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Stuart Elwing

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Stuart Elwing obituary, 1955-2014, Campbellsport, WI

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Stuart Elwing Obituary

Elwing, Stuart

Stuart F. Elwing II, 58, of Campbellsport passed away Wed. Jan. 15, 2014 at St. Agnes Hospital in Fond du Lac. He was born June 26, 1955 in Fond du Lac, the son of Stuart and Margaret (nee Hoffman) Elwing.

Stu was graduated as the Class Salutatorian from Campbellsport High School in 1973. He received a Congressional Appointment to the U.S. Naval Academy in Annapolis, MD from which he was graduated and Commissioned as an Ensign in the US Navy in June 1977.

Following commissioning Stu embarked upon what he planned to be a Naval career and served as a "Black Shoe" Surface Warfare Officer. His years of service saw him make multiple deployments through the North Atlantic Ocean, Mediterranean and the Caribbean Seas onboard the USS Connole (FF 1056). His duty stations included Newport Rhode Island and Bath, Maine. Stu was assigned to Newport twice during his active years of service; the first when the Connole was homeported from there, and the second when he was selected to be an instructor at the Surface Warfare Officer Department Head Course. Unfortunately Stu's Naval career ended much earlier than planned when he was medically retired with service-related injuries in March 1984.

Stu returned to Campbellsport and shortly thereafter partnered in business with his father as they formed "Stuart F. Elwing and Associates." They traveled the Midwest as Factory Representatives for several long-standing business associates representing their lines of brooms, brushes and deerskin products.

As Stu's illnesses progressed he became less able to travel, so he acted upon his long-time passion for model railroading and went to work, health permitting, at West Bend Hobbies. It was during this time that he perfected his model railroading skills and became interested in still-life photography, a talent which he perfected for the next 20+ years.

Stu was an expert pistol shot, skilled trapshooter, waterfowl and upland bird hunter; all skills learned from his Father and shared with the entire family and many friends. Stu followed in his father's footsteps as a volunteer Hunter Safety Instructor, recently completing his 18th year. Stu's love for the Navy and sailing the high seas became one of his greatest pleasures in last ten years of his life. He joined a sailing crew as part of the MAST Racing Club out of Milwaukee and during sailing season, weather permitting Friday's found him manning a post onboard a friend's sailboat either actively racing or simply enjoying an evening on Lake Michigan.

Stu faced and persevered over many personal and medical issues through his life. He touched 100s of people and sponsored a great number through his service with Alcoholics Anonymous. Stu battled his own drinking issues and was - quite proudly - sober for 16 years at the time of his death. He serviced the AA Community as a volunteer at the local, state and National level, ultimately being elected as a Wisconsin State Delegate to the National organization.

Stu battled cancer for the past two years. He succumbed to it and peacefully went to rest on his own decision not to be prolonged on life support. His decision, carried out as Stu wanted it. God Bless him as he now rests in peace.

Survivors include his mother Margaret of Campbellsport, his brother David (Kathy) Elwing of Woodbridge, VA, his nephews Daniel and Jacob, other relatives and friends. Stuart was preceded in death by his father Stuart and his maternal and paternal grandparents.

Funeral services will be held on Monday Jan. 20th at 1:00 PM at the Campbellsport United Christian Church, 228 Forest St. Campbellsport. Rev. Paula Anderson will officiate with burial in Union Cemetery, Campbellsport to follow with military services.

Visitation will be Monday Jan. 20th from 11:00 AM until time of services at the church. Memorials are appreciated to the Campbellsport United Christian Church and Alcoholics Anonymous. Twohig Funeral Home is serving the family with online guestbook and condolences at www.twohigfunerals.com.

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Published by Fond du Lac Reporter on Jan. 17, 2014.

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Carol Tremonti

January 10, 2025

Think of you often. Miss your photos. Hugs

Lynn

January 10, 2024

It's the 10 year anniversary of your passing. Time may change a lot of things my dear, but it hasn't changed how much. I miss you and reach out to you. You as an angel for comfort. I also miss your mom. I miss the couple times a year she and I would get together and go shopping up to Sheboygan or for ice cream and our little telephone chats. I hope your brother and his wife and family and kids are doing well. Love and blessings for everyone whose life you have touched. Always me!

