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Marianne Parent Obituary
AGE: 84 • New Castle
Marianne Parent, age 84, of New Castle, DE, passed away peacefully while surrounded by her family on Saturday, September 10, 2016.
Born in Wilmington, DE on December 26, 1931, she was the daughter of the late Joseph and Florence Beckett.
Marianne's keen eye for fashion led her to modeling for Braunstein's Department Store. At the tender age of 18, she married the love of her life, the late William Parent and together the couple had 7 children. Widowed at a young age and faced with many hardships, Marianne made raising her children the sole focus of her life. After her children were grown, she went to work for Christiana Care, where she loved interacting with patients and coworkers, before retiring in 1999.
Marianne loved her family and enjoyed seeing everyone at family gatherings and during the holidays. She was an avid reader, adored Sunday football, and looked forward to her nightly bowl of ice cream.
In addition to her parents and husband, she was preceded in death by her daughter, Jeanne Schafferman, son, Frank Parent, and grandson, Bradley May. She is survived by her children, Michelle Parent, William Parent and his wife Kathy, Suzanne Parent, Mary Holleran and her husband Tim, and Cecilia Esposito and her husband Ken; son-in- law, Joe Schafferman; daughter-in-law, Susan Parent; 8 grandchildren; and 6 great grandchildren.
Mass of Christian Burial will be offered at 11 am on Thursday morning, September 15, 2016 at St. Peter the Apostle R.C. Church, 521 Harmony Street, New Castle, DE, where friends may call from 10 am until 11 am. Interment will follow in Gracelawn Memorial Park, 2220 N. DuPont Parkway, New Castle, DE.
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Tiny
July 28, 2025
Hi Mom Em started her job last week. She found your work badge in your dresser. She took a picture of your badges together. So funny she even goes in the same door as you did. She trains for 10 days. She is working casual so she only is required to work 8 hrs in a 2 week period. But can pick up additional hours. She will decide on how many once she is back to school. She knows that school is her priorty. Last week I think she averaged 10 miles of walking a day. They told her it fluctuates between 8-14 miles a day. Tim told her that the hospital is so big and if he ever gets lost he looks for someone in black scrubs since they cover the whole hospital. Today she rode in with Tim and I will pick her up at 3:30. She needs a few things from the mall. Tim is working a 12hr shift. Last night we packed their lunches. She sent Eric a picture of their lunches side by side in the frig lol. Each night she would have dinner, shower, read a little and then in bed by 10. I can hear you say it can kick your butt how busy it is. Mom the Rod Stewart concert was amazing 80 years old like what! Em wore a very cute outfit a sparkly silver skirt, black one shoulder top and black boots. Our seats were unbelievable. It was definitely one of my top concerts that I have been to. Next up is Stevie in October another favorite. We have a Phillies game this Friday. The weather is saying some rain but I am hoping it changes by then. This summer has either been raining or oppressive heat. I had Finn out earlier but he even knows that its way hot out. He just turned 7 on the 17th. He has lost some weight. We changed his food and the vet said that he looks really good. They noted it on his record. He has some gray under his chin other than that he is still full on puppy. He currently is asleep on his back with his paws in the air. Not a care in the world. Me and Tim took a ride to Booths Corner for something to do. I bought some sticky buns from Donut Haven which has been there forever. Not bad but Em decided to make them herself. Wow, they turned out amazing. She made plain and walnut. I usually make cinnamon buns with cream cheese frosting. I like both (unfortunately) but I think I am leaning towards the walnut sticky buns. She really likes to bake. Eric likes to cook. When he took her out to a dinner to celebrate her job they decided to recreate some of the recipes. They made a whipped ricotta served with sourdough bread and a big bowl of salad with homemade Caesar dressing. It was very good. In fact Em has been taking Caesar salads with chicken for lunch. I need to change before I head out to get Em. Thinking of you, Mom.
Always your Oddie xo
Tiny
June 22, 2025
Morning Mom its early and already really warm out. I think the high will be 94 but with the heat index feeling close to 100. Yikes the next few days are going to be much hotter. We are suppose to have the caulk around our pool refinished tomorrow. It needs to be days without rain in the forecast in order for it to dry properly. I just can't imagine working out in it. Last night we went to a Phillies game and it was very humid. Eric meets us there. Mom Eric bought us tickets to see Rod and Stevie Nicks. Both are in smaller venues so that will be a lot of fun. Not much planned for today. I am going to run the sweeper. You really have to run the vacuum at least every other day with having a pet. Finn doesn't shed as crazy as some but in order to keep things tidy you have to do a quick once-over. Plus we try to brush him once a week. We just changed over his food to Farmers Dog. It is suppose to be a much healthier option for him. He will be 7 in July and even though he is pretty much still a puppy (or at least he thinks) his joints bother him especially after a day of swimming. Last week Em had her girlfriends here. Three of them are from out of state. They were going to their new townhouse to pick their bedrooms for the next school year. Mom crazy to think that Em is a quarter of the way done. You would get such a kick out of her. I say it all the time my Em is a force to be reckoned with. She is spunky, sassy, sweet, empathic just a really good person. You will be happy to know that she got a job at Christiana working as a patient escort. Its a perfect fit because they work around her school schedule. Her scrubs are black which she was like perfect I look decent in black. They told her on average she will walk 10-15 miles per shift. She says great cancel the gym membership lol. The woman who interviewed her said I am really impressed with your answers and the questions you asked of me. I can't wait to see her ID lol. I remember your badge. I forgot to tell Jeanne that me and Em went to Megan's school field day. Its a lot different from the field days I remember from the ones at Castle Hills(many moons ago) or even Eric and Emma's. But a women came up to me and asked who I was there with. I said Megan. She then went on to say do you want to hear a funny story? I said sure. She said when she 1st met Megan she thought she looked familiar. She couldn't figure out how. Then it clicked the donut shop. She had worked with Jeanne and thought Meg looked like her. At this point I never say well I am Jeanne's sister. I say yeah she does especially when she smiles and laughs which is pretty much always. I say her sister looks a lot like Jeanne and at this point she looks at Emma and says yes she does. I started to laugh and say oh thats not Brittany. I take off my sunglasses and say that is my daughter. I am Megan's aunt and Jeanne's sister. She was oh my god you all resemble each other. She then went on to say how much she loved Jeanne. I say no doubt she was a rockstar. Of course it made my day. Time to kick it in gear. I will talk soon.
Always your Oddie xo
Shell
June 5, 2025
Good Morning Mom. Sending Dad a heavenly birthday wish today. Let him know I´m thankful for every memory that he gave me. I think Frank, Jeanne and Suzanne favored a lot from Dad´s side. I´m going to have Suzanne send me Dad´s Army picture so I can have it enlarged and hang it by Ethan´s picture. Not that I need any more pictures hung on my wall...lol, but to look at and make me smile. I love you Mom and let Dad know I love him also please . Give Dad and everyone a hard hug and kiss for me. Miss the ol´ days. xo Always.
Shell
May 11, 2025
Happy Mother´s Day in heaven Mom. One of my least favorite. You´re not here to give flowers to , Jeanne´s not here to talk on the phone, and my Brad . Am I working today ? Of course. It´s going to be pretty busy and they´ll be plenty of families coming in large groups , some carrying vases of flowers and balloons for their Mom. Sweet. Majority , are always in a happy mood. After work, my friend invited me over to her house for dinner. I haven´t decided what to bring for desert yet, but it will be sweet. Right up my alley. Ok Mom, getting it in gear for a busy day . I love you and miss your smile. Always xo
Tiny
May 9, 2025
Hey Mom just having a hot tea just finished up straightening up. Its raining off and on. I was going to head over to Costco to pick up Finn's meds but I'll just wait until Monday. I usually don't shop on the weekends. We have a Phillies game on Monday so I'll go before I pick up Em. Its just about a week and a half before her first year is finished. Thinking back to the start of the year to now is just so wild. I never doubted that she would put the work in but adjusting to not being home took some getting use to. Now she is in her groove managing her time with school work, clubs, friends and all that goes into college life. Next year will be even more balancing with off campus living. Me and Tim will be happy to have her home for the summer. It took us some time to it being just the two of us. Mom its funny but thinking back of things you said and your different expressions you used I find myself using. One that comes to mind is "its not fun cooking for one" while its me and Tim it is different. Cooking a big dinner with meat, potatoes and some veggies seems like a chore and something quick is just easier. But one thing I won't do is not sit together and talk about our day or what is on the agenda for the week even if now its on a tv tray lol. I have been doing my flower pots. We had about 20 plants put in around the pool along with some sod. I am telling you the wasps, carpenter bees and stink bugs are all out in force ugh! I have already been stung on my hand. Wednesday at Willeys seniors above 60 get a discount and I am not quite there yet so Tim met me there. I know they maybe a little pricer but they have such a great selection. Plus you can always find someone to help you if needed. People are generally very friendly at garden centers. I can't tell you how many people both me and Tim striked up conversations with. Both Eric and Tim said its the Mom effect. I hope they mean that in a positive way lol. One woman had two flat bed carts with tons of plants. She said that her and husband will take their time putting them in. I said thats what we try to do a little each time we are out in the yard so that we stay on top of things. Another couple were adorable both dressed very nice and the man was talking about carpal tunnel with Tim. He was 82 years young. He was talking about the surgeon and his straight forward approach. Tim knew the doctor and told him that he is very good and the man said "oh most definitely. I don't like to speak ill of someone but you know of his mannerisms." Too funny I love the old school expressions. I think tonight we will have leftovers and clean out the frig. I made a strawberry shortcake yesterday but we were stuffed after dinner so we never even cut it. I'm going to look for a show to watch. I enjoy Dateline but Tim thinks it drags on for a couple hours so he refuses to watch it lol. Tomorrow night on Lifetime is a documentary on the Judds I may watch that. Brit sent me a pic of Drew and it cracks me up but she has your hair well definitely the color. It makes me smile. I miss you Mom and I know that you know I think of you often. I'll talk soon
Always your Oddie xo
Shell
April 20, 2025
Good Morning Mom. Happy Easter in heaven with everyone. I´m sorry I have not been up, but I will be coming soon. There are a couple of things I need to take care of and a week day works best for me. I´ll be up early waiting for the gates to open probably. If I don´t , obviously it won´t. Gosh I miss sitting at the kitchen table , looking over at you with your hand on your chin, listening to me. And then , when I´m done talking you would put your arm down and lean in and tell me your scope in it. Tell me Mom. Come visit me in my sleep. Suzanne had a nice visit with Jeanne and Tiny. If´s been awhile . Well, again Happy Easter Mom xo
Tiny
January 28, 2025
Morning Mom we just got back after 11 days in London and Paris. Originally, the trip was going to be just Eric and Emma but, Eric really wanted to plan a family trip for the 4 of us. He arranged everything from the flights, train rides, tours and dinner reservations. We packed a ton into our vacation but we didn't cover a quarter of the many things there is to see. The London taxis were fun. One day we had a pink one and of course it was perfect for cute pics. The buildings were incredible with the churches being my favorite. Westminster Abbey and Notre Dame were beautiful. Montmartre a district in Paris was fun. Tons of quaint cobblestone streets lined with cafes and patisseries. We ate our share of baguettes and croissants. Me and Em wanted to go to the Notting Hill bookstore in London. The namesake is one of our favorite movies. Em got the book Emma hand stamped with their logo. It was very nice trip and we are glad we got to see it together. Even the plane rides didn't bother me smooth take-offs and landings. We were delayed leaving from Philly because of ice so that took about an hour and then we were on our way. I watched 2 movies each way and we all managed to get some sleep on the flight home. One movie was Roman Holiday one of my favorites and fitting since just being in Europe. I have just about all the laundry done and the suitcases wiped down. Today I need to go to the grocery store and believe it or not put away the Christmas trees. I know its up longer than normal but I have never been one to race to take it all down. I love having the tree lights be the only lights on. Not sure whats for dinner maybe I'll see if sleeping beauty wants to tag along. Let get my butt in gear and take a quick shower. Talk soon.
Love your Oddie xo
Shell
December 27, 2024
Good Morning Mom. First off, let me apologize for saying Happy Belated Birthday. I´ve started to wish you a Happy Birthday three times. The first two times I dropped my phone, I go to pick it up it´s in the middle of the conversation with you and I have to start all over again.I don´t know how to fix that. Ethan would always help me with my phone when J didn´t know how to do something. Annoying. Third time, I had taken my medicine and wa-la, I fell asleep.I´ve had a head cold all week and have not really felt up to par.I told myself, no Shell, you´ve got to work and bake cookies this week. I´d come home tired , but made myself bake. I would wait to take my medicine until after I finished my baking each night.Which, I´m suppose to take it at a certain time, but it kicks in and I´m no good. Work has been busy, and with this cold, by Christmas Morning I felt like a was run over by a bus.I was so happy to be off. Willow of course went out real quick in the wee hours, but our usual 6:30 -7:00 walk didn´t happen until 11:30. It took me all morning to regroup. I was so tired. I said Shell, throw a chuck roast in the crockpot and have vegetables later. Stay in your recliner and do nothing but watch old Christmas movies.( of course my coffee) It was a rare day for me. Doing nothing and not getting in my car to run errands. I felt like I had a real day off. I needed to slow down and stay put Mom. lol.Most of the time, if I sit to long, I start getting bored or antsy to do something. I start looking around. I needed to just chill in my recliner. Now today, I have tons of laundry waiting for me. I´ll be there by 7:00am to knock it out.I actually like going to the laundry Mom. I find it relaxing. I´m not in a rush and I do those find -a-word books. Time flies. When I get back I plan on making a couple more loaves of banana bread and some white chocolate chip and cranberry cookies. Next week, I´ll have my work friends over for dinner. I´m making my own meat sauce and having baked ziti, salad with goat cheese and vinegarette dressing and cheesecake for dessert. I hardly cook anymore Mom. Suzanne eats different than I , so most of the time, I´ll just eat breakfast at work or if I´m running a little early, I´ll hit McD´s drive thru. I love breakfast. They are suppose to be building a WaWa by me soon and I love their sausage, egg white w/cheese on a bagel. Yup. Two please and thank you. lol. I´m looking forward on making dinner for my friends. With Ethan not here, it´s so different. I re-did his bedroom. It looks so different. I haven´t sent him pictures yet, because I´m not sure if he´ll be home before he goes to California and Poland, but I want to surprise him. We´ll see I guess. I wish Jaz lived closer. Baby Jace is a juice and I want to hold him all the time. He´s such a good baby Mom and Jaz is such a good doting mother. That girl has smiled from ear to ear since having Jace. Motherhood fits her well. Mom,I love you. Can you do me a favor? Dad and Little Nanny visited me last night. Let them know it made me feel good, because I haven´t gotten a visit from anyone in awhile. It was a nice surprise. Well Mom, right now I need to force down two bottles of water. I have a bad muscle cramp in my left inner thigh and it hurts. If there is one thing that Suzanne does faithfully, is drinking her bottled water. On point. Me, nope. I´m so bad at it. I don´t like drinking it. Suzanne asks me, "How can you not drink water?" At work coffee, ice tea,orange juice. I know. Maybe I´ll make that one of my New Year´s resolutions. Drink water Shell so you don´t get muscle cramps and wobble and limp to get a bottled water because it woke you up. I´m going on and on this morning Mom. I miss sitting next to you and seeing you smile at me. Well, let me chug these two bottles down while I wait to load my car up. Oh, before I forget, let Brad know that Jace wore his white turtle neck and sweater for Christmas. Yes Mom, when Jaz came up I told her to go through one of my plastic bins in the closet and look for anything that would fit Jace right now. Somethings, you just put away for later. Adorable . He looked. so cute in it. I have a picture of Brad wearing that sweater. Well, give everyone a hard hug and kiss for me Mom. I love you all and look at each of you everyday. xo Happy Be-lated Birthday Mom xo Love, Shell
Tiny
December 26, 2024
Happy Birthday, Mom! We would be getting back together today to have some dinner and a cake. I miss that... all of that. We would give you some new sweatshirts, some nightgowns and slippers remember the Daniel Green ones. I am pretty sure you called them your scuffs with a little wedge heel with just the right amount hanging over the back lol. Em loves her sweatshirts and she has some of yours. She just wore the navy one with a decorated tree on it. We went up to Chubby's for dinner. It was very good and Bell was a big help with both the dinner and clean up. Christmas Eve we drove around to look at the lights. We even took Finn along. He had his head out the window resting on the door. He doesn't seem to mind the temps in the 20s lol. We came back home and watched some movies and then everyone went up to bed. I was the last one up and I told both Eric and Em that they needed to come in my room so that we could read 'Twas the night before Christmas. We pile on my bed every year to read. Its one of my favorite traditions that we do. Tim always reminds me once you skip something people tend to forget it and the tradition is lost. Em constantly is asking how did you do this or that. Sometimes I answer begrudgingly for no real reason. I need to not do that because thats what she will remember. Sharing memories and making new ones is just what matters the most. Its the biggest gift that you can give. Each day one sneaks in maybe in a song, a movie that we liked, looking out the window into the backyard, the bowl of nightly ice cream, and sometimes I see it in Em's eyes. Mom she has twinkly eyes like you. Oh my you would have gotten a kick out of her. She's got some spunk like Bell lol. I know that you enjoyed taking it all in. You know the expression "don't miss a trick" lol thats me too. I miss you, Mom.
Always your Oddie xo
Shell
December 25, 2024
Merry Christmas Mom. xo Love, Shell
Tiny
December 15, 2024
Good morning Mom I am sitting at the kitchen table having a tea. Tim is cleaning out the file cabinet and doing some shredding. We had something easy for breakfast. Tim had some Eggos and I had pancakes from Trader Joe's. They are pretty good. Fluffy griddle cakes that you just pop into the toaster. I need to do my Costco run and my Shoprite shopping. Em is finishing her last exam today 11:30-1:30. We are going down tonight to pick her up. Her roommates have their last exam tomorrow. Everyone needs to be out by tomorrow night. One semester down 7 to go. It will be nice having her home. We will do some baking and plenty of time catching up on cheesy movies. I know she wants to rewatch Roman Holiday with Gregory Peck. She just told me that they share the same birthday. She thinks he is so handsome lol. The tiny theatre by me is playing It's a Wonderful Life. We may go see it. I think it would be cool to see it on the big screen. Its a quaint theatre with an old school vibe. Today is a big game for the Eagles. They play the Steelers at 4:25. A big Pennsylvania rivalry. Most of the season it has just been me, Tim and Finn watching. Ideally I know Tim would like to watch with some bigger fans but he hasn't let that on to me. We have the net Christmas lights on the shrubs out front. Each year without fail we need to replace one or two. Well Tim put 2 new ones on the larger bush. The other night we had noticed the one side was completely out. He took it off to look at in the garage and there were complete cuts in several wires. This happened last year too. I looked it up online and I read that more than likely the culprit is squirrels or rabbits. I had some gnaw marks in my pumpkins this year. I would go out to grab a package off the step and wonder why there would be bits of pumpkin here and there. Now it makes sense. I looked up to find some deterrents. Apple cider vinegar, cayenne pepper, blood meal and even human hair. I know we have squirrels in the pin oak tree in the backyard. I'm thinking rabbits since I have noticed them more in the front close to the landscaping. I am changing the bed linens. I put Em's flannel sheets with red trucks on her bed. Always a great nights sleep with fresh sheets. Just need to run the sweeper in her room and dust off the dressers. Tim says I crack him up that things have to be just so when the kids are home. Just how I am wired I guess. He knows this and I know secretly he likes it too. Let me kick butt (one of your expressions) and knock out some chores before the game. I love you Mom.
