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Marcia Sasman De La Rosa
April 19, 2024
I remember you dad always being warm, funny, and in a smart sharp way. It was great reading about his life. I now see how his background is reflected in his kids, and I admire him even more. As an interesting bonus, I see many of my big heart activist friends I've met as an adult knew him as well.
Mary French
March 8, 2023
Ted I was thinking of you yesterday. Thanks for your presence and all that you have done to help children learn to read and respect the English language. We love you and I will always remember your kindness.
Lindsey Boehne
August 26, 2021
Thank you so much Ted, for your support and friendship to me and the Friends of the Bloomingdale Public Library.
Jim Percic
April 11, 2021
We hosted a memorial service for Ted today, April 11, 2021, . Members of the Bahá'í Faith and the Theosophical Society were in attendance. The memorial service took place on Zoom and was recorded. Here is the link for viewing. Please copy and paste it into your browser.
https://us02web.zoom.us/rec/share/BNIh7jqtXzWUhZN10kxQ9ZtnnOVl1sOXKnpJRupDQt9Z1EDwo9oyOgWV7nJdSSqf.9Anbdt0e8Ws0oB_I Passcode: b6uHU@#A
Thank you
Jim Percic
Yvor Stoakley
April 4, 2021
I knew Ted as a member of the Baha'i community and I frequently encountered him in the Wheaton Public Library. He loved the beauty of sacred scriptures and the poetry and lyricism of the English language. He was also a consistent participant or attendee at interfaith programs at the Theosophical Society in Wheaton. He will be missed. My deepest condolences to his surviving family members.
Lanlan Hoo
March 26, 2021
Will always remember Ted as a model humanist with great fondness and gratitude. May he rest in peace.
My deepest sympathy to his family and loved ones.
Jim Percic
March 23, 2021
I have known Ted for over 12 years and consider him to be a close friend, whom I will miss. Ted and I have had innumerable conversations on spiritual and practical matters over the years. Ted impressed me with his strong sense of justice and equality, his keen intellect, and his dedication to service.
Ted joined the Bahá'í Faith about 10 years ago (I am also a member of the Bahá'í Faith.) Ted was active in the communities in the area. Ted and I also participated in several activities with the Theosophical Society.
We will be hosting a memorial service for Ted on April 11, 2021, at 4:00 pm CDT via Zoom. Members of the Bahá'í Faith, the Theosophical Society, and others in the area whom Ted had touched will be in attendance. We will be recording this memorial service and will be happy to share with his family.
beth Staas
March 23, 2021
A fellow member of the Prairie State Humanists, I ran into Ted all over the place from Oak Brook library poetry readings (where he contributed one of his favorites) to Christ Church Oak Brook concerts (where he regularly lectured the minister on various topics). I found him to be funny and often wise, especially when he chastised the city of Wheaton for opening their meetings with a prayer (separation of church and state). He lived what he believed and was a model for all of us.
Grant Eckhoff
March 22, 2021
I always introduced him to people as my former baseball coach. Over the years I would usually run into him downtown Wheaton, most of the time at the post office. He would usually bluntly tell me what he thought of Wheaton and current events. He was very smart and I always enjoyed our discussions.
Lakshmi Kapoor Willis
March 22, 2021
How grateful I am for the inquiring mind of Ted. After meditation, he frequently visited the library at the Science of Spirituality in recent years and would engage in lively discussions or read quietly. We will miss him.
Condolences to the family.
Kelley C Vail
March 19, 2021
Mr. Utchen gave dictionaries to many of my students in Glen Ellyn over the years. My own children still have the dictionaries they received from him in 3rd grade. Thank you, Mr. Utchen, for giving our children the gift of knowledge and resourcefulness! May you rest in peace.
Mary French
March 18, 2021
Ted was a driving force of the Dictionary Project. His wit and wisdom and love for humanity enriched our organization for 18 years. We loved Ted and miss him. He educated everyone he met. He truly understood the power of words and made learning fun for everyone by teaching us how to play with words.
Don & Sandy Huston
March 17, 2021
You, Ted Utchen, served the community well, making an impact in many people. Over many years as "The Dictionary Man" you left an indelible impression of the importance of correct vocabulary and spelling to thousands of third graders in three cities by giving each child their own dictionary. Sandy and I will miss our occasional dinners and Dixieland jazz concerts. I will miss our continual bantering over politics, religion and vocabulary. Rest well my friend.
Don & Sandy Huston
Ruth Brackmann
March 16, 2021
Ted was a man with a big heart and enjoyed sharing kind thoughts with the Community. He love Banjo Buddies Dixieland Band at Art on the Prairie. Such a supporter of the arts. He will be missed at the art festival. Always a kind, gentle heart. Rest in Peace, I'll miss your smile!
Ruth Brackmann
Warrenville Park District
Cynthia Borbas
March 16, 2021
You will be missed my friend. Love to you and all your loved ones.
Sandy Whitmer (Warrenville Library)
March 16, 2021
Always kind. Always generous. Always willing to share his wisdom. Looking back on our conversations, it's easy to see how passionate he was about sharing his knowledge to help all of us become better people in our own right. I was looking forward to catching up with him when the pandemic restrictions eased up. Wherever you are, Ted, I hope you're enjoying some great Dixieland Jazz!
Judy Liebenow Pitts
March 16, 2021
Ted always brightened my day with his wit and humor. He'll be missed.
Cindy Johnson
March 16, 2021
I remember Theodore, or as we called him Mr. Utchen (privately The Dictionary Man) as a very passionate person especially pertaining to the dictionary. He came to our school district every year to talk about the importance of the dictionary with our third grade students.
He was so very patient with the children and you could see the joy in his heart when he was in the classroom. We looked forward to seeing him every year!
My thoughts go out to his family during this sad time.
Cindy Johnson
(retired school secretary), Ben Franklin Elementary School
Glen Ellyn
Audrey Utchen
March 16, 2021
Thankful for the never-ending stories about the friends and family members that he loved to talk about and the many perspectives of history that were bestowed upon us during each visit. Very thankful for all the lessons he's taught me over my life - being proud of who you are and where you come from, the importance of hard work and dedication, being attentive to the most minuscule of details, the value of understanding that process is just as important as result. Just a few lessons among many that I've been taught. Glad to know you are at peace, Grampa. Good thoughts being sent your way
Stephanie Downs Hughes
March 14, 2021
Ted has been a revered member of Humanists of West Suburban Chicagoland, now called Prairie State Humanists, over decades. He always has an astute vantage to share on so many issues. His presense will remain with us. Do keep nd share his file of secular meditations, benedictions etc for the start of public meetings -- written by him.
Our hearts are with you!
Stephanie Hughes
630/420-4233
Coral Youker
March 13, 2021
Rest In Peace, dear Ted. You certainly added a certain joie de vivre to the many gatherings you attended. You will be missed by all of the Bahá’ís in the many communities you included in your spiritual orbit. God bless you and your family, Ted. Love, your friend Coral Youker
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