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Paula RADER Obituary
She was retired from the York County Public School System as secretary to the superintendent. Paula was an avid quilter, loved to fish, and enjoyed everything about the water. She enjoyed entertaining family and friends, shopping and yoga. Paula was a wonderful woman full of life, love and laughter and will be remembered with the utmost affection.
She was preceded in death by her father, Richard Paul Dansereau.
She is survived by her husband, Mark R. Rader; daughters, Stephanie J. Rodriguez and Jacob, Carolyn P. Menker and Anthony, Lindsay A. MacKnight and Glenn; six grandchildren, Seth, Leanne, Elle, Evan, Christian and Melody; mother, Patricia Anne Dansereau; sisters, Cathy Marple and Chris, and Lesley McKiernan; brother, Jon Dansereau and Joanne.
Funeral services, officiated by the Rev. Tom Coye, will be held at 10:30 a.m. Saturday, Jan. 28, 2012, at Hogg Funeral Home, Gloucester Point. Interment will follow in Rosewell Memorial Garden. The family will receive friends from 7 to 8:30 p.m. Friday, at the funeral home.
Donations can be sent to the Central Virginia Affiliate of Susan G. Komen for the Cure,1433 Johnston Willis Drive, Richmond, VA 23235. Please designate donations to P.I.N.K.K. View and post condolences on our online guestbook at dailypress.com/guestbooks.
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Memories and Condolences
for Paula RADER
Claudia Stavedahl
February 23, 2025
Paula, She brightened my life so much ! Boy, could she cook ! Many memories in Madison Ohio. RIP my friend! Love you 4 ever. Claudia Erlandson
Janet Abel
January 20, 2022
Just today I was thinking about those evenings of yoga that we spent in the Grafton Bethel elementary School Gym. Paula used to call herself a 'yoga virus' because she infected all she knew with a love of yoga. She brought Leann Sasamoto to class one night and Leann has become one of my best friends. Thank you Paula.
Angela Taylor
February 6, 2012
To Mark and the family, I send my deepest sorrow to you and your family. Paula was such a great person and one of the nicest to work with at YCSD. She will always be one of the best memories that I have at YCSD. God's blessing to you as you are comforted in His care.
Lisa Silva
February 4, 2012
Dear Pat and family,
Our deepest sympathy in the passing of Paula, we are heartly sorry we have missed out attending your services for Paula. We all have such fond memories of each of you from our youth, when we played or picniced together as children. You are forever in our hearts, in our memories and definitely in our prayers!
Love sincerely all seven of Germania Jensen's Children
Roxanne Butner
February 3, 2012
Mark and Family,
I was so sorry to hear about Paula. She was an awesome person and I know everyone that had the pleasure of working with her in the division feels the same. I will miss her tremendously as she was such a wonderful person to be around.
Sincerely,
Roxanne Butner
Luanne Nicks
February 3, 2012
I am sorry for your loss. God has another ANGEL. I have such fond memories of your mom at Grafton Bethel-Stephanie, Carolyn and Lindsay. She was a trooper on Field Day! She was a great person and I hope you remember all the fun times. Love, Luanne Nicks
John Harris
February 3, 2012
Mark, I am sorry for your loss and wish you peace during this time in your life.
Janice Hess
February 2, 2012
I knew Paula only since last August, we met in the Radiation Department dressing room & became friends quickly. Found we had lots in common with our cancer fight & treatments. We were email buddies & phone some. My heart & soul is broken with her loss. My condolences to all the family & know that all will miss her greatly. I found her to be the most caring, loving & sweetest lady. She will live on in all of you. She loved you all so very much.
Charity Barrett
February 2, 2012
I am so sorry to hear about Paula. I will miss her very much!!!
Janet Abel
January 30, 2012
Paula was a shining light and it was my honor to have shared the path with her for awhile.
Shirley Harrison
January 29, 2012
Paula was in our cancer support group and it was my honor to know her for that short time. I am so sad to hear this news. Her family is in my prayers. She will be missed.
