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Robert Stolp Obituary
There will be no prior calling hours. A Mass of Christian Burial will be at 9:30 a.m. Saturday (Jan. 16) at St. Stephen's Roman Catholic Church. Burial will be in Glenwood Cemetery.
Memorial contributions may be made to the Immaculate Conception School in Ithaca or a Catholic school of one's choice.
Bob was born Dec. 7, 1945, in Geneva, the son of the late William K. and Ellen Welch Stolp. He graduated from DeSales High School, Fordham University and received his law degree from the University of Miami in Florida. Bob was admitted to the New York State Bar in 1973 and the Supreme Court of the United States in 1978. For the past 32 years, he was the administrator of the Tompkins County Assigned Counsel Program in addition to his own private practice and was a member of the Tompkins County Bar Association.
Bob is survived by a brother, Jeffery (Laura) Stolp of Arundel, Maine; a sister, Elaine (Douglas) Morrow of Geneva; nieces, Jessica (Sean) McGuire and Leah Morrow; nephews, Jeffery R. (Carolyn) Morrow, Robert Cody Morrow and Griffin Stolp; aunt, June Kuryla of Geneva; ""granddaughter,"" Alexandra Bourke; numerous cousins; and many dear friends from Ithaca.
Arrangements are being handled by the McGuigan Funeral Home.
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Memories and Condolences
for Robert Stolp
Sheralyn (Welch) Silverstein
April 15, 2011
Bob's extended family in New Jersey, the children of his late Uncle Tom, extend our sympathies for his loss. He was a great person to talk to and it was wonderful to reconnect with him after so many years. God keep him and bless him.
Gregory Ward
February 11, 2010
Elaine, Jeff and the entire Stolp family,
I am so sorry and saddened to hear of Bobs passing. I have so many happy memories of Bob and your family. Sunny days on Seneca lake and so many wonderful Thanksgiving feasts, in fact I was finally able to graduate from the kids table to the adults. I have a vivid memory of a blessing he once gave, much to his Mom's disapproval. He was a part of my life in so many ways, teaching me to drive, helping me with my teenage lawn mowing business. Sitting by the fire with my mom and dad, helping Todd and I sneak a new German Sheppard puppy into the house and then smoothing it over with Donna. He lived his life as he wanted and on his own terms. Though he has left us here on earth I will always have his memories with me and that will help him to continue on. I am thankful that I had the chance to have him and his family touch my life.
February 11, 2010
During the past 8 seasons Bob taught me the value and rewards of sitting in "peace and quiet" with someone you care about. He was an extraordinary person. I will miss his honesty, his tender heart, his smile. Patty C P
chip welch
January 21, 2010
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So many good times, laughter and the constant knowledge that he was always there to share. A remarkable cousin and truly a best friend.
January 21, 2010
There will be an emptiness in Ithaca without Bob. He was many things to many people. They say "a picture is worth a thousand words" and the pictures posted to his guest book really are. He will be missed by many, but will forever live in Alex's heart.
Todd Ward
January 18, 2010
To the family: Bob has been a part of my life since I was in diapers. Actually Bob has a picture that PROVED that he actually did the dirty deed. As I sit a think about the great times we had, a couple really stand out to me;First playing video games with Eric Grutka at Pyramid Mall and second was spending time at Thanksgiving with Bob's family. Best Turkey in New York!!
I can't express the feelings we all feel and I would never try. However; Bob would not want us to mourn for to long. He will be deeply missed in my heart.
The most special page in my scrapbook, made in 2001, he has and always will be the most important man in my life, a father, grandpa, friend, and hero!
January 17, 2010
My pop, a hard-fighting attorney, but a goofy, high-spirited family man and friend he was. He will always hold a special place in my heart...
January 17, 2010
January 16, 2010
Elaine, Jeff and the entire Stolp extended family,
Very sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.I know Bobby had quite a welcoming committee.
He'll always be in our prayers.
-jeanne & ron johnson
jacksonville,florida
Thomas & Mary Jones
January 16, 2010
To the Stolp Family,
Bob was our attorney and friend for over 25 years. His advice was the best! Always easy to reach, always easy to
talk to, a man with a great desk side manner. We consider ourselves fortunate to have known Bob. We will miss his
good advice, his friendship and his genuine interest in
others, especially our son and his family. He will be in our
prayers.
January 15, 2010
Dear Jeff and Elaine,
My mother just told me that Bob had passed away. I am so sorry. I hadn't seen Bob since high school, but he was a special friend during those years. I will keep you and Bob in my prayers.
Marjorie Parrott Adams
January 15, 2010
Dear Elaine and Jeff and all the Family and Friends:
Having been lucky enough to have been close friends and office mates for over 30 years with Bob, all I can say is his life added so much warmth and true friendship to my life I will miss Bob greatly.I can only say now what you already know, he was loved and will be dearly missed. Bruce Wilson
January 14, 2010
Elaine, Jeff & Families:
I am very sorry to hear of Bob's passing. As neighbors many, many years ago on Jefferson Ave., I knew him as "Bobby."
I have not seen Bob in many years but it's obvious from what I have read in this Guest Book that he is leaving quite a legacy.
Our prayers are with you all.
God Bless
Joe Gallagher & Family
Lory Kenerson
January 14, 2010
I was so saddened by Mr. Stolp's passing. I worked for him for the last two months cleaning his home. He was a wonderful person. He was so sweet and very helpful when my own father passed away. I so enjoyed working for him. If there is anything I can help you with please do not hesitate to call me. Take care and God bless you. Lory Kenerson
Danny & Mary Ellen Remas-Pitifer
January 14, 2010
Scincere sympathy to all of Robert's family. The family will be blessed with the Faith passed down to them from the Wonderful Family who will be waiting @ the gates of Heaven for Robert's arrival.
