1952
2002
Memorial service: 3 p.m. Wednesday at First Presbyterian Church, 1200 S. Collins, Arlington. Visitation: 6 to 8 p.m. Tuesday at Moore Funeral Home, Bowen Chapel, 4216 S. Bowen Road, Arlington.
Memorials: In lieu of flowers, a medical scholarship/grant fund has been established in Dr. Brettell’s memory at Compass Bank, 701 Highlander Blvd., Arlington, Texas 76015.
James Richard Brettell was a devoted husband, father and friend, as well as a dedicated physician in practice in Arlington since 1987. He was born Dec. 12, 1952, in San Antonio. The son of a U.S. Army officer, he grew up on the move, with stops in Germany, Taiwan, Washington, Kansas and Pennsylvania.
Dr. Brettell was a graduate of Shawnee Mission South High School in Overland Park, Kan. He received a bachelor of science degree from the U.S. Military Academy, West Point, N.Y., where he graduated in the top 5 percent of his class.
After graduation, he was assigned as an engineer officer with the 1st Infantry Division at Fort Riley, Kan. He was later selected for participation in the Army scholarship program and earned his medical degree at the University of Kansas Medical School.
He completed his internship and residency in obstetrics and gynecology at William Beaumont Army Medical Center in El Paso. In 1983 he asked to return to Fort Riley for the valuable experience he knew he would gain in obstetrics among the young families based there.
Dr. Brettell resigned as a major in 1987 after more than 13 years in the Army. He joined the practice of Omega OB/Gyn Associates, with offices in Arlington, Grand Prairie and Mansfield. He specialized in high-risk obstetrics, infertility and gynecological surgery. He was chief of staff of Medical Center of Arlington from 1995 to 1997 and had served on the hospital’s board of trustees for five years.
He was known not only for the level of care he delivered his patients, but also for the selfless way he served his community. He was active in the Boy Scouts of America, first as cubmaster of Pack 276 from 1987 to 1996 and as an assistant scoutmaster and scoutmaster of Troop 421 since 1992. He traveled with the Scouts on high adventure trips to Philmont, N.M., the Boundary Waters in Minnesota and the Appalachian Trail.
Dr. Brettell was a volunteer in the Mansfield and Arlington school districts for many years, most notably as a guest lecturer with the health occupations program at the high school level. He was a member of Grace Presbyterian Church.
He and his family shared a passion for scuba diving and traveled extensively over the past several years, most recently to Costa Rica.
Survivors: His wife of 25 years, Susan L. Brettell; sons, James P. Brettell, Joseph A. Brettell and Benjamin G. Brettell, all of Arlington; father and stepmother, retired Lt. Col. James A. and Joan Brettell of Tyler; mother, Nancy C. Brettell of Lenexa, Kan.; sister, Sharon Knox of San Antonio; brothers, Steve Brettell and wife, Claire, of Shawnee Mission, Kan., and Pat Brettell and wife, Lori, of Overland Park, Kan.; mother-in-law, and father-in-law, retired Lt. Col. Young and Gwen Moore of Vermillion, S.D.; brother-in-law, retired Col. Gordon Moore and wife, Marie, of Syracuse, Ind.; and numerous aunts, cousins and friends.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Sponsored by Michelle Messina, grateful patient of Dr.B's & the mother of 2 boys he gently guided into this world.
Cheryl Brown
August 21, 2025
You were the best!!
Cheryl Brown
August 21, 2023
We love and miss you Dr. Brettel! Thank you for the care and listening ear.
Cheryl Brown
August 21, 2020
God bless you all! What a blessing Dr. Brettell was to me. I miss him and pray that God will continue to comfort you.
Kathy Wright
September 5, 2019
Dr Brettel was my doctor for years and saw me through several surgeries. I never dreaded those appointments because he was so kind, attentive and FUNNY. He always made me laugh and I felt like I could talk to him about anything. I still go to his office and even though I see someone else I always think of him and wish the best for his family.
Amanda Torrez
October 1, 2011
Dear family of Dr. James Brettell,
First off I am very sorry about his passing my heart goes out to you all Doctor Brettell delivered my daughter back in April of 2002 and cant believe the man that made a miracle happen is with god now well our father now has another angel by his side he was the best doctor my daughter was dieing in the deliver room and he saved both of us because without her i would have been lost I just want to say he was the doctor he was because he had family and skill to pushhim right along he was the best and will forever be remembered in our hearts and everyday i look at my daughter in the eyes i know because of him she is here with me everyday
Yours Truly,
The most thankful mother Amanda Torrez
Jessica Sullivan
July 1, 2004
Dear Susan: Hal & I are so upset to realize what has happened, and how you, Jimmy & Joe must be suffering. We are trying to contact you. Love, Jessica
Kim Moore
June 24, 2004
Dear Family:
I can not believe it still. I have never, ever seen a doctor that cared so much. I am sure I will never find another. There are no words to describe Dr.B.!! He was a gift from above. Fathers Day just passed and I thought of him as well. The last few times I have visited the office I have felt empty. I have since moved and I will never find another FRIEND like him. I will always have a place for him in my heart for DR B. Dr B if you are reading this I miss you so much. My prayers are with you Mrs. B and family.
Michelle Ferguson-Venissat
December 2, 2003
Dear Jimmy,
I hope you remember me. We went to school together. You broke your arm at my birthday party at Big Wheel. I think the last time I saw you was about a year before your dad past away. I really wish we had kept in touch. You were and still are an awesome guy. I truely injoyed growing up with you. I have been a patient of Dr. Seligman since 8th grade so I have met your dad many times. I also ran into him countless times because of HOSA. I can see where you got your charm and sweetness from. I really am in shock about your dad and then Ben. I don't know what to say that you haven't heard already. If you ever need ANYTHING, or you just want someone familiar to talk to, just email me. I make frequent trips up there so we can always get together. I hope you have a wonderful Holiday.
Love Always, Michelle
Gerold Libby
November 17, 2003
I was deeply saddened to learn this past weekend of Jim Brettell's untimely death. Jim probably had little recollection of me, but I was his 8th grade history and English teacher at the Taipei American School, in Taipei, Taiwan. I never saw Jim again after I left Taiwan in June of 1966, though he did call me once from West Point when he was a cadet there. I always wondered thereafter what eventually happened to the bright, diligent, responsible, witty and altogether great kid I knew as an 8th grader, the boy who could not get enough of the Civil War and other highlights of American history and whose enormous voluntary extra credit reports revealed his many talents. Although nothing can fully overcome the sense of loss that accompanies his passing, it is a measure of comfort to me to learn from the many tributes that have been offered by others that he grew up to be such an accomplished, kind and generous man who contributed so much to his community.
Gerold Libby
Jenni Marlow
November 12, 2003
Hi Mrs. Brettell,
I would have commented in here earlier if I would have seen this. I was a friend of Ben's and I have never met you but I want you to know that if you ever need anything to let me know. You can email me and I will do my best to help you. You have been in my thoughts and prayers since August of 2002.
Love,
Jenni Marlow
Stewart & April Brewer
November 3, 2003
Dr. Brettell is a very special person to our family. He delivered our 3rd child, Camren via c-section. I have never had a Dr. so kind and loving. It seemed like he had all the time in the world to answer each and every one of our many questions. Due to having our tubes tied with our 3rd child, we later visited Dr. B. and asked how to have them reversed. He referred us to a specialist. It was last October when I contacted Dr. B's office to have the pregnancy confirmed & share the wonderful news. We were saddened to hear he was no longer with us. Our prayers go out to his children and family. Dr. Brettell holds a very dear place in our hearts. It's not everyday you find a Dr. like him.
The Brewer Family
Tracey Johnson
September 25, 2003
I just found out about Dr. Brettell's passing when I went to the office for my visit. I have been a patient of Dr. B's since 1989. He delivered all three of my kids. He was the best doc ever, so even when we moved from Arlington to Palmer which is an hour away, I insisited to my husband that we continue to see Dr. B. for the delivery of our last child who will be 2 in a few weeks. Not only did he make one feel completely at ease, but I don't feel he ever "worked" a day in his life because he loved what he did. After each delivery, which spanned a total of 10 years, he would always make a comment like, "Isn't that the most amazing thing you've ever seen?'. And I could tell he meant every word. Mrs. B, I am so sorry for your losses, God truly has two more Angels now.
