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Kirby Flanagan Obituary

ROCHESTER - Kirby E. L. Flanagan Sr., 79, of Rochester, N.H., loving husband, father and grandfather passed away on Saturday, November 10, 2018 after a brief illness. Kirby was the son of the late Edward and Anita (Dube) Flanagan.

Kirby was a graduate of Spaulding High School Class of 1958 and Brewster Academy Class of 1959. While at Spaulding he was a four letter athlete. At both Spaulding and Brewster he excelled in both Baseball and Football. He was an All American Running Back and Captain of the undefeated 1957 and 1958 Spaulding Red Raiders Football Team. He was also a member of the 1956 American Legion Post 7 State Championship team. In 1958 The St. Louis Sporting News selected Kirby as one of just 80 young men across the country to be named to the paper's All Prep Team.

Kirby was employed for 20 years at Davidson Rubber Company in Dover, N.H. as a Urethane Chemist. During his tenure he was awarded three United States Patents in chemistry. He owned and operated the Donna Flanagan Bingo Center for 30 years which was instrumental in raising money for numerous local and regional charitable organizations. In supporting local sports and athletes he served as Past President of the Rochester Athletic Association and continued to hold his membership for over forty years until his passing. He was inducted into the Rochester Sports Hall of Fame in 1994.

Kirby loved spending time with his wife Donna, his children and grandchildren. He especially enjoyed his trips to the mountains, fairs and annual Florida vacations with them. He also enjoyed playing Bingo at the Manchester Bingo Center. He never missed the presentation of the memorial blanket in honor of his parents at the Fryeburg Fair, Fryeburg, Maine. This tradition was sponsored by his son, Kirby Jr., and he was very proud to be a part of it.

Kirby was responsible for reestablishing the Loyal Order of the Moose #1298 in 1975. He served as Governor of the organization for many years and continued on as treasurer after that until resigning the post.

Kirby was predeceased by his parents, Edward and Anita Flanagan, his niece, Katie Flanagan and his nephews Barry Flanagan, Jr. and Donnie Johnstone.

Kirby is survived by his wife of 58 years, Donna (Curran) Flanagan; children, Kirby Jr., Kevin, Shawn, Kathy and her partner Garrett Stover; grandchildren, Kyle Flanagan, Cory Flanagan and his fiancé Marissa Sauer, Tommy Flanagan and Matty Flanagan; brother, Barry Flanagan; sisters, Nancy (Flanagan) Macaione and Linda (Flanagan) Chase; sisters in-law, Jean (Curran) Johnstone and her husband Bill, Carol (Curran) Breton; stepsister in-law, Dottie Ann McLain and husband John; and many nieces and nephews.

SERVICES: Friends and family are invited to attend a Celebration of Life Mass at St. Mary's Church at 71 Lowell St., Rochester, N.H. on Thursday, November 15. There will be a time of visiting from 10-11 a.m. with the Mass led by Father Thomas Duston beginning at 11 a.m. There will be a luncheon immediately following the ceremony at the Church. There will be no graveside service. Arrangements are under the care of RM Edgerly& Son, 85 South Main St., Rochester, N.H. To sign our online guest book, please visit www.edgerlyfh.com.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Kirby's name to the Rochester Athletic Association by check to RAA, P.O. Box 864, Rochester, NH 03867.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Foster's Daily Democrat from Nov. 14 to Nov. 17, 2018.

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Jesse DePalma

December 18, 2018

Donna, we are so very sorry to hear about Kirby. My sister Marie Scala told us the terrible news a few days ago. Kirby was one of my best friends growing up on Woodman Street and I was his best man at your wedding.
You two people were some of the best that We missed over the years as we moved early away from Rochester.
You are the best thing that ever happened to him, be strong and dwell on the many good times.

Jim And Myra DePalma (jesse)

Peg Hafertepe

December 13, 2018

Donna, Kathy and family,
I'm so sorry to belatedly learn of Kirby's passing! Larry and I extend our deepest sympathies to you and your family. I'll keep you all in my prayers.
Peg & Larry Hafertepe

Jennifer Simon-Libby

December 4, 2018

I am deeply sorry to hear this. All my love to Mrs. Flanagan and family .

Dave Lachance

November 27, 2018

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Jerry Sneirson

November 27, 2018

Kirby was a good friend. So sorry for your loss Donna.

Rodney Moulton

November 21, 2018

Sorry for your lost Donna I know he did a lot for the kids of Rochester. Bud Moulton younger brother Rod

DANNY KNOX

November 20, 2018

so sorry to hear about Kirby
a real kind hearted guy
loved playing bingo there
he will surley be missed
rest in peace kirby

margaret alexander

November 20, 2018

so sorry for your loss Donna..I know how much you both loved each other
he was a good man and he was blessed to have you as his wife..take care and all my love to you and your wonderful family

November 19, 2018

Donna so very sorry for your loss he was a great man. Paul and Dixie Poulin

Sandy Lessard

November 19, 2018

Donna and family...I am so sorry to learn of Kirby's death and extend to all of you my deepest sympathy during this most difficult time. Anyone who knew him in any capacity was most blessed. May God grant you inner peace. The loss of someone loved for so many decades is such a defining moment in our lives. My Love and Hugs and Prayers are with you, Sandy Lessard

Tera Libby

November 19, 2018

Kathy & Donna,
I am so truly sorry for your Loss. Kirby had been a good friend to Memiere and I was sad to just hear of his passing. I will keep you both in my thoughts.

