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BOYSEL Ralph "Joe " Boysel, age 54, went to visit old friends and family Sunday, December 14, 2008 after an incredible life. A long time resident of the West Side of Columbus; proud graduate of Central High School Class of 1973, avid sports fan, and had a zest for love, life and family traditions. Joe is currently reuniting with those that went before him in his immediate family including his mother Mary Ann Compton, and brother Stephen. He is celebrated by those that remain which include his wife, Shelly; daughter, Nikki (Tim) Parker; son, Joey (Amy Callicotte) Boysel; grandchild, Isabella Parker; sister, Brenda (Dave) Kelly; brother, Jim (Mitzi) Boysel; father, Ralph (Gaye) Boysel; uncles, Danny (Rita) Crawford, and Marty (Betty) Crawford; nieces, April (Chris) Raymond, and Erin (Eben Cockley) Kelly; nephew, David (Sarah) Kelly; great nieces and nephews, Tyler Raymond, and Isaac, Ilyssa and Isabel Kelly; future grandkids and numerous other family and friends including Gail and Deanna Lohn and her family, Edwina (Tim) Easton, Guila and Kevin Easton. Friends may call at JERRY SPEARS FUNERAL HOME, 2693 W. Broad St., Wednesday 3-5 and 7-9 p.m., where service will be held 1 p.m. Thursday, December 18, 2008. Del Harlan officiating. Interment Pleasant Cemetery, Mt. Sterling, Ohio. In lieu of Flowers contributions may be made to The American Cancer Society: Franklin County Unit c/o Robbie Stephens, 870 Michigan Ave, Columbus, Ohio 43215.

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Published by The Columbus Dispatch from Dec. 15 to Dec. 16, 2008.

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Julie Kulick

January 2, 2009

To Brenda and Jim,
I was so sad to hear of Joe's passing. That guy was bigger than life to me in junior and senior high school. Some of my fondest memories are of Brenda and me walking all over the west side of Columbus in the summertime and ending up at the Boysel house with Rich and mom at the table and Joe and Jim playing ball all of the time!
Julie Valentino (Kulick)

Brenda (Hess) Hardyman

December 31, 2008

Shelly,Brenda &Jim; My heart is sadden on hearing of the passing of Joe. Its been many years since I"ve seen all of you. But I do remember that Joe So Loved each of you so much... He was a very special person, I remember being at Central, all the fond memories. Joe was so full of living, loving and sharing with anyone who meet him. I guess I could go on and on but, I love all of you and God has a special angel now... missing all of you... Brenda

Kim McDaniel-Miller

December 27, 2008

I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your father. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

"Papa Smurf" & Patti Devereaux

December 24, 2008

Shelly, Nikki and Joey,

Our hearts are saddened by the loss of our “happy boy”. He was one in a million and you were all so blessed and learned so much by having such a gentle, loving, kind-hearted “Irish” gentleman in it! May God Bless you all

Cole Ross

December 20, 2008

RIP Uncle Joe!

diane hutchinson

December 18, 2008

Brenda, Dave, David & Erin,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss your (brother) family member. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. I remember Joe from way back. Good guy. Take care.

Jodi Foster-Caldwell

December 18, 2008

Joe,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. One memory I have of your dad is the talk he gave me right after I hurt my knee. He gave me hope and motivated me to work hard. You were always so close with your family, you will be in my prayers through this difficult time.

Amelia Sanworth

December 18, 2008

Gail, thank you for loving, caring for, and helping Joe through the hardest phase of his life. I know it was difficult for you to be everything to him, but you did it, and you did it well. You've earned your wings. God bless you and your family.

Michaela Newton

December 18, 2008

I will never forget the way you touched my life, and I will always remember your big heart and smile. May God bless you.

Dorothy Amburgey

December 18, 2008

The Boysel Family,
My thoughts and prayers are will the family in this time of sorrow. May God bless you always.

Jen Bostrom

December 18, 2008

Joey and Family,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Your family is in our thoughts and Prayers. Love Cliff & Jen Bostrom

Nancy Warner (Smith)

December 18, 2008

Shelly and family. many years have passed since I saw you or Joe. I am so sorry for your loss. I think about life prior to high school graduation very often. May God be with you and the entire family during such a sad time.