Margie
September 6, 2003
Dear Mrs. Brettell & Sons,
I was rececently in the office and mentioned to the staff how they must miss Dr. Brettell. I was very saddened to learn about the loss of one of your sons/brothers, and that it was so soon after the loss of your husband/father. Such heavy losses in just one years time! May the God of all comfort be with you to uphold you and strengthen you during this time. May He be the lifter of your heads, and may He surround you with His tender loving arms and bring peace to your souls. "Find rest, O my soul, in God alone; my hope comes from him. He alone is my rock and my salvation; he is my fortress, I will not be shaken." Psalm 62:5&6 Please know you are in my prayers. With Deep Sympathy, Margie(Mother of two boys delivered by Dr. Brettell)
Lisa M. (former patient)
September 2, 2003
Susan,
My husband & I are so hurt for you & the losses you had over the past year. May your family find some peace in knowing that your husband and son did so many wonderful things with their time on earth. God always takes the best early. They did what they came to do. May you know that you are in so many hearts & so many prayers. You must be a very special woman to be behind these wonderful men.
Michelle Messina
August 21, 2003
Susan,
What can I say to you... NOTHING. ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. There is nothing comforting to say to you. I won't insult you by saying all of the ridiculous things people say when a person is dealing with the magnitude of tragedies that you have had to deal with over this past year. I can't imagine WHY this has happened to Ben & to your family again. My heart is so heavy for you, Jimmy, Joe, Mr. Brettell,Sr.& your entire extended family. Your family means so much to me. I feel helpless because there is nothing anyone can say or do for you right now. I will respect your privacy & your grief... but please know that there are thousands of people concerned about you, Jimmy, & Joe. I can not fathom WHY this has happened. I'm so angry & my faith has really been put to the test with this. All I can say is that I am so sorry from the bottom of my broken heart.
With much love & sympathy,
Michelle Messina & Boys
Georgann Reeves
August 15, 2003
Susan:
I hope you remember me. Before we moved to Joshua, I worked at Charlotte Anderson Elementary. My daughter, Katie is in the same class as Ben. I remember them at the Mid Evil feast thing in Mrs. Laughlin's class. At any rate, the reason I am posting this note is we heard the tragic news of Ben and I phoned Marilyn Varner to keep me posted on details at which time she informed me of the passing of Jim!
I cannot imagine what you are feeling at this time. My heart aches for you and your family. Please know I am thinking of you.
georgann reeves
Ronda Kramer
June 16, 2003
DR. MRS.Brettell and familey.
I was so shocked to hear about DR.Brettell and so upset.Then to find out he passed on my Birthday too. I meet DR.B in ka when my exhusbend an i were at fort reily ka. I had cancer and DR.B took care of that for me, and becouse of him i now have 2 boy's .
I will never forget every thing DR.Brettell did for me and his bed side maner, that i will never find anywher els.He was the best and i guess that is why i stayed in touch with him for all these years.
I sent him photos of the boys and i so he could see what he had given me. He was a mentor to many and will be deeply missed for a long time to come. I am so sorry for your lose. DR.Brettell was a great husbend and father.
my thoughts are with you.
Ronda Kramer Sauder.
Bridgman MI.
Michelle Messina
June 7, 2003
Dr. B,
I wanted to wish you a Happy Father's Day. It's this coming Sunday & I know it will be a difficult day for Susan & the boys. I will have them in my prayers & I know that you will be watching over them. I know your father will be missing you dearly on that day. I wanted you to know that you are not forgotten and that my boys know who your are & I would like to wish you a "Happy Father's Day" on their behalf. You are missed, Dr. Brettell!
Susan, Boys, Mr. James Brettell, & Family--My thoughts will be with you on this coming Father's Day. Love, Michelle
Sandra&Kurt Hicks
May 13, 2003
DR. Brettell helped both my girls into this world.A small part of him is with each child he has delivered.Thank you,Dr.Brettell!
A long-time patient of Dr.B's
March 25, 2003
Dearest Mrs. Brettel & Family--
I have recently been into Omega OB/GYN for medical care. It was hard to even go there, knowing I would not see Dr. Brettell or hear his laughter. I want you to know that the care was sub-par & it WAS NOT the same without your husband's personal & professional touch. These doctors can not hold a torch to your husband. They were lucky enough to be in a practice where your husband lived out his day-to-day magic...yet, they did not & could not learn enough to be like him in any light. There will never be another doctor that could fill his shoes there, or anywhere else for that matter. I am sorry for your loss & the loss of the entire medical community. Dr. Brettell expected the best out of people and always got the best out of people in life... he should get the same in passing. Every doctor should aspire to live & treat his patients as he did.. sadly, they do not.
Jennifer Zimmerman
January 31, 2003
Dearest Brettell family...
As time passes, I am sure it is a blessing to read so many thoughtful tributes to a man who so deeply touched so many people.
I too am one. Dr. B was my primary physician for the last 13 yrs. I have never met and will probably never meet anyone who treated each patient with the utmost respect and individuality. His kind heart and willing smile will be sadly missed.
My heart goes out to you, and my God bless you in your time of need.
Renda Johnson
January 15, 2003
I am sick, I just heard about Dr. Brettell in a casual conversation with friends, I was upset immediatley and said their must be a mistake..! Not the smiling doctor that had shared so many memorable family moments with me and my family. Not only did he succesfully deliver two of my grand babies but he also operated on me in 1993. I can still remember going to his office on the reccommendation of a friend that told me he is the best and will treat you with ease....that he did, I was escorted directly to his office told to have a seat and the doctor would be in shortly. In he walks a few minutes later....the thing that stood out to me was his smile and demeanor towards me. We talked about me and what I expected out of this visit and others to come, I looked over his shoulder and couldn't help notice the beautiful lady and little boys in the picture on the shelf, I complimented him on his family and he said yes they are great, we talked at length about his family and mine and from that day forward I saw the pictures in his office change through the years from the small children to young men and then later to Mr & Mrs. enjoying life. I say all of this to you Mrs. Brettell, your husband will truely be missed,I not have to remind you of what a great husband and father he was because you already know, and we thank you for allowing him to share in our lives the moments that mattered most...Dr.Brettell is one of the utmost humanitarians I have ever meet in my life!
Mrs. Brettell,we feel your pain and will keep you and the kids in our prayers forever!
God Bless
Michelle Messina
January 10, 2003
Mrs. Brettell & boys,
The holidays have just passed and I have had you in my thoughts & prayers. I know this must have been a very difficult time for all of you. Again, I am so very sorry for your loss. I spoke with you & James Brettell,Sr. shortly after your husband's passing. I was so touched that you found the time to call & thank me for this website. It has been comforting for me to know that it is here for his patients & peers to vent about our pain & loss--and to let you know how many lives your husband touched in his day-to-day life as a physician. Our third son was born one month early on October 27, 2002. The pre-natal care I recieved @ another practice was disenchanting, to say the least. I thought all OB's made deliveries magical--it was Dr. B that made my two first deliveries magical. I am now facing surgery (possibly a hysterectomy) due to complications from this last delivery. I am so scared to have any physician perform my surgery. Dr. Brettell had performed two surgeries on me in addition to delivering my first two sons. I had no reservations about his abilities as a surgeon. I can only hope that he will over-see & guide my doctor through this surgery. He is missed on so many levels by so many people in his community. Thank you again for sharing this wonderful man with all of us whom were lucky enough to call him our doctor.
