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Stephen Buckellew Obituary
Memorial service: 11 a.m. Friday at Roberston Mueller Harper.
Memorials: In lieu of flowers, consideration of contributions to The WARM Place, 809 Lipscomb St., Fort Worth, Texas 76104, www.thewarmplace.org, in Steve's memory, is suggested.
A native and lifelong resident of Fort Worth, Steve was the son of Cleveland Oren "Buck" Buckellew Jr. and Pamela Ann Hunter Buckellew. He graduated from Southwest High School in 1987 and Texas A&M University before receiving his M.S. from the University of Texas at Arlington.
Steve was an intellectual with varied pursuits spanning literature, music, movies, politics, blogging, crossword puzzles, woodworking, photography, food and sports. He was also a highly talented pool player. Above all, Steve was friend to countless who will treasure the many good times enjoyed and lament the lost opportunities to share in his company. He will be deeply missed.
Survivors: Steve is survived by his wife, Mary Jane Richardson; mother and stepfather, Pam and Al Esquivel; brothers and sisters-in-law, Phil and Lisa Buckellew and Bruce Hervey and Katie Barber; grandmother, Christine Wesley; parents-in-law, Jim and Ann Richardson; brother-in-law, James Richardson; and many throughout Fort Worth and beyond whom he called friends.
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Memories and Condolences
for Stephen Buckellew
Susanne Swift
April 18, 2024
Really hard to believe it´s been 16 years. Wow. He is deeply missed.
Cyndy (Gryder) Bishop
June 11, 2008
I am in complete shock right now having just learned of Steve's death. He was a very special friend of mine, going all the way back to 8th grade. We lost touch in college and I missed the reunion. Prayers, comfort, and peace to family and friends.
Sylvia Soto-Woodrum
May 28, 2008
I'm very sorry for your loss, Steve had a wonderful passion for life and was always full of jokes.He will be missed by all..
Stephan Buffington
May 13, 2008
Pam and Phil, I am so sorry for your loss. Steve was a great friend in school and we lost touch after graduation. I remember him putting me in my place with his intimidating intelligence. He will be greatly missed.
Glenn Kirk
May 7, 2008
I keep thinking about how much you loved life. Steve, I keep you in my prayers. You will be missed by so many people.
Jennifer Mouat (Hauser)
April 29, 2008
I was so surprised to hear. My thoughts and prayers our with Steve's family. He was so intellegent and fun to talk to. He was a great person to know. He will be greatly missed.
Heather Axley-Holt
April 29, 2008
Deepest condolences to the Buckellew family from Stephen, Hayden and myself. May you all find peace.
Robert Humphreys
April 28, 2008
I truly regret not being able to attend the reunion this past fall and re-connect. My deepest sympathies to all of Steve's family and friends.
Chris Pittman
April 28, 2008
My deepest sympathy to the entire family.
Christie Guinn-Storey & Chris Ledbetter
April 28, 2008
Mary Jane, We just found out yesterday. I am so sorry. My love and prayers are with you always.
Cheryl Whitehead
April 28, 2008
Wow what a surprise. My thoughts and prayers are with his family. Steve was a wonderful person with such a witty sense of humor. I had a great time talking with him at the reunion. He will be greatly missed.
MATT MC ENTIRE
April 28, 2008
MARY JANE .I WAS SHOCKED AND SADENED TO HEAR OF STEVES SUDDEN DEATH. I WAS AWAY AND JUST HEARD ABOUT IT THIS MORNING .I WILL HAVE A MASS OFFERED UP FOR THE REPOSE OF HIS SOUL . FROM MATT MC ENTIRE
Susanne Swift Regan
April 27, 2008
Steve and Mary Jane were our best friends. They were always there in the fun times, moreover they were there in the bad. My world was a better place with Steve in it. His fabulous sarcasm and loving humor will be desperately missed. John and I loved him very much. Our thoughts are with all of those whom Steve touched their lives.
