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BONCELA Adam J. Boncela, age 21, of Dublin, Ohio, died on Monday, July 25, 2005. Sweet son of Jim and Catherine Boncela; and dearest brother of Megan Boncela; also survived by aunts, uncles, cousins, and many, many friends. Adam was a graduate of Dublin Coffman High School, was attending The Ohio State University and was an assistant manager at Subway at Tuttle Mall. He was the sunshine in every life he touched. Friends may call 2-4 and 6-8 p.m. Wednesday at SCHOEDINGER WORTHINGTON CHAPEL, 6699 N. High Street (1/2 mile South of I-270), where funeral service will be held at 1:30 p.m. Thursday, July 28, 2005 with Rev. Tere Banks, Light of the Woods Unity Church officiating. The family suggests contribution in Adam's name to Dublin Coffman Track Boosters.

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Published by The Columbus Dispatch from Jul. 26 to Jul. 27, 2005.

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Lorie Fallon

July 20, 2021

Never forgotten..

Leon Rock

August 10, 2005

Adam you will always go on living in my thoughts. A true friend and a loyal brother you never let me down. I'm sorry that God decided to take you now, maybe he needed a good runner for his track team in heaven I dont know but wha I do know is that you will live in our hearts for ever.

Ruthie Cook

August 8, 2005

I will always always love Adam-- he knew that.



Cathy, Jim and Megan...you are in my prayers.



Love,

Ruthie

Catherine Boncela

August 8, 2005

This is Adam's mom, and I wanted to share a writing with Adam's friends and family. A friend of mine just sent it to me, and maybe it will help all of us to cope a little, minute by minute. The author is unknown.



The Cure



We think that we get over things.

We don't get over things.

Or, you could say that we can get over measles,

but not a broken heart.

We need to make that distinction.

The things that become part of our experience

never become less of our experience.

How can I say it?

The only way to "get over" life is to die.

Short of that, you move with it.

Let the pain be pain,

not in the hope that it will vanish,

but in the faith that it will fit in,

find its place in the shape of things.

And, then, be not any less pain, but true form.

Because, anything natural has an inherent shape,

and it will always flow towards that shape.

And a life is as natural as a leaf.

That's what we are looking for;

Not the end of a thing, but the shape of it.

Wisdom is seeing the shape of your life

...without obliterating a single instant of it.

Christopher Speich

August 7, 2005

"MY OLD FRIEND"



My old friend, I recall

The times we had hanging on my wall

I wouldn't trade them for gold

Cause they laugh and they cry me

Somehow sanctify me

This woven in the stories I have told

And tell again



My old friend, I apologize

For the years that have passed

Since the last time you and I

Dusted off those memories But the running and the races

The people and the places

There's always somewhere else I had to be

Time gets slim, my old friend



Don't know why, Don't know why



My old friend, this song's for you

Cause a few simple verses

Was the least that I could do

To tell the world you were here

Cause the love and the laugher

Will live on long after

All of the sadness and the tears

We'll meet again, my old friend



Goodbye, goodbye

My old friend, my old friend

Goodbye...

Amy Ray

August 3, 2005

In a rush to come to earth,

In every person, he recognized their worth...That's our Adam.

Passionate and giving no matter what the cost,

Encouraging warmly any who was lost...That's our Adam.

Big contagious smile and warm embrace,

Running along, head bobbing during every race...That's our Adam.

Shouting on the sidelines for anyone in need,

Speaking words of kindness to those in whom troubles breed...That's our Adam.

Eager to let loose and eager to come together,

Always smiling and cheerful in any kind of weather...That's our Adam.

His smile and laugh could brighten up even the darkest hour,

Remains strong and brave while others cower...That's our Adam.

Beaming down upon us and listening as we pray,

Giving us his strength and helping us through each day...That's our Adam.

Forever unique, taking each day in stride,

Leaving us feeling blessed and with a sense of pride...At knowing our Adam.



Rest in peace...You will be missed so much by so many. Do it right, Boncela...We love you!

Shar'ryll Alford Winbush (Barnes)

August 2, 2005

Cathy & Jim: I was so sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. Remember, "earth has no sorrow that heaven cannot heal".

God Bless

Shar'ryll Alford Winbush (formerly Barnes from Control Data)

Megan Gibson

August 2, 2005

How lucky we all were to know him.

