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Nicholas M. Rinaldi

1934 - 2020

Nicholas M. Rinaldi obituary, 1934-2020, Trumbull, CT

Nicholas Rinaldi Obituary

Nicholas M. Rinaldi
It is with great sadness that the family of Nicholas M. Rinaldi shares his recent passing at the age of 86 on May 27th, 2020 due to Covid related illness. Nick was born on April 2nd, 1934 in Brooklyn, NY and was the son of Frank and Rose (Lopena) Rinaldi.
Nick attended Brooklyn Tech High School and spent several years studying at a Jesuit seminary in upstate NY before eventually starting his graduate work at Fordham University where he met his beloved wife, Jackie, and also received his PhD. He started his teaching career at St. John's University in NY. In 1966, Nick moved his family to Fairfield, CT to begin a career that would span more than thirty years as an English Professor at Fairfield University where he established a Creative Writing Program and served intermittently as Dean and Department Chair. He was a well-respected and much-loved teacher who mentored many students throughout his career.
Nick also served as a visiting professor at Columbia University, City College, the University of Connecticut, and presented seminars at several creative writing conferences from Maine to Indiana. He was often invited to read from his literary works at museums, libraries, bookstores, and universities across the country and abroad. In 2007, he was honored as the Artist of the Year by the Fairfield Arts Council.
A prolific storyteller, Nick published four novels, three books of poems, and numerous short stories throughout his long career. His array of eclectic characters reaching for truth and solace appear in all aspects of his work. His first collection of poems, The Resurrection of the Snails, appeared in 1977. In 1985, Nick published both his final book of poems, We Have Lost Our Fathers, and his first novel, Bridge Fall Down. In subsequent years, three more novels came to life: The Jukebox Queen of Malta, Between Two Rivers, and most recently, The Remarkable Courtship of General Tom Thumb, all with glowing reviews and endorsements from many prominent writers, newspapers, magazines and other publications. Nick was a "writer's writer", in love with the written word and its power to engage the human heart and transform lives.
Nick was a devoted husband and father who imparted his passion for the arts and nature to his four children. He took special joy in traveling across country with his family in tow to visit National Parks and great Western monuments. Nick also had a passion for international travel and savored time spent in the Berkshires, hiking with his family amid the beauty of its mountains. Nick and his wife relocated to the Black Rock area of Bridgeport in 2002, where they enjoyed living on Ash Creek, taking in the gifts of land and sea, and participating in the Fairfield University and local arts communities. He took enormous pleasure in collecting rocks and minerals and also relished his daily walks along the water at Saint Mary's. Nick will be remembered for his gentle, humble and kind spirit, intellectual prowess, and clever sense of humor.
Nick is survived by his beloved wife, Jacqueline of Trumbull; daughter, Tina Banas (David) of Trumbull; sons, Paul of Oak Park IL, Stephen (Carolyn) of Durham CT, David (Fabiana) of Croton on Hudson NY; grandchildren, Laura, Andrew, Elle, Leonardo, Francis, Tim, Hasan, and Nicholas; sister, Isabelle Rinaldi of PA; nephews and nieces, Marc (Gita), Ruth, Mary Rose, James, Todd and Lou (Irina); as well as countless students whose lives he touched through his teaching. In addition to his parents, Nick was predeceased by his nephew, John.
A Memorial Service will be planned for the near future, and Nick's ashes will lie in rest at the Mountain Grove Cemetery in Bridgeport where he will join legendary figures P.T. Barnum and Tom Thumb, both of whom vividly lived in Nick's literary imagination for years.
Memorial contributions can be made in Nick's name to the Bridgeport Hospital Covid-19 Employee Hardship Fund: Bridgeport Hospital Foundation, 267 Grant Street, Bridgeport CT 06610 or online at: https://foundation.bridgeporthospital.org/donate

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Published by Connecticut Post on Jun. 3, 2020.

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Tom Dunne

May 28, 2022

Seeing Nick was one of the highlights of my day when I was delivering mail. We had some great conversations. We talked about just about everything! My condolences to his family .

Alexander Tolor

June 29, 2020

Dear Jackie and family
Just heard the sad news about Nick's passing. He was one of the kindest, sensitive, empathic and brilliant persons I have ever known. Jackie I am so sorry.

Tom Dunne

June 19, 2020

Dear Jackie and family, I am so sorry to hear of Nick's passing. When I was your letter carrier I looked forward to seeing him everyday. If it wasn't a delivery at your house I would see him around St. Mary's or on Hilltop or Old Battery Rd. Getting his daily walk in. I cherished the conversations we had ! Again I am so sorry for your loss, May God comfort you and embrace you with His Love. Sincerely Tom Dunne

Leo T Budnick

June 17, 2020

Read with sadness Prof. Rinaldi's Obituary in the NYTS today. I was a student in his Modern American Novel class back in 1970 at Fairfield. It was the spring of student strikes and boycotts. He handled it all very well. An enjoyable and memorable teacher. Will be reading (and re-reading) his novels. Rest in Peace.

Nick Montemarano

June 11, 2020

I'm so sorry for your loss, Jackie. Nick was my first creative writing professor at Fairfield (class of 1992). I loved his sense of humor, his passion for good writing, and his books. He was my first mentor. I wouldn't have become a writer and creative writing professor without him.

I'll remember him fondly.

Edward and Anke Dew

June 11, 2020

Jackie,
You and Nick warmly welcomed us to Fairfield when we arrived in 1967 and remained good friends through our rich cultural ties to the university. We traveled vicariously through the magic adventures of Nick's four novels. He was a gifted writer and an affectionate friend. Our sincere condolences.
Ed and Anke Dew

Mary Kay Boitano-Nelson

June 4, 2020

Tina and Jacqueline,
Please accept my sincere condolences on the passing of your dad and husband. My father was also a professor at Fairfield University and I went there for two years.

Tina, I enjoyed your stories about your dad. I believe I met him once. The write up on this page is wonderful. What a full life he had.
Best,
Mary Kay
P.S. We are now living in the Houston Texas area.

Leo and Adrienne Fay

June 4, 2020

Our profound sympathy to Jackie, Tina, Paul, Stephen, David and families. Remembering your most talented, witty and friendly father. Part of our Fairfield University faculty family and our Fairfield town family with Lawrence and James. With love and memories of a life so well lived. Leo and Adrienne Fay

Jim Olayos

June 4, 2020

Professor Rinaldi was my English professor at Fairfield U in 1978 and he required the reading of 10 classic novels. Wasnt a big reader and reluctant to take them on but the class became one of the best classes I ever had. RIP

Tom McDade

June 4, 2020

Condolences to Jackie and the Rinaldi family.
Nick Rinaldi knew the road and traveled it well.
From Prologue to Nick's novel, The Remarkable Courtship of General Tom Thumb
Not I, nor any one else can travel that road for you.
You must travel it for yourself....
Perhaps you have been on it since you were born, and
Did not know....
--Walt Whitman, Leaves of Grass

Sally O'Driscoll

June 4, 2020

Jackie, I worked with Nick at Fairfield U for so many years and always remember how kind he was was when I first arrived. I so admired his writing. You have all my sympathy. Sally O'Driscoll

Pattie Topar - Topar Oil

June 3, 2020

Jackie- so sorry to hear of the loss of your husband. Thinking of you at this difficult time.

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