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Michele Thomas Obituary
Michele (Shelly) Thomas, age 57, of Fairfield, passed away peacefully Wednesday, October 2, 2019 at William Backus Hospital, Norwich. Born in Bridgeport, the daughter of Robert and Barbara Thomas whom reside in Fairfield. Shelly has been a lifelong resident and a friend to many in this town and beyond. She was a graduate of Roger Ludlowe High School and excelled in many aspects of her life. Shelly was the example of being and living the "free spirited" life. Her nature was fun, loving and compassionate to all, especially for animals. She loved spending time with her family and friends. In addition to her parents, she will be sadly missed by her loving daughter, Melinda DaSilva of Fairfield; two brothers, Brian Thomas of Shelton and Scott Thomas of Fairfield, and many relatives and friends. She was predeceased by her beloved son, Ricardo Joseph DaSilva, III. A Memorial Mass celebrating Shelly's life will held Friday, October 11, 2019 at 11:00 a.m. at St. Anthony of Padua Church, 149 South Pine Creek Road, Fairfield. Interment will be private. For information or to offer an online condolence, please visit www.SpearFuneralHome.com
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Lisa (Lacey) Thompson
October 12, 2019
My deepest condolences to Scott, Brian and the Thomas family. Although I didn't know her very well, she was a really great person and will be sadly missed by all who loved her. She was always smiling when I saw her and always very pleasant to be around.
Steven Boland
October 12, 2019
May you Rest In Peace Shelly. I'll be looking over my shoulder for you when I get there too! ❤
October 11, 2019
Brian and the Thomas Family:
I am deeply sorry to hear about the passing of Michele.
Wishing you peace to bring you comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts.
Love,
Linda (Short) Scott
mary & annie young
October 11, 2019
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
October 10, 2019
MY SHELLY BELL (BIG SIS, FRIEND), I'M SO BLESSED THAT WE SHARED OVER 30 YEARS (HAPPY, SAD, CRAZY)TOGETHER. YOU ARE SOARING WITH THE ANGELS, RIGHT WHERE YOU BELONG :) AND WITH OUR LOVED ONES.
MISS AND LOVE YOU MY FRIEND! PEACE! XOXOX
SHAUNA MURPHY
October 10, 2019
MY SHELLY BELL (BIG SIS, FRIEND), I'M SO BLESSED THAT WE SHARED OVER 30 YEARS (HAPPY, SAD, CRAZY)TOGETHER. YOU ARE SOARING WITH THE ANGELS, RIGHT WHERE YOU BELONG :) AND WITH OUR LOVED ONES.
MISS AND LOVE YOU MY FRIEND! PEACE! XOXOX
October 10, 2019
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
Elizabeth Petrino
October 10, 2019
My deepest symphony to the family. Michele was a good kid and liked by many. She was always there to talk to when there was a need! She'll be sadly missed
Sally Long
October 10, 2019
MY SINCEREST CONDOLENCES TO MICHELLES FAMILY. .
SENDING HEARTFELT SYMPATHY AND PRAYERS REST IN PEACE MICHELLE.
October 10, 2019
My first meeting with Shelly in second grade
in St Thomas School,Mrs.Bannons class.
I'll never forget those pig tales and smile.
What a fun loving person!R.I.P.
Much Love & Many Hugs!
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Loretta Cosgrove
October 9, 2019
I am so sorry to hear of Michelle's passing. My heart is broken for you all. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time.
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I am so broken hearted to hear about Shelly's passing. My deepest condolences to her family. We've been friends for a long time and I will miss her dearly. Shelly's heart had so much love to give. I wish those who loved Shelly comfort and peace. She always said Never Goodbye upon leaving. I will see you again my forever friend. God has you in his arms and I have you in my heart. RIP Shelly ❤
Rose (Kendall) Aiello
October 8, 2019
Although it's been many years from the old Meadow Court days, I remember Shelly with fond memories as a next door neighbor. May Shelly rest in peace and my condolences to her daughter and the entire Thomas family.