Much love to you & your beautiful family~
Michelle Messina
Julie Clifford
January 6, 2003
Dr. Brettell has been my physician since 1990 when I moved to Arlington. He guided me through two high risk pregnancies. The first I had my son Timothy and the second a pair of twin girls, Abby and Sarah. I'm an older Mom and had fertility problems, so once I was successful, I was panicked from the moment I found out until I heard those cries. Well through every rough spot Dr. Brettell was there to help me understand the risk and cope with the situation. He was a great physician, but he was a better husband and father. I always knew this was his real priority. We set the date of my delivery of the twins based on his son's graduation. He did not want me to unexpectedly go into labor when such an important family celebration was happening. I applaud him for being such a devoted family man, which is a rare commodity these days. I'm certainly sad to hear of this tragedy as I feel I have not only loss my physician but a good friend and stellar Christian leader. My prayers will be with your family. Respectfully, Julie
Shaniqua Riden
January 6, 2003
He helped me with my sons he was really nice and he would fill in for some of my doctors because I was on bed rest he will be deeply missed and I will pray for his family
Laneshia Hawkins
January 3, 2003
I have been going to Dr. Brettell for so long, I can't remember the year of my first visit but, I will never forget how I was treated on that first visit. I was young and had seen several doctors and only found a few that I even liked. Dr. Brettell shook my hand that first day and was very welcoming which I had never experienced and he always looked me in the eye which meant, I could trust him. From that point on, I always received that welcome and that hand shake, no matter how busy he was and boy was he always busy. I would always tell him, no matter how long I have to wait, I didn't mind and that he was the only doctor, I would wait for. He would always smile. I remember before I had surgery for endometriosis, he said do you trust me and I commented, yes, I trust you and reminded him that I thoroughly checked him out on the internet and had come in contact with so many women who had either been his patient or knew one of his patients. I know people would get tired of hearing me talk about Dr. Brettell but, he was a great doctor and I wanted people to know. Especially when I hear them talk about their doctors and the treatment they sometimes received. He didn't know he was AMA's website until I told him that's were I got some of my information on him. He was the only doctor to discover my endometriosis and I believe, if he had just treated me like the other doctors who mis-diagnosed me, I wouldn't be the mother of a 2 year old active little boy. I am grateful to Dr. Brettell for who he was and his interest in his patients. You couldn't get upset about the long wait to see him because, it was always worth the wait. I will truly, truly miss him. He had became this constant being in my life, like an old friend.
Julie Torres
December 16, 2002
Dr. Brettell delivered my son, who was born 14 1/2 weeks premature and weighed 1lb. 13oz. I have never seen anyone go to the length he did to try to make my pregnancy hang on, even if it was just one day longer. Without his help, knowledge, and expertise, my son would not be with me now. My son is now 11 years old and every time I look at him, I remember what a hero Dr. B has always been for me. I always looked forward to my yearly exams, and he helped me through some difficult "female" times as well. I was fortunate to attend his funeral, and the tears of his passing flowed like a river from my eyes and heart. He has always been an integral part of my life and the way I live. After his passing, I didn't want to schedule another appointment for a physical exam. But he still lives in my heart, and he taught me well. So in honor of him, I have scheduled that next appointment. NO ONE will ever share what he and I did, and his compassion and dedication will never be replaced. Thank you Dr. B - from the bottom of my heart!
Cheryl Brown
December 14, 2002
My husband was a staff sargeant in the U.S. Air Force when we were relocated to Arlington,TX in December 1994. I knew no one. In February of 1995 I found out I was expecting our second child. The military insurance was slow in helping me find an OBGYN. I was without prenatal care for the first 2-1/2 months of my pregancy. Then a stranger told me about the Omega OB-GYN and she stated that anyone I wanted to choose would be an excellent doctor. I called the office and I know it was the Holy Spirit that told me to pick Dr.Brettel. The first crazy thing I ask him is "Do you delivery African American babies?" He said yes and look at me with compassion. He knew I was stressed and my elevator just was function ing properly at the time. He took excellent care of me. He let me cry on his shoulder even after I had my child. Because I had problems during my pregnancy I was in his office everyday of the ninth month. To me that is a dedicated physician. I referred as many of my friends or new military wives to him as I could that on my last visit he said thank you, but you are swamping me with work. I can just hear the voice of Jesus saying to him "Well done thy good and faithful servant!"
CHRISTINA FLOOD
December 11, 2002
I MET DR.BRETTELL IN 1999. HE WAS THE ON WHO HAD TO TELL ME THAT MY BABY WAS NO LONGER LIVING.DR.B DELIVERED MY BABY GIRL ON 2-15-99.
MY PRECIOUS ANGEL. NOW DR.BRETTELL
IS AN ANGEL IN HEAVEN RIGHT ALONG WITH MY BABY GIRL.EVEN THOUGH I ONLY MET HIM ONE TIME HE WAS STILL A GOOD MAN.MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO HIS WIFE AND SONS.HE WILL BE GREATLY MISSED.
Laurie Gonzalez
December 4, 2002
I miss you so much Dr. B, you were such an awesome doctor and I still have hard days thinking of you being gone.I am sad that my daughter will never get to know what a great doctor you were. To your family, my thoughts and prayers are with you. I know you know what a great guy he was. We love and miss you so Dr. B
Sherri Bridges
November 17, 2002
Dr. Brettell was my doctor for about 15 years. Initially I lived in Arlington, but for the last seven years, have been more that willing to make the 70 mile trip to see him. I feel that his inspiration and caring are what have allowed me to become a successful nurse in the post partum unit. I see the other physicians working around me and can't help but compare them to Dr. Brettell. I have yet to meet one that shows Dr. Brettell's level of caring for their patients. He was there for me during two miscarriages and finally with the birth of my beautiful daughter Alexandra, and again 9 months later for my hysterectomy. Over the years I have referred many friends to Dr. Brettell and they have all come back to me to say "THANK YOU" for all the things he helped them with and the way he truly cared. He was a wonderful physician and person. I never minded the long wait for my appointment time because I knew he would take the time to truly listen to me, understand my concerns, and help find solutions. To his family I can only say you are in my prayers, but know that he was truly a gift from GOD and put on this earth to help so many people and touch their lives in so many special ways. He will be missed greatly, but heaven has gained an awesome angel.
Joyce Forino
November 13, 2002
A friend in Duncanville sent me the message of Dr. Brettells death. I had referred her to Dr.B. She was complaining of Dr.s who would not "listen" to her. Dr. Brettell not only "listened" with compassion and knowledge, he acted on the information. I speak from experience. Just before I left Texas to move to Florida, at Dr. Brettells urging I had a scan done of my lower abdomen. A large growth was discovered. I followed up with my Dr. in Florida and had the growth and my ovaries removed. There is a long history of ovarian cancer in my family. I feel Dr. Brettell saved my life. I am saddened by his very early passing.
Prayers to you and your family Mrs. Brettell.
Sincerely,
Joyce Forino
Tamica Taylor
November 7, 2002
As a woman growing up without a father figure, I would like to say how blessed your family has been to have such a wonderful man in your lives. Dr. Brettell was only my doctor for a short while, but even in that short time, I grew very admirable of him. There probably will never be another doctor as caring and kind as he. When I heard the news I cried as if he was a family member of mine. I cried for him as much as I cried when my grandmother died years ago. I dont know why. But for what ever reason, it meant how special he was.
Cindy Aldi
October 25, 2002
I just found out today when talking to a co-worker and was stunned. Our hearts and prayers go out to Dr. Brettell's wife, sons, family and co-workers. My husband and I miscarried twice; Dr. Brettell worked with us and we now have two wonderful sons. We were amazed at how excited Dr. Brettell became with the delivery of each baby. He was one of a kind and will be greatly missed.
God Bless,
The Aldi Family - Cindy & Nicholas, Nicholas & Alex
Gay Miller
October 16, 2002
I will miss Dr. Brettell differently than most. I was not a patient but my daughter was. My first and only grandson was brought into the world on September 11th, 2001, by Dr. Brettell. That was quite a day. Dr. Brettell was patient with all of us. I couldn't have asked for someone better to bring my "precious" into the world. My daughter's family has moved out of the Arlington area, but like so many, planned to make the 100 mile drive to see Dr. Brettell for her check-ups. That says so much for the doctor and the man. He will be sorely missed. Blessings to his wife, sons and all who loved him.
Benet Ford
October 15, 2002
I just found out today about Dr. Brettell. I am devastated. Dr. Brettell delivered my daughter and I still laugh when I think about the way he taped his glasses on his forehead. I went to see him every year and he spend as much time as I needed talking to me about any concerns or issues I had. He always made me feel important. I loved him and will miss him so much.
Wendy Daniel
October 15, 2002
My heart goes out to the family of Dr B. He will be greatly missed by all. Dr B. assisted my family and I with the birth of our daughter. We struggled five years to get pregant. His memory will live on through those beautiful babies he gently brought into this world. God Bless his family, hold them close to your heart.
Janetta Hunt
October 14, 2002
I just learned on October 5th that Dr. Brettell had passed. Even though he never had the pleasure of delivering my children, I saw him yearly for over 8 years. When my daughter got ready to go to college, I made her an appointment with Dr Brettell. Since this was the first time she was seeing an OB/GYN doctor, I was a little anxious. Dr. Brettell made my daughter feel so at ease and was so caring that she was able to confide in him. Even though she was attending school in New Orleans, she still preferred to come home and see Dr. Brettell. I am so saddened and shocked by his passing. My heart goes out to his wife and sons. What we must remember is that God only takes the best!!!! Dr. Brettell was truely the best!!!! He will sorely be missed. He was such a caring person.
