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Gary J. Alessi Jr.

FUNERAL HOME

Falvo Funeral Home - Webster

1295 Fairport Nine Mile Point Rd.

Webster, New York

Gary Alessi Obituary

Name: Calling hours for Gary J. Alessi Jr.
Start: 2019-01-24T21:00:00.000Z
End: 2019-01-25T01:00:00.000Z
Location: Falvo Funeral Home

Gary J. Alessi Jr.

Irondequoit - Suddenly, January 19, 2019. Predeceased by father, Gary J. Alessi Sr.; Survived by his son, Charles; daughter, Nina; mother, Ann V. Alessi (Cappadonia); twin sister, Denise Alessi; grandmother, Mary Cappadonia; the mother of his children, Lisa Alessi; nephews, Adam and Sam; uncle, Anthony (Dianne) Cappadonia; and cousins. Gary was a retired Monroe County Sheriff Deputy.

Calling hours Thursday 4-8 at Falvo Funeral Home, 1295 Fairport Nine Mile Point Rd. (Route 250). On Friday please meet the family at Holy Spirit Church for his Funeral Mass at 10AM. Entombment Holy Sepulchre Cemetery.

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Published by Rochester Democrat And Chronicle on Jan. 23, 2019.

Memories and Condolences
for Gary Alessi

Sponsored by Falvo Funeral Home - Webster.

23 Entries

April 18, 2019

dear vinnie may our loving god hold gary untill you meet him again. your friend charlotte loiacono.

January 28, 2019

I am so sorry for your loss. May you find comfort in your cherished memories and in God's loving promises. John 6:40

George & Margo Novak

January 26, 2019

We wish to send our sympathy and sorrow for their loss to Gary's family and friends. Our memory of him is framed with respect and admiration for how he lived. May God's comfort and peace give solace to his family and friends.
George & Margo Novak

Anthony Finocchiaro

January 24, 2019

Gary you were one of the most respectful individuals I ever had the pleasure to work with in the 25 years in the Sheriff's Department. You were never a co-worker but a friend to me and I will always remember how you used to talk about your children and what they were always up too. MCF wasn't the same after you left and your name is always being mentioned for the job you did in your position in records. It's so hard to accept knowing how much of a huge loss you will be to your family and everyone that knew you.
your friend, "Finn"

Brenda & Shawn

January 24, 2019

Ann, Denise, Mary and Gary's children,
We well remember the Creek Hill days when our boys were growing up together doing chores around the complex. Gary will be missed by so many as he contributed to so many lives throughout his life. The loss of a child is unbearable. Rest In Peace Gary and prayers for your family to endure the loss of a wonderful person. Peace for all.
Brenda Zamiara
Shawn Roberts

Eternal Affection Arrangement- BASKET INCLUDED

a loved one

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Bob DeCramer

January 24, 2019

Sorry for your loss,he was a good man.

January 23, 2019

Please accept our most sincere condolences on the loss of your loved one. May the power of prayer (Matthew 21:22), ease your sorrow, give you peace and provide much comfort during this difficult time.
So sorry for your loss.

Michael Conole Sr

January 23, 2019

I'm truly sorry for your loss. I was Gary's nextdoor neighbor at his last residence, in Irondequoit He was a very good soul. He was helpful, in many ways, and would take time out to say hi. We need more people like him in this world.

Steve DiGennaro

January 23, 2019

Ill miss all the times we laughed when we worked together and the good times after work. Rest In Peace.

Stephen DiGennaro

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Marlene Nordquist

January 23, 2019

Ann I am so sorry for your loss.. No words can express the loss of a child. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. He will forever be in your heart.

Jeanette Cooper

January 23, 2019

May the Lord comfort all of you in this time!
John 14:27 -
"Peace I leave with you. My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let it be afraid."
When your hearts are hurting know that he hears your cries and sees your tears,
I am so, very sorry for your loss!

Jeanette Cooper

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Soto Family

January 23, 2019

Such a great guy, always smiling and always kept busy doing something. Gary was a great neighbor, always offering a helping hand and looking out for my family. Prayers of comfort, peace and strength to the family at this most difficult time.

Christine Eli

January 23, 2019

Ann, my deepest sympathies to you and your loved ones.

Debbie Smith

January 23, 2019

TO , ALL OF GARYS LOVED ONES. IT WAS AN HONOR TO HAVE KNOWN HIM AND HAD HIM THE SHORT TIME WE ALL DID. MY HEART BREAKS FOR HIS FAMILY KNOWING THAT WAS HIS MOST IMPORTANT PRIORITY. I WISH I COULD BE THERE NOW AND NOT IN FLORIDA. PLEASE REST IN PEACE GARY.YOU DESERVE IT AND HAVE HELPED SO MANY. EXTRA PRAYERS TO CHARLIE AND NINA ... LOVE, DEBBIE SMITH

Bob Valone

January 23, 2019

Rest In Peace my friend, I enjoyed working with you many years ago. We had some good times when we worked togather...You will be missed by all.

January 23, 2019

Annie, Denise and Family, there are no words to express how sorry we are to hear of Gary's passing - so young, so tragic. Our hearts, prayers and thoughts are with you and the whole Alessi and Cappadonia family. He is now in the hands of the Lord, and will always remain in your hearts.

Louise Agostinelli Profetta

January 22, 2019

Ann Vinnie and Family, I was saddened to hear of the loss of your precious son Gary. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your Family at this difficult time. You have a lifetime of memories to cherish of Gary. He is now an Angel watching over you and his children from Heaven.

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