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Mitchell Cary Obituary
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CARY, Mitchell Dean 64, of Yellow Springs, OH., passed away Saturday, July 30, 2011. He is preceded in death by his parents Dean Cary and Lucille (Cary) Muller and a brother Thomas D. Cary. He is survived by his beloved wife of 26 years Judith Cary of Yellow Springs; sons and daughters-in-law Mark and Julianne Cary of Dallas, TX., and Christopher and Kathryn Brandt of Kettering; daughter, Lisa Cary and Ryan Meade of Beavercreek; sister and brother-in-law Sue and Al McClure of Fort Wayne, IN.; 5 grandchildren Graham Cary, Max Cary, Lucy Cary, Daniel Brandt, and Jason Brandt. Mitch held engineering degrees from Purdue University, the University of Dayton, and the Air Force Institute of Technology, and was pursuing studies in Theology from the University of Dayton. He was a bomber pilot, tanker pilot and test pilot in the U.S. Air Force and retired as a Lieutenant Colonel. Mitch was employed at WPAFB as a Program Manager and Chief of Cargo & Trainer Propulsion Branch. He was a member and Past President of the Wright "B" Flyer Inc., a member of Leadership Dayton and the National Aviation Heritage Area. Mitch was also a member of the Society of Experimental Test Pilots, Great Lakes Chapter, and the Fairborn Performing Arts and Cultural Association. Mitch was a member of the Purdue Alumni Association, and Phi Delta Theta. He was a friend of Bill W. Funeral services will be held 4 PM Thursday, August 4, 2011 at the Bethel Community Church of the Nazarene, 4400 Osborn Rd. in Medway. Pastor Dan Witter officiating. Friends may call at TOBIAS FUNERAL HOME- BEAVERCREEK CHAPEL, 3970 Dayton-Xenia Rd. at Grange Hall Rd. from 4-7 PM Wednesday. Additional visitation at the church from 3-4 PM Thursday. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to Wright "B". Flyer Inc., 10550 Springboro Pk., Miamisburg, OH. 45342.
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Memories and Condolences
for Mitchell Cary
Tom Schipper
August 14, 2011
Mitch was a pleasure to work for and work with in the Commercial Testing Branch in the 4950th Test Wing. As a new test pilot in the 4950th, I relied on Mitch's test expertise and program guidance. Most of all, I appreciated his sense of humor and outlook - they were priceless. Mitch will be missed.
Danner Martin
August 14, 2011
Mitch's smile and laugh could warm even a cold and gloomy day in Dayton. We had several fun trips together, one to the Sandy Beach Hotel in Barbados stands out especially with the four day slip before we even landed. When I needed advice for a demanding test at Edwards, I usually sought out Mitch first. "Get them to give you refueling time in the B-52 then your qualification tests will seem easy." He was right of course....smart, fun, an excellent pilot. My deepest sympathy.
Norm Taylor
August 10, 2011
I was Principal at Hamilton when Mitch was in school. I was sorry to read about the accident. Also, I lived only about a mile from where Mitch was raised and know the family well. My condolences to those who are left. May your thoughts be of the good times when Mitch was alive.
Debbie Eastep
August 9, 2011
Dear Judy -- my heart goes out to you and I am so sorry for your very tragic loss. I did not know your husband but he sounds like a super guy. Please know I will continue to keep you and your family in prayer in the days ahead.....praying for God's blessings of comfort and understanding as you cope with Mitch's loss. Keep strong in your faith and God will guide you through this.
When you're ready, we look forward to seeing you at the retiree's lunches. May God Bless You Always. With love and friendship, Debbie Eastep
Leah Voss
August 9, 2011
Mitch wore a lot of different hats, and I wish I could have experienced them all. I enjoyed the man I got to see the most, the Mitch at church every Sunday. My favorite story from the services was the one when he got saved. What a beautiful reassurance, knowing he is so happy with his Father. I LOVE YOU AUNT JUDY!!!!!