Janetta Hunt
Jennifer Eakins
October 4, 2002
As all the other entries in the guest book state, he was the best. My journey with Dr Brettell began about 9 years ago. With some infertility issues I began seeing Dr B to become pregnant. I saw him very regularly for about three years. He sat with my husband and I for several hours on a saturday over Labor Day weekend waiting for lab results. He made us so comfortable. It was wonderful to be able to talk with him at such length about his family and life. He truly had a way of calming our fears. After we exhausted all of our options with Dr B and no success. My husband and I then went to a fertility sub-specialist. When we did become pregnant, Dr B was as happy for us as we were! He cared for us through our wonderful pregnancy and although he was not able to deliver our twins(emergency C-section almost 7 weeks early), upon hearing of our delivery he came up to the hospital to check on me and the babies at 3am. He truly was one of a kind!
I know in my heart I will never have the care of another Dr the way Dr B cared for me.
My prayers are with all who loved Dr James Brettell! Especially his wife and children.
We have all lost a magnificent person!
Twice the Blessings,
Jennifer, Ryan, Braden and Haleigh Eakins
Colleen Wright
October 2, 2002
Living out of state and flying into Texas to see Dr. B, I just found out today(10/2/02) of his passing. My prays go to his family. Dr. B was a wonderful influence in my life. He is by far the most caring Dr. I have ever encountered! I will miss him greatly.
Robin Peace
October 1, 2002
Today I became aware of the loss of Dr. Brettell. I am still in disbelief of the tragedy and loss of this man. May God's love comfort Mrs. Brettell, their sons, mother, father, family and co-workers through this difficult time.
After reading many of the entries in this guest book, it becomes very uplifting to see that what you saw in a man was seen by so many. My story is similar to many others. As a young girl, I always dreamed of becoming a mother. It didn't happen as easily as expected...
I had great admiration for Dr. Brettell because:
...through fertility treatments and God's hand, I have a beautiful four year old daughter who was born eight weeks early. She weighed 3lbs., 12 oz. at birth. Dr. B held off delivery as long as he could to allow me time to receive steroid shots to improve the overall health of my unborn child.
...because he was always so confident and reassuring throughout three high-risk births in a four year period. He never hesitated to refer to a specialist when he felt one was needed.
...he told the anesthesioligist that he was fully aware of the health of his patient and everything would be okay after delivery while laying on the operating table awaiting the c-section birth of my second child. I knew all would be okay when I saw Dr. B enter the operating room.
...he was always so kind to my husband throughout my c-section births and allowed him to stay in the room and watch and be a part of the birthing process. We laugh now about everything being put "back in"; Dr. B would tell us what he was doing towards the end of surgery.
...the birth of our second child brought unexpected news. Our daughter was healthy but born, unknown until the time of birth, with cleft lip and palatte. I will never forget Dr. B's compassion and the words he spoke to me. Sometimes you know even for a doctor it must be hard to know what to say to someone in certain circumstances. Facing the unknown as a mother, I knew my doctor cared that I was hurting. He told me a story of his brother's obstacle in life and how he ran track when he was older. On subsequent visits, Dr. B always asked how her progress was going. As a mother, that meant so much...
...he always made you feel you could conquer the world and handle what cards you were dealt.
...he made my two girls feel special when they went with Mommy for her doctor's visits awaiting the arrival of their sibling. He would take the time to ask them questions and he was all smiles at their excitement and curiosity.
...not knowing the sex of our third child was hard. We talked about my husband's and my hopes for a boy. Dr. B would get started on the joys of having a boy and all the fun things you can do. He told me everyone should experience "boys". We did finally get our boy; he showed such excitement when telling us, "It's a boy!"
...he was so proud of his family. You know you are always in someone's heart when you are quick to come into conversation when the opportunity arises. We loved hearing of his trips and vacations.
To Dr. Brettell's family, I know being the family of a doctor wasn't always easy. Thank you for supporting Dr. B in his profession and sharing him with his patients and friends. May your memories of the time you shared with him bring a smile to your face. May God wrap his arms around you and support you with the love you need during this time.
A true doctor doesn't just treat physical needs but allows himself to show a caring, loving, compassionate side. Even though many of those who knew him, knew so little of him truly. May we all learn from him and protray the traits of his spirit in our own lives.
Robin Peace, mother of 3
Holly Williams
October 1, 2002
Dr. B was such a caring and wonderful doctor. He was always so thoughtful and considerate. I always felt so blessed that I was under such a terrific doctor and a great man. He was greatly loved and will be forever missed. My thoughts and prayers to the family, friends and staff members.
Barbara Niakan
October 1, 2002
Like everyone else, my husband and I were shocked and saddened to learn of Dr. Brettell's death. Dr. Brettell has been my doctor for 6+ years and has given birth to my son and performed surgery on me.
I was just a patient of Dr. Brettell's, but we'd occasionally bump into him at the CATS theatre when his son, Ben, was performing in a show. I'd always tell Ben and my little boy that Ben's dad gave birth to my son. Now my heart aches for this talented young man who lost a wonderful father.
Last night, I read all the entries in this online guest book and was touched by the number of entries and the effect that this great man had on so many people. So after shedding some tears, we got out the video of my son's birth. Our family sat and watched that wonderous event. Dr Brettell may have delivered thousands of babies, but the smile on his face and little chuckle in his voice, proved that the miracle of childbirth hadn't become a boring routine for him!
May his wife and sons be comforted by the knowledge that his great man will live on for many, many years in hundreds of family memories and videos/photographs of births. Dr. Brettell was a integral part of the best day of our lives. We will never forget him.
Lori Enriquez
September 27, 2002
Dr Brettell helped console me when I lost my father. He guided me through several surgeries with confidence and compassion. He was such a wonderful example.
We know that death is just a short separation compared to the eternity that God has prepared for His own. His grace is sufficient. Please know that many prayers are going out for Mrs. Brettell and her boys.
Kristi Hervey-Arnold
September 25, 2002
I was very sad to hear of Dr. brettel's passing. My heart goes out to his wife and boys, he spoke of them often. I began going to Dr. Brettel at the age of 15 years old. He earned my trust and respect from his great listening skills, kind heart and follow up. He performed two surgeries, and delivered two beautiful children, he even called my mother at home to make sure I was doing alright. I am now living in a different state and about to give birth to my 3rd child and compare every doctor to him. Unfortunately, no one has ever given the quality of service Dr. Brettel offered.Fifteen years later, I still find myself talking to friends and family about how good he treats his patients, and how much he cared. I even considered flying back just to feel the comfort of delivering my child with a doctor who really shared in my happiness and expressed compassion. Dr. Brettel will be sorely missed, and always remembered for his dedication to his patients and gentle demeanor, he truly was one of a kind.
Kristi M. Arnold Peoria, AZ
Candice Wasso
September 23, 2002
What can I say except for how very sad I am. Dr Brettell was my Doctor for over 8 years.. My heart goes out to Dr. Brettell’s Family.
Scipio Clay
September 23, 2002
I just wanted to express how much I will miss Dr. Brettell. He was the only doctor that was willing to get to the bottom of what was going on in my body. I was looking forward to him delivering my child in January - my miracle child.
I speak blessings to his family and I hope they all know how wonderful he was and how much he blessed others.
Jayme Collier
September 22, 2002
My deepest sympathy goes out to Dr. Brettells family, friends, co-workers,and patients. As I read everyones entries into this book I realized something. Many of you were fortunate enough to have had Dr. Brettell as your doctor for many years. I only knew him as my doctor for 3 months. When I found out I was pregnant,my mother had recommended him, before that one of his co-workers was my ob/gyn. Dr.Brettell delivered my mothers 4th baby, Joseph on Feb. 13,1991 at 36 weeks he weighed only 4lbs 4oz ,but without Dr.Brettells care things might not haved turned out so well. I know 3 months is not very long to get to know someone, but there is something about him that makes you feel like you had met him before. He was definately the best doctor I have had. My husband and I will be expecting our daughter "mia" in december, and when I pictured that day I always hoped that Dr. Brettell would be there, I have no doubt in my mind that he will be there to watch over me and and his other patients. I just wish I could have thanked him for everything, and I just want to let him know that his co-workers are doing a great job in caring for his patients,but no one will ever compare to him.