Donna Fedors
January 29, 2012
It is with a heavy heart that I write these words of condolence to Paula's family. You are all in our thoughts & prayers at this very sad time. Having lost our son over a year ago, we truly understand the enormous loss you are feeling and pray that you find strength in one another and in your friends to help you in the days ahead. Paula will live on in all of you, and she will never be forgotton. Much love, Donna & Mike Fedors
Mary-Jo Padula
January 28, 2012
We are missing our Queen but she will always be in our hearts!
Kay Knight
January 27, 2012
Mark - so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you.
Eric Williams
January 27, 2012
Paula was an amazing, inspiring woman. I will always remember her wit, kindness, and strength of character.
Jeff Johnson
January 27, 2012
Mark, sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Dee Davis (Moore)
January 27, 2012
I was so very sad to read Paula's obituary today. The picture you submitted of Paula is beautiful. I remember her joyful laugh and that family was deeply rooted her heart. Mark, Stephanie, Carolyn and Lindsay, I am sorry she couldn't stay with you longer.
Patricia Winters
January 27, 2012
Paula was gentle and friendly, a lovely companion. I greatly enjoyed her company at Virginia Consortium of Quilters and Peninsula Piecemakers. May she rest in peace. Warm condolences to her family.
Becky Paquet
January 27, 2012
I am so terribly sorry for your loss.
Amy Colley
January 27, 2012
I will so miss Paula's wit, smile and gentle ways of keeping us all in line. I am keeping Mark and the family in my prayers during these difficult times.
Barbara Mayo
January 27, 2012
I admired Paula for her courage and strength. She was an inspiration to us all. I know that Heaven is a happier place now that Paula is there. God Bless you all.
Sandi Engel
January 27, 2012
I have known Paula since Julie and Stephanie were little. She has been a good and caring friend and such a joy to know. I send my love and hugs to all of the Rader family. I will miss her warm smile and spunky spirit.
Paul & Kathy Kirby
January 27, 2012
Mark, Stephanie, Carolyn, Lindsay & family,
Our families connected in so many ways, especially through soccer and sports. Paula's contribution and hard work for the YCSD will be remembered for years to come. She was very special and inspired many. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Paul, Kathy, Travis and Brad Kirby
Tracy Patrick
January 27, 2012
My deepest sympathy is with Paula's family during this difficult time. My prayers are with Paula and her family. May God "Welcome You" with open arms in Heaven.
Sandi Patrick
January 27, 2012
The School Board Office is not the same without Paula. She was an inspiration to all who knew her and will be greatly missed.
January 26, 2012
Mark, Tom and I were so very sorry to hear of Paula's passing. She was a joy to be around. I enjoyed seeing her when we took yoga together. Our deepest sympathies. Tom & Donna Utsunomiya
Bobbi Transportation Dept.
January 26, 2012
Thoughts of someone so close being gone are difficult to bear.We share in your grief.Thoughts and prayers be with the family at this time.
Rhonda Rhodes
January 26, 2012
Paula will be missed by so many people. I had the pleasure of working with her at Tabb. My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this time. Rhonda Rhodes
Leslie Cole Francum
January 26, 2012
It is with a heavy heart that I offer my condolences to the Rader Family. Paula's strength, courage and dignity has been and always will be an inspiration to me. I am honored to have called her a friend.
Claire Newman Quigley
January 26, 2012
Dear Mark and Pat and all of Paula's Family...Children and Grandchildren...
I can remember Paula and her sisters and Jon as we would see them over the summer at the Snug Harbor vacations...They were wonderful times for all...A joy to see all of them growing up....Shared in the joy on their wedding day...You were all blessed to have her in your life...
Our prayers are with all of you and our heart as well...
Bob and Claire Quigley and Family
Joan Dittman-Guthrie
January 26, 2012
Lesley and Family
I am so sorry for your loss...you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Joanie Dittman-Guthrie & Family xo
January 26, 2012
My deepest sympathy to the Radar family. I worked with Paula at Tabb High School. She was a wonderful person.
Gwen Banks
Tabb High School
Denise Carter
January 26, 2012
Life well lived Paula! We will never forget your strength and courage and kindness and smile. Thanks for hanging out with us and being "just one of the girls."