Always your Oddie xo
Tiny
October 15, 2024
Morning Mom well I did it I turned off the ac. It doesn't kick on unless it gets above 72 inside. But the week ahead is beautiful fall temps so its time. In fact I brought 4 of my flower pots inside the garage last night. The temps were dipping down into the 40s. My 2 geraniums are still full and blooming and the red looks nice with my pumpkins on the front steps. I have a petunia pot with rust and a muted yellow flowers and the gardenia on my deck. All of them are still pretty healthy but I think the frost would have done them in. I do have two larger pots out back on the patio that are just big to move. Surprisingly, they are still producing new growth. The bigger one I planted a prince tut grass in the center along with Diamond Frost and yellow supertunias. It looks like a little palm tree or thats what I am saying lol. I will definitely plant that again next year. The other has petunias, verbena and ivy. Each year I say that I am not planting the petunias but the color selection gets me every time. They just get so leggy but this year I made a conscious effort to keep it clipped. It seemed to help. Thats the only part of the fall and winter months that I am not crazy about that the plants go dormant with the chilly temps and less sunlight. I guess its the same effect how people get the blues when the days get shorter:( Tim just reminded Em to get some sunshine at least 15 minutes a day to wash out the toxins and impurities and help release positive endorphins. Mom my baby is 2 months into school. I get a kick out of her calling and going over class notes with Tim. Maybe not when its past 9 though lol. We just watched a couple of shows on Netflix. The movie Dark Waters which was based on chemicals being released into the water in West Virginia and the legal ongoing battle. The other was A Man in Full which didn't get great reviews on rotten tomatoes but we ended up really liking. So I am 2 for 2 so now Tim gets to pick. Last night he said he found a WW2 movie. I told him that might be for him and Eric. So we went back and forth watching The Voice and Monday night football. I told him do not even think about putting on any baseball. I am just sad that the Phillies lost. Now we wait along with everyone else for a refund of all the playoff games we bought in advance. Ok well I got to switch over the laundry and clean the bathrooms. I will talk soon.
Always your Oddie xo
Tiny
September 27, 2024
Hi Mom sitting on the porch listening to the rain. It has been relatively dry so it is much needed. The past few weeks we haven't needed our lawn cut. Yesterday, we had our pool closed it always is a somber to say goodbye to summer and the lazy pool days. It really hits Finn. He has the most fun in his pool. I probably will go out and pull the weeds that grow up through the flower bed rocks. It is so much easier after the rain. My geraniums are still in full bloom and the spikes are probably the tallest I have grown. In fact my perennials are still doing surprisingly well considering that we had one of the hottest summers in sometime. My coneflowers are my favorite but I love salvias too. Mom remember the gardenias I had planted on the side? Well I have one in a pot on my deck I think I may bring that in and see if I have luck with it next year. Heck maybe I will bring the geraniums in too. Its worth a shot. This weekend is Family and Friends at UD. We are tailgating at the football game. Different families are bringing stuff. I am bringing a pretzel rivet tray and lemonade from Chick-fil-a. Since the last time I wrote Eric had to have his appendix out. It was sudden but the surgeon said it was a good thing that he listened to his body and came to the ER cause things could have been much worse. He said that it was horrible stomach pain. But thankfully he is feeling much better. Mom the road runner even knew the nurse anesthetist lol. Mom the house is quiet and I get when you would say its no fun cooking for one. I try to cook a regular meal with a meat, potato and veggies at least 4 nights a week. But I need to buy smaller cuts of meat. I don't like to throw stuff away. We really don't order or go out to eat. They have a frozen pizza at Costco we like called Motor City or I will air fry chicken tenders and fries. I have had baked sweet potatoes and regular ones for Tim. Baked potatoes remind me of you. Funny huh? I just can clearly remember there being so many potatoes wrapped in tin foil in the oven. Just like ginger snaps, pretzels in the jar on the counter. Ice tea boiling on the stove. Definitely where my love of a nice glass of tea started. Same with hot tea. Me and Em both love to share a cup of tea. I wasn't a big fan of black licorice, liverwurst, and spanish loaf cake but I remember those too ha. Probably now that I am older I might eat the loaf but raisins have never been a favorite. I still can not eat beans in chili...nope! I have the radio on in the background and guess what song is on? Sweet Home Alabama by Lynyrd Skynyrd cracks me up that it reminds me of you. Dancing in the front room to the record playing. I think its the night I had to pick everyone up from the Castle Pub. I think there are pictures of that night with you in a headband. Mom I am pretty sure I am the age that you are in those pics. Wow! Em just told me that a bunch of them were in the lounge and they were talking music and someone didn't know Rod Stewart. She said "are you kidding me?" Not raised right lol. I am glad that both Em and Eric like a variety of music but really lean on the older music. Not sure what Tim is doing for the Eagle game on Sunday. I may make a pot of stew and a pumpkin crumb bread with a maple drizzle. Well let me go fold a load of laundry. I'll talk soon.
Always your Oddie xo
Tiny
September 10, 2024
Hi Mom today is a heavy day. I am not feeling that great. Tim had a cold and of course he passed it along. Its just a nagging head cold. Enough to make you miserable. Mom Em moved into her dorm and the house is just so quiet. We are all adjusting. You know Eric and Em were like only children in a way with the big age gap. So it hits you in such a big way. It may take her longer than Eric with adapting to all the new changes. I told her its like she is stuck in between two worlds one that is everything she knows and the other filled with tons of brand new choices and responsibilities. Both scary and exciting. So we have had some late night calls and FaceTiming to help. She is close enough for us to meet up for a lunch or dinner. She has 2 roommates and they really have settled in nicely. I really try to encourage Em to balance her classwork, friends and me time. She is most definitely a type A personality so allowing herself time to reset is so important. We are going to a Phillies game on Saturday so I am looking forward to seeing both Eric and Em. The days are long but the years are short is so true. Its like how in the world do I have a 28 and 18 year old. But I close my eyes and my mind is filled with so many moments big/little, happy/sad but all of it centered around family. Mom you remember Stephanie she recently lost her mom. She reached out to me about how she was dealing with her grief. We are planning on getting together. I am not sure if that will happen or not but I extended the invite. The weather is changing and for the past few weeks the temps have been very nice. Our pool is still open and we scheduled the closing for later this month. Tomorrow we are having our driveway sealed. Then just some fall yard cleanup and some pruning of the shrubs. The one bush alongside the house is pretty tall so Eric may need to do that. I used to do it but I am no longer a spring chicken. I enjoy doing the smaller shrubs so I'll stick with those. I am making chicken alfredo for dinner. Its true how cooking for a smaller crew is not as much fun. I find myself in between throwing something quick in the oven or breakfast for dinner. Neither great choices. I think I am going to make a pot of chili and that way I can freeze some. I did make my 1st soup of the season...potato. I do love soup and stew. Heck maybe I will make a meatloaf. Em is not a fan so I will do that when she isn't home. I wasn't a big fan when I was younger either. Now I love it with either red sauce or brown gravy. And you know I have to have corn still my favorite. I am making lemon loaf for Tim to have for work. Em is my little baker so he is missing his treats lol. I miss you Mom. Boy how I miss seeing your twinkly eyes.
Always your Oddie xo
Shell
September 10, 2024
Good Morning Mom. As I get older, some things I can´t remember in a conversation. But, when God decided it was your time to be with him and our loved ones , I can remember everything that day. I have been told that I resemble you or I´m a junior in my actions from you. What a compliment that is to be told that. It makes me smile Mom. I love you Mom and proud to be like you in certain ways. Heck, I can remember Grandpop Parent calling me Marianne when we would visit him in Pa. I´m not sure how old I was, but I would think to myself, my name is Shelly, why does he pat me on the head , smoking his pipe , smiling calling me Marianne? I miss you Mom. I miss you saying Hi Shell , on the phone or in person. But, I can still remember your voice. I still give you flowers Mom, but in a different way now. I have a vase of flowers on my buffett with your picture , Dad, Brad , Jeanne, Frank and Little Nanny. That´s my way of making sure you have flowers. Always Mom, Love Shell xo
Shell
August 17, 2024
Good Morning Mom, I have a little spring in my step today. I got a surprise last night . My grandson was able to have his phone and wish me a Happy Birthday. No text Mom. An actual phone call , where I heard his voice . Lol. I woke up not feeling up to par, and I had a lot of laundry waiting for me. Plus, I had a hair appt. first thing in the morning and J wanted to cancel and reschedule, but I didn´t have the heart because I was her first client. Took my shower , it helped and went with it in third gear. But to have my day end hearing Ethan´s voice was a complete surprise. I feel a little better now knowing he remembered. I love you Mom. Give everyone a hard hug and kiss for me please. xo Now, I´m going to go get ready for work. ( With more spring in my step) His phone call made my heart happy. Always Mom xo
Tiny
July 8, 2024
Morning Mom I just came in from watering my plants and putting up the umbrellas. Man its already stifling outside. I have all the blinds drawn to help keep the house cool. My geraniums are nice and full. I have 2 huge planters out back with mini superbells that are doing very well. Gardening takes lots of patience and money lol. Sometimes no matter what you do things just don't take or you just wait to see if next year they take. Mom Em graduated and she received many awards. The senior advisors read each graduates bios. Em talked about her 15 years at Caravel along with her future plans. She blew Tim a kiss when they read she plans to be a nurse anesthetist like her dad. She has tons to do before she starts school at the end of August. Her scrubs and shoes came. Crazy I look at her little face and wonder how fast the time has passed. I think she is ready but me and Tim are not. I know Finn will be sad that his Sissy isn't down the hallway. So we have been ordering and shopping for things for her dorm. Totally different then when Eric moved in. Girls just have so much stuff lol. She is in the same dorm as Eric was his freshman year. We were home for the holiday weekend. Did dinners on the grill and hung out in the pool. Finn only has limited time outside. Its way too hot and he even walks to the pool fence to be dried off and goes right in. The concrete is blazing and its hot for his paws. I am not sure what we are having for dinner. Mom its so hard figuring out dinner each night. There are only so many things to put on the "diner rotation". Tomorrow night we are going to a Phillies game. We bought a mini plan a 4 pack with 14 games and preferred parking. We love our Phils! I am watching two tv shows. I am watching Breaking Bad with Tim and White Collar with Em. Neither is new but I really like both of them. The actor in White Collar is very handsome. I asked Em if she thought so? She raised her eyebow and gave me a little smirk and said "hello he is gorgeous!" I was just checking cause if she said no I would be taking her for a vision test lol. Well, Mom I am going to go clean the powder room and straighten up. I miss you Mom.
Always your Oddie xo
Shell
July 6, 2024
Good Morning Mom.I would love to be sitting next to you. Just to know that your listening to me would be great. I would be doing all the talking and of course , an occasional question. To see you just look at me and smile would do my heart good. I have so much to say to you. And I know that you would let me know why I feel the way I do.I love you Mom. I miss you all with all my heart. Give everyone a hard kiss and hug for me please. To smile like you with seven and keeping it going. I have to get ready for work now Mom. Always, xo
Tiny
May 21, 2024
Morning Mom sitting here having a tea. Its Emma's last week of high school. I can feel myself filling with so many different emotions. Each day we laugh and say "its my last Monday or last AP chem test" and it stirs something in me. I know its the same for Em. She really has had a great 4 years of high school. She was voted by her class as most spirited, best smile and most likely to be president for the senior superlatives. Pretty good, huh? In her AP Pysch class they discussed the choices and their meaning. Most of which are light hearted and in the moment. They all agreed "most improved" maybe a backhanded compliment. One boy told Em he would say most well-rounded for her. He said you were cheer captain, President of the student body, played varsity golf and both teachers and classmates like you. She was too funny when she was telling me this. She said I was like "do tell. Go on!" Lol. I am glad she was as involved as she was. Sure there were moments of am I overloading myself and doubting her ability but she just managed her time. I know she has some fear over the many changes that college brings but she is excited. I think she is ready for her next chapter. I guess me and Tim will catch up. One of my Facebook friends had a post with her sons last packed lunch. I knew exactly how she was feeling. I just think how clearly I remember her being so little and now they are 18 and graduating. I am going to head over to the florist to pick up some flowers for her chemistry teacher. They collected from the class and are giving her some gift cards along with a card. Em wrote the note to her. Its a tough class but Em told her she only hopes to have a teacher that both inspires and engages her in college. So tonight Em will clean out her closet and bag up all of her school shirts and take them to school tomorrow. They do a resale of uniforms and the proceeds go to the music department. We probably will keep one of them. I also have a school jumper;) 23 years at Caravel whew that is awhile. Ok I got to get myself together and kick it in gear. I need to finish up my side flower beds. I have a salvia I need to get in the ground and put out my American flag buntings on the deck. Crazy to think this weekend is Memorial Day. The pool is open and we just need to get the chemicals balanced. Finn will be making the opening splash soon lol. Love you Mom
Always your Oddie xo
Tiny
May 12, 2024
Happy Mother's Day, Mom! Just spending the day hanging out at home. Eric came home yesterday. I did some yard work. Em helped me. I had to trim up my weigela on the side of the house. They have already had their first bloom. I needed to trim them back because I have some daylilies planted in the same bed and they need more sun. I do need to put new mulch in my 4 side beds. I did churn up the old mulch. I might put in a few perennials. They are my favorite. But man doing work in the yard is getting tougher. The aches and pain catch up on you. I broke out the heating pad last night. Eric is making dinner tonight. He is doing his garlic parmesan chicken dish. I think they are making sundaes for dessert. Mom, we got some new windows. We didn't do the whole house. Just the bedrooms and the family room. The family room was a beast. I did not watch them take or put that one in. Nope no way. The scaffolding inside and out made me nervous. I am glad thats done. Summer is just around the corner. We haven't opened the pool yet. Tim had wrist surgery and it has been bothering him. At first he thought maybe it was rheumatoid arthritis but he had a doctor at work look at it. He thought he has some edema in it. He told him to massage it from his wrist to in between his thumb and pointer finger. Also to alternate heat and ice and ibuprofen. You know Mom he isn't one to let grass grow under his feet. So this is hard for him to be slowed down. I am going to have a cup of tea. I am glad Em likes to have a cup with me. I remember sharing a cup with you. I miss ya Momma. Its a tough day but you laid a strong foundation. All that I am or hope to be is because of you.
Always your Oddie xo
Suzanne
May 12, 2024
Happy Mothers Day Mama! Love and miss you immensely. Please give everyone a kiss and hug from me.
Shell
May 12, 2024
Good Morning Mom.Sending you a hard hug and kiss . Happy Mother´s day inHeaven. Mom, sometimes when I don´t think I can, I think of you. Then I can.I love you Mom. Sure wish I could make my phone call to you today and hear your voice. Having my last cup of coffee before I get ready for work. My least favorite holiday. It´s just a reminder to me of something else I don´t have. It will be busy at work, so that makes the day go fast. Keeping it going Mom.Give everyone a hard hug and kiss for me. xo
Tiny
April 25, 2024
Morning Mom just sitting here with my cup of tea. I just threw in a load of laundry. I am not sure where it all comes from. Well I do its mainly from Emma. She can rip threw some clothes in a 24 hour period not to mention a few towels. Mom she just turned 18. Hard to believe. Last Friday was her senior prom. Tons of running around, some tears but in the end Em looked amazing and had a great time with her friends. Today she is doing Special Olympics with school. She got up earlier to put her hair in french braids. Em has pretty hair but I especially like it pulled away from her face. I love seeing her little face;) Well its decided she will be a Blue Hen for college majoring in nursing. She had some other offers but I am super excited that she is staying close. Mom I say it all the time but I am very lucky with both Eric and Emma. Just the other day Em had a golf match. Her game is ok. She knows if she would have put in more work it would have been better. But she is always paired against the opposing sides top golfers usually guys. The other day the two guys were very good but Em said they would throw their clubs and curse a lot. She said I wanted to say I am kind of embarrassed for you. She even said their parents were there. She said one of their coaches said "don't let those boys get in your head, take your best shot." He even told her coach that Emma was a very nice young woman and enjoyed watching her. Mom that right there is exactly what I mean when I say I am lucky. Its when someone tells me that they are good kids that I think maybe me and Tim had some small part in that. I can talk for days on her personality and smile. She is too funny she is taking a guitar class. She and 2 other girls had to play and sing a song. She chose Brown Eyed Girl. Em said Mom I can't play the guitar or sing lol. But she said one of the girls can "low key sing" so we should be fine. Well, she came home and said that she basically did a solo. She was like we followed a group that basically sounded like they should be played on the radio so there's that. She sang a bit for me and did a little air guitar. I told her I thought it was original and I like the twang she put on it. We laughed and she said I got through it. I said thats all you got to do. She said to me and Tim just the other night "Do you think we would have been friends if we grew up together?" I said sure and then Tim was like "what baby?" I gave him a look like let me wait for his response. He said "of course and she said I think so too." I am not sure if me and Tim would have been lol but thats one of things I love about Em my girl is just that girl. Her energy and vibe makes people comfortable. So more than likely they would have been friends ha. Its chilly today so I am just busying around the house. I really am antsy to plant but these temps are too up and down. They say a rule of thumb is to wait until after Mother's Day. Not sure whats on the agenda for this weekend. Em has her senior banquet and she is giving a speech on being a Caravel original and the importance of being actively involved in school. The Peoples Family host the dinner. Its a tradition at school. I need to look for a show that me and Tim can start to watch on tv. Lately there hasn't been anything that great on. Well Mom I am going to get myself in gear. Miss you. I'll talk soon.
Always your Oddie xo
Shell
April 17, 2024
Good Morning Mom. Sitting here in the wee hours having my coffee, very quiet. My favorite time. Alone. I miss you Mom. I tell you often. There are so many questions I want to ask you and I can´t. Seven children. Amazing Mom. Of course Dad and Little Nana were a big help. It was not easy ,down the road at times, when you were by yourself, with all of us, but you did it. I can still see you in the kitchen, wearing a sweat shirt, filling the teapot with water to makes us a cup of hot tea, sitting at the kitchen table, you offering to make me a sandwich, or cookies from the cookie jar. And then we would have our talk. I was able to let you know what was going on with me. I felt better after our talks. I never left you empty handied. You were such a giving person.Sometimes I would leave with a good months supply of the latest magazines to read. I loved that Mom. I found an old receipt of yours the other day . On the front , Pizza, one topping $9.99. On the back, you wrote...walked to Super Fresh. Wanted to get Tylenol on sale. Great walk. Mom, I love it. I want to be like you Mom. You want it? Put one foot in front of the other and just do it. You kept yourself up, I honestly don´t remember seeing gray. Hair always cut. I hope to always be that way to Mom. I´m having a moment , where I want to be looking across the kitchen table at you. I want to ask you, how, how did you do it? I guess with more than one child, your attention was always drawn in different directions which was a good thing not being able to only dwell on one. I love you Mom. It would be great if you visited me in my dream. I dreamt of Little Nana last week. Now, waiting on you. I sure could use a Marianne talk. Looking for some spring in my step, but it´s not there. Sending you a kiss and a hard hug Mom. Let everyone know that not a day goes by, and let my Brad know Ethan wore his hoodie to have his picture taken when he was at the DMV. Love, Shell xo
Shell
March 31, 2024
Happy Easter Mom. I think this will be my last Easter to work. It´s one of our slower holidays and I´d rather be off. I wrote you about a month ago , but it didn´t post. Not sure why. I love you Mom and miss talking to you. Always, Shell xo
Tiny
March 13, 2024
Morning Mom Em just left for school. She is off Friday and tomorrow its senior skip day. So thats good having a nice 4 day weekend. Its been raining a ton. Our backyard has a bunch of twigs lying on the ground and in between the rain I got a lot of them up. I think Tim is going to have someone mow and trim the grass this year. I guess we will see how that goes. You know how that is...you get use to how you do things and its hard if they aren't how you like them. I went to Costco yesterday. There wasn't much I needed but I managed to spend just under two. Mom prices are extremely high and just like anything else the root is political. Hmm could it be that big corporations are getting the money so why lower the price and profit? Who knows! So I shop smart and wait for the sales. Someone taught me that and more;) I am doing a roast tonight with carrots and potatoes. I probably should have paid more attention to your gravy making skills lol. But Tim usually takes care of the gravy. Yesterday the temps were in the high 60s so we grilled burgers. I even made deviled eggs and a strawberry shortcake. Its a favorite of Tim's with the homemade whipped cream. I bought a big carton of berries at Costco. Strawberries are Em's favorite. This year I plan on going back to Filasky's to pick them. I like their little farm. Em started back up with golf and she has a new coach. I am hoping she relaxes and enjoys the game. They play against some schools that their starters are boys who are taller and bigger which brings strength. So Em plays against them and that defeats her. Golf is a mental game and she needs to focus on not allowing one bad shot to predict the next. That is what makes golf so hard. But I am proud that she sticks with it and has follow through. I am getting excited for spring and summer weather and getting my pots and flowers planted. Easter is in less than 2 weeks. We are having it at Chubby's. I think its been decided we are doing a brunch. Chubby is still working out the menu and time. We still dye eggs and I make up baskets. Mom I still have your coconut creme egg in my frig. You always put those in our baskets. I loved the little confectioner sugar flower on top in those little window boxes. You would add some grass too. Getting the big chocolate bunny is one of my favorite memories. Maybe I will go to the Middletown farmers market and check out their selection of Ashers Easter candy. I bought a few things the other day. I really don't need much more. Everyone knows I usually have some kind of chocolate in the house. I need to round up a load of wash and clean my bathroom. I just wanted to say hi. Love you Mom.
