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for Benjamin Stowell
Adam C., Albany
February 14, 2024
Tim, Stacey, James, and family;
I can't believe its been over 14 years since Ben has gone to be with GOD. I'm sorry we haven't kept in touch, but I still think about Ben being such a trooper during his battle with cancer when I see these children fighting for their lives now. I just wanted to let you know that I joined St. Jude's in honor of Ben. Feel free to reach out if you would like.
Nancy and Jim VanBuren
October 8, 2019
We will remember Ben on the 12th of October. We think of him often and I wear his little white pin on my blazer, (the Green Drakko Man). He will always be remembered by everyone who met him. We are friends of the family- Faye Gerard ,his grandmother and her daughters.
James Condon
December 15, 2009
I'm the Son of Caroline Condon. She worked with Mr. Stowell at IGC. I don't know your family well but I understand the loss. I just wished to give my sympathy for your loss around the holiday season and hope you will always recognize the wonderful time you have spent with Ben. My prayers are with you also.
November 18, 2009
Tim,Stacy,and James. I had Ben's prayer card on my kitchen table when my eldest grandson came in. He saw it and said, did you know Ben. I explained how I came to meet Ben through Ms Kathy and saw him at the hospital. He said his girlfriend also knew Ben. Seem her father is a member of the Latham fire dept where Ben was honored as a member. This great big world seems to shrink so quickly when we come together for something. Our little hero lives on through memories and friends. You're in my thoughts
Betty D
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Julie Flodquist
November 10, 2009
To the Stowell Family,
I just received the news on Monday about Ben. I want you to know how very sorry I am for your loss. I want to thank you for letting me be a part of Ben's and yours family. Even though I have never met Ben or talked to him, I feel like I knew him. I always enjoyed writing him letters and telling him about my family and the things we were doing. I loved sending him pictures of everyone, so he knew who I was talking about. Ben was a very brave and courageous little boy, and I am happy that I could bring a little sunshine to him. My thoughts and prayers are with you and I will never forget Ben.
October 28, 2009
To the Stowell Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Camp Adventure was a better place this past summer due to both the boys presence there. Ben never stopped smiling the entire week. Thank you for sharing him with us. You will all be in our thoughts and prayers.
Rob Plechner
Bob Christiansen
October 25, 2009
Unfortunately I never met Ben personally but taught his dad and coached him in soccer at WHS. I was a bit hesitant to attend Ben's funeral, thinking it would be such a sad and depressing event. How surprised I was to find it so joyous and upbeat, no doubt the way a Christian service should be. I was so impressed by the love and caring nature of all involved. What a tribute to a young man who apparently lived a life fuller than what most adults experience. I wish the family well as they live life through the wonderful memories of Ben and what he taught us all. It was stated by someone who spoke that it "took a child to raise a village." What a tribute.
Amy D
October 24, 2009
To James and Ben's mom and dad and the rest of the family. My name is Amy. I had the pleasure to get to know your boys and hang with them during the week at Camp Adventure this past summer. I did not know how sick Ben was and I am so very saddened to hear of his passing. Ben and I bonded a bit at camp.. he was a smart, funny, and kind of old beyond his years kid. I remember at field day... getting him a piece of pizza - even though he told me was kind of particular about his pizza.. and I got him a soda... and sat on an empty golf cart and ate and chatted. He actually said the pizza was pretty good, well, good enough for him to eat - - and I think he ate about a quarter of it before he was through. I want to say he also had a pocketful of candy... At any rate, we talked about how James was his twin, which I didn't know.. and he laughed about how he was taller; he laughed because he thought that was so cool! We also talked about where he lived and what it was like, and sports. At any rate.. I just want you to know that I will think of Ben often.. and miss him. I hope my memories can help with your grief.. I am the photographer at camp. I have found several photos of Ben I would like to share with you if you provide me with an email address. Again, I am truly, truly sorry for your loss. Love to James... we hope to see him back at camp next year... Love and deepest sympathy,
Amy
Cheri & Bob Woodfield
October 23, 2009
Tim, Stacy and James,
Please accept our deepest sympathies.
