. I'll know whether or not I start a new medicine depending on the results. Well, I guess that's it for now. Hope everything is OK in CT. Will check on the house very soon. Lots of love, kisses, and hugs, to you and Mom. Almost forgot, Anthony was asked to model for a wedding magazine. He should look really good in a Tux. Hope it comes about. Talk to you again soon. Always missing and thinking of you. Lots of love,
Barbara
Barbara Colantuono
January 10, 2006
Dear Dad,
Well, today was just beautiful. Not FL but beautiful for us at this time of year. It was low 50's. Very sunny and no wind. We spent the day outside put away the Christmas decorations. What a pleasure, not to be doing it in the cold. Tomorrow I hope to get the inside decorations put away. It's suppose to be nice weather all week. I has my party on Saturday night. There was 10 of us total. We had a very nice time, much too much food. We ate, talked, laughed, and played cards. Everyone left around 1:00 am. so I guess they enjoyed themselves. Nikkie and Tina went on their ski weekend with the other girl scouts and their mothers. Both said they had a very nice time, I was really glad to hear that. Nikkie was so happy that her mother got to go this time. It was really nice for both of them. Not much else happening. It's late and I'm tired so I'll close with lots and lots of love, hugs, and kisses, to you and Mom.
Love,
Barbara
Barbara Colantuono
January 6, 2006
Dear Dad,
Went to the cemetary yesterday. The flowers were still up but yours (since they were real) had died, so I put up new ones (artificial). I also put up an angel for you and Mom and a Christmas card from Babette. Then we went to CT to check on things. Everything seemed pretty good. Daniel took care of the snow and fixed the mailbox. The weather was pretty good for this time of year, around 45 and sunny. Today it's cloudy but not really cold. Tina and Nikkie are leaving on their ski weekend with the other Moms and kids from girl scouts. Nikkie will have a great time and I hope Tina enjoys it too. We're going next weekend. Talked to Joy and Frank is doing pretty good. Still gets some episodes once or twice a day but works through them. She's been doing the Flea Market with him on the weekends. It's better for him but not really her thing. She says the weather has been beautiful so I guess you've been hanging out there. Tomorrow, Rose, Lucky, Marilyn, Jerry, Marie, Skeets, and maybe Lucky's sister Edith will come over. We'll eat, drink, talk and maybe play some cards. It should be nice. You always enjoyed it when they came so your definitly invited. Guess that's about it for now. Lots of love, hugs, and kisses, to you and Mom.
Love,
Barbara
Barbara Colantuono
January 4, 2006
Dear Dad,
Well, Christmas came and went without you again. Of course, you were within our hearts the whole time and remembered so many little things about the holidays that we shared. It was a nice Christmas, we were all together, including Anthony. He stayed from Christmas through New Year's. Nikkie went to her Dad's after Christmas to spend the rest of the holiday with him. He brought Nikkie home yesterday and took Anthony back to Maryland. Weather was good for Christmas but was cold and icky yesterday. Today is not too bad. I'm sure your ready to sun in Florida and enjoy Babette's new pool. I heard it's beautiful. i still have all my Christmas decorations up since the Kings don't arrive until Friday and I'm having a small party on Saturday with some of my friends. I had to go for another pet scan yesterday. Tumor markers have been going up slightly the last 3 times and the doctor wanted to make sure there wasn't any change taking place. I did good for the test. I took my tranquilizer just before leaving the house, asked for a mask for the scan, and talked to you during the test. The doctor called this morning with the results and said there's no change, so that was really good news. If the markers go up again then I'll probably have to start a new medicine. Won't know that until the next blood test on Jan. 17th. This Sunday Mom will be gone 16 years. That's so hard to believe. I can't believe how fast the time and years go. It's really scary and makes me feel very old quick. Nikkie is suppose to go on a ski weekend with her Mom and the girl scouts this weekend. She's really looking forward to it. Then the following weekend, her, Anthony, Dee and the kids are suppose to go to the Poconos with Joe and I. That should be fun. I'd like to try snowmobiling. Guess that's about all for now. I'll visit the cemetary this week. I'm sure they've removed the flowers from Christmas. I'll put up new ones. Be happy and at peace. Oh yes, I forgot to mention my dream of last week. It was so real and hard to believe it didn't really happen. I saw you lying down and all of a sudden you opened your eyes and smiled at me. I was sooooooooooo happy. I said I wanted to hug and kiss you so badly because I missed you so much. You laughed and sat up and gave me a big hug and I was squeezing you and kissing you and telling you how happy I was to be able to do that. Then I asked you if you were happy where you were. You said "extremely". I want to believe that's true so I will. It was such a great dream and I felt really good the next day. I like to think about it when I'm feeling lonely and sad without you. Love, kisses, hugs, to you and Mom. Happy New Year in Heaven and stay close to all of us. We'll always miss and love you and need you all the time.