Don Brown
August 8, 2011
Dear Judy, Chris, Lisa and Mark,
Like so many of the people who have responded to this loss, you do not know me. Mitch was the "voice of reason" and "Hey, Don did you think of this", when I was an "old guy" Major in the 4950th Test Wing. My project, along with the late Pete Larkin, was the EC-18B. I started as an outsider from the "Glamour World" at Andrews. Mitch took the time to give me a very deep appreciation of the talents around me, and the scope of what I needed to do. From a ride together in the Antenna laced T-37 over Brush Creek MOA to a bit of the Tullamore Dew in "Chuck Yeager" bar after a long day at Edwards in the C-135, I proudly got to claim him as a friend. Only Mitch can appreciate that I had a flight on the day of the funeral. Not knowing you, does not diminish my admiration for the people that made Mitch the gentle giant that he was to all who knew him. May God grant you peace, in knowing Mitch loved all and all that he did.
Debbie & Tim Voss
August 7, 2011
Dearest Judy, Chris, Lisa and Mark,
There are no words to express what has happened and how senseless it is to all of us. In time, we will all get to where we need to be but in the meantime we share this scripture with you, "I can do all things through Christ who strenghtens me." One day at a time.... We love you and are here for each of you.
Roger Krolak
August 6, 2011
Judy and Cary Family,
I couldn't believe the news on July 30. All the care and love that went into assembly, check, and flight test of the Silver Bird by all Wright "B" Flyer Members to create a safe plane and Mitch was certainly actively involved. Though he was an accomplished test pilot, Mitch was right at home in the lobby helping youngsters fly the simulator and giving visitors that memorable ride in the Brown Bird. All of us volunteers at Wright "B" Flyer will miss Mitch. My condolances to you and your family.
Kathy Dyke
August 5, 2011
Judy, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. May God comfort you and your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Take care and God bless. Always.
Chris & Carolyn Farrell
August 5, 2011
Judy,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family at this time.
Lisa P.
August 4, 2011
Mitch touched so many lives. He will always be remembered for the great guy that he was.
Barry & Wendy Mills
August 4, 2011
Judy,
We are deeply saddened by this tragedy. Words cannot adequately express how we feel, so I will quote someone I admire a great deal, "this stinks." We enjoyed game night in your home. You are both so gracious. Mitch will be missed by many. Please know that we are here if you need ANYTHING at all. May God give you His peace and strength in the days ahead. With much love,
Greg Meyer
August 4, 2011
Judy,
I was shocked and deeply saddened to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Lana Apana
August 4, 2011
Judy and family,
Words seem so inadequate today. Mitch always seemed larger than life to me. He would probably hate to hear that, but his uniqueness, his dedication, his intellect, and so much more put him head and shoulders above the rest. He was an outstanding leader and a man that just by being himself influenced and inspired so many, including my son. What an outstanding role model he was and will remain in his legacy of giving. You share in all the tributes to him, because of your unselfishness in sharing him with those he mentored and taught to be better than they ever thought they could be. In our hearts always!
Love to each of you, including Mitch - may God hold you in the hollow of His hand always, Lana Apana
Vicki Lucius
August 4, 2011
My dad, Hubie Miller, was a good friend of Mitch and Don, and would have shared my sadness at their passing - condolences to the family.
Syl and Virginia Kerstanski
August 3, 2011
Judy and families, May God bless you all and give comfort in this time of sorrow. I feel fortunate to having known Mitch as I worked closely with him at the Wright B. Aside from his duties as pilot and mine as one of the mechanics, we had many conversations about growing up on a farm and our Air Force experiences, as well as many other topics. Mitch is one of the finest individuals I have met in my career.
Lauren Rouquette
August 3, 2011
Sending love, hugs, thoughts and prayers to your entire family. God Bless the Cary family during this time. Mitch will be remembered in our family fondly & forever.
Kathy Staiger and family
August 3, 2011
I'll never forget our flight together in the Wright B Flyer. I won the coveted Daedalian raffle at our annual dinner in the hangar. Boy, did he make it special! He let me do all four take-offs and landings and boy were the others jealous. He will surely be missed by all. You are in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless!
Kurt Rinke
August 3, 2011
Condolences to the family. Mitch was a great pilot and leader. As the XR lead in the SOF SPO he kept track of us Reservisits and supported us greatly. He'll be missed.
