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Mary Schaup Obituary

In the presence of her family, Mary A. Schaup peacefully passed away in her home on October 22 at the age of 96. Born in Fuschia Cottage on the Isle of Man to James Allen and Mildred Jesse (Godden-Smith), she emigrated to the U.S. with her older brothers Jack and Ellis, where the family settled in Phelps, NY. Mary was a 1941 graduate of Phelps High School and attended Cortland College with a major in physical education. As a part of the war effort, she later joined the 600 plus women workforce employed at the Seneca Ordnance Depot in Romulus.

After the war, Mary's professional and family life broadened with her move to NYC, where she worked in the accounts payable department at St. Luke's Hospital and the Bank of New York. In 1949, she married Karl Schaup and returned to the Finger Lakes area to start a family and continue her professional life. She retired as the human resources manager at Elston Electronics. Mary was active in the Geneva Women's Club and the Waterloo Research Club, where she made several scholarly presentations. Throughout her life she traveled extensively through Europe remaining well connected to family and friends. In later years, she was an avid euchre player and enjoyed residing in Florida during the winter months with her great friend Sam Calcagno. She is survived by her son K. Allen Schaup (Sandy Banks) her daughter Patricia A. Schaup (Marika Hennig), her granddaughter Jessica Schaup and grandson James Schaup, great grandchildren Logan and Maddie, nieces Jackie (Allen) Hays and family, Jean (Allen) Garnsey and family, and many of Mary's relatives in the Isle of Man. In honor of her life and her love for animals, the family requests contributions to be made to the Beverly Animal Shelter in Waterloo to honor her memory. A commemorative celebration is planned with a future date to be publicly announced.

Funeral arrangements have been made with the Cheney Funeral Home 70 Main Street Phelps

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Published by Finger Lakes Times from Nov. 28 to Dec. 2, 2020.

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Lawanda Hilfiger

November 22, 2021

I can't believe time has been a yr. I so miss u and your smile and hugs u gave me when I visited and playing cards was a great treat. I will always love u and never forget you kindness u showed me.

Patricia Lannon

December 6, 2020

Mary was an extraordinary person. She and Carl were friends of my parents and I remember both of them so well when they talked about their lives that brought them to the USA. Rest in peace, Mary.

Lawanda Hilfiger

November 30, 2020

Mary was my life long friend and I love her energy she had for helping people. May she fly w the angels. I will miss mary

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Beverly Erb

November 27, 2020

Mary and I worked together at Elston Electronics for 13 years and became good friends. My husband and I enjoyed playing Euchre with her and Carl and later with Sam. We will miss her. Prayers for her family and Sam

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