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Love,
Ray Fox
October 23, 2009
Tim, Stacy & James
My deepest sympathy. I know Ben had a keep things positive attitude. In some way I know you three will continue that in your lives. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Tricia Carlson
October 22, 2009
Tim, Stacey & James,
Over a week has passed and I am still so sad for all of you. It just doesn't seem fair and I know that you are all hurting so much. Ben was not only a unique child, but a unique person. His smile was a gift that was shared by so many and will never, ever be forgotten. When I log onto the green drakkoman website, I still expect to see updates about how Ben is doing. I look at his precious eyes in the photo and wonder what he was thinking at that very moment. He has left us all with so much to think about and so much to remember. Please always know that I am here to help in any way I can. Sending love and hugs your way...you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love, Tricia Carlson
October 21, 2009
Benny,
I met you at a class party once. You told me all about the Green Drakkoman. You were all smiles and I very much enjoyed your presence for the time being. I have my cousin tell me stories about you all the time.
Rest in peace ben, you'll be greatly missed.
A sister
Sue Forte
October 18, 2009
I had the pleasure of meeting Ben at Noogieland and he was such an inspiration to all who knew him. I will miss that beautiful smile of his. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
A mom
October 16, 2009
Tom, Stacey and James,
Ben graced us all with his presence on this earth and will continue to watch over us all from the heavens above. As an angel on earth, he guided us to always see the GOOD of the world, and I know that he will continue to spread that message as he watches over us all forever.....
Dan Newman
October 16, 2009
Tim and Stacey,
I am so sorry. I can not imagine what you have gone and are going through. My thoughts are with you
Kathi Cannone, RN CCM @ CDPHP
October 16, 2009
Tim & Stacey,
You two have been so amazingly strong throughout Ben's illness. It has been a pleasure working with you both on Ben's behalf. You are an inspiration to all parents for all you did for Ben & James. I'll never forget all you went through for both boys at LegoLand in California.
May you find peace and comfort through the thoughts and prayers of friend and family as you as you get through this difficult time.
Mary Ellen Shea
October 16, 2009
I knew of Ben through the LLS and Team in Training. Please accept my heartfelt sympathy for your loss.
"Words, however kind,
can't mend your heartache:
but those who care and
share your loss wish you
comfort and peace of mind.
May you find strength
in the love of family
and in the warm embrace
of friends."
Author Unknown.
Amya Crounse
October 15, 2009
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Stowell and James,
I am very sorry of your loss of Ben. But now Ben is in a better place where nothing can hurt him and he does not have to struggle threw the pain of cancer. I will always remember Ben my best friend. Ben was always there for people when they needed him. And James you are one lucky kid to have had a brother like that. I'm looking forward to seeing you at school James and I hope you feel better. Your friend Amya
a mom
October 15, 2009
Bens story touched my heart as it did everyones. We can all learn something from him. My thoughts and prayers to you at this time and always.
October 15, 2009
Tim, Stacey, I extended this guest book for a full year so we all would have a special place to go to wish Ben of best... A special Halloween, a full filling Thanksgiving, a very special Christmas with all the angels. All the Hoildays we can't spend with him but to hold him in our hearts and share him with others. He will find his way to make himself felt to us all. Your angel has made the journey home. How peaceful he must be.
October 15, 2009
To The Stowell Family,
My nephew attends blue creek and I knew about Ben. I am truly saddened by his passing. I thought this poem might help
I'll lend you for a little while
A child of mine, God said
for you to love, while they live.
And mourn for when there dead.
It may be six or seven years
or forty two or three
but will you, till I call them back,
take care of them for me?
They'll bring there charms to gladden you
and, should there stay be brief....
You'll have there lovely memories
as a solace for your grief.
I cannot promise they will stay,
since all from earth return,
but there are lessons taught below,
I want this child to learn.
I've looked the whole world over
in my search for teachers true,
and from the things that crowd life's lane,
I have chosen you!
Now will you give them all our love?
Nor think the labor vain?
Nor hate me when I come to take
This LENT CHILD back again?
I fancied that I heard them say
Dear Lord, Thy will be done.
For all the joy thy child shall bring
the risk of grief we'll run.
We will shelter them with tenderness,
we'll love them while we may.
And for the happiness we have known
forever grateful stay.
But should thy Angel call for them
much sooner then we've planned,
we'll brave the bitter grief that comes
and try to understand....