Don Dugan, Lt., USNR
August 3, 2011
I am sorry to hear of your tragic loss. Orville would have been very proud of Mitch's work. I was close to Orville as a child and have remained close to the Wright Flyers in adulthood. In fact, I am mentioned on page 182 of Ann's book. You have my deepest sympathy. And may God bless.
Brad Tidwell
August 3, 2011
Cary Family-I had the great pleasure of getting to know Mitch first through our Leadership Dayton class. To say he was a great guy and class act would be an understatement, but you know that. I am so saddened by your loss and the loss all of us who called Mitch a friend feel today. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and just know that Mitch will be greatly missed by his many friends and by the community.
Mitch Payne
August 3, 2011
You have my deepest condolences. I worked with Mitch at the 4950TW. He was one of the good guys. He was easy to talk to and I learned a great a lot from him. He will be missed.
Laurie Cornett Cross
August 3, 2011
Cary Family-
I had the privilege of getting to know Mitch through our Leadership Dayton Class in 2001. Our classmates are all in shock as he truly was so dear to us all. Comments from our group have ranged from "he was just a first class guy" to "I always looked forward to seeing him the most at our class gatherings" to "last time I saw him he was just messing around in the hangar".
Personally I admired him greatly and was so in awe of all that he knew and all he had done! Plus he was simply a joy to be around.
Mitch hosted a gathering for us once at the hangar and I am so lucky to have won the "raffle" that day which was a ride on the Wright B with him. What a memory, and what a man.
May God Bless and keep you all during this difficult time--
Valerie Dahlem
August 3, 2011
To the Cary Family,
Mitch was a true inspiration to us in the Air Force Propulsion community and he will be truly missed. He mentored our young employees and showed boundless integrity. Among his peers, Mitch was known to fight for decency and honor in everything we do. I am humbled to have worked with him, laughed with him, and learned from him how to uphold my own values in this sometimes crazy business. Thank you for sharing him with us.
Mara Cochran
August 3, 2011
Judy and Family, Iam sorry for your loss. I got to know Mitch when he started keeping his J-3 Cub at our airstrip {Victory Strip} I use to love watching him fly his cub. I loved to sit and listen to him tell his funny stories, which only Mitch could do! You and your family are in my prayers and thoughts, through this difficult time. Sincerely Mara Cochran
Mara Cochran Smith
August 3, 2011
Judy and Family, I am so sorry for your loss. Mitch was such a joy to be around. I use to love to watch him fly his Cub off our Airstrip (Victory Field) Loved to sit and listen to his funny stories. No one could tell them like Mitch! You and your family are in my Thoughts and Prayers. Sincerely Mara Cochran
Debbie Dulaney
August 3, 2011
Cary Family,
My deepest condolenses. I was in Mitch's Leadership Dayton class. I am blessed to have known him. He inspired me to be at my best. Mitch was a true humanitarian, showing compassion for the those that made wrong choices and a wonderful community advocate. Mitch you will be truly missed.
Beverly Wright Coleman
August 3, 2011
Please accept my condolences. I am a member of a large community interested in Wright Flyers. We are sad that we have lost such a dedicated leader in the quest to conquer the skies.
Alan and Chris Bryant
August 3, 2011
We are humbled and grateful to have known Mitch. Our deepest sympathy to you and your family, Judy.
Bradley L. Brumit
August 3, 2011
Judy and Family,
So sorry to hear of our loss he will be dearly missed and Cherished in our memories. He made a difference in my life at a very crucial point. God really does only send us ANGELS. I will always remember his fine example of service and friendship.
God Bless,
Bradley L. Brumit
Sandra Wimberly
August 2, 2011
Judy,
Please accept my heartfelt sympathies at the tragic loss of your beloved husband. Mitch will be greatly missed by all who knew him. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.
Rhuben Banks
August 2, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Tracy Marshall
August 2, 2011
Judy,
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. I know you and Mitch have had some special times together. Keep those close to your heart. Remember "Blessed are those who mourn for they shall be comforted" My prayers are with you. If you need anything just ask or have Debbie call me.