Always your Oddie xo
Tiny
February 12, 2024
Hi Mom its Monday and we watched the super bowl. I was underwhelmed. I know last year was different with the Eagles in it. I really wasn't wowed by the singers either while I like them enough I wouldn't say they did a great job. Not sure how popular my opinion is but female artists just are that much better and they have to prove it over and over. Guess what they do too. I would love to see Kelly Clarkson do the halftime show. One of my recent favorites was Lady Gaga. Sure some aren't fond of her outfits but no one can argue that her vocals aren't crazy good. She is a true performer. So Momma my Em got accepted into University of Delaware's nursing program. It is her first choice and she received other acceptances too. You know I was grateful that she wanted to go to UD. Its away from home and she will become independent. But close enough for us to see each as often as time allows. Their nursing is pretty competitive but Em is a well rounded student. So I have another Hen. Eric is excited for Em. Once Em turns 18 in April she will shadow Tim again in the OR. Mom my Babygirl turning 18, graduating, going to nursing school brings all kinds of feelings. Tonight we are just having leftovers. I have a lot of roast beef and half a pan of Mac n cheese. Tomorrow is suppose to be a rainy day. I think I will just hang at home and straighten up my seasonal boxes in the basement. Me and Em went through my linen closets and I had 3 bags of sheets and towels. I dropped them off at Willeys. They are collecting for area animal rescues. Em also went through her 2 dressers and I had a few bags of clothes to donate. She needs to go through the spare room since she also has a dresser and closet of stuff in there. Not much on regular tv lately. So me and Tim have been watching the Sopranos. Me and Em have been watching rom-com movies. We both loved Notting Hill. Over the weekend me, Em and Eric watched Roman Holiday with Audrey Hepburn and Gregory Peck. Both Eric and Em said that they couldn't believe it was released 70 years ago. Em thinks Gregory Peck was very handsome lol. Well Mom I am going to put Action News on before we sit down for dinner. You know how much I love my Action News;) Miss you Momma
Always your Oddie xo
Tiny
January 26, 2024
Hi Mom I am sitting here I have some clothes drying and I am making some homemade cinnamon buns. I just rolled them out and added the filling. They now have to proof for a second time. The last time I followed a different recipe. Each are similar in ingredients but the last one didn't require yeast or proofing. I can't remember which I prefer. We had some snow in the past 2 weeks while its very pretty to look at shoveling is another story. The 2nd snowfall was enough to use the snowblower. Thank god but there was some ice underneath from the first time it snowed. Plus some freezing rain. I was glad that Em had 2 snow days. It was the same week of her midterms so they were all pushed back. We had Christmas at home just the 4 of us. We were all going to Chubby's but both Bella and Megan were sick. So we decided to get together after the New Year. Unfortunately 507 was down for the count with some sort of intestinal bug from Christmas through the New Year and we all got it after being together at Chubby's. Man it was horrible. Em had her midterms and Eric had court and you were just to weak to walk or even stand. Ugh all I can say is Tim took amazing care of all of us. I had all of my Christmas ornaments and decorations packed away but Wednesday Eric came home to pack up the trees. Mom when you are growing up and you notice a change in your parent a lightbulb goes off and you think will I do that? How will I be at that age and here I am. Lucky I know to be here but it sneaks up on you. So its all about listening to your body. I have to remind the road runner and you know that is hard for him since he runs on high-octane lol. I made a chicken pot pie last week and when Eric was home the other night we had lasagna. Both we haven't had in awhile. It is hard to switch things up for dinner. One good thing is Emma is not as picky. That helps. Should be some good football on this weekend.The winners will play in the super bowl. The Eagles looked so good and then the bottom fell out on their season. Not sure who we are rooting for. Maybe Detroit since its been a long time for them. Hoping the commercials are good during the super bowl but not sure about the halftime show. Its fun to watch and have snacks. Well Mom I wanted to pop on and say hi. I need to make the cream cheese frosting. Tim just texted to say he is on his way home. I will talk soon. Miss you Momma.
Always your Oddie xo
Shell
December 29, 2023
Good Morning Mom. I sure do miss talking to you. A new year is right around the corner and I hope it gets better for me. I thank God that he gives me another day to do my routine, but J have to admit some days I feel 100 yrs old. lol. Not everyday, just sometimes. I´m aiming to get two charge cards paid off and I´ll be able to have another day off. Yaaay. A day for "Me". I´ve put weight on, so I´m going to start walking again. I miss going to the gym. I´ve thought about it and it´s going to be easier for me to plan a walk. To be honest, if I had the room, I would get a treadmill. Love walking on the treadmill. I remember when you use to walk.I can´t believe you walked to New Castle before. I get it though. lol. It´s early morning, and just finished cleaning my bathroom downstairs. I timed myself. Half hour Mom. Just a half hour. Most of the time, when I need something done, I need to do it early morning when I have the most energy. I don´t have to tell you that though. If I could go back in time, and just follow you around .....I love you Mom. I miss you. I miss seeing your face and hearing your voice. I want to ask you questions and I can´t. I´m having a moment , it is what it is. My kitchen floor is calling me, lol. Onward bound man. Get er done. Some say I resemble you, which makes me smile. I love my Mom. If I could have half of your gusto that would make me smile to. Well, my break is over, coffee drank, Willow ok for now, looking at my Christmas tree, thinking .....I might keep my small one up and decorate it for each holiday. Lol. Why not. What the heck. Give everyone a hard hug and kiss for me please. Doing my solo real soon.xo
Shell
December 26, 2023
Good Morning Mom. Happy Birthday in heaven. xo
Suzanne
December 26, 2023
Happy Birthday Mama. Love and Miss you immensely! Love you Suzanne xxxooo
Tiny
December 24, 2023
Morning Mom I am just sitting enjoying a hot tea. Eric called to say that he was leaving and headed to see one of his friends from Caravel. Its his friend that we all went to her wedding in South Carolina. She is up visiting family for Christmas. I just marinaded some chicken for tacos for dinner. One of Em's favorites. Tim is still sleeping. He picked up his day off this week. They are short staffed just about everywhere. Not much on the agenda for today. I took out my butter to soften up for my cookies. Em went to a party last Sunday with her friends from school. They did it ahead of break because some families travel during the school break. They exchanged a white elephant gift and wore Christmas pjs. Em took a tin of homemade cookies. She said they were the hit of the party lol. So I am hoping the next batches turn out the same. Yesterday we got up early and dropped her car off for its 1st service appointment. Of coarse the salesmen were heckling us about trading her car in. First off I am so not the one to talk sales with lol. The whole process I find annoying. The time back and forth negotiating on trade in, rates, hemming and hawing that they aren't making a profit lol I could go on and on. Tim thrives on this. He is direct from the start so I really don't even need to be there. Well until the paperwork needs to be signed. Mom I probably should be a little more involved but so far it works ha. We were the 1st shoppers in Kohls. Just walked around to kill some time then we went and had breakfast. It was very good but I thought a little expensive for what it was. She had a doctors appointment and then we picked her car up. We just hung out at home. I made a pizza and then everyone was in bed at 10. Em went to New York on Thursday so she was tired. I think she tracked her steps and they were just over 10 miles or so. She said it was fun but too crowded. They had dinner at Carmine's. She said she spoke with a woman from Kentucky. She said the woman told her she really enjoyed talking with her. She sent me a text and said I did something you would do Mom. I chatted with someone next to me. This made me smile because I feel like they think theres Mom running her mouth when in fact she thinks its just the nice thing to do. That right there Mom is my gift knowing that both Em and Eric are good kids. Can it be that simple? To me it can they are kind and a little of that goes a long way. Tim and the kids ask give us an idea want you want for Christmas. I need not a thing. I am an extremely fortunate girl just getting the extra time to be together is what I love the most. I think on Christmas Eve we are going to ride around and look at the Christmas lights even going to take Finn along. We played Christmas trivia. I asked the questions. Eric was the winner followed by Em. I am not sure if Tim just let them have it or not. Cause you know he knows a ton of random stuff. Thats why Jeopardy is our favorite. We are having dinner home just the 4 of us. A couple are sick so we plan to get together after the holiday. I am going to make a big dinner. Its how I remember Christmas being so special having a big dinner. Em said in one of her classes they were talking about traditions that each of them do. Someone asked if one family member opens all of their gifts and then the next. Em said we take turns. I can't remember how we did it when I was little. But I can still remember the year both me and Chubby got bikes...Sears 10 speed Free Spirit. My absolute favorite gift ever! You brought the magic Mom. All of the traditions I hold dear while things maybe different without having you guys here I have loads of memories tucked away and I do my best to honor you. Merry Christmas my sweet Momma.
Missing you your Oddie xo
Tiny
November 14, 2023
Morning Mom I haven't written in quite some time but you have been on my mind. Its crazy to think that next week is Thanksgiving. I haven't bought my turkey yet. I am hosting dinner. You know its my favorite meal to make. I love that its so low key. Well, besides the day before when I do the majority of my prep. Now that I break out my food processor instead of my Pampered Chef hand chopper things are easier. But you were the Rockstar dicing everything by hand and sautéing the onions, celery and mushrooms for the stuffing. I split the bread wrappers on my counter and let it harden too. No stovetop here! Its pretty chilly out but I guess we don't have much to complain about the temps have been fairly mild for mid November. The past few weeks have been very busy for Em. She has been planning the homecoming dance and spirit week. Bell came down and did her hair and makeup for the dance. This past Friday night football game was senior night. All of the cheer, band and football players and families were recognized on the field. Its been fun watching Em. Of coarse I think she is epitome of a cheerleader. Not just for the game but everyone. She is the one to make sure the little one in the stands gets a football, the one who notices the lady with a cane who may need help walking down the ramp, the one who recognizes that the band brings energy that feeds the cheer team and the crowd. I can talk on and on about how her smile lights up that front line but its all the other stuff that makes her shine. This past Saturday we toured UD. Its Em's 1st choice and I am hoping that she goes there. Mainly for my own selfish reasons that she's close. She is hoping to get into their nursing program. My Babygirl geez where has time gone? Last night at dinner Em asked Tim if he had his camera light on when he came in in the morning? He said "Yes sorry about that baby. But it was dark and I like to see your face before I leave for work." She said thats ok it didn't wake me. Saturday was Eric's birthday. 28. We didn't get to go out for a dinner or even have one here. He has been working crazy long hours. So hopefully soon we will get to go out and celebrate. I promised him creme brûlée. He has a cold. I told him that his immune system is run down. I told him to drink plenty of fluids and remember to eat. Yesterday I made an apple cake. I tried a new recipe. Its perfect with tea or coffee. I need to go to the grocery store to pick up some lunch meat and few odds and ends. I made chili on Sunday and last night we had big salads. Not sure whats on the menu tonight. Ugh it can be monotonous. Maybe taco Tuesday since I have all the veggies. I have to go splash some water on my face and get to stepping. I will talk soon.
Love you Mom always your Oddie xo
Shell
September 19, 2023
Good Morning Mom. I´m going to focus on all the pluses as I go through my day today. I have Marianne genes in my makeup. Come visit me in my dreams. Let Jeanne know also. I want to know that you´re near. I would give anything for you and I to be in your kitchen at the table with our cup of tea and you looking at me giving me a good talk after I had asked you questions. I´m a cry baby Mom. I want you with me right now. I love you. Give everyone a hard hug and kiss for me please. xo Love, Shell
Shell
September 16, 2023
Good Morning Mom. Things are going to be changing for me soon and I sure wish you and Jeanne were here to talk to. I need you Mom to send me some grit and Marianne Strong. I need Jeanne,because adding my "half" ton of sugar and creamer to my coffee is´nt sweet enough. I miss the one on one talks and smiles on the phone. I took off today to go to a friends baby shower. I´m looking forward to it. It will be nice to get off the gerbil wheel and pull away for a bit. I´m getting ready to straighten up my kitchen and I´m trying to decide if I want to listen to Cher to get my day started or Aretha Franklin. I think I´ll go with Aretha. Rock Steady will be my choice. I might play that song a couple of times. Sending you a hard hug and kiss. Love, Shell xo
Tiny
September 10, 2023
Morning Mom today is a reminder of a tough day. Just hanging out at home. Today is the start of football. Tim's brother is suppose to come over and watch till halftime. His schedule doesn't allow him to watch games after 7. Unfortunately, the Eagles schedule has either 4 o'clock or later games. He wakes at 2:30am yikes. I remember how you like to have the game on. I like football but I love baseball especially the Phillies. Em is cheering again this year. This past Friday was their 1st game of the season. Me, Tim and Eric went. We took a vacation and were in Puerto Rico for a week. Then 3 days later Eric took Em to Spain for 10 days. Mom the pictures were absolutely beautiful. They had such a great trip. Eric planned the whole thing. It was an experience of a lifetime for Em. I know I have said it multiple times but Eric is the real deal and the relationship that they have brings me pure joy. Their personalities just mesh and truly enjoy being with each other. So my world traveler was home for 6 days and is off to Italy for 17 days for a total of 4 weeks of travel. Today he sent me pictures of lemon trees and beautiful flowering purple bushes. I love the pics of the landscapes. Tomorrow he is touring the Vatican. Mom I am not sure I could keep up with him. He has packed full days. They kept track of their steps in Spain and they logged just about 61 miles. Eric rented a car and they both joked that "mom would have to ride in the trunk" cause the roads were very narrow and the drivers were erratic. Ha! I miss you Mom in the quiet while I feel connected my heart aches. I just mentioned to Shell how so many things you would say I find myself living. Funny how that works full circle suppose. Well I am off to get moving. Talk soon.
Always your Oddie xo
Shell Parent
September 10, 2023
Good Morning in Heaven Mom. Sitting here having my cup of java thinking of you. You were always a phone call away. Always, and now it´s still hard knowing I can´t call you to hear your voice. I miss you Mom. I love you. Sending you a hard hug and kiss. xo Love, Shell
Tiny
August 23, 2023
Hi Mom I am sitting out back with Finn. It is only 84 degrees out. Very nice for late August. I think the heat is back tomorrow along with some rain. Mom summer has flown by and its hard to believe that Emma is a senior. I hope it goes by slow. Last week we took a vacation. Our 1st in awhile and we really had a nice relaxing time. I told Tim I want to go away when its colder here to a warmer climate. We always vacation in the summer months and its usually even hotter where we go than at home. I am taking a look around at my flower pots some are on their last leg. Of course my petunias are leggy and dry at the stems. Each year I say I am not planting any but they add so much color I always do at least one pot. Eric and Em are in Spain for 10 days. They were home for just about a day and a half. Just enough time for me to do the laundry and them to pack. They have been sending pictures and we even FaceTimed last night. 3am their time. They didn't look tired. Heck it was 9ish here and me and Tim were yawning trying not to act tired ha. Its so funny when we were on vacation tons of people were at the different pools. Eric will not swim in a pool other than ours. I think people love pools. Me and Tim tell Eric and Em that growing up we loved going over a friends house that had a pool to swim. Remember both Dottie and Matthew and the Bruce's had pools. I love having a pool in our backyard. Yes its another thing to worry about but man its so convenient. Tonight I am making pork chops and mashed potatoes. I just had to get a new oven. Since we grill a ton it never was a big deal until we wanted to bake something. Mom, days of getting a new appliance because you are remodeling and changing the color are gone. Now its cause they just "don't make them like they use to". I was told to expect them to last 7 years. We got 12+ years from ours. So I guess we were the lucky ones. Its always something. Today is a tough day. I like to look at pictures, tell stories of things we have shared, listen to favorite songs that bring back fun memories and even at times just sit still. Mom as much as I struggle I can not begin to imagine the pain you endured with the loss of Jeanne and Frank. Some days are just tough but I think its cause we love hard. I miss you all. I will talk soon.
Always your Oddie xo
Shell
July 17, 2023
Good Morning Mom. Sitting here fantasizing about hiring a maid to come , maybe twice a week. Working two jobs can make it hard to fit in daily routines like cleaning two bathrooms, vacuuming,dusting, laundry,mopping kitchen floor. Lol.Too funny Mom. Not mentioning dishes most of the time. I know it wouldn´t be a problem for me if I only had the one job. It is what it is Mom. Nothing lasts forever,so at some point, my fingers are crossed. I know you know. Yea. It´s my quiet time right now before I start my engine. Do I have gas? Sure do. Making a list on what I need to have done. To funny Mom. Being reminded ......not really. I love you. xo
Tiny
July 13, 2023
Morning I am up super early. I usually don't have any problem falling back to sleep but today I just couldn't drift back to sleep. I hope its not the start of a new thing. I read about people having issues with getting to sleep and I think "well thats one thing I don't have" lol. Its been crazy hot and humid. Finn only gets a couple hours of pool time. It takes a ton out of him and he doesn't know when to quit lol. Last weekend we had some bad weather in fact a tornado hit an area neighborhood. Pretty scary. Fortunately for us we just had the usual leaves and twigs and small branches in the yard and pool. I think we got 3 inches in just under an hour. Em just had her senior pictures taken. We already were sent them to review. I think they turned out really well. I am very happy that Em likes them too. Now a days you are able to bring up to 3 outfits to change into along with the traditional drape and cap and gown pics. Of coarse its all fee based. I usually am not a huge fan of the cap and gown but they are some of my favorites of Emma. The only thing thing is they didn't have the National Honor Society stole for her to wear. I know that that is usually available so I am waiting for a reply back about this. Today she is getting together with some of her friends to do their summer homework. She has work for 4 of her classes. Tim is working at the surgi center. He hasn't been there in awhile. The cases usually are easier and not as long which makes for early out. I need to look for a new oven. Ours takes forever to heat to 350. I had noticed this for the past month but with doing more grilling I never really gave it a thought. Well until I needed to use it. Isn't that always the way? I called our appliance repair guy and he said he could give me a "rough estimate" with service call price along with a general idea of what maybe the problem and it was close to half the price of a new oven. I think its close to 12 years old. I know you are thinking thats not old and trust me I agree but you know Mom things are not like the good ole days. It looks still new. I am getting the basic gas stove. I want the least amount of gadgets. No Wifi for me. Unless it cooks and serves the meal I don't need it ha. I just think it adds to more stuff that goes wrong. Keep it simple. Me, Brit and Drew are going to go to Costco. I don't need much just odds and ends. I may see if Em wants to go too. I know how much she values her sleep so I am not sure if she will. I need to jump in the shower and get the cobwebs out of my head. I will talk soon.