Written By: Fdgar L. Guest
Sabrina and Paul and James Mosseau
October 15, 2009
Our sincere and heartfelt sorrow at the loss of Ben. What an extraordinary gift to have him touch so many lives.
Ruth & Nick Positano
October 15, 2009
To The Stowell Family
As neighbors of Aunt Carol's, we had the pleasure of knowing both Ben and James. Ben was truly a "Super Person" and was loved by all. Ben and your family hav e been in our thoughts and prayers through all your difficult times and especially now. He will be missed, but we all can be at peace knowing there is a "Special Angel" watching us.
Our Deepest Condolences
A mom
October 15, 2009
While myself as well as thousands of others wake up every morning and complain about the most absurd things, like it is cold, or the traffic is unbeleivable, all these little things that now make me feel so small and ashamed. What a beautiful story of a wonderful little boy who has touched an entire district. I did not know your family but I could not help but be truly touched by reading the article on your son. He is a prime example of what is truly remarkable. Though he is not here anymore his legacy will live on. May god bless you and keep you close during this very difficult time.
just a mom
October 15, 2009
I cried in front of my children reading Bens obituary. My family is part of the North Colonie community that embraced and loved your little boy. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family.
Mary Ann Berghela
October 15, 2009
Dear Stacey, Tim and James,
Please accept our condolences on the passing of your cherished son and brother. Ben was certainly an inspiration for everyone. Ben made much an impact on many folks during his short life here on earth. Your precious angel will be watching over and protecting you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Mary Ann, Frank, Kaitlyn and Adam Berghela (A former Blue Creek School family)
Just a Mom who believes
October 15, 2009
He's the first light you see when you wake in the morning. He's the soft whisper you hear when noone else is in the room. He's the flicker of the candle that lights the dark. He's the warmth of the blanket that covers you. He's the cool, gentle breeze across your face on a warm, sunny day. He's the love that fills your hearts each time you think of him and he is the angel that will forever watch over you. Ben will always be with you.
May God give you strength as you lay his body to rest and grant you peace in knowing that he while he waits for you in the Kingdom of God, he is no longer plagued with illness. He is free of disease and of pain and of worry. And, he loves you.
A Mom
October 15, 2009
To Ben's family,I did not know you or Ben personally but saw the story about him and his lemonade stand on the news.My heart goes out to you, my child also had cancer.May you find the peace and strength. He was a brave and inspiring little boy.
October 15, 2009
Tim, Stacey, and James,
Words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. Our son, Kyle was in preschool with Ben & James. I remember them coming in so full of energy in the mornings. Kyle would always laugh at how silly the two of them were together. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely Scott & Jennifer Rentz
Betty D
October 15, 2009
I did have the honor of meeting Ben and his courageous family. What an exceptional little boy. He was the tower of strength and courage for me last summer during my "journey". He was an inspiration of fighting the fight. Thanks for sharing all the photos and memories you've made that we can draw on now for comfort. God Bless you and ALL the angels that have helped you along your road.
Deborah Adalian
October 15, 2009
May you and your entire family be so very proud of this remarkable boy that was here on earth for such a short time. He is now complete and playing and singing with God and his angels.
I never had a the pleasure to meet your son or your family, but am convinced that we were all blessed to have had him here with us.
Sincere Sympathy from a Mom.
Francine Barrett
October 15, 2009
I don't know you personally,but my prayers are with you at this time. I'm sure God has a special reason for needing a very special young man to help him out in Heaven.
October 15, 2009
Dear Stowell Family,
I did not know Ben but know he was a very special boy. I will keep your family in my prayes. I pray that the wonderful memories you made as a family will help to ease your sorrow and bring you peace. Know that you have your own guardian angel who is now safely home in God's loving arms.
A Mom, Albany, New York
justin christiansen
October 15, 2009
ben i will miss you,
Allan and Tammy Ditton
October 15, 2009
Tim, Stacy and James,
Words cannot express how sorry we are concerning the passing of Ben. Your entire family has been an inspiration to our family and a multitude of others. You have been in our prayers and will continue to be. I can just see the day coming when we will all be together again. Praise God... Keep looking up. We love you all.