Tia Fish
August 2, 2011
Cary Family,
I didn't know Mitch, but I want to offer my thanks for what he has done for the military and community. Even though I didn't know him, I was deeply affected by the loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Larry & Tracy Ivey
August 2, 2011
Judy and family, we are so sorry for your loss. We will all miss Mitch, his sense of humor, laid-back approach to things, and sincere friendship. We will keep our fond memories; from DSMC, at your wedding, sharing space in Orlando, and many evenings of conversation. Our prayers go out to you, his sister, Mark, Lisa, Chris, and the whole family.
Kay Lee
August 2, 2011
Judy,
I worked with Mitch in Propulsion and he took my daughter and her friend up in the Wright B Flyer. They were so excited and he so very graciously posed for birthday photos with them to mark the event. He will be greatly missed. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Brenda Murphy
August 2, 2011
Judy, I was so sorry to hear about Mitch. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. I know you've had a lot on you lately. I wish I could do something to help. Mom said to tell you she has a hug for you but you'll have to come to Virginia to get it.
Jon Martin
August 2, 2011
Judy - It was with shock and great sorrow that i learned of Mitch's passing. I worked with Mitch back in the 4950TW and in HQ/DO as my boss....I truly enjoyed his sense of humor and irony, as well as straightforward approach to getting things done. Please take comfort in knowing he was doing something he loved... Thoughts and prayers are with you. Jon Martin and family
Craig Cochran
August 2, 2011
Judy and family
I'm so sorry for your loss. Having Mitch hanger his J-3 Cub at my home strip (Victory Field, Spfld, Oh) was a special joy for my neighbors and for me personally, Mitch became a close and trusted friend and will be missed greatly. Judy, you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Kelly Snider
August 2, 2011
Judy,
I worked for Mitch in HQ AFMC/DO a few years back. I appreciated his dry humor and common sense approach to things. When my youngest brother died Mitch was one of the first to offer his condolences and a helping hand if I needed it. What a wonderful human being he was. The entire Cary family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Larry Darbyshire
August 2, 2011
Judy,
I'm so sorry and I know that there is nothing I can say that will take the pain away. When I worked for Mitch in DO he was a good friend and boss. Once in awhile I would stop in his office and we would talk about guy things and I got to understand what a talented guy Mitch was. The whole Cary family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Fred Pumroy
August 2, 2011
Judy and family
I have known Mitch since the early 80s when we assigned to the B-1B Program as Program Managers. We played basketball and volleyball together, socialized together and worked together since then on many projects from Propulsion to the Wright B Flyer activities. He was a great guy and would give the shirt off his back if you needed it! My latest memory of him was when he would fly the Wright B Flyer over Fairborn waiving and smiling to all the people as they looked up in amazement! We will all miss Mitch and will be praying for the family to get through this tragic time and that all the rest of us to look into our hearts to find how we can serve others as Mitch did!!
Bethany Brant
August 2, 2011
I'm so sorry to hear of Mitch's passing. May God bless his family and bring comfort to them during this time of sorrow.
Joe/Susan Berube
August 2, 2011
Judy and family, Mitch was one of the first to extend a hand of welcome when I arrived at Wright Pat in 1997 to work in DO. Our thoughts and prays are with you in this hour of need.
August 2, 2011
Judy and Family,
all of us will miss Mitch tremendously, he was such a great person and positive influence on all of our lives. we will keep all of you in our prayers. with our deepest sympathy, the Ivey family, Larry, Tracy, Greg and Doug
Lloyd Crain
August 2, 2011
I worked for Mitch when we were both at the Special Operation Forces SPO at WPAFB, Oh. I never met a better human being and mentor. I met back up with Mitch, several year later, after I was assigned to Building 28 on base where Mitch also worked. On occasion I would visit his office and we would talk about aviation and his love for airplanes. I admired Mitch and will always remember him. God bless you. You and your family are in my prayers
Karyl Amstutz
August 2, 2011
Judy and family,
I grew up with Mitch and will always remember his ready smile, wit, and sense of humor. One of my fondest memories of Mitch is a play performed by our Latin class wearing Togas!
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you as you navigate this difficult time.
Carla McIntosh
August 2, 2011
Judy, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. May God comfort you and your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Take care and God bless.
Kim Oglesby
August 2, 2011
With deepest sympathy to Judy & familly; will keep you in my thoughts & prayers.
