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Withrow Mary Kay Withrow (nee Shaver). On October 30, 2016, Mary Kay Withrow (nee Shaver) passed away peacefully in her home at Choctaw Lake in Madison County, Ohio. She had struggled for nearly a decade with a degenerative neurological disease. Mary Kay was 72. She was a loving, nurturing wife, mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, teacher and friend. Born in Columbus, Ohio, on December 23, 1943, Mary Kay grew up on the Hilltop, was graduated from West High School in 1961 and from The Ohio State University in 1965. She was an active member of Sullivant Avenue Friends Church. Throughout her life Mary Kay devoted herself to youth programs and education. She taught school in Columbus, North Augusta, SC, Cincinnati, and Bainbridge Township (near Cleveland). In 1978, while her three children were small, Mary Kay founded the Parents' Day Out Pre-School Program at Plymouth Church in Shaker Heights, Ohio. In the following nine years, she served as Director of the program building it into a well-respected community resource that is thriving today. In 1987, she moved with her family to Geauga County, Ohio, where she became the Activities Director of the YMCA Camp. She left that position to become caregiver for her mother-in-law. Mary Kay finished her teaching career at Timmons Elementary School. She was a dedicated member of Bainbridge Community United Church of Christ, focusing her efforts on youth education. In 2004, Mary Kay moved to Choctaw Lake where she had several years to enjoy retirement and grandchildren before her disease struck. Mary Kay is preceded in death by her father LaVerne Guy Shaver and mother Maurine Shaver. She is survived by her husband, Charles; her three children, Jason Andrew Withrow (Jamie), Jennifer Lee Sayre (Troy), and Rebecca Ann Allard (David); her grandchildren, Jacob Withrow, Abigail Sayre, Carson Sayre, Jonas Withrow, Jocie Withrow, and McKinley Allard; her sisters, Delpha Dee Wolf, Rebecca Nichols, and Ruthanne Cook; her nieces and nephews, Cynthia Shaw, William Wolf, Reid Nichols, Chris Cook, Kelly Morrison, and Juliana Wolf. A memorial service will be held on Monday, November 7, 11 a.m., at Amlin United Methodist Church, 5441 Cosgray Rd., Dublin, Ohio 43016. In lieu of flowers, small donations in Mary Kay's memory may be made to the Amlin United Methodist Church Children's Ministry. Special thanks is extended the Tom Sanders, Kay Baumann, Brenda Clifton and the entire Mt. Carmel Hospice staff who helped Mary Kay's last months be comfortable and peaceful.

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Published by The Columbus Dispatch from Oct. 31 to Nov. 1, 2016.

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Veronica Long

January 24, 2017

My heart is saddened for your loss. I loved sitting with Mary Kay at the pickleball courts and haven't hurt in my Bible study. She was a sweet lady and I admire how well you took care of her. You are an example to all of us on how to love our spouse

Ann and Alan Loxterman

January 3, 2017

We did not learn of Mary Kay's passing until Dotti wrote us in December. What an angel she was. We will always remember her friendship. You and your family are in our prayers.

Jayne Beverly

November 8, 2016

We are so sorry to hear of Mrs. Withrow's passing. We have such fond memories of her-thoughtful, loving, friendly...Your family is in our prayers.

Sara Penn-Strah

November 8, 2016

I so admired Mary Kay's work with Parents'Day Out at Plymouth Church and remember her fondly. MAy this time of mourning and celebration be rich.

November 4, 2016

Chuck, So Sorry for your loss. Mary Kay was such wonderful lady. She will be missed by the pickleball family who adored her. Take good care and know you are in our thoughts & Prayers. God Speed Mary Kay!!!
Barb Hager

November 3, 2016

Mary Kay was a beautiful loving woman. I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Fondly, Judi Smith, Avon Lake, Oh.

November 3, 2016

So sorry for your loss. Mary Kay was a beautiful loving woman. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Fondly, Judi Smith.

Jeannine and Kelly Mckinna

November 3, 2016

Chuck,
So sorry to hear of Mary Kay's passing...we were thinking of you guys the other day and looked forward to your return to Robson Ranch...your love and caring for each other was an inspiration to us all. We will now have an Angel to watch over us at the pickleball courts.

Mike Cleveland

November 2, 2016

Chuck, So sorry for your loss. I remember you at pickleball and your wife watching. Liz and I live In Dublin, OH now - but out of town until next Tuesday. Mike Cleveland

Ann Howard

November 2, 2016

So sorry for your loss. Many times I would sit watching the pickleball players when you would arrive with your wife who you so lovingly took care of.

November 2, 2016

Dear Chuck - We send our sincerest condolences for the loss of Mary Kay. Ron & Dianne Dunsford, (Winnipeg)

November 2, 2016

We are so sorry for your loss. Chuck's loving devotion to his Mary Kay will forever leave an impression on our hearts. There are those who God gives special love for each other & we were privileged to see that here at Robson Ranch, Az. Our love to the family & Chuck you know you have hugs waiting for you here. Connie & Fred Koser

November 2, 2016

Chuck and family -- So sorry to hear of Mary Kay's passing. She was a real sweetheart and will be missed by all. Many fond memories. Cousin Bill Moorman

Bob & Mary Burton

November 2, 2016

Chuck, Our thoughts are with you and your family.

November 2, 2016

Our condolences to the family.
Virg & Judy Gottsch

November 2, 2016

To Chuck and your family,
We are so sorry for your loss. We really enjoyed seeing Mary Kay down at the pickleball courts watching you play. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Karen & Allie Woodcock Eloy, AZ

Sharon Vaage

November 2, 2016

Dear Chuck, I am so sad Mary Kay will no longer be cheering us on from the side of the courts. Very, very sorry to hear of your loss! Peace be with you. Sharon

Dave and Mary Jo Wong

November 2, 2016

Dear Chuck and family - We are so saddened to hear of Mary Kay's passing. We'd been thinking of you and were looking forward to your return to AZ for the winter when we got this sad news. Our deepest, deepest sympathy.

November 1, 2016

Jason - so sorry to hear about your Mom.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Ken & Connie Schall

Roger Moorman

November 1, 2016

So very sorry. I am the oldest cousin on her Mother's side and remember her as this little red headed girl.

Ruth Wicks

November 1, 2016

My condolences to the family, it has been many years since I've seen all the girls, remembering our time together at Uncle Guy and Aunt Jessie's house. Prayers go out to this beautiful Christian family.

Russ Ramey

November 1, 2016

Our condolences to this marvelous family in your time of loss.
You have brought a smile to so many of us. May she rest in peace.

Shari Downey Bowman

November 1, 2016

DD, I am so sorry for your loss. God's peace be wit you.

October 31, 2016

You may be gone from our sight, but never from our minds. Love you always, sister.

Ruthanne Cook

Lauri Dever

October 31, 2016

As I read about Mary Kay's life her story was familiar to me thanks to the beautiful documentary Abby made. She was clearly an amazing teacher and person. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Donetta Dickinson

October 31, 2016

So, so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you all.

Delpha Dee Wolf

October 31, 2016

Dear Sister, Rest peacefully in the Lord. See you in the morning.

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