Love,
Barbara
Babette Hankey
December 31, 2005
Hi Pa,
Just wanted to wish you and everyone a very Happy New Year! Wish you were here. 2006 will hopefully be a good year. The pool now has water in it and should be fully heated and functional within 2 weeks. The screen is going up next week and the jacuzzi should be delivered Wednesday. We'll make sure we have a special chair with your name on it for whenever you want to use it.
Check out the kids play room someday. There are some games in there that I know you will really like.
Missing you as always. Happy 2006!
Babette
deanna bottoni
December 20, 2005
I think from day one On December 24 1969 I was meant to be a Colantuono. I was blessed to have been given a wonderful family who all love each other in their own somtime funny way. I truley believe that it started with the ROCK of our family who showed us all what it was to be together as a family, to make beauitful memories that we all cherised. I know that there is a large piece of Pa in me and i see it in alot of all of you. I miss u so much but i know and I know as a fact that he wants us to be a happy close family. No tears( i know that is impossible) But we are so lucky that we had so many years to love u. We could have loss you so many times before. Even thought my eyes are filled with tears and my heart brokes I am the luckiest person in the world to have been touched and loved so deeply by you. I read us all writing wonderful things and they are all true. The trubite to u was the best thing i have heard. It is so very very true. Pa you are the head of the family. The one who keeped us together as a family and i think you do that every day with our own families. You have set the ultimate example for all for us. I think that is why we miss u so much in all the times we have now. We have gain so much also. I know for sure that u are alway there on all the special days. I will never forget what was given to me and all that u mean to me. You did make me a better person along with the great family that i was lucky enough to have been given. I dont want people to be sad. I want us to all be so happy of the person Pa made us and continues to make us. That is what he wanted. You will never be gone, it is impossible. We would love to hug and kiss you ( some day) Your are forever my precious grandfather who i love more and more each day. Miss you, love you, huges to you always. Forever in my heart Your granddaugthe DEE
Barbara Colantuono
December 20, 2005
Dear Dad,
Well another year came and went without you. It was a very hard day on Sunday, remembering all the sadness and pain you went through 2 years ago. I went to the cemetary to bring you and Mom cards and flowers. Dee had left flowers the day before so I'll save mine for the next time. I tried to tell you how much your missed and loved. I hope you heard all I said to you. Yesterday, Monday, I had a mass said for you at St. Eugene's. It was very nice. The weather still is cold but sunny and not windy so it's really not too bad. The weekend is suppose to warm up, around 45 or so. That should be nice. Christmas is Sunday. The girls and the kids will all be here, which I'm really happy about, especially if everyone gets along and are pleasant. I think I miss you more at this time, if that's possible, thinking of how we always did the tree on Christmas Eve when I was a kid. Opening the presents on Christmas and really getting excited about my stocking gifts. The last couple of years that you spent Christmas in Fl left an empty spot for you but at least I knew you'd be back in the Spring. Now I know your not coming back and it makes me very sad and lonely for you and our good times. I have so many, many, wonderful memories and happy things to remember. Thank you with all my heart. I hope you enjoy Christmas with Mom and your family in heaven, but spend a little time with us. I know you'd like the dinner and desserts. You'll be with all of us in our hearts and thoughts. Lots and lots of kisses, hugs, and love, to you and Mom.
Love,
Barbara
Babette Hankey
December 19, 2005
Pa,
It's been two long, sad years since you left us. Each of us has an empty place in our heart, yet such gratitude for all that you have done and shown each of us that will carry on forever. Today, like many other days, I read your tribute that Rick said at your funeral which clearly helps me through the rough times. I know you hear it and I know that you know it, but once again, I'd like to share with you some of it.
Today, we remember with gratitude the deep love he demonstrated for his friends and family, his generous heart and his intense love for life. While he may have been addressed by different names such as Daddy, Pa, and Ben, we can all agree that he could be called a true friend. Pa is a man of God, a man of love and a man of inner peace. In short, he is a beautiful person with a heart of gold.
Pa was a friend to everyone he met. It was not uncommon for him to strike up a conversation with complete strangers while sitting in the mall or at the grocery store (just to let you know, mom is following in your footsteps.) Many of those who met him were impressed with this pleasant and genuine demeanor. Nevertheless Pa is a man whose greatest pleasures in life came from his family. (This is why we all miss you so much, you loved each one of us so much and showed each one of us your caring ways everyday). He was very proud of his two beautiful daughters, his lovely granddaughters (thanks pa) and his great grandchildren (they really miss you too). The in turn were still and very proud of him. He could always be found in the company of his daughters or granddaughters, all of whom considered him to be their great friend (one of our best friends). Pa's family was a source of pride and he unselfishly provided his family with wisdom, strength, devotion and unconditional love (thanks for all the miami family vacations, the teachings of how to do the Christmas electric so it doesn't blow -- it finally worked this year-- and the wisdom and strength that you passed on to Colby and Daniella they remember the details you gave them, particularly around the pH levels and have both used it in winning science fair projects.) In turn, a family that loved him immensely and will continue to love him dearly always surrounded him.