I need to say goodbye although you're with me.

I stand beside your grave, yet you are here.

I miss you terribly and hope you miss me,

But when I turn to you, you're always near.

I talk to you as though you lived within me,

Not changed but simply moved in from outside.

Here, as always, you must be my guide.

You were and are and will be, just as ever,

In many minds and hearts, not only mine.

No physical event can such love sever;

Death is a dimension, not a line.

And so goodbye does not mean you are gone:

So long as I still love you, you live on.

Darrell Moneyhon

August 1, 2005

This poem is a tribute to Adam's vibrant spirit as both a supporter of cross country (during a season when he was spectating rather than participating, due to leg injury?)and as an impressive athlete in track.





Passing



Harriers ran unheralded

until a green and black

painted face appeared

whooping and hollering,

like cross country was big sport.

He was the carrier

of harrier spirit,

picking up their steps

all the way to States.



Then it was his turn

to relay his message on foot,

on the track,

huffing, hoofing 800,

head swagging wildly

down the stretch,

heading for States again,

passing runners left and right -

a very good leg, sub-2,

stoking the spirits

of teamates, friends,

as he passes the baton.

Jessie Olesnanik

August 1, 2005

I knew Adam in high school and he was one of the nicest and most sincere people I knew. He could always make people laugh. I would like to express my deepest sympathies to Adam's family, he will be missed very much.

Dan Zinser

July 31, 2005

Adam you were one my best friends. We kept in close touch even when you moved back to Ohio. Im going to miss the phone calls and good times we had. Even though Im going to miss you I take comfort in knowing that whenever I go out for a run I will never be alone.



Mr. and Mrs. Boncela, Megan and the rest of the Boncela family you are in my prayers.

Ann Lutz

July 31, 2005

I was so very shocked and heartbroken to learn about this terrible tradgedy. I have known Adam for what feels like forever, from Auntie Anne's Pretzels to a wonderful friend all throughout college. I will miss our monthly chats and the warmth and laughter he brought into my life. My thoughts and prayers are with you Boncela Family. Rest in peace Adam.

Cindy Hurst - DeGoricia

July 30, 2005

Our family had the pleasure of knowing Adam through the DCHS Track Team. He was a very talented runner and an extremely nice young man. He will be fondly remembered by all that knew him.



Our sincerest condolences,

Dan, Cindy, Danny, and Lauren DeGoricia

Kristin Smith

July 30, 2005

I also ran with Adam at Detroit.What struck me most about Adam was how sincere and genuine a person he was with everyone he met. He will greatly be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with the

Boncela Family.

Lacey Lab

July 29, 2005

Adam was such a wonderful person, and somone who will never be forgotten. I hope your family finds comfort in knowing how many people loved and admired Adam. His unique and caring personality touched so many peoples lives, and his memory will live on forever. I love you Adam.

Aaron Vranish

July 29, 2005

Deepest condolences to Adam's family and friends in Ohio. Adam was a brother of mine at UDM. A brother's love is one that never goes away, and one that never forgets. Adam will always be in my heart and on my mind, as well as everyone who ever had the pleasure of meeting such a great human being. A beautiful life, taken too quickly from us. thoughts and prayers to his entire family.

Adam Summers

July 29, 2005

Adam was a dear frind and will be missed. If you were ever in a room with him and were down his smile would lift you right up. Rest in peace my friend.

Carey Baker

July 29, 2005

it's been five days and i still cant believe it. I was so amazed at how many people came to the service. he was truely loved by everyone. Going back into Subway for work tonight will be really tough. it'll never be the same.

with love.

Jessica Schmidt

July 29, 2005

I remember watching Adam run in high school for Coffman as I ran for Hilliard Davidson, I usually try and follow what graduated runners do and I had been checking what Adam was up to when I found out. He was a great guy and its a great loss, but he will be in a good place.

Ransom Adams

July 28, 2005

Jim and Cathy

So sorry to hear of your son's passing. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Ransom & Charlie Adams

Holly Huber

July 28, 2005

I was so devastated to hear about Adam's passing; like a brick hit me out of nowhere. Adam was a great guy; funny, smart, someone I could always confide in. He was a good friend and a great fraternity brother. I'm proud to say that he and I will always be joined by letters.



God Bless the Boncela Family.