Marisa Kucskar
October 15, 2009
Ben,
You were an amazing boy. You brought a smile to my face every time I saw you at Noogieland. Your friend Marisa.
Mother
October 15, 2009
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009
Marisa Kucskar
October 15, 2009
Ben,
You were an amazing boy. You brought a smile to my face every time I saw you at Noogieland. Your friend Marisa.
beverly perone
October 15, 2009
we are so sorry for ur loss we read the news paper and it hit our hearts we have 3 children and cant imagine going through what u did,stay strong ,with lots of love the perone family
Lisa
October 15, 2009
Rest now angel....
John Riccitelli - President - Latham Fire Department
October 15, 2009
Our condolences from your family at the Latham Fire Department. It is a little different when we lose one of our own and Ben was certainly a very special member of our department. Our deepest sympathy to the Stowell family.
October 14, 2009
We do not know Ben or your family. We wanted to express not only our sorrow but also how moved we are reading about your beautiful, remarkable boy, and your family. He obviously deeply touched all who were fortunate enough to know him. May you find comfort in your grief and as time goes on, joy in your memories of the beautiful soul that was entrusted to you in his too short time on earth. God Bless you all. Spread your Wings, Ben!
Darlene
October 14, 2009
Ben was really a Super Hero
You could not live in North Colonie School District and not know who Ben was. All your fundraising events were great, I loved the article in the District calendar. He will not be forgotten and will now watch over all of you. My heart goes out to your family for your loss.
October 14, 2009
Dear Tim & family,
I heard today of Ben's passing, and want to express my deepest condolences to you and your family. Although Ben's life on earth was too short, you have alot to be proud of, and I hope these memories help during this most difficult time.
He is now an angel in God's hands ...
God bless all of you!
Carole Livingston
Bonnie and Al Haskell
October 14, 2009
Tim, Stacey and James
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. I am so glad the candyman could always put a smile on Ben's face. We will always remember the great trips to the Candy Warehouse. He was so special to us both. He will always be our special little angel.
God Bless you and your family
Lori Van Buren
October 14, 2009
Please accept my deepest sympathies. I'm glad to have met Ben when I took his photo of him and his friend Aiva before the Lemonade stand.
Sandercox Family
October 14, 2009
We are so sorry for your loss. The article in the paper truly touched our hearts. What a wonderful little boy he was. God bless you all.
October 14, 2009
God bless your family. Ben will be missed by a lot of people but he will never be forgotten. RIP Ben. I am lucky to know his Auny Carol who is an amazing person and I know how much she loved Ben. God bless all of you.
October 14, 2009
Tim, Stacey, and James,
We are so very sorry for your loss. Our daughter, Julianna, was in pre-k with Ben and James in Miss Kathy's class. We will always remember him smiling, laughing, running around and being silly. He was such a beautiful boy, so full of life. We are so lucky to have known him. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Chris and Samantha McCabe
nancy and jim van buren
October 14, 2009
Dear Stacey, Tim and James. We are so saddened by your loss of Ben. We have been praying for him and your family for a long time. We know you did all you could to make his final year full of activites and challenges.The internet kept us up to date with his medical news. You should know your family touched so many people . Please tell Faye we will see her at the wake and funeral.
Sincerely Nancy and Jim VanBuren
Solange, Renee and Roger Lampila
October 14, 2009
Dear Ben,
You were the first person I met at on my first day of school at Blue Creek last year. Then I met you again that same night at Gillda's Club. You greeted me with open arms, heart and smile and said "I know you; you were at my school today!" Thank you for always being kind and gentle to me, for helping me to become a better therapy dog and for "showing me the ropes". I will continue to try to be your earthly ambassador and will always remember that you taught me to have courage when I was afraid or unsure of myself.
Solange, Therapy Dogs International
and her family
Erin Demont
October 14, 2009
Tim, Stacey and James,
I had the pleasure of getting to know Ben during my time as a volunteer at Gilda's Club. He was always a "shining star" on Tuesday nights in Noogieland. I remember one recent night when he didn't feel well, but he still managed to put on a happy face, and "focused on the positive" as he liked to say. I feel as though I'm a better person for having known your Ben. He was an inspiration to all, and a super human being. We have lost a beautiful boy, who will be missed by all those who's lives he touched. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Amy G.