January 1, 2024

Always remembered

L

January 10, 2023

Stu.

Your compassion and words of wisdom or missed
I know you are at Peace. Your mother joined you in heaven this year. I am good knowing you are with family.. You are definitely a special man and have raised the bar for others

Dale Batey

August 29, 2022

Stu was a sword bearer at our wedding... will be 40 years this spring. He sat behind me while teaching at SWOS in Newport. Great guy ! His passing motivated me to live life to the fullest... I bought that 71 Corvette thinking of him. Sail on Sailor !

Ken Michaelchuck

January 10, 2022

Rest in peace dear friend. Think of you often with fond memories.

Lynn

January 10, 2022

Always in my heart and prayers. Hard to believe it's been 8 years. I know you are an Angel and doing God's work

Joseph Michaelchuck

January 10, 2021

Miss you Stu. I love the picture here...you on my Dad's sailboat doing what you loved (photography and being on the water).

Lynn Gaber

January 10, 2021

Stu. Hard to believe it's seven years Sometimes it feels like yesterdy. Miss you bunches. I'm over due for visiting your mom. Hopefully will be able to do that this year. ❤

Tina Merchant Cech

September 28, 2020

Forty-three years ago Stu and I were friends in Newport, RI where I was living at the time. Actually, I first met him at the Naval Academy the year he graduated!

After looking up a few old school and Navy friends, I found Stu’s obituary and felt I had to reach out to his family to say how sorry to read of his passing. I know we lost touch with each other all those years ago but I fondly remember him and am saddened to hear he is gone. I had reservations about writing this note six years late, however, I was remembering him today and even though he’s not here, he’s not forgotten.

Fair winds and following seas. God Bless you dear Stu.

Tina Merchant Cech
Dumfries, VA

Lynn Gaber

January 10, 2020

Always thinking of you. I found the Birthday and sweetest day cards you gave me last night. How cool is that. This popped up today ❤

July 1, 2019

You are missed, Stu, but your love and light still shine.

January 14, 2015

After one year your light still shines

January 14, 2015

It has been one year and you are still missed dearly and loved.

L

January 4, 2015

My dearest Stu
It is almost one year since you physically left us. I miss seeing and talking with you. Your love of life and good will lives on in my hear .

September 26, 2014

Your love of life will live on

September 25, 2014

Miss you Stu... You were very caring and compassionate to name a couple... Thanks for taking your time to be a good friend !

May 9, 2014

Thinking of you. Miss your strength and guidance

Jeni Malara

May 3, 2014

Good night sweet Stu. Rest with the angels. Such a kind and compassionate man who touched so many lives.

Carol Tremonti

February 21, 2014

You are truly missed!

February 14, 2014

Love and miss you Happy Valentine Day

Dave Raunig

January 31, 2014

I was Stu's roommate at Annapolis and am very saddened to hear of his passing but encouraged by his strength over the years. As with all roommates, we struggled at times but he is a big part of my life and I am better for knowing him. I know he inspired many with his work with AA and for that alone many are blessed and saved. Please accept my sincere condolences. Stu, we will meet again.

January 23, 2014

thank you stu for being a huge inspiration in my sobriety. I am going to miss you more than words can say. but I know an angel has gone home. I love you and you will be in my heart always and forever.

Mark Worrilow

January 22, 2014

I am sorry to hear of Stu's passing. My condolences to his family and my hope and prayer is for his family to have their heart eased in grieving and their joy in his life carried by their memories of him! Fair Winds and Following Seas Classmate!

Jim Coulson

January 22, 2014

The class of '77 and Wisconsin has lost a great person. We keep the Elwing family in our thoughts and prayers. Stu's sense of humor and love of all things Navy will be sincerely missed. May the good Lord bless you all.

A '77 Classmate-

Jeff Heely

January 21, 2014

Stu was a wonderful classmate and friend at the US Naval Academy. Saddened to learn of his passing. Our prayers are with your family in this time of grief.
The Navy Hymn
Eternal Father, Strong to save,
Whose arm hath bound the restless wave,
Who bid'st the mighty Ocean deep
Its own appointed limits keep;
O hear us when we cry to thee,
for those in peril on the sea.