Holly E. Huber

Alumni Sweetheart Sigma Phi Epsilon, Michigan Delta

Andrea Karl

July 28, 2005

I ran with Adam on the team when he ran at UDM. It is sad to know that Adam will never be coming back to visit us again...his time here on the team and during his visits after he left UDM will always be remembered. My prayers go out to the Boncela family and all who feel sorrow due to Adam's passing. I will not say I am sorry he is gone though, because he will never be gone, he will forever live through the lives of every person he touched.

Don Gogolin

July 28, 2005

Our deepest condolences for your loss. Tommy spoke highly of Adam. Whenever I saw him he was always smiling, always joyful, and always friendly. He will be sorely missed.

Shannon McCarthy

July 28, 2005

Jim,

Please accept my condolences at this time for you and your family. It has been a few years since we've worked together, but I wanted to extend my sympathy to you.

Shannon McCarthy

Ramon Carpio

July 28, 2005

I am so sorry for your loss because it is my loss also. Adam was a brother of mine at the University of Detroit Mercy. I only knew him for all the good that he was. His heart was evry big and he cared for everyone that he knew. The world has lost another person that it could not afford to lose. He was a good and loyal freind. you and Adam are in my prayers.

Julie Kayser

July 28, 2005

Although I did not know Adam, thru your neighbors, The Fawcett's, I have heard so many good & truly wonderful things this young man has accomplished in his short life. Nothing can take away the pain of your loss, but always remember how truely loved he was by all who crossed his path. Our prayers are with you. Julie Kayser, neighbor and DCHS Gymnastics Coach.

Ruth Spolar

July 28, 2005

The last time I saw Adam he was a child. Yet last night I dreamed of two young men walking a path together. I could only catch a glimpse of them because I was behind them. But I knew one young man was Adam and somehow I knew the other to be Danny, my first-born son who died in 1969. I wanted them to turn around towards me but they continued to walk their own path. I woke with a sense of comfort knowing someday we will meet again on that path.

Becky Cornett

July 28, 2005

Catherine: I have just learned about Adam's tragic death. There are no words to express the pain of such a loss. May you find some comfort in knowing that others care deeply. The Peace of God be with you always.

Katie Henderson

July 28, 2005

To the Boncela family-

Your son Adam was such an amazing person. I am so lucky to have known him and will forever remember his smile and wonderful personality. Your family is in my thoughts. Rest in peace Adam.

Morgan Gelacek

July 28, 2005

What a joyful person, what a perfect friend. I'll always remember that smile. Thank you for showing us all to celebrate life each and every day and for making this world a more joyful, loving place.

I love you always, buddy.

maureen baker

July 28, 2005

I never saw a Moor --

I never saw the Sea --

Yet know I how the Heather looks

And what a Billow be.



I never spoke with God

Nor visited in Heaven --

Yet certain am I of the spot

As if the Checks were given --

Emily Dickinson

Take comfort in the certainty that Adam is there!

Elizabeth Kurkul

July 28, 2005

I am sorry to say I didn’t have the opportunity to know Adam; he was a friend of my son John Cotton. John thought so highly of Adam and his family. Adam and his family are in our prayers. May God hold Adam in his tender loving hands.

maureen baker

July 28, 2005

Dear Jim and Cathy,

I was so shocked to hear the terrible news from Neil this morning! Adam was one of my all time favorite students! He was full of joy and humor and compassion. I don't know how you can ever bear the weight of this grief. May the divine light surround you with loving comfort. Maureen Baker

Tina DeDominicis

July 28, 2005

Cathy and Jim,

You are in our thoughts and hearts and we wish you peace and hope your faith comforts you and sees you through this very difficult time.

Love

Tina and Carmine DeDominicis

Katie Roersma

July 28, 2005

My thoughts and prayers are with all of Adam's family and friends. I was on the track team with Adam at Detroit Mercy and know he will always be remembered and missed.

Ahren Elstun

July 27, 2005

My heart and prayers are with Adam and his family. I met him when he began running track as a freshman, and quickly took notice to the vastness of his talent, passion, and care. He was an extraordinary person and it was a blessing to have known him. He will be greatly missed.

His friend and teammate,

Tina Dhuyvetter

July 27, 2005

Jim & Cathy-



I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.



Please take care.



With Love,

Tina & Sean Dhuyvetter

Jennifer Lee

July 27, 2005

To Adams' Family:

Your son was an amazing person and I enjoyed knowing him throughout middle school and high school. His laughter and smile touched so many lifes. He will truly be missed.