Grief remains one of the few things that has the power to silence us. More than love, more than faith, even more than death itself, grief is unspoken. Grieving is painful, demanding and emotionally draining. Yet, given a chance, a profound and transforming healing will come. The grieving time is a time to put into place in our lives the precious gifts that our daddy, pa, Ben left for us. These include strong work ethics, the value of love for family and most importantly, learning to appreciate the present and make the most of our lives.
Pa, you will never be gone or 4gtn as a part of you lies within each of us. Pa you have enriched our lives and for that,we are all grateful. We miss you Pa, we love you very much and we thank you daily for all that you have given us and taught us.
I believe that you are an angel, one that was with us and now one that is among us watching over us and guiding us as we continue our journey through life. We pray that you know how empty our hearts are not to have you in person with us, but we know that you, grandma and the rest of the family will visit us in spirit. Your messages and pennies that you send us are a constant reminder of how much you are still around and a part of us-- thank you.
Today was a very cold and dreary day, very fitting for how I felt. Tomorrow, I am sure that we will have sunshine and happy thoughts as we get closer to this Christmas season. I love you Pa. Sending lots of hugs, kisses and oh yes, Chaps cologne your way.
Miss you
xoxoxoxoxox
You are nvr4gtn
Babette
deanna bottoni
December 16, 2005
Hi little boy,
Just can not believe it is 2yrs. It seems like yesterday. Trying not to remember this time 2 yrs ago, all bad memories. I have my tree up and all the ordaments i have from u and the ones i got remind me of all the beauiful times we all shared. I am going to he cemetary tommorow, know your not there but i will come talk to you anyway. Make sure things look pretty for you and gram. It's a hard time of the year without you. Miss talking to u so much. Kids are good, watch over them and keep them safe and happy. I love and miss u so much. We all do. Thanks for being u and all the wonderful things u did for us. It is remember every day. Always in my heart. I love you Your Granddaughter Dee
Barbara Colantuono
December 15, 2005
Dear Dad,
Boy, it's really cold this week so I know your in FL enjoying the weather. Joy says it's cold there too but nothing like here, 20's and 30's in the day. Not much wind so when I go out it's not too bad, just to the car and stores. I did go up to the house last week. Everything seemed OK and Daniel had done the snow plowing. Everyone here is doing OK but, of course, missing you very much what with Christmas and your anniversary a few days from now. I have a mass being said for you on Monday, the 19th. This is the week you were so sick. Everytime I think of it, I feel so bad that you had to go through that. I hope your now nice and comfortable and laughing and smiling the way you always did. Wish we were planning one of our trips together. They sure were fun, thank you so much. I hope Mom and Aunt Ruby are getting along fine. Say hello to grandpa for me. Joe and Shawn, the man next door, left this morning to go pick up the shed from Home Depot. You know the one I started in May. It's six months, and after all the hollerbelou from the city, I ordered a vinal one from Home Depot. Now that its freezing, it came in. Of course, it can't be put up because it's too cold. It'll stay in the box in Shawn's garage until it's warmer when he can put it up. Just wanted to say hi and tell you again how much we miss and love. Oh yes, Frank went to a new doctor yesterday. Joy said he seems pretty good and says there's other medicines Frank can take. They liked him and will continue with him. Frank has been doing much better and maybe with this guy, he'll do even more so. That's it for now. Lots of kisses, hugs, and love to you and Mom. Have a wonderful Christmas in heaven with your family and friends. You'll be with us too, as always.
Love,
Barbara
babette hankey
December 14, 2005
Pa,
Just wanted to say hi and thanks for always keeping an eye on us. We know you've been working hard with the big guy watching over each of us. Daniella just completed her science fair project, and I heard you saying how she needed to test the pH. It's amazing how we still hear and see all of those little and big things that you taught us. Yes, I know, I need to get up the lights and be careful not to overload. Soon the pool with finally be done so we know you'll be hanging out.
I miss you and love you. And no, I'm not crazy for getting mom Singlee, she really needs something to help her fill the void and the monster/princess, isn't doing it.
The Lincoln is in the shop needed something with emissions. Should get it Friday, we want them to detail it. Rick likes to drive it when he has to go longer distances for work because it is so comfortable.
Keep smiling. we love and miss you. give gram a hug and tell her to send some quarters our way, the moths need to get out.