John Southworth

November 17, 2018

Great athlete, great person and a friend forever. He will be missed by a lot of people.

Karen Perkins

November 16, 2018

Kathy & family....so sorry to hear of the passing of your Dad. Keep your memories close to your heart! Sending thoughts and prayers to your entire family! <3

Carol Perreault

November 16, 2018

To Donna and family, I am so sorry to read of Kirby's passing. Please know thoughts and prayers are with you, hold tight to your wonderful memories. From Carol Campbell Perreault.

Doris Joaquin

November 16, 2018

Linda & family members,
I just found out about Kirby and am so sorry for you loss. Prayers and sincere thoughts are with all of you at this time and God is with you always. Kirby is in good hands.

Bob, Darla Young

November 15, 2018

Donna we are so sorry to hear about Kirby! We always enjoy or visits when we were in town. We will miss him!

Paul and Charlotte Spinucci

November 15, 2018

Donna and Family

It was a shock to read about Kirby's passing. We have a lot of fun memories from his Bingo's. Our prayers go out to you all.

Warren and Edna Carr

November 15, 2018

Donna and family,
We are so sorry to hear of Kirby's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Warren and Edna Carr

Pete and Courtney Weymouth

November 15, 2018

Donna and Kathy,
So sorry for your loss, your husband and dad was a very nice man. If you need anything, don't hesitate to call us.

Art Hoover

November 15, 2018

Kirby was a good client and a good friend. I was fortunate to meet and know Kirby and meet Donna and many of their family. We never got around to racing each other, but I suspect he would have won. He will be missed by many.

November 15, 2018

Harvey's Bakery & Coffee Shop send our deepest condolences. RIP Kirby you were one of the best!

Barbara Marsh

November 15, 2018

Donna and family,
I was overtaken with sadness when I heard of Kirbys passing. I enjoyed talking with him-a very special man.

November 14, 2018

My deepest sympathies to the Flanagan family. I got to Kirby when I belonged to the RAA. My he RIP.

John Panteledes
Rochester

MIKAILA DiAngelo

November 14, 2018

Sending love and prayers ...what a beautiful blessed life.RIP.

Bob Brown

November 14, 2018

Great Class mate & fellow RAA member.

Sherry Ferland

November 14, 2018

Kirby Jr and family. So sorry for your loss! Keep your precious memories close to your heart.

Wally,Cathy,and Rachel Landry

November 14, 2018

So sorry to hear of Kirbys passing,RIP and best to Donna,Kathy,the boys

November 14, 2018

Donna and family, Sam and I are so sorry to have read about Kirby's passing. We know exactly what you and your family are going through at this time as we both have been there.
Please accept our condolences and our prayers are with you and your family.


Sam & Nancy Bernier

Susan Bennett

November 14, 2018

Donna & family: so very sorry. We will all miss Kirby so much. Never can take away all the great memories we have of fun times and business adventures we have had over the last 45 years together. Never will be able to replace Kirby. Thanks for all the memories, till we meet again.
Love to you all
Bernie and Sue Bennett

WAYNE SHAW

November 14, 2018

I read the Foster's on-line every day and was so shocked to read about Kirby. Wanted you to know Donna that I thought of you in this time of peril. Had so many fond memories of playing football with him and making holes in the line for him to fly through.

Carl & Elaine Hamilton

November 14, 2018

Dear Donna and Family,
So very sorry to learn of your great loss! Kirby was a longtime friend and former classmate many years ago at SHS! Please let all of your wonderful memories of the good times help you through this saddest of times! Sending love, thoughts, and prayers!

percy and kathy spiers

November 14, 2018

Donna, Kathy and family;
We are saddened to hear of your loss. We have always enjoyed running into you both and catching up. Thinking of you all at this difficult time.

November 14, 2018

Condolences to the Flanagan family.I considered Kirby a close friend.Always remember he and I playing in the outfield on the '56 Legion State Champs.Thanks for the memories my friend. Lee and Dolly Sanfacon, Rochester, NH

Rod Lessard

November 14, 2018

Sincerest condolences for the Flanagan Family. Kirby and I were good friends.....

Chris Ward

November 13, 2018

Deepest condolences Shawn

Rick & Kathy Aube

November 13, 2018

So sorry for your loss! God bless all the family

Steve Rita

November 13, 2018

So sorry for your loss my friend.

Alan Lau

November 13, 2018

I'm so sorry for the loss for you and your family Shawn.

Jim Twombly

November 13, 2018

Kirby and I go back to Brewster Academy and the 1958 football team which won the Lakes Region Championship by beating New Hampton Prep 14-7. I was the Quarterback and Kirby was the left halfback. He had great speed and toughness and I can remember one play against Bridgeton Academy where I pitched the ball to him and he ran untouched for an 80 yard touchdown. Whenever we would meet we would always reminisce about those days at Brewster. My heartfelt condolences and prayers go out to Donna and her family.

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