Don Hoffnagle

July 27, 2005

Dear Jim and Cathie,

I am sorry to hear your loss of a great son. Please accept our condolences. May God be with you.

Don Hoffnagle Sterling Commerce

Ryan & Stephanne Smith

July 27, 2005

Dear Jim, Catherine, and Megan:



I am deeply saddened to hear about the loss of your dearest son Adam. I have never met Adam personally but vividly remember Jim speaking very dearly of Adam and Megan with myself and other co-workers. Our thoughts, prayers, and sincerest condolences are with you and your family & friends. May God comfort you in this time of sorrow.

Brett Willi

July 27, 2005

Adam, I knew you as a friend and trusted teammate in high school. One of my favorite memories was when you came to the state cross country meet dressed in a cape with your face painted and cheering us on with all your heart. That’s how I will remember you as someone who supported those you loved never sacrificing your enthusiasm or passion to do so. On behalf of myself and my family, we will miss you so much. You and your family are in our prayers.

Nick Zerweck

July 27, 2005

My prayers are with you Boncela family. Your Adam was a teammate, a running pal, a fishing buddy, a guy you could just talk to, and most of all a great friend. I will always remember Adam and his trip with Dan and i out to the fishin hole where we really didnt catch anything to talk about and in the end he somehow ended up in the water on that cold fall day. You will never be forgotten Adam

Love Always Buddy, Nicky Z

Kathryn and Kurt Manecke

July 27, 2005

"May He bring to you what no other person can supply.. may He say to you what no other person can express" God grant you peace and comfort. Your entire family is in our thoughts and prayers.



Kurt and Kathryn Manecke

Jesse Meston

July 27, 2005

I helped recruit Adam to join the track team in Detroit, I will always remember when he first came to the University of Detroit Mercy, how much he enjoyed the sport. He was not only a great athlete but also a great friend. He will be missed by all of the people fortunate enough to know him in Detroit.

Andy Hershberger

July 27, 2005

Jim and family, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. My deepest condolences.



God Bless

Ciaran Carter

July 27, 2005

I loved Adam very much. He was as loyal a friend as you can find in this world. He is going to be terribly missed. My prayers and thoughts are with your family.

Chris Ward

July 27, 2005

Adam was a great person to everyone, he truly touched the lives of all of those who knew him. At this time, remember that because he had so many friends and family members that all of the memories will be multiplied and the sorrows divided. My deepest sympathy at this time of great loss. Adam will live on in all of those who surrounded him during his time with us. He will be in my prayers. God Bless.

Clint Hileman

July 27, 2005

Jim & Cathy,



It was a shock to hear of your loss. May God bless your family in this time of mourning. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Regina and Tim Pykare

July 27, 2005

Dear Cathy, Jim, and Megan



We are deeply sorry that you have suffered such a tremendous loss. Our prayers are with you, and for you daily. We are friends of Pat's, so we have heard about what a terrifically, awesome young man Adam was. Please know that there countless people praying for strength for each day for you all. We care and wish there was more we could do. Lean on your family and friends.

Scott Hurff

July 27, 2005

Adam was always quick to bring laughs to any situation. He was a great colleague at DCHS and we shared some great times.



Rest in peace, Adam.



I hope everyone in the Boncela family is comforted with the knowledge that Adam will be greatly missed.

Bob, Judy , & Family Skully

July 27, 2005

Dear Jim and Cathy we are deeply sadden to hear about the loss of your son Adam, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.



May God Bless you all,

The Skully Family

Norman Goodwin

July 27, 2005

I'm sadden by the news. Although I did not know your son I know it's very difficult to lose him. Always remember the good days that he brighten your lives.



Norm

lorie fallon

July 27, 2005

Boncela Family,

There are not enough words to express our grief, not enough time to share the wonderful memories of a sweet son, adoring brother, true friend.Adam was loved by all he met. His life was so short, but so full.It's our lives that are empty without him, but are hearts are brimming to the edges with his lovely spirit. Our sincerest condolences. The Fallon Family

Alex Chia

July 27, 2005

Dear Jim and Cathie,

I am sorry to hear your loss of a great son. Please accept our condolences. We will pray for your family and wishing you all will be better. May God be with you.