Always your Oddie xo
Shell
July 10, 2023
Good Morning Mom. I wish I could sit next to you, give you a hug and see you smile. I love you and miss hearing your voice. xo. Always, Shell
Tiny
June 20, 2023
Morning Mom just sitting here thinking of what I need to do today. We had a busy weekend. Friday night the 4 of us went to Philly and saw Stevie Nicks and Billy Joel. Eric bought them for our Christmas present. Crazy how you buy them almost a year in advance. The ticket prices are insane and the additional fees just are ridiculous. Eric says thats where he will spend his money on concerts and sports games. Mom I wish you could have seen Emma. She had on such a fun outfit. She had her hair curly giving Stevie vibes for sure. She does a nice job on her makeup. Both her and Eric don't stop the whole concert singing and dancing. I find myself just watching them. We had phenomenal seats and I am glad that Em was able to see them both. I mean 75 and 74 years young I am not sure how many concerts tours they will be doing. It was a great concert. Saturday was Drew's party. It was very nice. Shell and Suzanne both came up. It was nice seeing them. Brit had tons of food and cake. So for Father's Day everyone came over to swim and have leftovers. It was Drew's first time swimming. Meg bought her a swim float with a canopy. Well you guessed everyone was back over yesterday. They had off for the holiday. We grilled burgers and corn. Plus "cleaned out the frig" had to move the food. Brit had so much cake that we could have served it for breakfast, lunch, and dinner ha. Eric bought Tim tickets to an Eagle game for Father's Day. It will be both Eric and Em's 1st game. So that should be fun day. We also have tickets to 3 Phillies games. It is looking like some rain is in the forecast. We really need it. The grass is looking like the end of summer brown grass. My drought resistant perennials are doing great though so theres that. Plus Finn hurt his pad on his back hind leg. He does not stop between the pool and playing ball he goes goes. So a little inside time is a good thing. Mom I told Shell that I wish I would have built my porch years ago. I know you would have loved sitting out there reading, watching everyone in the pool, listening to the birds. I find myself out there early in the morning and in the late afternoon. Maybe I will check with Meg and see if she has any books I can borrow. Me and Em just started watching Gilmore Girls. I am a little late to the game. It is over 20 years old but I could tell 10 minutes in that this was going to be our new binge watching show. Its the ups and downs of mom and daughter, family, friends and everything that entails. I will talk soon. Missing you Mom.
Always your Oddie xo
Tiny
May 17, 2023
Morning Mom I am up already have 2 loads of laundry done. I think I may look for some geraniums for my front pots. I did 4 pots last week for my backyard. I had some landscaping done yesterday. We ended up doing river rock in that bed too. I originally was thinking of doing mulch but since around the pool is river rock I thought it best to keep things the same. It looks nice. We could have never shoveled the amount of stone without practically killing ourselves. Its so heavy. So today we are taking the pool cover off. It maybe time to order a new safety cover. Ugh always something! I made some calls about getting estimates. We will need someone to come and take exact measurements since its not a standard pool. Things you learn after the fact. Rectangle pools are much cheaper and things like tiling you never think about. Its easier to follow a straight line than a free form pool. But I like the look of a natural design and thats what we chose. Its later than normal for us. Both Em and Finn are patiently waiting. Next week is Memorial Day. Em has less than 2 weeks of school. She just has her finals. So there are some days where she goes in for one test. The other night we went to the Taylor Swift concert in Philly. It was crazy good and while I am a fan I was concerned that I may not know that many songs. Well she sang 44 songs and there may have been one or two that I wasn't that familiar with. I have always said that she is just so talented. It was at the Linc. She had 3 sellout dates. The news reported that they estimated 20,000 fans just hanging out in the parking lots listening to her. Unreal. Everyone in the parking lot was exchanging friendship bracelets and when I pulled in the parking lot to pay the guy gave me one. Apparently I hit the jackpot with the one he gave me. Each one has a message and this one was referring to John Mayer. I am getting to be quite the city driver. No problem getting in and out. I guess the 3 years of driving to Georgetown helped. Sunday we just hung out and Eric made us dinner. I requested his chicken dish. He even made a pound cake in your tube pan. Absolutely hands down one of the best meals. Its Em's favorite too. He gave me the People issue with Stevie Nicks on the cover. I can not wait for that concert. I am excited that Em is getting to see her. She is celebrating her 75th birthday so I am not sure how long she will be touring. Last night we grilled burgers. We ate outside. It was a nice night. I finally bought an outside table and chairs. I ended up getting one from the Amish. Its very nice. I kept going back and forth and Tim said just get the one you like. He actually picked it out. We have been watching the Jeopardy Masters. There are 6 of them competing in 20 games. All 6 are insanely smart and have fun quirky personalities. Tim is pulling for Mattea and me and the kids are Team Amy. Its our favorite show. Mom Em looked so pretty for prom. It did rain like cats and dogs that night but everyone looked very nice. The paper posts pictures of area proms. It is so hard to judge their ages cause they are look so grown. Maybe its the makeup. Em just told me that she needs to get her nails removed. One of her friends asked if she planned on keeping up with them and she said no way. Ha that girl is low maintenance. I remember always getting mine done. I had a girl come and do her hair. She wore it down with very loose braids towards the nape of her neck. I suggested wearing it in a chignon but she wanted it down. Mom she wrote a personal narrative and it was so good. It was about the student government election at school and with her own experience with gender differences. Not sure what I plan on making for dinner maybe chicken pan nachos with some type of rice. We found a new Mexican restaurant and it is inspiring me to try my luck on new dishes. I mean I will never turn down a taco lol. Time to kick it in gear.
Talk soon.
Always your Oddie xo
Suzanne
May 13, 2023
Happy Mothers Day Mama sending lots of kisses and hugs to you. I miss you so much but you know what Shell reminds me so much of you. Her looks, and different things she does reminds me of you. And of course her green thumb she loves her flowers and plants. Please give everyone kisses from me and I miss them. I love you my poochie girl
Tiny
April 26, 2023
Morning Mom its hard to believe that its nearing the end of April. Its been a busy few weeks. We took a trip to South Carolina for a friend of Eric's since Caravel wedding. He was a groomsman. It was very pretty and the town was very nice. I love how he is still close to his friends. They may all be living in different states but always find the time to connect especially for big life moments. Em was super excited to be going to her 1st big wedding. I love seeing the differences in weddings including mine to what the new thing to do is. Finn stayed home and Joe would come and hang out with him. I thought about boarding him and while I think he would be fine I know he does best at home. This week is busy for Em. She has 3 golf matches and her prom is on Friday. Monday we got a call from her seamstress saying her dress was finished. Ok that was great knowing it was done in time but finding time to go and pick it up was a challenge. The woman does it out of home. Em has tons of tests this week and leaves school for her golf matches. I reached out and asked if we could come early? So we went at 7am. Thankfully everything turned out perfectly. I have someone coming her to do her hair. I think Bell is going to come over and help Em with her makeup. Em likes her makeup very natural. Bell did it for her homecoming and knows how Em likes it. I asked her if she wanted have it done in a salon but she said no she didn't want to. It is suppose to rain...ugh! There is nothing we can do about that just hope the kids have a great time and be safe. I think everyone is going to come over to see her beforehand. Then I think we are going to hang out and help Brit plan Drew's 1st birthday. Tim leaves for DC on Saturday. He visits the Hill on Monday. Its their mid year assembly and they go advocate for CRNAs. The past few years have been zoom conferences so it will be nice to be back in person. Still a mover and a shaker. Tim just had a big birthday the 6-0. Eric had got the 4 of us tickets to a Phillies game. We had great seats on 1st base. He had gotten he him some Phillies gear and Ray Didinger's autographed book. It was a very nice day. Me and Tim have slowly been doing some yard work but man it is tough on the back and knees.Just a few weeks ago we had power washed the front and side of the house. Then I wanted to do the sidewalk out back and the pool decking but we ran out of steam. Eric usually does it so I think he will finish it upper us. Need to get that done before we open the pool. I still haven't planted my pots. The weather has been iffy with high 80s to low 50s. I don't want to have to lug them into the garage or basement with fear of the frost killing them. I usually wait till Mother's Day since I feel that the weather starts level out and warm up. I need to find something to deter the birds from building nests underneath the deck in the rafters. Man we take the nests down and no sooner that momma bird is back building a new one. She usually sits on the pool fence and watches us. I wouldn't mind building them in the trees but I don't want the mess all over my new deck and concrete pad. So I guess the spikes they sell and maybe a fake owl will help fend momma bird off. Finn goes crazy when she flies out. Mom I am feeling quite melancholy thinking that Em has one year left of high school. She recently picked her next years schedule. She recently ran for student government President and won. She is super excited and has lots of ideas for school wide activities. Her 1st is in May and is a movie night with food trucks. I love how both her and Eric do well in school but more importantly make the most of it by being involved. Getting behind something, participating leads to being confident and successful. She shadowed Tim at work during her spring break. She really liked it. I think she is leaning towards nursing with the plan on anesthesia school. She loves both math and science so that should help. Eric is my critical analytical writer/thinker. But Em in her creative writing class has written some amazing short stories. One was about the life as a wall painting and watching and wishing they could tell the young couple what they mean to him. The other was titled The Popcorn Bowl. This was a more personal story about what it means to her. How we watch tv and pick movie or show as a family with a big bowl of popcorn extra butter and if you are lucky a homemade milkshake. She added in its always a debate on what to watch and how mom usually falls asleep. Very sweet but it made me happy that she feels the time together is the best. More than likely she will attend UD but I think touring a few colleges will give her a sense of the college campus life. So I am hoping for a nice summer making memories. Mom I truly wish you were here. But I am doing my best and hope you know you gave me the guidance to do so.
Always your Oddie xo
Suzanne Parent
March 20, 2023
Good Morning Mama! My favorite poochie girl. I was just thinking about that Spanish Bar Cake you would get from the market. Remember it? I loved that cake and can´t find it anywheres. I have to ask Tiny and Chub about it but I don´t think they will remember.I am going to try and find a recipe and maybe make it but I know it won´t taste the same. I miss you Mama. Give everyone a hug and kiss from me please.
Shell
March 17, 2023
Good Morning in heaven Mom. Happy St. Patrick´s Day. I´m off all day today from both jobs and knowing that I have off, I´m moving a bit slow. It´s been a long, hard week Mom. I couldn´t wait to call it a day last night and shut it down. It is what it is. I tried sign language to get through and Mom, I´m a worker and like to keep it going. I try to set a good example, but in all honesty, I keep hearing "Born this way" in my head. I hope not. Nothing stays the same, and after a rain, the sun eventually comes out. I´m not one to whine alot mom, but hey, I would love a break.I´m surprised I´m able to send you this, because most of the time I have no words.Silence. But, I can´t let today go, without sending you all my kisses, hard hugs, and my love to you all. My heart, like everyone else´s, will never be the same.I love you. xo
Suzanne
March 8, 2023
Well Mama I am doing a first today. Puppy sitting yes I can see you smiling and shaking your head at that I figured I babysat all the kids at one point or another how hard can a puppy be? She is really a cute little dog and loves to chew everything and I mean everything. I was teasing Shell that I was going to put her on the leash and let her stay out side for a little bit. Little fresh air will never hurt anyone Right? That´s what you used to say all the time.I miss you my Poochie girl give everyone hugs and kisses from me please. Love you Mama
Tiny
March 3, 2023
Hi Mom its time to get moving. I have a hair appointment and I need to hit the bank beforehand. If I have time I might run into Walmart real quick. I need to pick up a few things. The rain is suppose to start around 3 and hopefully I am back by then. Em is taking one of her friends out to eat after school. Her friends dad is in the hospital so she wants to do something with her to help get her mind off of things for awhile. Tim has been keeping an eye on him and said he is pretty sick. So sad and scary. Em said she will let her talk if she wants but won't shy away if she does. Mom Em is pretty in tune. She is amazingly aware for girl her age. I often say how genuinely nice she is and is truly that friend everyone would be lucky to have. She is running for student government president for her senior year. She is apprehensive because her opponent is a guy she likes (as a friend). He is running because his brother was vice president and he wants to one up his brother. Em said I told him "really thats your reasoning?" We laughed and said even you don't have brother issues lol. Eric has done very well but my sis is definitely making her own mark. She had Eric read one of her papers and we know how well Eric writes. Well at dinner he asked if she had us read it yet? We hadn't. He said wait to you read it. Eric is very critical and he admitted sometimes a little too much. So this was big. Mom it was very good. It was actually very sweet and made me wish for more. As for Eric well he is really enjoying his clerkship. The other day he joked he would be a lifer if the pay was better. In just a few short months he will be back in the corporate world. Tim is still a mover and a shaker. Slowly the weather is changing and I can't wait to get the backyard ready for summer. I am looking for a new table and chairs for the deck. I have one but I think I am going to use that for underneath. We had a patio put in so I think I will use that there. Always something. Well let me get these clothes folded before I jump in the shower. I will talk soon.
Always your Oddie xo
Shell
February 26, 2023
Mom, if I could just sit next to you I love you. xo
Tiny
February 12, 2023
Morning Mom it's Super Bowl Sunday! Big game tonight. I hope they have some good commercials. I always liked the ones with the Anheuser Busch clydesdales. Tim is super amped for the game. I am hoping that the Eagles get a WIN. We were up last weekend in Philly visiting Eric. Emma rode the train up after school on Friday and spent the night. Eric had made reservations for dinner. He had given her several restaurants to choose from. He said after they ate the server had brought out two new shots that the bartender was introducing. Em said, "does this have alcohol in it?" The waitress answered, "yes." Em had to tell her I am 16. Both Eric and Em said the girl was very apologetic and quickly asked "well how old are you?" She was very surprised of her age. Mom clearly I don't think Em looks 21 or even close. But I am her Mom so maybe thats why I think that. But Em is very mature and can easily converse with people so that may make people think she is older. They went everywhere and took a bunch of pictures. The city is decked in Eagle green and the energy is electric. Me and Tim rode up Saturday afternoon. We had an early dinner in McGillin's. It was packed. We walked around and did some shopping. Then we stopped and got some hot donuts from Federal donut shop to take back to Eric's. He was back home for an extra night this week. He had court and then a couple dinners with different firms. I guess you can say they were unofficial scouting. Not bad thing to have people interested in you. So today is just a day of football and snacking. I made a pot of chili yesterday. We are having wings, cold pizza from Serpes, meatballs from Mrs. Robinos, I have a couple of dips and Em bought some cupcakes decorated like Swoop. Time to put the comfy stretchy pants on. I am going to do a quick load of laundry and then head downstairs to watch all the pregame festivities. Friday I watched Drew and Mom she is starting to crawl. Brit took her up to Chubby's yesterday to take some Valentine's Day pictures. Kenny had made a cute stand to use as a prop. They really turned out cute. She looks just like Andy. Last week the temps were in the high 50s low 60 and they were able to pour the concrete under the deck. Slowly but surely its coming together. Now the front bed needs landscaping and then we are having some fencing put alongside to the corner of the house. I guess we didn't think about how much needs to be done with taking the deck from two tiered to one. Now that spring is near the stores will start putting their patio things out. I am looking for some hanging swings and large containers. I love the galvanized ones for flowers. I just got a catalog in the mail for plants and in a few weeks I will start giving some thought to what I want to put in. I follow this girl from Garden Answer and she just is incredible. It takes time and money. Not everything will take and trust me that is true with the clay soil we have. Alright Mom I am going to get myself in gear. I will chat soon.
Miss you Mom. Always your Oddie xo
Shell
January 27, 2023
Good Morning Mom. Thank you for my visit. My dream....You and I were riding in a convertible with the top down. It was a pretty car. White and teal color. I was driving and you were wearing sunglasses and a scarf. The sun was shining, a little wind blowing your scarf and we were having a nice time. You were smiling the whole time, but not saying anything. Then a couple of construction trucks came out on the road butting in front of me. I got mad, because they didn´t wait for me to pass them. They just came out in front of me and I had to slow down as to not hit them. Well, I slowed down but didn´t stop. Those construction men really irritated me, lol, but I´m glad we were together having a nice ride in the pretty convertible. Too funny Mom. I love you and thanks again for my visit. Always, Shell xo
Shell
January 23, 2023
Good Morning Mom. Asking you to send me some Marianne Strong. I have a lot to do making my new bed and breakfast accommodating. It´s laid out different, some pluses, some negatives...it is what it is. Thankful I can keep a roof over my head. I have a lot of things stuffed here in a box, stuffed there in a box. I had to pack up in a hurry by myself and it was the worst. Not much help,but thankful movers were able to move my furniture for me. My closets are stuffed. Lol. No kidding Sherlock. I had no time to waste and in a hurry. Now that I know I´m staying put for a bit, I can´t wait to go through everything and put it where it belongs. Maybe give some things to the Goodwill, but have no fear, I´ll hold on to most of it. Lol. That´s me. I´ve worked hard for what I have and I hold on to it. I´m an honest person who doesn´t smoke or drink,so if being a pack rat and using a lot of sugar in my coffee is a bad thing.....well, "nuff" said. I´m good. It´s going to be a lot, but just remember my request. I got to "getter done". Give everyone a hard hug and kiss for me please. I love you all with all my heart and miss everyone´s smile and laughter. If I´m a pack rat with my belongings in a box , you can´t imagine how full my heart is. Love, Shell
Tiny
January 4, 2023
Morning Mom its hard to believe that the holidays are over. January through March the months drag on. I need to look to see when Tim is off. We have some work to do around the deck. I have some areas that need landscaping. I really need to research what will work best in the soil and with the amount of sun the area gets. I am thinking of some of the big beach grasses with some type of perennials in front of them. Maybe variegated liriope. I want to start early spring so that we can enjoy the porch and pool. Last summer was all about the construction and we lost out on just enjoying being out back. The past few days have been record highs. Today they are calling for it to be 66. Crazy! We went to Chubby's for Christmas dinner. It was very nice. This year we tried something new. Each person had to buy 3 identical items spending around 10 dollars on each. It had to be something that you like and they weren't to be wrapped. So each persons name was written 3 times and we took turns explaining what "our" favorite thing was. Then you drew 3 names (not your own) and they received one of your gifts. It was fun and now we have a year to plan for next year ha! Maybe we will add ugly sweaters to the mix. I am dreading taking the trees down. I say it every year. Its not just the work but how bare everything looks once its down. I think I am keeping the greenery on the mantles and just going to add red and pink ornaments with white lights for Valentine's. I also have some flower picks. Maybe I will take a ride to Michaels to see what they have. I had to take a few Christmas gifts back. I had bought Eric a bunch of pants that just weren't that great of a fit. Me, Eric, Em and Bell walked around the mall and had lunch in the food court. It was fairly busy. I looked in a few stores but nothing jumped out at me. I hear you saying thats when you can get some really greats buys;) I just think I lose interest after doing all the holiday shopping. Yesterday was the 1st day back to school and work. Em was tired. She came home had a snack and then napped until 7. She got up in time to see Jeopardy. She loves Ken Jennings. She says "Mom don't you think he is cute?" She kills me. Eric bought us 4 floor seats to see Stevie Nicks and Billy Joel in Philly for Christmas. It will be me and Eric's 5th time seeing Stevie. I am so excited that Em will get to see her. She is my favorite female artist. Its going to be a great show. I am making chicken tonight. Not sure how I am going to prepare it. I think I may do rice with it. Time to crank up the tunes and get to stepping. Well Mom I will chat soon.
