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Barbara Jane Willinger

1938 - 2024

Barbara Jane Willinger obituary, 1938-2024, Jonesborough, TN

Barbara Willinger Obituary

Barbara Jane Willinger, died on February 4, 2024, of complications from dementia. She was 85.

A Buckeye by birth, Barbara grew up in rural middle Tennessee, the eldest daughter of Jake and Jane Rogers. An excellent student, she was the valedictorian of her high school in Antioch, and went on to graduate with honors from MTSU with a bachelor's degree in sociology.

With her new degree in hand, she began her professional teaching career back in Ohio, but spent most of her career teaching in Indiana with East Allen County Schools. A diligent worker, she balanced teaching with motherhood, and obtained additional teaching credits from Bowling Green State University and later earned her master's degree from Purdue University.

Barbara taught in public schools for 35 years, earning less than her male peers for many of those years. She taught English and came home every evening with stacks of papers held together with bulldog clips. After cooking supper for her family she graded papers long after dark every single weeknight and most weekends during the school year. In the summers she read Shakespeare and Sir Walter Scott: such was her love of the English language.

In a cruel trick of the universe, dementia robbed Barbara of the language she so loved, first taking her ability to write, then her ability to read, and finally her ability to speak. As her care needs increased, she was able to live in a physically safe environment with professional caregivers.

Barbara is survived by her daughter Kirsten and son-in-law Darrell Collins of Tennessee; her son Kirk and grandson Jacob of Indiana; and her sister Kathy of Tennessee. At Barbara's request, final arrangements are private. Memorials may be made to Doctors Without Borders.

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Published by Fort Wayne Newspapers on Feb. 5, 2024.

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Linda Hunt McDougal

February 19, 2024

Barbara and I were best friends from the fourth grade through high school. We attended different collages and then she moved back to Ohio, but we kept in touch over the years. I still consider her one of my dearest friends. It was so good to be able to visit with her a couple of years ago and to see that she still remembered me, though dementia had robbed her of so much. My heart is full of sweet memories from those school years.
Kirsten and Kirk, I mourn with you and your family. I look forward to seeing Barbara again one day in the presence of our Lord.

Robert L. Coleman

February 14, 2024

So very sorry just is not adequate. Though Barbara's worldly pain is gone, we're never ready to give them up, but I AM so sorry, Kirsten and Kirk. Most people never knew this, including Barbara, but she was my first, great love. We met at MTSU. I was a sophomore, and she a freshman. We both enrolled in a social dance class, and the instructor had us line up around the room, with each boy turning to his right, and introducing himself to his partner. I did, and she said: Hi, I'm Barbara Rogers. As the song goes, she had me from hello. She was smart, classy and, to quote from Lord Byron: "She walked in beauty." But, life twists around you, and you find different paths. But, I'll never forget her.

Elvi Mitchell

February 7, 2024

Dear Kirsten,
so sorry you lost your mother.
Barbara was a longtime neighbor of mine in
Ivywood, condos, I will keep her in good memorie Elvi

Rick Willinger

February 6, 2024

Kirsten and Kirk!
Your mother was a rock and she navigated life with a smile on her face. Though it wasn´t an easy life, she was blessed with the two of you! There are moments in life we all wish we had more of and one of those for me would be seeing more of your Mom! We love you Barbara, may you now be at peace in the presence of our Lord!
Uncle Rick

Kelly McDaniel-LaFarge

February 5, 2024

Dear Kirsten and Kirk,
Your dear mother was a part of my childhood too. I always admired how she decorated your home, and how neat and tidy she kept it. She was always kind to me. I so appreciate that.
As a teacher she touched many, many lives. That is a wonderful legacy.
With all my love,
Kelly

Lori Hoffman

February 4, 2024

Kirsten & Kirk, please accept my heartfelt condolences on the loss of your mom. So many memories through the years with our families as we grew up on Webster Road. I will always remember your mom´s smile, her mischievous grin & her laughter.

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