January 26, 2012
Carolyn and family. We are so sorry for your loss. Please know our deepest sympathies are with you and your family.
Always loved your Mom's spunk. Denise Walker
Melinda Schenkkan
January 26, 2012
We love the Radar family and will always treasure our friendship with Paula! What a positive force and strong woman! An inspirational person, Paula will remain in our thoughts forever! Love to you, Mark, and the girls and their hubs, and the grandkids! Love, Melinda & Roman
Richard Shaner
January 26, 2012
Mark and family, you have my deepest sympathies.
Antonio Araiza
January 26, 2012
Mark and family, I am writing this to express a deep sorrow for the loss of your wife.
With love and sympathy from the Araiza Family,
Melissa and Glenn Holland
January 26, 2012
Paula was extraordinary. The grace and courage that she showed throughout this battle was inspiring to us all. There will be an empty spot in the lives of everyone who loved her. Our deepest sympathies.
Don Torrenti
January 26, 2012
Mark and family, you are in my prayers in this time of sorrow and joy. Always remember the good times that you shared over the years.
Tracy Caldwell
January 26, 2012
Rader, My heart is deeply saddened at the loss of your beloved wife Paula. I hope you will find comfort in knowing that she is in Heaven and pain free. In the past six years that I have known you, your actions and dedication to Paula is proof that you love her very much. Your actions spoke volumes to me, but your words are even greater. You recently sent me an excel file and while reviewing the data, I found that you had sweetly typed "I love Paula" in one of the cells. This will be the thing I remember most about Paula...she is loved. May God Bless you and your family.
Tammy Schalkham
January 26, 2012
Please accept my most heartfelt sympathies for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with the family during this difficult time. Paula will live on in all the hearts who loved her.
Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.
Elizabeth Milne
January 26, 2012
Paula will forever be in my heart. She was a warrior, a fashionista, a comedianne, a proud wife, mother and grandmother, a great bowler, and a darn good person. She was a great friend- no matter how much time had passed, it was just like you had talked to her yesterday. She made me happy everytime I saw her. Mark and the rest of Paula's family will be in my thoughts and prayers. She will be missed and remembered by many.
Dee McCullers
January 26, 2012
I am very saddened for the loss of Paula. Even though I didn't get chance to meet Paula knowing her sister Cathy I'm sure she was a very good person. My prayers go out to her family and friends. May GOD continue to surround you and your family at this time of grief.
Joyce & Harold Robbins
January 26, 2012
Our love for Paula will last forever. Our heartfelt sympathy to all the Rader family. She was so much a part of our lives for the last eight years!
Kay Forrest
January 26, 2012
I am very sorry for your loss. Paula was a wonderful person. I enjoyed working with her at Tabb. May your memories and those wonderful, beautiful quilts bring peace and comfort in this difficult time and through the rest of your lives.
Elizabeth Milne
January 26, 2012
Paula will forever be in my heart. She was a warrior, a fashionista, a comedianne, a proud wife, mom and grandmother, a great bowler, and just a darn good person. She was someone I could always trust, I could always go to, and who always was my friend, no matter how much time had passed between visits. I will miss her dearly. My thoughts and prayers go out to Mark and her family.
John & Violet Crockett
January 26, 2012
Remembering you at this time of loss, and praying that heaven's joys your Mother is now experiencing will bring comfort to your heart.
Tracy Caldwell
January 26, 2012
Rader, My heart is deeply saddened at the loss of your beloved wife Paula. I hope you will find comfort in knowing that she is in Heaven and pain free. In the past six years that I have known you, your actions and dedication to Paula is proof that you love her very much. Your actions spoke volumes to me, but your words were even greater. You recently sent me an excel file and while reviewing the data, I found that you had sweetly typed “I love Paula” in one of the cells. This will be the thing I remember most about Paula…she is loved. May God Bless you and your family.
Stephanie Bolden
January 26, 2012
I am terribly sorry for your loss. Like so many others, I loved and adored Paula. She will be greatly missed. I will hold the familiy in my thoughts, my heart, and my prayers.
January 26, 2012
With deepest sympathies on your loss,
Cortney Cain
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