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Jason Barnum Obituary
Rochester: Suddenly, March 4, 2010, age 29. Predeceased by his father, Harry. Beloved son of Jean; loving brother of David; devoted boyfriend of Janelle Moucha; cherished nephew of Sharleen (Don) Ellis, Gail Webster, Susan (Steve) Adam, Onolee (Doug) Johnson, Peter (Joan), Jimmy (Cheryl) and Lori Barnum; special friend, Tim Scheg; countless cousins, family and friends.
Friends may call Sunday, 3-7 PM at the Dierna Funeral Home, 2309 Culver Road (near Norton). His Funeral Mass will be held Monday, 10 AM at the Peace of Christ Parish, St. Ambrose Church. Interment, Holy Sepulchre Cemetery. Donations in Jason's memory may be made to the ARC of Monroe County.
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Memories and Condolences
for Jason Barnum
Christine Shaw
March 19, 2010
Janelle,
I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I know the two of you had a close-knit group of friends. Let them comfort you now. Thinking of you....
Christine Shaw
Kelly Adam
March 14, 2010
Aunt Jean, Dave, and Janelle,
It is so hard to express how much we all miss Jay and how painful this is, but yesterday was our first official "outting" without him and I felt him with us as I tied his name around my arm. His physical beauty is gone from us but the beautiful soul of him is with us each time we have a memory, a laugh, a smile....he was with ALL of us yesterday.
Rudy Weidert
March 9, 2010
Jean, David and Tim, I just learned of your loss. I couldn't even talk for a couple of moments. I'll always remember Jason as a boy who just loved life and to be around him always made me smile. I've stopped trying to understand why these things happen, I just pray we'll all see each other again in a much better place. We'll keep Jason and you all in our prayers.
Andy Weidert
March 9, 2010
Jason was a great kid with a great family around him. I am so sorry to hear of this sudden loss, all the memories on the soccer field together always will make me smile. Best of wishes in these hard times to you and your family.
Tammie Silvernail
March 8, 2010
Jean,
I am so sorry for your loss. From what I have been reading Jason was a great person and loved by all. God needed another Saint and decided Jason was the one. I will pray for family and for you that you are able to come to peace. If you ever want to talk, please call me.
Peggy DayKuhn
March 8, 2010
Dave, Jean and Janelle
Now that you have lost your brother,son,and bestfriend you will feel an emptiness, a void that at times can be so painful that you start questioning your own faith and also your will to keep going through the motions of your own loss. Going through them will be exhausting at first and as time goes on you will start embracing every smell that leads to a memory, a moment that once was shared between you all. Memories shared by the cousins and laughter following. There will always be a void, you will never forget what happened, every moment of the day you will think of him, that will never change.But you will learn how to cope and you will notice the crying has lessened. I love you guy's and Jason is with good people. As hard as it is for us,we have quite an army up there in the sky looking down and protecting us.
Angela Sheridan
March 8, 2010
Jean, Dave, Janelle & Abbie,
Words can not express how deeply sorry I am for your loss. Jay was one of the greatest people I have ever met. His gentle spirit and fun loving atitude will live on forever in the hearts of those who loved him.
With much love,
Angela
Jason Weston
March 8, 2010
My sincerest sympathies to the Barnum family for your loss. Jason's kindness and friendship is one of the most lasting memories that I have from my time in Bishop Hall at Cortland. May God help your family through this trying time, as well as the many of us who were fortunate to call him friend.
Chris Fenlon
March 8, 2010
Jean, Dave, and Tim
Jason was a great friend and I will never forget all of the good times we had growing up together. God bless you and your family.
The Kruppenbacker's (Don, Pat, Tim & Brian)
March 8, 2010
Dear Jean and Family,
May the heartfelt thoughts of your loved ones and many caring friends help to comfort you, at this difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Blessings,
Vanessa Findlay
March 7, 2010
To Janelle, Natalie, Christopher and all of Jay's tight-knit clan, I will remember Jay for the genuinely warm and welcoming guy that he was. I pray that God is with you all to bring you hope and peace in this difficult time. May your fond memories of Jay, help you through.
Phyllis Laske
March 7, 2010
Dear Jean and family,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Mary Hetrick called from Lake Placid and told me about Jason....Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. We have fond memories from Four Winds and camping together with all the kids way back when.....May God bless you and be there for you in your time of need.
