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Mary McRay Obituary
Rochester - Mary Lee Gipson McRay was born October 30, 1928 to the late Alma Harper Gibson and Sylvester Gipson in Ozark, Alabama. At the age of 2 she lost her mother and was raised by her paternal grandparents, Lillie Bell and Sidney Gipson.
She later married Huey McRay and to this union 9 children were born.
In 1968, she relocated to Rochester, NY, where she would remain until she departed this life.
Mary loved life and saw her fair share of trials and tribulations but she never faltered and never let it shake her faith. She never met a stranger and adopted many friends, who would become family along the way. A small, soft spoken woman she loved God, her family and fishing. A great cook she would share her recipes with you as long as you understood measurements like " right smart" and " yea 'bout". She taught all of us the same but the point of each lesson was that she had given you the ingredients and it was up to you to make it your own. She was a true matriarch that watched over her family without fail.
She was predeceased by husband, Huey McRay, daughter Katrina Clark, grandson Tyrone McRay, sisters Lillie Ruth( Willie Fred)Williams, Alline (Sonny) Jackson, Denora Babb and her faithful dog, Princess.
She leaves to carry on her legacy: Huey (Shirleyann) McRay Jr, Rosa( Clint) Hurtt, Diane ( Lynton) Dixon, Debra McRay, Marilyn Simmons, Jimmy McRay Of Poughkeepsie, NY, Delores (Vic) Haynes & Charlene (Phillip) Clark. 13 grandchildren, 25 great grandchildren, 4 great-great grandchildren, 1 brother in law, Haywood Babb of Buffalo, NY and a host of family and friends.
Her favorite song was Precious Lord and she walked through life holding his hand. She now rests in his hands eternally
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Mary Rich
March 20, 2021
Mary, your family still honors you! Your spirit will live forever through them.
Tori Webbe
March 19, 2021
On this day a year ago ; heaven gained another angel...Mary Lee Mcray,also know as my mema/great grandma. You are truly missed and things haven't been the same since you left us. I miss you so much and I hope you are looking down on me and everyone else.
Kiesha Everett
April 1, 2020
Ms. Diane, my condolences go out to you and your family during this difficult time. Your mom was a true fighter and she fought until the end. God Bless you all, and may her spirit fly high and soul be at peace! Many Blessings
Julie Scott
March 27, 2020
Rose, so very sorry for your loss...A beautiful soul. Praying for all..
Felice Gunner
March 27, 2020
To: Marylynn, Debra, Huey and Shirley and rest of the family. As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Felice Gunner
March 27, 2020
To:Marylynn, Debra, Huey and Shirley As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Adora Hendrickson
March 27, 2020
To Diane and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May the memories of your Mom bring you comfort. God Bless!
The Hendrickson Family.
March 27, 2020
To Jim & Family, We are so sadden to hear of your family's monumental loss! Our Love & Prayers are with you all! May god continue to supply you with comfort & Peace during this transistion.
Much Love Gwen & Jamal Dade
Michelle Griffin
March 26, 2020
Marilyn and family,
I'm sorry for the passing of your mother. Marilyn thank you for the opportunity to meet your mom she was a true testament of proverbs 31:26 because when she spoke, her words were wise,and kindness was the rule for everything she spoke to me...I that God will look upon you kindly and give you peace. Stay strong...God loves you and so do I
Chuck and
March 26, 2020
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. God bless.
Ingrid
March 26, 2020
I have been known this family for over 30 years and she was such a gentle spirit and I use to see her at fishing . My sincere condolences , RIH
Joanne Chatman
March 26, 2020
Extending sincere condolences to the entire McRay family. Rest in peace Mrs McRay you were a beautiful soul
Gayle Akposso
March 26, 2020
I never met her but I knew Jimmy and she did a good job at raising him, I send my condolences to the family. From the Ross and Mullins family
Mary Rich
March 26, 2020
My deepest sympathy to the entire family. For over 50 years I have known this family. We have shared many happy memories around Mary's table. Always good food and a warm smile.
Mary is the last of the Sisters I enjoyed my youth with. Mary, Alline and Denora were my teachers and cheerleaders. Though we were apart, Alline and Denora spent vacations at my home in Florida and Mary was always just a phone call away.
Mary loved her family deeply and they truly loved and cared for her. Rest in peace my Friend.
Cynthia Lenear Stevenson
March 26, 2020
My love and prayers to the family. I will always remember Mrs. Mary and her famous dressing. Peace and Blessings to you all.Love you, Cynthia
Alberta Bynoe
March 26, 2020
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
March 26, 2020
I didn't know Mary Lee, but she sounds like a wonderful women who I would have been honored to know. God rest her Godly soul!
In Christ,
Pat
Nikki Webbe-Simmons
March 26, 2020
Maylee you made so many things possibly in our lives. I sit back in wonder at how you managed to it all. I love you and I'm so glad that you are at rest. No more pain, no more sorrow. Rest easy enjoy seeing all that went before and fishing like you love! I'll see you when I get there❤
Love,
Nikkiboo
March 26, 2020
Dear Charlene,Phillip and Family,
Please accept our deepest sympathy for the loss of your dear Mom.Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad time. May your beautiful memories of your Mom comfort you and may your Mom rest in peace.
Love,
Chuck and Linda Alongi
Toriel Webbe
March 25, 2020
I love you Mema! Rest Easy and see you soon. xoxo Tori
Tori Webbe
March 25, 2020
I will miss sitting with her and just talking about life and all the things she would look forward to, and also how every time I would see her she would say she missed my annoying self. -Tori
Roy Douglas
March 25, 2020
I grew up in Johntown and Miss Mae Lee very well. I went to school with her children. She was a matriarch back then. Always a kind, loving, and giving person. It saddens my heart that she is gone, but at the same time Im happy and it warms my heart to know that she is in the presence of our Holy Father right now. Well done good and faithful servant, rest eas
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