October 14, 2009
I never had the pleasure of meeting Ben, but learned about him through TNT. I am deeply saddened by your loss. He was a remarkable young boy that was wise beyond his years. I will continue to train in memory of Ben...and when ever I think things are tough I will remember Ben and his tremendous courage. God bless you all.
Sabrina
October 14, 2009
I lost only child almost five years ago, after a lifetime of illness. She was eleven years old. Losing your child is truly the worse thing that can happen to a human being. May God's grace be with you as you continue your journey without your beautiful Ben. What a lovely and inspirational spirit.
Kellie Fisher
October 14, 2009
I met Ben at the Double H Ranch, where my son, Cameron taught him snowboarding. Ben touched both Cameron's and my heart from the first day we met him. He was determined to be a great snowboarder and have a ton of fun. We are so sorry for your loss and please know that our thoughts and prayers have been with Ben since we met him and continue to be with his family. He was a wonderful boy!
Simone
October 14, 2009
I was not blessed to know and meet your beloved Ben, but I pray that you will be comforted by beautiful memories and the knowledge that your Ben is in the arms of the angels and the Lord.
Godspeed, Ben...
Cassie Washburn
October 14, 2009
I am so so so sorry about Ben. I am in 3CN at Blue creek. Just Remember all the good times with Ben!
October 14, 2009
May the Green Drakko-man continue to comfort children! Thank you for sharing your story.
A Mom & Grandmother
October 14, 2009
To Ben's Family,
We read Ben's story last week and Ben touched our hearts so much, we are so sorry for your loss of Ben, here on earth, but you will see him in Heaven, for always. Your son Ben had more courage than some adults. Please know we are praying for God to give you strength to endure your horrific loss. You sound like you have so many beautiful memories of Ben and this will help you to keep Ben's memories close to your heart and Ben will live forever, right by your side. We are truly sorry.
October 14, 2009
I knew Ben through our cancer support group. I am so very sorry for your loss.
Kelly Arens
Joni
October 14, 2009
Tim, Stacey and James
I was fortunate enough to have met Ben, and all of you, at Savannah's on my birthday for "Ben"daoke. It was such a beautiful and fun evening. The amount of love that filled that room was overwhelming. Ben obviously had such a good time. You definitely gave him a full and exciting childhood. I know your faith will carry you through this difficult time, but knowing that Ben has been released from all his suffering will also be consoling. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you and Ben will never be forgotten. He is a super hero!
October 14, 2009
In loving memory of Ben-
My daughter Kayla attended school with Ben at Blue Creek until we recently transferred to Southgate. We participated in all the fundraising events for Ben. I think our entire North Colonie School District is reeling from his passing. He was such a strong little boy and we should all learn to live life like he did. He packed more into 9 years than most people do in a lifetime. Even though it is very difficult to understand why he was taken from this earth, but God apparently needed a new angel up above. He will have a wonderful angel. God Bless Ben's family at this very difficult time.
The Sprague Family
Diane and Jay McCauley
October 14, 2009
As parents of four sons, one of whom was Ben's camp counselor at HH, we offer our most sincere synmathy and condolences. We have prayed for Ben for a long time and felt we knew him. He touched the life of our son, and ours. God bless you and keep you close to Him. He is close to the broken hearted...
Diane and Jay McCauley
L Smith
October 14, 2009
I am so sorry for your loss. What an inspiring and truly wonderful boy. May God bless you during this difficult time.
maureen geracitano
October 14, 2009
How do you put into words what a wonderful person you have raised. I will always treasure one very short talk I had with Ben. It was about how he was traing his dog Mocha to be a therapy dog. He was so patient talking to an older person. He didn't look or act bored. He had beautiful manners and I swear an angelic glow. The whole time he was talking, all I could think about was how articulate, sweet, and knowledgable he was. All he has been through...and I'm here to tell you he was a success with his therapy dog! I hope James will pick up the mantle!...
a mom
October 14, 2009
god will take good care of your son ben.
Annjenette Redden,
October 14, 2009
We are so sorry for your loss, We took care of your son in the recovery room at Samaritan Hospital. He was a very delightful little boy. We enjoyed his big smiles. He will not be forgotten by the PACU nurses.