We love you Dr.Brettell,We will miss you.
Teresa Hickey
September 22, 2002
Oh, what a sad day it was when I learned about Dr. Brettell last Thursday. I sat there and cried. A co-worker recommended him to me when I moved here from San Antonio 8 years ago. He truly was my favorite physician. His kindness, and caring personality was always shown to me. Upon reading all the entries in this guest book, I know I am not alone in knowing that he will truly be missed.
My deepest sympathy to his wife and family. May God bless you.
Jennifer Cook
September 21, 2002
I opened my letter today from OMEGA and was deeply saddened and shocked to learn of Dr. B's death. In 1995, I was pregnant and sick for the entire 9 months. I had to change doctors midway throught my pregnancy, and a friend referred me to Dr. B. He immediately reassured me that everything would be fine. I have seen him ever since, and he always had a way of putting me at ease and making me smile. He was always genuinely concerned about the well being of his patients, and although I usually only saw him once a year, he had a way of making me feel like it was just yesterday that we had talked. He talked to me about my divorce, and made me feel better during difficult times. He was so proud of his family...he always told me about his family vacations and how much he always enjoyed them He was more than a doctor, he was a friend. My deepest sympathy goes out to his family. He will be truly missed.
Misty Jelks
September 20, 2002
Monday August 25th was one of the saddest days I can remember; it was the morning I received a call from my doctor’s office informing me that my doctor had passed away…
Dr James Brettell had been my doctor for over seven years. I can not begin to express how much hurt and the deep sadness I felt when I learned of his death. This community has truly lost a caring doctor. I feel I have lost a close friend.
After many years of discomfort, and being hospitalized this past December, Dr Brettell performed a hysterectomy for me on June 6th. I was very afraid. I didn’t know what to expect. He told me that after surgery, I could expect that the quality of my life would change for the better. I trusted him. (I always did) and he was right. I feel great!
I know that through God, Dr Brettell was blessed with the gift of healing; how fortunate he was to be able to have lived such a meaningful life and to have made such a difference in so many other people’s lives. My whole life has changed for the better because of him. I am so sorry he is no longer here so I can tell him in person, how much better he has made me feel. I will miss him very much and I will continue to pray for his loved ones that he left behind.
jaymi sester
September 18, 2002
I just wanted to say,the lord blessed us with Dr.Brettell"s presence. With my youngest child, I was determined to have him deliver my son.Sure enough,he did! I feel very blessed I am able to say "I had the best Dr. ever.To the Brettell family , our thoughts and prayers are with you.May he rest in gods spirit.
Leigh Mounce
September 18, 2002
I received the letter regarding Dr. B today. I can't begin to tell you how sad my heart is - Dr. Brettell did so much for me. I was pregnant with a husband on drugs and the baby didn't make it - Dr. Brettell was kind, compassionate, honest about his concern for my life and the strain my marriage was having on me. When I became pregnant again - Dr. Brettell delivered my beautiful baby - I missed my appointment in August because I started a new job and now I won't ever be able to see him again - it makes me sad that the good ones have to go and go so quickly. I will always regret that I never got to have him tease me or say he was sorry he was running late and we both just laughed. He told me that he believed I would find someone some day that would love me the right way - I only hope it is someone like Dr. Brettell. To his sons - you had an amazing dad. I am so sorry for your heartache.
Teri Frazier
September 18, 2002
In 1994 my family moved to Arlington, Texas and I was in need of a OBGYN. I prayed and asked for God to send me the one. That one was Dr. Brettell. From the very first moment I met him he made an impression on my life that would grow to be a special friendship. A friendship that everyone would love to have with their doctor. I am thankful that I had the opportunity to know a physician who made you feel comfortable in talking with him on personal issues. He would listen to your concerns. He was a friend.
When he told me that he lived in Kansas and that he had been with Kansas University Medical Center in K.C.K., I knew he was God's will as that was the hospital that I was born. I felt a connection my prayers had been answered. I respected Dr. Brettell and trusted him. His genuine concern and sensitivity towards my care and that of my family was simply extraordinary. He truly was a man who who loved life. And, I believe that is why he was chosen for his profession.
He was to deliver my daughter's first child and he knew how special that was for us that he would be there. I must say in my heart of hearts, I know that he will be there in spirit.
We truly miss you and our prayers go out to your family.
We Love You Dr. Brettell
Teri & Alexis
Nicole Eason
September 18, 2002
What a loss our world feels without Dr. Brettell. But what a gain heaven received. My heart hurts for his family. After a bad expierence I was sent by two friends to Dr. Brettell. What a great day that was. I remember sitting in his office and he told me that this would be a good expierence and that he would deliver one more. (due to high risk)It was the best expierence I could have asked for. I will never forget the time he spent talking to my husband and I about his wife and sons and their scouting and scuba trips. He posed for pictures for us. He made you feel like you were the only one. Thank you to his wife and sons for allowing him to be with us (patients) so many long hours each day. Thank you to his parents for raising such a fine man. May God continue to wrap his loving arms around you and comfort you.
With much sympathy,
Jim,Nicole,Hannah,and Porter Eason
Shelby, Tony, Megan, Rachel, & Sophie Henry
September 18, 2002
To the family of Dr. Brettell,
Since the moment I've heard about Dr. Brettell's passing, I have recurring memories of him. My family is honored by knowing Dr. Brettell. I was so fortunate to have him as my doctor for the past 9 years. I have been blessed that he delivered all 3 of my girls. He is a such a great person and one that will be truly missed.
God put him on loan to all of us to enjoy his skills, personality and his total being....I know he's in heaven looking at us all wanting us to be happy. I hope with each new day the loss you are feeling gets better.
Thank you for sharing him with us all these years. I'm sure there were countless dinners, activities and other things he missed because he was delivering a baby or in surgery. I couldn't of asked for any better doctor.
Thank you and God Bless you all.
Kristin Williams
September 17, 2002
I have been grieving ever since I heard the news of Dr. Brettell's passing. He has been my doctor for 10 years, and I have been blessed to be his patient. He has always had a special way of putting me at ease with his warm smile, friendly personality, and subtle sense of humor. His funeral was a wonderful testimony of how one life- one unselfish, dedicated life, can touch so many people. My husband and I are now expecting our first child (thanks to Dr. B's help and expertise with infertility), and it is very difficult to believe that half way through my pregnancy, my favorite doctor is gone. I will be going to the office for my first visit with a new doctor tomorrow, but Dr. Brettell will remain in my heart and will never be forgotten.
My condolances and prayers go out to his family. May the Lord be with you to comfort you and surround you with his loving grace. Thank you for sharing his life with me. Peace be with you!
Kathy Wright
September 17, 2002
I found out quite by accident about Dr. Brettell's death, a chance comment by a co-worker. I didn't believe it even after calling the office because I had an appointment with him for the end of September. He'd always been there for me and I just couldn't fathom how this time would be any different. He'd helped me through 2 surgeries and numerous other problems...always with sensitive concern and more importantly to me, a wonderful sense of humor. I had so many things still to talk to him about and so sometimes I still do talk to him...I'm sure he's listening just like he always did. I plan to stay with Omega because he had such caring, friendly people working with him. I plan to keep my Sept. appt. and though it won't be with him I think he'll still be aware of all of us and our health concerns that were so important to him. I also have 3 sons and so my heart goes out to Mrs. Brettell and her sons. He touched so many lives...always with gentle, loving hands. My prayers are with you all.
TYRA SLOAN
September 17, 2002
I just wanted everyone to know how greatly Dr.B will be missed. I have seen him since 1993. I became pregnant at 18 and on drugs I did not want to have my child, but Dr.B helped me so much. Even talking me threw to sobriety. I had my son because of Dr.B's encouragement for life, and turned my life around. I have been drug free for about 4 yrs and it was great each year to see him and to tell him thanks, your part of the reason my life is as great as it is. I recently had some major health problems and Dr.B was trying everything in his power to help find the problem. From May 02-Aug 02 I was in the office atleast 1 every 2 or 3 weeks. He didnt give up on me like my other doctor. He cared. I was devostated when I heard the news.How life comes and goes without warning,and at anytime God calls for you. Usually I dont find myself so attached to doctors, but Dr.B was no ordinary DR. he didnt treat you as just another source of income, but as a person. Didnt put me down for things I did and now I have a beautiful 4 yr old son thanks to his encouragement! I leave everyone with this last thought: some people are just doctors for the money, but some are in it for the satisfaction of helping others with thier big caring hearts, and Dr.B was one of those w/ the big caring heart. I will never forget what a wonderful, caring man he was, I see it everyday I look at my son who probably wouldnt be here today had Dr.B not talked me out of other routes to take. God Bless his family. God Bless his office for loosing such an asset to the medical profession.Thankyou Dr.B
Melanie Hooper
September 17, 2002
As I read all the entries in this guestbook, I realize (as I have known all along) what an indelible mark Dr. B. made on all of our lives. For me personally, I have never had a doctor that made me feel more special. He would have a room full of patients waiting when I had an appointment to see him, and he would make me feel like I was the only patient he had for that day. That is a rare doctor and a rare human being. I will miss him very, very much. My heart, my prayers and my thoughts go to his family, his friends and his patients who are missing him and grieving for him, too.