Always your Oddie xo
Shell
January 1, 2023
Good Morning Mom. It´s early and my favorite time of every day. Quite. I´m the only one awake. Relish it every morning. Me, my coffee with extra cream and sugar, and being on my ipad. Lol. Everyone has their preferences right? Don´t get me started. It´s too funny Mom. Another year without you all. I don´t feel like it flew by for me, even working two jobs now. You know I lost a very good friend last March and boy do I miss him. Such a sweet, gentle and thoughtful man. We use to go out to lunch or dinner together. I loved looking forward to it.It was fun. I wanted us to go have a meal at one of the restaurants at The Capital Wheel National Harbor and take a ride on the Ferris Wheel, but was kind of hesitant on doing that with him because I wasn´t sure about it being too much walking for him. Oh well. I still want to do it. It´s on my back burner. I love you Mom. A New Year. Looking forward to a couple of changes. Fingers crossed. Holding my breath........ all´s good with me Mom. Thumb up with a smile. Give everyone a hard hug and kiss for me. I just wanted to take a moment, before I start my routine, to let you know you all are in my thoughts. xo. Love, Shell
Suzanne
December 26, 2022
Happy Birthday Mama. I love and miss you!
Shell
December 26, 2022
Good Morning Mom. Have a blessed Happy Birthday in Heaven with everyone. xo. Love, Shell
Suzanne Parent
December 25, 2022
Merry Christmas Mama.I miss you so much. Please give everyone a hug from me. Love ,Suzanne
Shell
December 25, 2022
Good Morning Mom. Merry Christmas in Heaven. Every Christmas I have the same memories running through my mind. Lol.True. Bill, Frank and I would tip toe out to the living room to look at the gifts under the tree. We would be so happy and be whispering to each other. And all in our two piece cotton pj´s. lol. It seemed like forever before Dad and you woke up. Gift wrap everywhere. And Dad, taking on the breakfast chore. I loved Dad´s pancakes. Crispy around the edges. Him, bacon and soft boiled eggs. Sitting in the kitchen chair, legs crossed, afterwards with his coffee, cigarette and toothpick. Lol. Then when Frank got older, he sat like Dad to. I´m smiling Mom. Frank had a lot of Dad in him. I can still hear his laugh. Give Dad, Frank,Jeanne, Little Nanny and my Brad a hard hug for me and a kiss and let them know I wish them a Merry Christmas in Heaven also. I love you Mommy. Smile. I had to. I loved calling you that, especially with others around. lol. xo In my heart, Shell
Tiny
December 24, 2022
Hi Mom its Christmas Eve and a brutally cold one. I think they are reporting the temps have not been this low in decades. I keep seeing posts about people losing their heat or their pipes have frozen. Praying all will be fixed soon. Also thinking about those out and about in this weather. I haven't been feeling that great for over a week now. It really came over me fast. Started with a sore throat and a headache. The worst was just no energy and a very little appetite. Tim also has a cold and so far the kids seem to be ok. So I lost about 10 days of last minute stuff and you know what if I didn't have it bought and wrapped I am 100% certain it won't be missed. We all agreed that there was not one thing anyone could think of that they wanted. Eric came home Thursday after work and Tim said I bet you are glad. Absolutely doesn't matter where we are in the house just as long as they are near I am happy;) Yesterday him and Em went out to pick up some things at the grocery store and then they went to lunch. They came back to bake some cookies. Well Em did and Eric in true Eric fashion supervised. She is a good little baker. She made chocolate chip, snickerdoodles, cream cheese cookies decorated green with red hearts and the pretzel snaps with a Hershey kiss and a red or green M&M. Then Eric made beef barria tacos for dinner. Today there is the big Eagle vs Dallas game. Eric made a roast beef for sandwiches and a pasta salad. Tim and Finn are napping. I am going to put the space heater on in the basement and light the tree. Its a very low key kind of day well until the game comes on ha. Mom this past week Jim Gardner from Action News retired and I cried. I love all of them. Heck, it starts with the theme song and that Action News van. Very recognizable just like the theme from the Sopranos. The tv needs to be cranked up. Its very true the viewers and the news crew have shared so much through their broadcasts and to be honest there is not a channel that comes remotely close to the professionalism, honesty and the overall journalism that they bring. You really feel as though they are extension of your family. A few weeks ago we did the Christmas mounds and then we stopped for lunch at Victory Brewing for lunch. Later that night us and Chubby and Kenny went to watch Caravel play the championship game at UD. Em got to cheer on the "big Field" and it was exciting. Ended up being a very good game. Unfortunately Caravel came up short 10-7 to Wilmington Friends. I am hoping I feel ok to go to Chubby's tomorrow. She has been busy planning and its a ton of prep. Just like you Mom I like being a guest and it doesn't matter what is on the menu. Its just a nice treat. It will be fun having Drew there. Maybe when the weather changes Bran will bring Charlie up for a visit and the cousins can meet. How cute will that be? Drew looks just like Andy. Finn doesn't know what to make of her and her little noises. Its funny. Mom I miss you. The memories I try not to forget and the ones we never got to make. Thinking of you always.
Love your Oddie xo
Tiny
December 1, 2022
Morning Mom I just got back from running Eric to his office. The morning rush traffic can be brutal. The past few days there has been a number of accidents. Its no wonder people are driving in excess of 70+ mph. Normally Eric is here Tuesday into Wednesday but there was no oral arguments. There was a big dinner last night at the Hotel DuPont. He said it was very nice. There was assigned seats and he said I am not sure how but there I sat at Table 1. He was hyped when he got home and talked all about who was there. Em said "I know Table 1". Mom the back and forth teasing is just the best. She loves teases him since he is more reserved than her. She really cracks me up when it was just the two of us she was asking different questions. Like when did you have your 1st date, what do you think about mediums and lets talk about gender norm roles. So you can see they run the gamut ha! She was like mom has dad ever dusted? I said I am not sure. She was like exactly! I said well I don't cut the grass. She said but you have pushed the mower just not ride the tractor. She then told me that she won't be making her husbands lunch. I said we'll see. She just laughed at me. Little Miss Independent. I explained it takes everyone helping out and she said I know that I am just having a discussion that most won't have. I guess her joining the mock trial team was a good thing. Cause sis can talk! She has perseverance, a critical thinker, assertive would never back down from a good argument is a great writer even though she would differ with me on that. But more than likely is not leaning towards law much to Eric's chagrin. Tim and Em got 2 of my trees out and I need to start on the one in the family room. Tomorrow I am babysitting Little Drew. Its been awhile since having a little around but I am looking forward to it. The first few times are always an adjustment with each of us getting used to each other. Em is going to spend the weekend with Eric. It will be her 1st time taking a train. They will have a great time. I think they are going to the Christmas Village to do some shopping. Then they are going to a hockey game. 10 years apart but just as close as they can be. Makes me happy. Well I am off to start taking the ornaments out of their boxes as soon as Em gets home she will climb on the ladder to get the top branches for me. I love getting the house ready. Its remembering all the special memories and traditions and creating more. Oh Mom how I miss you. Give Jeanne and Frank a big hug. Its an especially tough time of the year but I am reminded even in the small things of all the good times. Talk soon.
Always your Oddie xo
Suzanne
November 24, 2022
Happy Thanksgiving Mama my favorite poochie girl. I love and miss you so much
Tiny
November 16, 2022
Morning Mom its a chilly start. Yesterday was a dreary day. It is always tough when it rains.The big oak tree has lost some of its leaves but still has a bazillion to go. Finn's toy gets lost in the piles of leaves. He is too funny to watch. You toss it for him and while he catches it mid air most of the time sometimes he has to search for it. You just got to tell him to "find your Paci". That is what we call it. Its actually a West Paw Hurley dog toy but Finn holds it in his mouth like a pacifier. Its not small either. Just the one end will be hanging out his mouth. He will also make sure that he brings his toys in. Even if he comes to the door without his toy you tell him "go get your chew" and off he goes. Mom I talk about Finn a lot. Yes the hair and the hogging of the couch, bed can be a bit much but nothing compares to what he brings. All 3 have been uniquely their own and nothing compares to that face and ears. The other day he had a vet appointment and we saw a new vet to the practice. She commented look at you with that big beautiful head. Of coarse he didn't cooperate and he didn't get his labs drawn. We give him trazodone which is suppose to help with anxiety. He is not a fan of his paws being touched. He does a low growl. They even put the cone on his head which would make anyone nervous. But hey what do I know. I mean I know of friends who say their pets are the exact same way. So I asked "now what" and they said we can always give him an additional medication or a sedative which they would reverse after drawing his labs. Needless to say we need to make another appointment. Yay! Mom we went out for Eric's birthday. We went to Walter's Steakhouse on Union Street. Tim said that he thinks we have only been there once or twice. We told Eric and Em that the son of the restaurant where Tim proposed was the owner. In fact he was there and walked around the tables checking to see if everything was ok. We told him that we were engaged at Constantinou's House of Beef 33 years ago. He smiled and was thoroughly honored to have us as patrons for that many years. We really enjoyed our dinner. There was a table with a young family with 3 small children. I would say old enough to know to stay seated in your chair and not disturb other diners. Hey most have had children and understand that they can get antsy but respect others. I mean maybe not order the dessert and grab ice cream at the Dairy Queen drive thru. Trust me I can count how many times we ate out and when we did we knew the window of opportunity. It boils down to respect and entitlement. I mean the little angels are leaving crumbs everywhere, sitting on their knees all while mom and dad are enjoying their dinner while looking at their phones rant over. I am making chicken noodle soup today. Mom, I do the same thing as Jim and cook the noodles separate. I think they make the broth cloudy and break down. Tim is on till 7:30. Eric will be home. Em is being inducted into the National Honor Society tomorrow night so he will go to the ceremony. Tim unfortunately won't be able to go. He leaves for a conference in San Diego. I think me and Em are going to a craft show. Well only if I can get her moving early enough. I have pretty much of everything for Thanksgiving. I also picked up a small boneless ham. I like having plenty for leftovers. Its my favorite meal to prepare and well its all because of you. Mom sitting at the kitchen table is my favorite. Sitting there eating, sharing, laughing its what its all about. I am pretty sure that I told you before that Em said most of her friends don't eat together. For me sitting eating together keeps us connected. That kitchen table has heard a lot, helped with a ton of homework, managed a couple board games. I guess thats why the kitchen is the heart of the house. Everyone gravitates there. You can bet your platter will be front and center. I love you Mom. I gotta start chopping the veggies for the soup. I'll talk soon.
Always your Oddie xo
Shell
November 11, 2022
Good Morning Mom. Letting you and Jeanne know that I appreciate your visit. You with your arms crossed, Jeanne standing next to you, both smiling( not a big wide one, more suttle) and just watching , not talking. I miss the real. I miss the bond. It left with you. xol
Tiny
November 8, 2022
Morning Mom I can't believe yesterday we had the air on and today its 30 degrees cooler. The weekend was warm for early November. Sunday Tim said that he was hot and shockingly I said that we didn't need to turn on the air. We have had beautiful sunny weather. Yesterday we broke the warmest weather to date. I checked the thermostat and it said that it was 78 inside so I "thought" I was turning the air on. I had to go take back a pair of shoes to the mall and Tim was home when I got back. He said hey hun you put the heat on. Oops. Today is Election Day. Public schools are off but Em had school. I am pretty sure they are off on Friday for Veteran's Day. But Em has school. It is the last home game of the regular season. The weather is looking like a 80% chance of rain starting in the early evening through Saturday morning. Eric will be home for his birthday. Mom 27. I can vividly remember when he was born. We waited until he was born to find out what we were having. We had our names picked out. Well first at least...Eric or Katelyn. I don't even have to watch the video of Jeanne holding Eric saying what works for you Eric Michael or Eric Ryan? Or you holding him with your scrubs on and your blue eyeliner on just so. From that moment my heart has never truly been mine. I have watched him grow into this amazing man who at times I see bits of me and Tim but is uniquely better. We are very lucky. Em and Eric are both great children. Mom my girl is driving. Yuppers me and Finn stand at the door with our heads hanging out as she drives off in the morning. We bought her a car and she named it. Funny how we do that. I remember you naming the Pontiac T1000 the coffee bean. Ha with the brown color what other choice was there? Em's car is a dark charcoal. So she named him Bruce. Yup from Batman. Bruce Wayne dark, strong and mysterious. Em cracks me up. Tomorrow at school she is one of the students in the upper school who is being interviewed. It is for school accreditation. Of coarse I think she is a great candidate. She is a wonderful student who is academically strong and an involved member of the student body and in the community. Toot toot. Hey still working on keeping her room a little more tidy but its her room and I can always close the door. Or send Finn in lol. The other day I told Tim to go peek in there and he came out holding not 1 but 2 Eagle jerseys that were lying behind her hamper with a t-shirt inverted in them. He was mumbling that these get hung up and not strewn across the floor. Maybe I need to send him in more frequently lol. I made some cupcakes earlier using your cupcake pans. Em has been asking for something sweet. I made vanilla with vanilla frosting. Tim's favorite. Me and Em are chocolate girls. But neither one of us will pass up on a sweet. Not sure whats for dinner. Its just me and Em. Tim is on till 7:30. I hope he gets home in time to catch some of Jeopardy. Its 3 of the biggest champions on tonight. Its one show that we try to watch together. Me and Tim try to watch a movie when Em is at the football games. So far most of my choices have been duds. I have better luck watching tv series. We are excited that the new Yellowstone season is coming out soon. The only other show would be the Voice. Other than that the tv is usually off till a sports game is on. Time to get cracking I miss you Mom. I know what will help breaking out your soup pot and making a big ole pot of chicken noodle;) Talk soon.
Always your Oddie xo
Tiny
October 11, 2022
Morning Mom just wanted to pop on here to chat. Crazy to think that we have been in school for just about 6 weeks. Em just started driving herself to school. Each morning when she is backing out of the driveway I can close my eyes and visualize both her and Eric leaving for school together. Now he has a place in Philly and Em if off driving on her own. It seems like just yesterday that they drove off together. This past weekend was jammed packed. Friday night we went to watch Caravel's football game vs the new Odessa High School. The campus is beautiful. We were excited to see it since we can hear the games from our backyard. Em was asked to the homecoming dance. The dance is next week. I am hoping that the weather cooperates. We had about 6 days of solid rain. I don't mind rain but man it was a constant long soaking steady rain. Finn was even over it. Saturday we went down the beach for the Dewey Goes Pink Walk. Man did we have a blast. It is such a great cause. Everyone associated with the event should be very proud. It was so organized. Afterwards we went back to Chubby's for sandwiches and snacks. Mom Chubby made a brownie in one of your pans. I don't remember it. Its a large round pan. I have two of your 8 inch Ekco round pans. Brit and Meg came down and we met Drew. She is a cutie. Then we headed home to catch the Phillies game(BIG WIN) super exciting. Tim had to work on Sunday for an 8 hour shift. I picked up a sub and cheesesteak for the Eagles game. Its the 2nd time that I have gotten them from a place in Galena Maryland. Its a small place that has both eat in and carryout called Twinny's. It really is hard finding a good sub anymore. Tonight I am making rosemary chicken with mashed potatoes, green beans and cauliflower. Eric comes home on Tuesdays. He spends the night because he has oral arguments in Dover on Wednesdays. Its nice for us. We get to have a nice dinner together. The Eagles are 5-0 and its so exciting. Of coarse for Tim and the Philly area. Everywhere you look people are sporting either Eagle green or their Phillies attire. Tomorrow Em has a short day its PSAT testing so she will be finished around noon. I am thinking I will make her some broccoli cheddar soup for lunch. I picked up some hard crusty bread to have with it. I love soup. I think on Friday I am going to over to Jude's. We are suppose to make creme brûlée. I need to master that by Eric's birthday. He isn't overly a sweet eater but that is one of his favorites. Tomorrow we are having our pool closed. Its always a tough day for Finn but with having the porch he can now enjoy the outside longer. Mom I wish I put the porch on years ago. I know you would have enjoyed sitting out here watching everyone in the pool or even just reading. Its very peaceful. Between the two of us I am not sure who loves it more. He has 2 spots that he either lays at and both of them faces the driveway. Once everyone is home he looks out to the yard and the pool. He does the same when we are going to bed if someone isn't home yet he will not go in my room. He waits in the hallway. Yesterday I went to Costco much to Tim's chagrin. I saw this woman with a Christmas rug in her cart. I was mad that I had forgot to look for them. I commented that it was cute. She said "I know it has red truck and a lab on it." I told her that I wish it were a chocolate. She asked if I had one and we got to talking and she knows Finn's breeder. Its funny how much we have in common when we take the time to talk. Truth be told I can be a little chatty lol. Well let me kick it in gear. I miss you Mom. Talk soon.
Always your Oddie xo
September 11, 2022
Hi Momma it has been a whirl wind few days. Especially with yesterday being the 10th, a day that I wouldn't mind if we skip over and go straight to the 11th. But with it came the day Eric moved out. Sure there have been 6 years out of the house and off to college but this is different. I would like to ask you how did you prepare yourself or even if you can? You know there always is those moments when you just wish and hope to be able to talk and ask for advice and more importantly reassurance. I miss that Mom. Thats the part I guess I wonder and worry about will Eric call and ask me how to make a recipe, what I think about his shirt and tie, chat about something we caught on the news or just binge watching one of our shows. You know things you do with your Mom. You know he bought mostly everything new. Some things he had from both UD and Georgetown. But I told him I had tons of pans. I showed him one of your Dutch ovens and I asked if he wanted to have it. He was like Mom are you sure? I was 100% certain. He will be making some goodness in that pot. Maybe not your gravy lol but he knows the history in that pot. So I know that he will cherish it. He only is in Philly 45 mins away not across country. Heck not too bad of a drive well, depending on time, construction, accidents on 95. I could even take the train up. Mom Eric will be doing that Monday-Friday just like Dad. Funny how life works. Its independence and responsibility which never concerned me but its just different. I guess its a new season. I know its tough for both Tim and Em. Meg asked me when we were putting things together and unpacking if I was sad? I said yes its tough. It is hard to explain but I guess its just the change of it. Not seeing or hearing someone is pretty hard. Today is just a reminder of that. But we are very excited for Eric. Today is the start of football. Eagles managed to get a win and your team Green Bay lost. Its not my idea of football weather yet. But we have had a couple of rainy days...very needed. Em is cheering again and made co-captain. Mom I see a lot us in her but she does have that glimmer of Tim. Earlier since it was just the two of us we made pancakes. She was extra chatty and some of the stuff she comes out with makes me laugh. She said since we are "sharing" and then she just launched into the latest school talk. She told me how different friends have talked to her about different stuff and she said "I don't know Mom I must give off that vibe to just talk to me". I said well thats nice Em you must be a great friend who listens and they feel comfortable talking to. We then went to the store for some lunch meat ugh now I know why I try not to do that on the weekend. The deli counter was brutal. Well I am off to bed I got just about 4 hours of sleep last night. Definitely not enough for this chick. I miss you Mom.