A mom of 3
October 14, 2009
So sorry for your loss. Do not know you at all but heard the story and am touched by how brave your son was. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
A mom and grandmother
October 14, 2009
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
October 14, 2009
I did not know Ben personally, but our church - The Altamont Reformed Church -had Ben in our prayer corner for a very, very long time, and he was the recipient of lots and lots of prayer. It was an honor to pray for your little boy, and I will continue to pray for your family. Linda Warnken
October 14, 2009
Dear Tim, Stacey, James, Aunt Janine and the entire Stowell Family:
We are so sad and sorry to hear about Ben's passing, yet are so glad we had the honor and privilge of meeting such a remarkable boy. A part of him will live on in all the lives he has touched, including ours.
Dana & Melissa Schaefer, Niskayuna, NY
Kim & Tony Nantista
October 14, 2009
My mom is a friend of Benjamin's grandmother, Fay. I am very sorry for the loss of such a courageous young boy. I was very inspired by all he did and did not let his illness get in the way of enjoying his life to the fullest. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
a mom
October 14, 2009
A very beautiful story and a beautiful boy. He blessed this earth and now he is an angel in heaven. My thoughts are with you at this very difficult time.
October 14, 2009
I know there are no words to to fill your void in this trying time , Please allow the lack of them to be enough. He will not be forgotten.
An eight year olds mom..
Wayne Pensiero
October 14, 2009
Tim
Words can't explain the sadness I feel for your loss. Your son represents everything decent and good in the world and I am blessed to have known about him. Deepest condolences. God bless you and your family.
Steve Mannato & Family
October 14, 2009
To the Stowell Family,
Our deepest sympathy go out to you and your family. As a parent of two sons, 7 and 9, I can not imagine what you are going through. May God continue to give you strength and comfort you.
Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
Tracy Martuscello
October 14, 2009
Words cannot express the heartbreak I feel for you! I am truly sorry for your loss. I'm sure Ben is in heaven looking down with the smile on his face that he always had. God has blessed your family and will now take care of Ben. When you look into the sky -- there will be Ben!
God Bless you and Peace be with you!
A mom
October 14, 2009
God bless your beautiful angel. He sounds like quite a little guy and he must have quite extraordinary family and friends...God bless you always.
October 14, 2009
I had the incredible opportunity to teach this amazing little boy cello. My goal was for him to be able to finally play the instrument he loved. We accomplished that goal. On his last lesson he had a blast playing with the other boys in his group. He had a huge smile on his face which is something I will carry with me for the rest of my life.
Ben you are an inspiration to me and to so many others. Your fellow Orchestra members told me yesterday, that you were an angel looking down on them while they played. We will have a seat for you at our concert because you are still a very important part of our group.
My thoughts and prayers are with your entire family during this difficult time. He was an incredible young boy
Mrs. Howard
October 14, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. I worked at Blue creek as a substitute and got to know Ben while outside on the playground and we would tease each other for we both had opposing baseball teams.He always made me laugh and he always had a smile.
Sarah someone that feels your pain and grief.
October 14, 2009
To The StowellFamily:
Im sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Please no that no bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Again my deepest condolences and god bless you all.
nikisha Burton
October 14, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
A mom of four
October 14, 2009
Your family was blessed to have such a warm, kind, and brave young man. A loss of a child is worse then any other death. Ben will be watching over you, as that was the type of young man he seemed to be. He definetly made a difference many lives.
Bless your family in this time of sorrow.
October 14, 2009
Dear Stowell family,
I think Ben was one of the bravest, smartest children I know. I'm so proud to have been lucky enough to have known him and the whole family, and your therapy dog! May God be with you.Debby, Albany Med
Karin Elder
October 14, 2009
My deepest sympathy is with the Stowell family.James is a wonderful brother and friend to his twin Ben. May God bless all of you.
Colleen Commisso
October 14, 2009
I never met Ben, however my son was on a 7/8 year old team in NCYB this past spring. That is where I learned of Ben's story and the Green Drakkoman. I was so saddened yesterday when I heard of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Stacey, Tim and James, and the rest of your family.