Adrianne Lewis
September 17, 2002
I just received the letter stating that Dr. Brettell is gone. I was so shocked that I could'nt speak. I really thought that Dr. B had found out that I had'nt filled the prescription he had given me just a few weeks ago. Dr. B has been my doctor for the past 13 years. He played a big part in the birth of my daughter Aleri, who is now eleven years old. He was right there with me through three miscarrages and never let me lose hope that I would have more children. I have never felt more comfortable or trusted another doctor as much as Dr. B. He will be truly missed. My deepest condolences to his family, you were truly blessed. I would like to include a poem that my mother put on my father's obituary, it brought me so much comfort and I hope it will do the same for you.
Pathway of Pain
If my days were untroubled and my heart always light, would I seek that fair land where there is no night?
If I never grew weary from the weight of my load, would I reach for God's peace at the end of the road?
If I walked without sorrow and lived without loss, would I seek God's sweet solace at the foot of the cross?
If all I desired were mine day by day, would I kneel before God and earnestly pray?
If God sent no winter to freeze me with fear, would I yearn for the warmth of spring every year?
I ask myself this, and the answer is plain, if my life were all pleasure and I never knew pain
I would ask God less often and need him much less, for God is sought more often in times of distress
And no one knows God or sees him as plain, as those who have met him on the pathway of pain.
Author unknown
Mollie pendleton
September 17, 2002
Dr.Brettell was the best Dr. i"ve found in many years.With his gentle nature,and kind spirit he is greatly missed.There will never be another like him.Our prayers and condolences go out to the Brettell family. May he rest in Gods spirit.
Sheryl Fischbach
September 17, 2002
I just wanted say to Dr.B,s family I am sorry for your loss. I am sorry for all of our loss.I loved Dr. Brettell since the day I met him in 1990. I also just lost my PPC DR Dalton Rhea to retirement just a week or so before Dr. B passed away and so I have been so depressed that I could only write to you , his family now. I trusted this man with my life many many times I guess I have had about 4 0R 5 surgeries with him and he was the best everytime. I would wait to get an appointment with him or wait in his waiting room for hrs to see him it didnt matter, when you finally did see him he treated you like you were his only patient....I miss him so much...My mother saw him, my daughter, my sister, cousins and tons of friends and we all loved him. When you found another person out in the world that used Dr.B you would both smile and say at the same time, wow I love him.....I watched his boys grow up on HIS DESK, all the great pictures..there were always ski pictures of great vacations and he loved his family so much all you had to do was comment about the picture and he would tell you a story about the great times they had together. The time I will hold in my heart is when my daughter lost her baby twins to a miscarriage , as a mom and as a to be grandma I was so touched at how he treated my little girl and helped her and our family thru a very rough time. I dont know why God called him home at this time
but it must have been a really good reason, because he knew how many many people loved him, so it must be a important job God needed him for.....I just wanted you his family to know my family loved him so much and will never forget him as long as we live......May Peace be with you.....SHERYL, STEPHEN, STEPHANIE,CHARRITY, DORIS, LEANN
Valerie Engelhart
September 17, 2002
I was very stunned to hear of Dr. Brettell's Passing. My condolences and blessings go out to his family.
I have been a patient of his for 12 years and he was a wonderful Doctor.
He has done two surgeries on me in those twelve years and delivered my daughter who is now 8 years old. I trusted him more than any Doctor I have ever had. He will be missed by all. God Bless You.
Jill Jaynes
September 17, 2002
I too just opened the letter from OMEGA OB-GYN and was shocked to read that Dr. Brettell had passed. It was just two weeks ago that I saw him. He came into the exam room, whistling as usual. He had been my physician since I moved to Arlington 15 years ago, and I feel as if I have lost a dear friend. Weeks a go, while watching an "Oprah" about women in their 40s that couldn't get pregnant, I made a mental note to thank Dr. Brettell for being so candid with me all during my 30s about the ability to conceive as we age. The women on "Oprah" were not aware of what happens to their reproductive ability over time and now they can't conceive and are devastated. Dr.Brettell talked to me about this from the first day I saw him, back when I was about 27. This allowed me to make informed decisions about my future. Though my husband and I opted not to have children, I feel blessed that Dr. Brettell cared enough to talk straight with me. To me, that's what being a truly great doctor is all about.
My prayers are with his family and friends.
Melvadine,Amanda and Staci Owens
September 17, 2002
I just received the letter in the mail 15 minutes ago about Dr. Brettell's passing.I am in shock and deeply saddened,not only was he my Doctor for many,many years,he was my Friend,too. I trusted his care so much I took both my teenage daughters to him,and they became his patients. He was absolutely loved by my family,he will be deeply missed.Please accept my sincere condolonces,this Great Man will live on in my familys heart.We will never forget his warm smile,his compassion and expertise,and most of all,his gentleness and humor.
Our prayers are with the Brettell Family,with Deepest Sympathy,the Owens family.
Denise Rasmussen
September 16, 2002
To the Family, Friends, and Co-workers of Dr. James Brettell,
Please accept my deepest sympathies with the loss of a great man, Dr. James Brettell.I did not know him personally, but was a patient of his for 15 years. I do know that he was a pleasure to be around. I know he loved his work and remember how excited he would be when it was time to bring another life into this world. And I know that he enjoyed, loved, and was proud of his family. I have never had a physician as competent, caring, or well liked by all of those around him. And I don't beleive I ever will. I can only say that God must have needed a man of his stature to be an angel and watch over all of us. God Bless you, be with you in your sorrow, and keep Dr. Brettell's memory close to our hearts forever.
Kim Williams
September 13, 2002
Words cannot express how strange it is to be working at Omega without Dr. B. He had such a way of making the place so much more fun with his smile and his funny, but somewhat corny, jokes!
Throughout the five years I worked for Dr. B, I never heard him say an unkind word about anyone. That is so rare in today's workplace.
Dr. B was not only a wonderful doctor, he was a wonderful friend. He will be missed by everyone!
Marie Lawton
September 12, 2002
To Dr. Brettell’s wife, her children, and to anyone who has been deeply touched by this wonderful man: “May love’s comforting embrace be your light during times of shadow”.
I find myself in tears and at a complete loss over the news I received today, September 12, two hours before my appointment with the best doctor and most wonderful human-being ever, Dr. James R. Brettell. It was with such shock that I learned of the loss of this incredible man; and I am saddened that I was unaware of the situation, thus unable to attend the funeral or send my condolences in a timely manner.
You see, Dr. Brettell was very special to me because he saved my life three years ago; he really did! At 50, I was facing ovarian cancer, endometriosis and a series of other health issues. Although I was his new patient, without hesitation he took me under his wing, he operated on me and saved my life. With his wonderful personality, his warmth (and his incredible staff at Omega), he helped me get through it all with a smile on my face and a bucket of hope in my heart. What am I going to do without him?
My son Kristopher who played hockey with Dr. Brettell’s sons joins my husband and me in offering our deepest condolence and our greatest sympathy to the Brettell family. We (his friends and patients) will all suffer from such a loss, and he will be sorely missed.
Dr. Brettell has been my hero and I believe he has now joined the heroes of 9/11 as they meet in the presence of our Lord Jesus Christ.
Marie, Keith and Kristopher Lawton
Michelle Smith
September 12, 2002
Dr. Brettell delivered all three of my girls. I will truly miss him. My heart goes out to his wife and boys. God bless you!!!!