Always your Oddie xo
Shell
September 11, 2022
Good Sunday morning Mom. I hit a bump in the road this month and believe me Mom, it´s been a rude awakening for sure. I´m so glad that I have some Marianne in me when the going gets tough. To plant daisies, bake cupcakes or have some creative time to paint my fence just isn´t in the picture for me. I keep it going as best I can, no stopping man. I´ve changed my schedule up a little bit. I´m going to be off on Sunday and Mondays. It´s gotten to be a bit much for me on Sundays. My pirate leg just can´t keep the pace up like it use to. Empathy is something that I need to work on. It´s a hinder for me and I know that. I miss you mom. I know you know, so no use complaining. I shake my head so much, I´m surprised it hasn´t come loose. Doing laundry right now and enjoying my x-large coffee w/ xtra cream and sugar. Yea Mom, that´s what I´m talking about. One of Shell´s lil´pleasures. Well, have to finish the laundry mom. I love you. Give everyone a hard hug and kiss for me. Always, Love Shell xo
Tiny
August 1, 2022
Morning Momma its August 1st. Another summer month has slipped on by. Last night we did get some much needed rain. Not enough to help the dry brittle grass but welcomed. Yesterday was overcast so I was able to do some work in my side flower bed. I like to clean up around the base of my day lilies and I hand trimmed the 2 shrubs. Every time I do that Tim comments "there has to be a quicker way?" But if I would use the electric trimmers I may take too much off. The shrub would then burn. Mom, I would love to say that my deck was finished but not quite yet. Close though we have railings, screen, door. Now its the odds and ends. Then another county inspection. After all of that its move in day lol. I have the furniture in the garage and all the other things I have bought. Finn was shaking the other day when he walked on the deck. He has been going outside through the basement for the past 5 weeks. Poor little guy. Joe stopped by on Saturday and we were swimming. Finn being the best watch boy never even barked or came out of the pool. He goes and goes. Em is going away with one of her friends from school. Her grandmother has a house on a lake in Pennsylvania. She took some board games and movies with her. They are making t-shirts too. She is pretty excited. Today I think me and Tim are going to go out and look for a new microwave. Our last one lasted about 7 months. It was an LG. After 3 scheduled service appointments 2 of which were cancelled an hour before(how fun is that). Then the service tech replaced 2 parts and ordered a 3rd which will be in in October. No thank you. Keep in mind it is now off the wall and sitting in my garage. So now there is an empty spot above the stove. Tim made the comment that he liked how it opened things up lol. We would not normally be waiting on this. They are not very expensive. But its under warranty. So after 5+hours of being on the phone they issued a refund check for the amount of the microwave. In hindsight that probably should have been done all along since its not cost effective to send a repair guy who I am sure makes upwards of 100 bucks per hour plus replace 2+ parts. But I guess they have to go through certain protocols. Eric is relaxing before he starts to clerk. I love watching him and Em. They have been walking at night. Its much cooler and I think they are up to about 5 1/2 miles. Meg is due home tomorrow night. I know that she has mixed emotions about leaving Brit. I think its great how she went out to help with Drew. She will have a few weeks off before the start of school. The other day me, Em and Eric watched Steel Magnolias. Its sad but I like the dynamic between the women. Its a classic. Last night Em picked the movie, The Gray Man, to watch. It was pretty good. She also picked the snack. A big ole Hershey bar with almonds. Tim was pulling for ice cream. Me and Em went to a produce stand and I bought a ton of fruits and veggies. The corn was super sweet. I would love to have a small garden but I don't think I have the green thumb for it. I do have some basil in a pot. One day last week the kids made margherita pizza with homemade sauce and dough. Super yummy. I like that both of them can get by in the kitchen. I think I am making homemade chicken salad for dinner. I have some leftover pasta salad too. It can be tough thinking of different ideas each night. Well let me kick it gear I want to strip Em's bed and give her room a good cleaning while she is gone. I miss you Momma.
Always your Oddie xo
Always your Oddie xo
Tiny
July 16, 2022
Hi Momma its another hot one. The kids are out by the pool with Finn. I haven't heard very much barking so I am thinking he isn't being to much of a pain. The only time he barks is if you make eye contact with him. Otherwise he pretty much entertains himself. Tim is out riding the back grass. I made a roast beef last night and Tim sliced it this morning. I made potato salad too. It is too funny. Joe makes everyones favorite potato salad. But the last time Bran was here I had made some. Well it was a big hit. Courtney had texted me requesting my recipe. Ha! I texted back "um I really don't follow a recipe. I just add the basics along with a little this and that!" Viola you have something that hopefully is edible. I guess for the most part I am a decent cook. I don't hear too many complaints. I told you that I was attempting to make a stir fry. Well, it was a complete miss. I had a seasoning pack for beef and broccoli. I followed the instructions but the finished result was nothing like the picture. It actually had a gray hue. That is the part with trying something new. Its a gamble and I really do not like to waste anything. I have a small turkey in the freezer. Last week we had a couple of cooler days and I was thinking of cooking it. But I forgot to thaw it. We grill a ton just so I don't have to turn the oven on. Plus the air fryer. I was reluctant to get one but I must say it comes in handy. Mom my deck is still being built. One thing I hadn't thought of was how much cooler the kitchen will be with the porch. The sun would just bake on the glass doors. Monday the county will come back out to inspect and then hopefully the odds and ends move quicker. I was really concerned with the size of the screened in porch. I have already bought the furniture and was hesitant about how it will fit. But I think it will all work out. Its looking very nice and I am excited to see it finished. I just need to pick out the ceiling fans and an outside light. Tomorrow is Finn's birthday. We have a few new chews for him along with a fish for the pool. We will wrap them in brown paper and he unwraps them. Its too funny to watch. He pushes the present with his snout and tears little pieces of the paper. Then he throws the paper in the air. He is just as excited as a kid. Bella came down to hang out. I am sure they will watch movies or something in the basement. I got stuff to make ice cream sundaes. I remember how you would watch the kids in the pool. Tim would say "Marianne why don't you put your suit on?" They are calling for a late day thunderstorm. Last night we got a quick downpour. We really need a nice slow soaking rain. The grass really needs it. Its always like this mid July. The summer can be brutal on the grass and plants. My coneflowers aren't looking to perky and they thrive in the heat. I took Em over to see Tim's sister Judy. She has a lot of new perennials planted. Early next spring she is going to split some for me to plant. It just takes time and patience and the later well I am working on that lol. Well I need to quick run the vacuum in Em's room. Her one pillow loses more feathers. Its her favorite so I can't even think about throwing it away. I miss you Mom.
Always your Oddie xo
Tiny
July 6, 2022
Good morning Momma! It is crazy that its already July. It is a hot one today but I think the weekend is suppose to be in the low 80s. That will be a nice change for midsummer. Eric has just this week and next and then he is off for a month. He will then clerk for a year. He has been receiving his exit interviews from senior associates, counsel and partners. Each writes a review. Well, the ones who have worked with Eric on cases. They can remain anonymous. They also can be shared with him and then put in his file. Well, mom it doesn't surprise me in the least that all that he has received have been stellar. One writes the only issue is there is only one of him. All pretty much wrote how he is concise and thorough and goes above without being prompted. I don't understand why one would choose to take a year away and clerk for less money. But I got to believe Eric knows exactly the "why" and its just one more goal he has set for himself. Mom, Em is driving and she had hopes of working at Back Creek this summer. She had filled out her application and the pro who runs the coarse "said just go online and write in what you want to work". So needless to say I am not 100% sure this should be her first job experience. It seems a little too disorganized to me. I wasn't pushing for her to work a 40 hour week but the responsibility would be great experience. We finally got to see Kenny Chesney in Philly a couple weeks ago. We have had the tickets since 2019. We had a nice tailgate with enough food and drinks to serve 20 more people. Chubby made her Mason Jar cocktails and we did partake in a few of them while tailgating lol. Em and Eric sang word for word every song. My poor Em I told Tim we should look into singing lessons lol. But to be honest she had a total blast and I could watch her all day long. She is a laugher and a smiley girl who just has the cutest vibe. She reminds me a lot of both Jeanne and Brit. I know it probably is the dark hair and blue eyes. Her hair is the darkest though. Mom we met Charlotte on Memorial Day weekend. Bran and Courtney came up to visit with friends for a barbecue. They came over and we grilled and swam. Joe and Meg came over too. She is very cute and sweet. She loved Eric and the Barbie jeep. Brit's little girl is precious too. Brit and Andy are hoping to move back. They want to be closer to family.I hope so it will be fun watching little Drew grow. Joe is beside himself. I know he will be a wonderful Pop Pop. We all know that there is no question that Jeanne would have rocked being a Mom Mom. I am having my deck put on and it is a slowww process. I am not a fan of construction projects but I keep telling myself its worth it in the end. I am very excited for the screened in porch. Its funny how the birds are still finding ways to make new nests underneath the beams. Kenny had mentioned that there are these spikes that will keep birds away. We may need to look into that. Finn will be happy when its done too. He goes outside and the guys launch his toy for him. They can't believe how fast he is and his energy level. My pup will be the big 4 on the 17th. You would love him Mom he really is a big ole family boy. Tonight I am attempting to make a beef stir fry. I say that loosely since no one can come close to yours. But heck I will give it a whirl. Bell came down a few weeks ago and her and Em hung out. They made a pico de gallo and it was amazing. I even made it again a few days later. It is so much better fresh than the jar stuff. Mom can you believe Bell graduated? I am sure you still think of her in her little St. Pete's uniform. Me, Eric, Em and Bell are all going to see Lady Gaga in August. Eric bought us tickets and we plan on going out somewhere for dinner before the concert. Then in October the 4 of us are seeing Hall & Oates. I am just hoping that Fleetwood Mac or Stevie Nicks tours and Em gets to see them live. The prices are crazy so you really can only afford a select few. I think our Elton tickets were the most expensive. Just to park at the venues cost $30 and up:( Not to mention the gas prices. I know that I am more conscious of driving and making sure I plan out what I need and where. Yesteday Em made a lemon loaf and Tim said that he ate both pieces by 9 this morning. That man has a big ole sweet tooth. You can't say do want some ice cream? Because no matter how close after dinner or how late he will say "I can always eat some ice cream". Heck I grew up where we always had ice cream and no it didn't matter the time of year. Em is loving hot fudge on hers. I remember you buying Sealtest, Edy's. You name it. Frank eating big bowls of it. Well let me kick it in gear and wake up sleeping beauty. Talk soon Mom.
Always your Oddie xo
Shell
June 15, 2022
Thank you Mom for visiting me this week. I love you . Give everyone a hug and kiss for me , and give an extra kiss to Jeanne. xo. Love Shell
Tiny
May 26, 2022
Morning Momma its the last week of school for Em. So just about half of her high school years are over. It makes me sad that time just seems to slip on by. I am forever saying enjoy these days cause you know what I am about to say..."one day you will look back" we all do it. I remember you often saying that. Enjoy the moment. Its what my intentions are for the summer. Not just the big moments but lets get ice cream cones, play volleyball in the pool, lay on the bed and talk girl stuff, stare at their faces corny Mom I know. I can listen in on not the convos but the laughter of Eric and Em for hours. They have such a close bond. Both uniquely them but they bring out the best in each other. Eric is such a wonderful wise older brother and well my Em while mature is more spontaneous. All in all Mom I must say I am pretty lucky. I am feeling emotional the world can be pretty trying. Yesterday there was another school shooting at an elementary school in Texas. Just yesterday I sat in my car waiting for Em to take a final. It was just a 50 min exam so I decided to wait in my car. I had a magazine so I didn't mind. I heard a noise and then I saw the kids walking on the sidewalk with their lunch boxes in tow heading for the cafeteria. I just watched and smiled at how they were laughing and talking with their friends. So innocent and kind. Then to have the news on later that night to hear that so many littles were not going home to their families. Its just heartbreaking. Again today people will spill their 2 cents and then tomorrow nothing has changed. On the news last night families that have lost a child in former shootings were interviewed. The look on their faces was that time stood still. The sadness and loss was like it was that horrific day repeating itself all over again. My Facebook page has some useless posts about it. I would like to comment but I know that it would be completely wasted words. Oh, there are plenty making noise about the 2nd Amendment, mental health, NRA, and on and on. Can it be all of those things? ALL needs to be addressed and dealt with. It takes someone to stand up and speak up. Heck when we send our children to school we remind them to be respectful, pay attention, be kind. For some kids it is their safe place or is it? I heard so far this year 27 school shootings we must do better. We are just hanging out at home this weekend. The 1st half doesn't look that great weather wise. Bran is visiting. It will be our 1st time meeting little Charlie. I told Tim I want to charge up the Barbie jeep and see how well she does driving it. I am sure they will swim. Tim will put the heater on. Mom I was teasing Brit that "Aunt Tiny's house " has all the cool things. I have lots of stuff from both Eric and Em to play with. Joe told Em "are you ready to babysit?" Once they are on foot she would be great not so sure about baby babies lol. On Em's last day she gets finished at 10:30 and we are going to the mall and then to lunch. I have ordered her a bunch of summer clothes but she has a few gift cards so she wants to see if there is any great buys. I can surely tell you that the buys you always scored are not the same. I need to remember to pick up some marshmallows and Hershey bars. I think we will light the fire pit and hangout. We haven't done that since Brit visited in October. Maybe me and Em will stop and buy some more flowers to plant. We planted geraniums for the front and I am still holding out hope that they take. Ugh gardening is so sporadic. I enjoy it but it can be expensive. I will talk soon. I love and miss you Mom.
Always your Oddie xo
Tiny
May 4, 2022
Morning Mom its Wednesday starting off pretty dreary. It is suppose to be in the low 70s. Today Em is with school volunteering with the Special Olympics at the Kirkwood Soccer fields right off Rt 9. She packed her own cinch bag with sunscreen, gum, hair ties and water bottle. She ended up wearing shorts and brought along her raincoat. She went back and forth with if she should wear pants. They will be running and coaching so it made sense not to. I am hoping the sun comes out. Spring weather can be so unpredictable. This Saturday is the May Fest in Odessa. Em is volunteering on both Friday after school and all day Saturday. It is a rain or shine event. Ugh always seems to be iffy weather. This week is teachers appreciation. Emma along with the other student government officers provided breakfast. So Em had to be there early to set up in the teachers lounges. Her advisor had asked her who brought her to school? She said my mom is out in her car cause I still have my book bag and golf clubs I need to take out. He said do you mind if I go out to talk to her? She said no. Well mom he came out. I of coarse know him. Eric also had him. He just wanted to tell me that he so enjoys having Em in class. He said she is a wonderful student who always goes above what is asked of her. He said he is very happy that she is involved with the CSG and knows that with her involvement things will run smoothly. He didn't have to come out and say that but he took the time. It meant a lot. As a parent it makes you feel good to hear. Sunday is Mother's Day tough day. Its true when I am out and about I notice woman my age with their moms. Riding in the car, helping them in the store, talking all of it. I wonder do they know how lucky they are? I hope they don't let the daily chores rob them of that. The floors, the dinner, life. I didn't always appreciate it. So I guess I would say cherish the time you have, laugh at the same stories, watch the same movie for the umpteenth time, eat that 3rd or 4th donut because why not. I would say a motherless daughter is wishing for one more laugh, hug, moment. All I have left are memories. So thats the plan for Sunday just to be right with family and there is no place I would rather be. I miss you momma more than you can ever know.
Always your Oddie xo
Tiny
April 12, 2022
Hi Momma I am taking a break from my cleaning. I made a pitcher of iced tea so I am having a glass while I stop to chat. Its a very nice day out and I have the slider open to air out the house a bit. I really don't have much to do other than organize my dresser drawers. We finished up painting it and it turned out not bad for 1st timers. Not sure we will race to attempt another refinishing project anytime soon. Not sure painting is my thing. But it changes up the look of the room for a minimal cost so thats a win. Mom, Em got her drivers license last week. So it has been a full week that she has been able to drive. Yesterday on the way home from golf I put the radio on for the 1st time while she drove. I really can't put into words how I feel about her driving. I know every parent experiences the same thing but you just plain worry. She is doing everything exactly as she was taught. Experience is what she needs now. The roads are just like if you were driving on Dover Downs Speedway. Sure you can plaster novice driver magnets all over your car but means zero for the impatient drivers on the roads. There are never enough police presence. I get they can't be everywhere but sheesh as a momma of new driver oh how I wish. This is a short week and then Easter break. I plan on having a ham for dinner and all the usual fixings. Last week we went to Firebirds for Em's birthday dinner. It was very good but honestly a little pricey for what it is. Eric made Tim's birthday dinner. Steak and shrimp, garlic parmesan mashed potatoes and asparagus. Its nice to go out but we actually make very good dinners at home. We had a red velvet cake for Em and had a ton left over so we put a candle in that and sang to Tim lol. Eric made Em her favorite creamy garlic chicken on Sunday. Both Eric and Em can cook. Just a few weeks ago they made buffalo chicken egg rolls in the air fryer. They were way better than any I haven't eaten out. He did make Tim his favorite...sour creme pound cake last night. You probably think heck is he still working? Yes just depends on his caseload. I just ordered Finn's food from Chewy yesterday and I just noticed it is sitting in the middle of my driveway. That is a first usually its on the step or even by the garage doors. Not this time looks like they opened the back door and kicked it out:( Crazy times momma that is all I can say about that at least it was delivered quickly. I am trying to keep things in perspective ha! Em has a golf match today and one again tomorrow. Both are at very nice courses. I am just glad the weather is cooperating. We have had a fair amount of rain so far this spring. I need to pick up a few more things for the Easter baskets. I loved how we would get a basket with the egg and jelly beans. I will do it as long as I am able. We dye eggs too. So many traditions that I remember and I know that my kids really look forward to them. Tonight is Taco Tuesday. It is a fave of Em's so that is on the weekly rotation quick and easy. Missing you Mom I know how much you enjoyed the longer days and looking out to see the flowers popping up and the yard starting to green up. We have some yard things in the works and I am hoping to use the slates from our front walkway.I know they are going to be perfect. I will talk soon.
Always your Oddie xo
Tiny
March 21, 2022
Hi Momma it is a beautiful day out. I have the slider open and Finn loves the cool air blowing in. I like to have the windows open to let some fresh air in. I usually will have the kitchen and powder room windows open. Mom I painted my bedroom set. Its my oldest furniture. We got it 32 years ago from Miller's. I just asked Tim if we still have the receipt from it. I remember picking it out and paying payments on it. It was a big expense at the time. I really believe if you buy quality it will last. Well along with taking care of it. I can still hear you mom. How you would say not to flop or dig your feet into the cushions. It makes me laugh now but I know I didn't understand then what you meant or I didn't like it lol. Its those things I look at now and go ding ding there you go. It makes sense to me now. I like exactly how I am wired. I grew up where things were tidy and cared for and I appreciate that for my own. I certainly can be a little better but I am working on it. Yesterday I stripped the beds and while Em's room isn't dirty she has a ton of clothes that are strewn on the top of her hamper or the back of her chair. Keep in mind they are clean they just weren't the right outfit at the time lol. Mom my Babygirl is just about 16. It really brings tears to my eyes because I can vividly remember her being born. She is sweet, silly, sassy, smart, loyal, kind, adventurous and ambitious. I can honestly say I like her. I can certainly see us being friends if it wasn't for this mom-daughter gig lol. We really haven't looked into a car yet but we have sometime(6 months) until she can drive by herself. We are thinking a smaller SUV. But we will see. Tim is on till 7:30 and I am having spaghetti and ravioli for dinner. Em has golf till 5. Its not too bad cause I just have to get her at Back Creek golf coarse. Its closer to us than driving back to school. Gas prices are up and I try and coordinate all of my errands around when I am out and about. Tomorrow I will do my Shoprite, Costco and Trader Joe shopping trip after taking Em to school. Eric goes into the office on Wednesday and Thursday so he takes Em to school on those days. He was in DC visiting some of his friends for the weekend. He stopped in Annapolis on the way home. He bought Em a pair of sweats and me a t-shirt in the Navy store. I love Annapolis. It's a cute town. Well, mom I got to kick it in gear. I have a load in the washer I need to switch over. Plus I have my St Paddy's decorations still up and need to put out my spring and Easter stuff. I will talk soon.