The Mastronardi Family
October 8, 2019
Mr. & Mrs. Thomas, Brian and Scott,
Our deepest condolences on the loss of Shelly. So many good memories of S. Pine Creek with the family. Our thoughts & prayers for all of you. May she rest in peace.
Pat Koprivec
October 7, 2019
I met Shelly when I started dating my husband. She was always a friendly face and so much fun to be around. We are both so sorry to hear of her passing. A light in the world has gone out. My you rest in peace dear friend. Until we meet again.
John Gelmetti
October 7, 2019
Dear Brian and Scott and Family.
We are so sorry to read of your Shelly's passing. On behalf of the Gelmetti family, we offer our condolences.
I fondly remember her presence when we were running around town or walking around South Pine Creek area.
As we all age, and look back at Fairfield when we were all growing up in the 1960's 70's and 1980's. Those were the great days of growing up in Fairfield Center.
Our thoughts are with you at this time, and focus on the positive things she instilled on each one of you.
John (Jack) Gelmetti
Trumbull, CT
kathy kovacs
October 7, 2019
I will miss you dearly my friend.
Pete Stansfield
October 7, 2019
My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. It's so sad to see another classmate pass, way too soon. Rest in piece, Michele.
Michelle Vizzo-Dalling
October 6, 2019
I was saddened to hear that Shelley passed away. She was always kind and sweet and ALWAYS had a beautiful smile. I would see her on some of the Bike Runs and she was always smiling & laughing...she was still that same kind & sweet girl from High School with a big heart of gold! R.I.P. Shelley ~Michelle Vizzo Dalling~ My thoughts and prayers go out to Michele's Parents, family, & friends
Maria Fortuna
October 6, 2019
You will always be my Michelle. Even in your saddened, dark days, you had a big smile of Love to give. With your arms spread wide open, saying the words...come here and give me a big hug. For the person you were 50 years ago until your last days, I love you just the same. You will always be in my heart, my good friend. I will always cherish the good times we had. Let God take you into his arms now my sweet Michelle. I love you always and forever
Jill Popowich
October 6, 2019
My sincerest condolences to the Thomas Family ...I've known Shelley since high school she was always so kind and later in life from around town always had a smile she will be missed dearly...fly high my friend...
Doris Gray
October 6, 2019
Our Deepest SYMPATHY to
Shelly's Family. May Shelly Rest in Peace
Doris & Chris Schede
Suzanne Darcy
October 6, 2019
Our deepest condolences to all of Shellys friends and family.
Sue & John Ivanko
Thomas Giacchi
October 6, 2019
So very sorry for your loss!!!! May the perpetual light shine upon her!
October 6, 2019
I am very very sorry Eddie
Judy Henry
October 6, 2019
To Shelley's Family,
I met Shelley when she was about 13 years old. I instantly liked her. She was funny, kind and polite. Through the years her sparkle identified her. Now she is in heaven where all good people go. God bless Shelley as she blessed us. I will miss her very much. With love, Judy Henry
Karen & Doug Philipp
October 6, 2019
Mr. & Mrs. Thomas, Brian, Scott and Melinda - We were sadden to hear of Shelly's passing. She always had a smile for everyone She will be missed at our family gatherings. Again our condolences.
Maggie Salamon
October 5, 2019
Sorry for your loss. I use to see Michelle all over town always happy n a smile on her face. Rest in peace
Vicky & Bob Klaff
October 5, 2019
To Michele's Family I am so sorry for your loss. Michele We had so many good times. I will always remember. Rest in peace my friend. You shall be missed.
Carol Pietrzak-Kish
October 5, 2019
My heart goes out to Michele's family. I will always remember her with a smile. RIP, old friend.
The Staff of Spear-Miller Funeral Home
October 5, 2019
Offering our deepest condolences during this time.
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