Cindy Moresi
September 9, 2002
Dr. Brettell was 1 in a million. It'll be hard knowing that after more than 13 years, I won't be able to see the smile on his face when he walks into a room or have one of his funny stories or jokes to share with my family. Dr. B gave me one of the greatest gifts of all, my son, who would not be here if not for his dedication and ability as a physician. He took care of me both physically and emotionally. Dr. B. you'll truly be missed, more than I think you'd have imagined. My only regret is that I don't think I told you "THANKS" enough for always caring and putting my mind at ease, even over the smallest things.
To The Brettell Family and the Staff at Omega,
"Each life is a miracle that changes the world...and leaves it a better place than it was before". I know this world is a better place for having Dr. Brettell in it. Thanks for sharing him with us. May memories comfort you and bring you peace.
Candice Arispe
September 9, 2002
I want to express my sympathy and prayers for the family of Dr.Brettell. I also want to thank you all for sharing that wonderful man with us. I learned of his passing today, when I called to confirm an appointment for my daughter. I was in shock, I just saw him a month ago when he operated on my baby girl. After the operation, he came out where my family and I were waiting, he took my hand and told me what he had found...I started to cry and he assured me that she would be fine...And now her pain is gone. He was so kind and gentle and so very good at what he did....He left nothing to chance and took care of his patients....He made what can often be very embarassing moments, something that I could laugh at. He will be deeply missed.
Thank you Mr.B,
Candice and Christina
Sandi Smart
September 9, 2002
I didn't know Dr. Brettell that well. He had been my doctor for only one year, but that's all the time it took to know how wonderful and caring he was. He will truly be missed.
May God bless his family and coworkers.
Etha Boudreaux
September 9, 2002
To the Brettell Family: I am so sorry for your loss and was shocked to hear of the news. I was just in for a visit with Dr.B a month ago, knew of his surgery and said I'll see you in three weeks. I will never find another doctor like him. He brought two of the greatest joys into our lives and for that I am thankful. May the Lord be with you all, in your time of sorrow. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
The Boudreaux's
James Brettell
September 8, 2002
I am Dr. Brettell's father and, on behalf of his wife, children and other family members, want to express my sincere appreciation for all the wonderful letters and expressions of sympathy registered here in this guest book. I have known for years that Jim was a very special son, but these letters certainly amplify the things I've known about my son. His partners tell me that he delivered more than 15000 babies in his practice and that, alone, indicates the number of lives he touched.
He has always, all his life, loved kids, and he has always been more patient than the rest of us. He was able to teach one of his siblings to water ski after the rest of us had given up. He moved all over the world with us as an Army brat, always got straight As no matter what school he attended, and, to my knowledge, is one of the very few people you ever knew who was universally liked and respected by everyone who knew him. I don't think there was a single detractor anywhere. He was the son every parent hopes for and I send my personal thanks for all your wonderful letters. Jim's wife, Susan, his sons, Jimmy, Joe, and Ben, all miss him very much and we all know that our lives will never be the same. Thank you all for your wonderful testimonials.
Christina Weaver-Bryner
September 8, 2002
My thoughts and prayers to the Brettel family and friends.
A truly thankful patient MM
September 7, 2002
Wow... What a man. What a HERO. How rare to see someone touch so many people on so many different levels. I always felt as though I were the only one that was so touched & effected by how special of a doctor/human-being he was--it turns out that anyone & everyone whom was lucky enough to cross paths with this man saw what a gem he was. His wife & boys must be so very proud to have been the wind beneath his wings.
Lori Albiani
September 7, 2002
Dear Brettell family,
I offer my deepest sorrow for your loss. I was just sent an email informing me of your loss. He was such a wonderful person. He made be believe that we could have a family. Now we have three. He delivered my second child Lyndsay Caroline Dec. 7,1994 and helped me with my third high risk pregnancy of my son Austin, until we moved to Florida. Dr Brettell helped me even long distance until Austin arrived. He will be missed by many. I am so sorry he is gone. With deep fond memories of a good friend. Lori Albiani and her family.
Cordelia Munoz
September 6, 2002
To Dr. Brettells wife, sons and family I offer my deepest sympathy. God truly blessed us with this wonderful person that HE has taken to his home. It will be impossible to replace him and he will always have a place in our hearts. May you find strength in the love of family and in the warm embrace of friends. Our Deepest Sympathy, Cordelia and Johnny Munoz
P.S. I have been a patient of his since 1985 and he delivered our first grandson by my husbands daughter. A true blessing.
JULIE SAMPSON
September 6, 2002
DEAR SUSAN AND SONS
I TOO AM VERY GRATEFUL FOR YOUR HUSBAND AND FATHERS WONDERFUL PERSONALITY.. HE DELIVERED MY FIRST GRANDSON IN 1991 AND THEN MY SECOND GRANDSON IN 2001, I LIKED HIM SO MUCH IN JAN 1998 I NEEDED A HYSTERCTOMY AND I CHOOSE HIM TO PREFORM THAT BECAUSE HE WAS SUCH A GREAT DOCTOR AND JUST A NICE HUMANBEING.. I WAS VERY SAD TO HEAR OF HIS PASSING..SINCERELY JULIE SAMPSON
Darla Cortez
September 6, 2002
My heart and prayers go out to the staff of Omega and especially to his wife and kids. I've been lucky enough to have him for my doctor for over 10 years and he delivered our daughter (now 6) and my nephew (now 12). May you find comfort in knowing how many lives he has touched and that he'll never be forgotten. God bless you always!
Jennifer Gonsalves
September 6, 2002
Jennifer Gonsalves
Rosanna Cannon
September 5, 2002
Dear Susan,Joe,Jimmy and Ben
I have had the pleasure of working for Dr. B for ten years at Omega. When I first started working there I knew I was in for the long haul and that was because of him. Dr. B made always made time to say a quick hello to me every morning he came into work. Several years later, when trying to start my family, I found out that I was infertility and he was there every step of the way. After almost two years of trying to conceive, I finally had Miranda. I remember that day in 1996 when he
delivered her, it was like it was his own child. I'm still trying for a second child after a misscarriage a year ago. He has taught me to be patient with my infertility by letting me know that it also took him a while to start his family.
He was so proud of his wife and boys. He always talked about his family.
Daniel, Miranda and I are still in shock and disbelief by his death. I personally find it hard to go to work without him being there and I will miss him greatly. You are in our thoughts and prayers always.
Rosanna,Daniel and Miranda
Sulynn Bledsoe
September 5, 2002
I was so shocked today to learn of Dr. Brettell's passing. I have only been a patient of his for the past couple of years but he became a vital part of my life in that short time. Yes, I too had to wait occasionally in his office, but I knew when it was my turn, he would spend as long as necessary discussing my health concerns. I remember seeing pictures of his wife and children displayed in his office and could tell from what he would say that he was a loving father and husband.
Thank you God for bring Dr. B into my life. Please be with his wife and children. Comfort his family and friends in this time of great loss.
Bill & Dee Thrasher
September 4, 2002
We are both in a total state of shock as though a family member has been taken away. Dr. Brettell was a truley kind and caring Dr. and friend who will be missed dearly. He is one of those unreplaceble people in many lives. Our prayers and sentiment are with this friend's family forever. Thank you for being a friend and such a big part of our lives.
Christi McInnis
September 4, 2002
I wanted to add to my earlier writing.
I truly believe that God places people in your life for a reason. In May of 2001, He placed Dr. Brettell into mine. He diagnosed me with some infertility problems and listened to me when other doctors were telling me I was trying to hard to have a baby. He helped me with treatments and saw me through two surgeries. Although he will not be there when I do have children, God allowed him to pave the way for another doctor to take over . For that I will always be greatful.
Christi McInnis
Karen Chambers
September 3, 2002
I was very sad to hear about Dr. Brettell's passing. Even when he was not on my insurance coverage, I continued to see him as my doctor. He had a sincere concern about my well being as a person and not just for my physical body. That is what made him so special.
Karen Chambers
Lorie Crawford
September 2, 2002
I just learned of Dr. B's passing. I, like everyone else am very sad. I found the greatest Dr. when I finally became became preg. with my one and only beautiful daughter Dr. B. delivered. I was high risk from the start, and was advised by other doctors in the past to not have children, but Dr. Brettell assured me from the start everything would be just fine. He never let me go very long without visits, every 2 weeks from the start, by 6 months every week, he did every possible test to assure my daughter was going to be born safe and healthy. And she was, because of him. Even after my daughter of almost 10 years now, Dr. B continued to take care of my yearly exams (which I was excited about also), and he was always concerned about my other health issues. Dr. James Brittell will be sadly missed forever.