Ben & Samantha Smith
October 14, 2009
My wife & I are in awe of the strength that you possess. You have become even stronger through loving and caring for Ben. We were so proud of the many things that Ben was able to accomplish throughout his lifetime. Finally, though deeply saddened by your loss, we know that you too will bounce back like the rubber ball Ben was, and find the courage and strength to continue on where he left off.
My nephew Kyle speaks very highly of his friend Ben, and I feel as though their relationship is one that Kyle will cherish for all time. I too lost a classmate at an early age to Leukemia, and all I want to do his hold my nephew and listen to stories about Ben, admittedly to help ease both of our pain. My thoughts and prayers to your family from mine. Ben and Samantha Smith, Princetown, NY.
Kathy Leavens
October 14, 2009
My thoughts and prayers continue to be with you. I have forever been inspired by Ben's wonderful attitude and meaningful life. I will always remember when he intorduced himself to me in second grade. He mentioned that he knew that I was working with a classmate and said with a huge smile, " I'm Ben from 2H ( Ms. H's class), who are you?". He was a sweet, outgoing child who will always be remembered by the Blue Creek community.
Kathy Leavens- School Psychologist- Blue Creek School
Mom
October 14, 2009
I did not know Ben or his family, but having a 9 yr old son myself, I can't begin to imagine...... How lucky you were to have such a bright, beautiful boy. Your family are in my prayers. God bless.
Mom from Selkirk
October 14, 2009
To the Family of Ben...
Please remember, when you feel the smallest breeze pass by you and you then realize that there's no breeze at all, it's Ben...gently wrapping his arms around you all keeping you all safe. Ben is your family's Guardian Angel who will watch over you all until you meet again in our Beautiful Heavens above!!
Rest in Peace Ben Stowell and Celebrate with all the Angels above.
You are all in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless You!!
A Mother
October 14, 2009
Words can not express how Ben's story has touched my life. To be so young and to have such an impact. No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Nikisha Burton
October 14, 2009
Tim,Stacey,& James....I am truely sadden by the news. My thoughts,prayers and heart goes out to your family. Ben will always be a superhero to Kyleah and myself!!! GOD BLESS and you know we LOVE YOU.
Mark, Valleen, Maya and Emory Blanchet
October 14, 2009
To the Stowell family...
We will all surely miss Ben's smiling face at Calvary and Blue Creek. His facial expressions were like a window to his soul allowing all to see, that despite the battle he was fighting, what a happy and content little boy he was. Happy for every day that God had given him and content in the love your family bestowed upon him. You should all be so proud of all that you did for him and we should all be thankful for all that he gave to us in our lives. We are all better people for having known him during his all too short time here on Earth and we're certain he has already begun warming the hearts of all those in heaven.
Jackie
October 14, 2009
My heart goes out to you and your family. My sister Jasmine Johhnson (age 20)lost her battle to cancer on January 1,2007. My heart aches everytime I think of her,but I now have another guardian Angel.Your son too will serve as your guardian Angel. The days ahead will be difficult, but please take comfort in knowing your son is no longer in pain and that God needed his talents in heaven. God Bless.
Kim, Justin, Adam & Kyle Shanno
October 14, 2009
My thoughts and prayers go out to your family. We never got to meet Ben but through the website we have followed Ben's story. Ben was a tropper. My son says Ben is now a angel.
Ellen McCormack
October 14, 2009
As a new addition to the Blue Creek Staff, it was not long at all before I heard tales of Ben and his courage. My faith in God was increased just by observing Ben and his amazing family. What a blessing Ben was to many in his all too short life. May you all be comforted by knowing that you blessed Ben while he was here. May God watch over and comfort you as you heal.
The prayers of many are lifting you up.
Kim,Justin, Adam & Kyle Shanno
October 14, 2009
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family at this difficult time. We never got the chance to meet Ben but from all the things we have heard your son Ben was a trooper. I follwed your website throught Ben's time. I fell like my family meet a angel.
Rich and Pat Blanchard
October 14, 2009
Ben and the family have been an inspiration to everyone facing challenges and celebrating victories.
All of you have shown us how to look at life and live it to the fullest no matter what.
Our thoughts and prayers are with family and friends as you celebrate Ben's new life with Christ. We are sure he is smiling for all of you and hugging you as you travel the road of acceptance.
The Love of Christ,
Rich and Pat Blanchard
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