Sincerely,
Phyllis Laske and Family
March 7, 2010
To Susan, Onolee and the Barnum Family,
My sympathies to you in the loss of Jason, especially at such a young age. I have always admired the wonderful closeness of the Barnum family and I hope that closeness will help comfort you all at this time.
Sincerely,
Diana (Cernis) Turney, Webster, NY
Len Schloer
March 7, 2010
Dave & Family-
We are very sorry about your loss. Jay was a great guy, a gentle giant. He will be missed by many... God Bless.
The Schloer's (Len, Kitty, Michelle & Billy)
Tom Redmond
March 6, 2010
Dave, Jean and family,
I am so sorry to hear about Jason. My memories of our times at AQ have not and will not be forgotten. You are all in my thoughts and prayers!
Tom Redmond
March 6, 2010
Dave, Jean and family, I am so sorry to hear about Jason. I have many memories or our time together at AQ which have not and will not be forgotten. My thoughts and prayers are with you!
Danielle Paris
March 6, 2010
i started playing for coach dave and jay when i was 9. this was my first year on an actual travel team and i was scared.. the forwards were assigned coaches and coach jay was mine. coach jay believed in me more than anyone i know, he taught me great things that i will never forget which also include life lessons. these two people were the best people i have ever met. i have such great memorize with coach jay that i will never forget.. he has touched so many peoples lives than he will ever know.. i will miss him terribly and i am so glad i finished my soccer career on the beautiful note of having a wonderful guy to help me through it.. you will forever be in my heart..
Danielle Paris
Christopher Abate
March 6, 2010
I remember Jason at St. Charles. He was such a great kid. I was deeply saddened to hear of this tragedy. My God give you the strength to get through these difficult times ahead.
Mollie Culmone
March 6, 2010
Coach Jay was one of the sweetest guys that our team could have asked for, he cared for the girls and touched our hearts. My heart goes out to Coach Dave and his family, I am truely sorry for your loss.
Jay will be missed and stay in the hearts of the girls he coached forever.
Mollie Culmone (Goalie)
gerri arena
March 6, 2010
I am so sorry for the LOSS He will be remembered in all of our hearts. This is such a tragic incident my prayers go out for everyone !!! Love you all Gerri Jean.
Mike & Kathy Mandrino
March 6, 2010
Barnum Family - It's been a long time since I lived on Mayflower Street and I haven't seen Jason in many years, but I just wanted to tell how sad I was to hear the news of your loss. Your family is in our hearts and prayers.
March 6, 2010
Dave and Jean,
I was so saddened to hear of your loss. Jay was such a kind person. Whenever I think of him, I think of his huge smile all the time. I pray that God gives you the strength you need throughout this tragic time.
~Katie Carangelo (Coakley)
Janeen Faucher & Family
March 6, 2010
Jean, David and Barnum Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Colleen Adam
March 5, 2010
Aunt Jean, Dave and Janelle,
I don't think I could put into words how much I truly loved Jay. Although he was my little cousin it seems like he was always doing special things to take care of me. I will remember him for the hundreds of little things he was always doing for others that often go unnoticed. He was a true gentleman and I feel so lucky that I got to share in his life, he left us all with countless happy memories of fun and mischief. I love you all and am here for whatever you need.
Danielle Veltz
March 5, 2010
Bailey,
Shocked and saddened to hear this news. I will be praying for the comfort of you and your family.
With much sympathy,
Jason Belge
March 5, 2010
Barnum Family,
I am truly sorry for this sudden loss. Jay and I lived together for almost 5 years at Cortland St. and he was a true friend, a best friend. He will be sorely missed. We had memorable times together that I can still laugh out loud about and I will always have those times to recall back to.
My thoughts and prayers go out to you
Joe LaPietra
March 5, 2010
Jean and Dave,
Jason was a well-mannered young man who I will truly miss. Although in life we sometimes go our separate ways the memories stay with us forever. I hadn't seen Jason in almost 12 years but about a month ago I was very fortunate to see and speak with Jason on his lunch break. It was like we never lost touch because of his great personality, smile and friendly nature. As his soccer coach at Aquinas I will never forget his hard work, determination and team first attitude. Jason will always have a place in my heart and will always be remembered as the ideal player and most importantly ideal person. I know you are very proud of him! You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Jeffrey Hanna
March 5, 2010
Jason was a kind hearted person that would do anything for someone. A close friend in college and roommate, he always was the person you would want around you. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends who truly know what a great person he was. I will miss him dearly.