Darrell Davis
August 2, 2011
Judy... I was so sad when I got the news about Mitch on Saturday. He was such a wonderful person. I was truly blessed that he was a part of my life. He will always be in my heart. May god bless you and your family.
Melanie Conn
August 2, 2011
To Judy: I never knew Mitch, but I know from you and Debbie that he was greatly loved. You and your family are in my prayers.
Mike Higgins
August 2, 2011
Judy,
I worked with you and Mitch on the B-1 – where Mitch got me hooked on some of those darn Philosophy books he was always quoting – had to read them in self defense. Kept waking up at night going “I’ll bet that’s what that meant!”. I was surprised (but should not have been) to hear that he was working towards a degree in Theology – just didn’t fit the standard “golden arm” image. But then Mitch never cared about images – just the solid reality that was uniquely his own. We were all lucky to have known him. Blue skies to you and your family, my friend.
Darrell Davis
August 2, 2011
Judy... I was so sad when I got the news about Mitch. I can`t seem to get him out of my mind.He was such a great person and I will truly miss him. I was blessed to hve shared part of my life with Mitch.You have my sincere regrets and I will keep you and yours in my prayers.
August 2, 2011
Judy, He will be missed. I love you. Vivian
John Armor
August 2, 2011
I met Mitch at AFMC around 1994. He was friendly and helpful when he had no need to be; he was far my superior. He always asked about my wife and my kids at a time my family had some health struggles. Mitch could hang out with pilots and not necessarily talk about airplanes (my wife particularly liked that). Flying was his passion, as it is for many of us, but he was to me a good man first. I will never forget his example. God bless him and his family.
Steve Larson
August 2, 2011
My sincere sympathy to Mitch's friends and family. As my supervisor for the past two years I gained a deep respect for one of the smartest and kindest professionals I had ever met. Mitch's recent interest in Theology was one that proved a great challenge to someone who seemed to always have the answer for just about everything. Beyond my own tears on Saturday, it gave me some comfort to know that life's most intriguing questions were answered this dreadful day for my dear friend Mitch Cary! Your special stories while seated on my trash-can will be missed deeply along with your unique sense of humor and thoughts on social justice. All I can say in parting is, "now you know, Mitch, now you know."
Eddie McAllister
August 1, 2011
I worked for Mitch in the Commercial Aircraft Test Branch of the 4050th Test Wing in the early 90's. I'll never forget Mitch's sense of humor and his humble expertise. The last time I saw him he shared his rekindled love of aviation and his activities with the Wright B flyer. Judy, words can never ease your pain and grief, but please know you are in the McAllister family's prayers and we share your loss. God Bless you and your family.
Larry Marple
August 1, 2011
Mitch will be missed by us all. We are praying for his family.
Ted Gentsch
August 1, 2011
My sincerest sympathies to the entire Cary Family.
I flew with Mitch on TDY's at Edwards and at Wright Patterson when in the 4950th . As a Pilot and an Officer he was the best of the best. A great personality, easy going on the outside, all business when flying. A top shelf Air Force Test Pilot. A great Officer and a great Man, he will be missed, yet always remembered.
Jim & Liz Jolliffe
August 1, 2011
Judy,
Mitch was a great friend to all who knew him with a wonderful dry sense of humor. I first met him in 1994 in HQ AFMC/DO and stayed in touch over the years with mutual assignments in ASC. His love of flying, combined with his passion for pure learning, touched me and many others. Our prayers are with you. He will be missed.
August 1, 2011
Condolences to the family. I new Mitch for 12 years or so and greatly admired him. He was a true role model for us all. He will be missed Hank S.
Dave Rollins
August 1, 2011
Mitch and I had a great chat the last time he was at Mount Comfort Airport with the Wright B Flyer. He was so great with answering all of the kids questions. I am a better person and aviator for having known him.
Arnie Michalke
August 1, 2011
In my life I have met maybe five individuals who have stood intellectually apart from all the others. Mitch was one of them. I flew with him in the Test Wing on multiple occasions and remember his wit, his crystal insights, and finely honed flying skills. Your passing is premature, and our deepest condolences to your family...God Bless You.
