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Raymond Rasmussen Obituary

Raymond F. Rasmussen
Raymond F. Rasmussen, age 86, a loving husband and father passed away peacefully on February 26, 2022. He was born in Fairfield, CT and lived there until moving to The Commons of Newtown Assisted Living in 2019.
He is survived by his wife of 65 years, Joan L. Bennett Rasmussen. Ray, a retired Police Lieutenant of the Fairfield Police department served 30 years in the Patrol, Detective, and Support Services divisions. After his retirement from the police department, he worked for Robert D. Scinto in Shelton as a building manager, and later as a facilities manager & mail room supervisor for Rhone Poulenc Inc. also in Shelton.
Ray was a graduate of the University of New Haven and the FBI Academy for police officers in Quantico, VA. He is a past president of the Fairfield Lions Club, was a leader of the Emmaus youth group at Assumption church in Fairfield, and a Lector at Holy Cross church in Fairfield. He served 15 years on the Parking Authority of Fairfield, five years as chairman. He was also a member of the American Diabetes planning committee. Ray was a founding member of the ROMEO's (Retired Old Men Eating Out) that met every weekday morning to have coffee, a muffin and solve the problems of the world. He loved playing golf, especially on the courses in Fairfield, and could frequently be seen at Nutmeg Lanes bowling with his friends. He was also known by his friends for his signature Flamingo picnics.
Ray was a highly respected member of the community he loved.
Survivors include son, Mark R Rasmussen, and his wife Laura, of Danbury, CT, and children, Sarah Rasmussen of Southbury, Ryan and Erin Rasmussen and their children Everly and Jack of Northbridge, MA, and Jamie Rasmussen of Astoria, NY, son, Bruce R Rasmussen and his wife Leslie, of Valley Village, CA, and children Hunter Rasmussen and Jake Rasmussen, of Valley Village, CA.
Two nephews, Dr. Robert Bennett, and his wife Dr. Susan Andracchi, of Wilmington, NC and children Catherine and John, and Michael Bennett, and his wife Albina, of Trumbull, CT and children Lauren and Sophia.
He is predeceased by a brother Robert H Rasmussen, brother-in-law Robert F Bennett, and sister-in-law Lynne Wargo Bennett.
Friends may call between 4-7 p.m. on Monday, March 21, 2022 at the Spear- Miller Funeral home in Fairfield. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Tuesday, March 22, 2022 at 10:00 a.m. in the church hall at Our Lady of the Assumption Church in Fairfield. Interment will follow in Lawncroft Cemetery.
Donations in Ray's memory may be made to the "Swim Across the Sound" and "The Hole in the Wall Gang". For information please visit www.SpearFuneralHome.com

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Published by Connecticut Post on Feb. 28, 2022.

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Patrice Klein

March 21, 2022

Dear Joan and family, extending you sincere sympathy for your loss. May Gid be with you one and all.
Patrice Klein and family

Terri Dillon

March 11, 2022

Joan, Bruce and Mark, and the entire Rasmussen family, I pray all of you are able to manage the sadness of the loss of "Ray" with fond memories - I know I have many and will think of you on his day of rest. Please know I will be with you in thought and prayer. Rest In Peace Raymond - your work is done, and boy did you do a LOT! He was loved!

Jay Adams

March 8, 2022

Joan(ie), my heartfelt sympathy and love go out to you and your family at this time. Fairfield has lost another true patriot; shoes that will never be able to be filled again. Ray set the bar extremely high with all that he accomplished in his life and I am so very proud to have known him and shared in a small part of his life. Friend, neighbor, confidant, ally, teacher and mentor are just the tip of my iceberg of memories that I will forever cherish. My fellow watch `fiend´, flamingo chaser and snowblower buddy will always be with me, held close in my heart, mind and soul. May your memories sustain you and bring you comfort in knowing that Ray `Paid It Forward´ with everyones life he touched-especially mine.

Lois Holly

March 8, 2022

Dear Joan and family,
It is with sadness and sorrow to hear of the passing of Ray. You have wonderful memories to cherish, Ray was a special man.
To all, our sincere condolences.
Lois Holly and family

Carlos and Catherine Trevino

March 7, 2022

We are praying for comfort for you and your family.
Russ is surely in God´s arms and in good company. May God´s healing love be with you all. Love, Cousin Cathy

Mickie Sutay-Comers

March 4, 2022

Dear Joan and family, It is with great sadness that I learned of Ray´s passing. He always had a very easy going manner. He was truly a very dedicated husband and a great guy. May He Rest In Peace

Brad Durrell, Southport, NC

March 3, 2022

Dear Joan and Family:
I'm so sorry for your loss. Ray was a good man who led a remarkable life. He did so much for the Town of Fairfield, as well as the many people he befriended and met through the years. He will be missed and was truly one of "Fairfield's Finest."

Barbara Milet

March 2, 2022

Joan & family. So sorry for your loss.

Laurie Lombardi

March 1, 2022

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you during this difficult time.

Kathy and Dennis Bonetti

March 1, 2022

Dear Mark, Laura and Family
Our deepest sympathy to you and all your family in the passing of Ray. He was a remarkable man. You have so many memories to hold in your hearts. We are thinking of you during this difficult time. Much love,
Dennis and Kathy Bonetti

Dot & Bob LeDuc, Fort Myers, FL

March 1, 2022

Dear Joan and family. We are saddened to read about Ray's passing. Thinking about all of you during this difficult time.

Jeff Watcke

February 28, 2022

Joan, Mark, Bruce and families, you're in my thoughts and prayers to ease the pain upon hearing of Ray's passing. May he rest in peace.

Jim Gallagher

February 28, 2022

It goes without saying that Ray was one of my heroes. Not only a great cop, but an outstanding family man. It was my honor to be his friend
My love to Joan & family

Robert and Rose Meena

February 28, 2022

Joan, Mark, Bruce, and respective families, We are deeply saddened to learn of Ray's demise. He was truly a great person and will be sorely missed by all.

the Urgo's

February 28, 2022

Condolences from the Urgo family

The Staff of Spear-Miller Funeral Home

February 28, 2022

Offering our deepest condolences during this time.

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