March 5, 2010
We just wanted to share our condolences with the whole Barnum family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.... Dennis and Christina Chinchilla
Jill Bryson
March 5, 2010
Dear Barnum family, friends and Janelle: I am so sorry to learn of your profound loss. Jay was a kind, fun-loving and positive person. To know him was a pleasure. Jay was fortunate to have such wonderful people surrounding him throughout his years that clearly loved him so much.
March 5, 2010
Jean and David,
I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this very sad time. May you only have happy memories of Jason.
Bev Tallinger
Eddie Ciminelli
March 5, 2010
To Jason's Family-
I was surprised and saddened to learn of Jason's passing. I went to St Charles and Aquinas with Jay so I grew up with him. Though we were never very close each time I ever ran into him over the years it was always a pleasure. I will always remember Jay for his kindness and truly genuine heart. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Leslie Frank
March 5, 2010
Jean, David, Janelle, friends, and family: My deepest sympathy for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time. May GOD comfort you all and bring peace into your hearts.
Leslie Frank (Jarred)
Flora Allen
March 5, 2010
Dave---After entering my thoughts in the guest book, it occurred to me that I didn't address your loss personally. It was always a wonderful sight to see you two laughing and enjoying each others company. I'm sure Jason always knew that he was loved by you.
Tara O'Brien
March 5, 2010
To Jay's loved ones: On behalf of everyone who worked with Jay at the Arc, we offer our deepest sympathies for your loss. Jay was a great person and was liked and respected by everyone he worked with, both the employees and the individuals served. He will be missed dearly.
Tim Randolph
March 5, 2010
Jean and David,
I am very sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers, and I am very thankful for the memories I have with Jason.
Chris Casuccio
March 5, 2010
David, Janelle and the Barnum family,
I am profoundly sorry for your loss. Those of us in the Lachiusa family who were lucky enough to spend time with Jason are heartbroken today. He was a wonderful, kind person, and he will be deeply missed.
John Simpatico
March 5, 2010
Baily and Ms. Barnum,
I am sooo sorry to hear about this. I have so many memories of playing hockey in the street and football in the snow for so many years. I am deeply saddened by this news. You both will be in my thoughts during this terrible and deeply trying time.
Dan Hong
March 5, 2010
Jean and Dave,
My deepest sympathy to you and your family.
I will always remember the times at practice and at tournaments of him goofing around and making us laugh.
Jay is great guy and coach and will be missed greatly.
Sean Konrad
March 5, 2010
Aunt Jean and David, my thoughts and prayers are with you. My sympathies to you both.
Matt and Sarah Weaver
March 5, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with the loved ones whom Jay left behind. Our deepest sympathies.
Cheri Parnell
March 5, 2010
My beloved Jean, David & Janelle,
I just can't grasp the reality of this tragic loss. I try to believe that God doesn't make bad things happen, but is there by our sides and to give us strength when it does. What great memories we have of Jason and what an amazing person he was. We are all blessed for having him be a part of our lives.
Linda Montgomery
March 5, 2010
"Barnum family" I was deeply saddened to hear of your loss. My thoughts & prayers are with you all.
John & Lisa Nolan
March 5, 2010
Jean, Dave, Janelle and family - words cannot express how sorry and saddened we are. You are in our thoughts and prayers during this time, may your family and friends bring you much comfort.
March 5, 2010
Jean and David - I'm so sorry to hear about this. I will put you on our prayer list at Assumption.
Love, Shirley
Flora Allen
March 5, 2010
When I think of Jason, I think of his beautiful smile and sweet disposition. Jean...you raised a wonderful son and I'm sure you couldn't be more proud. Janelle...I always loves to see you together...always smiling...always happy. ...
Kim Blankenburg
March 5, 2010
Jean & Family,
Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Words cannot express how sorry we are.
Kim & Pete Blankenburg
"As you comprehend this profound loss, let yourself cry knowing each tear is a note of love rising to the heavens..."
Michael & Julie Read
March 5, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
March 5, 2010
Jean and Family: My deepest sympathy. My prayers are withyou all during this difficult time. I'm here for you, do not hesitate. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Pat McMann
March 5, 2010
Jean and Family: My deepest sympathy. My prayers are withyou all during this difficult time. I'm here for you, do not hesitate. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Pat McMann
Marsha Ryan
March 5, 2010
My prayers go out with Jean. I am so sorry and may god be with you during this hard time. Love you Marsha Ryan and family.
March 5, 2010
Dear Jean and David,
You have our deepest sympathy. We are so sorry for your loss. May God comfort you during this most difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Tony & Joyce Joy
and family
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