Margaret Rouquette
August 1, 2011
Judy and all,
Please know that the Rouquette group here in Texas and beyond send our hearfelt prayers and condolences to you all in the Cary family. It was such a treat to spend the day with you both in San Antonio when you were there. I am so glad that we were able to spend that time and get to know you and Mitch better and enjoy his knowledge and humor. You and the whole family will be in my prayers...
Tom Severyn
August 1, 2011
Judy,
My sincere condolences for you and the family.
Mitch was a friend from long ago in 4950 Test Wing days, again in HQ AFMC, and then in SOF. He always had a wry sense of humor and self-depreciating style that loosened up any stressful situation. I also remember his stuffing himself into the Tweet and never complaining about the seat since he was flying!
My prayers go out to you and for him.
Greg Enochian
August 1, 2011
Judy, My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Ron Yates
August 1, 2011
Judy and family,
I worked with Mitch in the 4950th Test Wing and was very fond of him then. Last summer, I was fortunate enough to fly the Wright B Flyer with him. He retained his sense of humor and high professional standards through the years and I respected him greatly. My prayers are with you. Mitch left us all too early, but his memory will remain with me all my days. Sincerely,
Rob Apana
August 1, 2011
Judy, Mark, Lisa, Chris
Mitch gave this world many gifts. I'm sure you will hear many reflections in the days and months to come, reminding you of gifts you knew about and uplifting you with ones you didn't.
Besides the gifts of two fabulous children in Mark and Lisa, he shared with me a second family in you, Judy and Chris. He also, in his own way, as he had done with many young men in the service, tried to show me what it is to be an adult, a man and a father. This gift may not have been truely appreciated by the young teenager I was then, but it has helped develop me into the person I am today.
I wish I had told him how much he meant.
Love, as always, to you all in this difficult time.
dennis fee
August 1, 2011
judy, i am an old friend of mitch. we grew up together in hamilton. i have many good memories of mitch. he will be missed. god bless you and your family.
Steve Brown
August 1, 2011
Judy and family,
I am deeply saddened and share your loss.
I worked with Mitch over twenty years ago when we were both at the 4950th Test Wing. I found Mitch to be bright, hard-working, level-headed, and fun to be around. He loved both people and aviation.
Mitch was the kind of man I want to be when I grow up.
August 1, 2011
Judy,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time. Our prayer is that God will comfort you and your family during this time of such sorrow.
With Love
Dale and Jo Ann Boussum
Sandy & Mike Parsons
August 1, 2011
Judy, our hearts go out to you and your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Steve Smith
August 1, 2011
Judy and Family
I was saddened to learn of the loss of Mitch. I have known Mitch since our days as students in Test Pilot School Class 79a. I always admired Mitch's unflappable style and deadpan humor. Mitch was not only the consumate professional but had a concern for people. He called me several times last year after the loss of my wife just to check on how I was doing. I will miss him. Thanks for sharing his life with all of us. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Tony Smith
August 1, 2011
As a co-worker of Mitch's in the Propulsion Division at Wright-Patterson AFB, Mitch will always be remembered by me for his sense of humor, calm, cool and collected insight and opinions and his knowledge of aviation in general. His presence will be greatly missed in our office. Deepest condolences to his family and friends..
Cindy Arnett
August 1, 2011
I was so saddened to hear of Mitch's accident. I have known him for about 10 years and have the utmost respect for him. Judy, may God bring you peace and comfort in knowing he was doing what he so dearly loved at the time of his passing. My prayers are with you and your family at this time of sorrow.
Stan Heath
August 1, 2011
I am proud to have known Mitch from 1st grade through Purdue and beyond. He was a class act. May each of us take inspiration from his passion, his kindness and his quiet leadership. My heart goes out to his family and friends. We will miss him for a long time.
Mark Savchitz
August 1, 2011
I am so sad to hear of Mitch's passing. I am honored to have known and worked with him. Prayers are with your family.
Charles Baker
August 1, 2011
My thoughts and prayers are with the Cary family. Mitch was a great friend to my father. I am forever grateful for my first flight in the Piper Cub, an experience I will never forget. Thanks for sharing the skies with all of us.
Debbie Judy (Atha)
August 1, 2011
Judy, nothing I can say can heal your heart, but know I am thinking about you and your family at this very difficult time. God Bless and Keep You All.