Our prayers will be with you all.
January 14, 2010
Elaine,
Please know how very sorry I was to hear of your brother Bob's death. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Sister Dee
DIANE MCANARNEY DEARY
January 13, 2010
ELAINE, ELLIE CALLED TO LET ME KNOW ABOUT BOB'S PASSING. I AM SO SORRY, I WILL KEEP HIM IN MY PRAYERS . WE TRULY KNOW YOUR LOSS BEING THAT I JUST LOST JIM, LOVE TO YOUR FAMILY. COUSINS DIANE AND GINNY
Michael Pichel
January 13, 2010
Bob Stolp was a good, strong, kind man.
Bob and I met and became friends at the Cornell University Law School in 1972 where we were both taking a review course in preparation for the New York State Bar Exam. Bob has been my good friend ever since - over 37 years. We saw each other, or communicated, almost every day since 1972. We discussed law, family, our joys and our sorrows. We shared each others lives, including the deaths of our parents. He watched and helped my children and grandchildren grow up.
Bob began to suffer ill health in the late 1980’s. He didn’t complain, instead he helped and cared for others. Even while Bob was terminally ill, and hospitalized, he comforted everyone around him, including his care givers.
Bob was an amazing lawyer. When presented with a problem, he could grasp the legal issues and resolve the problem in a most straightforward manner. As a lawyer myself, I marveled in Bob’s ability to get legal jobs done. He made difficult cases seem simple.
Bob administered the Tompkins County Assigned Counsel Program for over 30 years. For many of those years Bob handled the Program, with no staff, and out of his own office. Bob understood and balanced the constitutional mandates, the legal requirements, and the economics of the Assigned Counsel Program. In carrying out his constitutional duties, Bob ably dealt with judges, lawyers, indigents, our State and County and our taxpayers. Even busy experienced lawyers accepted Bob’s assignments to protect the rights of our indigents. Bob trained and mentored many young lawyers and capably and humbly, administered one of the largest law practices in Tompkins County.
Although I treasure the years we shared, Bob’s death fills me with sadness and loneliness. It has been painful to see Bob suffer.
My heartfelt condolences go out to Bob’s sister, brother, brother in law, sister in law, aunt, nieces, nephews, cousin, granddaughter, extended family and his friends.
We all love Bob Stolp and hope that he is at peace.
Jim & Shirley Herson
January 13, 2010
We are so very sorry to learn of Bob's passing. He was a wonderful man and a dear friend, Our thoughts and prayers are with his family at this very sad time.
January 13, 2010
Elaine and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. If you need any thing please call.My love to you all. Lynn and Riley Egan
Lynn Egan
January 13, 2010
Elaine and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. If you need any thing please call.My love to you all. Lynn and Riley Egan and family
Connie Lowery
January 12, 2010
Bob Stolp was a very thoughtful, kind and honest person, a joy to know. He was my friend since I arrived in Ithaca in 1982. I will miss him and am sorry I cannot attend the services for him and extend my condolences to his family.
JIM MCCARTHY
January 12, 2010
TO BOB
FOR THE HAPPY TIMES AT THE VALLEY HOUSE AND THE COURT ROOM
THANKS JIM MCCARTHY
Candace Serra
January 12, 2010
An Irish twinkle in his eye, always a good story to relate, and an excellent listener - these are the things I will always remember about Bob. He was a very nice man.
Marty Shapiro
January 12, 2010
To the Stolps and Welches: I am so saddened to hear that Bob passed away. He was a friend of mine for over 37 years. We started in the same law office,and then had our offices in the same building since 1976 or so. Bob was always willing to lend a hand, listen to problems, and give good advice. I'll miss his smile and sense of humor. He was a friend to many.
Jack Ward
January 12, 2010
A good friend, a lawyer willing to help other lawyers, and a wonderful human being willing to help those in need. We went through the bar review classes together, we took the bar exam at the same time, were sworn in together and we had our respective offices in the Clinton House for many years. My family spent many great Thanksgivings with Bob and his family at his parents home in Geneva. A friend I always looked up when I returned to Ithaca. A smiling face that I will miss.
January 12, 2010
I had the opportunity to talk to Mr. Stolp when I was having an ugly battle in family court and needed help from the assigned counsel program. He was kind and empathetic to my situation. He was the nicest lawyer I have met to date.
Anonymous
Lorraine Steele
January 12, 2010
Just the thought of knowing that Bob is in a better place is helping me get through this difficult time. I worked for Bob for many years and will always remember the stories that he loved to tell. He was a great man who will be missed by many. His shoes will be hard to fill for he had a compassion about his job that few understood. I will miss you Bob.
Diane Sherwood
January 12, 2010
To Chip and Family: I am saddened to hear the news of Bob's passing. I had the privilege of working for Bob in the 70's and we were in touch from time to time over the years. I will miss that twinkle in his eye and great smile.
Betty Poole
January 12, 2010
To the Stolp Family:
I have known Bob for many years and always admired him for his dedication and committment to his profession. He was a "gentle giant" that had a way about him where one could not say no to him if he asked you. Bob and I shared a special bond and had a lot in common more than we knew until just recently. We often shared these commonalities and for me a consumate listener and a great source of inspiration for me. Bob was his own person and would never let one forget that. He will be forever remembered and missed not only in the Tompkins County legal community but the community as a whole. His quick wit and constant smile will be remembered by all who knew him. May he be at peace now and I will fondly remember him always.
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