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Thomas Durbin Obituary
Greece: Suddenly at age 62 on Monday, October 22, 2012. Predeceased by his father, Stanley Durbin. Survived by his loving wife, Ann (Coffey) Durbin; children, Dr. Jennifer Durbin, Au.D. and Christopher Durbin; mother, Lucille Durbin; brothers, David (Cheryl) Durbin and Eric Durbin; sister, Debra (John) Flagg; brothers-in-law, Pat (Rosemary) Coffey and Jim (Karen) Coffey; sister-in-law, Madge (Bill) Carrington; nieces, nephew and cousins.
Thomas was a proud Vietnam Veteran and is a recipient of many metals including the Bronze Star. He retired after 34 years at Eastman Kodak Co. and enjoyed his current position working for Wegman's. He will be sadly missed by his buddy Tucker and all who knew him.
No prior calling. Services and entombment will be held privately. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to Lollypop Farm, 99 Victor Road, Fairport, NY 14450 in Tom's memory. For more information or to sign Thomas's online guestbook please visit www.MeesonFamily.com
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November 11, 2012
Ann and Family, I was just told today of your loss and I am so very sorry. My heart goes out to you. I am so very sad to hear this. Please know you're in my prayers.
Reivon Bubel
November 1, 2012
Ann, I'm very sorry. I liked Tom a lot, I thought he was a great guy who always like to have a good time, always up. See you later...Terry
Bruce and Rose Marie Tischer
October 31, 2012
October 30, 2012
Dear Ann and all of the Durbin Family........We were so saddened to hear of Tom's sudden passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Tom will always be in our memories for the great times we had while growing up together. Peace in the days ahead.
October 30, 2012
Dear Ann and all of the Durbin Family........We were so saddened to hear of Tom's sudden passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Tom will always be in our memories for the great times we had while growing up together. Peace in the days ahead.
Mike and Barb DiNapoli
October 29, 2012
Dear Ann and Jen,
We are completely shocked by the sudden death of Tom. Mike and I are so sorry for your loss and want to share our condolences. We are truly saddened that we won't have the opportunity to hear his friendly hello again. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Mary Strobino Giorgi
October 28, 2012
Ann, You have my deepest sympathy in the loss of your Beloved Husband.
Mary Strobino Giorgi
Dot and bob Young
October 28, 2012
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
JoAnne Calabro
October 28, 2012
Dear Ann and family,
I knew Tom back in the racing days with Dave & when he returned from Viet Nam & was shocked by this news. I have many great memories & hope that all of yours will help you thru this difficult time. With sympathy,
Donna Decker
October 28, 2012
I have so many great memories of Tom and fun times growing up on Honeoye Lake. Rides in the boat, sneaking out of the cottage with Rosie and Doug, and so much more. His family was always loving and welcomed all of us day or night. Prayers to the family.
Donna Marshall (Meier) Decker
Keith Drysdale
October 28, 2012
Very sorry to hear of Toms passing. I knew Tom well at Kodak "back in the day", he was a great guy. Our prayers are with you.
Jim Schoeneman
October 28, 2012
My deepest sympathy to the entire Durbin family. I had the pleasure of working with Tom at Kodak and was also able to see him at Wegmans. He was a class act!
October 28, 2012
Dear Ann,
My husband and I knew Tom as kids.
We are so sorry for you and your family. He was a great all around guy.
I'm glad we got to see him at Dave and Lin's picnic at the lake.
Gary and Laurie Ball
Mary Guarino
October 27, 2012
My deepest sympathy goes out to the Burbin family. May you find special comfort in cherished memories you hold in your hearts.
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