Carole Du Bose-Krajca
April 27, 2008
Mary Jane and Family~
Joe and I are so sad to hear the news about Steve. Thank you for the friendship and fun times, Steve will certainly be missed. All our prayers are with you.
Michael and Shellie Watson
April 26, 2008
Our deepest sympathies to Mary Jane and the entire family. Steve will be greatly missed.
Jerry and Lillian Joyner
April 26, 2008
Words cannot express our sorrow for your loss.
We're always here for you,
Jerry and Lillian
Joyner
Monty Youngblood
April 25, 2008
Rest in peace, Steve. We'll miss you.
Crystal Hannah
April 25, 2008
I worked with Steve at C&B and I'm so glad I had the opportunity to have known him, even though it was only for a short time. When I last saw him on Thursday, he seemed to have a song in his heart as he walked down the hall. Mary Jane, my deepest sypmathies are with you. The memorial was lovely and very fitting. It goes without saying that he will be missed.
Courtney Anderson Noell
April 25, 2008
I was really sorry to hear of Steve's passing - what a shock! I saw him at our 20th high school reunion this fall but never got a chance to chat; I'm really sorry now about that. My thoughts and prayers are with Steve's family.
Katie (Kathy Brown) Wilson
April 25, 2008
I am saddened by the loss of such an amazing person. I remember Steve so well from fourth grade French class on through high school! May God be the peace and comfort to family and friends; you are in my prayers.
Carol Graves
April 25, 2008
It's been several years since the Buckellew boys were at Southwest, but, Phil, I remember each of you clearly. It was always a pleasure to discuss "argue" a point with Steve. His intelligence and his ability to use the language were challenges. Did I drive him to distraction when I put limitations on his writing? He was the kind of student that made teaching a pleasure. I know how much you loved him, Phil, and I am so sorry that you and he can no longer get into mischief together. I hope you will take comfort in knowing how much he enjoyed life and having you as his brother. Also, would you please extend my sympathies to your mother and sister.
Shamus Hanlon
April 25, 2008
I'm very sorry to have learned of Steve's passing. Phil and the entire Buckellew family will be in my thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time. May God's grace be with all of you.
Karrie Sanderson
April 25, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with all of Steve's friends and family. Steve was an amazing person in so many ways - I feel privileged to have known him and will miss him deeply.
Janet Britton-Smith
April 25, 2008
I knew Steve in high school, mainly through Phil or Toby. Steve always had a great deal of intelligence that will spill over to his sense of humor. I always remember him smiling or laughing and making jokes, I rarely understood. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. As I remember Steve, I can only imagine he still has a wonderful family, a strong bond with his friends and a great relationship within his community. I hope you all find comfort in the beautiful memories he helped you create. May peace be with you all!
Chad and Sarah Stewart
April 25, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with Mary Jane, Phil, family, & friends for this loss. We wish you well in this very tough time and hope you find comfort from friends, family, and Steve's memories.
Johnny Butler
April 25, 2008
Steve was a great person. He will be missed by all that knew him. God Bless.
Semone Harris
April 25, 2008
My thoughts and prayers goes out to the Buckellew Family. Steve you will be truly missed.
Barbara Debenport McMasters
April 25, 2008
My deepest sympathy go out to Mary Jane and Steve's family. I remember Steve living in my garage apartment when he was a young man. He was always a joy for me during that time and a wonderful friend to my son Robin. He will be greatly missed.
John and Dana Robinson
April 24, 2008
Our deepest sympathies to Mary Jane and all of Steve's family. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Marian Massey
April 24, 2008
Pam, how sad to read of the loss of your son at only 39 years of age. Much sympathy to you and yours from a former Tandy/RadioShack legal secretary.
Teresa Gilley-Yeargins
April 24, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with Steve's family and friends. We are all blessed to have known him.
Luis, Deb, Sofia & Ava Caballero
April 24, 2008
Our deepest sympathies to Mary Jane, Pam, Al & Phil and all those who loved him. Steve will be missed.