Love always,
NVR4GTN
Babette
Barbara Colantuono
December 9, 2005
Dear Dad,
Just looked over the last letters sent to you and for some reason the last two I wrote didn't show up. Oh well, I'm sure you read them anyway. Today is snowed, about 7 inches. It looks very pretty but only from in the house where it's warm. It's very cold outside, so I know your not around here but definitely in FL enjoying the sun. Lucky you! Last night I went to West Point for a basketball game because Tyler and his team played for about 10 minutes during intermission. It was very cute. West Point is very impressive and lovely. But it was dark and very cold and many, many steps from the parking lot to the stadium. Tough time getting back to the car. Joy says Frank is doing pretty good. Much better than he was. Still gets a couple of episodes during the day but not as bad and can do things when they go away. Things in Ct. seem OK. The house is pretty much cleared out and cleaned up. Wanted to go there today but probably won't with the snow, I'll go next week. Plan to go the the Nutcracker ballet on Sunday, just Nikkie and I. I know you would really love that, Ha, Ha! Christmas is only two weeks away. It comes quicker and quicker every year. Next week will be two years since you left us. It seems like yesterday and then again like a hundred years since we were together. I put up the Christmas tree on Monday and felt so sad. So many memories of years past, with the tree, gifts, and times together. The holidays get sadder every year with nothing being the same and so many things and people gone. I know you'll be watching all of us on Christmas and hope you feel all the love, prayers, and thoughts of you from us. Stay warm and peaceful and know we're always thinking of you and remembering so many wonderful things. Missing you so much. Lots of love, kisses, and hugs, to you and Mom.
Love,
Barbara
Babette Hankey
November 8, 2005
Hi Pa,
Just wanted to tell you thanks for always watching over each of us who love you so dearly. We miss you so much. There isn't a day that goes by without me thinking about and missing you.
Please continue to send your love and guidance to each of us. We miss you.
Love you always, NVR4GTN
Babette
barbara colantuono
November 7, 2005
Dear Dad,
It's been a while since I've written so I'll try to catch you up on everything. Joy, Frank, Joe, and I did get to go away. We went to Tunica, MS and Memphis, TN. We had a really good time and Frank did pretty good. He did everything we did. He did get sick sometimes but we waited until it passed and then it was alright again. We visited the casinos in Tunica which were very nice. The buffets were unbelieveable. Needless to say, I gained 5 lbs. but took most of it off now. We visited Elvis's Graceland (house). That was very interesting. You would have liked it. We went to downtown Memphis and took a horse and buggy ride. We also took an hour river cruise on the Mississippi. All-in-all it was really fun. We then went back to Florida for a few days before heading home. Since we left, Joy said Frank is not doing so well. They tried to take him off his medicine but that's not working. She'll call the doctor and try to bring him back to the Mayo Clinic for another opinion. The weather is just beautiful and the trees are awesome. But in another week or two, they'll be bare and I'm sure it will be cold. Not looking forward to that. I met Daniel and his wife at the house last Friday. They want to buy the kitchen hutch, table & chairs, and the 3 piece couch furniture. I'm suppose to go back this week for him to pick them up. I'm waiting for his call. I went to MD this weekend to see Anthony. Peter had a hernia operation and was laid up. He's doing OK and we had a very nice visit with them and Anthony and Nikkie got to spend time with her Dad and the rest of them. Kind of tired of being in the car and need to catch up on some things around here so I guess I'll stay put for a while. Hope you've been having a good time and staying warm and comfortable. Miss you all the time and thought about you the whole trip and the things you would have enjoyed. Joy and I talked about you a lot and said, Daddy would say this or that or Daddy would really have liked this. Hope you hear all the things I'm always saying to you. Joanne is really having a tough time with everything and hope it starts to settle down soon for her. Give her a helping hand if you can and some strength and guidance. Lots and lots of love, kisses, and hugs to you and Mom.
Love,
Barbara
Barbara Colantuono
October 17, 2005
Dear Dad,
Went to CT today. Was surprised to see that everything was OK considering the terrific amount of rain we had. I called Daniel to see if he would be interested in buying some of the furniture. He called me tonight and said his wife liked some of the things. I told him, I'll call when I get back from the trip and arrange to have he and his wife come look at the furniture. I thing he's going to buy some of it. Joy is starting to use the computer a little. I know she'll really like it once she gets used to it. Frank would really enjoy it, if he would only try it. He hasn't been doing too well lately. Hopefully, he'll be able to see another doctor before we leave for the trip and get a new medicine that might make him feel better than he's been doing. I hope the trip gives him a little lift. We'll be leaving for FL the day after tomorrow. Weather here has improved quite a bit but will probably be cold when I return so I plan to really enjoy the weather while we're away. Wish you were coming with us in body but you'll definitely be there in spirit. Will write again soon. Lots of love, hugs, kisses, to you and Mom always. Miss you all the time.
Love,
Barbara
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