Always your Oddie xo
Shelly
March 17, 2022
Top of the Morning Mom. Happy St.Patrick´s Day to you and everyone in heaven. I can´t complain about sitting still and doing nothing. It´s not in me mom. I´ve been pretty busy and I have to admit, I´m really starting to feel it on the weekends. I´m going to change my schedule soon and take Saturdays off. The crazy weather is starting to break and I can´t wait to go out and work in my flower bed. It´s my happy place Mom. I love it. Trimming my rose bushes, pulling weeds, watching my perennials pop up, and laying new mulch. This makes me happy. The crazy and disappoints of my day exit my thoughts. lol. Just me and my flower bed. I love you Mom. I can still hear your voice in my head. I´m smiling now Mom, remembering our talks in the kitchen and you using your pointer finger. If I could only talk to you now. Yea Mom. If I could only talk to you now. One day closer. Give everyone a hard hug and kiss for me please. Miss you all so much. Love, Shell
Tiny
March 2, 2022
Hi Momma just straightened up and finished up a load of laundry. Its very pretty out and in 50s. The temps have been all over the place one day warm pushing close to 60 and the next 30 degrees cooler. Yesterday Em started golf with school. She is glad to be back playing. Her golf instructor hasn't been feeling that great but wanted to see her hit her new clubs. Tim took her to her lesson and said he felt bad that Mr Jim had his wife drop him off. He is using a wheelchair. Tim said you could tell he was in pain. But he said to Tim that he would be fine. Em adores him and I think the feeling is mutual. He said with some PT, rest and will he will be back at it. Tim went back to work this past Monday. Mom the roadrunner was shocked at how slow the recovery was from back surgery. He was able to catch up on some tv shows, rewatch the Sopranos, rest and relax and he even was able to drop-off and pick Em up from school a few times. Finn was devastated when he left for work lol. Today Em has an eye exam. She is thinking she wants a pair of prescription sunglasses for driving. Yes Mom, my girl will be 1-6 in just about a month. She has been practicing in the school parking lots. We are starting to get some ideas on what would be a good 1st car for her. We are leaning towards a small SUV. Maybe the Toyota RAV4, Honda CRV or the Ford Escape. It is crazy to me to think she will be driving soon. Just the other night she made a comment at her Bio class and Tim said hang in there its just about over. She said back, "oh I know but I don't want my sophomore year to be over." Both her and Eric love school. Ok sure when there is a tough exam maybe not so much. She will hymn and haw but thats short lived. I am glad too. High school is filled with lots of great memories to look back on. She is running for Treasurer of the student government for 2022-23. Those positions are usually held by seniors but she said I got as good a shot as anyone. She is right. Go get 'em Em! Tonight we are having burgers on the grill. I love this time of year. Temps are changing and the days start getting longer. I miss you, Mom. I will talk soon.
Always your Oddie xo
Shell
February 14, 2022
Happy Valentine´s Day Mom. xo Give everyone a hard hug and kiss for me please. Missing you all, always.
Tiny
February 1, 2022
Hi Momma just finished getting everything chopped and diced for beef stew. I love having soup or stew when its cold out. I also made some corn muffins. Last night I made chicken Alfredo and garlic bread. Em isn't a fan of stew so she will have some leftovers. I also made some brownies. Suzanne had asked me if I remember your cakes and brownies. I do. I sent her a picture of me and Frank sitting at the kitchen table. There was one of your cakes in the picture. I like having something sweet for snack. Usually its ice cream which Tim could eat every day. We usually went for a bit after dinner and I will ask if everyone wants something. Its a given Tim will say "sure hun whatever you fix". Don't give the option of in a bowl or a cone cause quickly he answers "a cone is fine". Remember when the Joy sugar cones were sold in the 48 count box. Now its a box of 12. Jeanne always would have cones too. Last week me, Tim and Em went to Dairy Queen for blizzards. The DQ in Lewes is my favorite one. Em is friends with the girl whose family owns it. I like soft serve ice cream but hard dipped is my favorite. Tim is going stir crazy being off. Earlier today he made the comment that he was going to call work and see if they have light duty. He said I told them my wife is driving me crazy. I would argue the opposite lol. Finn is loving their afternoon cat naps. Fed Ex just delivered Em's sweatshirts that I ordered in September. They are from cheer. So many things have been delayed. Parents are frustrated since things were from fall sports and their sizes may have changed. These items are nonrefundable since they are monogrammed. The past 2 weeks of football have been great. The games have been well matched. The Super Bowl is in 2 weeks. Cincinnati and LA Rams. We are rooting for the Bengals. It would be nice to see them win. Not sure what we are having to snack on but leaning towards meatballs from Robinos. I love watching the commercials. So I am hoping for another close game. Me and Tim are on the final season of Sopranos. My favorite is Tony and Carmella is a close second. So we will watch Jeopardy and then Sopranos. Tomorrow is suppose to be close to 50 degrees. Then a day of rain on Thursday. I may redo my bedroom set. Its over 31 years old and needs a refresh. I may see if Chubby wants to get me started on a nightstand. She makes it seem easy so I am inspired to try. I am hesitant but its in good shape. There is no rush to get it done so I am thinking what the heck. I know I need a new mattress. So I would rather spend the money on that. Its just about 47 days till spring so I want to be done all inside jobs. Well mom I need to kick it in gear. I will talk soon. All my love.
Your Oddie xo
Tiny
January 15, 2022
Morning Mom I can't believe its mid January already. Heck I still have my trees up. All of the other decorations are put away. There is something about having just the trees lit that makes it hard to take them down. Not to mention how long it takes to put each ornament in their boxes. I have a crazy amount of ornaments and each year I add to my collection. Tim did have his surgery this past Monday. He has had some pain but is tolerating it. He has been sleeping in Em's room so that he can watch tv. The spare room doesn't have one. So its me, Em and Finn sleeping in my room. Finnegan doesn't understand what the heck is going on. Tim is a softie. If Finn moves in the morning Tim gets up and takes him down to feed him and lets him out to potty. With me I tell Finn to stay and I get out of bed first. I just don't want Finn to pounce on Tim and Tim to twitch in order to protect his back. He needs to recover and heal. The doctor said no driving for 2 weeks and zero lifting for 4. Yesterday he walked up to the corner. Mom you know Tim is not one to sit idle. I think he is enjoying catching up on some tv but that will wear off. Right now he is rewatching the Sopranos. Mom, remember how much you liked that show? Your man Paulie Walnuts lol. We still crank up the volume when the theme song plays. I am making homemade cinnamon buns with cream cheese frosting. We are just sticking around the house its super cold out. Its Wild Card Saturday so I know football will be on the tv. The Eagles play Tampa Bay tomorrow. It doesn't look to promising but you gotta have hope. Mom we have been glued to watching Jeopardy. They have a contestant named Amy who is amazing. I think she has won 32 games. I can tell by watching her facial expressions if she knows the answer. She is exceptionally smart and has such charm. We are rooting for her. Last night I answered a couple of questions and Tim said "hey Mar you don't have to shout your answer" ha. These categories are so tough and when I know an answer I get excited. Em is off school on Monday for MLK. She has mid terms starting on Thursday. Half of sophomore year finished. She has started to receive pamphlets from colleges. Some have made comments about comparing Eric and Emma. Everyone does compare themselves in one fashion or another. I can certainly name their similarities but name a dozen ways they are poles apart. Here's the thing Mom it can be healthy and helps to motivate and challenge you. But in there is you. Recognizing that is growth. It is exactly how I parent. I take my own childhood things I hold dear and add my own take. Its my wish for Eric and Em when they have their own families. Comparison can also corrode your views. If you aren't in a good head space. Its much easier to be angry or lay blame. Focus on what you can control and work on that. Accountability and ownership of one's self. Being thankful for all the things you have while you pursue and work on the things you want. Starts at home and trickles throughout your life. Gratitude. Find it and your more than halfway there. Ok Mom I need to get these buns in the oven and my day in gear. Love and miss you.
Always your Oddie xo
Tiny
December 31, 2021
Morning Mom its New Years Eve and Tim got the day off. The hospitals are delaying non urgent surgeries. Hospitalizations are up with covid patients. The holiday gatherings will bring a surge in numbers in the coming weeks. Plus its cold and flu season. Mom we are 2 years in and sometimes we are making progress and then we take 10 steps back. Chubby had Christmas. Of coarse we had tons of food. Em wasn't feeling that great at the start of her school break. Coughing and runny nose. I was worried so we all had a covid test to be sure we were negative before going to Christmas. Tonight we are making crab cakes and steak. It will be my 1st attempt at making them. Normally we would have crab imperial (one of my favorites) but Eric isn't a fan. The recipe is the one I have had at Judy's a few times when she has had a ladies who lunch get together. Thats the name of our club LWL. So it will be another low key night. Probably sit around play some games and eat snacks. Mom I can count on one hand how many times I went out to ring in the new year. I am certain it was before Eric. I need to get the gifts from under the tree put away. I am undecided when to take the trees down. Tim is having back surgery on January 14th. So I know that everything needs to be put away beforehand. Eric is working remotely till 1/18 and more than likely that will be pushed back. The weather has been dreary and rainy. Bummer I was hoping to take a ride to the beach, grab a Nic-o-boli and walk the beach. But with Em not up to speed it all worked out. Mom not sure if I am making any resolutions. I mean there is always eat better move more but thats a given. 2022 is shaping up nicely. Em turning 16 and driving, Bell graduating and Brit expecting a little one. So lots of hope and promise for the new year. Hope is what drives us. So its a good time to reflect on the outgoing year. Highs and lows, things out of your control, achievements, areas to improve, things to let go. Heck its a laundry list but its the perfect time to start the next chapter. Mom I miss you. Give everyone a hug and kiss. Talk soon.
Always your Oddie xo
Shell
December 26, 2021
Good Morning Mom. Happy Birthday in heaven. I wonder what kind of cake Chub would have picked for you. They were always too pretty to cut and so good. She actually can make some awesome cakes herself. I told her not to post pics on facebook, because she´s going to start getting orders and she´s already a busy lady. lol. Sending you a hard hug and kiss Mom. I love you. Have a wonderful birthday with everyone. xo Shell
Shell
December 25, 2021
Merry Christmas in heaven Mom. I went to 5:00 mass last night like I had planned. I remember when that mass was so packed they had extra chairs in the aisle. Not the case right now. But besides that, beautiful evening. I´m going to bake chocolate chip cookies and pizzelles in the morning. Quite time with my music on.....Dinner will be a herb pork loin, mash potatoes and gravy,white corn, cinnamon applesauce, and I´m making a small cole slaw. Not sure why, but I´m craving my cole slaw. I don´t like any cole slaw but mine. lol. Suzanne has someone coming on Monday to put together her long awaited recliner. I can´t wait. Heaving a big sigh Mom. Repeat....I can´t wait. We have been so busy at work. It´s crazy. I´m feeling it earlier in the evening now and I´m ready to wind it down by 7, but I don´t. I hang in there till 8 and off I go. Whatever. I crank it up early a couple days a week....like 2:50 am, get two cups of java in me and off I go to open CB. Then after work , do what I need to do before I go home. I can´t really sit once I´m home, because once I do,that´s all she wrote. I get tired and don´t want to do anything. Mom, my friend Mr. Ashley is coming along. I stop by and see him in the afternoon when I get off work. It´s a rehab center on my way home from work. The place is really nice and everyone that works there is so friendly. I told Mr. Ashley that I think the place warm and cozy. He has a nice view from his window. He´s antsy to get out,so I guess that´s a good sign. He asked his son where his car keys are and they said "Dad, your car keys are on your kitchen counter. They´re fine." Umm, I don´t really see him behind the wheel anymore , but we leave that subject alone. 89 yrs. Mom. He´s done pretty good all this time. He´s been lucky. Sometimes when we went out, he wanted me to drive his car instead of mine. To tell you the truth Mom, he taught me how to use the cruise control. lol. As many cars that I have rented and drove , I never used the cruise control. lol. I was afraid. He was by my side and told me exactly what to do on one of our outings. Easy peasy man. I said, my next set of wheels .....no more stick shift. So much better for my legs. Big time. Well Mom, for me today, my heart and mine always go to you all in heaven. I love you all with all my heart and my tears come very easy reminiscing. It hurts. I miss the norm, laughs, hugs and smiles. You all were my glue. Mom, give Dad, Frank, Jeanne, Little Nana and my Brad a hard hug and kiss for me. Merry Christmas Mom. xo Shell
Shell
December 19, 2021
Good Morning Mom. I wish I could hug you. Drinking my coffee as I re-light my tea lights to see everyone´s face. It´s quite. You all smile, I smile back. I start and end my day with looking at you guys. Happy Sunday in heaven Mom. I´m sorry I haven´t been up in awhile, but I´m coming up on my solo trip. I´ll be there. I love you Mom. xo Shell
Tiny
December 16, 2021
Morning Mom crazy to think that Christmas is next week. I am just about finished with my shopping. I will box everything up and Em will wrap everything. She really likes to wrap. In fact so does Tim. Its not one of my favorite things to do. So that works out for me. This weekend Em has a golf lesson. Then we plan on decorating a gingerbread house and baking some cookies. Chocolate chip, snickerdoodles, peanut butter blossoms, and sugar. I may make pizzelles. Eric has been working late and he has been working on 2 big cases. So we have eating later than normal on those days. Last night I made tacos and rice. Tonight we are grilling burgers. It is suppose to be in the low 60s so thats perfect for grilling. Eric has his office holiday party so he won't be here. It really is hard thinking up different things to make for dinner. I plan on making a pan of lasagna for Christmas Eve. I will see if Joe wants to come over. Chubby is having Christmas dinner. Last year everyone stayed home so this will be nice. Em is looking forward to her winter break from school. Last weekend she helped me decorate the tree upstairs. She put the ribbons on for me. We googled different ways of doing it and she said I can do that mom and she did. Well Tim would say we weren't that calm ha but hey it got done! I told him that she has his patience. He said probably. I am just impressed that he agrees. As I am writing to you Finn is snoring away. He snores so loud that he startles himself. This year my front door wreath is from Costco and I am not sure how long it will last. I think the warmer temps is drying it out. It isn't as full as the ones from the past. I have tried spritzing it with water hoping it helps. My favorite part of the holidays is hanging out, snacking and watching movies. Of coarse Em's favorite Christmas with the Kranks is a must. She could watch that on repeat. I am making Em one of her favorite cakes today. It is a chocolate chip coffee cake. It isn't that sweet. I need to strip the beds but I think I will just wait until the weekend. I may change my comforter. I bought awhile ago and never put it on my bed. I will keep the old one at the bottom for Finn to lay on. I also bought a new shower curtain for the hall bath but I need to get a new liner before I put that up. I like changing them for the seasons. Something you enjoyed especially with your curtains. I will talk soon Mom. Missing you tons.
Always your Oddie xo
Shell
December 3, 2021
Good Morning Mom. I was suppose to be off today, but one of the other girls needed off so I´m going in. I´m not in a good mood Mom and to tell you the truth, keeping busy helps me. The gym was a good outlet, but it´s my own fault that I push it aside , because of other things. My friend Mr.Ashley fell this week and fractured his hip. He had just come in for breakfast, went home , and somehow tripped , boom down he went. He crawled into the other room to get his cell phone to call 911. His surgery went well, I´m going to give it a couple of days and go visit him. He is such a sweet man Mom. Old school. It´s been a hard week and I want you to send me some Marianne strong. It´s hard. I really want to go sit on a park bench by myself and watch the birds fly around. Set that backpack down and chill. Hiking can be tiring at times, the canoe, I´m good with that. I may refresh my sign language skills also, because sometimes I don´t think I´m getting through. Mom, I want a hug from you. It´s hard. I looked on the calendar and I am off Christmas Eve....which means evening Mass. I am so looking forward to it. It´s so pretty with all the white and red poinsettias. The choir and organ. My time that I´m so looking forward to. I´m leaving half early to get a good parking spot and good seat in the pew. It´s pretty well packed by 5:00pm.Well, I´m going for my second cup of coffee now Mom, the key is in the ignition, the motor is humming, the second cup....and off I go. I love you Mom. Give Dad,Frank,Jeanne,Little Nana and my Brad a hard hug and kiss for me. Always, xoShell
Shell Parent
November 26, 2021
Good Morning Mom. I wished you Happy Thanksgiving yesterday and for some reason it has not posted yet. I have sent you two other messages this past month which had never posted. When the first one did´nt post , I thought....oh well, maybe I was too tired and didn´t hit submit....but now two more times? I usually send a message to you pretty early in the morning before my day begins or at night when I´m winding down. Well, repeat......I miss hearing your voice and I miss seeing your smile. I love you Mom and I want to hug you. xo I´m no spring chicken but , I´m always going to move it, so I don´t loose it. I figure if Mick Jagger can, I can. He´s amazing. lol. Well, let´s see if this one posts.
Shell Parent
November 25, 2021
Happy Thanksgiving in heaven Mom. It´s been a busy week and boy do I feel it. Today is a day you reflect on your blessings and what your thankful for. I am very thankful that I was blessed with a wonderful, hard working Dad. I have a lot of fond memories that warm my heart. I am very thankful that I was blessed with a Mom, who showed me, no matter what cards were dealt, roll those sleeves up and play that hand the best you can. Keep it going and don´t stop. I made an effort to get rid of somethings in my bedroom and one box had Frank´s letters that he wrote me when he was in the Navy. I took them out and showed Suzanne. Mom, he was a trip. We had a good laugh reading them. Did you know that him and Jeanne took my car out one night and rode around JF before he had his license? Yea, me neither mom. What a hoot. I´ve delayed Thanksgiving dinner until Suzanne is able to join us. I´ve gotten away from the stuffed bird and prefer Ham, mash potatoes, green bean casserole ( love it) yams, devil eggs, sweet white corn and baked cauliflower. Yea Mom, plenty of leftovers for at least three days.Throw it down. lol. I went and had my cards read. Interesting to say the least. Two things have transpired since. I like the card reader and will go back to her in about six months. Mom, give Dad, Frank, Jeanne, Little Nana and my Brad a hard hug and kiss for me. I miss you Mom. I miss hearing your voice and seeing your smile. The hurt never goes away. I love you Mom. xo Shell
Tiny
November 18, 2021
Hi momma it has been awhile since I have written. But you are never far from my mind. It is very nice out for mid November. Can you believe its 72? Only a week until Thanksgiving. I need to take my turkey out and start to thaw it. It is a 23 pounder. I know its much more than I need but I love having leftovers. I always loved how you made a big holiday meal and the best gravy ever. Tim makes fairly decent gravy. This year I am only doing 1 filling. I usually do 2 but most aren't fans of mushrooms so I will leave that one out. I will bring out your big 'ole blue roaster for the bird. Plus I have your serving platter. I would bring out your cranberry or relish dish but I only remember both you and Frank liking it. I keep them in my dining room hutch. I still make a boatload of twice baked mashed potatoes around 10lbs. I am making a small thing of sweet potatoes. Plus roasted carrots with thyme and you know I have to have my corn;) I am not doing the green bean casserole. I end up throwing most of it away. Then apple pie with ice cream. Everyone is off the day after. Eric bought tickets to see a show for him and Em. Its in Philly on Black Friday. He is such a great big brother and they really like each other. Hey mom I got to add that because they like spending time together. Mom Eric passed his bar and Em is doing very well in school. She looks up to him and I think he thinks she is an awesome sister. Most nights I turn the tv down so I can hear them laughing. Its all about TikTok and videos people share. Mostly its funny but some will regret what they post. Mom Em went to her homecoming dance and she looked so pretty. She had her hair and makeup done. Her school pics are nice too. I like looking back and seeing the different years. Boy its crazy the changes. I told Jeanne that a bus driver at school told me that Em is a really nice girl. Mom I hope that she is but when someone tells you that is how she is in and out of school you know she is kind and respectful. Especially when its not when me and Tim are present. I am a lucky momma and I know it. Jeanne would tease me when it was just Eric and say even the dog is good(my boy Coop) But no complaints both are different 2 and 4 legged and would not change a thing. Now Tim on the other hand lol. Teasing of coarse the cat is a keeper. He is moving a little slower these days. He hurt his back so he is only operating at 70mph and not his usual 110. He is going to physical therapy and does home stretches and the heating pad. So we will see in a few weeks how he is feeling. Mom I had a company come out to give me an estimate on replacing some of our fence posts. It is the same company who installed it. The fence is 17 years old so it has been awhile since I saw the man. Mom I took one look at the man and thought he wasn't looking well. He had an arm injury and was walking a bit slower. We made some small talk and he said I will email you and Tim an estimate. I went in and sent Tim a text saying that the company came bye but I was concerned with how the man looked. I really wanted to call the office out of concern but I didn't know how that would be received. We did get an estimate and I called the office a few times to let them know that we wanted to proceed but we never heard back from them. Well I looked them up on Facebook and I was shocked and saddened to find out that he had passed. One week from the day that he was here. So sad. He had mentioned how the aches and pains creep on ya and he was easing up on working. He was selling his home and bought down here in Middletown to be closer to his son and family. It still gives me the chills. Oh I know what I wanted to tell you...Jim Gardner from Action News is retiring at the end of 2022. He is starting to step back on his broadcasts. I am just glad that I have a little more than a year to prepare. I love that whole news team. I even love the theme song, the beat and "here comes that Action News van" lol. Crazy but true they are like family. Such a fun group. We still tune into Jeopardy but I must say Wheel of Fortune takes some getting use too ha. I know if we were watching tv I would have you hooked on some of the Netflix and Hulu series. Lots of good documentaries too. Mom as life inches on by I really could use someone to talk to. There is things that I really don't want to bend Tim's ear with. He really doesn't need to hear me ramble. Jeanne certainly would be another. I like to think that I am a good listener but I am at the point in my life where I am going to be honest, respectful and open. It is what a healthy relationship is. Sometimes people don't receive that too well. Its fine. I am working on that too. Thats the thing to grow. I read a lot, Mom. It helps. I remember a certain someone who always enjoyed reading. I still get a few magazines but they are filled with mainly advertisements. I even stopped the newspaper it was super thin and barely any sales papers which is my favorite part. Well I am off to start on dinner. Eric is in the office and we eat a little later on those nights. Ugh with the shorter days it feels as though we eat, I clean up and then bedtime. I will talk soon. Miss you tons.
