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Mary Elder Obituary

ELDER Mary Lou Elder, 88, Thursday, March 8, 2012 at Kobacker House. Born October 23, 1923, near Alliance, OH, the daughter of Victor and Emma Haidet. Preceded in death by husband John, three brothers and two sisters. Member of St. Christopher Parish and former member of Christ the King Parish. Long time member of the Elizabethan Guild, volunteer with the Golden Hobby Shop and active with Senior Citizen Centers and Card Clubs. Survived by children, Kathleen (Greg Gedney), Patrick (Sandi), William (Judith); grandchildren, Janet (Jake) Kellstadt, Julie (Rob) McClaskey, Jill Elder, Ryan Gedney, Jennifer (Chris) Reyes, Jennifer (Kenny) Karraker and Jeremy Eastman; great-grandchildren, Lola, Caleb and Everett; brother, Leo Haidet; many nieces and nephews. Friends may call Sunday 2-5 p.m. at EGAN-RYAN FUNERAL HOME, 403 E. BROAD ST. Mass of Christian Burial Monday 10 a.m. at St. Christopher Church, 1420 Grandview Ave. Entombment St. Joseph Cemetery. Friends who wish may contribute to the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society, Stephanie Spielman Fund for Breast Cancer Research, or the Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation. Visit www.egan-ryan.com for condolences.

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Published by The Columbus Dispatch from Mar. 8 to Mar. 11, 2012.

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Michael Elder

March 19, 2012

My sincere condolences go out to my extended Elders from Columbus. My first and favorite memory of Aunt Mary was from the mid-70s. My family went to Uncle John and Aunt Mary Lou's for lunch (my siblings and I have never met any of these people yet.) When Aunt Mary Lou invited me to help her pick tomatoes from her garden I felt so important. When we got inside she bragged to everyone how I was such a good tomato picker. Maybe I should have become a farmer instead of following Uncle John's career as a printer.
You will be missed Aunt Mary Lou. Thank you for the pictures of Uncle John at work for the Dispatch.

Jim Elder

March 11, 2012

My mind is filled with wonderful memories from the time my brother John and Mary Lou were married to my last visit last year. ML visited my family on many occasions wherever we were living. ML was a great edition to the Elder family and I am proud to have known her. My sincere condolences to Kate, Pat, Bill and their families.

March 10, 2012

To Bill, Patrick and Katheen. Our sympathies to you and all of your families. We remember your mom as a special person with a really great sense of humor. Henry and Angie Gruesen.

March 9, 2012

My deepest sympathies to all of you and your families. I saw your mother for the first time in many years at my mothers funeral a year ago. It was so nice to see her. Shelley Timberlake Moreno, San Antonio, Texas

Barb Schofield

March 9, 2012

Dear Kathleen and Patrick,
My deepest sympathies to you. My mom Rose Galutia was a good friend of Mary Lou's. I live in Grandview and would see your mom now and then. I was so sad to see that she had passed.

March 9, 2012

Deepest condolences to the family....from the Euchre Group
in Upper Arlington

March 9, 2012

Sending you our deepest condolences and thoughts .... from your friends at Ohiohealth....

The Families and Staff of Egan-Ryan Funeral Home

March 8, 2012

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.

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