We will meet again.

January 21, 2014

Margaret and David and family.
I remember Stuart as a very nice person. My prayer for you is, God's Peace and Blessings.
Dr., Russ Krebs

Gina Lloyd

January 21, 2014

Stu thank you for the best intro. to program anyone could have....you, Bruce, Dolly and Marianne you are with true friends.

Diana Hildebrand

January 20, 2014

Thanks to Stu, for all his efforts and time involved in his community service work,and my prayers go out to his family. I enjoyed our talks together,you will be missed.Diana Hildebrand

Joe Michaelchuck

January 20, 2014

Stu lived this biblical passage in his life:
Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor; If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up. Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone? Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves.
A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.

Ken Michaelchuck

January 20, 2014

Stu was a great friend and we will miss him dearly. A good man who dedicated much of his life to helping others he has left us way too early. He served his nation as he served his fellow man, with dignity, honor and selflessness. Stu's life journey provided him with a wisdom beyond his years. Our prayers go out to his family and friends, he will be sorely missed. Ken & Kathleen Michaelchuck

Chris Gross

January 19, 2014

My sympathies to the family of Stu. He will be missed by all the knew him. We had many great talks over the year. He was a great guy.

Troy Kundmann

January 19, 2014

Thank you Stu for your help and insightful conversations through the years. You will be missed sorely and fondly remembered.

Billy Corbett

January 19, 2014

My sympathies go out to Elwing family,I met Stu in New York and enjoyed taking pictures together in Central Park, He was a true friend and will be missed by all who knew him.

Lowell Long

January 19, 2014

May God continues to Bless the Elwing Family. I served on the same committee with Stuart. He was always in deep thought but love to talk.

Richard Sime

January 18, 2014

I served with Stu at Conference and well remember his keen intensity and commitment. My sympathies to his family in this time of loss. I will say a prayer for him.

Linda Beisbier

January 18, 2014

Marge and David, My prayers go out to you. May you find condolence in memories of Stu. May God hold him in the palm of his hand.

bruce dubinski

January 18, 2014

stu was a special friend to many in the a.a community ,we will miss him for sure

Mary Dargan

January 17, 2014

What a loss for those who knew Stu. Ever kind and helpful he will be missed. May God hold him in the palm of his hand. Prayers for the family during this sad time.

Melicent Hilsmann

January 17, 2014

I sympathise at your loss but add my admiration for the way Stu fought a good fight against illness and over came adversity of all kinds with quiet dignity .. you can be proud of the way he lead his life ...

Chuck McCoy

January 17, 2014

Margaret(Mom)and David, My heart and prayers go out to you. Stu was such a special friend and brother to me. He was and angel here on earth and is certainly and angel in heaven. I feel so blessed by God to have known Stu. He will live on in my heart forever.

Betty Bartelt

January 17, 2014

Stu was a great friend to my family! He and my dad spent alot of time together, and Stu was always there for me when I was having a hard time. I will miss him deeply. Know that he was a great man, who touch many people.

Rick Jaeger

January 17, 2014

Margaret, You have my deepest sympathy on Stuart's passing, He was a great guy

January 17, 2014

Dear Marg and famiy
Our prayers are with you and the family,as another one of our church friends has past.We miss our church family and we always remember the kind words Stu had for Tom and I.God bless you in this journey.
Friends Tom & Sharon Hadley
Yuma AZ

Lynn Gaber

January 17, 2014

Mrs Elwing and David,
My condolences for your loss. Stu has touched the lives of so many in all that he did. I am so grateful and blessed for having him as a part of my life and journey. We all have another Angel watching over us.

Marty Laakso

January 17, 2014

My condolences of the family of Stu, a great man, blessed to have known and served with him. Marty Laakso Panel 62 Delegate Area 74, N. Wis & UP of Mich.

Jim Meyer

January 17, 2014

Our hunting trips with your father will always be fond memories.

Steven Pace

January 16, 2014

It has been a pleasure to walk this road with you for a time. I grieve with your family and friends.

Your friend,

Steve

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