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Ruth Neff Obituary

NEFF Ruth E. Neff, age 83, of Circleville, died Wednesday, July 15, 2009 at Pickaway Manor Care Center. She was born June 7, 1926 in Jackson Township, Pickaway County, daughter of the late Herbert and Ora (Dyke) Melvin. She was a member of the Circleville High School Class of 1944. Ruth spent much of her career as a Medical Technician in the offices of Drs. Griner, McCoy, Chrismer and Harris. She founded the Pickaway County D.A.R.E. Program and was an active member and chaired the Pickaway County Jail Committee. She was also a three term Pickaway County Commissioner. Of her many accomplishments, Ruth mostly enjoyed her family, she loved being in her country home, and enjoyed helping others-especially those who were down and out. She is preceded in death by her parents, husband George Neff in 1974, son Terry D. Neff in 2008, infant grandchild, sister Roma Troutman, brothers Stanley "Sport", Gerald "Joe", Walter "Nick", and Bob Melvin. She is survived by her son, Stephen (Sharon) Neff of Circleville; daughter-in-law, Teresa Neff of Circleville; grandchildren, Jeremy (Carly), Anthony (Karlyn), and Nicholas (Toni) Neff, Hillary (Ian) Webb; great-grandchildren, Ava, Maraya, Dylan, Brady and Sutten Neff; brother Ronald (Cleo) Melvin of Grove City; several nieces and nephews. Funeral service will be held at 10 a.m. Saturday, July 18, 2009 at Trinity Lutheran Church, 135 East Mound Street, Circleville with Pastor Don R. Bachman Jr. and Pastor Karen Martin Kepner officiating. Interment to follow at Jackson Township Cemetery. Family will receive friends from 2-8 p.m. Friday in the Noecker Hall of Trinity Lutheran Church. Family requests memorial contributions to the Pickaway County D.A.R.E. Program or Trinity Lutheran Church in her memory. Arrangements by DEFENBAUGH-WISE-SCHOEDINGER FUNERAL HOME, Circleville. Visit www.schoedinger.com to send condolences.

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Published by The Columbus Dispatch on Jul. 16, 2009.

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July 17, 2009

I wish to give the family of Ruth Neff my condolences in their loss of a very special lady.
I remember her from Dr. Smith and Chrismers office and also through her working with the PICCA Board when I was employed there.
My prayers go with you at the time.
Violet Carson

Nancy Spires-Moss

July 17, 2009

My thoughts and Prayers are with Steve and his family. Ruth was a very dear person who touched so many lifes in Pickaway County. She was like a Guardian Angel that God sent to be there to help others when in need, which she did for my family during our time of tradgey. Steve, God be with you and your family thru this trying time. Always remember that your Mom and your entire family are loved and thought of during this time of sorrow. Nancy Spires Moss

July 16, 2009

I will always remember Ruthie as a nurse at Dr. Greiner's and Dr. McCoy's when I was a child. I went to school with her late son (we were in the WHS band together). Though I no longer reside in Jackson Township, the strong roots remain.

My prayers to the Neff family during this difficult time.
Emilie (Caldwell) Stewart

Steve & Becki Matzenbach

July 16, 2009

We had the privilege of knowing Ruth through her working with my mom at Dr. Chrismer & Smith’s office.

Ruth had to be one of the most energetic and compassionate people I’ve ever encountered.

Her willingness to always help others and go out of her way, even when you knew she, herself, was tired – was amazing.

Ruth will be greatly missed by everyone who knew her.

Many thoughts and prayers to her family ~

You are truly blessed to have had such an awesome family member and loved one as Ruth.

Much love, many prayers ~
Steve & Becki Matzenbach

Cora Gumm

July 16, 2009

I worked with Ruth for 10 years at Dr. Chrismer & Smith and always considered Ruth a good friend.
She was always very compassionate and everyone loved and trusted her.
I will miss her.
My thoughts and prayers are with her friends and loved ones.
Cora Gumm

Cindy Carsey

July 16, 2009

God be with you, during this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of you!

Linda Grant

July 16, 2009

I'm so sorry that this wonderful Nurse and Friend is no longer with us. She was the Nurse of Dr. Ned Greiner when I was a small child. I'm so sorry for the family she left behind and my thoughts and Prayers go out to them. She touched many lives during her life.

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