Jon Walters

July 27, 2005

I only knew Adam for a short time, but the first thing that comes to mind when I think of him is that smile of his. He had such a warm heart and everyone he knew is blessed for having him in their lives if only for a brief moment. He was a great person and will truly be missed.

Erin, Chris, Nicholas and Sydney Schuler

July 27, 2005

To Jim, Cathy and Megan, May you find strength and support in each other, your family and friends. Adam touched so many and his light will continue to shine.

Songwood Llamas

July 27, 2005

Cyndy and I have such fond memories of the times Adam spent working his heart out at our farm. What a great kid! May you be strengthened with the thoughts and prayers of those around you and may you find comfort in the pleasant memories of his life. Our love and prayers are with you.

Jill Miller & Family

July 27, 2005

I was a teammate of Adam's in high school and have such fond memories of him. Even though Adam was not a long-distance runner, he supported the cross-country team by coming out to every meet dressed up as our cheerleader. In full Dublin Coffman Shamrock style, his spunk brought a smile to all of our faces helping to eliminate the stressful pre-race jitters. Everyone always looked forward to watching Adam race during track season because no matter what, he would always give it all he had. My family's thoughts are with Adam and his family during this period of loss.

Kathie & Newton Finley

July 27, 2005

Cathie, Jim & Megan,

I hugged you during the night and our prayers are with you during this terrible time and loss. We just can't believe that little Adam is gone. Remember the good times we had together and may God help you through this time. Love you all.

Jeanine Todd

July 27, 2005

I did not know Adam, but I know his Dad, Jim. No one should experience loss of a child - God must have needed him more. A warm hug and my deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Jeffory Whitmer

July 27, 2005

It was a tremendous shock to hear of Adam's death, he was a great friend and brother for the years that I enjoyed knowing him. I send my deepest sympathies to the family for this loss.

Al & Terry Centonze

July 27, 2005

Terry and I never knew Adam but we feel your loss none the less. May GOD be with you in your time of sorrow.

Barbara Warner

July 27, 2005

What a sad and tragic loss of a wonderful young man. Our daughter Alison was a friend of Adam's from DCHS. With our deepest sympathies, The Warner Family, Geneva, Switzerland

Ruth Spolar

July 27, 2005

There are no words adequate for this loss. Norm is not able to travel or be alone, but know I hold you in my heart and prayers. Take nourishment from your love for Adam. Ruth and Norm Spolar

Steve Sammons

July 27, 2005

I only knew Adam briefly, in association with the Boys of the Class of 2002, all of whom surround each other and those around them with the same kind of contagious spirit, dedication and support that epitomizes Adam. My sincere condolences to the family and my prayers to everyone touched by this tragic loss.

Jennifer Newman

July 27, 2005

I'm sorry for your loss. Adam was a sweet, caring, and loveable person. He will be missed by myself and many others. May he rest in peace, and God Bless. He will remain in my heart.

Chris Nowak

July 27, 2005

My deepest sympathies to Adam's family and all those close to him.



Adam, I'm going to miss you. You were a teammate, a fraternity brother, and a loyal friend...

Carol Zinser

July 27, 2005

So sad,I will miss him so very much. Even though I came to know Adam through my son I know for sure his warmth and kindness will live on through the peoples lives he has touched.

Love, Mrs.Zinser

Chris Ulicky

July 26, 2005

Dear Cathie and Jim:

My deepest sympathy for this tragedy and for the awful pain you must be feeling. My prayers are with you tonight.

Susan Tucker

July 26, 2005

I never met Adam but I feel like I know him from all the wonderful things his dad shared with me about him. Jim - all your friends from Sterling have you and your family in our thoughts and prayers. As always, I'm sending electronic hugs your way.



Love,

Jeremy Morse

July 26, 2005

I will miss Adam he was a great friend and a better fraternity brother there when you needed him, i would like Adams family to know if they need anything please dont be affraid to ask



Sincerly Jeremy Morse

alumni board secretary for michigan delta sigma phi epsilon

Kathie & Newton Finley

July 26, 2005

No, No this can't be true. My little Adam all grown up into such a beautiful man and now in heaven. Both Newt and I are heart broken over this terrible news. Our prayers are with you during this tragic time. Love, Kathie & Newton

Andrea Karpala

July 26, 2005

I knew Adam because I was on the Detroit track team with him. Adam was a good friend, and I was lucky enough to spend some great times with him. Everyone in Detroit loves Adam very much.