Floyd & Sue Thompson

December 17, 2008

Shelly & Family:

Please know that Floyd and I are thinking about you and your family and that you are in our prayers.

God Bless

Jason Williams

December 17, 2008

To the Family:

I had the pleasure of calling Joe a co-worker and he always had a smile on his face and a kind word to say.. What a great individual and an all around good person. My thoughts are with the family during this difficult time. He will be deeply missed.

Doug and Brenda Jenkins

December 17, 2008

Hey Cuz,
This is a testament to life being way too short. I heard so many stories about Joe. How he was such a great family man, stories went on and on about how he was a great athlete, How he made people smile wherever he went. I truly wish I would have taken more time to get to know Joe before he took his walk with Jesus. Rest in peace, Cuz

Shyla Womack

December 17, 2008

Gail and Family,

God bless your family in your time of pain. Remember all the good times you shared together, what I remember most about Joe was his love he had for children but probably because he was a big kid himself. He will be deeply missed by so many.

Lori Hill

December 17, 2008

Joe,
I only knew you for the last few years, but when you came around for cookouts and parties you were also so kind and I remember that heartfelt laugh. I really enjoyed getting to know you. Gail and Deanna you are in my deepest prayers.

Lori Hill

Deanna Lohn

December 17, 2008

J.B., you have been nothing but wonderful to me since the day I met you. I can never truly explain how much you meant to me. I lived for the longest time without a true father figure, and you provided that for me. So please know that you will always hold this place in my heart: my true father. I love you so much.

Love,
Deanna "Sidekick" "Champ" "Rip Van Winkle" Lohn

Ramon and Arlene Perez

December 17, 2008

Nikki:
Our deepest sympathy in the loss of your father. May you have comfort knowing that he is in the best place of the world and with the greatest Father of all. We love you...

Brooke Dowler

December 17, 2008

To Nic and the Boysel Family...

I am so sorry for your loss, my deepest sympathies are with you in this time of need. Know that there are many people that love you and have you and your family in their prayers each and everyday. My thoughts are with you.
Blessed be...

Mary Ann Salmons

December 17, 2008

To the Boysel family. Your in our thoughts and prayers.

David Woosley

December 17, 2008

Joe was not just a superior athlete and pretty-boy; he also had the special gift to help us feel extremely comfortable and brought out the best. In 9th grade, at Starling, I was tall and nerdy, but Joe took time to teach me stuff and tell stories and make me feel great like I belonged and he is so encouraging; and oh, he was funny as Hell, especially around Delbert Harlan & Steve Stropes & Jim Beck. My heartfelt and utmost sympathies to Shelly, Jim, Brenda, & family and the many who loved Joe and his beautiful style and smile. Blessings!! David--AA pilot for Dunder-Mifflin in Scranton, PA.

Frank and Lori Casto

December 17, 2008

To the Boysel Family
Joe was like a brother to me I'll never forget all the good times we've had together. He'll forever be in my heart. God Bless.

Arlene Perez

December 17, 2008

Shelly, Nikki, Joey, Tim and Isabella
With deepest sympathy in your time of sorrow. These last five and half years have been very hard on your family but may it may it ease your pain to know that others are thinking of you.
With utmost love
Arlene and Alejandro

Caitlin Foley

December 17, 2008

Shelly, Nic and Joe,
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. I only hope that your family is able to heal and rest now knowing that the suffering that you've endured with this illness over the past five years is behind you. I pray for God's wonderful peace to each of you and to your dad/husband. I love you all very much.

Caitlin Foley

Nina (Brockert) Leach

December 17, 2008

Shelly, I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. I know from the way that you spoke of him how much you meant to each other. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Kisha Moldovan

December 17, 2008

Shelly, Nikki, Joey, Tim & Sweet Isabella,
My heart hurts so deeply for you & I wish I could take all of this terrible pain away. You are such an amazing family & I know how much each & everyone of you meant to Joe. There is no question about this! It sadden's me most to know his only grandchild Bella will miss out on so much with not having him in her life. He'll always be an angel in the sky protecting you all. Please keep your faith & remember he's in such a wonderful loving place now. I love you! Kisha & Michael Moldovan

steve stropes

December 17, 2008

I know we can all take comfort in knowing Joe is in a better place.

