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Benny Tom Whitlock

1942 - 2021

Benny Tom Whitlock obituary, 1942-2021, Denton, TX

BORN

1942

DIED

2021

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Bill DeBerry Funeral Directors - Denton

2025 West University

Denton, Texas

Benny Whitlock Obituary

Benny Tom Whitlock

Benny Tom Whitlock, age 79 of Denton, Texas, passed away peacefully while surrounded by his family on Tuesday, December 14th, 2021.

The son of Bates and Helen Whitlock, Benny was born October 9th, 1942, in Denton, Texas. Benny was the third of four children and lived in Denton for his entire life. A standout boxer in his youth, Benny won the 1962 Sherman Golden Gloves tournament as a welterweight. Benny also represented Denton in the Texas State Golden Gloves Tournament in 1962 and 1968.

Following his graduation from Denton High School, Benny joined his father in his commercial and residential painting business. He and Gwen married in 1964 and raised their three daughters locally. Benny was known for his “do it yourself� attitude and skills, which he passed on to his children. He built additions to his home, including an outdoor pavilion, which was the site for many family gatherings. It was rare to find a moment that Benny was not smiling, especially when spending time with his grandchildren, who lovingly referred to him as Papa Benny. Benny went out of his way to help those he knew, and didnt know, and never met a stranger in his life.

Benny is survived by his wife, Gwen, his children, Brad and wife, Patty Fleming, Suzy Whitlock, Kelly and husband, Wayne Willey, and Angie and husband, Rob Friedman. Benny had nine grandchildren, Emily Cook and Sam Fleming, Jacques, Caroline and Henri Friedman, Remy and Ben Willey, and Elec and Livvy Bush. Benny is also survived by his brother, James Whitlock, and many nieces, nephews, and cousins.

Benny is preceded in death by his parents, Bates and Helen Whitlock, and his two sisters, Jo Helen and Mary Ann Whitlock.

Bennys visitation and funeral information are as follows:

Visitation is Monday, December 20th at 1 p.m. at Gateway Church of Denton, with Funeral service starting at 2 p.m.

2401 N Bell Ave

Denton, TX 76209

Burial follows at Green Valley Cemetery.

6670 FM 2153,

Aubrey, TX 76227

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Denton Record-Chronicle from Dec. 18 to Dec. 19, 2021.

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June 12, 2025

Great guy

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January 21, 2025

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January 18, 2025

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January 18, 2025

Great guy

Ronald Koselke

January 8, 2022

Sorry for your loss . Benny gave me a job picked me up for work everyday . taught me everything about painting. I will always remember Benny T Whitlock

Love
Ron Koselke

Richard Dalrymple

December 28, 2021

Besides always having a smile Benny had the good sense to marry Gwin

Jim Penton

December 22, 2021

Benny, you will always be remembered by many. especially the students of DHS

Bill DeBerry, Jr. & Andrew DeBerry

December 18, 2021

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.

Suzi Nappet

December 17, 2021

I was just a child the first time I met Benny. I remember him playing with me like I was his own child, and he barely knew me. Such a kind, loving man. ❤

Barbara & Rex Maxwell

December 17, 2021

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Harold Mcgar .Clampitt

December 16, 2021

One of the good guys

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Gateway Church of Denton

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Gateway Church of Denton

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2025 West University, Denton, TX 76201

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