Gregory Ivey
August 1, 2011
our prayers are with you and your family. deepest condolences and sympathy. Mitch will be missed by us all.
Jim Hair
August 1, 2011
Mitch and Don were generous ambassadors for the history of flight and touched people from all over the world who might have first met them in 2008 at the Model T Centennial Celebration in Hagerstown, Indiana. They will be deeply missed. http://www.flickr.com/photos/richmond-in/2980459681
(BIG) John Meadows
August 1, 2011
We walked a path together for a while, I'm sure we will walk a path forever when I get to see Mitch again! May God bless Mitch's family with a peace that he always displayed.
Steve Helphinstine
August 1, 2011
I was saddened to hear the news, Mitch was quite a guy, I had just talkled with him a few weeks ago. My prayers go out to his family.
Debi Swaninger
July 31, 2011
My prayers go out to all of his family. He was such a wonderful guy.
Linda Davis
July 31, 2011
Judy, I am so sorry for your loss and am praying for you and your family. Please take care of yourself during this difficult time.
Chad Cannon
July 31, 2011
I serve on a board with Mitch and I will truly miss his flying stories and his kind personality. You will be missed, God Bless.
Andy Anderson
July 31, 2011
Mitch was a friend and wise counselor for over 15 years. Usually the smartest guy in the room, a quintessentail aviator with gifted hands...he'd been there done that in just about all aspects of his life...and he was never reticent to share his deepest thoughts on a host of life's most challenging questions. This world has lost a great, kind soul. I am forever grateful to have known him and called him my friend.
Colleen L McCoy
July 31, 2011
I met Mitch about 15 years ago and he always reminded me of a man with a gentle soul. I to will miss seeing him on Friday evenings, Colleen L McCoy
Dwight Sutton
July 31, 2011
Mitch was one of the best friends I've ever had. He was hard-working, conscientious, generous with his time and resources, and did have that Saturnine sense of humor. We did volunteer work together for several years and kept up a daily e-mail correspondence to the end. I'll never forget him.
Linda Holcomb
July 31, 2011
I met Mitch about 4 yrs ago and was impressed with his kind and gentle nature. He was always a pleasure to speak with and I will miss seeing him on Friday evenings, Linda Holcomb
Hugo Heyns
July 31, 2011
While I've only worked with Mitch for little more than a year, we recognized sufficient similarities in our background to have many spirited discussions: aircraft, flying, Edwards, politics, religion - just the stuff you're not supposed to talk about without being friends. What a guy - he will be missed
Joe Hollenberg
July 31, 2011
Mitch was an outstanding pilot and checked me out when I arrived in Dayton 30 years ago. I always looked up to his ability and demeanor. The ‘Big Guy’ was a very special pilot and person. So many memories…Judy and family, our thoughts are with you.
July 31, 2011
Our prayers are with Mitch and your family. Mitch & "Cuda" Carter flew the Wright B for my retirement ceremony in July 2008--we will never forget how wonderful that was. Our sincerest sympathies for the loss of our fellow wingman. Deb & Ernie Goenaga
steve druhe
July 31, 2011
Judy, I was very sad to read about Mitch's accident. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Kevin Campbell
July 31, 2011
Mitch has been a dear friend of mine for almost 25 years. His sense of humor and willingness to help others made him very special. His humorous e-mails make me laugh every time I read them. I will greatly miss him. My thoughts and prayers go to Judy and the family. May God bless you and give you strength in the days to come.
Skip Daly
July 31, 2011
I just learned of Mitch's death-doing what he loved most. I have known Mitch for 33 years starting at WPAFB. We took our 5-flight evaluations for Test Pilot School together, and chased each other around in our T-38s. Mitch, you will be greatly missed, and to borrow a phrase from our brothers in the Navy, "Fair seas and following winds."
Jack Franz
July 31, 2011
Our prayers are with Mitch and his family. He loved flying and will always be remembered.
Jack & Gina Franz
Diane Bowersox
July 30, 2011
Judy, you and the family are in my thoughts and prayers. May the Lord comfort you and give you strength through this difficult time.
Josh Witter
July 30, 2011
So sorry to hear about Mitch. Prayers are with your family.
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