Always your Oddie xo
Tiny
October 5, 2021
Morning Mom it is a short week for Em. There is no school on Friday. The teachers have an inservice day. Friday is our homecoming football game and Saturday is the dance. I have been back and forth to the mall looking for dresses, shoes, jewelry you name it. Em has little feet 4 1/2 maybe a 5 depending on the brand. Stores typically don't have those sizes in the store so you have to search and buy them online. Homecoming dresses are totally different than prom and even her 8th grade formal dress. Em doesn't go overboard with her clothes. I am glad for both me and Tim's sake lol. I mean she is getting older and with that comes some independence but right now she still asks me what I think. So I am lucky. The kids are planning on going to Chesapeake City for pictures beforehand. I am hoping the weather cooperates. One of her friends is having some friends over after the dance for snacks. A couple of girls in her friend group aren't going. I wish they were cause I think these are some of your best memories from high school. Em cheered this past Saturday at Concord High School. My phone rang at 9:50 from Em. I knew the game was to start at 10:30 so I thought maybe she forgot something. It was the athletic trainer from school letting me know that Em was bit by something on the top of her arm when she was getting off of the bus. He needed to ask for my permission to treat her. He put Em on and she said it was tender but she was fine to stay. Tim was at work doing his vacation draft for next year and said let him know if he should take a ride up to check on her. I said she said she would be fine. We both laughed and said had it been Eric they would have landed a medevac. Of coarse we shared that with both of them at dinner. Em said "probably" and Eric said "funny". Tonight Tim is on till 7:30 and Em has cheer practice. So its clean out the frig night. I made pork chops and roasted potatoes last night. Sunday we had soft chicken tacos and Mexican rice for football. So I have plenty of leftovers. I made a pot of beef stew with corn muffins last week. I had planned on making chicken and dumplings this week but its warmer than usual out so I will wait on that. Mom I keep clipping my coneflowers in my side flowerbeds and they keep blooming. I just love them. They are my favorite. Eric is working both in the office and from home. We just had tea well coffee for him with cinnamon bread. Finn is lying at my feet. Someone asked if you were offered $250,000 for your pet. Would you? I asked at dinner. Majority said NO!!! I was the hold out ha. Tim reminded me that the guy who was putting in our fence around the pool said "I'll put this fence in for free for the dog". It was my Coop and there was no way my boy was going anywhere. I am teasing about Finnegan. He really is a good boy. He just needs to start sharing the bed lol. Mom he starts at the bottom of the bed and works his way to the middle. Keep in mind his noggin is laying on Tim's legs. There is no way to move him. He lays like a concrete block. Well I am off to do a load of wash and dust. Missing you Mom.
Always your Oddie xo
Shell
September 19, 2021
Good Morning Mom. September ......not really a fan. I love you Mom and would love to sit and have a heart to heart with you. I plan on working in my flower bed tomorrow. I bought a couple of yellow and white mums to add add more color. I love the yellow mums. I´m going to wait on putting any pumpkins or any fall decor out yet. It has to be Oct. for me. I´m still working five days a week, but I´ve changed my Sunday hours a little bit. I only want to work four hours at lunch time. After noon, it slows up a bit and the senior church crowd comes in to eat. I love waiting on them Mom. No large groups. Maybe two or three ladies together, or two couples out together. So sweet. Old school Mom. They´re dressed up and I love seeing the ties on the older men. And their nice to wait on. Of course you might get a grumpy one now and then, but not very often. I go the other way with it, because you don´t know their story. I had one older man, he started crying when I went back to see if he needed a refill on his drink. He was by himself and said he shouldn´t have come in to eat. I told him I´m sorry, patted his shoulder and told him I´d be right back with another hot tea. He ate his meal , but cried the whole time. I told him to be careful driving when he left. He wasn´t familiar to me Mom,but I kept thinking about him the rest of day. I´m going to try to get back in to my gym routine this week. Lol. It´s so easy to get off track. And church Mom. I need it. I went and had my nails done the other day and right next to me was this little senior lady no bigger than a minute getting her nails painted. Mom, she was too cute. Her walker beside her chair, mask on, smiling and watching intently. She was by herself. I watched her leave and go slowly acrosss the parking lot to her car with her handbag and walker hunched over. I thought....Bless her heart. My first thought.....God, let me be able to be like her at her age. Please. She had to be in her eighties Mom. So cute. Drinking my coffee right now, got the engine started, warming it up with a lot of thoughts going through my head. Tomorrow is a big day Mom. Be there. I love you and want you to send some Marianne Strong. XO Give Dad, Frank,Jeanne, Little Nana and my Brad a hard hug and kiss for me. Always...
Shell
September 10, 2021
Good Morning Mom. Five years ago today, I lost my best friend. You were my go to. No matter what, you were always there for me. I love you Mom and miss you so much. My life has changed a lot since you´ve been gone, but I know that I´m able to roll the sleeves up, put the boots on ( it can get pretty deep) and get it done. Thank you Mom. xo
Tiny
September 9, 2021
Hi momma it has been 5 years that I haven't been able to sit and talk with you. The saying is true it doesn't matter how old you are, you always need your mom. Something heavy on your mind talk to mom, opinion on your hair or outfit check with mom, hey what goes in your stir fry call mom, watch tv or Action News and look over and there you are legs crossed with your slippers on. The little and big things. I know that you would be getting a kick out of listening to Em talk about being back to school. Man can she talk. She tells me all about on the way home and I hear it again at dinner with Tim and Eric. She has drivers ed. No, I am not ready but Tim has taken her out a few times to drive in school parking lots. Just to get her familiar. He said she did pretty good. They took a practice test to see how much they know. Well, she did not do well. She said "Mom how long does it take for a can of beer to leave your system?" I said "No clue". She said "Exactly! Like I am only 15!" I truly do not remember that being on the written part but hey we had simulators in the classroom lol. Tim said he didn't have them. She is cheering again. I like the Friday night games. So far this week everyone has been pretty tired and lights are out by 9:30-10ish. Even Finn but I think he may be a little depressed. He likes having Em home to swim and lay on her bed while she is in her room. Em got out of the car earlier and told me to pay attention to Finn today. Well since he is the most spoiled that won't be an issue. I have a hair appointment this afternoon. I need to look back to see when my last appointment was. I am in desperate need of hair color. I will keep it a little lighter and my next appt I will get it darkened for winter. Em has been styling my hair crazy since she just lets hers air dry. One of her teachers from last year retired. She recently had her 1st grandchild and wants to able to babysit. Em was sad and is going to write her note. She really enjoyed her class. Her schedule this year is tough but she says planning ahead will help to keep her on top of it. She has her absolute favorite teacher for AP Biology( kills Eric that she loves him) lol. Mom just think me and the road runner will be married 30 years next week. Eric went to a wedding on the 4th in Philly. There were about 15 friends from Caravel there. It was nice seeing the pictures. Great group of kids and I loved hearing what they are all up to. I am off to toss a load of laundry in and dust. I think I may put out my fall decorations. I have always waited until the 21st but hey why not? Talk soon Mom.
Always your Oddie xo
Tint
August 10, 2021
Hi Momma I just got back from Costco. I usually do a big order every 4 to 6 weeks. I stocked up on bunch of household staples and some different meats. Oh and a 25 lb bag of King Arthur flour which is 12.99 a great buy. I will repackage it so that its easier to handle. I am out of chicken broth and they only had the big cartons. I like College Inn maybe cause thats what you used and it stuck with me. I like to have it on hand. Eric uses it in this creamy garlic chicken dish he makes. Its always busy in there. Tim wants to get a new tv for the family room but so far he hasn't found one he likes. Em just got her schedule and she is excited. She just said the other night she really likes school. The first marking period she has drivers ed. Oh man mom I am not ready but I better be, right? I want to take her to an empty parking lot so that she can get the feel of driving. But I must admit I am not the best with being the passenger let alone driving with a new driver. You always said that Megan and Eric were very good drivers. I think so too but its all the other drivers that makes me so jumpy. Eric finished his exam and will find out in October and then December is the swearing in. I really don't have any doubt that he has passed. He is just so disciplined and makes sure he is well prepared. I gotta say they both are very much the same when it comes to their work ethic. Prepare and do your very best. Hey I know where they get it and I am ok with that. Tim is a great role model. Speaking of that go getter he hurt his back at work moving a patient. He said he knew as soon as it happened. He felt a pain in his lower back and it radiated down his leg. He has a MRI on Thursday and has been taking a steroid pack to get the inflammation down. He also has been using some rubber bands to help strengthen his leg and his core. We don't bounce back as quick as we use too. Sunday we went to Mrs Robino's for an early dinner. Its been probably close to 2 years since we have been there. We did order take out once on a Sunday. Its a haul to drive up there but its one place that is always consistent with their food. Tonight is a quick night for dinner...cleaning out the frig. Tomorrow is burgers and dogs on the grill with potato salad and corn on the cob. Yup I still can put away a few ears ha! I heard from a girl from Brooks the other day. It was totally random but a nice surprise. She told me that she is a grandmother now. Crazy! A little boy that is super cute. We are going to get together soon. It will be nice to catch up. Tonight I told Em that we will do face masks and I will paint her nails. She has been growing them which is huge for her. So I will file them and polish them maybe before Tim comes home cause me and her can get a little loud. Must be a mom and daughter thing lol. I will put Action News on and then ABC World News Tonight. At 7 its Jeopardy all the way. How in the heck does anyone know some of that stuff! I will catch up soon. Miss you Mom.
Always your Oddie xo
Tiny
July 22, 2021
Hi Momma we finally have some relief from the humidity.The next few days are suppose to be nice in the low 80's. I will take it. Tim is working till 7:30 or at least till 6 depending on how the OR's are running. Em is busy dusting her room and she stripped her bed. The other day she made cream cheese sugar cookies and earlier she made chocolate chip. She hasn't baked them off yet. I made some blackberry jam the other day. Not a ton but I had blackberries so I needed to use them up. Both me and Eric like it. Tim doesn't sway away from good 'ole grape. Em sticks with butter and sometimes she will have cream cheese on her toast. I remember how you liked peanut butter toast. Me too. I just bought the Lance peanut butter crackers at Costco (a fave of both you and Tim). He takes them for a snack at work and on the golf coarse. Meg went to Costco with me and she got them for Joe too. Tonight I am making stuffed peppers. Tim had gotten a bunch of veggies from a guy who works at Dover Surgi Center. I also bought some things from a stand last Sunday. I have been sautéing fresh green beans in olive oil with minced garlic. Both Tim and Em are my green bean lovers but both prefer canned. Ugh me and Eric like the fresh and with crunch. Don't get me started on Eric's love of onions. I think he thinks its a condiment that is put on everything. Grilled or sautéed but not raw. Mom he is in beast mode quite literally(shortness, tude lol) in 4 days he takes the bar. Hey a year delayed but he is rolling with it. I know he will do fine but hey I understand the scope of how big this is. I think:) I tell myself multiple times a day be supportive and its not personal but shew that can be tough. I usually get Em to take him his lunch or a drink. She can handle him ha. As for Finn he lays outside his door waiting for him to come out. Mom you know how much my pups mean to us but this one he is super sweet and has such personality. Saturday was his 3rd birthday. I always wrap his presents with a brown paper. Me and Em decorate it with crayons. Its a whole process lol. Em videoed him unwrapping them. I think I could send it to the show funniest videos. He works a corner and tosses the paper in the air. Pushing the present with his nose and making the whole thing a big performance. He loves attention in fact I would say he demands it. Such a brat ha. Last week I went to lunch at Tim's sister Judy. It was 4 of us. Me, Jude, Donna snd Sharde. She made homemade crabcakes with a spicy roumalade sauce, strawberry spinach salad and dessert was homemade vanilla ice cream with salted caramel sauce. It was amazing. She named us the lunch ladies so we plan to do this once a month. She is a great cook. She encourages me to be less afraid of making new foods. She made me my first dish of shrimp and grits. Very good. Her chicken tenders are hands down the best. She makes a killer peanut butter frosted brownie and her pies are yummy too. But she prefers to cook rather than bake. I brought a pineapple upside down cake. Tim is off for a 4 day weekend. Him and Em are golfing tomorrow. Monday he is golfing with some friends. Me and Em are going to go out and about so that there won't be any distractions and noises for Eric. Make sure you guys send some vibes his way. I know you guys hold a big spot with him. I miss ya Mom.
Always your Oddie xo
Shell
July 11, 2021
Good Morning Mom. Telling myself I have some Marianne genes. Ok....... let´s do it . I love you Mom and I know right? SMH. xo Love, Shell
Tiny
July 1, 2021
Hi Momma it has been a scorcher the past few days. Meg has been over swimming but we have been waiting till late in the afternoon to head out. Monday we were out for about 5 hours. Finn loves it just jumps in and out of the water. Well me, Meg and Em were in the pool I looked up at Finn and was like what the heck is wrong with his eye? It was swollen and raised around the brow. It was perfect timing since Tim had just gotten home. We dried him off and brought him inside (keep in mind he never let go of his toy). Tim called the vet and we had to give him Benadryl. He either got stung by a wasp or a fly. Poor little guy. He was in for the rest of the day. He watched from the kitchen window. Summer is his jam and he was not feeling it being left inside ha! It did go down but he needed 2 more dosages. It is a good thing we had Benadryl on hand. Just about 2 weeks ago I got into some type of poison ivy or oak. I was pulling some weeds without gloves and I had it in random spots. It was overly itchy and didn't spread like typical ivy so thats why my doc felt it was poison oak. I did a telemed call which was not a big fan of but she called in a couple scripts. One was prednisone and that seemed to wipe it out. I found out about the Benadryl spray which was awesome. The take away from this where the new gloves Tim bought ya for your birthday one year. Just kidding he bought them on one of his random Home Depot trips lol. Father's Day we cooked out. Tim golfed and then about 5. Chubby, Kenny, Bell, Joe, Meg and Mike came over. Tim loves to grill and he really times things pretty well. It can be a challenge since everyone likes their meat done a certain way. Eric bought us Phillies tickets for tomorrows game. We are looking forward to it. We went 2 years ago and had a blast. I think they already have an idea of the menu they plan on eating through. Nothing like ballpark food and the whole atmosphere. I can not believe today is July 1st. Summer needs to slow down. The past 1 1/2 years have been challenging and its nice for the kids to decompress from navigating school. I mean me with the one telemed call was a lot I can't imagine zooming school. Em fortunately was in person 5 full days but many things were altered especially the first half of the year. The other day Eric received a box for tonights cheese and olive oil experience. It had a ton of cheeses, oils, crackers, bread, olives, apples and a knife. Crazy cool. They also get a 35.00 wine allowance. It will be a zoom call and a fromager will discuss pairings. I think I like these perks more than Eric. He is busy watching lectures and studying and let me tell you I am glad its him and not me. It sounds like blah blah blah. It actually makes my head hurt. Nothing big for dinner French toast and bacon. Mom I remember making hamburger helper and you would say "Tine I really don't care for this" ha. I would make it to change things up. Eric loves it probably cause it is super easy and cheap and he made a ton in school. Mom let me let you in on a secret I am not a fan either. I will eat it but I struggle ha. I need to do my grocery run but some days I just don't feel like it. I like to go by 9 and if I don't get out by then I will wait till the next day. So much easier during the school year since I can right after dropping Em off at school. They have a lot of barbecue stuff on sale for the 4th so I will get some corn and a watermelon for sure. I want to find a stand with big ripe tomatoes. Grocery store ones just don't cut it. We just had a downpour and I hope that wasn't it. Everything is super dry. I water my flower pots but my daylilies and perennials need some too. Well I am off to run the sweeper. I need to vacuum the steps in the basement and clean the kids bathroom. Not sure who is the worse but I am leaning to the one with long hair and wears bikinis. I counted 4 draped on the shower curtain rod, towel bar and floor. Mom I have 2 10 years apart and I really do not know how you did it but thanks is not nearly enough ha. I will talk soon.
I love you and miss you so much.
Always your Oddie xo
Shell Parent
June 20, 2021
Good Morning Mom. Let Dad know that I’m thinking of him today. I couldn’t have been blessed with a better father. Every single memory of dad makes my heart swell with pride and love. Happy Father’s day in heaven Dad. The first man I ever loved.❤ xo Love, Shell
June 13, 2021
Morning Momma I got the house to myself. I am going to strip the beds and dust Em and Eric's rooms. Em is over a friends and Eric is in DC for the long weekend. Tim and Joe are golfing in Pa. Its me and Finn. So far he has brought me the rug from the powder room and then he tried to get a sock from the bathroom. Currently he is racked out by the kitchen door with the sun warming him up. He went out and laid on the deck but I think it gets a little toasty for him. It is only suppose to be in the high 70s. We might go out and sit by the pool. I bought a couple hats to wear when I am outside. They have a decent size brim. Last week I got a fair amount of sun probably more than I needed. I am constantly telling the kids sunscreen sunscreen. Everyone loves a tan and I admit most look better with some color but I really wish I would have taken better care of my skin. Its something that when you get older you think more about. Em is pretty good about moisturizing. I always have a stock pile of sunscreen cause Tim is so fair. I took Em to get her hair cut yesterday. She really wanted to get curtain bangs. Its just a fancy name for "bangs". So I compromised and she got face framing bangs. The girl texturized her hair and cut probably 4 inches off the bottom. She has nice thick hair. My only concern is once you cut your hair it seems like forever till it grows back out. Its so easy to pull it up and get it out of your face. It does look cute on her. Nothing drastic. Tonight I am making pork chops and mashed potatoes probably with green beans. We normally would grill but I think Tim won't be home too early. Last night we tried to watch some movies that were recommended on Netflix. We tried 3. Two of them we got 5 minutes in and we were like "its a no". The 3rd was a war movie and Tim ended up watching it. It was based on a true story. I read instead. Eric has a ton of books I may pick one to read by the pool. If I read in bed I fall fast asleep. I still get a few magazines. But they aren't like they used to be. Its mainly advertisements. I also get the Sunday paper. I thought of canceling it but then I would miss it. Even that is pretty skimpy. Very few circulars and minimum coupons. Well mom let me kick it in gear. I will talk soon.
Love your Oddie xo
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