James M. Obernesser

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James Obernesser Obituary

POQUOSON - James "Jim" M. Obernesser, 59, Coast Guard Commander (Retired), passed away on Saturday, December 22, 2012. He was the son of the late Dr. Charles and Frances Obernesser of Utica, New York. Jim served in the U.S. Coast Guard for 22 years, received his Masters of Environmental Science degree from the University of Michigan, and served the Coast Guard for 10 years as a civil servant. Jim was known best for always being there to help his friends, coworkers, neighbors and family. In addition to his parents, his sister Christine predeceased him. His wife and best friend, Jane; his son, Scott; his twin brother, Charles; his brother, Mark; and his sister, Karen Bannigan; all survive him. Funeral service and interment will be at Arlington National Cemetery at a date to be determined. In lieu of flowers, donations to Jim's memory may be sent to: Anderson Animal Shelter, 1000 South LaFox Road, South Elgin, Illinois 60177 (andersonanimalshelter.org). Online condolences to www.claytorrollins.com . Claytor Rollins Funeral Home, Poquoson, is in charge of arrangements.

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Published by Daily Press on Jan. 6, 2013.

Memories and Condolences
for James Obernesser

12 Entries

Jeff and Diane Wooldridge

January 18, 2013

Karen and John;
Diane and I are very sorry to hear of Jim's passing.I knew Jim at New Hartford CS as I was manager of the swim team he competed on for many years. I remember a great sense of humor and a great guy. Our deepest sympathies to you both.

Pat Berard

January 17, 2013

I knew Jim at Coast Guard Headquarters and often shared morning coffee and sports news with him. You have my deepest condolences.

Marge Millett, Karen (Millett-Lambie) and Donna (Millett-Hans)

January 17, 2013

Chuck, Mark and Karen and families,
We were so saddened to learn of Jim's passing. Growing up on Barley Mow, we cherish the memories of a time when life was so simple and kind. Jim has always been a leader. Althought it's been many years, we remember him fondly with a smile that will never be forgotten. Love and hugs to all of his family and friends.

Jim Godemann

January 16, 2013

Jim and I were friends and classmates at New Hartford where we both were on swim teams. He was a great guy then, and judging from comments here, he became a great man. We last saw each other about 20 years ago, but I was still deeply saddened to see this news. My condolences to Jim's family.

Robert (Bob) O'Brien

January 16, 2013

Very sorry to hear of Jim's passing. I knew Jim at D5 as both an Officer and later when he became a Civil Servant he was a rare combination of realist and optimist.

Steve Metruck, USCG

January 14, 2013

I knew Jim from our Time at Coast Guard Headquarters. Our thoughts and prayers go out to Jim's family and friends at this difficult time. He will be missed.

January 13, 2013

Chuck, Mary & Mark-

I was so sorry to hear of Jim's passing. You have my deepest sympathy.

Vic Fariello

Karen Bennett

January 13, 2013

Dear Chuck, Mary, & Family,
There are no words to express our heart-felt sympathy.
Praying for God to comfort you during this difficult time.
God Bless You.
Love,
Larry & Karen

Bill Csisar

January 10, 2013

Jane, Scott,

I know nothing that can be written or said will truly ease the pain of your loss, but know that you're in our thoughts and prayers. Jim was a gem of a person who touched many lives with his infectious spirit and good will. I met him as a shipmate, but he became so much more as both a friend and mentor. He will be truly missed, and he will be remembered.

Steven Ratti - USCG

January 9, 2013

To the whole Obernesser Clan,
Jim was a real asset to the Coast Guard, and in particular those who have worked with him here in Portsmouth. Jim was thoughtful and always looked at the big picture. I'll always remember him as a good shipmate who did what was right. He fought his cancer battle with determination and grace. My condolences to those family & friends who will miss him. Fair Winds, Shipmate.

Teddie Thorogood

January 9, 2013

A true friend, colleague, and loving family man, Jim always had a kind word for everyone. Jim always took the time to make people feel special and was never without a smile. Jim's optism was infectious and each and every day was important to him. His passing leaves a tremendous void in all of our hearts.

January 6, 2013

We were so sorry to see that Jim died. We will always fondly remember our years in Fife and Drum with your family. Toti, Lucille and Derrick Gonzalo

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