He was a great guy!

Brian Graham

December 17, 2008

Nikki,

I was sorry to hear of the passing of your Dad. I wanted to let you know you and your family are in my prayers at this time.

Solomon "Sway" Muniz

December 17, 2008

My condolences go out to the Boysel Family. I had the pleasure of knowing Mr. Boysel and know he will be missed. Joey and Family you are in my prayers.

Mary Nelson

December 17, 2008

Shelly, Nikki, and Joey
Joe was like a Brother to me and will truly be missed. Always remember the many many good times we shared with Joe and that those memories with last forever. I Love You All. So long "Free Bird".
"KRAZE"
Mary (Devereaux) Nelson

Donna Marcum-Brumbaugh

December 16, 2008

Shelly, Jim, Mitzi and Brenda: I was so saddened to hear about Joe's passing. Even though we haven't seen each other in many years I knew then how much you loved him and know now how much you'll miss him. God bless and keep you, Donna (Marcum) Brumbaugh, Loveland, CO

Donna Marcum-Brumbaugh

December 16, 2008

Shelly, Jim, Mitzi and Brenda: I was so saddened to hear about Joe's passing. Even though we haven't seen each other in many years I knew then how much you loved him and know now how much you'll miss him. God bless and keep you, Donna (Marcum) Brumbaugh, Loveland, CO

Erin Kelly

December 16, 2008

What a lucky woman I have been, to grow up with such a wonder-full, loving Uncle. I have been inspired by you! If ya got it, spend it!
Always with love,
Erin

Shannon Handley

December 16, 2008

To my sister Shelly, Nikki and Joey, I want to take this time to say how much you are loved. My heart goes out to all of you and words can't describe how much i will miss Joe. Joe has always been in my life and I'm not sure how it will be with out him. I have always looked up to you and Joe and I have seen for many years (30 +)how you guys made each other happy . Joe will never be forgotten and he will always be in my heart. Just remember everytime you see a star, that is your guardian angel looking down at you and letting you know that he loves you guys.

Mike Yoli

December 16, 2008

Shelly, Nikki and Joey,
There are no words to express my sorrow. I know we will meet again in that big softball game in the sky.
With Our Deepest Sympathy
Mike and Cheri Yoli

Dianne Allen Purdy

December 16, 2008

Shelly,

How saddened I was to learn of your grievous loss. Please accept my heartfelt condolences. I hope you can find comfort in knowing you gave Joe a happy and joyful life. My thoughts are with you through this difficult time.

Bill Riley

December 16, 2008

To the Boysel Family,
Time passes and people move in and out of your life. That doesn't make their passing any less sad. I haven't seen Joe since high school, and I appreciated the email on his passing. I remembered with great fondness hot summer days, fall evenings and a number of fine Friday nights spent together. Those were just a tiny number of good times he probably enjoyed in life. My prayers are with you all.

Glenna Hall/ Farris

December 16, 2008

To the Boysel Family

I was sadden to hear the loss of Joe
I went to school with him and Brenda
back in the day. God needed Joe in heaven for reason's we will never understand. We all have our memories of Joe, which will never be taken away. Only the good die young
He will be missed by all who had known him.

candi moore

December 16, 2008

sorry to hear the loss of joe, such agreat and fun loving person. may god be with all of you today and more days to come. god bless

candi, ken, krista and tyler moore

Justin Dumke

December 16, 2008

Gail,

I am sorry to hear of you loss. My thoughts and prayers are with at this time.

Kim Hill

December 16, 2008

Gail and family,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this time of sadness. Joe will be missed by many; he was such a great person.