Lorie & Savanna
Angie Brock
September 1, 2002
I was sad to hear of Dr. B's passing. I have been a patient of his for almost 12 years. He was a great a caring man. He delivered two of my childern and keep apologizing because he couldn't be there for the third because he had something to do and couldn't cancel. But, he was there by the end of the day to check on me. As I would talk to friends and other patients of Dr. B's, we would all get a laugh about how long the wait would be. But one thing is for sure, we didn't want to go to anyone else.
Thanks to Dr. Brettell's family for sharing such a loving and kind person with the rest of us.
Eric, Angie, Ethan, Amy and Byron Brock
Sarah Boggus
August 31, 2002
I was blessed to find Dr. Brettell when I became pregnant with my first son. I was lucky enough for him to be there to deliver both of my sons. He made me feel everything would be all right when there were signs of complications. He always took the time to talk, and always asked specific details about our life that amazed me that he would remember. My husband adored him as much as I. He felt more like a friend than a doctor. I have continued the drive from Keller to see him because I could not imagine finding a new doctor when I moved.
I didn't find out about his passing until after the funeral, so I pass along my sympathies to his family, friends, and staff. He will truly be missed.
God Bless,
Steve, Sarah, Nick and Cole Boggus
Lynette Shotwell
August 30, 2002
I have known Dr. Brettell now for a little over one year. Not only was I his patient, but I was also very honored to have worked for him as part of the Omega OBGYN office staff. He has been my miracle! He has seen me through several months of infertility treatments. Without his compassion this past year would not have been possible. I'm saddened that Dr. Brettell will not be here when we finally do have a baby, but I know he is my guardian angel and will continue to see us through this difficult road of infertility! My deepest sympathies to his family! Thank you so much for sharing him with us. He was and always will be missed and loved very much!
John & Lynette Shotwell
(and our future miracle!)
Susan Harris
August 30, 2002
My dearest Dr. Brettell!!
I remember the first time I met you it was under an emergency situation. You gave me a hug and held my hand telling me that everything would be ok. I was in hysterics that day but after you said things would be ok I believed you and you were right.
Every year after that I would look forward to my well exams and others would think I was strange because I was excited to go. More often than not I would arrive at your office and sit patiently from 30 minutes on up to 5 hours just to see you. I would look at all the children in the waiting area and wonder which ones were lucky to have you as their delivering doctor. With this in mind I couldn’t be upset for the wait.
What a gift God gave to all of us when he blessed us with your presence. Although I have mourned the loss of a wonderful friend and doctor I will now celebrate life as all of those little babies you delivered have and will continue to celebrate life.
I love you Dr. B and I will miss you but never forget you!!
Stacy Imbong
August 30, 2002
The love I have for Dr. Brettell is so hard to express. He was not only my Doctor but also my friend. He comforted me and my Husband when we had miscarriages. Assured my Husband all would be OK after my many surgeries. He rejoiced and cried with us when we finally had our children. Elijah is now four and Ian is one. I thank God for Dr. Brettell. He will be forever loved and truly missed.
Sharon Brenner
August 30, 2002
My daughter, Susan Brenner Harris, always spoke so highly of Dr. Brettell. He counseled her in a failing marriage and gave her hope and a kind listening ear and smiles for a better tomorrow. I had never met him until this past July and only in passing and I took the time to stop and Thank the good Dr. for taking such wonderful and precious care of my sweet daughter. He was a generous and kind man and thanked me for telling him.
We all have learned from his life and the most precious thing we have learned is love of life and to be good, loving and caring of human kind.
Thank you God for Dr. Brettell, you will be forever missed!
Chris Basden
August 30, 2002
Oh Dr. B. !
What a guy! Anyone that was willing to listen to me knew who you were. I've babbled on and on about your humor, wit, sensitivity, compassion, complete inability to tell time, your dedication to your wife and boys, and the hundreds of women that loved you. And the best of it all? You gave to us, your patients and friends, the best of the gift that God gave to you: the talent and ability to be the best doctor this world will ever have known.
I can only smile thinking back to when I first met you in 1990, then through all the proceeding years. 2 healthy boys later, I could not have imagined anyone more well-suited to deliver my children than you. You laughed with me and you cried with me. Were you for real? Oh yes, you were! You were dedicated, that's for sure..and yes, you always ran late...but how could I complain? I knew that you would give me the same time you gave others and for that, I never got mad at you. Okay, I pretended and gave you a hard time and you gave it right back! In the year that I have been away, already I know I will never find a Dr. that compares to you. I was even talking of flying down there to Texas just for my annual exam...My friends all thought I was weird; I never was anxious about my "yearlies" because I looked forward to a new set of jokes and jabs with you. I hope you are laughing, that's my best memory of you.
To Susan and the boys,
Thank you for sharing Dr. B. with us. Every moment that he spoke of you, it was with a gleam in his eye and his chest puffed out more and more.
I will pray for you each day that you find solace and peace in God's love and grace, and that you find comfort and maybe some laughter in the tributes that we give to your husband and father.
To the staff at Omega OB-Gyn,
I pray for you as well for the loss in your family. Keep laughing, that's what he'd want.
To the current patients of Dr. B. ,
I pray for you that you would treasure every moment you had with Dr. B. For those that won't have Dr. B. there physically for the births of your children, remember that he will be there, watching, smiling, laughing; not just because of the births, but because he is with the Great Physician.
In Him that blesses us,
Chris & Steve Basden
Ryan and Trent
Carol McDonnell
August 30, 2002
Dear Susan and Sons-
My deepest sympathy goes out to you. I am so sad for your loss. Dr. Brettell did not know how many hours were in a day and he stretched his days to the limit, and you were all so gracious to share him with so many others. I know I was truly blessed to have such a caring doctor and friend. He will be missed and he was a true gift to all of us who were fortunate enough to know him.
Jeannine Campbell
August 29, 2002
I was in shock & disbelief when I heard of Dr.B's death. My mom & I have been a patient of his for 15 years. My sister-n-law & several of my friends were patients of his as well. He recently remembered & joked about how frightened I was for my first exam.
He saw me through an infertility problem, surgery, miscarriage and the birth of my first daughter. He was away this past Christmas for the birth of my second daughter. My first thought when my water broke, "Dr. Brettell was away what were we going to do??!!". He was so dissappointed for not being there to deliver her.
He never hesitated to go above & beyond what was expected of him. He was the most thoughtful, kind, and patient man. This is an enormous loss.
My prayers go out to the Brettell family & Omega OB-GYN staff. Let there be some comfort in knowing he is in a better place, heaven.
Shannon Crantz
August 29, 2002
I feel blessed to have had the opportunity to have Dr. Brettel as my doctor. After years of being misdiagnosed, he found my problem and saved me. Because of him, I will have the opportunity to have children. I cannot think of a better gift anyone could give someone. I always recommended him and bragged about him to everyone I know. Thank you Dr. Brettel for saving me and caring more than any doctor ever has. What am I going to do without you? You will be dearly missed. My prayers are with Mrs. Brettel and thier sons. May God comfort you in this time of sadness.
LaNita Clark
August 29, 2002
I was very, very saddened to hear of Dr Brettells passing. I was a patient of Dr Brettell's for more than 13 years. He delivered my son who will be 12 next month and he delivered my neice as well. He was the best doctor I have ever known. I reccomended him to everyone I knew. At one time I had moved hours away but could not imagine going to any other doctor so I made the over night trip because I knew his expertise and kindness could not be matched. Not even close. Then, a few years ago I became a struggling single Mom and my company changed insurance plans. I reluctantly went to another doctor on our plan as Dr Brettell was not on the plan at the time. I was missdiagnosed with an incurable disease. I was very sick and on the verge of slipping into a coma due to the fact that I was not being treated for the real problem. I needed a second opinion. Cost suddenly wasn't an issue and thank God for second opinions and thank God for Dr Brettell. He diagnosed the real problem immediately and treated me and I made a speedy recovery in no time. He even called me himself at home to make sure I was doing alright. That is so very rare these days. He was a wonderful man and sincere doctor and we will all miss him very much. The Brettell family will be in my prayers.
Carrie Shaw
August 29, 2002
My heart sank when I heard that Dr. Brettell had died. I still can't believe it. He delivered my baby girl in June, and I feel so lucky to have had him as my doctor. I'm really going to miss my visits with him.
My condolences to his family, friends, and coworkers.
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