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Joseph Balberchak Obituary

BALBERCHAK Joseph (Barber) Balberchak, age 83, beloved husband of Helen Papp Balberchak of Stratford, passed away on Tuesday, November 9, 2004, peacefully hand-in-hand, with his devoted wife of 62 years. He was born in Edwardsville, Pa., on February 18, 1921, and was the son of the late Andrew and Margaret Hric Balberchak. Joe Barber is a man for all seasons. To be exact, 50 softball seasons. That‚s how many years Barber has been involved with the Amateur Softball Association, the national governing body of softball in the United States. In November, Barber was to going to be recognized for his 50 years of loyal and dedicated services to the A.S.A. He is only the fifth person in ASA history to achieve 50 years of service. The others accoplishing this milestone were Fred Hoffman (deceased), George Cron (deceased), Charles L. McCord (deceased) and Lewis Brasell of Mobile, Ala. Some people lead, some people follow, Barber has been the former throughout his outstanding career. A native of Kingston, Pa., Barber had played a major role in the development of Softball in not only Connecticut but throughout the United States and the world. He orginally had plans to enter the priesthood and even studied for two years at the Passionist Fathers Seminary of the Holy Ghost at Dunkirk, N.Y. But while stationed in the Army on the battle-torn Island of Guadalcanal, Barber‚s eventual career in radio broadcasting was launched when he narrated the Christmas Midnight Mass to thousands of troops throughout the Pacific. He did the narration after a French priest suggested that a broadcast of the midnight service would be a morale boost to the American forces in the Solomon Islands chain. Not wasting time, Barber contacted Armed Forces Radio and won approval and prepared a script a few weeks before Christmas, presented it to the chaplain for approval and then volunteered to do the broadcast which would be his first experience in radio. Joe did the narrations in a small, thatch-roofed chapel built by the island natives with an overflowing crowd attending. In 1945 after a short assignment in Manilla, Barber was assisgned to Osaka, Japan, with an occupation force to manage the Japanese Radio station JOBK with the principal assignment of montoring Japanese broadcasts. Armed Forces Radio occupied one floor of the eight floor building and Barber arranged to have the station carry the midnight mass from the bombed-out Osaka Cathedral The memory of Osaka was still vivid in his mind as he told the Connecticut Post in May, Completely flat, from all of the bombs that fell on it. A lot of people were living in caves. After the war and now married, Barber returned to the United States and got a radio job with WNAB in Bridgeport and of course continued his narration of the Chrsitmas Midnight Mass which became a tradition in the Statford-Bridgeport area. His narration gave him a feeling of coming very near to the role he would have taken if he had continued his studies for the Priesthood. After several years as an announcer and sportscaster for WNAB he joined the Raybestos Division of the Raybestos Manhattan Company in 1948 and in two years was named community relations administrator. Twenty years later he was named community manager for the corporate advertising and public relations department. With Raybestos heavily involved in the sponsorship of men‚s and women Major fast pitch teams, his responsibilities included serving as the business manager. In 1957, Barber was named to succeed John Lindquist as Connecticut ASA commissioner. He was an unexpected choise for the position byt came highly recommended, said former commissioner Laudenslager, it was a case of the job coming to the man becaude we felt he alone had what we needed, ececutive ability and experience in the important field of public relations. The rest as they say, is history. Joe has touched all the bases in his softball career plus a lot of people with his down-to-earh honest approach. You could trust Joe Barber with your last nickel, said Hall of Fame pitcher John Spring. Barber was instrumental in attaining widespread coverage on TV and in print including the first coast-to-coast telecast of the ASA National Fast Pitch Tourney in 1961 for men and the Women‚s National tourney in 1962.

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Published by Connecticut Post from Nov. 11 to Nov. 12, 2004.

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Charley & Karen Potok

December 4, 2004

Don,we received the notice from my mom and would like to extend our wishes of finding comfort through the prayers offered by friends and family. We are in Columbia and Charley can be reached at (803) 264-5300 if you'd like to catch up. God bless all, Karen Rupar and Charley Potok

Nicholas Neeley

November 17, 2004

John - My sincere sympathy to you and your family on the loss of your Dad. I will always remember how your dad would line-up summer work for a group of us maintaining the stands and field at Raybestos Field and the happy memories I have of those days and evenings. Nick Neeley

Frank and Emma Williams

November 16, 2004

Dear Helen and Family Our sincere sympathy is with you and you are in our prayers. We both have fond memories of Joe; working with him at Raybestos and his association with the ASA (Emma worked with him in Stratford and Frank played with the Cardinals). We spoke with him this past summer and it was a treat to be able to reminisce with him. It was our pleasure to know him.