My most sincere condolences to the Boncela family.

Tom, Ann, Sarah(Connor), Matt, Andy and Nate Sidesinger

July 26, 2005

We are all very sorry to hear about Adam. We are keeping your family in our thoughts and prayers. Take care and God bless.

Kelcie Eberhart

July 26, 2005

Boncela family,

Adam had a great heart. You should be proud of his life and the love that he spread. May his spirit live on eternally.

John Dillard

July 26, 2005

I had the pleasure of being one of Adam's football coaches when he attended John Sells Middle School. He was a great kid, and he will be missed. You are in my prayers.

Richard and Rosanna Briscar

July 26, 2005

Dear Jim and Cathie,



Please accept our condolences. May God grant you the grace and strength you need in this difficult time.

Amicon Family

July 26, 2005

"We know that our body-the tent we live in here on earth-will be destroyed. But when that happens, God will have a house for us...it will be a home in heaven that will last forever"---2 corinthians 5:1



Deepest Sympathy, and continuous prayers.

Lucy Smith

July 26, 2005

I want you to know how deeply sorry the entire Smith family is over this loss. I knew Adam through his running days at DCHS with both of my daughters. I found him an incredibly amiable and wonderful person. We will miss him and know you will miss him more. Our thoughts and prayers are with your entire family. God Bless. Lucy Smith

Lee Rogowski

July 26, 2005

Adam touched so many people's lives. He will truly be missed.

Lori Holzapfel

July 26, 2005

Boncela Family,



I regret that I did not know Adam. I work with Jim, and I am sure if he is was like his father he was one great man. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with your family.



Sincerely,

Lori Holzapfel

Chris Smith

July 26, 2005

I am so sorry to hear about Adam's passing. I can't help but to think of what a tragedy it is for such a great family. Hang in there, celebrate the life that was experienced and hold onto the happy memories and lessons learned.

christine hoffner

July 26, 2005

Oh what a horrible shock, dear Adam I remember giving you a bottle when you were just a baby.My heart goes out to you and your family during this terrible time. I have many fond memories of you growing up to be a fine young man. words fail to express the heartache I feel for Jim,Cathy and Meg. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Please be gentle with yourselves and each other as you mourn Adam.

Charlotte Hoffner

July 26, 2005

I'm so sorry for everything that you are going through. This is a horribal thing to deal with. I hope the best for your family. I hope I can visit you sometime in the future.

Gloria Flitcraft(Novy)

July 26, 2005

May God be with you in this time of need. I will keep you in my prayers.

God Bless..

Gloria

Denise Bloom

July 26, 2005

We are all SO sorry for your loss.

Adam will always be fondly remembered by us all. You are in our thoughts and prayers.



Hugs,

Denise and Staff at Paradise Pen

John Campana

July 26, 2005

Adam was truly blessed to have had such wonderful, nurturing parents in Cathy and Jim, and a loving sister, Megan, whom he would have done anything for. May you find peace and comfort with family and friends and know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. John, Juliann, and Joelie.

Robert and Catherine Mack

July 26, 2005

Our prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Erin Roderick

July 26, 2005

To Adam's family:



I am so sorry for your loss. Adam and I were classmates in High School and I will always remember his adoring smile and sense of humor. I hope you can find comfort in that he was loved by so many.

Ashley Ball

July 26, 2005

My deepest sympathies go out to the family and friends of this wonderful man. Adam was a great friend, always ready with a hug and a smile when he saw you. I will never forget his kindness and his friendship.

RIP buddy,

Ashley

Mr. & Mrs. David Speich

July 26, 2005

Our family new Adam from watching him in the 800 compete with our son Christopher from Reynoldsburg High School. We became friends with him from that time on. He was a great guy, we are just sick over this loss. We are so sorry and want you to know we are praying for your family.

Sos Codispoti

July 26, 2005

With our deepest sympathy,The Codispoti Family

Tom Byers

July 26, 2005

Adam, I will miss you so much. R.I.P.

Sos ,LeeAnn, Joe and Jonathan Codispoti

July 26, 2005

We will miss Adam's smile and his funny stories. He was always a delight to have around. Always polite and a true friend to all. May his family take some comfort in knowing that he touched many of us. We will always love you.

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How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

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Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

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How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

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