Kim, Bill, Katie, Lauren and Reilly

Felicia Weber

December 16, 2008

Gail, Deanna, Edwina and Keri

Sorry for your loss you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Rob, Felicia and Kids

Shawn, Taylor, and Reganne Crawford

December 16, 2008

Joe,
As a kid I always looked forward to March 17th St. Patricks day. We would all get together and go to the parade and then to your house so everyone could be together and celebrate. It was always about tradition and family with you and I will always remember that. My two daughters love St. Patricks Day and it's all do to the good times we all had. You will always be with us and you will never be forgotten.

Layla Womack

December 16, 2008

Lohn Family

I was so sorry to hear for your loss; Joe had touched the lives of so many and will be missed deeply. He loved you so much that he would not want you to be sad remember he will be waiting for you to return home and to be reunited again.

Layla

Kassandra Hill

December 16, 2008

Gail and family,

I know how much Joe meant to you, he brought so much fun to family get together. Family was so important to him and he cherished the time he spent with us he always made sure everyone was having a great time. We will miss him deeply.

John, Kandi, Buddy, Dallas, Angel and Allana Hill

Karena Newhall

December 16, 2008

Shelly,
I'm very sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.

Caroline & Keith Hilty

December 16, 2008

Nikki,
God Bless you and your family during this difficult time. Our prayers are with you.

Joyce & David Marcum

December 16, 2008

Joe, I know that you are home with my brother, James Allen Amburgey. The two of you will have alot to talk about with your sons growing up together. I can never think about him without thinking of you. We were all such great friends in our early years. I remember you being all smiles that last time I saw you. That is the memory I will forever hold in my heart. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. Peace be with you!

Deb Studer

December 16, 2008

Shelly, Nikki, Joey,
I am so sorry for your loss. Please take comfort in the fact that you have each other and will always have each other, as you carry Joe in your hearts. Love you all!
Deb (Devereaux) Studer

Karen Devereaux

December 16, 2008

I am so sorry for all who are suffering. Joe has touched so many lives. I can't hardly ever remember him without a smile, a smirk, or his cute little laugh. Hopefully, his memory will cause you the same. Heaven sure did get a character and also a gentle soul. God Bless his family.

Giulia

December 16, 2008

Are you like a fairy Papa Joe? Then I am going to get a jar and catch that fairy.......I love you very much!

Love,
Giulia

Naomi Johnson

December 16, 2008

Shelly, Brenda, and Jim: I was so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of sorrow.

David Kelly

December 16, 2008

Uncle Joe,
Thanks for leaving your footprints across the lives of so many including my family. You will forever remain a hero to me for the way you lived and loved. Your life will reign over us for eternity.
"Work hard, play hard" forever.

Love,

The Kentucky Kellys

Herbie Sharfenaker

December 16, 2008

Joey and Nicki,

I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your dad. He was a great guy to be around. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Herbie Sharfenajer

December 16, 2008

Joey and Nicki,

I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your dad. He was a great guy to be around. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Betty Amburgey (Johnson)

December 16, 2008

I am sorry to hear of the passing of Joe. He touched the hearts of our family an always brought us joy.

William Turner

December 16, 2008

Rest well my friend

Amy Parsons

December 15, 2008

Gail and your Family,
Joe will ALWAYS be with you.
What amazing and wonderful people you are. I know Joe would not want you to be sad. Keep your heads up and try to find some peace at this time of the year.
We love you guys!
Sean & Amy

Julie Barrowman

December 15, 2008

Joey and Nikki
I am very sorry to hear about the loss of your father. My deepest sympathy goes out to you and to your family. You are in my prayers.

Michael Harlan

December 15, 2008

Joe is a wonderful soul that was a joy to be around. To the Boysel family... Thank you for not being selfish and sharing Joe. He could make anyone laugh and will be missed. I wish you peace. By the way....he was also a great glove man up the middle!

Drema Bussey

December 15, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Cookie Trask

December 15, 2008

Dear Shelly, I am so sorrry for the loss of the "love of your life"; I know you will miss him terribly. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love Cookie, George & Dawn

Rachel Casto

December 15, 2008

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Joe. He is and always will be an amazing person to me. He always had a smile and you knew that laughter and good times went hand in hand.. He's truly one good person that you never forget!