With love,
Kevin Bollin
April 24, 2008
My deepest sympathies go out to Steve's family and friends. Thank you for all the memories. You will truly be missed by all!
Barbara Enochs, fourth grade teacher
April 24, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time. I remember fondly Steve and Phil from their time at J.T. Stevens Elementary School.
Mike Walker
April 24, 2008
First, I want to express my sympathy to Mary Jane and the rest of Steve's family. I feel so fortunate to have known Steve and to met many of you.
Steve was one of the most intelligent and interesting people I have ever met. Many of our conversations ended with me wondering why I forgot the references he made until he made them. Unfortunately he did not have time to accomplish the greatness he had within him.
I already miss Steve. The fact I just chatted with him just days ago reminds me that I just wasn't done with our relationship.
I pray he is at peace or at least having a great conversation with God.
keith horton
April 24, 2008
long live the memories of his wit and love of life...
Meryl Kaplan Evans
April 24, 2008
Phil, I'm so sorry for your lost. I remember him always smiling in the halls at SHS.
Robert Elrod
April 24, 2008
I haven't seen Steve in a few years, but I always assumed we'd run into each other again. He was as smart and as funny as anyone I've ever known. No one who knew him will ever forget him.
Heather Fleming Guidry
April 24, 2008
I am so saddened by this news. My thoughts and prayers are with Steve's family and friends.
Sean Duewel
April 24, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Scott Carpentier
April 24, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with Steve's family and friends. I'm very thankful for the short time we were able to spend together at the reunion. Take care all.
Richard and Christy Gagnon
April 24, 2008
Our deepest sympathy
Dotty Mcmichael
April 24, 2008
My thoughts and prayers go out to the family at this very difficult time. Steve was a very witty guy. He will be missed.
Chris Stout
April 24, 2008
To Steve's family and closest friends, my deepest sympathy.Please know you are in our continued prayers. Steve's fun and witty spirit will be missed by many.
Heather Fleming Guidry
April 24, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with Steve's family and friends.
Stacey Wilder Henry
April 24, 2008
I am so saddened by this and cannot imagine what you're going through. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Ronni (Garb) Kleypas
April 24, 2008
I haven't stopped thinking of Steve, his family and especially Mary Jane since hearing the awful news.
I spent many wonderful times enjoying the benefits of Steve's sarcasm, wit and incredible intelligence. He will always be an integral part of my fondest Fort Worth and Texas A&M memories.
Hal Lambert
April 24, 2008
Steve will be missed. PK won't be the same without him. His intellect and views were always great fun in our many debates.
Mike Thomas
April 24, 2008
I am so sorry for the family's loss. Steve was one great guy and will be missed.
Nancy Carter
April 24, 2008
My sincere heartfelt sympathy goes out to Steve's family and friends. Steve spent many times at my home, as my daughter's good friend. He was a pleasure to know -- so intelligent and fun. This news is so sad! This loss will be felt by many!
Sincere regards,
Nancy Carter
Trent Godby
April 24, 2008
My prayers and thoughts are with Steve's family and friends at this time... You sense of humor and kind spirit will be missed Buck.
Barbara & Grant Davis
April 24, 2008
We are so very sorry for the loss of this fine young man. Our prayers and thoughts are with your family.
Dr. Nelson & Staff
April 24, 2008
Our deepest sympathy
Suzette Watkins
April 24, 2008
I never met SteveB but blogged on his blogsite often. I could not believe what I was reading when reading about his passing this morning! So young and so much yet to give and take from this world. My thoughts will be with his family and friends at westandclear.com. I hope that all of you are able to find some peace, love and caring during this difficult time. I'm sure he will live forever in the spirit of the memories. May you rest in peace Steve, I'll miss your daily contributions in the blogworld.
David Grimes
April 24, 2008
I knew Steve from our days together at Radioshack. What a pleasurable and intelligent guy! You will be missed!
Stephen Lindsey
April 24, 2008
My daily thoughts are of Steve and our family of friends that have lost a brother.
I anxiously await my return home.
All my best to Pam and the entire family.
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