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Marilyn Lengacher Obituary

Marilyn "Ruth" Lengacher, 82, went home to be with her Lord and Savior Jesus Christ surrounded by her loving family on Monday, August 11, 2025, Born in Fort Wayne, Ruth was a lifelong resident of Fort Wayne and proud to be a North Side Redskin. She built a career in sales, working for multiple corporations over the years, and was known for her determination, charm, and hard work. Ruth was married to her beloved husband, Harry, for 40 years, sharing a life filled with love, laughter, and shared adventures. She embraced life with a fun-loving spirit-whether cruising the open seas, enjoying meals at her favorite restaurants, or celebrating Taco Tuesdays. An avid collector of Pepsi memorabilia, Ruth even built a special room in her home to house her extensive collection. In her younger years, she loved spending time with friends, always ready for a good laugh and a bit of fun.

Ruth was a faithful member of St. Peter's Lutheran Church and an active participant in community groups, including the Lady Bugs and the Red Hat Society. A two-time cancer survivor, she faced life's challenges with courage and a spark that never dimmed. Her "spit-fire" personality, boundless energy, and love for those around her will be remembered with joy by all who knew her. Ruth is survived by her husband, Harry Lengacher; daughters, Renee Hodgin of Goodyear AZ, Jodi Abel(Christopher Maschi) of Port Charlotte, FL and Kristi Abel of Fort Wayne; grandchildren, David "Rudy" (Jill) Hieber Jr of Fort Wayne, Justin Adams of Indianapolis, Anna (Jeff) Stoppenhagen, Jonathan Adams of Fort Wayne; great-grandchildren, Katie Hodgin, Brayden Hieber and Alice Stoppenhagen. Ruth was preceded in death by her parents Roy & Goldie Woods; siblings, Eddie, Betty (BJ) and Helen son in law Timothy Hodgin and step daughter Amy Lengacher. Service is 11 am, Saturday, August 16, 2025 at FairHaven Funeral Home and Cremation Services, 6557 N. Clinton Street, with calling one hour prior. Calling also on Friday, August 15, 2025 from 3 pm to 7 pm and the funeral home. Burial in St. Peter's Lutheran Cemetery. Memorials may be made to Erin's House.

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Published by Fort Wayne Newspapers on Aug. 13, 2025.

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