Jenny Rarick-Williams

December 15, 2008

Dear Brenda, Jim, Shelly and family:
I have been praying for all of you these past few weeks. It has been many years since I have seen some of you- but I am truly saddened by Joe's passing. I had the pleasure of going to school with him (and his siblings) at Central High School. He was very kind and gentlehearted, and treated everyone as if they were his best friend. I remember how close he was with his sister and brother and how much he loved his family. Heaven is a much better place now, because they have an awesome new angel there. I am truly blessed to have known him. May God bless you all in the coming days ahead. Sincerely, Jenny Rarick-Williams

Beth Rankin

December 15, 2008

Joe will always be remembered by all his fellow Starling Spartans & Central Pirates. Such fond memories come to mind of our growing years. God bless you Joe - until we meet in the gathering together. Love, Beth

Beth (Kirk) Rankin

December 15, 2008

May the love of God give you peace during this time.
John 14:6 Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.
Matthew 22:37 Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind.
All of you are in my prayers,
[email protected]

Edwina Easton

December 15, 2008

Papa Joe,
You were an amazing father, grandfather and person and we will truly miss you. You came into our lives only 5 1/2 years ago but we feel like we have known you forever. You will always be cherished within our family and no one can take our love away. You will remain in our hearts and our memories forever. We love you very much Papa Joe!

Love,
Edwina, Tim, Giulia and Kevin

Lindsay Hill

December 15, 2008

Gail and Deanna sorry for your loss. He was important to our family.We all miss him alot.

Vicky Graham

December 15, 2008

Dear Joey and Nicki,

I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your father. You are in my prayers.

Vicky Graham

Jodi and Ashley Hoye

December 15, 2008

Our thoughts, prayers and love are with all of you.

Bud Hill

December 15, 2008

Gail and Deanna,

We are so sorry for you loss, Joe was a wonderful person and will be missed deeply. If you need anything just ask we are here for you.

Bud and Carla

Rich&Teresa Perdue

December 15, 2008

I have had the honor of known joe for 28 years i will miss him.our thoughts and prayers are with all his family.

Delbert Harlan SR

December 15, 2008

I remember the many times as a young boy that Joe came to our home. Blanche and I felt blessed to have him in our life. Joe was a Harlan Darlin' and what a Darlin he was. I will miss his laugh and smiling face that I saw everytime he stopped by to see me.

WILLIAM TOMLINSON

December 15, 2008

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Charlotte Dodds

December 15, 2008

Shelly and Family I am so sorry to hear about Joe. Ethel, Donnie and I share your pain. We will keep you in our hearts and prayers. love Charlotte (Horn) Ethel and Donnie Matchack

Jerry Amburgey

December 15, 2008

I am sorry for your loss he was along time friend of are family and will be missed

Keri Hill

December 15, 2008

Joe will be truly missed, he was the most amazing person he was a big part of my family. He considered my children as his grandkids and they loved him as their grandfather. Family get together will not be the same without him.

Bonnie Reed

December 15, 2008

May Joe depart from this world, into the region of peace and light; and reunite in love and fellowship of those who went before him.

Deep peace of the running wave to you. Deep peace of the flowing air to you. Deep peace of the quiet earth to you. Deep peace of the shining stars to you. Deep peace of the Son of Peace to you.

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Bonnie and Butch Reed

DEBRA EVANS

December 15, 2008

TO THE BOYSEL AND HANDLEY FAMILY
OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AT THIS TIME OF SORROW. REMEMBER
GOD KNOWS BEST.
DEBBIE AND ASHLEY EVANS

Jim Wolfe

December 15, 2008

I am sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Angela Glathart

December 15, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you I worked with Joe for many years and thought of him a lot during his illness.
Angela Glathart

Brenda Manders

December 15, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Dave & Michelle Brown

December 15, 2008

You will always live in our hearts and prayers. Joe was a very giving person who would do anything for anyone. Our lives have been enriched by knowing him. We loved him and will miss him greatly.

Del Harlan

December 15, 2008

Mary and I wish to extend to the entire family our deepest and heartfelt sympathy. Joe blessed our lives with many cherished memories. His love of life will live on in those he touched. May God comfort each of you during this difficult time.

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