Mary Ann De Vivo Nielsen

November 13, 2004

Dear Mrs. Barber and the entire Barber family.

Our deepest sympathy to you all.

Our families go way back to my early childhood in Stratford, Conn. We all had good times together and fond memories of Eaton Steet and Stony Brook Rd.

May the Lord's Blessings be upon you and your family at this time of sorrow. Tom and I feel for you and know what if feels like to loose someone you love who you are very close too.

We will keep you and your family in our prayers. My the Lord hold you in the palm of his hands durring this difficult time.

May God Bless you all.



Please keep in touch.



Love Mary Ann De Vivo Nielsen & family

Bill Plummer III

November 13, 2004

Dear Helen and Family:

I, along with many people, in the ASA will miss Joe. I had a pleasure of working with him for more than 25 years and since 1990 when he was named chairman of the Hall of Fame Selection Committee. I had the utmost respect for Joe because you always knew where you stood with Joe. He was a special person and I will always have fond memories of the years we worked together on the Hall of Fame Committee.

God Bless you Helen and the rest of your family.

Your friend

Bill Plummer III

Manager, National Softball Hall of Fame

Joseph Crudo Jr.

November 12, 2004

I will never forget Joe and be always indebted to him for his committment to the youth of our town. He was, along with Sal Cholko, Mike Montecalvo, Pete Sulzicki and Hank Pulaski my mentors from my days in Stratford Original. His inspiration and interest in me will last my lifetime. God Bless him. THANK YOU FOR MENTORING ME.

William F Papp

November 12, 2004

William F. Papp and Family offer our condolences

Dennis Laccavole

November 11, 2004

My sincere sympathy to the entire Balberchak family. I have very fond memories of Joe and his association with the Stratford Original Little League as well as the Raybestos softball teams. He was a true gentleman as well as a good friend to my late father, Lou.

Bill Griglock

November 11, 2004

I was saddened to hear of Joe's passing. I'd like to extend condolences to the entire family. My father worked with Joe at Raybestos for many years and was also deeply involved with softball. I know that Joe will be missed by many.

Ann Janosko

November 11, 2004

Dear Helen and your family sending my codolences to all of you. I am sadden by the news if Joe's death. He was one of our best friends and i have fond memories of the good times our families had. He was a wonderful caring husband and father. He had many friends being active in sports and his church. He sure will be missed. Helen you will not walk alone , though you may think you do ,for in your sorrow and despair God always walks with you. I know this. Just know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find peace and calm in memories, faith and friends. So sorry that I can't be there for you. You took very good care of Joe. I feel so good that I was able to visit Joe and you this past summer. Will remember you and family in my prayers. Love you all, Ann

Kim Burnham

November 11, 2004

Dear John:



My condolences on the loss of your father. I was very young, but I do have memories of him with my own dad when I went to ball games at Raybestos Field and a few times at the old house on South Avenue. I definitely know that he was one of my father's greatest friends and in my father's later years he would speak of him with great fondness and laugh when recalling a funny ball game story.



Again, my sympathies to you and your family.



Kim Burnham

Hal Baird

November 11, 2004

Joe was a great individual. It was through his time spent with me that I was introduced to the field of broadcasting and eventually dabbled in it at various stations including WNAB where Joe worked. I am pleased to continue working with the Brakettes to this day as their public address announcer. The softball world and the community at large has lost a great friend.

Barbara Fray

November 11, 2004

Dear John,

May I be one of the first to honor your Dad by signing this Guest Book.

I will forever remember, with very fond memories, our days at Raybestos Field. I can still picture your Dad and mine standing there near the gate at the snack bar before a game conversing. It was an honor and a privilege to have known him. Raymond and I so enjoyed his wit and humor during our visits this past year. I'm very thankful for that time.

My sincerest sympathy to you, your Mom, the boys, and the rest of your wonderful family. You will all find great comfort in each other right now, but moreso, in the many memories you will forever hold of your "Pop"...and there are many. More people than you will even realize share in your sorrow right now and I am one of them.

Love, Barb (and Raymond)

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